2nd Date Update PODCAST: Blonde Faced Liar

it a terrible idea, But don't stop doing it. Continue dating your coworkers because we need the content on the show, So keep dating your coworkers having to get all screwed up and then emails for a second date update. Just like Tara, who's on the phone right now. She apparently went out with one of her co workers and now he's not wanting to go out with her again, and she doesn't know why. What's up, Tara? How are you? Hi? Good?

How are you? I always wonder if like you're calling to actually get a second date of border just to make things less awkward at work. Yeah, I mean I guess a little bit of both. What's the name of the guy you want to call today? Josh? Josh? All right? And do you work like closely with him. You see him every day or is it just the dudes in your office. I don't see him like every day. He's not on my team or anything like that, but he's there, you know. All Right, So your email said that you

were set up with this guy through friends. Yeah, we were set up by other work friends. Oh. They just wanted to create dramas something interested in happening in the office space. I was skeptical about it, I have to be honest, because he's sort of like the quiet guy in the office, seems a little bit shy. But I ended up agreeing to it just because my closer friends in the office they were like, no, we like, we have a good feeling. Just go what'd you guys do?

I thought the first day, you know, we were going to just keep it super super casual, and so we just basically went to a bar right after work for happy hour. Good and it ended up going so well, Like he really opened up. I basically saw him like in a new light, you know. Yeah, and we drank a little bit more. He kept laughing, and by the time that was over, I realized that, like, I don't

want this day to end. Oh that's such a nice feeling. Yeah, so then it ended up being more than what I thought of, just like getting a drink after work, we went to another bar, and after that bar, we were walking outside. We saw this random like music shop and I guess he plays the drums. I didn't know at that time. We went in and he just starts playing the drums and he was so good. God by this point, yeah, by this point I joked with him and I was like, Okay,

write me a love song on the drum. If this guy does a magic trick, I'm saying, you're lying, Like no, I just you know, the night, it just kind of kept going. We went to a food truck, we got to me, you know, we went, oh, how long did you hang out with this dude? Like a long time? And I never saw this coming. Yeah, so what happened?

I mean, did you guys part ways or yeah. So he basically walks me into my apartment and we did kiss, I mean maybe more so like make out, you know, on my front patio, and we said good night, and I was it, Okay, that's nice, perfect, It sounds like a pretty great date. Yeah, it was really. I was so surprised the whole thing. I was just like, Wow, what did you text your friends at work who set you up? Because I know you gave him an update. I did text them that it went really well, but

I didn't want to be too much about it. So when I was at work the next day, I saw Josh. We sort of like flirted here and there, we laughed if we basically talked about how like we had so much fun the night before. We did make plans to

hang out the next week. Okay, So then over the weekend, all of a sudden, I get a text from him, and it's this really short text and he basically just says, Hey, I know we had plans to get together this week, but I actually can't make it anymore, like did you No other explanation, no other explanation, just basically and not even liked a specific day, Like no, it was just like I can't So it did you text him back? Because maybe he just misses social cues sometimes, because he

said he was really quiet. So I did see him at work the next week, and he seemed so weird, like something was definitely off. He was like a little timid around me. It seemed like he was sort of avoiding me. And I approached him about it. I did. I was like, hey, is everything okay? And he was like, yeah, I've never been better and awkward okay, I've never been better now that I canceled my plans with you? Yeah, right. And then I was like, well, we should reschedule our date,

right like we talked about him. He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, we'll reschedule. I'll text you or I'll call you. And he hasn't reached out at all, Nope, other than saying that he's doing great, that he's doing great, and that he would text or call me to reschedule, but he hasn't. But nothing. I'm like so invested in this. After that dreamy description of what a great date you went on, I feel like I was there, and now

I feel like slighted by him. I know, I'm trying to think like now, of course, I'm getting in my head and I'm like, okay, well, what what did I do? What happened? What did he? Did he find out something about me? Did something I do scare him off? Or d Yeah? Is there something he could have found out about you? No? No, I would work for a girl, just a couple of murders. All right, a couple of murders. We'll play a song and then come back and call him.

We get your Seconday update. Okay, all right, I need your help. That's good looking jubil in the morning updates if you're just joining us for today's second update. Tera is on the phone and she doesn't know why her coworker named Josh doesn't want to go out with her again, because, according to her, her date was magical. They were set up by friends at their office, and then they went

to happy hour. Happy hour turned into dinner. Dinner turned into a music shop where he showed her that he knows how to play the drums, and then that turned into a food truck, and then something else turned into something else, and then there was another thing turning into

another thing. Anyway, they hung out for like ten hours before they finally made out on her porch when he walked her home, and then since then he said that he's doing great when she's talked to him at the office, but he hasn't asked her to hang out again, and she's wondering why, and she can't think of anything that could have gone wrong. I've invested in this because It's like, if the perfect date isn't enough to warrant a call back, what is, like, what more could he want from you? Yeah,

you're telling me. Yeah, I mean it's weird and you literally can't think of anything. No, I'm literally the only thing I can think is that maybe it just all happened too quickly, and the more he got on his head about it, he's like, whoa, I'm scared, or like, this is just too much. That would be best case scenario for sure. Yeah, I mean yeah, usually people can pinpoint something they think went wrong, and to you, your

date was just awesome. So yeah, maybe that's it. Also, maybe it could have something to do with the fact that your co workers too, Like maybe he's like, ah, man, I liked her, but I don't want to like date somebody that I could see every single day at work. He did, though, and maybe that's the reason. I'm just speculating. I'm not saying that is the reason. All right, I'm gonna dial his phone right now, Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello. Hey is this Josh? Yeah, hey man,

how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um, what jewel from Brook and jewel in the morning. It's a radio show. Okay, you're busy a little bit right now? Is this so important? Well, it's true love important. I don't know. I think what Josh. I'm calling you today because we do a segment on

our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why. And we were only got an email about you about me doing what? I got an email from somebody who went on a date with you, okay, okay, and they say they had a great time, but they also say it seems like you don't want to go out with them again, and they're wondering why I didn't do anything wrong.

Do you want to know who it is? We're not saying did anything wrong. She's trying to figure out what she did wrong. Who is it? Her name is Tara? Okay, and you guys work in the same office. Yeah, sure, okay. And Tara emailed us and then we talked to her a little bit about your date. She said that you guys had a great time and you were even making plans to go out again, but it seems like you don't want to go out with her again. I didn't

say that, but we had a good time. Yeah, So she misinterpreting that because she said that you canceled the plans, and when she tried to say, okay, so when should we reschedule for then she just didn't hear anything back from you. She told you that yeah, yeah, well that's kind of weird. I would say things changed and I didn't call her back. That's all. Okay, what changed? I don't even know how to explain it to the thing between me and Terror is so confusing. I don't even

know how to explain this to you at all. Can you try? Yeah, I can try. First, I'll tell you what she told us, and then you can tell us your side of the story. She said you were set up through co workers. You guys went to a happy hour and that turned into like a ten hour event where you did all sorts of things and hung out

for quite a while, and then you made out. And she's seen you around the office since and even asked like how you were doing, and you said things were great, but you kind of like canceled a date on her, and then now you're just not really seeming interested. Is that the truth? Partly? All I know is this, we went on a date, we kissed, and she's telling everyone in the office we did a whole lot more than that.

What do you mean? I guess she was talking to a bunch of ladies in the office and really bragging about how good I was in bed. Oh, but you guys didn't hook up. No, No, that's weird because she didn't tell us that you hooked up. She said, you guys ended the night with a really good kiss, And that's true, we had a really good kiss, Okay, But to the people in your office, she told them that you guys hooked up, yeah, and that you were good. It sounds like I guess so I wasn't there for it.

But that's what's happening. Are you sure that it's not just like a miscommunication through the gossip chain, you know, like maybe she said you had a great makeout session, and then someone else added to that, and by the time it got back to you, you guys were boning or something. I don't know what she said, but whatever she said has gotten the whole office into a tizzy. I'm getting so much female attension. I don't know what to do with it. Wait wait, wait, other female attenion?

Like other chicks in your office want to go out with you? Yeah, more than one. In fact, I've already gone out with one of them. Did some of the things she said we did with the other girl? What you're getting a bunch of action from your office mates because of her lying or saying something about you guys going out? For sure that she was lying. What if this girl that you hooked up with was setting the whole thing up so she could get in your pants?

You're right, I don't know. All I can say is, there's the women arrying me every single day ever since whatever Tara said, it's been snowballing. Aren't you curious to find out what she said? I mean a little bit, But in another sense, I really don't care because things are going so well for me right now. Well, I'd like to know, and I think we should ask her because josh TERA's on the other line listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you. What TERA's on

the other line listening and wants to talk to you? No, she isn't it? Yes, I am? What's up? What's up? Are you hitting me? First of all? Who was doing that? What women are asking you out? Look, Tara, I can't be in the middle of this. This is really between you and them. So you really mean to tell me. You're not going to tell me who you're like sleeping within the office. Look, the only reason any of these women are interested is because what you said? So what

did you say? Yeah? What did you say? What did I say? I don't know. I'm like, who knew that? Josh, the shy one in the office, turned out to be this like Hercules king of the world. You should you should be groveling at my feet. Okay, it sounds like you did a great job talking him up. Now everybody in your office wants to sleep with him. Yeah, you did a really good job. Hold on, Tara, No girl just makes up lies about sleeping with somebody when they

haven't slept with him. That's not like normal girl talk. Honestly, I don't know why I did it. It just kind of came out. I was in the moment hyping the whole thing up, and when it got to the very end of the date, I just wanted him to sound like he was even better than he was, and I had a feeling we were going to go out again and that it actually was going to happen the next time we went out, So you did, so you did

tell people that you guys slept together. It's not like I think I might have maybe said that that is awful well out for him, Yeah, exactly, Ash, But you guys like we're forgetting something here, Like now all of a sudden, I'm left in the dust, Like it's like he's forgetting that we had such a great time together. No, I didn't forget that at all, Tara, And I'm honestly,

I'm grateful to you. Yeah, you're grateful to me because I'm the one that's now like hooking you up with all these other girls because I'm the one that like talks you up. Well, I don't know. I mean, you were the one who was bragging about me, and now I'm the one benefiting from all your lives. So what do you want me to do? Seriously, Tara, I feel like you should be grateful that he's not super pissed at you. Like if some dude went out with you and then told all his buddies he slept with you

and he really didn't, you'd be I rate. Okay, First of all, I told one girl that then what I said to her got blown up in proportion probably to every other person that they told in the office. You know what I mean. You can't blame her. It's your fault. You can't believe her for telling someone else. It's your fault for the lie. Yeah, you can't get mad at Megan, and she has nothing to do with Wait wait, wait, wait, Megan, are you kidding me? So Megan's the one that asked

you out and you slept with Oops. I didn't need to bring that up or anything. You have no right to have drama at all. You're the one that created all of this, Okay, But Megan is the one that I told, and clearly it's totally messed up. But now, right after I have this confidential talk with her, she goes and at and like flirts with Josh. And now she's the one going on dates and getting screwed. Like literally, Tara, this is really awkward. I think for me, probably you

can we talk outside of this thing. Well not yet, Josh, because I do have to ask would you like to go out on a second date with Ara? We'll pay for it. Megan's not invited. No, you know, I don't even want to hear his answer, Like, I don't even want to go on a date with him again. This is this is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Here. He's really good in bed. Oh, I learned my lesson. You guys think and you know what, Josh, remember this.

You were the shy guy before I came along. Okay, people have fun, do whatever you need to do, and at the end of the day, you know you can thank for everything. I would like to thank you and go out to dinner. No, no, oh my god, you've created a monster, Tara. It's gonna be real fun seeing around the office now, So let's have fun with that buddy, all right, Tara, are you going to talk to this Megan girl? Oh yeah, she'll be hearing from me. I wish I was in your office just for like a

couple of days. Now, come on, Tara, don't get so upset. You know, I'm just a little busy. You know you're gonna get your turn too, you know what you're len Jewil In the morning, somebody texted into sevent eighty five and nine two and said that second date up date needs to turn into an awkward Tuesday phone call. I kind of agree, if you missed it. Tara went out with her coworker his name is Josh, and everything went well and they ended up with a good night kiss,

but he wouldn't commit to a second date. We got Josh on the phone and he said that Tara had been spreading rumors that they slept together on the date when they didn't, and she was bragging about how good he was to all of his co workers, which was a lie. She claimed she exaggerated the events a little bit to make the other lady in the office jealous

of her life. But since then, rumorous bread and Josh has gotten a lot of attention from the other women in his office and he's all booked up for dates now because everybody thinks he's an excellent lover. What was upsetting to me? At no point did Tara everything like oh maybe I shouldn't have lied, yees, No, Like that was never a realization came to He said he's still open to another date with Tara right now. Tara's not really interested, so no second date. But I think Josh

it's going to be just fine. Remember, if you want to do a second. Out of that, I'll have to do an email the show, and we will call the person who didn't call you back