Jus second day. His name Howard is on the phone for a second date up tape today, and he said he met the girl he wants to call at a baseball game, which is probably a good place to meet somebody growing back, a bunch of beers getting a little drunk, cursing at the players, and you meet someone else who's just yelling at the players too, and you guys, you know, yeah, talk about how terrible the team is and all that kind of stuff and then just bond. So is that
what happened, Howard? Is that how you met the girl you want to call it? Actually it was at my son little league baseball game. Oh okay, I know I read your email, so I said, you're probably please tell me he or getting wasted. I was cheering them on. It's only positive at the little league game. Okay. You didn't say you weren't drunk, though, so I'm taking it as you were. So, what's her name? Who do you want to call today? What's her name? Her name's Abby? Abby?
All right? And how did you meet her at the game? Have you guys known each other for a while or something? Well, we actually match at the game. Okay, I'm a single parent. And so I have two five year old twin boys, and one of which is on this team, and I've been divorced for a couple of years and it's just been kind of difficult getting back into the dating game. Yeah, it's hard to find a nice single girl who's available. Was Abby a mom of one of the players on
the team. Yeah, so she was at the game and her kid is on the same team, and as I've actually heard my kid talking about her kids at school and you know their buddies, so you know of her. I mean, you've met her before. I had not met her before, but I knew about her kid through my kid. Okay, were you grilling your son, like, hey, five year old son, is she single? Do you know she's still married? He had no information whatsoever with me. He's not helpful in that.
Teach him to be a better wing man, for sure. Yeah. I thought I had an inside man, but he wasn't it. So she was at the game, and I struck up conversation with her because I, you know, I had recognized her and she was really nice. So you know, we were talking about like, hey, we should get our kids together for like a play date or something like that,
and she's like, oh, yeah, that'd be great. But then, you know, after game went on, we were talking more and more and I went out on a limb and I was like, you know what forget to play date? Would you like to go to dinner or something. Let's have our own adult play date. Yeah yeah, and she said, yeah, of course, that'd be great. Okay, So how was dinner.
I'm a little rusty. I move dated a little while, but I made sure that I paid for dinner, and we talked mostly about our kids because that's the only thing that connected us in the beginning. But were you able to get off that subject at all? I mean, at some point you'd be like, okay, we're actually on a date. I can stop talking about my child now. Yeah. Yeah. The conversation kind of led from that, and then whenever, whenever, it kind of doing bled off. Then we came back
to the kid and then went in another direction. So it definitely became the base for conversation. But it was good. You know, we didn't stay on that the whole time. Okay, So all in all, you think the date was a success. I think so I went really well. The only thing is when we went to leave. I was walking her back to her car, and I just don't know what to do in these situations anymore. Do I kiss her?
You said a third date thing? I don't know, but I decided to kind of go for it, and I went to kiss her and she turned her head and then they're kissing her cheek. All right, that's kind of an awkward end of the date. Yeah, do you guys think I screwed that up? I mean, should I not have tried to kiss her on the first date? I mean, should I had just been like, you know, cool, let's let's do a second date and call it good. I don't know, it depends on the situation, I guess. Yeah,
ost thing, kisses aren't what they used to be. I think it's more common nowadays. And it's so hard for us to judge now because we know you got rejected. Yeah, Like, if we didn't know what was going to happen, I would probably would have said go for it. But now too, Well, what do you think I should have done? I mean, I think maybe you moved too slow. Both you guys have kids. I mean, you guys should just invite her back to your place. You guys have been there done
that before. It's not like, you know, it's not like new territory there as far as that's concerned. Oh, you know, I didn't even think about that. Maybe I wasn't moving fashion enough. Like you say, you're really rusty at dating. I mean, is she back into the dating scene recently too? Like maybe she's just rusty too, And she didn't know it seems like it seemed like she was a little bit more experienced in the dating thing, like she had some kind of like it seemed like she had done
this before recently. But again, it was both of our first date. So and I didn't know if I had overstepped some bounds or anything like that. So did you make plans to hang out again or anything? Yeah, So before she left, I was just like, dude, you want to get together at least you know, we could do that play date their kids. And she was like, yeah,
of course, definitely. And so what's happened since I've reached out to her a couple of times and and she hasn't really responded even about like a playdate, not even our own date. And that's awkward because your kids are on the same baseball team. Yeah, I mean I bound to see her again. Yeah, so I was hoping you guys could help me out with this because I just don't know. It's racking my brain and like, how I
screwed this up somehow? Okay, well we'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date update. All right, all right, thank you, hang on brooking Jubile in the morning. Date. Baseball games are always a good place to find love, especially a little kids baseball game, because let's face it, you're not paying attention to what's going on the field, neither other kids.
They don't even want to be there. Most of them are by the outfield fence, like picking dandelions or something, so not a lot of action. And that's why Howard is on the phone for a second day update. Today struck up a conversation with the girl named Abby and they ended up going out on a date. But now she's not calling him back. And even in little league, there's no like winners and losers anymore than even keep score.
So Howard, I guess on that day, But now now he's got a big l because she's not calling him back. So how are you went from big winner to big loser? How does that feel not great? I mean, I just I mean a big state of like, where did I go wrong? Here? You can't think of anything you did wrong because I feel like because your kids play on the same team, even if she didn't want to go out with you again, she'd give you a courtesy call just to keep things friendly. For her not to call
you back at all, I think is bad. I mean, maybe she wants to confront me at the game about it. I don't know. That would be awkward shouting at you in the stands. Who knows. All right, Well, I'm on the dollar phone number right now, and see why she's not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, all right, a speak to Abby? Please? Abby? How are you? This is jew Bil from the radio show Brook and jew Bil in the Morning. What. Yeah, this is so weird?
Why's calling me? Well? I'm calling you because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. Okay, that's justin weird. Who emailed you about me? His name is Howard. Okay, that's that's excited. Abby. We do this thing on our show called the Second Date Update. I don't know if you know what that is or not. But that's if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not wanting to see them again, they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask what happened. So Howard emailed us and told us about your date, and he also can't figure out why you're not calling him back. Well, let's just say that I won't be interested in getting involved with him anytime soon. Yeah. I think he's figured that out. We're trying to figure out why. Um okay, I know Howard too, literally because my son plays in both Actually our kids
are friendly to each other, which is nice. But the other day at one of the games, we were getting along pretty well and he was very futhcoming and he asked me to dinner, and I was like, yeah, he told us about your date, h and he said that everything was great. He said it was great. Yeah, he thought it was fantastic. He did say at the end of the date, he leaned in to try to kiss you, and you kind of turned your cheek. It didn't seem
like you wanted to have a first date kiss. I think that what happened during the dinner is we talked at we're both divorced, so naturally that's going to come up. Yeah, and he sort of overshared over shared about his divorced Yeah, about how the divorce happened pretty much, Okay, I mean what would be oversharing. Oversharing would be sharing the fact that he hooked up with his kids nanny. Whoa, he hooked up with this kid's nanny and that's why he got a divorce. I mean it was more than like
hooked up. I guess they were together for some time. Oh so he had he shared with you on your first date. Yeah, that the reason he had a divorce was because he was having an affair with the nanny. Yeah, like a full blown affair with the nanny. Okay, well that's that's a bit of a t but a good reason for divorce. So at least he has that, I get. I mean he was a little bit like sort of
like remorseful about it. And then this also kind of made me mad because he was doing that saying where he was like, well, you know, my wife was being a little like holding she wasn't hearing any attention Jeeves too, And I'm like, oh god, yeah it is. It's always an excuse about some new shorts and she didn't comment on my shorts, you know. So I was like, well, I'm just gonna start banging the nanny. She likes my shorts. Yeah.
But here's what's crazy, and that I can't believe that he shared with me on a daine he was going to take all his kids to Disney right, and then I guess the mother found out about the bear, so they were like, well, we're not doing a family trip, and he said that he still went on the trip to Disney with the nanny. Wait, no kids or kids do with them? No kids? He took them nanny to Disney Lands. Oh okay, that's a lot of information on
a first date. Yeah, that's a lot. Yeah, especially you know when you're just starting to date somebody, you might have questions if they got a divorce because they were having an affair with the nanny and then had a trip scheduled to Disneyland with their kids and everything else, but then blew that off to just take the nanny. There might raise a flag or two. Yeah, I mean, like, it's crazy. I can't believe that he would think that
any date would be going well. If dad is information that I'm getting okay, okay, but so yeah, to look at the other side though, like he definitely overshared, but it was what was going on with his life, and at least he was honest about it. I don't know, like I feel like he was trying to make excuses for himself like that. He just sleared sort of like that into an affair with his children's nanny. Excuse me, I have something to say here. Oh, I'm sure you do. Way,
what is going on right now? Abby? That's Howard. He was actually on the other line listing and wants to talk to you. What I want to talk to him? It's a little too late now, Yeah, I just gotta jump in here. Abby. I really wish you would have told me that that was an issue. I mean, who would that not be an issue for We were talking about our divorces. You were open, I was being open about it, and I was being truthful and honest and like, yeah, it was a mistake, but that was it wasn't enough
time ago. That wasake. Wait wait, wait, Howard, you told me that you guys were involved for six months. That's a relationship as far as I'm concerned. I don't think you understand though, yes, it was a mistake, but she she's really hot. What that's fine? Then, how long you're a man who can't control the urges? And I already told you that my marriage was not going very well. It was already falling apart, and she wasn't. I don't need any convincing. I mean, she sounds really hot. She's
the dude. Oh my god, Howard, I was all for like second chances for you, but you don't sound like you even understand what you did. Wait wait, wait, guys, you're not getting the best part of everything. She still works for him. This nanny, what, Howard, the nanny that you had an affair with, is Seal your nanny? Yes, she is really really great with the kids, and but so many people that can be great with kids. Oh my god, I have to pick my jaw up off
the floor. I cannot believe that. Can you please let me finish? Please? It is no longer a thing. She works for me, and she is in her own thing, her own relationship, and I am I am not a part of that. Yeah, and I really don't think it's gonna happen again. You don't think you don't think it's gonna happen again. But she is hot, so I'm pretty
sure that's why she's still on the payroll. Just think she comes around again, right, Oh, oh my god, you don't understand how hard it is to find a good childcare and and I'm not just gonna fire her because you know, I happen to have had a relationship with her for six months. Oh my god, I think that nanny sleeping with the husband disqualifies her as good childcare. Like that is, she's out whatever, I'm not firing her. I mean, she's good at her job, she's good with
the kids. I'm not getting rid of her. And just like Abby, I'm only interested in a relationship with the youth. That's it. That's romantic. That is romantic. Abbey, would you like to go on a second date with Howard will Pay? Are you? Are you crazy? Did you just hear that romantic commento? Listen, I used to bang my nanny for six month, but you're the one I want. Pretty nice. Maybe instead of talking to me about a second date,
you should call it to nanny. Oh I told you her and I are over and it was her choice and I respect that. Yeah, so you're not even the one that ended it. You were dumped by the nanny Abby. Are you sure, because I think you're missing out on this one man. Yeah, so you don't want to go out with Howard again? Hey, Howard, I do not want to go out with you again, nor do I want to sit with you at any Little League game in the future either. Okay, Okay, let's keep our kids out
of this, all right. Oh yeah, yeah, you are being a little unfair. I think you should be able to sit next to you. Listen, this whole thing got out of hand. I like, I just want you to be able to meet this nanny and then you swear that away. Okay, So you said you could understand how hot she was. Okay, I got it. Yeah, broken jew will in the morning.