2nd Date Update PODCAST: 24hr Date

I was able to catch up. Yeah. I read the description of your date and I'm like, man, I can't tell if that would be fun or just like the worst thing ever. So before we get into what you did on your date, why don't you tell us about guy you want to call? Was his name George? George? All right? And where did you meet George? I'm tender. Okay, that's where most people already were the worst date ever?

Oh come on, I take it you had high hopes for this date though, Yeah, no, because he was very funny, Like we message back and forth a little bit, and like picture was cute. I don't know. I was like, yeah, it's gonna be fun. Okay, Oh good? And so where do you guys agree to meet out at? We decided to go rock climbing, which I'm not like a huge fan of because like you had to wear the straps thing.

I don't know, like it's not flattering look, But I was like, okay, you know, I've never done that before for a date. So, so did you guys go to a climbing gym or were we actually outside? I know we wrote it like a gym, which was probably better. Yeah, but it was actually really fun, Like it was a fun way to like kind of hang out, and because like we talked a lot, but also we're doing like kind of focused on something else. I wasn't nervous, right, And then after it was over, he was like, do

you want to get dinner? And well, that's a good sign that you guys didn't have that planned and he wanted to continue to hang out with you. Did you keep wearing the harness at dinner? Um? No, they wouldn't let me take it with me. Okay, but dinner was good and I was great. We had a couple of drinks and like by this point we've been hanging out for like like six or seven hours. Yeah, and he's like, I just want to keep hanging out with you a

period of time. I was like okay, great. So we went to his house and we ended up watching the whole first season of Person right together. The whole first season. Yeah yeah, you were like twenty four hours into this date your double as if you were still tired. I know. So yeah, like, we watched this whole thing and it's just very It's very fun because it's like one of my favorite shows. Like it's very casual at his place, and by the time it ends, it's like two thirty

in the morning. It's very great. But then he's like, hey, I have an idea. What if we do a twenty four hour date? What I was joking, I was like, what does that mean? Like do I get to sleep and then we go out again or what's happening? He was like, no, we'll just stay up for twenty four hours straight on this date. And you're sure he's not sort of some drug addict and has a meth problem or something. Yeah, this will keep you up. Oh good,

that would be like a terrible turn. It was just like you know when you meet someone and you're like, wow, we're really clicking. This is working. Oh my god, that's kind of cute. Would you guys do we made froze pizza, and then we watched another season of Perks and Right, and that gives us like, I don't know, it's like the sun is coming up, and at this point I'm just like, I'm like, I'm trying to feel gross, Like I'm still like in the clothes I wore to the

rock climbing gym. Right, you haven't even showered. Yeah, I know, it's all growth. And I was like, I should probably go home, and he was like, no, I'm on a quitter. Are you a quitter? Like? I guess that we obviously liked you if you wanted to spend twenty four hours straight with you, or he was just illusional at that point when he asked, I don't know. I don't know. I think we both were like I had gotten to

like that sleep deprived kind of crazy place. Okay, at this point six in the morning, you plushed two seasons and Parks and wreck you wait and pizza. Have you made out at all? Not really? I mean like were like kissed a couple of times and that was good, but it's not really good that kind of it's just one on one hanging out time. Yeah, So what happened? So I'm like, okay, fine, He like makes us a big thing of coffee and we drink a bunch of coffee and then he's like, let's go to the the park.

But what am I doing? Yeah? It sounds just terrible at this point, Are you guys both still happier? You just forcing this to happen at this point, Like every now and then, I'd be like, oh, this is still fun. This is still the person I liked fourteen hours ago, I think, but then it just felt sometimes we were just like, let's just blow through this kind of forced

fun thing. And so we went and he was like, let's play frisbee, and we tried to play frisbee and like, I was just my motor skills are just stupid at that point. Yeah, so he was like, wake you go for a walk? We like, I I really think I need to go home. Like I tried to be very

nice about it. I was like, I'm just gonna get it over and then he gets mad and I get mad, and honestly, like at this point, I was so tired and there was yelling and I was at one point I was like, you're a liar and I didn't even know why, Like you were you guys are both just exhausted, sleep deprived, and end of the day by arguing, why do you want to call this guy for a second date? It sounds like it ended horribly well in but I

really do like him. If we had just cut it off at like ten thirty or even a like after the personal backtime, I would have been like, that was great. That was such a good date. You know, I would love to see him again and just have a normal, you know, like three and a half hour date. So at the end of your date where you argue you're kind of chocking that up to you guys being tired and not him being in a hole. Yeah, because I was also any hole. Okay, you're a liar? Yeah, I

mean when you've been up for that long, who knows, right? Yeah? Okay? And have you talked to him since? No? I gave it a couple of days, so I texted him and the response at all, well, we'll play a song and then come back and call him and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, all right, hanging brooking jubil in the morning, if you're just joining us for today a second day update. Suzanne is on the phone and

she wants to call a dude named George. She wants everybody to know they did not sleep together on their first date, not at all. Actually didn't even sleep on their first date. If you missed the first part she told us about her date with George, it actually started off pretty normal. They just went rock climbing together, and

then they had dinner and drinks. That turned into watching TV at his house, which turned into, hey, let's stay up for twenty four hours, like a couple of kids having a slumber party that don't want to go to bed, And she tried to make it to twenty four hours, and at a certain point Suzanne was tired and wanted to go home, and then they got in an argument because he was upset that she couldn't complete the full

twenty four hour date. But she wants to call him anyway and see if they can have just a normal, regular, you know, a few hour date, and we'll see if that can happen. All right, Susanne? You ready? Yeah? I'm ready? Sorry? Yeah, yeah, you're still tired. I'm like reliving it all on my head. I didn't ask. I mean, you said you did send him a text message that he didn't respond to did you apologize for screaming at him? You're a liar? Yeah? Absolutely, okay and no no response at all. That's not good.

Yeah yeah, no no response. Okay, Well I'm gonna ca him right now. Here we go, Hello him, I speak to George please, this is him. Hey George, how are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, Okay, do you have any idea what that is? I think I've seen a billboard maybe probably not. Okay, Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi, Any idea why I'm calling you today? I can't say I do. No. Do you want to know or should

we just hang up? I would love to know. Going on, Well, we got an email about you from one of our listeners. That's why I'm calling okay. Her name is Suzanne. Suzanne, yes, okay, and you guys went out on a very long date recently. That what she said. That is what she said. She emailed us. So we do a segment on our show called the Second Date Updates, where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them back, they can email us to get you

on the phone and find out what happened. So Suzanne told us about how your regular date turned into like a twenty four hour thing, and she told us that she couldn't really make it the full twenty four hours. And then you guys got in an argument after, and she tried to text you and apologize and would actually like to go out with you again, but you haven't responded. So she's wondering if she did something wrong. Well, she didn't make it the full twenty four hours? What she

did wrong? Wait, are you joking right? I'm not joking too, because she wanted to leave after. I mean, no, I don't even know what hour you guys were in. I think it was like eleven o'clock in the morning. She said, yeah, it was around eleven thirty. And that's why you're upset. Well, I mean we made a pack, we did the whole pinky promise then and she broke the pack. So no, I don't know if I would like to see her again, but you can understand it that. I mean, twenty four

hours is a long time to stay up. Well, yeah, twenty four hours, it's a long time. But I've done it before. Okay, I did it with a girl once and we made it twenty nine hours. But it's not impossible. It's my way of weaving people out that aren't going to follow through on things. Why would I want to waste my time with someone who isn't going to commit you know, wait, hold on, hold on. It's yeah, it's like a test that you do with with all dates

or some dates. What's the story here? Not at all dates. But if I feel that there is a lot of potential in somebody, then I say, okay, well maybe we should try the twenty four hour dates. And it's worked before. Unfortunately that relationship did not end up going so well. But I figured, you know, Susanne is really good. I like our connection. You know, we watched Parks and Wreck. We could totally make it twenty four hours. Clearly she

could not. Okay, so that's that's that's legit. The reason why is that she didn't make it an entire twenty four hours. It sounds like she got close. Yeah, it's more than her not making it twenty four hours. She a quitter? What Yeah, that's I mean, here's the thing. She really likes you, and you obviously liked her enough to put her through whatever weird tests you have. Well, yeah, that's why. That's why it was really hard for me. That's why we got into such a big argument, because

I really did have a wonderful time with her. And I mean, if you like someone enough to hang out with them for twenty four hours, your body can do it. Your mind is stronger than your body. I was able to do it, I was going to do it. She clearly did not like me enough to be able to do it. That is really I'm married and I couldn't do that with my husband. Do you two have commitment issues? Yeah, yes,

for sure. I mean, anybody who can stay for twenty four straight hours committed, so you just it's a character flaw for you that she wasn't able to make it to twenty four hours. Exactly How am I supposed to trust in her and commit to her if she can't even commit to twenty four hours of being together? I mean, I know anyone else that has this test, and they all seem to be able to stay in a committed relationship. Listen.

I know I am obviously a little different, and you guys don't agree with how I do things, but I've had lots of issues in the past. This is how I do it. It sucks, but that's just how things go. Oh Mankay, Well you know what else sucks with us kind of how things go is I'm a liar and I lied to you at the beginning of this because Susanne is actually on the other line and wants to talk to you. Oh God, what do you want, Susanne?

Whoa Wow? Okay, I thought I was calling to get you to go out with me on a second date. Oh well, I mean we never even completed the first date, so I'm not sure how we could get through a second date without, you know, going chronologically. I apologize about that, and I also apologize for high left. I told you I was sorry, so sorry that you're having to go through a radio show. Come on, Suzanne, You're more committed to getting attention through a radio show than just like

admitting to twenty four hours. Wow, okay, that is not no. I was very committed. It's not like I trained for this advance and it failed. It was a very promin clearly clearly it's not too much work to go through Brook and Jewby or whatever. That's fine. I really tried. Okay, it just wasn't fun. Anymore. I just was tired and I wanted to go home and take shower and and rest you and maybe there was an end in sight. What's it going to be like if we ever got

into a relationship, it did okay? If I just like try not to cheat but end up looking up. Sorry, sorry, I couldn't make it. That's not a comparison. We were literally together for like eighteen hours straight. Like I feel like that's so you couldn't make six hours more, George, I think you need to slow down, Like you could be missing out on something really great. Yeah, commitment's important in a relationship, but so is flexibility and compromise and

the ability to listen to someone else's needs. And her need was to go to sleep. I am a very busy person. I don't have much time to be with people who aren't going to be what I need. You understand, okay, And you need someone who doesn't sleep exactly. I mean, Suzanne, I was having a wonderful time. That's why it hurt me so much. We were having a great time, and then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, you just start yelling at me, calling me a liar for some reason,

and and it broke me. It was you was stabbing me in my heart. I saw a real future with you, and then you just completely shattered that dream. Not exactly. You don't really operate in the middle on much, do you, George. It's kind of extremely on everything. You might call it extreme, might call it definite. I don't want to day to quitter. What Okay? You know what, then maybe we should just not do this, or or we could ask George, George, would you like to about with Susanne on a second date?

We will pay for it, you know what. No, it sounds like she's quitting on the call too, so I think I'm fine. Oh my gosh, Susanne dodged a bullet, I think so wow. Oh look, she can't follow through on anything. She can't follow through on the phone call, can't follow through. I'm playing frisbee? What's next through? I'm playing Frisbee? Yeah, Susanne, you know, I'm sorry that you didn't get a second date, and well, hopefully you can dig deep and find some kind of work ethic and

not give up on things you know so easily. George, I'm sorry I didn't like live up to your expectations, but maybe you can find like someone who's I don't know, like addicted to adderall early. There you go, George, You know what if that's what it thinks, that's what all right, If there are any adderall addicts out there who want to day George texting seven eighty five nine too broken Jewil in the morning