In this episode we cover the top mistakes I've seen people make as a coach in their self development journies: 1. The information trap 2. Guru worship - throwing $ at the problem 4. Materialism - attachment to outcomes 5. Chasing abundance 6. Loyalty to a single way 7. Following unscientific woo 8. Indulging in only academic philosophy 9. Trying to keep things the same and change simultaneously 10. Focus on results rather than process - too serious 11. Doing it alone 12. Doing it with the wrong ...
May 20, 2021•1 hr 15 min
The BROJO Online Podcast has been going for 200 episodes! To celebrate, I look back over how I've changed since this started in terms of beliefs, behaviour and lifestyle. It's been epic! Here's to another 200 shows... Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozen...
May 09, 2021•1 hr 26 min
When you start getting into valued living, it can be difficult to explore your love-life. How can you give yourself the best chances of finding a loving partner without having to resort to dishonesty and tactics? For those of you recovering from the Pick Up Artist mentality, let's talk about how to be as attractive as possible without needing to manipulate in any way. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: http...
Apr 29, 2021•1 hr 4 min
Comparing yourself to other people is the shortest path to Hell. In this episode, we join Dan and the BROJO crew on a webinar call about how to measure yourself without comparison to other people. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-build...
Apr 22, 2021•1 hr 54 min
We are all judgmental, it's wired into our basic cognition. However, sometimes it's helpful (like choosing your breakfast) and other times it's not (like ignoring someone who could be a great friend). Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-b...
Apr 16, 2021•1 hr 29 min
Today we covered: - How to get over my obsession with my ex-girlfriend - Should I measure my self-worth based on how well I do with women? - Why do girls keep avoiding me after I meet them? - What daily practices are best for success? - What should I do about my partner's extensive sexual history? Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-int...
Apr 08, 2021•1 hr 24 min
If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach Reality is neutral. The only time it can hurt you is when you tell yourself an extra story about it; a story that makes you feel bad about being yourself. In this webinar we explore 9 of the most common negative narratives that plague your life, and how you can relieve yourself from them. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Inte...
Apr 01, 2021•1 hr 33 min
Webinar from the BROJO archives: We tackle your limiting beliefs around money that cause you suffering and anxiety in relation to financial problems. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE!...
Mar 25, 2021•1 hr 49 min
If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach If you're a Nice Guy or a people-pleaser, it's probably time you faced the hard truths about what's really going on. In this episode, Dan addresses the key elements to this syndrome that you'll need to work on and overcome if you ever hope to building strong self-confidence, genuine connections, and a meaningful career. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Co...
Mar 18, 2021•1 hr 10 min
I believe Sam Harris' combination of science and reason to create a moral system we can all follow is simply the most sound way to live that's ever been proposed in the moral sphere. In this podcast, I explain why I believe we should all follow this system, and how the objection to it from philosophers who quote Hume's Guillotine need to step back. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pu...
Mar 04, 2021•1 hr 3 min
Why do we get so upset over little things? Why can't we see the bigger picture? In this podcast, we'll answer those questions and explore a better way of viewing life so you can have more peace and less suffering. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of...
Feb 18, 2021•55 min
If you enjoyed this video, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach A few years ago, I was assessed as being highly psychopathic. While I don't have the traits of lack of conscience and empathy, I am incredibly ruthless and find it easy to influence (manipulate) people. I also used to be obsessed with worrying what other people thought of me, and trying to make them like me. However, I've since learned to harness my dark side to stop caring about other people's opinions, a...
Feb 07, 2021•1 hr 10 min
BROJO Coaches Mike and Dan answer questions from the BROJO community. Today: 1) if a girl is avoidant and flaky but I still like her, should I keep trying to invite her out and invest time in her? 2) If I feel like something's wrong on a first date, should I stand up for myself or let it go? ------------------------ Send your questions through here: www.brojo.org/ask If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today...
Jan 28, 2021•39 min
Two questions today: 1) How do I get over my fear that I'm a nuisance when approaching strangers for conversation? 2) How can I communicate effectively with guys at work who are on the autism/Aspergers spectrum? Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of c...
Jan 21, 2021•46 min
Today's questions 1) What should I do about my manipulative sister abusing my parents? 2) My workmate won't give me the respect that I give her, what do I do now? Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining toda...
Jan 14, 2021•41 min
BROJO Coaches Dan and Mike answer YOUR questions. Today's questions: Why do I sleep so much? What's your interpretation of honesty? Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: ...
Jan 07, 2021•34 min
Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE! Learn more here: https://www.brojo.org/join BROJO is an international self-improvement community run by coaches Dan Munro and Mike Wells. We are focu...
Dec 31, 2020•49 min
Dan looks over the carnage that will forever be known as 2020. He discusses COVID 19, the anti-science movement, becoming a first time dad, publishing his latest book, and a whole lot more. --------------- Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confide...
Dec 24, 2020•1 hr 11 min
After a long, weary battle with the Red Pill community, I've decided to withdraw and focus on more productive endeavors. This is my goodbye letter to those of you who have not yet been completely swallowed up by the Red Pill conspiracy theories. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more ...
Dec 17, 2020•31 min
Referring to the 5 Principles of Powerful Honesty from my new book The Naked Truth, I analyse a confrontation Sam Harris with Ben Affleck on the Real Time with Bill Maher Show. Sam Harris is one of the most respectable advocates for honesty, so let's look at how he does it, compared with Ben Affleck. NOTE: For some reason I got it in my head that Dave Rubin's name was "Rick". I have no idea why that happened, so please ignore this blunder. Original Rubin Report video: https://www.youtube.com/wat...
Dec 10, 2020•52 min
I recently posted in the BROJO facebook group, asking what their biggest barriers to honesty were. In this episode, we explore them all and tackle them one by one, including: - how to receive hard truths - confrontations and conflict - hurting people's feelings And many more.. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed...
Dec 03, 2020•1 hr 14 min
Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity The single most difficult type of honesty is usually what most people call "confrontations". Most people will do anything to avoid conflict, and see confrontations as some sort of communication breakdown - a failure that should not happen. But the truth is that you NEED t...
Nov 26, 2020•1 hr 27 min
BROJO Coaches Mike Wells and Dan Munro get together to explore Dan's new book The Naked Truth, and Mike gives his feedback and thoughts on honesty and other concepts in the book. Get Dan Munro’s latest book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity”: https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses...
Nov 19, 2020•55 min
When most people "give" it's actually a form of manipulation designed to guilt-trip people into reciprocating with giving or approval. In this chapter from Dan's new book The Naked Truth, we explore what it means to be truly giving without any hidden agendas, so that you can use honesty to build confidence and be generous to others. Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.or...
Nov 12, 2020•48 min
BROJO Coaches Dan, Mike and Joe answer the members questions, and deal with the problem of being intimidated by increased honesty. Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity If you enjoyed this video, get access to more of BROJO’s content and dozens of confidence-building online courses by joining today. It’s FREE...
Nov 04, 2020•53 min
Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity We don't often stop to think about how dishonesty affects the different areas of life: health, wealth, relationships, psychology and purpose. Before we can learn how to stop lying and start living with more integrity, we must first get clear on the definition of dishonest...
Oct 29, 2020•1 hr 12 min
Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity We are constantly exposed to manipulation and influence from others, and are influencing them in return. Is it possible for this to be healthy and have integrity? Is there such a thing as ethical influencing? In this episode, we explore ethics and tactics in relationships...
Oct 22, 2020•1 hr 4 min
Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity In this episode, I scrolled through Quora.com and checked out a few questions in the Girlfriend Advice section. Here are my answers... 1. My girlfriend told me that I am "being too nice". Does that mean she actually wants me to be mean? 2. I found my girlfriend cheating o...
Oct 07, 2020•56 min
If you enjoyed this podcast, you can buy me a beer! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/danthecoach Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity Following on from my previous podcast on managing manipulation and emotional abuse, I've added this episode to highlight some of the more specific manipulation techinques that nar...
Oct 01, 2020•1 hr
Treat yourself to a copy of Dan Munro’s new book “THE NAKED TRUTH: Using Powerful Honesty to Enhance Your Confidence, Connections and Integrity” https://www.brojo.org/pub/the-naked-truth-honesty-confidence-connections-integrity You've been pressured all your life to be "productive". This is why you choose a safe job over an artistic one; why you never feel comfortable relaxing and taking time off; why you always need to do MORE and be BETTER. It's time to blow this lid off this bullshit... -----...
Sep 24, 2020•57 min