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How Can We Make Better Resolutions?

Dec 31, 20185 min
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Humans have been making New Years' resolutions for millennia, but we're still bad at keeping them. Learn some science behind building better resolutions in this episode of BrainStuff.

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Welcome to brain Stuff from How Stuff Works. Hey, brain Stuff, I'm Lauren Vogelbaum, and the concept of creating New Year's resolutions is so ingrained in US culture that the government keeps a list of popular resolutions and resources for achieving them. It's a Baker's dozen of good intentions, including drink less alcohol, eat healthy food, get a better education, get a better job, get fit, managed debt, managed stress, and recycle. Additional research

backs up this list's universality. According to a eleven Marst University poll, losing weight to top the list for one in five resolution making Americans closely followed by exercising more, with spending less and saving more, Quitting smoking, and being a better person all tied for third. But is it true that most people don't keep their resolutions? The answer, as many of us around the house to Fork's office were relieved to discover, appears to be a resounding yes.

Richard Wiseman, a psychologist and author with a penchant for mass participation, exp yeraments found that of people making New Year's resolutions were confident that they'd stick it out, yet only a scant twelve percent really did. So why bother a new year's resolutions are as one author wrote, a triumph of hope over experience. They're a way to quantify what we wish for ourselves. There are means of cataloging our personal dissatisfactions, and perhaps most importantly, their method of

erasing errors of the past year. Yes, new year's resolutions are all about hopefulness, and it's always been that way. Of course, ringing in the new year isn't a construct of modern Americans. Some four thousand years ago, Babylonians rang in their new year with an eleven day festival in March. An. Ancient Egyptians celebrated the advent of their new calendar during

the Nile Rivers annual flood. By four to six b c. E. Roman Emperor Julius Caesar had moved the first day of the year to January one, in honor of the Roman god of beginnings, Janice, an idea that took some time to catch on. However, In two c E. Pope Gregory the eight brought the January first new year back in vogue with the Gregorian calendar, a concept that persists today.

The origin of making New Year's resolutions rests with the Babylonians, who reportedly made promises to the gods and hopes that earn good favor in the coming year. They often resolved to get out of debt. Sound familiar. Many of us are still making that resolution today, So what's the secret to actually keeping it? Just wanting something to change is not enough. You need a strategy to make it stick. One way to do this is to share your resolution

with others. We spoke with Joe Ferrari, professor of psychology at DePaul University in Chicago. As he pointed out, when you keep resolutions a secret, no one is going to check up on you. You're only accountable to yourself. He says that a party to publicly share your resolutions is an admirable way to ring in the new year. Social media offers another avenue to let others in on your goals.

But once you've involved others in your resolutions, what steps can you take to ensure that when they do check up on you, you'll have something positive to report the success of your New year's resolutions starts in your head. Limiting yourself to a few resolutions, maybe even one, and being specific are a few things to keep in mind. This prevents overload and frustration. For example, I want to lose ten pounds by March first, or I want to

save fifty dollars of each paycheck. The best goals are challenging but manageable, and that's a sensitive balance that only you can find for yourself. Overly ambitious goals can drain a person's confidence when they're not met. Instead, build on small, observable victories and possibly achieve bigger goals down the line, and take things on one at a time. Whatever goals

you do tackle, be sure to monitor your progress. Ferrari said, if your resolution is to lose weight, check your weight regularly. If it's to save money, right down where you've spent your money, monitoring those few challenging goals you set will dramatically improve your success rate. Sometimes just the act of recording everything you eat or spend can cause you to eat or spend less, even if you don't consciously change

anything else. Whatever your new year's goals, give yourself some time to make them a reality, more time than you may have planned on. Actually, while most people cling to the widespread belief that new habits can be formed in twenty one days, new research is suggesting that we need a longer timetable. One recent study found that it took participants in average of sixty six days to do something different and stick with it. Today's episode was written by

Laurel Dove and produced by Tyler Clang. For more on this and lots of other fresh topics, visit our home planet as stuff works dot com

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