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109. How Narcissists Plan to Abuse You | Dr. Christine Cocchiola

Apr 21, 202555 minEp. 120
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Dr. Christine Cocchiola discusses the methods of narcissistic abusers and her experience helping survivors.00:00 Narcissists plan to abuse you02:42 Language for control03:49 Abusers use mockery04:23 Covert Authority05:51 Coercive Control Defined07:25 Dr. C's experience of coercive control08:55 Threats of Suicide10:17 Unspoken Threats10:58 What motivates abusers?15:58 Trauma Bonds are like torture20:32 Preventing narcissistic abuse23:53 Recognizing evil25:07 Ideal victims27:50 You don't see the betrayal29:32 Write down the behavior32:27 Can you expose a narcissist?33:40 SMEAR CAMPAIGNS start day 138:55 Provoke & Record (Reactive Abuse)42:55 Love bombing is a trap43:39 Signs of love bombing44:21 Abusers will have inauthentic relationships48:10 how to protect your identity49:51 Persectutor, Rescuer, Victim Triangle52:34 Find Dr. Cocchiola online52:54 Dr. Cocchiola's experience helping survivors54:44 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider.----------------------------RELATED LINKSDr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtMDr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YUDr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLkNarcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUINarcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQDr. Cocchiola's website: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/Dr. Cocchiola's channel: @DrCocchiola🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39--------------------------#narcissisticabuse

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