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107. How Narcissists Use Love to Break You | Ask Anoushka

Apr 19, 202541 minEp. 118
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Anoushka Marcin discusses the inevitable harm of relationships with narcissists.00:00 Narcissists will harm you00:44 Sex for the Narcissist01:23 Sex as a tool for control03:53 Spotting the Narcissist early05:48 Future Faking and promises06:29 Isolation, Cult Behavior, SMEAR CAMPAIGN08:44 Narcissists will trap you10:19 Trauma bonding11:21 Trauma in relationships12:31 The victim is uncomfortable in their own body13:13 The goal of Gaslighting15:58 Breaking your reality test17:32 Compliance is the Narcissist's greatest need18:26 Narcissist's lies feel good19:54 The Discard is a long silent treatment.24:41 Narcissist's trail of destruction25:21 Comply. Otherwise I'll make your life Hell.25:44 The cost of staying with the Narcissist27:10 Healthy breakups28:03 Protecting people from the Narcissist29:22 Recovering from the Narcissist30:54 Lessons from the Narcissist31:35 Rebuilding your identity33:45 Reframing your identity37:05 Anoushka's trauma experience38:51 Find Anoushka online39:35 Anoushka's experience helping survivors40:44 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider.----------------------------RELATED LINKSDr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtMDr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YUDr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLkNarcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUINarcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQAnoushka's website: askanoushka.co.ukAnoushka's channel:  @anoushkamarcin  🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39--------------------------#narcissisticabuse

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