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Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey

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Listen up, you naughty little chickens! Dating, sex, and relationships in your twenties—it’s messy, confusing, and sometimes you just want the male perspective. That’s where Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey comes in. Every Tuesday, Harry Jowsey lets you in on what the male brain is thinking—he’ll break down all of your relationship questions and situations in a manner that only Harry can bring. He’ll give you his honest advice on your friends-with-benefits situation, that late night text, or whether that fuck boy from your past even deserves a second chance. Candid, hilarious, and always ready with a story, he’ll tell you like it is before commiserating with you by sharing his own embarrassing dating anecdote. So listen to Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey every Tuesday to land the guy—or walking red flag, absolutely no judgment here—of your dreams.

Episodes

Bob the Drag Queen on Traitors, Polyamory, and Grief

Welcome back, naughty little chickens! For today’s episode, Harry is joined by iconic entertainer and author Bob the Drag Queen! Harry gets a lesson on Harriet Tubman from Bob, who also discusses his new book, Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert. Bob talks about working with Madonna and asks Harry if he’s on team Drake or team Kendrick before teaching him what to say to a single woman in an elevator. Harry and Bob bond over the grief of losing a parent and agree that Harry’s dad Paul and Bob’s mom M...

Apr 08, 20251 hr 4 minEp. 48

Ekin-Su: Love Island Secrets, New Romance & Reality TV Madness

Naughty chickens, you're in for a treat because another bombshell has entered the studio! Reality TV queen Ekin-Su Cülcüloğlu joins Boyfriend Material to spill all the tea on her whirlwind travels, post-Love Island: All Stars life, and what really goes down behind the scenes of reality TV. From navigating the Love Island villa (twice!) to the mind games of The Traitors and even Dancing on Ice, Ekin-Su shares her biggest surprises, challenges, and what it takes to be THE bombshell. Afterall, she'...

Apr 01, 202536 minEp. 47

Do I Want Kids? A Talk with Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin

Welcome back, naughty chickens! This week, Harry is joined by sex therapist, author, and podcast host Vanessa Marin! To start things off, Harry and Vanessa dive into the ins and outs of sex in relationships, namely how to spice up a drought, the best way to handle rejection, and what it means to initiate sex with your partner. Vanessa also discusses her and her husband’s decision to be child-free and everything that went into making that choice. Then, Harry and Vanessa talk about her book, ‘Sex ...

Mar 25, 202559 minEp. 46

Oscars, Housewives, and Kardashians with Boman Martinez-Reid

Welcome back you naughty chickens! This week, Harry is joined by writer, actor, comedian, and new friend Boman Martinez-Reid! They dive into their first meeting on a commercial set (where Boman severely roasted Harry), Boman’s unforgettable Oscars experience, and his new show Made For TV, incepted from his deep love of reality television. Boman also shares his Real Housewives obsession, tells the adorable story of how he met his boyfriend, and spills on his best and worst dates. To wrap things u...

Mar 18, 202554 minEp. 45

EXCLUSIVE: LELE PONS IS PREGNANT

Welcome back you naughty chickens! Harry is joined by THE ultimate entertainer, Lele Pons, for an episode full of...big reveals!! They dive into Lele’s tipsy Good Morning America moment, their Dancing with the Stars experience, and how she fully got Harry into a Shakira music video. But truly to Harry's surprise, Lele drops the bombshell that she’s PREGNANT!!! She opens up about how she found out, her emotional journey, and how she kept the secret this whole time. Lastly, Harry and Lele get real...

Mar 11, 202559 minEp. 44

Jake Shane Quit Smoking & Has A Bunch of Babies

Welcome back naughty chickens, and this week, the therapuss is in when Harry is joined by his friend and comedian Jake Shane! Jake and Harry discuss Jake’s upcoming comedy tour, his favorite podcast guests, and why Jake shouldn’t get a dog. They also open up about reading comments on their social media, insecurities around dating, and what it means to want someone who is boyfriend material - but also, how to be boyfriend material for someone else. Then, Harry and Jake play a game that has them f...

Mar 04, 202546 minEp. 43

The "Self-Sabotage King" Gets Some Help!! from Gabby Bernstein

You are in for a treat, you naughty chickens! Harry sits down with the #1 New York Times best-selling author, top-charting podcast host of Dear Gabby, and renowned motivational speaker - Gabby Bernstein - to dive deep into her newest book, Self Help. Gabby opens up about the power of inner child work, the biggest myth about spirituality, and how sobriety has strengthened her connection to herself. She also guides Harry through a self-check-in exercise after he admits to being a “self-sabotage ki...

Feb 25, 202553 minEp. 42

Daniel Seavey’s Second Wind: Love, Lawsuits & Life Skyrocketing

Welcome back, you naughty chickens! This week Harry is joined by multi-platinum recording artist and former boyband heartthrob turned solo artist Daniel Seavey! Daniel and Harry chat about his upcoming album 'Second Wind', the challenges of transitioning from a group musician to a solo performer with full creative control, and the dreamlike whirlwind that was his time on American Idol. Daniel opens up about the struggles that shaped his career, including a horrible string of events that almost l...

Feb 18, 20251 hr 12 minEp. 41

Reality TV Is Fake?! Katie Maloney & Dayna Kathan Expose It All

**SURPRISE YOU NAUGHTY POSSUMS! MERCH IS OUT ON VALENTINES DAY, STAY TUNED TO SHOP THE BOYFRIEND MOTEL COLLECTION** Welcome back, you naughty chickens! This week, Harry is joined by Vanderpump Rules alums Katie Maloney and Dayna Kathan—co-hosts of the Disrespectfully podcast and two of the realest voices in reality TV. Katie spills on her new LA eatery, while Dayna discusses her pivot from healthcare sales to comedian. Together, they take Harry behind the scenes of shooting VPR, from Dayna getti...

Feb 11, 20251 hr 5 minEp. 40

Hollywood Medium Tyler Henry Breaks Down His Most Memorable Celebrity Readings

What is up you naughty chickens! Hollywood’s most sought-after medium, Tyler Henry, joins Boyfriend Material for an enlightening conversation about life, death, and everything in between. As the star of Live From the Other Side on Netflix and bestselling author, Tyler has connected with some of the biggest names in Hollywood - and the afterlife - including RuPaul, Sarah Paulson, and practically everyone you can think of. In this episode, Tyler shares how he first actualized his gift as a child w...

Feb 04, 202558 minEp. 39

Firefighter Who Went Viral: Secrets of Firefighting, LA Fires, & Dating Life

Welcome back, you naughty chickens! This week we’re turning up the heat with Isaac Ramirez - California firefighter, TikTok sensation, and model with over 4 million followers. Isaac joins us to share his firsthand experiences battling wildfires, including his inside look on the LA fires that have forever reshaped Los Angeles. He dives into the causes of these fires, the realities of firefighting most people never see, and how the public can better prepare for and prevent future disasters. Isaac ...

Jan 28, 202546 minEp. 38

Chloe Veitch Opens Up About Her Ex Relationship For The First Time

Hey, you naughty chickens! Chloe Veitch is back for an honest, raw, and unmissable episode. For the first time, Chloe opens up about the emotional turmoil of her past relationship, reflecting on the red flags she overlooked and sharing how she’s reconciling the pain. She discusses setting new boundaries for future relationships, what love means to her now, and how she climbed out of the dark hole to see the other side. Meanwhile, Harry dives into his goals for a transformative 2025, including hi...

Jan 21, 202557 minEp. 37

Partner Swinging, Golden Globes, and Grief: Heather McMahan Goes There

Welcome back you naughty chickens! This week Harry is joined by the hilarious comedian, podcast host, celebrity red carpet host, cruise host, wife and dog mom - her 2nd comedy special Breadwinner is streaming on Hulu right now - it’s Heather McMahan! Heather joins Harry for this hilarious episode to cover everything from hosting live interviews at the Golden Globes to the moment she knew comedy was her calling. They discuss threesomes, couple swinging, and her journey to finding love with her hu...

Jan 14, 20251 hr 11 minEp. 36

Jenn Tran Behind the Scenes: The Bachelorette, DWTS Showmances, and Taylor Swift Trivia

Happy New Year, you naughty chickens! We're kicking off 2025 with none other than The Bachelorette herself, Jenn Tran. Fresh off her whirlwind year, Jenn joins us to spill the tea on everything from her emotional season finale that left America in shock to her rapid leap into the Dancing with the Stars spotlight. She opens up about battling imposter syndrome, her true feelings about the men from her season (and the shocking things she learned after filming), and answers burning questions about l...

Jan 07, 20251 hr 1 minEp. 35

Girl Trivia, Boyfriend Dilemmas, and Ending the Year with a Bang

It's the last episode of the year you naughty chickens! This week Harry is joined by the hilarious Paige Gallagher, TikTok star and honorary producer for the day, who brought some fun games and juicy dilemmas to the BFM headquarters The two dive into Harry’s year-in-review, Paige’s take on what makes someone boyfriend material, and how Harry plans to tackle a new mindset in the new year. The fan-favorite Girl Trivia game makes a return - do you think Harry correctly guesses what French tips are?...

Dec 31, 202445 minEp. 34

Pleasure, prostate play and…puppets? Exploring all things sex with Dr Emily Morse

Welcome back you naughty possums! On today’s episode, Harry is diving deep into the world of sex, communication, and relationships with none other than Dr. Emily Morse - Doctor of Human Sexuality, MasterClass instructor, and host of the #1 sexuality podcast Sex with Emily. Harry gets real about everything he doesn’t know (reminder: yes, you can pee with a tampon in), while Dr. Emily offers her expert guidance on understanding the female body, orgasms, masturbation, mismatched libidos, breaking d...

Dec 24, 20241 hr 3 minEp. 33

Hallie Batchelder: Cheaters, Threesomes & Socks During Sex

We have the dirtiest chicken of them all on the podcast: it's NYC social media influencer and Unwell family member Hallie Batchelder... and she is staying alive until 35. Harry and Hallie discuss her background: growing up in Boston, majoring in Art History, how she started posting on TikTok, and her new podcast with Unwell! They dive into a silly rapid fire where Hallie sets the record straight: pregame or postgame, martini shaken or stirred, and the classic Boyfriend Material question, would y...

Dec 17, 202446 minEp. 32

Losing A Parent

This week, Harry opens up in a raw and deeply personal episode. After the recent passing of his dad, he takes time to share what’s been going on and the memories of the time they spent together over the last few months. Thank you for the love and support.

Dec 10, 202435 minEp. 31

The Best Advice You Need To Start Focusing On Yourself with Amanda Kloots

Welcome back you naughty pescatarians! This week Harry is joined by dancer, founder of Amanda Kloots Fitness, Broadway performer, The Talk cohost, New York Times Best Selling author, moderator of Live from The Other Side on Netflix and mom Amanda Kloots! Harry and Amanda first connected during Harry's appearance on Live from The Other Side with Tyler Henry, so they dive right in to discuss Harry’s episode, spirituality, and Amanda’s advice for skeptics looking to tap into spirituality. They also...

Nov 19, 202459 minEp. 30

How Much Do Men Really Know About Women?

Welcome back, you sexy naughty possums! This episode kicks off with a costume clash as Dom shows up in a killer Wednesday Addams outfit, while Harry… forgot his costume. The two dish on their run-ins at David Dobrik’s Halloween bash, including the infamous Montana Boys and kick things off with another round of Girl Trivia! The guys dive deep into the ultimate girl knowledge, from Nicholas Sparks movies to that iconic Nicholas Chavez edit—and even ponder if PMS really stands for "parking my space...

Nov 12, 202447 minEp. 29

Maksim Chmerkovskiy Has Moves, DWTS Tea to Spill & Lots of Vodka

Naughty chickens! This week, Harry is joined by entrepreneur, choreographer, husband, father, and star of a self-produced YouTube reality show with his gorgeous wife Peta, Maksim Chmerkovskiy! Maks and Harry get into some juicy topics: why he dislikes the DWTS judging process, his pick for the all-time worst dance partner, his buzzy remarks about Anna Delvey, and his hot take on whether DWTS is just a popularity contest. We also dive into what’s changed on the show over the years—both for better...

Nov 04, 202459 minEp. 28

Scream-Worthy Dating Horror Stories: A Spooky Special

OoOoOoOoOoh... it's another spOoOooky episode of Boyfriend Material! Dust off your cobwebs and sharpen your fangs because this week, Harry is diving into your dating HORROR stories. Will Jenny finally solve her head lice dilemma? Can Morgan’s ex put down the double rum and Cokes for good? And will Elizabeth’s date ever get help for his anger management issues? Tune in for all of these stories... and more. But first, back by popular demand, Harry kicks things off with another hilarious round of G...

Oct 29, 202441 minEp. 27

DMs, Drama, & Dating: My Social Media Survival Guide

Gather 'round little chickens... today Harry is breaking down his rules for dating in the age of social media! Harry gives his hot takes on everything from the early stages of dating like how to slide into someone's DMs or his rule on playing "the game" to the more serious stages of dating. What are his rules on location sharing or handling conflict in a relationship? Is it ever OKAY to respond to a cold DM when you're in a relationship? Tune in to hear Harry's take and let us know: do you agree...

Oct 22, 202447 minEp. 26

Gleb Savchenko Addresses The DWTS Dating Buzz: "She’s just perfect!”

A new naughty possum has entered the dancefloor... it’s Chippendales shirtless superstar, Dancing with the Stars Pro, actor, father and friend Gleb Savchenko! Gleb joins Harry to discuss it all: landing a role in a new movie, how DWTS has evolved over the years, and how he gets in the right headspace to perform even on tougher days.Gleb shares his experience on this season of DWTS, including his prediction for the winner, how it‘s been working with his partner Brooks... and his favorite thing ab...

Oct 15, 202449 minEp. 25

Chloe Veitch is BACK: Lessons in Love, Life, & Beans on Toast

Our favorite cheeky possum, Chloe Veitch, is back on the pod—and she's seriously missing her beans on toast! Chloe returns to catch us up on all the latest: from winning big at the high roller tables in Vegas to attending Dancing With The Stars in a beach dress and sandals, plus her days as a bottle service girl in the UK. She even weighs in on the age-old question: "Is the best way to get over someone to get under someone?" Harry and Chloe play a silly game of UK vs LA, Chloe shares her distast...

Oct 08, 202446 minEp. 24

Seb Melrose Addresses the Rumors: Kayla, Micah, & His Public Breakup

Welcome back, you naughty chickens! This week, I am joined by content creator, racing driver, and entrepreneur Sebastian Melrose. You might know him from Too Hot To Handle, where he famously found love with Kayla. Seb recently found himself in an overnight scandal when he attended New York Fashion Week - riddled with rumors of cheating, misheard voiceovers, text screenshots and the relentless court of public opinion. Today, he sits down with Harry to share the story through his lens, facing the ...

Oct 01, 202452 minEp. 23

We Partied With Paris Hilton, Dom Has New Music, and Playing Girl Trivia

Welcome back, you naughty chickens! This week, Harry and Dom recap their weekend (including meeting the one and only Paris Hilton), celebrate Dom’s new music release, and tackle your burning dating questions! Harry kicks off the episode with his take on the DWTS season premiere and spills whether he could ever date someone as famous as Paris. Then, the two go head to head for a brand new segment: Girl Trivia! Do Harry and Dom have what it takes to ace these girl-coded questions? Finally, they di...

Sep 24, 202442 minEp. 22

My Biggest Brand Deal Ever?! How Much Money I Make, Splurging, & All Of Your Other Money Questions

Hello, you naughty chickens! Buckle up because this week, Harry's diving headfirst into the hot seat! Ever wondered how much influencers really make, what Harry splurges on, or how much he spends on food delivery each month? Or which reality TV show offered him the biggest check? Harry's dishing all the uncomfortable truths on money, career, and finances—and answering the questions you've always been curious about! He reveals what big purchase he's saving up for, his long-term career goals, and ...

Sep 17, 202455 minEp. 21

Alyson Hannigan Reveals Her #1 Hidden Theory About Me

(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) This week Harry is joined by actress, mom, friend, and newfound dancer Alyson Hannigan! You know Alyson from her impressive resume: Buffy The Vampire Slayer, How I Met Your Mother, American Pie and more - but today, she sits down to dig deeper. How does she feel about her most notable film and TV credits? What's the secret to her 20+ year marriage? And which celebrity denied Alyson's offer to pay for their lunch?Harry and Alyson discuss it all, incl...

Sep 10, 20241 hr 5 minEp. 20

Colton Underwood Helps Me Become The Bachelor

(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) Naughty little possums, it’s time to answer the question we’ve all been wondering: Is Harry ready to become the next Bachelor?! In this episode of ‘Boyfriend Material,’ Harry is joined by former Bachelor Colton Underwood to answer that question and more. They also discuss Colton’s journey to “Daddyhood,” Harry’s IVF origin story, and their shared reality TV experience. Finally, Harry and Colton put their minds together and advise you on your pressin...

Sep 03, 202450 minEp. 19