Hey guys, Bobby here. This is not a Bobby cast obviously, but last week we debuted new content that was called mid Days with Morgan and saw a pretty good response, which is pretty cool. So I think people are liking it. But it's Morgan Number one, who used to be on the radio show but now she works with me in a different capacity. But she just does this segment on Instagram. We thought it was funny and interesting, and so here
she is. It was the set. We just saved a bunch of it initially and we didn't load it all up in the first time. I don't know if we'll do another one or not. You can let me know if you like it. But it's her talking about life, social media, dating and everything in between. You can follow Morgan on Instagram and actually watch them for yourself at Morgan mass and Gil or I follow her. You can find her over there or find the link in the episode notes. But here you go one more, maybe the last,
maybe not. Who knows. It's mid Days with Morgan. So today I want to take a little box you down memory lane and talk about some full circle moments that I've had in my career, like I've heard up in a very small town called Mile in Tennessee. If you had told me when I was is a freshman in high school that I would have gotten to do and meet all the people don't do the people do things and meet people that I've met, I wouldn't have believed it. I just wouldn't have been able to wrap my little
people in around it, you know. Um, But one story I want to share, uh, was for my I think I was a freshman in high school. So grew up in Milan and the neighboring city was Jackson. It was a little bit bigger, and Dirt Spentley was coming to play a show at the Jackson Civic Center. And I was lucky enough that my uncle Andy worked at the Jackson Civic Center and he lent me and my sister into the show early, so we were able to get into the very front front row of this Dirt Spentley show.
And being thirteen year old made with my lip bumper and my graphic roo and just you know it, not a cute kid be in front row and just like absolutely drooling over Dirt Spentley. It's funny to think about he comes out, things come a little closer. I'm like come a little low, but you know, like just not anyway. But it was a core memory for me. I will never forget it. And Luke Bryan was opening for him on this tour, so this is I think it was one of Luke's very first tours. It was he he
was singing. I remember him doing country Man and all those songs that are now huge hits, but before they were huge like they are now crazy. But we're in the front row of this show. I remember grabbing Luke's hand. I remember, I mean, just a really good freaking show. Fast forward all these years later, and I have since been able to meet both Dirk's and Luke on numerous occasions, but one that stuff into my memory was a day that Dirk's was coming into the Morning show to do
some sort of segment. I think he was surprising Amy with something for a birthday. I could be wrong, but he pulled into the garage and his kids were with him, and when I was helping him in side, I remember him just making small talk with me and call me by my name, like saying Morgan at one point, and I remember just in my mind, can you set back and going who would have fought like who would have thought that little lip bump for big gas tooth Morgan would be here right now in front of Dirt's and
he's he knows my name. That may sound silly, but it's just one of those moments for me that I was like, Wow. And I've had some similar things with Luke of like I had to interview him once. I'll see if I can find a picture and share it
my story. But I had to interview him once at i Heeart Country Festival, and it was another one of those moments where I was just like I literally was holding your hand trying to pull you up my thirteen year old house was story I'll pull you on stage at the Jagon Civic Center and now I'm standing here talking to you one on one. What in the world? So anyway, life is weird, y'all. And if you think something is implausible and very well could be possible, that's
the moral of the story is. I am very grateful for the blessings that the Lord has bestowed on me because I just couldn't never envision this life for myself. Yeah, a little strolled on memory Lane. I hope you enjoyed it. After yesterday's mid Day's where I gave advice. I got a d M from another girul and I really want to talk about it. I have so much to say, but this is what she sent me. She said, Morgan, I've been dating this guy for three months and could
really use your advice. When I asked what we are, he said he wants to take things slow. His last relationship didn't end well, and he's not ready to put a label on what we are just yet. How long should I give him to let his feelings catch up to mine. Okay, I'm making some assumptions here, but I'm assuming that you guys have a physical relationship, and I think that that was a mistake if you do. What I mean by that is, I don't think that this guy is struggling to decide if he wants a day
you're not. I think he knows that he doesn't, and I think he's getting some sort of need met from you and wants to keep it to what it is, because three months is not five minutes. If you've been consistently seeing someone for three months and they can't determine if they want to be in a relationship with you or not by that point, up they don't. And I know that that's a hard truth to hear, but I would walk. If I were you, I wouldn't give him one more second of time to let his feelings catch
up two yours. I would walk. I'm also curious of how it started, Like did this guy's tell you the very beginning that he had just gotten out of bad relationship and really wasn't looking for anything serious, and then you, well, maybe I could change his mind, because if that's the case, that was also a mistake. When a guy is up front and says he's not looking for anything, take that for what it is. You don't think, Oh, I'm gonna be even one to just be the exception to that rule,
Like I'm gonna make him fall for me. No, you're not. Um, you're not. He isn't in a place where he wants to be in a relationship if he's saying those things and what he's wanting is casual hookup And maybe that's where you guys haven't landed and you're not liking it. Um. I personally, Man, I'm gonna really out myself here, but I personally don't have sleepovers with guys that we haven't
clearly defined what's going on. Meaning I find it extremely important and I'm probably gonna sound really old school and prudish right now. Um, I've had it extremely important to build the emotional relationship first. Physical is important, for sure, but it a guy needs a chase. Oh my god, I feel like I'm gonna get somebody, you know, because I'm so old school. But a guy needs a chase,
he truly does. And if you're making it so easy to get to that physical place with you, I think guys, just even if it's subconscious, I think that guys just put you one you in a different category. At that point of there's there's wicky material and then there's took up material in a guy's mind, and you might disagree, you might disagree, and that's probably fun. This is how
I see it. And once you cross that line of oh, like, I'm just on the second day, like we how to sleep over, Like I think it's hard to other feelings catch up. It's always so much better for me personally when I know a guy is just like truly he likes me for me, and he's wanting to define it, say we're in a relationship, and then the good physical
stuff comes later. I don't know. I just think you've you've most likely mess this one up, and if you're wanting a relationship, you need to move like someone who is wanting a relationship. If you're showing up being like you just can't hook up. Culture is so rough, and I get it, Like, if you want to just be hooking up, go do that, more power to you. But if you're wanting a relationship, you have to move like
you're wanting a relationship. I have definitely been on dates with guys, and that's what I'm saying, like this weeds out the ones that just want to hook up. I've definitely dated guys who were not into waiting around for the physical stuff, and it was no sweat off my back, like Okay, we're not gonna be a match, move on. So I think you just have to understand your worth, your value, and have some pretty pretty define mind boundaries
about around the physical stuff. Yeah, I think that you just if you it's three months in, you've been seeing this guy, You've been giving him the girlfriend package with the uh we're not anything um subscription Like, it's just I don't know that there's any salvaging it. I think that you walk and if he realizes that, oh my god, like she's not just gonna be here to fulfill my every women need. I'm gonna have to really step up,
then great. But if not, he wasn't your person. And if you're not, if it isn't life or death, If he wants to be in a relationship and you just are cool, carrying all the way, you are cool. But if not, if you want to be something more and he's not there, he would have been here by now. Like I'm just saying, take it for what it is. He's not your person if he's not caught up the ship. And guys will use a past relationship, I mean they
will run that stuff into the ground. And if it doesn't matter, if a guy's had his heart broken before, he's gonna know when he's gonna know if you're someone he wants to be with and sister, the second that you walk away from this man, you're gonna know because if he comes running back of oh, like, I don't want to lose you, okay, but I don't think he's going to sadly, and I hope, I hope I'm not being too blunt. If you want a relationship, you gotta
move like you want a relationship in life. You can't settle for for these guys that just want to hook up and get give them that piece of it. And your emotions are getting all tied up in the mix, and there's aren't like that's not benefiting your sister. Walk that would be my advice. Walk and see what happens. I think I know what's gonna happen, but walk and see what happens.