203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United Team
Episode description
In this episode, we’re delving into a common challenge for blended family couples: decision-making and problem-solving. Whether managing kids’ expectations, negotiating with an ex, or facing the pain of being a “trapped teammate” or “stranded stranger,” disagreement and differing perspectives can create tension and keep you stuck.
We’ve been there ourselves, and we share relatable stories, including a meltdown at the mall over a swimsuit and how it almost derailed our unity. Plus, we unpack practical strategies that have been game-changers for us and the couples we coach.
We believe every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making and problem-solving that helps them stay united and avoid confusion, pain, and disconnection. Grab a coffee, sit back, and let’s tackle this together.
You'll Discover
- How to avoid falling into the "trapped teammate" or "stranded stranger" dynamic.
- Three key “DON’TS” that will safeguard your relationship from unnecessary conflict.
- A powerful brainstorming hack to make decisions and solve problems as a united team.
- How to manage decision-making pressures from kids and ex-spouses.
- Practical tips to stay connected and strengthen teamwork in tough moments.
Resources from this Episode
- Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal]
- Episode 21: What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience
- Episode 22: One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped
- Episode 23: How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being Connected
- Episode 24: What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure?
- Episode 95: Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with your Ex - Try These 5 Practical Tips
- Episode 13: How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended Family
- Episode 83: 4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended Family
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