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Bitterfly

Emily Altobellirss.com

Bitterfly with Emily Altobelli explores various lifestyles, personalities, taboos, relationships & sex in our crazy-ass world. Knowledge is food, bitches! Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

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Episodes

Confessions of a Hairapist

This week Emily interviews her friend Randell about his craft and life but most importantly, the tea he hears from being a cosmetologist. It's juicy guys.Randell spills the lives of his clients via a character named Anastasia Steele, a worldly woman with a crazy life - including adult babies and losing toes. Emily reveals her own story at the end, which has become a part of Anastasia's life. You can follow along with Emily @thebitterflypodcast and Randell on TikTok @Rawdelll

Jun 12, 202358 minSeason 2Ep. 37

Too Young to be Child-Free

This week Emily and Cory Ehrlicher breakdown how they came to the decision to be child-free, our natalist culture, and the overall joys of sterility. Check out this episode for first-hand accounts of Cory's vasectomy (29:47) and Emily's bilateral salpingectomy (she got her fallopian tubes removed! 38:03). Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast

Apr 06, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 2Ep. 36

NEEFF! Artist & Energy Reader

This episode of Bitterfly features LEWIS NEEFF (@im.neeff) a traveling artist, energy reader, and creator of the Mercury Oracle, a divination tarot-like card system. NEEFF gives Emily a card reading. They discuss Tinder, the soul's journey, and the dead. He describes some of his energy work, experiences with spirits, and shares how you can connect with your ancestors or pets who have passed away. Book your own reading with NEEFF via DM or pre-order a Mercury Oracle to find your own way! -@im.nee...

Aug 04, 20221 hrSeason 2Ep. 35

Neurodivergent

This week, Dreu Lambarena shares her personal experience of being neurodivergent in a neurotypical world. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast

Jun 29, 202249 minSeason 2Ep. 34

My Body, My Choice

Introducing a documentary podcast about 7 women's abortion stories. This episode is dedicated to all uterus-owners [past+present+future]. There are two methods of abortion - both discussed within the episode: Pill and surgical. Medication abortion (also known as the pill) consists of using two different medicines, staggered over-time, to end a pregnancy. In-clinic, surgical abortion is a procedure which uses suction to empty the uterus. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast...

May 06, 20221 hr 15 minSeason 2Ep. 33

Heal the Soil

Ryan Averhart (@thisisryanphilip) shares his life on the Maui Bees Farm in Maui, HI and Regenerative Agriculture. We discuss how important healthy soil is to our health. Ryan gives us a Breath of Fire tutorial and Grounding Earth Meditation (1:00:50). We refer to the Netflix documentary Kiss The Ground throughout this episode. Check out the Maui Bees Farm (@mauibeeshoney) on www.mauibees.com Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast

Aug 22, 20211 hr 15 minSeason 1Ep. 31

1 YEAR OF BITTERFLY

Emily's solo to reflect on 1 YEAR OF BITTERFLY. @thebitterflypodcast/@thebitterflypod

Jul 25, 202133 minSeason 1Ep. 30

29 Covid-Cuffed II

Oscar & René share their Hinge date gone extra-long, after a quarantine. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast

Jul 18, 202136 minSeason 1Ep. 29

28 Covid-Cuffed I

Oscar & René share their Hinge date gone extra long. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast

Jul 10, 202131 minSeason 1Ep. 28

27 Pride & Rainbow Washing

June is Pride month! This week Devo and Emily discuss the history of Pride in America, rainbow washing, and how to be a better ally. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast

Jun 19, 202142 minSeason 1Ep. 27

26 Crypto for Dummies

Bryan Langdahl & Adam Johnson join Bitterfly this week to discuss money - Our current banking system, the vision of Peer to Peer online payment systems, the security of blockchain ledgers and what it is to mine cryptocurrencies. Resources we mention: Neha Narula's Ted Talk: The Future of Money - https://www.ted.com/talks/neha_narula_the_future_of_money/up-next?language=en Bitcoin Whitepapers - https://whitepaper.io/coin/bitcoin...

Jun 01, 20211 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 26

25 Fast Friends

Emily meets her TikTok friend Randell Love (@rawdelll) for the first time. They ask each other random questions from the list of 60 Questions to "Fall in Love" Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

May 19, 20211 hr 20 minSeason 1Ep. 25

24 Abyss of Adulthood

Reggie C is back on Bitterfly to discuss the age of the side-hustle, why all of us should have gotten marketing degrees, and fame. Emily talks about how she got banned from Tinder. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

May 14, 202158 minSeason 1Ep. 24

23 Your First Time

Bitterfly's first docucast features 14 virginity stories. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

May 13, 20211 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 23

Trailer: Bitterfly

Bitterfly with Emily Altobelli explores various lifestyles, personalities, taboos, relationships & sex in our crazy-ass world. Knowledge is food, bitches! Eat up. Stay curious, question archaic notions, and leave the world a better place than you found it 🌼 Follow along with Emily: Email - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

May 07, 202149 sec

22 Beyond the Bucketlist

Geena Truman (@beyond _ the_bucketlist) is a freelance Travel Writer and Van Lifer - she strives to help people understand a destination beyond the tourist attractions. We discuss the value of immersive travel and some of her experiences. We delve into the Instagram vs. Reality of living in a van with her fiance: how to start, the environmental impact, and the compassion that comes from having a taste of homelessness. Geena's immersive budget travel guides and van tips can be found on her websit...

Apr 18, 20211 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 22

21 Sexual Healing

Tugce Balik (@tugcebalik) is an Intimacy & Sex Coach and PhD candidate for Holistic Psych & Sexology. We discuss "the work" involved in sexual healing. Tugce gives us a list of relationship green flags to look for and ideas to spice up your sex. The books we discuss: Attached by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller & How The Body Keeps Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, MD. Check out the Kama App - it's like Headspace for sexual wellness. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypod...

Apr 07, 202159 minSeason 1Ep. 21

20 Risky Business

We discuss the evolution of Steve's business model, the emotional implications of providing people with their vices, and the unique perspective he gained on humanity. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Mar 22, 202159 minSeason 1Ep. 20

19 Wild Wild TikTok

Reid Bervik (@reidbervik) is a TikToker (@reiderrrr), mental health coach, writer, podcaster. Find out about his compartmentalized online personalities and the nuances of TikTok. Reid's podcast, Recess is available at reidbervik.com Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Feb 20, 20211 hrSeason 1Ep. 19

18 Water Boy

Mike Healy (@spike.healy) is a scuba instructor and health nut. We talk about diving, ocean/earth conservation, and multi-level marketing. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Feb 13, 20211 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 18

17 Audio Engineer Music Fairy

Courtney Layacan (@courtneylayacan) is a Radio Audio Engineer, Producer & Musician. We touch on opportunities for women, pandemic dating/ghosting, break-ups, and how drugs can enhance the creative experience. Court gives us a special musical performance at the end. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Jan 22, 20211 hr 51 minSeason 1Ep. 17

16 Moods

*Trigger Warning * This week, Yvette shares her history of mental health through behavior and diagnosis, with information she learned and decisions she made along the way. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Dec 31, 202047 minSeason 1Ep. 16

15 Sex Ed & Wellness

Taylor Stafford (@iamtaylorstafford) founder of Women Against Taboo and host of the podcast Talk Taboo discusses her interest in sexual education, wellness, and destigmatization of sexual taboos. If you or someone you know is struggling with sexual trauma, go to Harborview Abuse & Trauma Center's website or you can call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast...

Dec 18, 20201 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 15

14 Activist Scientist

Gail Stonebarger (@gailstone) discusses her Alzheimer's research on primates and perspective on sexism/racism in science as a queer activist. We also touch on Covid-19 antibody tests and mutual aid in our communities. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Dec 11, 20201 hr 25 minSeason 1Ep. 14

13 LA Writer

Matt McDonald (@stl.matt) describes his start in the film industry as a Director's Assistant before becoming a self-employed Screen Writer. Follow along with Emily: @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Dec 04, 202041 minSeason 1Ep. 13

11 Evolving

Reggie C (@comedyregg) brings his comedic commentary on adulthood, toxic masculinity, feminism, and growing up religious in suburbia. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Nov 14, 202052 minSeason 1Ep. 11

10 Codependency

Emily and Aren Cederlind discuss codependency, internal + external boundaries, and introspective psychological work at large. Why is codependency romanticized in pop culture? Find out how you can utilize your own boundaries to create better relationships. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Nov 05, 202047 minSeason 1Ep. 10

09 Vibing

This week, Emily and her soul sista Melissa Thompson (@cupofmelissa) talk female masturbation, sexual education, and porn. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Oct 30, 202050 minSeason 1Ep. 9

08 Making Lemonade

Emily's solo this week to make lemonade and discuss a recent and traumatic-ass experience on her way to Goodwill. Follow along with Emily: Instagram - @thebitterflypodcast Twitter - @thebitterflypod TikTok - @thebitterflypodcast YouTube - The Bitterfly Podcast

Oct 20, 202018 minSeason 1Ep. 8

07 Birth·ed

Maggie Altobelli is back by popular demand to discuss her birthing experience. We left off in the "02 Birth" episode wondering how she was going to remove her parasite and my niece, Leia from the womb. Lately Maggie's been doing all the fun shit - literally, shit! Getting pooped on, changing diapers, breastfeeding and not sleeping through the night. She also got engaged! Listen to the story of why Emily got ordained and her reaction to finding out Maggie was expecting. Follow along with Emily: I...

Oct 14, 202051 minSeason 1Ep. 7
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