Tia Lynn is a sex and intimacy coach, Tedx speaker and host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast originally from Utah where as you can imagine, the Mormons (which she was not one of) taught her nothing about sexuality but a whole lot about judgement. Some things we said... "Pole dancing gives permission for others to explore their desires and sensuality." "Transitioning into sex coaching happened naturally based on client feedback and impact." "When you upgrade and when you progress past that, that make...
Jun 26, 2024•51 min•Season 2Ep. 54
Nnamdi Ngwe is an actor, comedian and writer for The Amber Ruffin Show and Tab Time originally from London where his initial sex education was just the bad kids used to try to get the younger kids to kiss. Then he got a little older and realized how unhinged that was! Some things we said... "I would, as long as it's like, my feelings wouldn't be hurt if it's like, don't do that. Continue on. Yeah. Here's some guidance. Here's some notes. Let's keep going." "You think that I'm not in control, you...
Jun 19, 2024•53 min•Season 2Ep. 53
Teresa Lo is an award winning writer and comedian originally from Coffeeville Kansas where nearly 40% of her high school class had a baby before graduation… which is another reason why accurate sex education is so important! Some things we said... "Comedy and the sex world is the only place that accepts freaks and lets us thrive." "If I really wanted it, I could have done it." "How bad do you want something? What are you willing to sacrifice?" "People, not all people, but many people are very di...
Jun 12, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 52
Layla Paul is a strategic brand consultant for kinky brands originally from Chicago where her lack of sex education lead her to put her own child through the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program. What a badass move. Some things we said... "If it can do double duty, I'm all about that" "You have this one product that's made for XYZ, but how can you use it in a different way?" "Partnerships with deep, visceral connections and loyalty last regardless of monogamy or non-monogamy." "The primal aspects of at...
Jun 05, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 51
Andrew Orolfo is a stand up comedian, host of the meter gameshow and one of Just For Laughs New Faces of 2022 originally from Oakland, CA where they pretty much just watched a video from the 80s with dude stuff. Some things we said... "Sometimes you get close to death and then you come, you know what I mean?" "We're so often rushing with ourselves, especially men and people with penises." "Creating space for pleasure and exploration can enhance sexual experiences." "There's so much more. There's...
May 29, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 50
Nicoletta Heidegger is a therapist, sexologist, equine assisted psychotherapist, educator and host of the podcast ‘Sluts and Scholars’ originally from the porn capital of the world (aka the San Fernando Valley) where thankfully she grew up in a sex positive home that lead to being the sexy powerhouse that she is today! Some things we said... “We all have the capacity to be woo girls” "The San Fernando Valley: From Porn Capital to Podcast" “So like a pole at the park, like a bed post, a lamp post...
May 22, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 49
Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty. Some things we said... "Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going." "Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene." "How can we get more creative in bed?" "I loved doing...that's how I sort of transitioned from history teaching into sexual we...
May 15, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 48
Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode! Some things we said... "We're Jews. We have our own traumas." "The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class citizen." "Relenting is not consenting. Just remember that. If you learn anything today, learn that rel...
May 08, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 47
Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA’s top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero. In this episode we talk about: 02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship 05:55 Open Communication and Supportive Parenting 09:16 The Role of Parents in Sex Education 13:24 The Power of ...
May 01, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 46
Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods! In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much more! You can find Miss Spent Youth on Instagram at @ms.spentyouth and her website, https://www.losang...
Apr 24, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 45
Amanda G. Savage is a comedian, host and creator of the show G. Savage Talks originally from the great soft pretzel state of Pennsylvania where she did an anti-abstinence only presentation and we Stan. Also, happy 420 ya'll! This episode was unofficially sponsored by Bloom , their vapes are so tasty and smooth. If you're into it, I highly (!!) recommend this brand. In this episode we talk about: The great G Savage Yelling at men on stage Boobs! Imagine having a different pair every day?! Respect...
Apr 17, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 44
ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you’re losing your virginity! In this episode we talk about: 03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!! 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors! 25:31 First Sexual Experiences 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women 29:18 Cre...
Apr 10, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 43
Dr. Nazanin Moali is a Clinical Psychologist, Sex Therapist and Host of the Sexology podcast originally from Iran where sex education was TRULY non-existent. In this episode we talk about: 00:00 The Importance of Different Perspectives 03:09 The Role of Communication in Relationships 07:15 The Impact of Nonverbal Communication 10:06 Changing Attitudes Towards Therapy and Mental Health 12:04 The Influence of Trauma on Sexual Health 15:47 Lack of Comprehensive Sex Education 26:41 Transitioning to ...
Apr 03, 2024•59 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Christine Medrano is a comedian, actress and writer originally from Winnipeg Manitoba, Canada where she went to Catholic school and watched an abortion video at age 14, and that was pretty much it! In this episode we talk about: 03:21 Christine was in a Sex Ed Video! 04:16 We have a pitch… the office, but it’s an STI clinic! 06:29 Misconceptions about Anal Play and Sexuality 10:03 There wasn’t any sex ed at her Catholic school, but there WAS an abortion video! 11:27 Lack of Knowledge about Tampo...
Mar 27, 2024•59 min•Season 2Ep. 41
This week we’re mixing things up because Rena Martine (Women’s Intimacy Coach, Author and Ep. 25 guest ) and I had the opportunity to park up at the Hollywood Burlesque Festival Bazaar and speak to some of incredible performers from the weekend. In this episode we’re talking to: @boogerboobs an Aussie based in Los Angeles Tito Bonito, the @cubabmissilecrisis of burlesque @Sydvici0uz the east coast showgirl gone west coast @tout.dlou the traveling circus showgirl @themissmarquez the green goddess...
Mar 20, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 40
Michael Hollice is the Founder and Creative Director of The Play LA (that’s a sex party) originally from Los Angeles where his class watched the birthing video forwards and backwards… literally. That baby got sucked right back up! In this episode we talk about: 00:46 The Play LA and Prioritizing Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry 04:04 Arielle’s Magical Experience at The Play LA 06:19 Sex as a Collaboration 13:18 The Importance of Eye Gazing and Dropping In 15:07 Sexual and Creative Freedom...
Mar 13, 2024•1 hr 31 min•Season 2Ep. 39
Morgan Jay is a musician and comedian originally from Mahwah, New Jersey where he was taught that women would derail and distract him! In this episode we talk about: 04:11 Creating a Sexy and Fun Show 05:46 Transitioning from Stand-up to Music 07:33 The Evolution of Comedy Clubs 12:02 Understanding Different Sexual Preferences 16:20 The Importance of Consent and Aftercare 20:02 Exploring Sexual Wellness and Pleasure Products 25:23 The Accessibility and Variety of Pornography 31:05 The Impact of ...
Mar 06, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 38
Sarah Tomchesson is a sex educator, fed-up feminist, queer mom and co-host of the Fck Yeah! Podcast originally from a little all over but who had her first sex ed class in Los Angeles where they were interrupted by an earthquake! In this episode we talk about: 02:02 SIECUS and Sex Education Advocacy 05:21 The Importance of Policy Change 10:17 The Fear of Talking About Sex 11:15 Unpacking Shame and Ego 15:07 Sarah’s Experiences with Sex Education 19:46 Supporting Parents in Sex Education 22:07 Th...
Feb 28, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 37
Tyomi Morgan is a Sexologist, Intimacy Coordinator and creator of The Cowgirl Workout originally from Chicago where they went on a class trip to learn about sex! In this episode we talk about: 03:04 Intimacy Coordinating, obviously! 14:43 The one thing you MUST know as an Intimacy Coordinator 23:00 When Sex Ed is a class trip… 29:29 Impact of Sex Education on Personal Exploration 38:08 Virginity is a hoax 45:03 The importance of authenticity and Communication in Relationships 46:28 The art of Le...
Feb 21, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 36
Allison Goldberg is a comedian and creator known for her dating show, Love Isn’t Blind originally from Baltimore where they scribbled some stuff on an overhead projector and called it a day! In this episode we talk about: 01:25 Allison actually knows about the birds and bees! 02:07 Love Isn't Blind - The Dating Show where men aren’t allowed to talk! 04:47 Pole Dancing and Rock Climbing 06:29 Intimacy Coordination and Other Jobs 09:41 Creating a Community 13:21 Being Organized and Having Tools 16...
Feb 14, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 35
Christina Calph is an actress, comedian and creator of Comedy Pole Show and The Last Improv Show originally from a small town outside of Buffalo, NY where they were taught demons were going to take over their bodies! Yay! In this episode we talk about: 01:09 Talking about Rain in LA, because it’s law 02:24 Growing Up in New York 03:37 Comedy Pole Show and the best comedians and pole dancers in LA 15:18 Sex Education in Catholic School 32:26 What even is virginity?! 43:09 Discovering the Power of...
Feb 07, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 34
Jean Franzblau is an Intimacy Coordinator, Writer, Performer and Creator of the Cuddle Sanctuary originally from Hollywood Florida where her mother didn’t know she was kinky! In this episode we talk about: 01:11 Different Roles in the Sex Industry 03:03 The Physiology of Orgasm 04:00 The Impact of Shame on Pleasure 05:23 Creating Authentic Intimacy in Film 08:13 The Complexity of Faking Orgasms 10:32 The Fascinating Anatomy of the Clitoris 12:51 The Grit and Strength of Pole Dancing 15:22 The Di...
Jan 31, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 33
Demi Wilde is an author, educator and content creator originally from Visalia, California where he had to GTFO as fas as he could! In this episode we talk about: 02:57 The Commodification of Connection 10:23 Demi’s journey into Sex Education 17:02 Growing Up Religious 21:13 Those First Wet Dreams 25:33 Poetry as Therapy 31:35 Demi Dishes the Dirt on Sh*tty Dating Trends 38:04 A Hookup Horror Story (obviously) 45:13 Reflections of a Bad Date 46:37 The Gift of Rejection 48:03 Finding Love on Grind...
Jan 24, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 32
Jil Chrissie is a comedian, writer and host originally from Denver Colorado where she was not quite sure if she should be looking at a lady’s vagina with a baby’s head in it in the third grade (sound familiar?). In this episode we talk about: 00:50 Pretty Privilege is a thing 02:08 The Misconceptions Around Virginity and Hymens 06:01 The Trauma of Early Sex Education 07:44 The Terrifying Reality of Childbirth 15:05 The Importance of Women's Sexual Pleasure 16:27 The Need for Sexual Exploration a...
Jan 17, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 31
Anne Holder-Shipp is an award winning Sex & Relationships Educator and Author of ’18 Modern Love Languages’ originally from Wolfurrow, New Hampshire where they learned more about sex exploring the library’s card catalog then they ever did in a classroom! In this episode we talk about: 01:34 Pandemic Era Transition to Online Teaching 11:11 The Balance Of Fair Compensation and Accessibility For In-Person Classes 14:11 Marketing and Censorship Challenges 18:22 The Reality of Sex Education Work ...
Jan 10, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 30
Ify Nwadiwe is a Comedian, Actor, Writer and Thot Dad originally from Los Angeles, CA where his Catholic School taught him religion instead of health and his public School made him sign up for sex ed as an elective as if learning about your body was the same thing as learning photography or Roman history. In this episode we talk about: 04:31 LA vs. New York 14:42 Sex Education in School 18:05 ADHD and Mental Health 21:38 Therapy and Sexuality 28:54 Successful Non-Monogamy 45:13 Trampling Over Bo...
Dec 20, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 29
Joy Wolfe is a Writer, Director and Spiritual Comedian originally from Hollywood, CA and Albuquerque, New Mexico where they had a rotating door of teachers for the kids to torture with bad jokes instead of learning every week. In this episode we talk about: 01:42 Journey with Sex and Astrology 03:08 The Importance of Boundaries in Sex 06:16 Misconceptions about BDSM 07:01 The Influence of Religion on Sexuality 08:23 The Power of Words and Spells 16:16 The Myth of Virginity and Hymens 25:38 The C...
Dec 13, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 28
Wendy Perkins is an Orgasm and Neuro Pleasure Coach originally from North Hollywood, CA where she was simply told not to have sex because you will get a disease and die… yikes! In this episode we talk about: 01:11 Becoming an Orgasm and Neuro Pleasure Coach 03:06 The Role of the Nervous System in Sexual Experiences 13:20 The Need for Self-Regulation Skills 14:45 The Impact of Shame and Guilt on sex and pleasure 26:00 Navigating Boundaries in Coaching and Therapy 35:16 Balancing Stress and Pleasu...
Dec 06, 2023•58 min•Season 1Ep. 27
Michele is the CEO and Co-Founder Squirtopia, originally from San Diego, CA where going Catholic School meant that Jesus was her homie who she didn’t want to disappoint. In this episode we talk about: A warning, we are two excited Leos. This conversation is passionate! How she and her co-founder / husband wound up living in Amsterdam An orgasm and a business idea…. Witches & Sex magic! Dismantling beliefs about ourselves and our partners How women and people with vulvas explore when we’re yo...
Nov 29, 2023•55 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Rena Martine is a Women’s Intimacy Coach, Speaker and Author originally from LA where she learned more about sex from breaking into her dad’s secret cabinet then she ever did in a classroom. In this episode we talk about: The adventure that exists within a container of boundaries vs. the overwhelm that exists with no boundaries The power of planning for sex Arousal for people with vulvas Learning about sex through her dad’s porn collection What your preferred porn says about you Her transition f...
Nov 15, 2023•55 min•Season 1Ep. 25
