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7-13-23 Willie with Haley McNamara

Jul 13, 202318 min
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Willie discusses the new movie Sound of Silence with Haley McNamara, and discusses human trafficking.

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And it's about the one of the most horrible things happening in the world today is the sexual exploitation of children. May the darkest, deepest recesses of hell be reserved for those in that particular line of work. And I think so much of that is happening now because of cross border crossings of children. Many times the person being exploited must pay with body or with labor in some sense

or another, and it is disgusting. And I had thought that ninety nine point nine nine percent of us understand this, But there's a little bit of a pushback happening about maybe this is not real, maybe it's a conspiracy theory, God knows what. But to Haley McNamara is the vice president of the National Center Sexual Exploitation. They've been doing this work for about the last sixty years. Hailey McNamara, welcome, I think for the first time to the

Bill Cunningham Show. And Haley, First of all, what impact has this movie head on the awareness of individuals that are being sexually exploited to the tune literally of millions around the world. But has this movie been an impetus or has it always been there? You know, this issue unfortunately has existed probably since the dawn of time. But it definitely is sparking interest and awareness,

which is always a really good thing. And I'm heartened by the number of people who are seeing this movie and then saying they want to learn more and they want to do something about it. Is the cross border situation, not just in America but really all over the world, especially in Europe and elsewhere. Is that an impetus for more children being sexually abused because of what's happening

on our southern border. Yes, unfortunately, you know, sex traffickers and abusers of any kind will always target a vulnerable population, and so we see that this happens, you know, internationally at border crossings, but it also happens domestically in America as well, often online grooming of children, and so yeah, so it definitely happens across borders, but it also happens even within

our own communities. Sometimes even children that go to school and sleep in their own beds at night and their parents don't realize that they're still being sexually exploited. It's in the suburbs. Can you explain, first of all, give us a definition of sex traffick and then I want to talk about in the suburbs. If you're in Austin, Texas, Cincinnati, Ohio's Chicago, it could be happening next door to and your next department, next house. But

what is sex trafficking? So, sex trafficking is any kind of commercialized sex act that's induced by force or fraud or coercion. People often think about force, maybe the movie Taken someone being kidnapped and held in chains. Unfortunately, that can happen and does happen. But one of the primary ways in America that sex trafficking is in force is through psychological coercion, whether with children or adults. This can be grooming, building a relationship, building trust, and

slowly escalating abuse until it gets to a point of sex trafficking. So yeah, So, like I said, unfortunately, this happens all across America, in small rural communities and in large cities as well. Very often it's online grooming on places like Instagram or even video games that are child centric like Roadblocks and other places, and so it's something that everyone definitely needs to be aware of and engaged on. Haley mc mary, Let's take us through a typical

circumstance all of them are outrageous. Let's say there's a mother and two little girls, or a mother and a boy and a girl making their way from El Salvador and they work through Mexico. How does the grooming, how does the process, How does the selling of those children begin? So all of sex trafficking, all of the money comes into this because of people who are willing to purchase someone for sex. So that's the market that the sex traffickers

are using. So they'll find someone for vulnerability. So in the case of a border, it's might be someone who's trying to cross and needs assistance and then they're told, you know that this is that by allowing people to buy purchase them is a way that they'll get save passage, or they might have a debt that is incurred and they're told this is a way to work off their debt, or you know, domestically, this might be a person who

believes that they're in a romantic relationship with the trafficker who says that, you know, by allowing someone to buy them is a way to make money for them to maybe run away or what have you. Of course, this is also such a big problem for homeless use as well, So there's always kind of an extortion based on a vulnerability. But I think it's really important that we recognize that it's the sex buyers who really are as a root cause of

all sex trafficking. You know, if people didn't buy sex, the sex trafficking would disappear overnight. And as far as the long term impact, if you're a seven, eight, nine, ten year old girl or a boy, it happens to both genders, and you find yourself trapped in this world, you look toward your mother or your father for protection and for guidance. And when that wall of trust is broken down because the mother or the father or the person you're with has said you go with that man over there and

do what he tells you to do, how does it? How does a child process that? How does a child look at that and say, a child doesn't even know I can get out of that. But what impact does that have on the child's life immediately? Yeah, the trauma is really I mean almost unmeasurable. So of course, you know, trust, the ability to trust is greatly damage. Of course, there's physical damage and trauma and

also psychological trauma. You know, severe mental health impacts have been noted in survivors of sex trafficking, you know, leading to struggling sometimes lifelong with depression or substance abuse issues as well, which is why you know, really donating to or supporting volunteering with exit services and recovery services, mental health programs for survivors is so key because yes, it's just an untold amount of trauma as we sit here now, do you have some number as the number of children

in the United States of America being sexually trafficked at this point? Are we talking thousands, hundreds of thousands or more. I would say at least hundreds of thousands. You know, the numbers on these things aren't really difficult because this is a crime that happens in the shadows, and most of sex trafficking doesn't get reported. You know, sometimes we think that every sex trafficking victim would identify themselves as such, but typically they are, you know, in

psychological chains and don't even recognize that they're being exploited while it's happening. So it's it's very difficult to get a strong number. But we do know that the majority, large percentage of youth online around a third or a fourth do experience some kind of sexual overtone from adults online, whether that's sexualized comment,

a direct message trying to initiate a relationship. Obviously, not all of those are onboarding to sex trafficking, but we do see that there's a large amount of grooming and potential abuse that contacting children online and for some that could escalate to sex trafficking. Is what we've seen in Sound of Freedom, the number one movie of this summer is that. Is that a real depiction of what

occurs. Yeah, Unfortunately, it's true that there are, you know, around the world, brothels and massage parlors and strip clubs where miners are sexually exploited. I would say that in America that does happen. Absolutely it does. But also, like I had said, a lot of it is facilitated online, and even recording of child sexual abuse being uploaded to mainstream pornography sites

and social media is a real epidemic right now. So I would say it looks somewhat different in scale on internationally versus domestically, but the issue is very much still the same and is really real. If you're a mother, a father, if you're an adult, many times are antennants are not up on this kind of an issue. I know airlines and flight attendants are watching for this kind of stuff, but this is happening in suburbs, It's happening next

door, It's happening constantly. What are some of the cues? Are the keys that someone who wants to help can actually observe and see definitely, So I would say do some research on the signs of sex trafficking. This could

look a lot of different ways depending on your context. And they're our national hotlines that you can report any suspected signs of sex trafficking too, but especially even for within your own community among children, especially if you see real changes in behavior, maybe a kid suddenly acting out, a kid who's maybe scared to go to sleep, or maybe regressing things like wedding the bed or there's a number of different signs you can look for in children that you know in

your own life, and even just crushing your own gut. If something seems off, it's good to ask questions and if there's a concern, to report it or contact additional supports to assess the situation. And it's a really important thing to do. It happens also I've done topics on this before, where a teenage boy or girl gets into a situation with a trafficker that does not know it's a trafficker. When that's going on and pictures are taken, are

shared, and then extortion takes place. So, if you live in a fine suberb community and you have a vulnerable child, a boy or a girl, explain the process of how traffickers get into the minds of children and then turn them for profit. Absolutely, So, unfortunately, you know, every child online is vulnerable to these things. I think people will often assume, even thinking of their own family as well, my child comes from a stable and loving family, they will be fine. This is an issue for other

people. But unfortunately, with the Internet, every child is vulnerable. So and a predator might reach out initiate a relationship. They might even be known to the victim, or claim to go to their school, claim to be a friend of a friend. So in the child's mind, they don't think

to tell their parents that they're talking to a stranger online. They think they're talking to someone that they know, and then and then there really is a process of gaining that child's trust and very often, like you said, it will escalate to asking for sexual images, and then those images can be used to extort either for the creation of more images, sometimes more extreme, or to even meet in real life for sexual abuse or sex trafficking. And this

kind of dynamic doesn't even only happen to children. It happens to adults as well. And I'm sure your listeners are familiar with the terms like revenge photography or the non consensual sharing of explicit images, which is often used to extort

or keep someone in an abusive relationship as well. So if you or someone that you know has dealt with this, if they're a minor, I would recommend going to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, and they have an entire program that helps removed images of children online and to get you connected with law enforcements. So that's the National Center on Missing and Exploited Children.

And if you're an adult who's experienced your images being shared online, I would recommend the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative, and they also have a lot of persons for how to get images removed and how to involve law enforcement is needed. Haley mcmarrion in the United States of America, I think ninety nine point nine percent of us consider this to be a representation of absolute evil. But there are some movements of groups who contend that a child, even a teenager,

has the right to determine to have sex with an adult. And we did that topic about ten years ago and I cut off in the middle. I said, that's it. We're not going to do that anymore. And isn't there a movement or an idea that if you're a child, but that I mean seven, eight, nine, ten years old, or a teenager sixteen or seventeen, you should have the right to have sex with an adult.

Yeah, Unfortunately, there is a real normalization of that concept that's happening, and so it's really important for us all to be vocal and strong about recognizing that that is child sexual abuse, and especially if there is the commercialized element. You know, under federal law, any kind of commercialized sex act involving a minor is by definition sex trafficking, even if that minor quote unquote agreed to it. Right, So it's really important for us to know the laws

on these matters and to speak out against normalization of child sexual abuse. Well, in this hit movie, of course, the star Jim Cavezel plays the part of a government employee who becomes enraged at what he sees observing. In certain parts of the world, this is acceptable. For example, in Asia, Africa, India, it is not that unusual for moms and dads to

sell their children. Am I correct about then? Yeah, And unfortunately that's happening in America as well, of adults even from theimes, selling their children or allowing sexual abuse to happen to their children. So this is, you know, this is a worldwide epidemic, and it's something that's a really dark topic. People often feel like there's nothing that they can do, but there

really is so much that can be done. So of course, you know, we've talked about investing in aftercare services, volunteering, knowing the signs yourself and being such an important part. But we also have a campaign called the Dirty dozen list, or we named twelve mainstream companies that contribute to sexual exploitation, and many of those are online platforms that contribute to sex trafficking, such as Instagram, roadblocks, Twitter and others that people don't really realize there's grooming

happening. There's facilitation of advertisements for sex trafficking, happening there, and if you go to dirty dozen list dot com you can take action in really tangible ways. You can email the executives at these companies, and we've seen progress happen. TikTok, for example, has made it so that adult strangers cannot direct message miners anymore on their platform. This is so common sense, and

there's much more progress that needs to happen. But I would be I would want to encourage people that while this is it's quite a dark issue, and it is an epidemic around the world and within America as well, but there are steps that we can take to try to prevent some of this harm from happening. And handling mcnamary, You've been at this, your group has for about sixty years. But I have a sense things are getting worse, not getting better. Is that fair? I think that that's true, especially with

the rise of the Internet. You know, it's just made anyone who has an inclination to abuse another person have easy access to vulnerable people. So I think that's why we really focus on kind of mass scale prevention is what we want to enact. We will always need exit services for people who've been victimized, but if we can prevent a number of people, especially children, for being contacted it by exploiters in the first place. That can just prevent so

much untold trauma. So that's a large part of what our organizations are working to do, both with corporate policy, legislation and also litigation on behalf of survivors. I'm looking at the headline of USA today the newspaper. It says why Sound of Freedom, Jim Caviezel's controversial child sex trafficking film is a hit, And I don't think it's controversial. I would hope we're divided politically among so many areas of life, but I would hope that the exploitation of the

most innocent among us is such an issue that it's not controversial. It must be stopped. Those who are involved in it must be stopped, and men and some women mainly it's men involved in this trade have got to stop buying children once again. Dirty dozenlist dot com is out of sight and what's another website. If someone suspects somehow the child being exploited for sexual purposes, I would go to the National Human Trafficking Hotline, and there's a number you can

text for a call and they also have a website. All right, Hailey McNamara, Vice President, National Center of Sexual Exportation of Children, thank you for coming on the Bill Cunningham Show. I'm glad this movie's out. I would encourage everyone to see this movie. It's one of those things you have to understand what's happening, and this all around is constantly we must act as one. And Hailey McNamara, once again, thank you for coming on the

Bill Cunningham Show, and good luck on all your ventures. Thank you, Hailey, thank you. All right, let's continue if the line becomes available. Five one, three, seven, four, nine, seven thousand. Bill Cunningham News Next at your home of the Reds News Radio seven hundred wlw I Major League Picture Hunter Green. For your next new car, go to Jake Sweeney Chevrolet Fine New Roads and get up to sixty two fifty off Silver Audo crew Cap fifteen hundred

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