"How do I pee in this dress?!" (It's HARD being so glamorous!) Press play for a real life Cinderella story, except this dress was pink and instead of a horse in carriage, our beauty went to prom in a mustang convertible! While her biological family downplayed graduation as something that was unnecessary, Arzos chosen family traveled 5 hours to be there, cheering louder than anyone in the crowd. This episode is about more than getting a diploma—it’s about transformation, triumph, and the kind of ...
Jul 02, 2025•29 min•Ep. 165
She was the girl who wasn't supposed to graduate. In fact, a teacher once described Arzo as "One kid I thought was too far gone to be saved." but she and our host teamed up to create a mother-daughter duo that was NOT to be fucked with! Jayna promised Arzo that the two of them would cross the finish line together, as a team, no matter WHAT it would take and you'll never BELIEVE some of the challenges they faced along the way. Enjoy a series of funny stories from behind the scenes that any mother...
Jun 25, 2025•34 min•Ep. 164
Nobody falls in love thinking they're going to break up. In this episode, inspired by Arzo's broken heart, we're sharing stories of some of histories WILDEST realtionship trainwrecks. First up, a modern take on Henry the VIII (AKA: The Original Fuck Boy). His love story with Anne Boleyn was one for the history books! He wrote her poetry, changed the country’s religion for her, and then—spoiler alert—cut things off literally . (Who knew tea from the 1500’s was this hot?!) Next up, we jump forward...
Jun 18, 2025•29 min•Ep. 163
Do you talk mean to yourself too? As if the self-talk wasnt bad enough, some of the most hurtful things we believe about ourselves didn’t even come from us . They came from offhand comments, schoolyard shade, or that one person’s opinion that we never fully let go of. In this episode, Jayna opens up about some of the things she's told herself as well as things people have said to her. Who would have thought criticism from as far back as elementary school—yes, elementary —could still haunt her mi...
Jun 11, 2025•23 min•Ep. 162
🎈This week, we’re celebrating 3 incredible years of BLE! Jayna is walking (okay, dancing) down memory lane with some juicy updates from your favorite episodes, a wild behind-the-scenes story, and a fun surprise from Khari Leone ! Whether you’ve been here since day one or you've recently joined the tribe, this episode is for YOU — the ride-or-dies who tune in every single Wednesday, rain or shine, heartbreak or high-five. No awards could ever top the win of consistency, connection, and this beau...
Jun 04, 2025•28 min•Ep. 161
Was she petty? YES. Does she regret it? HELL NAH! Pop the champagne and cue the celebration playlist — Jayna is *FINALLY* officially DIVORCED! YESSS! If you've been paying close attention, then you know It's been over TEN YEARS since our host split from her husband... so what's the hold up? Well don't worry, because Jayna explains everything in an episode that's cheeky, empowering, revengeful and spiteful with a dash of cringe and a pinch of ZING!!! Just wait till you hear why the marriage dragg...
May 28, 2025•22 min•Ep. 160
Jayna was sick and tired of swiping for days just to arrange one date SO she took a chance and tried something new. Tune in to hear what happens when our host, the self-proclaimed "Tinder Ninja", takes a break from the apps and dives headfirst into the wild world of speed dating! In this playful and informative episode, Jayna signs up for an in-person speed dating event — no swiping, no filters, just real-time romance roulette. 😅💘 From awkward icebreakers to unexpected chemistry, you'll hear a...
May 21, 2025•23 min•Ep. 159
WARNING: Don't listen without tissues! Arzo lost her mother to cancer when she was only 5 years old and 7 years later, she asked Jayna, a woman who lived down the street, to step into the role. Since then, their story has touched hearts all around the globe. While Jayna's received all kinds of praise for what she has done, no one really talks about Arzo's first mom. So, In this deeply moving episode, our host pays tribute to Fatima, the woman who brought Arzo into the world, by sharing a heartfe...
May 14, 2025•15 min•Ep. 158
Jayna meets with an animal communicator to find out what her 2 french bulldogs are thinking. (Imagine "Woof!" but with subtitles!) Find out what THEY say their individual reasons are for being in Jayna's life and the connection between the pups and her becoming a mom. (Who would have thought it would be so deep?!) If you think this is all a bunch of woo woo, give it a listen and decide for yourself if what the pet psychic is saying is true! Who knows...This episode just might make you a believer...
May 07, 2025•51 min•Ep. 157
Have you ever wondered what your dog was thinking? In this 2 part series, Jayna gets help from a real pet psychic in order to learn what's going on inside the minds of her two french bulldogs. In this first episode, our host is introducing you to Apollo and Diego: the pups who stole her heart. You'll learn all about their gotcha stories, quirks, their sass and all the chaotic charm that makes them impossible not to love. Are you as curious as we are about what the boys might say? Maybe they're j...
Apr 30, 2025•29 min•Ep. 156
From BFF to "WTF?!" is being a bridesmaid really a friendship death wish?! Just wait till you hear these stories! You might have thought the bride was the one with "zilla" tendancies...well think again, sis! Who would have thought your "closest friends" could turn your big day into big BIG drama. We’re talking catfights, cold shoulders, naked limo rides and one bridesmaid who ghosted... on the wedding day! (The AUDACITY!!) Tune in for some of the craziness our host has seen first hand as a brida...
Apr 23, 2025•27 min•Ep. 155
Is your passport saying "let's go!" but your wallet's saying "hell no!" ? If your wanderlust has a taste for the finer things (but your account balance politely disagrees), then this one's a must! This week, Jayna's serving up champagne travel tips on a sparkling water budget—because you deserve that ocean-view suite and enough left over for a rooftop cocktail. Press play for advice on finding flight deals, secret hotel booking tricks, and how to finesse your way into luxe experiences without ma...
Apr 16, 2025•24 min•Ep. 154
"Is travelling alone for losers?" "Aren't you lonely?" "Don't you get bored?" "... Is it SAFE?!" After countless trips on her own, Jayna's constantly answering these questions. In this episode, you get all the answers! Our host is sharing the reason she loves to travel, the perks of doing it solo, as well as tips and tricks for the most memorable adventure ever! Whether you're dreaming of sipping espresso in Italy, hiking solo in Costa Rica, or navigating night markets in Thailand, she's got you...
Apr 09, 2025•25 min•Ep. 153
From misbehaving grooms and cheating brides, to money hungry moms- our host has seen it all! In this controversial episode, Jayna shares observations she's made over the past 20 years of working in weddings and just WAIT till you hear the 4 uncomfortable truths nobody talks about. WARNING: You might just have to pick your jaw up off the floor! This one's sure to spark some interesting conversations. (You didn't really think getting married was all champagne and sparkles, did you?!) IN THIS EPISO...
Apr 02, 2025•23 min•Ep. 152
Hot Take! If you're someone who thinks breaking up over text is bad, then PRESS PLAY! Breakups are rough, but who says you need to be ugly crying in public? In this episode, Jayna makes the case for why breaking up over text isn’t just acceptable—it might actually be the best way to do it. With four solid arguments and a few cringey personal breakup stories, you'll be convinced that sometimes, a well-crafted text is the most humane, efficient, and let’s be honest—least awkward—way to say “it’s n...
Mar 26, 2025•24 min•Ep. 151
Are you always giving more than you get? Are you constantly doing THE MOST for people and still ending up empty handed? Is there such thing as giving too much? In this episode, Jayna shares jaw-dropping stories of the over-the-top (borderline absurd) things she used to do for the people in her life. You'll never believe the lengths she went through to prove her love and somehow still ended up alone. From grand gestures to completely losing herself in relationships, Jayna tells her cringey storie...
Mar 19, 2025•24 min•Ep. 150
We asked our listeners " What's the pettiest reason you've broken up with someone? " and the answers will crack you up! We’ve all had our reasons for ending a relationship—but were they justified, or just plain petty? (Maybe you got "The Ick" and just couldnt help it!) This week, Jayna's rating each listener submission as either "Petty" or "Valid" and explaining her reasons why. She's also discussing a theory that explains why "the ick" is so important and just wait till you hear why she had a b...
Mar 12, 2025•26 min•Ep. 149
Ready to join us for an epic night of tear-away man-kini’s and chocolate martinis? (OOH! So hot and steamy!) This week, we’re taking you on a wild ride to Sin City! Join your host and her bestie as they set out on a *cough* ‘ wholesome girls trip ’ to Las Vegas (LOL) to catch the legendary Magic Mike Live — and let’s just say, things ended up MUCH sexier than anticipated. Once you hear this unbelievable story, you’ll be booking tickets for you and your closest friends too! So, grab some singles ...
Mar 05, 2025•27 min•Ep. 148
In this laugh-out-loud episode, Jayna + Rikki put each other in the hot seat with a series of random, silly questions...nothing is off limits! From go-to Mario Kart characters, cringe-worthy work moments (ever had to go #2 at a clients house?), Rikkis ONLY dick pic and.... poopy pakoras?! Expect hilarious stories, lots of giggles, and a playful trip down memory lane. This is a fun, easy listen that's sure to have you wanting to call your best friend! IN THIS EPISODE -Makeup Artist nightmare stor...
Feb 26, 2025•32 min•Ep. 147
What if your whole life changed in an instant? An inspiring story about one of Jayna’s dearest friends, Sharlene, how she ended up in the hospital and what she did despite her life being on the line. This story is a beautiful example of the unbreakable bonds of sisterhood and proof that girls girls truly are the real MVP’s. Us women have a way of showing up for each other—no matter how exhausted, overwhelmed, or downright empty we may feel. We’ll make sacrifices for the ones we love and lift eac...
Feb 19, 2025•29 min•Ep. 146
Jayna's asking men on the streets of Las Vegas what they want for Valentines Day. (You know, for a laugh...not because we care!) Just *wait* till you hear the number one answer! (It's not what you'd expect!) She also shares fun facts about the (made up?) holiday, tips to avoid disappointment AND her worst Feb.14 ever! IN THIS EPISODE -Surviving Valentines Day -What men really want -Crazy breakup story -Asking Men about Valentines Day -On the street interviews If you loved this episode and would ...
Feb 12, 2025•48 min•Ep. 145
She's crying AGAIN! A completely unscripted, off the cuff update on all of the touching and inspirational things that are happening behind the scenes at Big Lash Energy. In this one, we're switching things up a bit, dialing back production in the name of authenticity. Let's see if you're still down to listen even without all the editing magic! (You might want to grab some tissues!*) IN THIS EPISODE -Believing in yourself -Chasing your dreams -What is the BLE Galentines Event? -Women encouraging ...
Feb 05, 2025•25 min•Ep. 144
Hilarious! Jayna agrees to a date with a Pick Up Artist " for the story " and shares every cringey detail. As a follow up to episode 142 (10 Signs He's a Pick Up Artist), you'll be a butterfly on the wall while she strolls through a Las Vegas Casino with a man she already knows is only out for one thing. He says all the lines and does all the tricks, but our host stays two steps ahead. *insert karate chop here!* You'll laugh along with her as she makes observations about his manipulation tactics...
Jan 29, 2025•32 min•Ep. 143
Sometimes, the sleeziest men come disguised as good guys. Can YOU tell them apart? In this eye-opening episode, Jayna dives into the world of pickup artistry so you learn to recognize the manipulation tactics and behaviors often employed by so-called "PUA's". Hot off a trip to Las Vegas, our host shares some hilarious examples of the wild things men have said and done in an effort to get her...well...undressed. Have any of these tactics worked on YOU? (Dont be shy! They've gotten to the best of ...
Jan 22, 2025•25 min•Ep. 142
Are you seeing the first signs of aging? Wondering if Botox is your best option? What are the risks? In this episode, Jayna's dear friend (and botox injector), Dr.Kaabar, answers all the questions you might be too afraid to ask about preventing fine lines and wrinkles. Listen in on this fun, candid conversation so you can make the best, most informed decision for yourself. You might be surprised to learn that you can slow the signs of aging while still staying authentically you! OH and just WAIT...
Jan 15, 2025•38 min•Ep. 141
💰It's time to get that bag, baby! Are you drowning in debt? Too broke to break up? Wondering if you'll ever be able to afford the life that you want? Then listen up! In this episode, Jayna's invited Money Coach (and BLE Bestie), Gina Judge to come share what SHE knows about making and growing your dough. Jayna discusses her own fears and failures when it comes to cash and the ladies discuss important questions like "Does it matter if he makes less money than me?" "Should I save or invest?" and ...
Jan 08, 2025•38 min•Ep. 140
Ready to make this your best year ever ? 🌟 Think you know everything about manifesting? In this episode, we're dishing the 7 secrets no one talks about when it comes to turning your dreams into reality. From dodging common pitfalls to amplifying your manifesting mojo, we’ve got the hacks to help you unlock your true potential and create a year so epic, you'll swear it's magic. ✨ So grab your vision board, your favorite mug of tea (or wine—no judgment!), and tune in for a fun, no-fluff convo tha...
Jan 01, 2025•28 min•Ep. 139
Please check out Episode 33 If you're feeling alone this holiday season, or looking for a little more holiday hype. Remember when our parents decked the halls? OR when we really did believe in Santa Clause? Now, we're making all the magic happen and it's both exhausting and expensive. In fact, if you don't put the time in, the holidays won't happen! This is a quick little poem Jayna wrote about what it REALLY feels like as an adult at Christmastime. Thank you for listening each week...you're the...
Dec 25, 2024•2 min•Ep. 138
You probably know your love language, but what about THEIRS? If trying to find the perfect gift makes you twitch, then you'd better listen to this! Once you learn this one simple hack, you'll be impressing your loved ones and saving money like scrooge- any time of the year! Jayna has always been an extreme gifter- she'd do ANYTHING to be the one who gave the best present. Then, somewhere along the way, she realized she was doing it all wrong. Listen up as she shares what she learned and what she...
Dec 18, 2024•23 min•Ep. 137
WARNING: Adult Content! First, does getting hit on by a teenager count as a compliment? Then, come join Jayna and 2 Besties of the male variety for a cheeky convo at the adult table. This one's informative and good for a laugh- Soso Juv (Team Loverboy) and H.L.S.(Team F*boy) from the "My 5 Cents Podcast" never hold back! To hear more from Soso and HLS, check them out on spotify THE MY FIVE CENTS PODCAST IN THIS EPISODE -How to incorporate sexy talk in the bedroom -How much is TOO much when it co...
Dec 11, 2024•32 min•Ep. 136
