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On the Best of the Big Blue Insider: Verne Lundquist retires; ex-Cats approve of the hiring of Mark Pope and (19:00) Rex Chapman pays a visit to the garage to talk about his best-selling book…

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It's Dick Gabriel taking a little bit of time off, so we thought we would replace some of the best interviews from over the last several months. Please enjoy the best of the Big Blue Insider. Incredible going, Juega Hota, spree throwers, they got it they wanted, We'll put it up. It doesn't matter if it goes as Kentucky has pulled off a comeback miracle in Baton Road and unbelievable Fetais. Kentucky wins at ninety nine ninety five over LSU.

What better way to open this edition of The Big Blue Insider. Dick Gabriel with you live on tape from Spartanburg, South Carolina. I'm with a UK baseball team. I'll be filling in on the radio tomorrow. Darren Hedrick on assignment with UK women's basketball baseball Wildcats open up with USC Upstate here in Spartanburg. But today is the thirtieth anniversary unbelievable of the Marty Gras miracle. When

the Wildcats came from thirty one down. That wasn't the halftime margin. That was with fifteen and a half minutes to play, but Kentucky still made it up. Thanks to just an incredible run and a huge game from a lot of guys, including Walter McCarty with twenty three points four of seven to three pointers. You heard Brad Nessler and Larry Conley for the SEC TV network ESPN

calling the action. Here is the way it sounded on the UK Radio Network the final seconds with Ralph Hackery was working with Kyle Macy and I know some of you had problems with Ralph, but I tell you and both of these guys are good friends of mine. Full disclosure. Ralph gave me my first job in commercial radio. But here's what impressed me in the most. Neither one of these guys lost their friggin minds during this comeback. They stayed very

calm and cool and very professional. And I give Ralph so much credit because I got to think an overwhelming majority of not just SEC announcers but college basketball, even pro guys, especially pro guys, would have gone nuts at the end. Rafts stayed very calm, very professional, and I thought framed it extremely well with his remarks. And this starts with Travis Ford hitting the game clinching free throw that made it a four point advantage. Travis Freeze hard bunts

a shot of the air. It rolls good. Kentucky should win it, no matter what happens. Long past midport two, one shot is up by Anderson. It is no good And ladies and gentlemen, I've seen the Wildcats play nearly every game, so it's nineteen and sixty six. Never and I remember a thirty one point deficit on the road or at home where the Wildcats came back to when the basketball game, We'll be right back as well as should have bet a moment you gave basketball not I was actually in China on

a trip with a group of friends when I heard about it. Somebody had called home, and so I rushed to a newsstand in our hotel grabbed the International USA Today and they had like one tiny paragraph on it. So when I got home, I watched the whole thing, and as Larry Connley pointed out, it was incredible. While we're sharing Playboy play clips, I thought I would bring up Vern Lunquist, who was announced this will be his final

Master's call. He had retired from calling football games on CBS a few years ago, and he will wrap things up now from AUGUSTA. Two of his most famous calls of course, one of them in nineteen eighty six, when Jack Nicholas dropped in a putt that gave him a surprising victory, and Vern was at his best. Maybe yes, sir, that might be his most famous golf call, though later on somebody brought it up, and vern agreed he had heard somebody else on the broadcast a day or two prior had yelled

out, yes, sir. Vern said he very well could have pulled that out of the back of his mind and used it when he called the putt by Nicholas. He freely admitted that that just was siwhere in his brain, and it dropped onto the broadcast, and we're all better for it. The other call in twenty oh five, Tiger Woods knocks one in from the sixteenth and this is the one where the ball hung on the edge of the cup and dropped in. And here's Vernon, man, Oh my goodness, in

your lights have you seen anything like that? What was so great about that call was that's what everybody was thinking. In my life, I've never seen anything like it. So best of luck to Vernon. I don't know the guy, I think I've met him a couple times. By just a class act all the way. Of course, the other huge headline in the Big

Blue Nation is the hiring of Handen Bush as Kentucky's offensive coordinator. I had already left the Big Blue Insider Best of show for you as we left for South Carolina, so I didn't have a chance to talk about it last night. But I think it's a good hire. He comes from success, he comes from a winning program. He's got a good track record. You already know all about that. But what I find fascinating about college football coaches, especially a guy like this who has worked his way up, was a backup

quarterback at Boise Boise State. But I just like looking at their track record, their employment history, because there's such nomads. I mean, here's a guy who started his career as a student assistant at Colorado's coaching career the Maryland, Sacramento State, Florida, Arkansas State, Davidson, Washington, where he worked two or three different jobs, ultimately the passing game coordinator. Then he goes to the Falcons for a year in the NFL, back to Washington and

then Missouri, back to the SEC. Finally Boise State last year as the OC and quarterbacks coach, and now with the Wildcats, So that means people recognized his talent, his abilities. Each time he moved he helped himself. He moved up either in stature or money or both, and was just gathering knowledge, collecting information about how to do his job. And now he comes to a Kentucky program that, like Boise State was back when he was there,

fighting for respectability. So this is gonna be fascinating and by all accounts, the offense he runs will be the kind of offense that Mark Stroops was looking for again and had gotten from Liam Cohen. Up next on The Big Blue Insider, this is the eve, as I said, of UK baseball season. We'll have the action for you tomorrow three o'clock, first pitch, two forty five pre game on our FM station ninety eight point five, and

I hope you can join us for that one. I'll be sitting in again for Darren Hedrick and Darren's gonna have women's basketball coming up at six forty five. So just a couple of segments left, But in those segments you can hear my conversation from earlier this year, just a few weeks ago with Nick Menjeon as we set the stage for Kentucky basketball. I did want to say one thing before I pitched a break, and that is the events that happened

in Kansas City more madness. I guess all we can say now is thank god only one person was murdered, but eight children were wounded. And no, I'm not going to bang a drum for getting rid of all guns. That'll never happen. But something has got to be done by politicians on both sides of the aisle. But ken it happened, probably not because they're swimming in too much blood money. I'll leave it at that. They're listening to the best of the Big Blue Insider. More to come here on six thirty

WLAP Welcome back. It's the best of the Big Blue Insider. Going to take you back to a segment we did right after Mark Pope was hired. In fact, it was the Monday after and we had been at the news conference, had a chance to talk with a lot of the former players about the hiring of the newest Wildcat coach. We've been hearing from some of the former players who were there when Mark Pope was announced and introduced, reintroduced really

to the Big Blue Nation. One of the guys who instantly supported him on Twitter. Was a guy who was right here in the garage with us a couple of weeks ago, Rex Chapman, who spoke really eloquently for a long time to whoever would listen about the new head coach, Mark Pope. Mark Pope and Jeff Shepherd both are two of the more exceptional human beings to come through here. And when I mean that, I mean morally, socially, emotionally. They even when they were in school and they were young people while

the rest of us were young, they had a very mature mindset. They knew that the basketball would stop dribbling someday when most of the rest of us didn't. They they were sort of the compass moral compass for those teams they were on in the nineties. The soul of the of those teams. Their teammates will tell you the same thing Mark Pope learned. As you saw today, You can't be around Rick Patino for more than an hour and not take

away something that he has said. He's just so motivational and Rick really formed these guys. They love and revere him and Mark Pope. Mark Mark Pope plays Rick Patino style basketball. He gets after you gets up and down and shoots a lot of threes. He's gonna get talent in here. He's gonna have talent he's never had before. He didn't have that, he didn't have Utah Valley State or b YU. He's going to have that here. Pressure's on. He said it himself. But man, am I excited about it?

You gotta be so happy for him, But you also like he deserves us. Well, I've said this before. No, two guys that played at Kentucky deserve what's what they're getting anymore right now than Reed Jeff Shepherd, Stacy Shephard, and Mark Pope. Those guys and Stacy blood sweat and tears for this program for years. Tough times for Mark, tough times for Jeff, both of them playing behind really good NBA players. They could have transferred at any time. Both of them stuck it out. They made it through,

and that sort of stick toitiveness and work ethic. Well, you see he's now the coach here, and Jeff and Stacey have one of the best players on the planet. Rag, So did you win Mark from day one? If you'd have told me Mark was in the mix from day one, I'd have been like yes, let's go. Well, I mean you saw this, Dick. I've had a really good time. I need to say

this. I've had a really good time since news broke about Mark's hiring, because there's a few people in here that just shiit on the whole thing, and over the last few days, I've had a great time saying, well, you know what, I kind of like that higher look around here today they like the hire two Rex. What statement do you think the fans made

today? And that was pretty pretty amazing. I just, you know, I just feel like that, you know, you did you guys hear the eruption for Jack Gibbons when he got off the thing, and I was afraid they might boom me. They even cheered me, and then Chef and Tony Delk and that those guys. And then when Mark got off the bus. You know, people who remember that era know what Mark Pope meant to this this entire state and that he's back here representing us and representing the university.

That bus that we were on out there, Mark got on the bus and there were guys from fifty sixty years ago on that bus, Jack Gibbons, Jim Master, it was it was just phenomenal, and you could tell Mark at one point asked, hey, cut the cameras off. They had the cameras on people, and he just sat on the back of the bus just like we were all going to a ballgame, and he laughed with his teammates

for twenty minutes back there. That stuff's invaluable. And you can also see why he does so well when he sits down with young men in their living rooms with their parents. I wasn't there when he told him, but Rex also talked about the fact that Mark's wife bakes cookies for each opposing team that comes in. I assume she'll be doing that in rupp Aerna. So that

was an incredible story. Speaking of Jeff Shepherd, he said, yeah, his ex roommate knows what he's getting into and knows Kentucky basketball inside out. There's gonna be a lot of lot of words that are spoken between now and the first game, and that's great. It's what makes Kentucky basketball so fun. We love to talk about it and everything. But Mark knows, as he said, so good in the very beginning. He understands the assignment and he has worked do he knows he has work to do, but it's what

he lives for. He lives for hard work. He enjoys it, and it's neat to see his family all in and the fans all in. So Funday in Kentucky mentioned earlier, it's my understanding Reid is going to move on, not a surprise to most people. I sure hope Jeff and Stacey keep coming to the games front center like they have been. I hope they do, because they'll be supporting Mark Pope, no question about that. Jared Prickett banged in practice against Mark Pope, and he believes, of course that his

ex teammate is the right man for the job. The more that people are around him, the more they'll understand him and how good of a person he is. But at the same time, you know, he wants to win. You know, it's a period and he understands that, and that's you know, I think he said that two or three times over there, like I'm not here to you know, to not win. He's going to win the SEC tournament. He's going to win every game, and he wants to win up banners. So he's like, you know, clear the spot off,

let's put a banner up there. It's a fun style basketball that he plays. His upbeat's what you can. You know, it's fun to watch. People will be excited about it, and you know he's a fantastic person. And when I first heard it that he had the job, I'm like, he's the perfect fit. Like he can handle the public, he can

handle being down, he's he's going to be great with his team. He's just going to figure everything out and it's going to be I'm just I'm overly excited because I just know him inside and out from when I played with him. So it's it's a good thing. That's Jared Prickett, the new coach, Mark Cuell introduced, is it. Of course his family, you all saw it and each daughter and my one of my favorite moments was this one I'm going to share with you about one of his daughters who came in the

house and almost immediately began chanting something that was quite meaningful. Back during their title run in nineteen ninety six, when Mitch offered us a job, he gave us a couple hours to consult to his family. We didn't need it. He knew I would walk all the way here to take this job. But as we gathered the girls from all their various places. Layla Pope walks in the door and I kid you not. Her first words were, because she knows the deal, tell me who's in the house tonight, UK.

She did exactly that, exactly that. I love that because it was such a key element to not just that team, but the documentary that camer Mills and Jason Eperson and I put together on that ninety six ball club called The Team. It's available on Vimeo for ninety nine cents. Check it out. And we had to work a little bit to find the clip. The video

clip of Walter McCarty was back in the hallway prior to a game. Walter McCarty came up with it, shared it with his teammates, so they began to do that before each game and it was kind of a rare clip of video. And they came back to that on the party boat where they celebrated their reunion six years ago with Rick Patino, who told them this, if I was coaching today, I would The last team I'd want to face on the face of the earth is nineteen ninety six. I would. There's no

I could not devise anything to beat all basketball team. Nothing Patino said, you can't go back to the wooden era, but in terms of the modern era, best team in the history of college basketball. And I do agree with that. And they chanted one more time on the party boat at their reunion in the House to Die, in the House to Die. Ye boy, you're listening to the best of the Big Blue Insider. Want to come here on six thirty wlap Welcome back to the Big Blue Insider, cabrew with

you taking a little bit of time off. So it's the best of the Big Blue Insider. And I thought we would go back to March when we had Rex Chapman right here in the garage. Rex, of course, has written a book with help from Seth Davis about his struggles with opioids and basically his life in general, and we broke it up into two separate evenings, but here's part one. Last night we had a chance to sit down here in the garage with Rex Chapman. We had a long, long conversation.

We'll present some of it tonight and the rest of it next week, but I wanted to get started with that as we welcome Rex to the garage so he could talk to us about the book that he has out now, and as you'll be able to tell, he's still a little bit shy about talking about himself, and he still has doubts about some of the things he put out there, doubts in that it was very difficult for him to open up. He's glad he did, but now he has to go around and talk

about it. That doesn't make him comfortable. But he was more than willing to come to the garage and we loved having him here. Part one with Rex Chapman. We've had a lot of people join us in the garage and I had a lot of fun with him and we opened the door and who's waiting on us? But Rex Chapman. Good to see him. Man, good to see you, buddy. Thanks for having me. You've been just a whirlwind of media stops, so we appreciate you drop by the garage.

What has life been like for you since this book was published? Oh? Man, A lot of interviews, Yeah, a lot of interviews. It's been weird, really weird. You know. I feel like I lived so much in my life that I'm not real proud of, kind of ashamed of in some ways. And you know, being I know they're not celebrating that aspect of it, but kind of being celebrated for something like this is very weird. I didn't you know, I've said before, I didn't set out

when I was a kid. You know, you think I want to. I want to be like who is it? Joe Theisman and those all American kind of guys who don't think about you know, live a straight and arrow, right. So yeah, it's it's been. It's been odd. Ye been odd because I certainly didn't think that. Aren't people celebrating the fact that you you've overcome so much? Yes, and you had the courage and it took courage. What do you think it did or not to tell your story?

And I know it's humbling and you're not a guy likes to talk about himself, but now here you are, well, I don't know, uh uh yeah, I I don't know. I guess I had, you know, just over the years. I honestly thought growing up that as long as I'm not drinking and drugging and then anything else is fine. And you know, I just kind of ran and wild, chasing girls. And I played basketball all the time, sure, which was really an escape and it was really all I liked, liked to do, you know, I escape from

what though, Yeah, I think depression. You know, looking back, you know, I always had to be busy. If I wasn't busy, you know, I could get into trouble. And so basketball really kept me. I knew I had to make certain grades to be eligible to play. I didn't care about what those grades were as long as they were eligible, right, And so I didn't really I didn't really take school that seriously. I was a good enough student that I could kind of bs my way through

a lot of help. Yeah. Yeah, and then I you know, I got to UK, and still it was more the same. I didn't really bust it that hard at school. But yeah, I think, you know, looking back, there was I didn't feel like there was pressure on me. Uh because the basketball part, it wasn't easy. It was it was natural. It was something that I you know, I knew I could do. Had I not you know, had that had I not been as good, I think it would have been really tough. Because off the court

was really hard for me. While I was here, I was on the court was not I mean it was, but it was you know, it was good what I did. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so if off the court when you were here what was going on, it made your life a little tougher than you thought it might be. Well, so, when I was in high school, you know, my first real girlfriend, a girl named Sean Higgs. And then Sean and I are still the best friends, loved to death. Yes, and Mark Kenny, Mark Kenny's little sister,

Kenny's and Mark's little sister. Yes, Kenny played at LSU and played in the NBA and was just a great player. And uh, and then Mark was really good here at UK. In fact, he would have if I was the best basketball player here at UK. At one time, he was the best football player at the same time. We all grew up together in Owensboro, and uh, Sean was two times state one hundred meter champion. But we had dated and we just we liked each other, and people

didn't. People didn't really like it, and so we kind of kept it a secret and kind of hid from people. All the kids knew, but adults for the most part. That was really confusing. Then we got to Kentucky and Sean came to Kentucky and we just assumed because and the schools that recruited me news that Sean was my girlfriend, and so we just assumed that when we got here we'd be able to go to class together. She lived right across the street at Blazer when I lived in the Lodge, and so

first or second time we walked to class together. I got called into the office, the coach's office, and and Eddie was in there with James and Dwayne and James Dicky and Dwayne Casey, and he just he let me know that, you know, he said, hey, you know people are talking about you guys. You know, we don't care, but you need to if you're going to see each other, do it at night time, do it in private. I thought it was I thought that was I thought it

was a joke. And you know, in that moment, I I really wanted to get up and leave, and I was content going to Louisville. But if I hadn't had to sit out like that was my first thought. And I made eye contact with Dwayne, and he kind of nodded and look Dwayne, as a young African American coach, that's I think felt very fortunate and grateful to be at his matter at the time. And he nodded at me kind of like, you know, hey, get make it through this

meeting and we'll go talk. And so when Eddie said that, I instead, I you know, did the most cowardly thing possible. And I looked at him and said, yes, sir. And then you know, over the next two years I had versions of that meeting several more times. And I should add this, Eddie, I honestly don't think Eddie had any problem with it. Eddie was a forty nine year old alcoholic, and he he

had coached black players forever. His black players swear by him. Yes, I honestly believe, and I've told Sean said in this in the Family a million times that I don't think it was Eddie. I think he was being guided by boosters to make sure that you know, they're white. All American player was not dating a black girl. And when I say that, that's the meanest thing I think that, you know, I don't. I still don't understand it, Dick. What Like, you know, the time,

most if not all, of my black teammates were dating white girls. So what was the They weren't discouraged from this though, What was the difference? There wasn't one, I know, did you know at the time, Yeah, yeah, all the young people knew. But again, you were young and powerless. Yeah, you know, And when I look back on it, all everybody knew, but U k At the time, you guys couldn't really, you couldn't say anything because you would lose access to UK. Let

me let me back up. I knew you dated her in high school because we all knew who Mark was. I don't think I knew that she came to the UK as well, but I knew, but I did know. I didn't know if it was it was her, but I knew you were dating a black woman, Yeah you know. And I was like, all right, you know, yeah, you know they I think it bothers me today, and but they're telling me, you know, what are they telling me? She's you know? And the other part about it is they never

met her. They never met her. Well, so yeah, so it's just plain racism. It's not anything other than that. And when most of the best basketball and football players in the school are black. And this is also Mark and I. Mark and I knew each other from the time we're ten years old. Sure, we're doing photo shoots and what not together, and everybody knows that every football player, every basketball player. Every everybody knows

that Shawn's my girlfriend and that I'm being discouraged from seeing her publicly. And so I I did my best while I was here, to do everything that UK asked of me. But at that time they were not very good to me. That was the underlying and happiness. Yes for you here, Yes, and basketball was your respite. Yeah. And I loved it, and I loved playing for the fans I loved well, Yes, I did.

However, I also knew that some of those fans did not really like me, because you know, I would come out and I mentioned in the book I three different times while I was at Kentucky and one time I caught a Kentucky fan And after a ball game. Reggie and I are coming out after a game game, Yeah, Reggie Hansen that we'd won, and we see some people milling around my car blue. They're leaving rep Aarenas just like we

are, wearing blue and white. And came around and they ran off when they saw us, went down and saw on the side of my car was keyed in N word lover so many car that this happened three times, just like that, and so oh of the and that's very I mean, it's just confusing. It's you know, all my teammates are are black and you're how old eighteen unbelievable. Well, I couldn't find my shoes when I was eighteen, and you're going through this. Yeah, more to come with Rex

Chapman. On the other side of the break, you're listening to the best of the Big Blue Insider. More to come here on six thirty w LAP It's Dick Gabriel. Welcome back to the Best of the Big Blue Insider. Here is part two of our conversation with Rex Chapman. Here in the garage's talking about his book and his experiences in UK. Seth Davis helped you with this book? You know? Was he the guy who and I'm sure you met him through your work for CBS. Was he the guy who urged you

to write the book because of your your story became public. I envisioned him saying, hey, man, that's a there's a book in that Yeah, probably so. I mean I knew several media people pretty well writers, but I wouldn't have proactively done it. Seth reached out and caught me at the right time. It was right as the pandemic was starting and so it took about four years to finish it. And yeah, it's it's just weird. The response to it. Well, i've heard you and it's been a great

response that I know of. But i've heard you say in multiple interviews every time I turn on the TV, you're popping up, but which I know is not your goal. But I heard you talk about how Seth kind of brought a lot of stuff out of you and encouraged you, and it urged you tell me about that process. Yeah, you know, he he. Uh. There would be times that we'd start talking about something that I couldn't really I didn't want to talk about that day, or for whatever reason,

just couldn't emotionally bring myself to do it. And there were times that, for lack of a better term, I would ghost Seth for a week or

two. And I think at first he kind of, you know, was shocked by it, but at some point he just realized that it was a lot of this was stuff that I'd probably not dealt with and ever, and so, uh, yeah, we it took a long time and then he called up about oh man, we'd been working on it for about eight months and he called up and said, hey, listen, I've got kind of a time sensitive book that I you know, got a chance to do, and wonder if we can put yours on the back burner for a few months.

And I went, kidding me, yeah, I love that And I said, why who is it? He said, it's sister Gene. You know, he's one hundred and four. And I said to him, that's a really sweet Seth that you think I'm an outlived sister. The none from Loyal Seth was great Seth. Again, he did all the heavy lifting kind of organ well. He did organized my erratic thoughts and helped. So how did you relay? I don't see you send down on a keyboard. I can't do that. Yeah, so done you over the phone or in person?

Okay? So he just basically interviewed you. Yeah, and then you know, he would send drafts and I would again, I can't like sit at a computer and edit like a document like that's not It's just not something I can do. I mean, uh so you know that process for him, I know was maddening because we'd have to get on the phone and I'd have a paper copy. He would have a computer copy, and the pages were different. And and but I just couldn't, like, I just weird

with how I learned and how I absorb information. And he you well, I mean again, he's he's a well respected right. Yeah. And as as the book evolved and unfolded, was it becoming something that you liked or I was gonna say, or was it something that was getting tougher? It

was getting harder? Yeah, you know, because a lot you know, the first part of it is me growing up and playing basketball and yeah, and then you know the basketball was always good, I mean, or but you know, I was wrestling with well, I'd always been an addict, Like I grew up going to the track with my dad. Right from the time I was a little kid, I just thought that, you know,

that's what adults do. They gamble, And so I gambled from time I got to UK till you know, till I got arrested in twenty fourteen, un till I didn't have any more money. So when you were arrested, you were feeding your drug habit drug and gambling, but at gambling at the same time. So she had two different sources draining Oh yeah, wow, yeah, at least two Yeah, did you realize it at the time.

No, well, probably, but you know it's at that point, you know, I've lost so much money and gone through divorce and all that. You know, I'm gambling, but it's like emptying a a up swimming pool with a spoon, you know it. You're so you can't stop and you can't really start. You just lost and something had to happen to me. And friends tell me that all the time. You know, I hate what happened to you, but something had to happen. Yeah, I'm sure you're

like most people. You don't have a lot of really close friends. Very few people do what was going on with them at the time that you were approaching rock bottom. Yeah, Well, the thing with a lot of addicts is you push those people away, and because those people know you the best and they can see you, and they can immediately they can look in your eyes, or they can look around your apartment or your house, and they

can tell you're not in a good place. And so addicts a lot of times push all those people away or have burned those people so much with their addiction, the lying, the you know, the money, the mainly the line right that I was just really fortunate that I had so many friends and and I couldn't really hide anymore once I got in trouble, like everybody knew, and I had to kind of face you know what was you know again, face things that happened with when I was younger that I didn't really deal

with, you know, with the stuff at Kentucky and and a lot of anger and resentment that I had over that, and you know, stuff like some misplaced like with Eddie regarding his alcoholism. Right I we we hated it, like we hated Eddie because of this. This was not something again, this was not something he could control. We didn't understand that at the time. We didn't understand that this was a like, this was a thing, and he was. He was really bad for my whole freshman year, but

my sophomore year not a drop. He went to Betty for over the summer. He called me into the office and told me that personally, and the problem was I had already lost trust with him with basketball because of my whole freshman year and personally because of the meetings I keep having with him regarding who I'm dating, and you know, so some of that was misguided. He was doing the best he could. He's fifty years old man and going through

alcoholism, which hell yeah. And it wasn't until I finished playing got out a rehab. I didn't talk to Eddie the whole time I played in the NBA Wow. And then I went to see a ballgame and scout somebody for the Suns in Stillwater and made a point to set up a meeting with he and James Dickey were there at the time, and I think Sean was working on the staff, And so I got to sit with Eddie and we talked

and I won't say it was it was. I wouldn't say it was a love fest, but we both said some things that you know, and Eddie said a lot of things to me that were valid that I didn't like at the time, like your shot selection this is terrible. And I was like, man, who, Like I thought, well, who are you to tell him? What? What do you mean? I can get that shot off, I can make that shot. That's not what he was saying. So he was telling me the truth sometimes about things that I had lost so

much trust in him that I just wasn't going to listen. And unless we played perfect basketball, and we were talented, man, but unless we played perfect basketball, we were going to lose because we weren't connected, you know, the you know, and if you think about back about those years, those three or four years and the guys on those teams that have had issue. I won't go into everybody, but a lot of guys that have had some trouble with the law and drugs and alcohol, and you know, those

were formative years for us. It really were. Rex Chapman, the former Boy King who had quite the fall from grace drugs and gambling and addiction and rehab and has written a book along with Seth Davis of Sports Illustrated and CBS Sports and you've probably seen the title by now, it's hard for me to live with me and yeah, I can understand that. After my conversation, we are more from Rex, and that comes up in hour number two, right after the news break at Gabriel with you. We are taking some time

off, so it's the best of the Big Blue Insider. More to come here on six point thirty wlap, Hey, it's stick Abriel. Welcome back to the Big Blue Insider. Our number two taking a little time off, so please enjoy the best of the Big Blue Insider. This is our conversation with Rex Chapman. He came by the garage to talk about his book It's Hard for Me to Live with Me, And I asked him about the fact that a guy who grew up in the spotlight then was out of it for

a while, then back into it for the wrong reasons. But now this book has cast a spotlight on him again, and you can tell he's not real happy about that, you know. I Stephan Curry said something the other day, and Stephan's my little buddy, and he's in the book and that stuff. But he said something the other day that he's he is perfectly happy to leverage all of his influence for good in the world. And I thought, wow, what a what a fantastic statement. And these guys players.

Now I think about Reed Shepherd right now, right the power that he has right now. If I knew what I knew now back then sixteen seventeen, what would you have done? Well? You know, I joke about this, but like Mitch McConnell, for instance, Mitch was a you're not a fan, not a fan, brilliant man, had a good, really good career, don't agree with almost anything policy wise, and he was a freshman senator when I was a junior in high school. And I talk about this

in the book. So and he flew in a helicopter from Frankfurt to Owensboro, and for whatever reason, we had to go school assembly out on the football field and meet the new senator out on the football field. And he got off the helicopter and right behind him he had a, you know, a couple of guys that were assistants or whatever. One of them had a briefcase that had a Confederate bumper sticker on super And so I just turned right around and went in school. And I passed by the teachers and said f

this guy, and went inside. I got detention for three days. But you know, looking back at that time, I'm a rising senior. I'm about to be a senior, about to make my decision where to go to school. Everybody wanted you if I just said I'm going to go to an out of state school, well, unless this dude just steps down, what happens? Maybe nothing, but maybe something? What if reed? What if

reed? Shepherd said that right now, you know what, I'm going to the NBA next year, or I'm transferring to Louisville unless rand Paul resigns. Would people put pressure on rand Paul to resign? Some would question, is how many? Yeah? Yeah, weird, Yeah it is weird. Of course, Reid's not cut out that way. Oh he's not now, and that's why near nor were you? No, Reed is Read's perfectly wired to do what he's doing. Is raised not perfectly, but so best. His

parents are the best anybody, anybody that knows them. Uh, it can't be totally surprised by what's happening with Ree. I don't know mom. I've interviewed her when she's playing, but I know dad, you know, And got to reacquaint with him when we did the documentary female version of him exactly, and God could she play? Oh yeah, steals, assist, handle, pass, tough, tough, tough Jeff run and jump. And I tell people Jeff was a better poundful pound, a better athlete than I was.

He was he he was bounce here, he had better feet my opinion. I was just longer and had bigger hands, and I and Jeff would miss a shot or two and never shoot again. I was didn't wasn't wired that way. Read run and jump just like Jeff. I mean, maybe even bounce here. He's a point guard like his mom. Though he can pass the ball, seals assists. Yeah, he's just he's he would be a dream of to measure your peripherals sometimes athletes, Yeah, I wonder what

has Reid has incredible instant and his feet are great. But his hands, he's got like boxer's hands, and he can disrupt things. He can move his body without moving his arms. He's very well balanced, and his anticipation is out of this world. Off the charte. Now once in a while he'll make a freshman mistake. Yeah, yeah, Oh, I watched man, he's so much better than we were. I mean, he's just he's

just good. Do you see him though at the top of the NBA draft, Yes, really, yes, even though his defense is a little suspect and nobody can guard anymore. That's true. I heard Gilbert Arenas believes it's because of the European influence in the league now. He said, those guys don't play any defense overseas. They don't play any now, and there has been good defense in the league, but of late, do you think it's just eroded? No, the rules, Oh yeah, you can't. You

can't touch anybody anymore. They're gonna have to out some more, and I think they will over the next few years because the numbers that got this it's just not I really enjoy it, but there's got to be I don't like watching a basketball game that there's seven straight threes taken and nobody makes a shot and there's one pass and it's just not aesthetically pleasing. I like a little

bit of defense. You know, you'd like to be able to, you know, guide a guy a little bit, but you can actually body guys on the perimeter more so in college now than you can in the NBA. So now it's a good time for Reid or Rob Dillingham. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Something struck me when you were talking about the struggles you

had emotionally and mentally. I thought the most fascinating storyline and with this team was read helping Justin Edwards was his emotional wellness and I and when Justin I don't know who wrote the story when when Justin said I wanted to quit basketball in high school and his mother, I mean, you never hear that. I thought that was fascinating and good on read Shepherd good on read Shepherd good on Justin Edwards for pub admitting that, yes, I mean, that's just

something that you know, we wouldn't do. I I don't This is not in the book, but there was a guy when I was playing in Charlotte and I was starting to realize that I was sleeping a lot. You know, I was, you know, still barely twenty and all of my friends were in college and most of my teammates were married and had children. Yeah, so I was kind of going through it. It's a depression, right,

Yeah, but I didn't know that. And so, and I took naps on every game day my whole life, so you know, I felt that was normal, yes, yeah, yeah, and so so I really didn't know, but I knew something. I just wasn't happy. And and so there was a guy named Willie Burton that played at the University of Minnesota. It was a couple of years younger than me, and he played with

the Miami Heat. And Willy had several really good years in the NBA, but he got fifty one night down in Miami and a couple of weeks later he had had an issue. He had had a mental episode episode and he'd been out and then was probably drinking and whatnot, And everybody was like, what happened to Willie Burton? And so within a couple of weeks, you

know, he revealed that he suffered from depression. The media and athletes in general crucified withal and like, what would a million, multimillion dollar athlete have to be depressed about? Well, that's not what he was saying, that's not what but it made it sure made people like myself zip right up and not. You know, you can't admit that that If you admit that,

they're going to think you're soft. They're gonna think you you know. So the mental health stuff for a long time has just been very taboo, not now, thankfully. Uh. And you also you've mentioned more than once things that aren't cooks, things that aren't beverage. Again, we can pop that in a washer if you want. You talked about stuff that's not in the book. Were there things that you just chose clearly not to put in there, consciously said no, I don't want that, and you don't have to

tell me what they are. But things that you and Seth talked about. I know that I'm sure everything and everything I could remember, and there were things that you know, it just didn't make sense to tell you know things too that you know, when you when you blow as much money as I did and take it, oh it's around forty million dollars. When you blow as much money as I did and do as much many drugs as I did, there's a lot of things you do that you're not really proud of that

are you know, instances and different things that you know. I included many of those in the book, but all of them. Jeez, you're right forever. I was going to say, yeah, uh. And I also know obviously from putting documentaries together and news stories that it's tough some you can't get everything and that you want, you got to leave things on the edit room floor. Then there's legal stuff you know that I even thought about that. Yeah, there's I mean, And this was again, this was I'm

not This book is not to diminish you know. You don't want to hurt anybody, No, not at all. And this is just about me and you know, me trying to take be accountable for what I've done. I say this would love. Why are you not dead? I know? Oh you know what I mean. I mean when I heard you and you told me five years ago about the appendicitis in oxy and I'd heard you say more

than once how many pills you took a day? And obviously you you you're an athlete, You've got the constitution, You're still in shape relatively speaking, like we all are. But I'm like, how did he survive all that in your system? Probably because I didn't drink? Okay, if I had,

I had I been drinking when and I didn't. When I say I didn't, like I never did, right, And so had I been drinking at all, you know, taking the amount of fills that I was taking, you know, forty fifty a day, you would just die, you would you would die. Absolutely. Yeah. So that's really the only I think, probably the only reason I am here. Plus drinking alcohol is a depressant. Lord knows what that would have done if you. Well, now

I can't say that I've never done like before I was ever addicted. I remember I got had had had a surgery, and I was still playing and we were in the playoffs, and I was anyway, after a game, I took a Viking and had a beer and I was so messed up, like I was, it was it felt like I had drank a dozen beers. So I knew that from that experience and probably a couple others like those. I knew that alcohol lit the light opioids like a match wow, and

just that alcohol and opioids are just a horrible, horrible mix. So that's really the only only reason. And don't you find it fascinating there were people who seek that out, who want to feel that way. That's what amazes me. I understand it completely. Yeah, because you're well. For me, I just didn't want to deal with other stuff that was going on in my life, and so yeah, I can understand completely why they're doing that.

I had your running bunny Josh Hopkins on the show. You were doing a podcast with him, But you got to bring that back at any time. I wish you would really entertaining. I learned so much from book Club. But I know that, and I've heard you tell people about how you slept on his couch. Yeah you know. I mean he was one of your friends that came to the rest of Rescue. Yeah, yeah, no question, man. You got to appreciate people like that. Man, there's

so many people, Josh, my sister, countless those people. Is it difficult now with the book to relive those parts of your life. Yeah, it's that's been hard because you know, I'd kind of dealt with a lot of that stuff, and my family, my kids, my ex wife have dealt with a lot of that stuff. Bringing all this stuff back up and in a public way, that's really hard. It's opening up old wounds. And did that give you pause when you know? I mentioned in the book

that while I was at UK, I had a panic attack. I didn't know what it was. Nobody really did, and they hit it from the media. And was that when they they didn't want to take you to a hospital. Yeah, they and so because we'd find out, because you guys

would find out, and they didn't know what to say. They also didn't know what was wrong with me. This was the day after they told me for the first time that I shouldn't be dating Sean, and so I woke up that morning and I do remember feeling like a big fraud, Like here I am, I'm the poster boy for everything they have going on. But they are ashamed. They are ashamed of me and how I handle my private

life. And I felt I was just overcome and I couldn't move, and I asked Reggie to go get Dwayne to tell them to take me to hospital. I need to go to the hospital. Dwayne came in, he had Reggie go get James Dickie, and they both came over and huddled up and decided that what needed to happen was that Sean lived at Blazer and they needed to go get Sean and take the two of us out to Don Johnson's farm out at Bryan Station Road. Don knew about Sean and I, and he

was great, and they took us out there. The reason that I'm in this position is they're trying to keep me away from her, and when I get in a bad way, they go get her. And so we stayed out there for two days and then came back and I was fine, got I was fined. Well, yeah, I was fine. And I never

remembered it again ever until we started doing this. And about six months ago, I had another panic attack in Brooklyn and Whitney lost and my girlfriend was there and took great care of me for a couple of days, two or three days, and I started triggered it all this stuff. Oh really, yeah, the book and yeah, I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm all right now. Okay, Like I said, I'm glad you're in the

garage. Yeah, thank you. Thanks. More with Rex Chapman on the other side of the break here on six point thirty Wlap Welcome back to this special edition of The Big Blue and Cider. More of my conversation with Rex Chapman, who came by the garage to talk about his memoir. It's hard for me to live with me listening to you describe yourself back then. And I do remember this, and I remember thinking this back then. I was impressed with, God, what's the word I'm looking for? You were despite

your high profile. I was pleasantly surprised with how grounded you were, you know what I'm saying. And maybe it was just a facade because you're grinning right now. Well, my parents, No, my mom and dad, they did it great. That's what I was raising do. Yes, you know, yeah, there's some things that look their parents, we're all parents, right, there are things that they wish they'd have done different, blah blah blah. But no, they're great parents and they know they raised me

and my sister to be polite and respectful. And what you were not was you did not as far as I could tell, have a feeling of entitlement. No, and that's what we see now. That's also my dad because I didn't. He never let me believe that I was really very good.

Like, uh, I liked it. I kind of liked it because yeah, because I you know, I knew I was decent, because I'm better than all the players around us. But also, Kentucky's a small state, you know, I know there's other people out there, but you know,

he, yeah, he messed with me from time to time. Like I remember being a sophomore at Apollo and I'm averaging I don't know, twenty points a game, and he's recruiting a couple of kids that I'm playing again who are like juniors and seniors and they're not like I'm, in my mind, I'm better than they are. And I asked him one day, like why are you ignoring me? Like you can't recruit me or you know he and

he looked at me and like what are you talking? And he said, Rex, you might be You're probably gonna be too good to play for Kentucky west Lynn, And like I thought he was joking in that moment, and like, what are you talking about? Like I never thought he because coach there. Yeah, but also like he didn't give compliments, so I didn't

know if he thought I was any good or not. Because and then you gotta remember, like the next week, maybe I might have played a game that he saw and on the way home he might say something like you couldn't play for me at Kentucky West Lynn, you know. So I was constantly trying, well, I was trying to please him. Yeah, but yeah, And I also think he recognized that I was very nice, Like I was polite and all that stuff, and my mom is very much that way.

And you can't really be that way and be you can maybe maybe get through college, not you know, being a little nice. You can't do that and play professional basketball. And I think my dad saw that, you know, if he didn't toughen me up some, that I was probably just I could flitter away more with Rex Chapman on the other side of the break here on six point thirty wlap. Hey, it's Dick Gabriel and you're listening

to the best of the Big Blue Insider. Welcome back to my conversation here in the garage with Rex Chapmin. When we left off, he was talking about growing up with a father who played pro ball and was a college coach, and how tough he was on Rex. I tell a story in the book about being at Apollo and I was a and I was, looking back, I was probably the best player in the state. Yeah, at the

time, you were. He got to you know, he may have only seen five games a year, but because his teams were playing and when he came to watch me, usually afterwards he was he would like, let me know how hard I didn't play. And you know, at the time, I'm a kid, I'm I feel like I'm playing hard. And when I look back, I understand, you know, I wasn't. I didn't know how to play hard like it was. The competition wasn't very good, and I only played hard when I felt challenged. So I understand now at the

time, I didn't. And I remember getting like forty points and you know, fifteen twenty rebounds, ten blocks. We played at Butler County. We should have won by a million, but we won by like fifteen or whatever. But I remember riding home on the bus thinking he's gonna have to love me up tonight. And I got home and he didn't say a word. Finally, I like said, what'd you think? He said, oh, you want to know what I think? I want to know when you're going

to take an effing charge? Are you ever going to take a charge? He said, stand up. He started running into me, and my mom came in and she said, break it up, break it up. I went upstairs. She came up to apologize to me and said said, listen, honey, I'm sorry, And I said, get off me, Mom. If he doesn't tell me, how am I going to know? And so I took up for him, which is really weird. It's really weird, but I knew he knew like he was right. Also, I was

a high school junior. If I file out in a game, we're going to lose. So I but he always let me know the truth about my game, and I knew because he'd done it. He had done it. Yeah, good college player and a lot of times we need that, you know. But that gave me a lot of confidence to know that, you know, hey, look so and So's dad didn't do that, and you know, but it gave me confidence that my dad knew what he was talking about about basketball, right right, right right. A few more questions for

you. You've been very generous with your time. But hell, we haven't seen each other forever. We talked on the phone, texted a little bit. You used to do some TV shows and radio shows. But I'm so happy, even if you're not comfortable with it, with the success of the book that I'm very proud of you. I don't know if I have the right to be proud of you, but you're a friend, so you know,

all right, it's stay tournament time, girls and boys. You got there once, as I recall, Yeah, tell me about your memories of that. And I don't mean where you depressed right here, but I mean just that has to be a happy memory. And people are amazed when I tell them. They're like, well, there, we're Rex's teams that they dominated here. I said, no, no, I said, he got

to the same tournament once. That's hard to do. It's hard to do, but it's really hard to do in Owensboro because Owensboro High every year, oh and Red Devils. Yeah, and for people that don't know, it's a predominantly black athletic high school as far as sports are concerned, and they go, I don't know if it's still the case, but three out of every four years to the state term, and we had a big rivalry with them, and they had very good players who were also my AAU teammates all

growing up, so and they were good. And those games against Owensboro High School my last three years of high school, especially the last two years, really helped prepare me for college basketball. We had two good players on my team, Greg Bond, my high school teammates, one of the best point guards I've ever played with. Teams are terrified of Greg and me. And they had five guys on their team that were really good, and had three

guys on their bench that were really good. And in two years, our last two years, we split with them five five, five to five in those games, and they were wars. And we were also like the top two or three or five teams in the states, and we drew each other in the first game of the district oh No, my senior year, oh again, we had We were up five games to four going into that and they beat us on a last second show and we were out in the first

game. We had gone. We had beaten them in the finals of the region the previous year, and we ran through Somerset and then We played Oldham County in the second game and we were running through them and I broke my finger, right index finger on a one three to one trap to start the second half. I played the rest of the game and I couldn't do anything, but I really felt like we were gonna win it. That year, Hopkinsville won it, but I felt like, yeah, it was eighty five.

It was eighty five. And then Reggie and them won it the next year and they beat Reggie and them beat Owensboro, and that let me know because Owensboro was good and Reggie was really good high school, Yeah, really good. Anti shot ninety percent from the free throw line and got there like fifteen times a game in high school, so they we might not have been able to beat them, But yeah, I remember I was working at another radio station. We broadcast the state tournament, so I had the best seat

in the house. And seventy nine was Dirkshire la fayette first year for the Sweet sixteen in rupp Arena, and some think it saved the Sweet sixteen from classes and all that stuff, and the crowds were phenomenal. The following year back to Freedom Hall, crowds weren't quite as good. Owensboro wins it. Yeah. Man, Then the following year, following a couple of years,

it comes back to Rup. That was when Darren Field House in Mason County, Virgie with Todd May and there were people hanging from the rapt no question. You know that was such a great period. Uh. And then after I left, well, you know, my first couple of years out of high school, Richie Farmer and law Yeah, Alan Houston were emerging, and so you know, just what a where are those days gone? You know, the Internet took them. Now everybody's got their phones out. Yeah,

so much more to do. I also feel too that great players like a rajah On Rondo didn't play a senior year at Eastern High School, right, he left a lot of guys leave. Let me steer you real quick, real quick to the Wildcats. You've tweeted the other day how much you love this team and love watching what's not the love? Are you envisioning yourself how

you would have in that line? What's fun? I'm I'm just amazed that you know, guys like Reed and Rob Are you know, who are unquestionably the best players on the team have no ego about starting and maybe they do and if they do, great, but they've handled it. They've handled it. Do you think that I think that's hell yes, hell, yes, I like yeah not I so, But you know, again, Kyle does his thing, and Cal's got these guys believing and believing at the right time

of the year. And he should talk as much junk as he feels like he should because this is what he preaches. Wait till March, wait till the SEC tournament. And how many times has this happened? It happened that team with Julius Randall in them. My gosh, that team was bad all year long. But what happened ran through the tournament. And this team, man, there's not a there's not a team in the country that it wants to face this this concern concerned about their tournament. So why not? No,

Because I think the offense is so good. I think it's such a potent, powerful offensive, powerful offensive team. Yeah, I'd like for the defense to be a little tighter, but you know, got shot blocking back there. Guys are giving effort. It's not an effort thing. It's just they're freshman freshmen, you know, dearon Fox and Bam and Maleak. If we have played that game against whoever it was that they got beaten, right Carolina, and a month later we beat them. Our guys were just a

month too young, just a month too young. You know, look at those guys now from those teams. I mean, so yeah again it's it's Cow's teams. I'm just thrilled. You know, we've had such good freshmen. But I'm just thrilled that we have such valuable and important upperclassmen like Antonia Crage. Is that, you know, you might not think a lot.

I remember being an eighteen year old and having a twenty two year old Paul Andrews in the locker room, and for Reggie and I who were Reggie was seventeen, and so Reggie and I would get you know, we were kids, and we would be goofing around, maybe during a film session or something, and Paul could look over at us and be like, hey, pay attention. Really well, yeah, but that's that's the difference in eighteen and twenty two, and when you don't have those twenty two Paul didn't even play

right. But I knew I better listen to Paul Andrews because he goes to class all the time and he's a serious person, and he's telling me to pay attention because I'm playing, you know, pay attention to what they're telling you. Rex. So those things are valuable, and if you don't have those old guys with that experience, it's really hard. Team that won it for Caldar Miller absolutely, I mean, so it's not it's not a secret. Those those are the teams that do it. It's the Best of the

Big Blue Insider, my conversation with Rex Chapman. More to come on six thirty WLAP Welcome back to the Best of the Big Blue Insider as we wrap up my conversation with Rex Chapman back in March. With Reid and Rob arguably being the best players on the team, what's that say to the guys in the lineup? It says, hey, you better you better play because I got two guys over here that are dying to come in and they have no ego about it. So that has to be a very well connected team to

function as it is functioning right now. And that is that's a recipe for success. I mean, when you care about guys enough on the teams where you don't care if they play or you play or whatever, celebrate their success. You celebrate their success and Okay, tomorrow night's going to be my night, or tomorrow night's going to be someone else's. That they're able to do

this with so many young kids is special. But also read Shepherd is special man, and so is Rob and you know they're they're And you mentioned yeah who you know talks to the NBA and they told him you need to do this, this and this, And he's done it all, hadn't he It's hard to average twenty points a game in college and about that, and uh, you know he's done it for I mean, he's a professional. He's really a professional scorer. He will go somewhere, whether it's the NBA or

wherever else and make money for a long time. I went to Toronto because I've never been awesome city, as you know. But watch this team and everybody saw it back here on TV. When you were watching that, were you and I don't know how cludeing you were at all, but were you at all surprised at the way they shared the ball, move the ball, the flow of their offense because we were all sitting up there going, oh my god, no, And here's why, Because you can't play with Reed

Shepherd and not play that way. It's not it's not. It's just something when you see a guy that gets the ball off the board and you're ahead and he hits ahead, that that that's a that's something that used to be just the thing that players did and hit ahead, hit ahead and play play the game that way instead of coming up and dribbling fifty times and throwing it

between your legs. And when you play with a guy that hits ahead and he makes the right that that can't make the wrong basketball play like it makes the game really easy. And I like guys like DJ and Rob and Justin and those other guys eating even the older guys. When you play with a guy that's so good and so unselfish like that, you realize, oh, this is how the game is played. And if I do this too, then man, we're all really good. And so I think it just and

it's nothing. Read again, I don't think it's anything Red does by design. It's just who he is. As Yeah, well I remember the first game up here in Toronto. He doesn't score. Yeah, okay, you know what he said, I had a bad game. We're like, no, you didn't, Yeah, because look at the rest of the stats and

then the scoring game, and same thing with Justin Edwards. He kind of floated through those first two games, but then in the third and fourth games when they were replaying some of those teams, and those teams up there were like, we're not gonna let these kids beat us again, so they really amped it up and the game came to Justin and he was the man. Yeah, and it takes a lot, Like not everybody, it's really hard

to come into the University of Kentucky and play as a freshman. I don't care who you are, whether you're Anthony Davis or Michael kid Gilchrist or John Wall whoever it is. And think about it, those are some of the greats, and it's hard for them. Imagine coming here and you struggle like Edwards, like Derek Miller, like Richard Madison, like Derek Horror that you come here when all that pressure is on you, Richie Farmer, uh and

you and and the actual playing part is hard, like too hard. Initially, that's hard, man, that's hard digging through that, and that's when you have to have teammates that are that are solid. Joe hal once told me along these lines that I'm not going to recruit a local kid unless I know he's gonna play a lot or start. I'm like, really, like, I thought he might want to have him on the bench or whatever. He said. No, he said, because they hear it from everybody,

mom, dad, girlfriend, minister, male, man, barber. Why aren't you playing war? That never occurred to me. You know, I'm not very bright, but that never occurred to me. Some guys aren't fine with that, and that I'm fine with. If you know, there have been guys who they're Kentucky fans. They grow up and they're really good players. They just want to come to Kentucky. And if they're and if they're fine with that, great, But it's really hard. You have to be

I say it. You don't have to be, but it's it's hard to come to Kentucky if you're not really good. And that goes for whether you're a local kid or from out of state. Unless you're really good, it's hard to come here and have success because you're broken down so often, and the and the fans love it so much. You know, it's hard to not hear all the negative stuff. I've had it very easy as far as

that that went. The basketball stuff was all glowing, and I still felt bad here, so you can imagine it was off the court stuff off the court, which was most of the time. Dick. Yes, now you're making me understand that. But to your point, I'll let you go with this. I was on I don't know why, but I was on the team Bust and at LSU. I guess I was doing something for the coaches show whatever, and I was talking to Pelfrey and Feldhouse and again back when

we could forge relationship with guys, and we were talking about her. I was talking about the guys who had left. You had gone pro, and the nsafe stuff happens and guys transfer out, and I was saying, you know, yeah, you know a lot of good guys left. And they were like, oh my god, just imagine what our team would be like. And I said, yeah, but you guys wouldn't have all the minutu're getting now. You guys wouldn't be scoring all these points you're getting now.

And they both said we'd have rings. Yeah, it didn't matter. Didn't matter to them. Yeah, like when I on my my sophomore year, So my sophomore year, Reggie and I sophomore year, Derek Miller sophomore year, Sean Sutton and John Pelfrey and Darren Feldhouse were all freshmen and they didn't like they didn't play. They in fact, I think, huh, maybe they weren't. They were gonna red shirt with John and and Darren, but they ended up not not doing that, I believe. But those guys didn't

play. They were not a they they were practice players. And they were different than I was, especially John and Darren in that I did not grow up dying to go to Kentuck. I grew up really dying to go to Louisville, and so that was but it was really cool for me to see because they knew they weren't gonna play, and they loved it, and they were seriously, the three of those guys, Sean, John and Darren three of my most favorite teammates ever, because they would go nuts on the sideline

when anything would happen for us. They loved it. They loved it like they loved it that their team was winning, that we were doing well, but they loved it from a uk. They were those kids that grow up dying to go there, and for me, that was really cool to see because you know, if everything would have stayed the way it was, they

those guys might not have played until they were seniors. If then, if then, yeah, and uh so, just to see what happened after, you know, I left school and those guys just with Mash and Rick Man, man, it was just the best man. Well, hey, Dan's on a sad note, but I know that you really like Kenny Payne. Yeah, and obviously things didn't work. He loses his job. I hope you gets a chance to be ahead coach again. I think you will. Kenny's the best Kenny, and I said this on social media last night.

Kenny Payne is the best of us. And when I say that, he's one of the best guys I've ever known, don't don't don't judge a window. Don't confuse what his success at Louisville as a head coach in two years where they were decimated. There was no talent left there. That has nothing to do with who he is as a man. And Kenny Payne, anybody that knows him will tell you Kenny Payne is the best of us as human

beings. So he will bounce back. He will get back. I hate to see this happen like this because you know, Oh Kenny in Purvis took me on my visit to Louisville. I've known them that long. Wow, we go back that far. Kenny will land on his feet. I love him to death. Rex can't thank you enough for dropping by the garage. You are welcome here anytime. Thanks Pal. That'll do it for now. Thanks for joining us for this special edition the best of the Big Blue Insider.

That's it. Good night from the garage in Lexington, sang

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