In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee Mesa unpack the biblical model of leadership and submission in marriage. Drawing from the Garden of Eden, they reflect on how God’s design for husbands and wives points us toward love, respect, and mutual support.The conversation emphasizes that submission is not weakness or loss of value, but a recognition of God-given roles that strengthen the family. With Christ as the example of servant leadership, this discussion invites coup...
Aug 21, 2025•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 45
In this powerful discussion, Adam and the crew unpack the hunger for authentic faith among young believers today. Contrary to the narrative that Gen Z is running from God, this generation is seeking Him in His purest form. The conversation challenges us to strip away cultural adaptations of Jesus and instead present the raw, transformative power of the Gospel.A moving story of a young woman who broke down in tears after hearing the simple truth of salvation reminds us of Romans 1:16 — that the G...
Aug 18, 2025•1 hr 34 min•Season 3Ep. 45
Adam and Ashlee are back — and this time, they’re putting each other on the spot with a round of fun, random questions. From imaginary arrest records and life-swaps to cartoon alter-egos (yes, there’s a Care Bear involved), nothing is off-limits.Along the way, you’ll hear about missing license plates, loud tooth-brushing, sun-induced sneezing fits, and why Ashlee will absolutely step in if anyone disrespects Adam — even at 6 AM in an airport. It’s all love, laughs, and just enough roasting to ke...
Aug 14, 2025•51 min•Season 2Ep. 44
What if deepening your faith meant asking more questions instead of having all the answers? In this thought-provoking episode, the crew explores how curiosity and open-mindedness can strengthen our walk with God. Looking at the example of Jesus—who welcomed people from every background and engaged with their stories—they unpack how respect, patience, and humility create space for meaningful spiritual conversations.This isn’t about watering down your beliefs—it’s about living them out with Christ...
Aug 11, 2025•59 min•Season 3Ep. 44
Pregnancy isn't just a physical journey—it’s a deeply spiritual one. In this powerful episode, Ashlee Mesa is joined by guests Alize and Nancy to unpack the highs and lows of motherhood through a lens of faith. From morning sickness and fear to unexpected complications, this conversation draws from the stories of Sarah, Hannah, Elizabeth, and Eve to show how God shapes both body and soul in the process.Whether you're expecting, hoping to be, or simply supporting someone in the journey, this epis...
Aug 07, 2025•59 min•Season 2Ep. 43
In a world driven by likes, shares, and endless scrolling, how do we stay spiritually grounded? In this timely episode, the team unpacks the subtle yet powerful ways social media can shape our identity, relationships, and even our walk with God. With Proverbs 18:1 as a backdrop, they challenge us to examine whether we’re using these platforms as tools for genuine connection—or letting them pull us into isolation, comparison, and performance.This conversation is a heart check for believers naviga...
Aug 04, 2025•1 hr 8 min
What do you do when your spouse is going through something heavy—and you're not sure how to help? In this heartfelt episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of showing up with empathy and patience when your partner is facing grief, anxiety, or health struggles. Rooted in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, this conversation is a reminder that marriage isn’t about convenience—it’s about commitment, especially when things get hard.Whether you're walking through a tough season or preparing for one, this episode ...
Jul 31, 2025•44 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Sometimes we chase a promise so hard, we end up building something God never asked for. In this episode, the guys dive into the tension between trusting God’s timing and taking matters into our own hands. Using the story of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar as a reference point, they explore what it means to accidentally “birth an Ishmael”—a version of purpose that we have to sustain ourselves—when God is calling us to wait for His “Isaac.”It’s a conversation about patience, obedience, and surrender—esp...
Jul 28, 2025•1 hr 20 min•Season 3Ep. 42
Control might feel like safety—but in marriage, it can become a silent wedge. In this heart-check of an episode, Adam and Ashlee dive into what it means to truly trust God in your relationship. Whether it’s trying to force outcomes, micromanaging your spouse, or holding onto fear disguised as “leadership,” they unpack how surrendering control creates space for both people to thrive spiritually and emotionally.Grounded in faith and full of practical insight, this conversation challenges couples t...
Jul 24, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 2Ep. 41
As artificial intelligence reshapes how we live, work, and connect—what does it mean for our spiritual lives? In this episode, Adam and the crew unpack how tools like AI can support, challenge, and even disrupt our walk with God. From digital Bible apps to algorithm-driven connection, they explore both the opportunity and the danger of technology becoming a substitute for intimacy with the Father. Drawing from the story of Adam and Eve, this conversation reminds us that no matter how advanced ou...
Jul 21, 2025•55 min•Season 3Ep. 41
Weddings are beautiful — but they’re not just about the flowers, the dress, or the guest list. In this week’s episode, we talk about what it means to enter marriage as a sacred covenant, not just a celebration. From the meaning of communion at your ceremony to the weight of commitment before God, this convo challenges couples to keep Christ at the center — even in the chaos of planning.If you’re engaged, dating, or even already married, this one will reframe how you see your wedding day and the ...
Jul 17, 2025•57 min•Season 2Ep. 40
In this powerful roundtable conversation, Adam is joined by Sammy, Kevin, Ben, and Daniel to talk about what it really means to prioritize your home as your first ministry. Inspired by Jesus’ love for children and the call to servant leadership, they reflect on how spiritual formation starts in the family. From bedtime Bible readings to reshaping daily routines, this episode unpacks the practical ways we can lead our households with intentionality and humility.Whether you're a parent, future par...
Jul 14, 2025•1 hr 28 min•Season 3Ep. 40
What does it look like to truly wait on God’s timing—especially in love? In this moving episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Eric and Thalia Bradley to unpack their 40-year journey of sexual purity before marriage. Their story is a powerful reminder that faithfulness is never wasted, and that God’s promises often exceed what we could ask or imagine. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 6, their testimony challenges cultural norms and highlights what it means to honor God with your body and trust Him with y...
Jul 10, 2025•53 min•Season 2Ep. 39
What does it mean to be Christian and compassionate in a divided world? In this timely episode, Adam and Will dive into the biblical mandate to care for the marginalized—especially the widow, the orphan, and the foreigner. Drawing from Deuteronomy, Proverbs, and the life of Jesus Himself (who was once a refugee), they challenge believers to approach modern immigration not just with policy opinions, but with a heart shaped by the gospel.This conversation invites you to reflect on how your faith s...
Jul 07, 2025•1 hr 22 min•Season 3Ep. 39
How can you raise godly children if your marriage isn’t united? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of unity in parenting and why your relationship as husband and wife sets the tone for your entire household. From handling in-law dynamics to the biblical principle of "leaving and cleaving," they share how oneness in marriage creates stability, safety, and spiritual clarity for your kids.This conversation is full of practical insight on conflict resolution, modeling Christ-like beha...
Jul 03, 2025•45 min•Season 2Ep. 38
How do you honor God while building something big? In this raw and motivating episode, Adam is joined by Pastors Sammy, Aaron, and Fuego to unpack the intersection of creativity, calling, and entrepreneurship. They open up about the highs and lows of starting businesses, leading ministries, and staying faithful to God's voice in an era where hustle and hype can easily drown out purpose.From battling self-doubt and burnout to navigating risk, resistance, and revenue, this episode is full of pract...
Jun 30, 2025•55 min•Season 3Ep. 38
What are the non-negotiables that keep a marriage grounded when life gets busy—especially with kids in the picture? In this practical and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about how parenting has challenged and strengthened their relationship. They unpack the values that keep them aligned, the systems they’ve put in place to stay connected, and how they navigate tough moments without losing sight of what matters most.From spiritual rhythms to dividing up household responsibilities, this conve...
Jun 26, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 37
What happens when your brain doesn’t shut off—but you're still called to lead? In this raw and relatable episode, Adam sits down with Pastor Will to talk about how they each navigate life, ministry, and mental health while living with ADHD. From rapid thoughts and decision fatigue to overcommitting and emotional overload, they get honest about the behind-the-scenes struggle that high-functioning leaders often carry.This conversation isn't about excuses—it's about awareness. Through biblical insi...
Jun 23, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 37
In this inspiring episode of Beyond I Do, hosts Adam and Ashlee Mesa sit down with Lester and Kirsten Baron—longtime friends and cherished members of the Patria community. Together, they dive into the journey of building a life side-by-side in marriage, business, and parenthood. From pursuing separate careers to launching a financial planning practice together, the Barons share the real and raw moments that shaped their path—including their experience with infertility and the beautiful story of ...
Jun 19, 2025•56 min•Season 2Ep. 36
How do you know if it’s God’s voice or just your own thoughts? In this deep-dive episode, Adam, Sammy, and Will unpack the tension between being emotionally led vs. Spirit-led, and why so many believers wrestle with discerning God’s voice in their everyday lives. He breaks down the dangers of assuming God always affirms your desires—and how the Holy Spirit often challenges, corrects, and sanctifies us rather than just co-signing our feelings.Drawing from both Scripture and lived experience, this...
Jun 16, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 36
What does it really mean to be led by the Holy Spirit in relationships? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee—joined by pastors and marriage coaches George and Tondra Gregory—dig into what spiritual discernment looks like when you're choosing who to marry, how to navigate conflict, or just trying to figure out if you're on the same page as your spouse. It’s not just about hearing an audible voice from heaven—it’s about walking in daily partnership with the Holy Spirit, especially when your emotions, ...
Jun 12, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 35
When the door doesn't open, is God saying "No"... or just "Not yet"? In this faith-stirring episode, we dive into the power of perseverance through the lens of Walt Disney’s relentless dream to build Disneyland—despite 300+ bank rejections. Through that story and Scripture, we explore how God often uses delay to develop character, and how enduring trials can actually prepare us for the purpose He’s promised.James 1:12 reminds us that the one who “perseveres under trial” is blessed—and that's the...
Jun 09, 2025•56 min•Season 3Ep. 35
What happens when your spiritual walk is strong—but your spouse's isn't? In this raw and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tension that arises when couples find themselves spiritually unequally yoked, even after marriage. They unpack the biblical responsibility of the believing spouse, offer encouragement from personal experience, and share tools to avoid bitterness, pride, and disconnection.Whether you're married to someone who’s lost their fire or you'r...
Jun 05, 2025•49 min•Season 2Ep. 34
In this solo episode, Adam unpacks the rising tension between Catholicism and mainline Christianity, not from a place of debate, but from honest cultural observation. Why does it feel like some Catholic leaders are targeting Protestants more than unbelievers? Is unity still possible with so much division in how we worship and understand authority? From personal DMs to viral TikToks, Adam offers a pastoral perspective on the Catholic Church’s public stance, the challenges of tradition vs. transfo...
Jun 02, 2025•52 min•Season 3Ep. 34
Can a Christian marriage survive when only one person is willing to fight for it? In this raw and deeply honest episode, Adam and Ashlee tackle one of the toughest realities many couples face: what to do when your spouse checks out. With biblical wisdom from 1 Corinthians 7:12-16 and real-life counseling insights, they explore how faith, patience, and self-work play a role in standing strong when the other person has given up.They also dive into the different ways men and women communicate distr...
May 29, 2025•46 min•Season 2Ep. 33
What happens when pastors, IV therapy, and artificial intelligence collide? In this hilarious and eye-opening episode, the crew explores how AI—especially ChatGPT—is shaping the way we approach leadership, study Scripture, manage relationships, and even recover from burnout. From naming your chat assistant to feeding it your life story, we discuss how far AI has come and how it’s quietly integrating into ministry, therapy, sermon writing, and daily life.But the conversation doesn’t stop at tech....
May 26, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 33
This episode gets real about the emotional rhythms of marriage—how we process things differently, how we misread each other, and what it means to feel truly seen and appreciated. Adam and Ashlee unpack how emotional awareness, resilience, and regular feedback have strengthened their relationship over time.They talk about why words of affirmation still matter (even 10 years in), how unspoken expectations can wear a couple down, and why understanding each other’s emotional wiring is key to a lasti...
May 22, 2025•51 min•Season 2Ep. 32
In this powerful and convicting episode, we dive into the urgent reality of child exploitation and human trafficking — not just overseas, but right in our own communities. Drawing on the example of Jesus and the radical story of a missionary praying for a known drug trafficker, we’re reminded that no one is beyond the reach of redemption.Romans 10:13 declares, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved,” and this episode unpacks what that means in the darkest of places. We challen...
May 19, 2025•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 32
In this heartfelt episode, we explore the beauty and challenges of intimacy in marriage through the lens of Ephesians 5. How do couples stay connected—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—especially after kids, stress, or past trauma? This conversation dives deep into the ways love mirrors Christ’s relationship with the Church, emphasizing the importance of communication, healing, and seeking both divine wisdom and practical support. Whether you're newlywed or years in, this message is a pow...
May 15, 2025•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 31
In this compelling episode of Beyond the Letter, we unpack the true meaning of biblical manhood, spiritual fatherhood, and mentorship within the body of Christ. Drawing from Jesus’ command to care for widows and orphans, we explore how "orphans" in Scripture often referred to the fatherless—and how that truth challenges today’s believers to step into roles of spiritual parenting.Discover why every man of faith needs three vital relationships: a father figure, a mentor, and a brother. These roles...
May 12, 2025•49 min•Season 3Ep. 31
