Better Husband - podcast cover

Better Husband

Angelo Santiagowww.angelosantiago.com

Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves.


With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expertise in relational dynamics, men’s issues, and the essential skills for a thriving marriage.


Each week, listeners will gain practical tools, actionable insights, and relatable stories. If you’re ready to communicate better, resolve conflicts effectively, and deepen your intimacy, Better Husband is your guide to answering the question, “How can I be a better husband?”

Last refreshed:
Follow this podcast in the Metacast mobile app to refresh it and see new episodes.
Download Metacast podcast app
Podcasts are better in Metacast mobile app
Don't just listen to podcasts. Learn from them with transcripts, summaries, and chapters for every episode. Skim, search, and bookmark insights. Learn more

Episodes

009|Create the Marriage You Want in 2025: 8 Powerful Questions for Husbands

🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com - Download the Better Husband Questions PDF at http://www.betterhusbandquestions.com Are you ready to create the marriage you and your wife truly want in 2025? In this episode of Better Husband , I’ll guide you through eight powerful questions to ...

Dec 31, 202411 minEp. 59

008|What Every Husband Should Know About Forgiveness and Trust with Dr. Bruce Chalmer

🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit —a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com . - In this episode of Better Husband, I am joined by psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer. We explore the critical issues in marriage when trust has been broken. Dr. Chalmer shares insights from his book 'Betrayal and Forgiveness,' discusses common misconceptions about trust, and of...

Dec 24, 202438 minEp. 58

007|How to Avoid Conflict in Your Marriage By Asking This One Question First

🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com - When conflict arises in your marriage, the words you choose can either help or hurt your relationship. In this episode of Better Husband, I explore the crucial question you must ask yourself during conflicts: Is what I'm about to say going to he...

Dec 17, 202418 minEp. 57

006|Why Men Struggle to Seek Help in Marriage with Dr. Dean Sunseri

🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit —a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com . - In this episode of Better Husband, I'm joined by Dr. Dean Sunseri, a licensed professional counselor and coach with over 30 years of experience helping individuals and couples achieve lasting personal growth. We delve into the importance of mentorship for men as husbands an...

Dec 10, 202440 minEp. 56

005|Why Gratitude Could Save Your Marriage

🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com - What if I told you that gratitude could be the missing ingredient in your marriage that changes everything? In this episode we'll explore how practicing gratitude can strengthen and possibly save your marriage. I'll discuss common mistakes men m...

Dec 03, 202420 minEp. 55

004|How Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Marriage with Bev Mitelman

🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit —a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com . - In this episode, I am joined by Bev Mitelman, founder of Securely Loved, and we dive into the world of attachment styles. We discuss the significance of attachment styles, their origins, and how understanding them can help you become a better husband. Bev provides insights ...

Nov 26, 202450 minEp. 54

003|How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage

🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com - Are you tired of your needs or wants going unmet in your marriage? In this episode of Better Husband, we dive into how to effectively ask for what you want in your relationship using skill and intention. Let's debunk the myth that marriages shou...

Nov 19, 202421 minEp. 53

002|How To Be a S.T.R.O.N.G. Husband With Kristal DeSantis

🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit —a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com . - In this episode, I am joined by Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and we discuss themes from her book 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' Key topics include evolving paradigms of masculinity, the foundational elements of a STRO...

Nov 12, 202447 minEp. 52

001|Overcoming Defensiveness: Improving Communication in Marriage

🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com - If every time your spouse has a complaint about how things are going in the marriage or asks you to make a change you get defensive, you need to listen to this episode. In this episode of Better Husband, I discuss the common struggle men face wi...

Nov 05, 202418 minEp. 51

Welcome to Better Husband

🔥 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🔥 Download the Better Husband Toolkit —a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com . - Welcome to Better Husband, the show that helps you answer the question "How can I be a better husband?" Join me every single week for expert interviews, responses to listener questions, actionable steps you can take in your marriage and so much more. Whether your marriage i...

Oct 31, 20242 min

Why Men Struggle with Change

In this episode of We Are The Men, I explore the psychological barriers men face when embracing change and offer practical steps to overcome them. By understanding why our brains resist change and finding the right motivation, I encourage all men to adopt a growth mindset. I make sure to discuss the importance of stress balance and community support, and highlight the role of men's groups in fostering accountability and lasting behavioral changes. There's also a big change coming to this podcast...

Oct 22, 202423 minEp. 50

How to Truly Live Authentically with Ray Martin

In this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago sits down with Ray Martin, an entrepreneur and award-winning business leader on a mission to empower people to live authentically. Ray shares his transformative journey from a successful businessman to finding his true calling as a coach and mentor. Following personal tragedies, Ray embarked on a six-month sabbatical, marking the start of his transformation into 'The Daily Explorer.' Through building self-awareness, owning experiences, an...

Oct 15, 202438 minEp. 49

3 Reasons Every Man Needs a Men's Group

In this episode of We Are The Men, I share my thoughts on the profound impact of men's groups on personal growth and relationships. I share my own journey from skepticism to life-changing experiences in a men's group, emphasizing the importance of community and connection for men. I also outline three key reasons why these groups are essential: getting out of one's head, learning to listen, and embracing accountability. By participating in a men's group, men can break free from isolation, improv...

Oct 08, 202419 minEp. 48

Finding Strength in Adversity with Rick Cheatham

In this powerful episode of 'We Are The Men,' Angelo welcomes guest Rick Cheatham, a retired fire captain, transformational speaker, and life coach. Rick shares his profound and inspiring life story, detailing how he overcame significant adversities, including a nearly failed marriage, the tragic loss of his son, and a debilitating injury that left him paralyzed from the chest down. Through his experiences, Rick has developed the AIM approach to help men shift from a victim mentality to one of v...

Oct 01, 202440 minEp. 47

7 Qualities of a Truly Good Man

In this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago explores seven key qualities that define a truly good man, according to psychology. Angelo shares personal experiences, scientific studies, and practical tips for self-improvement, inviting viewers to reflect on their own lives. Learn how to become a better husband, father, community leader, and overall human being. -- Connect with Angelo: angelo@wearethemen.com Source Article: https://smallbusinessbonfire.com/7-qualities-of-a-truly-good-...

Sep 24, 202418 minEp. 46

Raising Resilient Kids with Michael Anderson

Join Angelo Santiago in this conversation with Michael Anderson, a family therapist, coach, and author of the children's book series 'Jungle Tales.' They discuss the importance of parents doing their inner healing to show up more powerfully for their children, the principles of psychological flexibility, and the journey of overcoming personal fears and failures. Michael shares his experiences as a father of three and emphasizes the significance of slowing down, staying present, and prioritizing ...

Sep 17, 202444 minEp. 45

Breaking Free From Social Media

In this episode of We Are The Men, Angelo delves into his personal journey of the first 30 days of his social media detox. He shares the motivations behind his decision, the challenges faced in the initial days, and the positive changes experienced in his life and relationships. Angelo also discusses the impact of social media on mental health, provides insights from relevant studies, and offers recommendations for those considering a similar detox. Tune in to learn about the benefits of disconn...

Sep 10, 202424 minEp. 44

Killing the Nice Guy with Mike Campbell

In this episode of 'We Are The Men', Angelo chats with men's coach and author Mike Campbell. Mike, the founder of Everyday Legends Academy, shares his expertise on helping 'nice guys' build self-worth, self-respect, and security. They explore the idea of 'killing the nice guy' and transitioning into a solid, secure, good man. Mike also opens up about his personal journey, the importance of self-respect, and actionable steps men can take to transform their lives. If you're interested in men's per...

Sep 03, 202441 minEp. 43

A Man Without a Vision is Lost

In this episode, Angelo explores the critical importance of having a vision for one's life. He discusses how lacking a vision leads to being swayed by external expectations and ending up empty. Emphasizing the need for men to have a clear purpose, Angelo shares his journey of creating 'We Are The Men' and the challenges he faced in aligning his vision with his actions. He provides five steps to help clarify one's vision, encouraging listeners to reflect on their values, passions, unique strength...

Aug 27, 202416 minEp. 42

Building the Future Through Youth Mentoring with Trevor Spring

In this episode of the We Are The Men Podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a heartfelt conversation with Trevor Spring, founder and director of Sonz Youth. They discuss Trevor's extensive 21-year journey as a holistic movement coach and his 12 years in men's work, including his impactful initiatives with the Mankind Project and Sacred Sons. Trevor delves into the vital work being done through Sonz Youth's mentoring programs and rites of passage for 11 to 19-year-olds, sharing insights into t...

Aug 20, 202449 minEp. 41

Pattern Interrupts - A Strategy for a Fully Lived Life and Stronger Relationships

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago delves into the concept of pattern interrupts—intentionally breaking daily routines to uncover new possibilities and deeper connections in life. Drawing from his recent family vacation to Belize, Angelo shares personal experiences of how stepping out of comfort zones can rejuvenate relationships and inspire new life visions. -- Register for Angelo's FREE LIVE TRAINING FOR MEN -- "RECONECT & REIGNITE: 3 Steps to a Fully Lived...

Aug 13, 202416 minEp. 40

Finding Authenticity and Connection with Dauss Miller

In this episode of the We Are the Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Dauss Miller , an award-winning commercial fashion and lifestyle photographer known for his transformative work with high-level entrepreneurs and thought leaders. The episode delves into Dauss's background, including his experiences as a 'super dad' to six children and his move to Austin, Texas. The conversation explores how Dauss uses authentic conversations and vision casting to help his clients express their true sel...

Aug 06, 202443 minEp. 39

Why Men Need Each Other

In this solo episode of the We Are the Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago delves into the critical topic of why men need other men in their lives. He shares personal experiences and discusses the detrimental effects of loneliness, bolstered by research and statistics. Angelo emphasizes the importance of emotional and spiritual connections through brotherhood, offering practical steps for men to build meaningful relationships. The episode also highlights the upcoming 'We Are the Men Initiation' pr...

Jul 30, 202423 minEp. 38

Building a Strong Foundation in Life and Business with Robert Kandell

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago speaks with Robert Kandell , an accomplished businessman, teacher, and author of 'Unhidden: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them.' Robert shares insights from his life journey, including his venture from corporate environments to successful entrepreneurship. He discusses the importance of self-validation, the challenges men face today, and practical advice for entrepreneurs. Robert emphasizes the role of gradual self-improv...

Jul 23, 202445 minEp. 37

A Level Deeper with Angelo Santiago

This episode is a recording of Angelo Santiago's guest appearance on the A Level Deeper Podcast in May 2024. In this episode, host Chad Miles engages in a great conversation with Angelo about the evolving definition of masculinity. They explore Angelo's journey of self-discovery through men's work, the emotional challenges in his marriage, and the transformation he experienced by embracing vulnerability and self-awareness. The discussion covers the balance between intellectual thinking and emoti...

Jul 09, 20241 hr 16 minEp. 36

Strengthening Marriages Through Sexual Intimacy with Dan Purcell

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Dan Purcell , co-founder of Get Your Marriage On . They discuss the importance of sexual intimacy in strengthening marriages, the challenges couples face, and the resources available to help them. Dan shares his journey from a difficult sex life to becoming a coach and the impact of his work on other couples. They talk about the dynamics of sexual desire in long-term relationships, tools for improving intimacy, and...

Jun 24, 202449 minEp. 35

Exploring Consent, Sexual Integrity, and Personal Growth with Mischa Byruck

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago speaks with Mischa Byruck , a men's sexual integrity coach and founder of Evolve.Men , about the profound topics of sexuality and sexual shadows. Mischa shares insights from his extensive experience in coaching and consent education, touching on issues like navigating the complexities of sexual desires, preventing sexual harm, the realities of consent. The conversation explores both the light and dark aspects of sexuality, the i...

Jun 17, 202452 minEp. 34

Embracing Your Leadership and Self-Trust with Jose Alejandro

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Jose Alejandro , a certified men's life and leadership coach. They dive into topics such as personal growth, rites of passage, self-trust, and the importance of community in men's lives. Jose shares his journey as a co-founder of Modern Renaissance Man , an organization empowering self-led men, and discusses the transformative power of brotherhood, leadership training, and authentic connection. Tune in to hear compellin...

Jun 10, 202439 minEp. 33

A Meaningful Life through Deep Conversations with Chad Miles

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago talks with guest Chad Miles , an entrepreneur, creator, husband, full-time traveler living in a self-built camper van and host of the A Level Deeper Podcast . Chad shares his journey from pursuing material success to finding meaningful connections and collaborations. Support the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/wearethemen Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter: https://www.wearethemen.com/subscribe They discuss the power of deep, ...

Jun 03, 202443 minEp. 32

Relational Evolution with Damien Bohler

In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Damien Bohler , the founder of Evolve Relating . They explore Damien's work in helping individuals heal attachment traumas, integrate polarity, and develop advanced relational skills to foster transformational relationships. Support the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/wearethemen Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter: https://www.wearethemen.com/subscribe Damien shares his personal journey, shedding light on the inf...

May 27, 202445 minEp. 31
Hosted on Buzzsprout
For the best experience, listen in Metacast app for iOS or Android