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Betches Brides

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When a bride accepts a proposal, they’re not expecting to say yes to distress. But wedding planning can be the most stressful time in any relationship — families collide, personalities clash, and wallets empty even before your mother-in-law adds her entire bridge club to the invite list. Good thing Betches Brides is here to help you laugh (cry?) through it all. Each week, stand-up comedians Selena Coppock — the mind behind the @nytvows parody account — and Chelsea White meet to swap stories about their own wedding journeys, while answering listener emails to help you not trip down the aisle. Selena and Chelsea are here for all Betches Brides and newlyweds in need of advice, empathy, and laughter — including themselves.
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Episodes

Meet Our “Type-A” Brides Ambassador Ft. Mila White

In this bonus episode brought to you by High Noon, we meet our second Betches Brides Ambassador, Mila White. Mila is a self proclaimed “Type-A - Control Freak” and admits to struggling with the desire to have a hand in everything from start to finish. She then shares how her and her fiance are balancing their very different cultural, familial, and religious backgrounds - revealing that they have to hold two bridal parties AND two wedding ceremonies to accommodate. To end, they play a new game ca...

Aug 18, 20221 hr 4 min

Cut Your Wedding Wardrobe Expenses In Half Ft. Brides Love A Sale

This week, Nicole is joined by highly requested guest Kat L., creator of the website Brides Love A Sale. They start off by getting to know Kat, what inspired her to start Brides Love A Sale and how it has evolved into a tool to help future brides wear high fashion for half the price. Then, Nicole reads an email from a listener who is worried about the logistics of not only purchasing a secondhand dress, but how to work it into her timeline so it won’t outshine her original full price dress. Fina...

Aug 15, 202258 min

Meet Our First Brides Ambassador Ft. Hannah Chambers

This week, Nicole is joined by Brides ambassador Hannah Chambers, for the first Betches Brides Ambassador episode. First, Hannah shares about her roots in wedding planning, her Meet-Cute, and her green-nail proposal fiasco. Of course, Nicole asks about Hannah’s wedding plans, specifically, how she is making vendor decisions more than a year out. Hannah discusses her plans for her guest list, florals, and her choice not to have bridesmaids. Hannah shares some obstacles she and her partner have ru...

Aug 08, 20221 hr 13 min

How To Get Upgrades On Your Honeymoon Ft. Samantha Rosen

This week Nicole brings on Samantha Rosen, director of digital content at Betches, 2023 bride, and former travel editor from The Points Guy to give us all the tips and tricks for using credit card points and miles to your advantage for your next destination wedding or honeymoon abroad. Is there a way to basically pay for your entire honeymoon with points? Lastly, the end with “Unpopular Opinions” where we find out if a bride should pay for their bridal parties hair AND makeup, if your speech giv...

Aug 01, 20221 hr 12 min

Creating The Ultimate Laid-Back Wedding Ft. Jorge Morales Picó & Marina Soucy

This week, Nicole is joined by an honorary Betches Brides, Jorge Morales Picó and Marina Soucy to chat about their wedding and offer advice for creating the ultimate laid back wedding weekend. First they share how they went out of the regular order of things by booking their venue first. They explained just how they saved money by using the venue to its full potential rather than booking extra vendors. Nicole then asks about what they would have done differently and while the list isn’t long, in...

Jul 25, 202259 min

Finding Diverse Vendors For Your Wedding Ft. Taylor Rae Almonte

This week, Nicole is joined by athlete, activist and 2022 bride, Taylor Rae Almonte to chat about bringing on inclusive and diverse vendors for your wedding. First we get to know Taylor, her fiance, and their wedding planning so far. Then, Nicole asks about Taylor’s activism and how it sparked the idea to seek out vendors of all backgrounds and her reasoning behind it. Next, they listen to a Voicemail from a bride wondering what to do when her fiance's family is expecting her parents to pay for ...

Jul 18, 20221 hr 12 min

Lessons From My Destination Wedding Ft. Bryan Russell Smith

This week, Nicole brings back three-peat guest and Betches own Bryan Russell Smith for the final update on his destination wedding. Nicole reminds Bryan of his pre-wedding worries from his previous interview and Bryan assures us that everything went better than he could have imagined - How? Always over-prepare. Next they listen to a voicemail where a destination bride is asking how they can save money on the welcome party without making the guests feel cheated. Lastly, they end on a game of Unpo...

Jul 11, 20221 hr 3 min

Wedding Speeches Do's And Don'ts Ft. Sean Kilby

Back by popular demand, this week Nicole brings on Betches Podcast Director Sean Kilby to chat more about his numerous wedding opinions. Sean starts off by deconstructing his 5 layer speech sandwich that will guarantee to move a crowd. He explains that giving a successful speech is formulaic and with a little bit of practice (and tears) you will always kill it. Next, they listen to a voicemail about a listener wanting to mix wedding themes and while Sean praises the idea of throwing a fully them...

Jul 04, 20221 hr 13 min

WTF Is A Bridesmaids Survey Ft. Lauren Ladouceur

This week, Nicole sits down with bride-to-be and organization phenom Lauren Ladoucer. They dish on how to be the best kind of type-A bride: prioritizing communication. They cover her tik tok-famous bridesmaid survey, meant to break down their role throughout the planning process, during the bachelorette, and on the day-of. She also explains her “vendor presentation,” to streamline the couple’s vision on flowers, dining, and more. Lastly, they tune into the Betches Brides Voicemail, and advise an...

Jun 27, 202256 min

Is Your Wedding About You Or The Guests? Ft. Melissa Andre

This week Nicole is back with wedding and event planner Melissa Andre, one of our most listened to guests in Betches Brides history. In this episode Nicole and Melissa chat about how social media, especially TikTok, has changed the way people view the wedding planning industry. Did you know people have A LOT of opinions on the internet? Melissa then explains that, while your wedding day should be about you, keeping that Host/Guest relationship is what truly creates a welcoming atmosphere. They f...

Jun 20, 202258 min

Can A Friend Be Your DOC (Day Of Coordinator)? Ft. Sean Kilby

Call the BETCHES Brides hotline at: (646) 389-7804‬ This week, Nicole is joined by Betches Podcast Director Sean Kilby to chat about his experience as a DOC - Day Of Coordinator. They go through his day step by step - discussing exactly what he did as a DOC and what qualities couples should look for when seeking one out. Sean then offers his advice to couples on how to make their wedding "Amazing!" vs. “it was nice” - The secret? Always offer shots. Lastly, they listen to Betches Brides first ev...

Jun 13, 20221 hr 17 min

More Tips From The Wedding Wardrobe Queen Ft. Caroline Crawford Patterson

This week Nicole is joined by three-peat guest and wedding wardrobe queen, Caroline Crawford Patterson. They start off by reading listener-submitted emails covering everything from revealing wedding dresses, mismatched bridal party outfits, to dress shopping with a large group. Then, they play a new game called “Would You Rather” where they test which wedding faux pas they would rather experience. Finally, they close out with “Unpopular Opinions'' but with a twist. Learn more about your ad choic...

Jun 06, 20221 hr

Finalizing Last Minute Wedding Details Ft. Bryan Russell Smith

This week Nicole is re-joined by Betches own Bryan Russell Smith to chat about his fast approaching destination wedding. They start off by Bryan giving the latest updates on his planning and how he is working through the last minute details - which includes learning how to address his fiancé's family in (almost) fluent Spanish. Then, they play a round of “Unpopular Opinions” discussing topics like, how long should a ceremony drag on, and do destination bach parties need to stop? Lastly, they rea...

May 30, 20221 hr

Tackling The Post Wedding Blues Ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein

This week, Nicole is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, co-host of the Betches Oversharing Podcast and Jordana’s sister. They start off by chatting about a very popular topic, “The Post Wedding Blues” and how it affects couples after their big day. Then, Nicole asks Dr. Bernstein how couples can set up solid groundwork for their marriage before and after the wedding day. Finally, they read a listener email and discuss how couples should handle arguments that pop up during weddi...

May 23, 20221 hr 16 min

What Makes A Great Wedding Photographer? Ft. Alex Ashman

This week, Nicole is joined by her very own wedding photographer, Alex Ashman. They start off by reminiscing about Nicole’s wedding and just how they got the perfect wedding photos. Alex goes on to say just how difficult it can be to find a wedding photographer, because you need someone just as unique as your big day. Then, they talk about how your photographer can make the day easier for the couple and also how the couple can make it easier on the photographer (here's a hint - feed them). Final...

May 16, 20221 hr 2 min

How To Get Over Your Wedding Regrets Ft. Caroline Ripa

This week Nicole is re-joined by Caroline Ripa for a very special mail bag episode. They start by catching up with everything Caroline has been up to since she was last on the show. Then, they answer hot topic emails like debating the age-old question of “kids or no kids on the big day” and how it’s OK to be more nonchalant about your wedding. Next, Nicole debuts a new segment called “Wedding Regrets” where they read some listeners' wedding regrets to give their advice and reassurance. Lastly, t...

May 09, 20221 hr 6 min

Deciding Your Wedding’s “Non-Negotiables” Ft. Amanda Duberman

Nicole is joined this week by BETCHES very own, Amanda Duberman. In this episode, Amanda focuses on narrowing down her non-negotiables, which mainly consists of her need for good NYC food, and who can blame her? She then asks Nicole for her advice when it comes to DIYing a majority of her wedding. Nicole’s big tip is solidifying after party plans if you want the festivities to last all night. They then read an email submission about getting post engagement anxiety, and how Amanda combats this by...

May 02, 202257 min

Let’s Talk Wedding Makeup With a Makeup Artist Ft. Mikayla Nogueira

This week, Nicole is joined by Mikayla Nogueira, a successful makeup artist and 2023 bride. They chat about Mikayla’s dating journey with her fiance' and how it convinced her to believe in love at first sight. Then, Mikayla reveals that she actually gave direction when it came to her engagement ring, since you know, she'll be wearing it everyday. She then shares that a “clean and classic” aesthetic is her vision for the wedding, but will she pull a Christine Quinn and have a sloth make an appear...

Apr 25, 20221 hr 7 min

Honeymoon Tips And Tricks With Jordana

Nicole is joined today by the one, the only, the new Jordana Marinelli (well, still Abraham for now). Refreshed from her honeymoon, Jordana is ready to relive every moment with us and share her tips along the way. Warning, she’s honest about what honeymooners have to suffer through… surrounded by cake, champagne, and rose petals, it’s truly horrible! First, they started their trip off in Sri Lanka with a tea tour and a wildlife safari in Yala National Park. Next, The Maldives, where they hopped ...

Apr 18, 202250 min

Bridesmaid Planning Made Easy Ft. Taelor Pawnell

Nicole is back in the studio, and this week she’s joined by bride-to-be Taelor Pawnell (aka Stylish Sista) for a very informative wedding planning debrief. Taelor tells us all about how she met her fiancé, why she decided to hire a “budget” wedding planner, and how she ended up getting the engagement photos of her dreams. Plus, she fills us in on the bridesmaid powerpoint that went viral, along with how to get your hands on the ready-made template yourself. Never too early to get the bridesmaids...

Apr 11, 202251 min

Vendor Tipping 101 Ft. Jason Rhee

Nicole is joined by wedding planner and owner of Rheefined Company, Jason Rhee, for our most anticipated episode yet. Jason is to talk all things vendor tipping and more! Before getting into the nitty gritty of vendor tipping, they discuss the first and foremost important first step before you even start to consider vendor shopping. They also chat about tips for shopping around for ideal vendors, whether or not it's rude to negotiate with vendors, and what to expect in a vendor contract. Next, N...

Apr 04, 20221 hr 9 min

Navigating Body Image Pressure As A Bride Ft. Victoria Garrick

This week we are joined by mental health and body image advocate, and host of the Real Pod podcast, Victoria Garrick! She is here to discuss all things wedding planning, starting off with her engagement story and how it all happened. They get into the inevitable and relatable pressure that comes with being a bride, and the pressure that society puts on us to "shed" for the wedding. Then, Victoria talks about how her dress shopping experience was and yes - not crying when she found "the" dress (a...

Mar 28, 20221 hr 13 min

Pre-Wedding Skincare Treatments Ft. Brittany Blancato

Nicole is back for a bonus episode with celebrity skin specialist, Brittany Blancato! Brittany's here to talk all about skincare, starting off with her acne journey and finally getting to the point of clearing it. She shares her thoughts on slugging, before getting into everything you should know about the different skincare treatments including: facials, peels, and lasers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 23, 202244 min

Uninviting Your Wedding Guests Ft. Chris Burns @fatcarriebradshaw

Today, Nicole is joined once again by Chris Burns AKA @fatcarriebradshaw to solve your wedding dilemmas! Before they jump into the emails, Chris catches us up on his wedding life, including the one he recently attended, and all the weddings he’s attending this year. Then, it's time for the listener emails about - uninviting guests, in-laws' unsolicited opinions, and friends who schedule their weddings too close to your's. After that, Chris and Nicole move over to some games, starting off with a ...

Mar 21, 20221 hr 12 min

Planning A Wedding In 5 Months Ft. Lindsey Metselaar

In this week’s episode, Nicole is joined by host of the We Met At Acme podcast, Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey is here to give us the scoop of her engagement, ring shopping, and not to mention — planning it all in just 5 months!! They begin with a flashback to how Lindsey met her husband, Steven, before getting to the engagement details, and jumping straight into the wedding planning process. Lindsey shares why she decided to having her wedding so soon, and how the shorter timeline actually helped h...

Mar 14, 20221 hr 1 min

The Ultimate Wedding Dance Guide Ft. Maya Moves

Nicole is joined this week by Founder of Maya Moves, Maya Sank, to talk all things wedding dances. To start, Maya shares all about her background as a dance choreographer, and how that eventually led her to get into weddings. They get into listener questions about first dances, discussing things like choosing song suggestions, slow vs. fast songs, and easy moves anyone (literally— anyone) can incorporate into their first dance. Then it’s time for a listener email about a simultaneous father/daug...

Mar 07, 202248 min

When Things Go Wrong On Your Wedding Day Ft. Brooke Weislow

Nicole is back with a bonus episode with her college bestie and newlywed bride, Brooke Weislow! Brooke’s here to talk all about her recent wedding in the Dominican Republic, starting with how she came to her decision for the venue, weekend events, and her best wedding planning tool. She gets into some of the things that went wrong during her wedding — yup, a flat tire and not to mention her missing shoes! Plus, Brooke discusses packing tips, her fav part of the wedding, and any wedding day regre...

Mar 04, 202257 min

Will A Good Planner Help You Save Money? Ft. Karla Barone

This week, Nicole is joined by Betches’ own Integrated Marketing Director (and bride-to-be) Karla Barone! They start with all the deets on how she met her fiancé, Corey, and the day of her proposal (plus how far Corey was willing to go to make it all happen). Karla shares her wedding planning process, including her wedding venue, the meaning of her wedding date, and which vendors she’s booked thus far. Up next, they get into the backstory of her ring, and how she decided to upgrade a family heir...

Feb 28, 20221 hr 10 min

Solving Your Wedding Dilemmas Ft. Caroline Crawford Patterson

Nicole is back this week those a returning guest (and someone we all know and love), Caroline Crawford Patterson! They start off with an updated on how the married life is going, before diving into a rapid-fire round of questions to answer all things wedding dilemmas. They discuss things like the very first thing to do after getting engaged, invitation rules, and ideas for the groom and bride the morning of the wedding. Then, it’s time for the listener email, this one about a pregnant bridesmaid...

Feb 21, 20221 hr 15 min

Making Your Multicultural Wedding Memorable Ft. Jamie Pandit

Nicole is joined by a guest we are so excited about, transgender influencer and recent bride Jamie Pandit! To start off, Jamie shares her transgender journey, living in stealth for over half her life, and making the very brave decision to come out publicly. She discusses how she met her now husband, Phil, and what it was like coming out to him and his family prior to her wedding. She even talks all about the details of her proposal and wedding, and why it was so important for her to honor both h...

Feb 14, 202259 min
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