204 – The Virtue Of Diplomacy

The Virtue Of Diplomacy… Hey every body!  Welcome!  You have arrived at a podcast that is devoted to advancing the consciousness of men everywhere.  Specifically…the part of our consciousness that has to do with character.  Welcome to Being A better Man! This is my favorite time of year.  Today is the 17th of May, and it is a really big deal in Norway.  It is their constitution day, when they declared independence from Sweden.  I’ll be attending a big Parade today in Ballard Washington, and for all of my Norwegian listeners, I would like to say; Gratularer med dagen!  Hip hip hurrah! It’s good to celebrate all the good things in life, because life can really get heavy sometimes can’t it?  I find myself, in today’s political climate spending a certain amount of energy on simply not engaging.  It isn’t just the political climate though, it’s the racial climate and all the things going on internationally as well.  There is also gender issues and healthcare issues and a whole list of other things that are just there every time you turn on a computer or have a conversation with somebody.  That is the world we live in today. When I said I find myself spending energy on NOT ENGAGING, what I meant was that it is way too easy to get caught up in all this stuff.  With this many opinions in the world I really have to watch myself.  I cannot allow myself to get triggered by something someone says that I think is inaccurate.  Why?  Because it is not productive.  It does nothing to advance my life or my situation. Just this evening I witnessed a debate on Facebook between two guys I went to school with.  They are on opposite sides of the issue they are talking about.  I watch as their comments become more and more personal, more aggressive, and sharp.  Eventually, they both turn into elementary school children hurling insults, and what is the product of all this vitriol?  Is anyones mind changed?  No.  The only thing produced by all of it is bad feelings between two people who otherwise, would be friends. I have plenty of opinions myself.  Furthermore, I enjoy a good intellectual debate about something—but this was not an intellectual debate.  I was tempted to jump in the ring with my two friends and let them know what I thought as well.  I didn’t though, because I have learned it accomplishes nothing.  It only produces more negativity and I can’t be a party to that. In the past, when I have...