186 – Blueprint Of A Man…Sharing our strength

Blueprint Of A Man… Today I’m going to share with you a message I received earlier today and talk about that for a little bit.  But first, we need to take a moment and recognize the illustrious sponsor of today’s program; Stump Town Kilts. This company is located in Stump Town, also known as Portland Oregon.  I have been to their facility, I have met the people behind the kilts…and let me tell you, you will not find a group of people more dedicated to the creation of top quality kilts than these people.  Every kilt made by them has received their personal attention in every detail.  That is why I have them as a sponsor of this show, because I know they stand behind their product 100%, and I stand behind them.  I don’t just stand behind them…I stand IN them.  I own three of these kilts myself.  Really guys, here’s the formula;  Suburb craftsmanship + Innovative original design + people who take pride in their work = a Stumptown Kilt.  So don’t wait, go to their website at stumptownkilts.com and order your new kilt, today.  For listeners of this show if you enter the code:  betterman, at checkout, you will receive 10% off your online purchase.  OK, today I got a letter on the Being A Better Man Facebook page.  I’m going to share that letter with you because it brings up an important point. This message came from a woman, and she wrote: Alf, Thank you so much for doing all that you do. My husband listens to your show and has begun sharing the episodes with our 12 y/o son and myself and I had to take a moment to say you enrich the lives of all that hear your voice. I grow and am able to better support the men and growing men in my life with every show. I appreciate your time and all the energy you put in to improving the lives around you. Have a great day! Aloha! Besides the letter itself, and the compliment to me and the show, which is awesome.  I want to focus on something else, and that is this woman’s husband.  He did something extraordinary and important, he started sharing the show with her and their 12 year old son.  I want to applaud this man, because by sharing something with his family that he thought was important and beneficial, he became a better man than he was yesterday. By sharing things like this he is perfectly executing the function of a man.  It was obviously a wise choice on his part because if it wasn’t, she would not have been compelled to write. I’m not saying all this because it happened to be this show that he shared.  It’s great that he did, but there are many things that we as men can share with the other people in our lives, and every time we do it makes us a