In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event ...
Nov 17, 2024•53 min•Season 1Ep. 193
In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then? Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/ Visit our website her...
Nov 03, 2024•50 min•Season 1Ep. 192
In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future. Thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Visit our web...
Oct 20, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 1Ep. 191
In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk OMGYES: https://star...
Oct 06, 2024•52 min•Season 1Ep. 190
In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo. Thanks for hoppin...
Sep 26, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 189
In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things! Do let us know what has surprised you since you've star...
Sep 08, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 188
In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone! Thanks for hopping into ou...
Aug 25, 2024•50 min•Season 1Ep. 187
In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ Ema...
Aug 11, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 186
In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Join our neo...
Jul 28, 2024•53 min•Season 1Ep. 185
In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ Joi...
Jul 14, 2024•1 hr 20 min•Season 1Ep. 184
In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures. This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopp...
Jun 23, 2024•48 min•Season 1Ep. 183
In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi. Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine Don't...
Jun 09, 2024•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 182
In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril! Thanks for hopping into our...
May 26, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Season 1Ep. 181
In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too! Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://ww...
May 12, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 180
Welcome to the bed hopper podcast. Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top...
Apr 30, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 179
In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too. Thanks for downloading our podcast! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine Don't forget to use code Liber...
Apr 14, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 178
In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case. Thanks for hopping into our podcast. Handy links Send Mrs H your phrase at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Join our Patreon at https://www.patre...
Apr 02, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 177
In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date! Thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk You can r...
Mar 17, 2024•54 min•Ep. 176
In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today! Thanks for hopping in to our podcast! Handy links UPDATE: We have ...
Mar 03, 2024•53 min•Ep. 175
After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you. Handy links UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black a...
Feb 18, 2024•51 min•Season 1Ep. 174
In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed. Handy links Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1 Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/ Find Secret Stag h...
Feb 04, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 173
In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Thanks for hopping into our bed! Links and stuff Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live stream... https://twitter.com/Elanjay_UK https://twitter.com/MistressVixen77 h...
Jan 21, 2024•52 min•Season 1Ep. 172
Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang! This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled episod...
Jan 07, 2024•54 min•Season 1Ep. 171
In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come to our Southampton Social on 27 January? Send us an email ( bedhoppersuk@gmail.com ) or D...
Dec 17, 2023•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 170
This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show ( https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder ) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the scenes, talk about our highlights, some of the feedback and how it all went down. Find out more ab...
Dec 03, 2023•51 min•Season 1Ep. 169
Thanks for downloading our podcast. We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thing, how we're feeling about it and what it could change for our relationship. Hope you find it a usef...
Nov 19, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 168
Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone! Handy links Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events here: https://libertineevents.com/
Nov 05, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 167
In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about SwingHub: https://www.swinghub.com/ https://twitter.com/SwingHub Check out Vistawife: https://www.instagram.com/vista...
Oct 15, 2023•50 min•Season 1Ep. 166
In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Come to our Winter Wonderland event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/...
Oct 01, 2023•59 min•Season 1Ep. 165
In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and how we're a little out of practice. Special thanks to the Swindon team for being so welcoming. Thank...
Sep 17, 2023•47 min•Season 1Ep. 164
