Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we, inspired by too many Youtube videos, list the ten things we couldn't live without. We explain why we didn't publish last week and why our little world has been especially shit. Not so much swinging or lifestyle stuff in this one - but you will learn a little more about us. We have some much needed fun and laughter and also talk about things we could do without. Thank you again for all of your love and support. You've helped us g...
Apr 26, 2020•54 min•Season 1Ep. 73
Thanks for downloading our show. We catch up with Barney and Emma Stone about their journey in the lifestyle, experiences with kink and trips to Desire and Temptations. We touch on the benefits of swinging, how they've got on running their own event and a whole lot more. You can find out more about their events by heading to https://theunseenlounge.co.uk . Find us on YouTube (bed hoppers), Twitter (bedhoppersuk) and Fab Swingers (bed hoppers). We're also on insta and on email too - bedhoppersuk@...
Apr 05, 2020•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 72
As the world gets put on lockdown, we offer up some ideas to help you stay swing and sexy friendly. We run through our top twenty ideas which we wrote down (twice, no less). There's some common sense, not so common sense and also some truly random things in there. If you've got some suggestions, please drop us a line at bedhoppersuk on Twitter or bedhoppersuk@gmail.com - your message might just make the next show. Sadly our forthcoming social has been postponed - but worry not, it'll soon be bac...
Mar 22, 2020•36 min•Ep. 71
Join us for a special episode - it's been two years of the show and 70 eps! Blimey! So this one gets a little bit self indulgent (sorry - 'normal' service will resume shortly). After all the crap going on (ill parents, Mrs H being ill, coronavirus, cancellations left and right etc.) it's finally good to have something nice to celebrate. None of this would have been possible without you - so thank you very much. You are AMAZING. So go and treat yourself by watching our new youtube clip. And remem...
Mar 19, 2020•47 min•Ep. 70
Welcome to episode sixty nine! That's right, 69! And it's also nearly our two year poderversary. Hurrah! So what's this episode about? Well, we invited Mrs H's good friend Dr Grant over for a good ole chat and debate about swinging and non monogamy. We cover the latest on our home life (still shit), answer some questions Mrs H has prepared (barely) and take a walk through some of the philosophical things surrounding the lifestyle (much grander sounding than it really was). Get in touch with us o...
Mar 08, 2020•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 69
In this episode we give an update on our Homelife (spoiler - it's all a bit crap right now) and then play some interviews taken at the Nottingham Social (by Unseen Lounge). We've got tips for attending and hosting socials, some insight into the couples we talk to and a whole bunch of shameless flirting. Apologies for both the quality of the recording and for Mr H banging on about anal for the first interview. It's not all gold but there are definitely nuggets in there. Catch us on Twitter at bed...
Feb 23, 2020•1 hr 34 min•Season 1Ep. 68
Welcome to bed hoppers - swinging in the UK. This edition has some special guests - our delightful friends Mr and Mrs Incredible (also known as Dis_nerds on Twitter). We bunker down in Wales to talk about some of the popular terms in swinging and the lifestyle. We may not always get the terms right (it is us, after all) but they may come in handy if you're new or don't want your google history tarnished. Either way, we had a lovely time chatting with these sexy folks - so hope you will too. Find...
Feb 09, 2020•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 67
In this episode we talk to our lovely friends Our Naughty Escapades about swinging in tough times. We touch on how the lifestyle has supported us, how it offers a level of escapism and just how great swinging friends can be. This one isn't a 'laugh out loud riot' though and we talk about some pretty emotional things - from death in the family to life changing illness. We chat through how we've coped and how the lifestyle has helped. To find out more about Our Naughty Escapades, go here: https://...
Jan 26, 2020•51 min•Season 1Ep. 66
Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. This episode is all about our NYE trip to UK club Abfabs. Here's a hint - it doesn't go as planned (when does it?). There's also a short sex toy review - this time we take a look at the womaniser duo (no, it is not anything to do with Britney). If you like the show, why not drop us a review on iTunes? Or send us an email to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com . Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Jan 12, 2020•49 min•Season 1Ep. 65
Here we are - at the end of 2019. We look back at the year and recall some of our favourite moments (Mr H has a top five and Mrs H heads to the diary for a full summary). We do it all a little bit under the influence - we're good like that. It's a little self indulgent but it is the season of goodwill and all. There isn't a funny bit at the end this time - as this was all put together in between hospital visits and more - so apologies all round! Anywho, thanks for hopping into our bed. We hope y...
Dec 29, 2019•54 min•Season 1Ep. 64
Bonus episode agogo! In this one we talk about club Rio and our recent trip to London - along with a sexy day off. We also spend some time talking about mental health support. There's Samaritans, mind, Blurt foundation, timetochange, Shout and some apps including headspace, Calm and Rootd. To google for more info! Finally we wish all of our listeners a Merry Christmas, happy holidays and all the best. Catch us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for holiday hopping into our bed....
Dec 25, 2019•38 min•Season 1Ep. 63
Episode 62 - this one is all about a recent house party. It wasn't the smash we'd hoped for - but it does lead to some interesting conversations. We try and figure out what the lifestyle means for Mrs H (nothing too big then!). We talk about our latest sex toy purchase too (flesh! ohhhhh ohhhh saviour of the universe). And, as a special bonus, there's an extra at the end - taken from a podcast recording session at Desire. There's Life on the Swingset, By the Bi and us too! Get in touch at Twitte...
Dec 15, 2019•1 hr 24 min•Season 1Ep. 62
Thanks for downloading our show! This episode is all about some of our favourite things - from lube and condoms to toys and clubs. More than anything though, it's another excuse for us to crack out a fun little song. If you'd like to share your favourite things with us, get in touch at bedhoppersuk on Twitter, bed hoppers on fabswingers.com and double date nation and on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com . Don't forget - you can see us at Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami (May 2020). Thanks for hopping in...
Dec 01, 2019•52 min•Season 1Ep. 61
Thanks for downloading this episode of bed hoppers. This time we take a trip to Desire (in Mexico) with the Life on the Swingset podcast. Rather than a blow by blow, day by day review we cover our favourite moments, the highlights and the what-went-wrong bits. If you're looking to find out more about the resort in general (this time we went to Desire RM) listen to Room 77 or check out By the Bi - who did a great comparison episode way back in November/December 2018. Lots of people to thank - but...
Nov 17, 2019•1 hr 15 min•Season 1Ep. 60
It's the much talked about Room 101 episode! Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast, by the way. In this one we (well, mostly Mrs H) have a moan about what grinds our gears in the lifestyle. From bad pics to hairy dicks, we cover a huge range of things that tick us off! If you sent in a room 101 moment - thank you. If you did and we forgot you, sorry! If you thought of one and didn't send it in but now want to - well that's life, sorry. You can still send it to us at bedhoppersuk on Twit...
Nov 03, 2019•1 hr 32 min•Season 1Ep. 59
This one is all about taking one for the team. We take time out to pick the phrase apart - is it really a thing, is someone always taking one for the team and have we ever done it? It's a big rambling discussion that may or may not reach a conclusion. Special props to Barney and Emma Stone - for letting us stay over, being amazing hosts and (more importantly) giving us their wifi password. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Get in touch at bedhoppersuk on Twitter - or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmai...
Oct 20, 2019•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 58
Welcome to episode fifty seven - we're calling this one the lady episode. Vanilla Ice (our chum, not the rapper) joins Mrs H for a chat on all things ladies. From body issues and confidence to use of the 'P' word and asking for what you want. Want to find Vanilla Ice - check them out on Twitter, Fab and Insta at Hiscockhertail. Next time round we're talking taking one for the team and creating a room 101 for the lifestyle. Got thoughts? Get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or bedhoppersuk on T...
Oct 06, 2019•1 hr 29 min•Season 1Ep. 57
What a nice surprise! A bonus episode all about bi-visibility, for bi-visibility day (no less). With fantastic guests including the Sharing is Caring show and our good chums LV and Vanilla Ice, we all have a good ole chat about what it means to be bi in the lifestyle. It might sound like we are in a giant hall but worry not, we're all gathered around the table having a very cosy time. Want to check out the song mentioned? Here's a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77Is Catch our frien...
Sep 23, 2019•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 56
It's raining men! Hallelujah! Well, there's at least two of us on this episode anyway. That's right, Mrs H takes something of a backseat while good friend LV jumps in and talks all things men with Mr H. We talk about body issues, performance thoughts and social things - along with answering some listener questions and comments. Hope you enjoy the show - episode 57 is all things ladies. Don't forget to get in touch on fabswingers.com, Double Date Nation and Twitter - look out for bedhoppersuk. Th...
Sep 22, 2019•1 hr 19 min•Season 1Ep. 55
What's this episode all about? Well, there are some listener questions, some updates on what we've been up to and we get all sciencey over tea and coffee. We talk about pre-match rituals, how close is too close and work out what's worse - a bad kiss or no kiss at all. If you like this episode or any others, do jump on to iTunes and give us a quick review. Go on, you know you want to! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Don't forget to follow us on Twitter (bedhoppersuk) or find us on fabswingers.co...
Sep 08, 2019•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 54
Welcome to episode fifty three! In this jam packed (but at the same time rambling and sprawling) epic we talk about some adventures to Dublin and how things didn't quite go to plan. Don't panic though, we do sort our shit out. After talk of sexy times with sexy couples, we answer some listener questions about body image and transitioning to lifestyle sites. There's singing, laughter, issues, resolutions and so much more. We don't even talk about how we were able to catch up with, friend of the s...
Aug 25, 2019•1 hr 32 min•Season 1Ep. 53
Welcome to episode fifty two. In this fun little number we announce that we're going to Miami in May 2020, give some home-life updates and review Heathrow based club Abfabs. We talk about how our chums nearly chundermuff the night - and somehow get onto the topic of odd celebrity crushes. Want to join us for Podcast-a-palooza 2020? Click here now! Want to get in touch and tell us about your weird crush? Hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or tweet us at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our ...
Aug 11, 2019•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 52
Welcome to ep51. Wanna find out about hot wifing? What about the stag and vixen scenario? If so, you've come to the right place. This delightfully fun episode (if we do say so ourselves) is a double interview with sexy and lovely chums Secret Stag, Secret Vixen and Behind Closed Doors UK. We chat about their approach to non monogamy - exploring all of the above and more (all while flirting shamelessly). Pets interrupt, things get said, we make bad jokes - you know the deal! You can find them on ...
Jul 28, 2019•1 hr 34 min•Season 1Ep. 51
Welcome to episode fifty! Wow. That's quite a lot of episodes. If you've made it this far - well done and thank you! This edition is quite the special one. But, before we tell you what's in it, there's a quick update on our home lives. Unfortunately Mrs H's father suffered a stroke just after we had recorded this episode. At the time of publishing we're still in and out of hospital and are not sure what the future holds. With this in mind, we haven't spent as much time on this episode as we'd ha...
Jul 14, 2019•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 50
Thanks for taking a look at the bed hoppers podcast. Episode forty nine is a little bit reflective. We look back at our Australian adventure (it wasn't all super awesome amazing) and talk about how Mrs H had a bit of an emotional reaction on a couple of occasions. We talk about jealousy, tactile friends, drunken reactions, Mr H running off and starting a new life and much, much, more. It's a tough discussion but we manage it with a few laughs and smiles too - well, it is us! Thanks for hopping i...
Jun 30, 2019•53 min•Season 1Ep. 49
Thanks for taking a look (or should that be a listen) at episode 48. It's really part two of our Australian adventures - and features all sorts of delightful moments; from finger blasting to pizza eating. Mr H continues to gush over our amazing friends, whilst Mrs H resumes the travel blog. Looking back at our earlier adventures we're so pleased to be able to share some good times - and demonstrate that things can go really well (or so we thought - stay tuned for the next episode). Thank you to ...
Jun 16, 2019•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 48
Welcome to episode forty seven. This one is all about our trip to Swingapore and Oz. It's part one of what we think will be a two parter but don't let that put you off. We chat about our adventures, visiting friends, going to Our Secret Spot in Sydney, sexy times and much, much more. Mrs H shows us her scepticism and utter belief in random things and Mr H struggles through the pain of jet-lag. Thank you for hopping into our bed. Find us at bedhoppersuk on Twitter and bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Super...
Jun 02, 2019•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 47
Well hello there. Thanks for downloading episode forty six of the bed hoppers podcast. We've been in Oz and Singapore for the last few weeks - so are having trouble humaning (so, if this ep is a duffer, sorry). We reach back into our jet lagged heads and talk about Vanilla Alternative, review the club and recall a recent meet. We chat a bit about what to do if you finish before your partner too. There are some hints about our holibobs and mild spoilers about them (sorry). Special shout out to Ba...
May 26, 2019•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 46
Welcome to bed hoppers - episode forty five. In this saucy little number we hang out in a hotel (apparently quite nice) with our sexy chums Vanilla Ice and Lord Voldermort. They talk a bit about their journey, how they met us, the dark depths of Reddit and explore a little bit of religion. Look up hiscockhertail to find out more about them. Thanks for hopping into our bed!
May 05, 2019•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 45
Welcome to episode 44! In this charming little number (well, actually our longest show ever) we talk about our visit from sexy chums Cate and Darrell from Swinging Down Under. They meet Yoko, stay with us for a bit and then we all head to London for some magical adventures. We also have a special feature where we talk about the rumours Mrs H has been facing at work. The SDU gang join us via Skype - as we couldn't fit in any podcasting on the trip/were having too much fun. Anywho - we hope you li...
Apr 21, 2019•1 hr 32 min•Season 1Ep. 44