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Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda

Harris Creek Baptist Churchharriscreek.org
We’re all becoming something. What are you becoming? It's our goal for you to intentionally become the person God has called you to be. We'll release an episode each week with answers to real questions that college students and young adults are asking us. Listen in as Jonathan Pokluda, Nate Hilgenkamp, and Kathy Davidson help you navigate life in your 20's and 30's!
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Episodes

Episode 177: Why Commit?

Your young adult years are filled with decisions that feel overwhelming. Everything from who should I marry, to where should I live, to what should I pursue as a career. Sometimes making a decision just feels crippling. In this episode we talk through fear of commitment and how to be more decisive!

Aug 28, 202230 min

Episode 176: Forgive and Forget?

Nate Hilgenkamp: We know that Jesus calls us to forgive, but sometimes forgiveness can be really really hard. In this episode we talk through the process of forgiveness and how you can begin to take steps forward. We also talk through appropriate boundaries after forgiveness has taken place.

Aug 21, 202236 min

Episode 175: Why Media Matters

The songs you listen to and the shows you watch affect you more than you realize. That’s why it’s so important for us to pay attention to what we pay attention to. In this episode we talk about what you should or shouldn’t consume in regards to media.

Aug 15, 202231 min

Episode 174: Life Isn't What I Expected

Our greatest disappointments in life come from our miss expectations. The problem for many young adults is that their life doesn't go how they expected. In this episode we talk about the life you should want to live, and how to find contentment in any circumstance.

Aug 08, 202230 min

Episode 173: Toxic Friendships

What should you do when the people around you only seem to make you worse? Is it ok to ever cut off a relationship? In this episode we help you make hard decisions and enter into hard conversations. If you’re looking for how to handle a tough friendship this episode is for you!

Jul 31, 202224 min

Episode 172: Manifestation, Mediums, and Spiritual Things

We’ve heard a lot of you ask about things like manifestation and crystals. In this episode we talk about what they are, and if believers in Jesus should participate. If you’ve ever wondered if these things have power, check out this episode!

Jul 24, 202230 min

Episode 171: What If I’m Not Attracted to Them?

In this episode we tackle one of the most asked questions on dating. How important is physical attraction? If you’re looking for a spouse we talk about the role of attraction in marriage and how important it should be in your search!

Jul 17, 202233 min

Episode 170: Resilient (feat. John Eldredge)

Since the pandemic have you been feeling more irritable? Tired? Angry? It’s because we’ve all been through a lot! In this episode, we talk to author John Eldredge about how to build up our reserves so we can become more resilient. To get his new book follow this link: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09N8XS7Y4/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i0

Jul 10, 202233 min

Episode 169: What Does It Mean to Fear God?

If God is good, why should I fear him? In this episode we talk about why Scripture says we should fear Him, and why it’s actually for our good. If you e ever struggled with this question, this episode is for you!

Jul 03, 202228 min

Episode 168: Live Your Truth

We live in a culture where absolute truth is absolutely evaporating. It is widely accepted that everyone has their own truth based on their life experiences. In this episode we talk about what Scripture has to say and how we can know what really is true.

Jun 26, 202234 min

Episode 167: The Life We’re Looking For (feat. Andy Crouch)

Andy Crouch is an author and commentator on our culture through the lens of a Jesus follower. He specifically has written a game changing book called “The Tech Wise Family”, and we’re confident this book will have a similar impact. In this episode we talk about the importance of community and how technology has changed our relationships. To order Andy’s new book, click here: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Were-Looking-Relationship-Technological/dp/059323734X/ref=asc_df_059323734X_nodl?tag=hyprod-20...

Jun 19, 202243 min

Episode 166: Is God Disappointed in Me?

Is God mad at you every time you sin? Many of us feel like God puts up with us rather than actually loving us. In this episode we do our best to clarify who God is and what his intentions are towards you!

Jun 12, 202235 min

Episode 165: How to Hear from God

How can you tell if you are hearing from God or if it’s just a voice in your head? Is he telling you who to date and you just can’t hear him? Is he telling you where to live but you’re ignoring him? If you’re looking to discern the voice of God in your life, check out this episode!

Jun 05, 202231 min

Episode 164: How to Respond to Cheating

What’s the right thing to do once you’ve been cheated on? Should you extend grace or immediately break things off? We talk through what it means to be cheated on, and how you can best respond. If you’ve been cheated on, or are looking to help a friend in this situation, this podcast will be helpful for you!

May 29, 202232 min

Episode 163: From Mess to Ministry (feat. Scott Harrison)

In this week’s episode we talk to Scott Harrison, author and founder of charity: water. Scott is an amazing example of how Jesus can take your mess and turn it into a ministry. He went from nightclub promoter, to the founder of one of the most well known charities in America. To hear more, check out this episode or buy Scott’s book at this link: https://www.amazon.com/Thirst-Story-Redemption-Compassion-Mission/dp/1524762849/ref=asc_df_1524762849/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=3121430...

May 22, 202242 min

Episode 162: What is God like? (feat. Lisa Bevere)

In this episode we talk to New York Times Best Selling author, Lisa Bevere about how her perception of God has changed over the course of her life. We discuss how our perception of God affects how we live our lives. We also talk about how to hear from God. To pick up her new book “Fiercely Loved” follow this link: https://www.amazon.com/Fiercely-Loved-Gods-Thoughts-about/dp/0800741706

May 15, 202244 min

Episode 161: Generational Sin from BeSo Live

We asked our audience at BeSo Live what topic they wanted to hear and this is what the voted on for session 2! In this episode we talk about how to break the cycle of sin in your family. If you’re looking to start fresh from hurts/sins in your family’s past, check out this episode!

May 08, 202241 min

Episode 160: Q&A from BeSo Live

Many of you follow JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram but our BeSo Live participants got to ask him questions in person! In this episode, JP covers a wide range of topics and answers the questions that young adults are asking. We hope you enjoyed this as much as we did!

May 02, 202257 min

Episode 159: Contentment from BeSo Live

This week’s episode was our first recording from Becoming Something Live in Waco, TX. We let the audience decide what they wanted to hear and they chose contentment. In this episode we cover what it means to be content in your young adult years. If you’re struggling in your career, finances, singleness, or anything else this episode is for you!

Apr 25, 202249 min

Episode 158: How to talk to your s/o about your past

One of the most uncomfortable conversations in a dating relationship is when your significant other asks about your past. In this episode we help you think through what to say and how to say it. We also try to help you figure out what you should know from your boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry them. We hope this will help you!

Apr 18, 202229 min

Episode 157: Have I Committed the Unforgivable Sin?

Do you know that Jesus said not all sins can be forgiven? There is one sin that actually cannot be forgiven. In this episode we help you figure out if you’ve committed it. Check out this episode for an in depth explanation!

Apr 11, 202233 min

Episode 156: God of Creation (feat. Jordan Raynor)

Don't like your job? You're not alone! Many of us have a job, but don't know why we do it other than to get a paycheck. In this episode we talk about why we work, and how to find purpose in your work. You've got a job to do, so let us help you enjoy it!

Apr 04, 202232 min

Episode 155: How Do You Feel About Your Job?

When it comes to work, your attitude is everything. In this episode we do our best to give you a biblical perspective on work. You’ve got a purpose whether you’re scooping ice cream or preaching to thousands!

Mar 28, 202224 min

Episode 154: Is Masturbation a Sin?

One of the most frequent questions on JP’s Friday Q&A is about masturbation. Is it a sin? And if so, what’s the big deal about it? Why does masturbation affect your relationships? And how can you stop? We cover all of that and more in this week’s episode!

Mar 21, 202230 min

Episode 153: We Disagree (So Let's Talk About It!)

So often in the church world, we form our own Christian bubbles where we don’t have to talk with anyone we disagree with. In this episode, we talk with the founder of The New Evangelicals who recently publicly disagreed with one of our previous podcasts. We reached out to him to have a conversation to show how we can talk through our disagreements. Our conversation went a little longer than normal so we trimmed this episode for time. To listen to the full un-edited version visit our YouTube chan...

Mar 14, 202241 min

Episode 152: Perception Management

You may not even realize it, but you act as your own brand manager. What that means is you’re in charge of what other people think about you! For many of us, this is crippling because we care deeply about what other people think of us. In this episode we talk about how you can be freed from your need to be perceived a certain way!

Mar 07, 202228 min

Episode 151: How to Abide

One of JP’s all time favorite quotes is, “If dependence is the goal, then weakness is the advantage.” On this week’s episode we talk about why dependence is the goal of our faith and what it practically looks like to be dependent. Don’t let your self-reliance get in the way of a growing faith!

Feb 28, 202228 min

Episode 150: Finding your People (feat. Jennie Allen)

In this week's episode we talk to Jennie Allen, New York Times bestselling author and founder of IF:Gathering, about our need for community. So many of feeling lonely and without community. In Jennie's new book "Find Your People", she explains why community is so important and how you can find your own. This was such a helpful conversation! To order "Find Your People", follow this link: https://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-People-Building-Community/dp/0593193385/ref=asc_df_0593193385/?tag=hyprod-20&...

Feb 21, 202241 min

Episode 149: Training for Divorce

The way we date isn’t working. People are getting married later and getting divorced more often. In this episode we talk about some improvements we can make to the way we date that will impact the health of our relationships. If you’re looking for dating help, look no further!

Feb 14, 202238 min

Episode 148: Are you too busy?

In this week's episode we talk about the margin in our lives and the busyness of our schedule. We often hide behind our busyness while putting our faith on pause. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!

Feb 07, 202235 min
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