12. Breakups (Again), Self-Abandonment, “The One”, and more. Q&A with Cam

I asked you guys for questions on all things relationships, breakups, letting go, and self-abandonment, and you delivered. Today I answer my take on:

1. Opinions on going no contact after you’ve broken up? (We don’t talk much, it’s currently 10 months)?

2. How long should a no contact period go for after a breakup?

3. How to navigate when wanting to call and ex to connect and feeling so sad?

4. Do you have to be totally healed before getting in a relationship/ Should I date men (or women) who are not my total “list” or wait for the one?

5. What are your thoughts on this: every longterm relationship requires some kind of compromising. Is wanting to always be 100% yourself and do what you want not an individualistic wish in an already too individualistic world? I also lost myself in an 8 year relationship, but am struggling to not fly to the other side of totally 100% being me, and if not then BYE. I hope there is a middle way.

6. When is it that we have to say enough in giving second/ third chance in a relationship?

7. What are your thoughts on soulmates/ “the one”/ marriage/ monogamy?

I hope you enjoy!

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