Embracing your wife’s feedback is possibly the single highest leverage way to winning at the game of marriage as a husband. Almost nothing surpasses the feeling of trust and connection within a wife when her husband appreciates and honours her feedback as the gift it is. Yet there’s also almost nothing that triggers a man’s subconscious wounding more than trying to receive his wife’s feedback! Thus very few men have any idea how to receive feminine feedback skilfully. This episode will teach you...
Jul 03, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 251
In the run up to the summer Olympics In Sydney 2000, the British rowing team had failed to win gold for over 88 YEARS! Like most husbands, they had a long history of their good intentions never being good enough. Determined to finally change the story, they based their entire training preparations on one simple clarifying question. This one simple tool allowed them to decide what was going to lead them to Gold…. and more importantly, what was not. The type of decision-making clarity is absent in...
Jun 27, 2025•38 min•Ep. 250
We welcome in Tara and Duane Kennedy to tell their heart-warming story of marriage transformation. From the depths of pain and hopelessness that things could ever improve, Tara and Duane let us know the insights and strategies driving their stunning turnaround. Tara gifts us many profound insights into the challenges a wife experiences when relating with a well-intentioned but emotionally unsafe husband. Duane explains how he used the Heroic Husbands mantra "Inspire Don't Require" to create a sa...
Jun 26, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 249
The quality of your marriage matches the quality of your thoughts . Learning to upgrade the quality of your thoughts is your path to the most epic marriage you ever believed possible. Stoic philosophy might be the most powerful vehicle to take you there. Let’s begin….. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW ...
Jun 20, 2025•57 min•Ep. 248
Most of us husbands have a trigger happy impulse to try and fix conflicts at home with rational solutions.....that rarely work!!!! In this episode you will meet the three human attachment needs and how to use them at home that will change how you look at conflict forever. In conflict, effective communicators are not trying to change the mental state of others. Instead, their focus is on changing their emotional state via meeting their attachment needs. When this happens, emotional reactivity is ...
Jun 13, 2025•23 min•Ep. 247
Unspoken boredom and helplessness while feeling stuck in the Same-Sh1t-Different-Day reality of married life is killing marriages around the world. The answer: One badass husband unleashing his WILD man energy to shake the marriage to it’s foundations and rebuild a marriage of excitement, fun and inspiration. This episode is for you if you’re ready to live the infinite game of married life!!!!! Your Queen has been patiently waiting for you to wake this up inside of you…. Let’s begin….. Want the ...
Jun 06, 2025•59 min•Ep. 246
We’ve been conditioned in this profoundly sick society to deny ourselves our own needs as men and over-prioritise meeting the needs of the women in our lives. This pattern started in childhood as we related with our mothers. As it seemed to work in childhood with our mothers, we subconsciously bring the exact same pattern into marriage…. to devastating and very often marriage-ending effects. This episode offers you a radically new option. What if stopping giving such a sh!t about your wife’s hap...
May 30, 2025•56 min•Ep. 245
Every husband listening in to the podcast has great intentions. Yet great intentions are useless if you are unwittingly making one or more of these common yet catastrophic mistakes. If you want the peace of mind knowing that your efforts in marriage are making a difference, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call Don’...
May 23, 2025•50 min•Ep. 244
There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife. Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage. The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are. They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful. When spoken sincerely by a husband to his wife, everything starts changing for the better in marriage. Let’s begin….. Wan...
May 16, 2025•35 min•Ep. 243
Ever experience self-doubt in marriage? Being a husband and father is the most challenging leadership position on the planet…. Of course you experience self-doubt! Fact: Every husband on the planet experiences self-doubt at times. However, most husbands lock their self-doubt away and try to just get on with life pretending it’s not there. This doesn’t work. Ever. The rare few who learn how to transcend self-doubt and create a married life built on infinite freedom and fulfilment (Yes, this IS po...
May 08, 2025•56 min•Ep. 242
Nearly every husband has been there. Seeing your wife feeling radically alive, eyes lit up, loving life, laughing and letting loose… but in the presence of another man. All her behaviours fall into the category we call flirting. But what is the most powerful way to intervene in this awkward, disconnecting situation? This episode gifts you the code to obliterating the competition in any social event you attend, leaving your wife’s eyes and energy being locked in on you, her conscious King. Get re...
May 02, 2025•58 min•Ep. 241
When your wife is deeply upset, pissed off and complaining about something, do you ever find yourself jumping into action to fix the problem by addressing what she’s complaining about? Of course you do; you’re a rational minded man who loves solution finding cause-effect style…. but it rarely works with your wife, right?! Why? Because there is one secret cause to 95% of your wife’s irrational upsets and complaining , that until you have knowledge of it, you will be grasping in the dark in marria...
Apr 25, 2025•23 min•Ep. 240
Most husbands listening in will try new suggested strategies of conscious relating when with their Queens. This is brilliant and has a massive power in it. Yet, sometimes the new attempts don’t have nearly the positive effect you’d love! Enter the untapped world of high-leverage daily training habits for priming your nervous system. This episode gifts you 4 simple daily habits (1-10mins max) to give you the most juicy and powerful message to transmit through your body geared towards evoking the ...
Apr 18, 2025•47 min•Ep. 239
Self-mastery is the essence of great masculine embodiment in men. There is no arena more important to embody self-mastery as a man than that of married life. Our legacy depends on it. Without a precise grasp on what self-mastery in masculine leadership is built on, you will always struggle to manifest freedom and fulfilment in married life. Get ready for laser-focused clarity on how to embody masculine self-mastery your Queen will find irresistibly attractive. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcom...
Apr 11, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 238
One of the most frustrating things every husband experiences is when you show up at your wonderful best and your Queen treats you like crap. The clearly good intentions of your attempt to do/say something of deep meaning gets trampled on by your Queen’s confusing and crazy irrationality. These moments habitually get stuck in a right-vs-wrong storm of disconnection. This episode introduces you to a revolutionary approach that will help you alchemise these moments into opportunities for you to dev...
Apr 04, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 237
This episode unpacks the raw power in consciously communicating belonging cues. Belonging cues are simple behaviours that create safe connection. We used belonging cues as signals long before language – our unconscious brains are highly attuned to them. When our Queens receive them consistently, marriage feels like a dream. When our Queens don’t receive them consistently, marriage becomes a nightmare. Skipping this episode might not be a good idea for any husband wanting an easier married life e...
Mar 27, 2025•40 min•Ep. 236
Most husbands will admit that, albeit they love their wife, they find marriage the ultimate challenge to their sense of inner peace. The often joked “ Can’t live with her, can’t live without her”, points to this seemingly universal crux in married life for men. Yet, one simple mind hack allows husbands go from massive psychological resistance to re-entering flow with their wives in no time at all. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about appl...
Mar 21, 2025•38 min•Ep. 235
The eternal conundrum for husbands : You listen to her speaking about an upsetting issue, you find a problem-solving fix you know will end her suffering…….and she never wants to listen to what you’ve got to say!!!! And she even has the audacity to claim you weren’t listening!!! This episode will let you know the secret in how to prepare your Queen for receiving your beautiful gift of masculine, black and white rationality. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement...
Mar 14, 2025•44 min•Ep. 234
Every husband on the planet has a part of him that yearns for freedom from the constraints of his wife’s criticism. Right? If she’d just wake up and see the amazing amount of cool shit you do and the ocean of loving good intentions you have, she’d go easier on you….or so that sneaky part of our mind tells us. But the complaints, criticism and river of unfair feedback keeps on flowing towards you. The good news is that there is a precise system of practice that will end this river of criticism , ...
Mar 07, 2025•1 hr 38 min•Ep. 233
A husband’s infidelity can be a devastating blow for his Queen. Years of distrust, suspicion and rage mixed with grief can follow, leading many men to give up trying to save their marriage. This hopelessness is not needed. These 8 powerful steps will support you making your infidelity become the stage for the greatest inner and outer transformation you ever dreamed possible. Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Hus...
Feb 27, 2025•53 min•Ep. 232
As men we practice low tolerance of our own BS grumpy moods with our customers, boss, neighbours, friends etc. They get our highest standard communication. Then we go home and practice super high tolerance of our BS grumpy moods with our Queen and children. Our nearest and dearest get our lowest standard of communication. Low tolerance = high standards. High tolerance = low standards. The rules of this super simple game sets the scene for only your highest standards of communication and emotiona...
Feb 20, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 231
Attachment theory rocks. It pin points exactly where we have pulled up the nervous system handbrake preventing love from ever flowing in our lives. Only when you know where the handbrake is pulled up, can you then have the power to put it back down and start allowing the juice of love flow between yourself and your Queen again. Ready to put the damn heart handbrake down, once and forever? Let’s begin….. Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to j...
Feb 13, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 230
Most husbands unwittingly Head Fart. Head Farting is insisting on thinking, talking and taking action in the same way you always have and expecting your married life to suddenly transform. It doesn't. Marriage Transformation Heroes create Heart Art. Heart Art is accessing an inexhaustible force within capable of creating loving connection no matter what the perceived obstacle in your world. If you want your marriage to transform, you better get clear on how to shift to creating Heart Art!!!! Let...
Feb 06, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 229
Holding space for your Queen’s human experience is tough at the best of times for even the most loving husband. But holding space if she has a narcissistic mother and the emotional trauma that comes with it, can be an absolute nightmare. If you have ever experienced strain in your marriage as a result of your Queen’s relationship with her mother, this episode is handcrafted for you. Let’s begin….. To know more about Matilde’s amazing new community for women with mother wounds: https://womenrecla...
Feb 05, 2025•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 228
Most husbands face a daily family grind trying to rally the troops, wife and kids, in a futile attempt to get a cohesive and harmonious unit working together . Good intentions fail. Often. Peeing against a gale force wind comes to mind in most cases, hence our daily evening need to sedate our minds with whatever substance or activity is at hand. Defining what family leadership is, is the foundation stone of clarity our brains need to step out of this daily torment onto a path of easeful and pred...
Jan 30, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 227
Research shows that newlywed couples who divorce six years later, respond to their partners bids for attention only 33% of the time. Successful couples respond 87% of the time. Responding to your Queen’s attempts to get your attention might be the single greatest skillset to develop today. This skill is called receptivity. Let’s begin….. To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The...
Jan 23, 2025•38 min•Ep. 226
Creating an indestructible bridge of connection in marriage seems the ultimate Mission Impossible. When guys see it embodied in another relationship, they think it’s because the other dude must have luckily found an exceptional woman unlike their own irrational and hyper-sensitive wife . Or it’s a miracle fluke that’ll never happen for you. It's not good luck and it’s not a miracle. It's a repeatable process that requires nothing but a willingness to do whatever it takes to make it work. The ste...
Jan 16, 2025•1 hr 45 min•Ep. 225
Uncontrollable marital arguments over time destroy the trust that bind marriages together. It's especially hard when your Queen is firing vitriolic words your way that you feel are unfair and inaccurate, but nothing you say makes her stop. This mindset shift will help you instantaneously become her Mountain in the Storm, helping her nervous system return to a place of calm safety and grounded rationality . To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic ...
Jan 09, 2025•53 min•Ep. 224
The only permissible Kingly aim going into the New Year is setting the intention to make this the best year yet in your marriage and life. It doesn't matter how intense your married life is now; these simple strategies and mindset upgrades will help you create an awesome year worthy of the King you were born to be. Let’s begin….. To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement: Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband...
Jan 03, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 223
There’s one thing your Queen desires you to gift her the most. She’s been desiring this from you since you first met. This episode unpacks the greatest gift you will have ever gifted your Queen and marriage since you first got married. It also happens to be the greatest gift you can gift yourself in life. Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Don’t miss the LAST REMAINING two weeks of the special introductory price spots! BOOK NOW Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles...
Dec 26, 2024•57 min•Ep. 222
