Indy revisits her brief experiment with financial domination, explaining that her motivation came from the frustration of her BDSM encounters feeling purely transactional and one-sided. Charging money was an attempt to reclaim power and ensure she received something tangible in an exchange where she often felt used. However, her single paid experience stirred up deep moral and personal conflicts. She worried about the potential harm she could be causing the submissive by reinforcing a potentiall...
Sep 29, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 5Ep. 8
Michael (01:10) Michael delves into the psychological origins of his submissive side, particularly his attraction to straight men. He explains the concept of a "straight hierarchy" within some gay BDSM dynamics, where straight men are placed at the pinnacle of desire. He traces his own connection to this hierarchy back to his adolescence, where his primary male attachments were formed through being bullied by his straight brother and peers at school. His key realisation is that when he experienc...
Sep 15, 2025•46 min•Season 5Ep. 7
In this episode, Indy grapples with her decision to start charging for her dominant services, a shift prompted by the realisation that men have been viewing her sessions as "freebies." While her first paid encounter feels powerful, it also brings a profound sense of moral unease. She questions the ethics of financial domination and worries about the potential for it to corrupt her personality, fearing she might become arrogant or narcissistic. Her exploration of this new path seems to be driven ...
Sep 01, 2025•30 min•Season 5Ep. 4
(00:10) Indy Indy shares details of a date with a woman—a psychologist with a similar background to her own. The date provides a profound sense of relief and safety for Indy, leading to a powerful realisation: her dominant persona, which involves emasculating men, is actually tied to a long-repressed attraction to women. This new path feels liberating, yet she is still apprehensive about how it might affect her family relationships. (10:18) A recent encounter with a submissive has also changed I...
Aug 18, 2025•41 min•Season 5Ep. 5
(00:10) Michael Michael shares a devastating story of being scammed again, this time by a "criminal" he was pursuing. The betrayal forces him to confront a toxic pattern in his life and consider a new, safer path forward. He finds solace in his dominant persona, a "Tyler Durden" character that allows him to feel powerful and break free from society's rules. This sense of control is intoxicating, and he describes a recent session where he revealed in total dominance over a submissive. (24:00) Ind...
Aug 11, 2025•34 min•Season 5Ep. 4
(00:10) Michael Michael recounts an online encounter where a seemingly genuine connection turned out to be an elaborate scam. His story forces him to confront his deeper insecurities about his fetish, leaving him to question if the price of his desire is too high. (13:20) Indy Meanwhile, Indy shares her own frustrating experiences navigating the online dating world. After a disappointing session with an ex-rugby player, she ventures onto dating apps with a "kink friendly" disclaimer, only to be ...
Aug 04, 2025•27 min•Season 5Ep. 3
(01:35) Indy Indy describes a recent high, a period where she felt confident and desired by multiple men. One man, in particular, a tall, fit, and successful ex-rugby player, seemed to embody everything she was looking for in a submissive. He was eager to please, memorising her rules and even getting a haircut before their anticipated meeting. The connection felt so promising that Indy's mind began to race with possibilities for a future with him, causing her to feel a rare sense of nervousness ...
Jul 28, 2025•37 min•Season 5Ep. 2
Indy's Update (00:25) The episode begins with Indy discussing her confident return to her dominant role after a long break. She details her highly theatrical and psychologically-driven process for meeting new submissives, which involves strict rules, suspense, humiliation, and denial. She also reflects on lessons learned from past sessions, including the importance of aftercare and understanding a partner's specific expectations. Michael's Update (31:37)The focus then switches to Michael, who sh...
Jul 21, 2025•47 min•Season 5Ep. 1
For adult listening only. Season 5: Release on August 21st, 2025. Join Indy and Michael as they explore their BDSM journey in the day-to-day. We hope you enjoy our podcast. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
Jul 14, 2025•3 min•Season 5Ep. 1
In this episode, Michael announces Season 5! He also quickly checks in about some recent decisions around his sex working life... Contact via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.comMusic from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
Jul 09, 2025•9 min
Join Michael as he looks back over the past few years and share some of his learning of being a dom. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
Nov 25, 2024•20 min•Season 5Ep. 19
01:20 Kink is Wonderful 03:49 Sexuality Is Very Fluid: It's Ok To Not Know Or Understand Your Sexuality/Kinks Just Yet 06:58 Communication is Key 09:29 When Simple Needs Are Not Met, Things Can Get Very Complicated 13:38 Power Centred Kink is Informed By Trauma (a work in progress) 17:26 Sensory Centred Kink is Neurologically Based 18:49 I Do Believe in the Narrative Idea of Dom/sub 21:32 I Am Pretty Clear Where My Kink Originates From 24:02 My Kinks Aren't As Urgent Anymore Join Michael as he l...
Nov 11, 2024•25 min•Season 5Ep. 18
In one of his favourite and probably most important episodes, Michael uses the video essay "How Fight Club Turns Men into Space Monkeys" by the YouTube channel "Like Stories of Old", to discuss how it parallels the dynamics of dominance and submission, particularly the appeal of the "unconflicted" alpha figure. Michael reflects on human instincts around hierarchy, the yearning for role models, and how individuals surrender their individuality in the pursuit of symbolic immortality. He emphasises...
Sep 23, 2024•37 min•Season 5Ep. 17
In this episode, Michael updates listeners on his recent experiences with dating and navigating the complexities of financial domination (fandom). He shares reflections on a fragile connection he formed with someone he met, noting the emotional highs and lows of the dynamic. The episode delves into the struggles of finding authentic connections in the kink and dating scenes, as well as the psychological aspects behind his desires. Michael also touches on the impact of therapy and his inner child...
Sep 16, 2024•20 min•Season 5Ep. 18
In this episode, Michael talks about his recent break up and where that has led him. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
Sep 04, 2024•27 min•Season 5Ep. 15
In this episode, Michael contacts Phil from Master Slave Lifestyle to see if he could help some of the shame he holds around his kink. Phil uses his coaching skills to give solid advice that would be helpful for anyone in a similar situation. Website: masterslavelifestyle.com Podcast: @masterslavelifestylepodcast Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
Jun 06, 2024•58 min•Season 5Ep. 14
In this episode, Michael discuss how meeting someone has potentially changed his sexual identity. However, it can't be that easy... can it? He also gives a brief update on his inner child work and how this may have played a part. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
May 30, 2024•16 min•Season 5Ep. 13
In this episode, Michael shares his encounter with his deepest fantasy about chavs. However, there is an unexpected twist to the story... Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
May 16, 2024•20 min•Season 5Ep. 12
I talk with Phil, the creator of the Master Slave Lifestyle website and podcast (masterslavelifestyle.com), about my journey into and out of Findom. This episode premiered on his podcast Jan 2024, recorded late 2023.
Apr 08, 2024•57 min•Season 5Ep. 11
In this episode, Michael shares his personal journey of deciding to stop being a sex worker. He talks about how he started in the industry, the enjoyment and challenges it brought, and why he chose to leave. Michael highlights the conflict between his online persona and his true self, the demands of the job, and its impact on his relationships and personal growth. He sees this change as a new beginning to explore his interests, form deeper connections, and live more in the moment. Contact me via...
Mar 06, 2024•10 min•Season 5Ep. 10
Amendment: Around 6 minutes, I state that shame is noted to be a motivator for persons who seek sex workers and persons who are involved with chemsex. This is untrue. This is only the case if the behaviour is ego syntonic/compulsive in the subjective experience of the individual; otherwise, enjoy! :) In this short yet deeply personal episode, we embark on a candid journey through Michael's latest therapeutic explorations, focusing on the intricate relationship between kink, shame, and mental hea...
Feb 29, 2024•8 min
In this episode, Michael updates us on his experiences with escorting. He expresses a desire to minimise digital engagement and return to simpler pleasures as part of a digital detox. He then delves into his kink journey, continuing to talk about working with his therapist to understand his needs in relationships, intimacy, and sex, highlighting his struggles with being submissive and the fear of narrowing his sexual desires. He explores the root of these issues through inner child work, address...
Feb 22, 2024•22 min
In this episode Michael opens up about the complexities of navigating a recent breakup and how it has impacted his exploration of intimacy and kink. He also discusses the exciting yet challenging world of escorting, sharing insights into his new venture and the deeper motivations behind it. Michael also reflects on the difficulties of satisfying his own kinks and the emotional toll it takes. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNH...
Jan 25, 2024•14 min•Season 5Ep. 7
In this episode, Michael gives an update on his therapeutic work with his inner child. He talks about feeling a sense of confidence from a previous session with the therapist but also still finding it hard to identify his needs and wants in the bedroom. He also announces two new social accounts: one for his kink and one for possible sex work. He speaks about his fears around addiction and also wonders how to tell people he dates about... all this. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com M...
Jan 24, 2024•16 min•Season 5Ep. 6
To change things up, Michael gets intimate with the face of the fetish platform Recon. Antoin, also known as @ajfs71, opens up for a personal and revealing tell-all. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ
Dec 18, 2023•33 min•Season 5Ep. 5
In this episode of BDSM Reimagined, Michael speaks about his latest therapy session where he encounters his inner child. He talks about how he's been working on understanding the parts of him that make it tough to really connect or stay in the moment when things get sexual or intimate. He also shares a curious similarity he noticed with a recent submissive he met, and how at times, it reminded him of the therapy work he's been doing. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppb...
Dec 08, 2023•14 min•Season 5Ep. 4
In Part 1 of this episode, Michael explores the current conditions that are leading him to flirt with the idea, and at times enact, paying men for sex - in particular straight men. He speaks about why it is straight men that activate him, the difficulty of finding someone into the same kinks, the burden he feels he puts on others for wanting what he desires, and also explores how he is shocked that people actually want to be sexual with him at all. Originally released a week later, but now inclu...
Nov 30, 2023•31 min•Season 5Ep. 3
The philosopher Baruch Spinoza, in his Tractatus de Intellectus Emendatione, wrote: "For as far as sensual pleasure is concerned, the mind is so caught up in it, as if at peace in a [true] good, that it is quite prevented from thinking of anything else. But after the enjoyment of sensual pleasure is passed, the greatest sadness follows. If this does not completely engross, still it thoroughly confuses and dulls the mind." Arthur Schopenhauer, writing later on the phenomenon, observed that "direc...
Nov 23, 2023•16 min•Season 5Ep. 2
Join Michael in a new chapter of BDSM Reimagined, where he delves into his personal exploration of sexual preferences and behaviours. With a fresh approach featuring short, introspective episodes, Michael seeks to uncover the layers of gay sexuality around the traditional labels. In this candid instalment, he confronts the expectations and pressures from dating apps to the roles of dominance and submission, sharing his internal battle with societal norms. 'Meeting Michael' is not just a podcast—...
Nov 23, 2023•15 min•Season 5Ep. 1
This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In case some of you missed the episode myself and Indy did with Recon, one of the world's leading fetish platforms, here it is! In it, we talk about Kink Shame and the flip side of Erotic Humiliation. We also addressed issues around gay shame from friends, family and colleagues and the culture of Fem, Sex, Gender and Kink shaming that exists within our own LGBTQ+ community. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gm...
Sep 25, 2023•1 hr 6 min
