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(BPM #106). invalidation threat #3 is creating defenses for pain-causing behaviors; how often do you remember your wife when you make decisions? Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #110). Setting a Table for Two #25. don't terrorize, tyrannize, dictate, or demand; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #105). good people can be bad spouses; avoid the invalidating triple threat; the first two is responding that your wife's thoughts were wrong or feelings were wrong; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #109). Setting a Table for Two #24. learn how to influence your spouse; criticism is poison to a relationship; develop healthy self-worth to prevent defensiveness; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #104). how good people 'accidentally' hurt and betray their wives being unaware of the damage until its too late; how to prevent this; most marriages are harmed not by major blows but a series of 10,000 paper cuts; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #108). Setting a Table for Two #23. learning a second language; using both the language of the head and language of the heart; for a husband and wife to speak and connect deeply using both languages; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #103). be your wife's best friend; creating a safe space for her; be truthful, loyal and full of integrity towards her; honor her; do things together; step into her world; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #107). Setting a Table for Two #22. giving your spouse your full attention; saving your marriage by shutting down technology and connect with each other with a single one-to-one focus; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #102a). to know another person; Insight from Rav. Cahan on BPM # 102 Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #102). your wife's need for encouragement; give her first priority; point out her potential; the power of encouragement (very moving true story); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #106). Setting a Table for Two #21. set aside fixed times for communication; distinguish between empathetic listening and offering advice; husband's listening empathetically when wife needs to talk; wife regulating her talking to avoid overloading; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669....
(BPM #101). meeting your wife's emotional intimacy; listening; give her attention and affection; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #105). Setting a Table for Two #20. learn to talk about things that are bothering you; don't let tensions and resentment build up; be self reflective; be calm; daven for help from Hashem and then communicate; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #100). providing emotional intimacy for your wife will open up the safe space for sexual intimacy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #104). Setting a Table for Two #19. to learn the skill of deep listening; seeing beyond the words your spouse is saying; avoid defensiveness, which is why you need a strong sense of self-esteem to be a true listener to your spouse; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #99). friendship deepens love; be a help and comfort to your wife; friendly climate at home; having fun; making the home a safehaven; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #98). intimacy of touch; intimacy of kindness; forging friendship; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #103). Setting a Table for Two #18. learning how to communicate with your spouse; learning to express needs, hurts, and to gain insight into your spouse's inner reality; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #97). 3 modes of connection; quantity time (needed for quality time); tuning in (one on one focus on your wife); intimacy (into me see); Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #102). Setting a Table for Two #17. developing respect in your relationship; see the truth in your spouses perspective and honor it; have the inner peace to admit your mistakes; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #96). identifying disconnecting behaviors; advice of connecting; thought stopping; taking responsibility for your actions; committing strong to the sexual physical connection; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #101). Setting a Table for Two #16. say something nice to your spouse every day; inner thoughts and feelings are influenced by their speech; see the truth in your spouse; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #95). expanding commitment; focus on positive; resist the fear to connect; the beauty and gift of long-term committed marriages; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPJ #100). Setting a Table for Two #14. do something nice for your spouse every day; true purpose is to help others and it starts first with one's own spouse; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #94). honesty with sensitivity; building trust through fidelity; overcoming your resistance of developing trust; say what you are going to do, then DO it; checklist of the 3C's; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/BPM93-Trust on 3 C's.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669....
(BPJ #99). Setting a Table for Two #14. never speak disparaging about your spouse in public; don't give spouse insulting nicknames; always say 'please' and 'thank you'; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #93). to learn how to be clear, reasonable, flexible and fair; true love is built on a foundation of trust; http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/BPM93-Trust on 3 C's.pdf Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669....
(BPJ #98). Setting a Table for Two #13. developing respect, gratitude, and love to your spouse; importance of "outer" behaviors; don't compare your spouse to anyone else; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(EX #38). Where is Hashem? TorahAnytime Where is Hashem? Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.
(BPM #92). the 3 Cs: 1. chemistry, 2. compatibility, 3. commitment; working hard to nurture the Cs of Compatibility and Commitment; like chemistry, these qualities can be worked on and achieved, bringing great blessings to the marriage; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is sholombayis777@gmail.com , or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669....
