Bar Talk With Jay

If you got your"STIMULUS CHECK" should you share it with your significant other?

How do you protect yourself in life, sex and relationships?

Besides SEX...what can you bring to the table?

If your partner ask to bring another person in the bedroom to spice up the relationship, what would you do?

How much of your "Inner Freak" are you willing to share with someone you just met or been knowing?

Fellas would you start a new relationship with a pregnant woman

In a relationship, do you know your position?

Forgiveness is a must in a marriage, What about a relationship?

Why Actions Speak Louder Than Words In Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 336)

Can you count on someone else word or do you need to see it first? Is it a necessity that all actions speak louder than words in your relationships?

Unreal Expectations

Love Versus Loyalty (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 334)

Do love and loyalty always go hand and hand? Can you have love without loyalty? Some will stay "in love" for loyalty. But why? Loyalty can make people miserable because there is no love to go with it.

Relationship Goals and How To Make Them Work (Bar Talk with Jay Ep. 332)

Everybody wants to be #relationshipgoals on the Gram but what it doe it take to make them happen? Do you believe every relationship is as it seems to be? There are not always clear visuals of what your relationship goals look like. Take in input and find what you really achieve with your significant other.

We Still Here! Bar Talk With Jay 4th Anniversary Celebration (09-17-20)

It's here again! We take a look back at what got us here. We play a few clips from the past. Say what up to a few peeps and enjoy the night. Most of all thank each and every one of yall for your support.

Keeping The Flame Alive, Gladys Knight Vs Patti LaBelle, and Relationship Advice With The Show

This week on the podcast we discuss if your flame is still burning as much as it did day one. We also discuss Gladys Knight Vs Patti LaBelle, and the fellas take relationship questions from the viewers.

Is Negativity Ruining Your Relationship? (Or Friendship?) Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 329

Starting to feel like some people's energy gives you a false positive? One of Those Molly from “Insecure” types? Those the hardest ones to point out. We are talking about people who are really negative and seem like they want good for you. It either they don't Are you or someone you know in a toxic or negative relationship?

Does Influence Actually Change People? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 328)

In today's climate, we talk a lot about change because it's definitely the way progress is made. However, that change has to made by people in their own minds. We all know people can be influenced but can you really change them? Politics is one thing but what about people in your everyday life? Your significant other has some bad habits that you can influence but if they don’t commit to the change it’s not being made.

Define Hoe Phase? Sexual "Experience" Preferences, Images of Leadership and More (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 327)

This week on the podcast we look into sexual experience preferences. We talk about the way men and women look at each other for their needs.

Do You Look at People or Yourself Differently After COVID-19? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 326 )

We explore if you found something new about people or yourself. Did find out the true character of people around you? Did figure that humans had lower lows than you expected or did you find that there is still faith in humanity. So many things changed but did they or did they get amplified.

How To Tell When You Found The "One'' and When To Commit (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 325)

So you have someone you feel like is the one? How long did take you to feel like that and how long did it take for you to know you needed to commit to that person?

Who Does Cheats Better? Men or Women? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 323)

So who cheats better? Is it men or women? First, what is better? Getting away with more or not getting caught for longer? This can go either way. but to really know you have to look at the way each side cheats. Most will say Women have more emotion tied into their cheating while men cheat more for the opportunity when loyalty is absent. Where do you fall?

Can You Openly Discuss Your Sexual History with Your Partner? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep 322)

Can you put it all on the "table"? This week on the podcast we will talk about entanglements, but really we are here to talk about the ability to bare it all with the one you are with. It’s one thing to talk about what happened before you ever together, it another thing to talk about anything that happens in the course of the relationship. Jada and Will came to the Red Table Talk to show how real it is. Can you sit at your table and do the same?

How Do You Handle A Lack of Enthusiasm In Your Relationship? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 321)

When you noticed your relationship isn't where you want out to be? Is the fire not there? How do you deal? Do you encourage a change or do you move on? You tell us

Overcoming The End: How To Move On From Long Term Relationship Scenarios (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 320)

We all, for the most part, an inherent desire to do better and be better. At some point in our lives, people who are close to us will want to do the same and they may not be far as yourself. They may even ask you to help them get closer to where you are. So where is your line? Is it money or are you willing to go all the way and supply infrastructure to support the intended desire. Our families have people that come along with a variety of characters and some of them could really use our help wh...

Daddy Issues: How DID Men Get So Undercelebrated in Society? (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 319)

Maybe it’s social media or maybe its just facts but the perception that Father’ Day is a second rate holiday next to Mothers’ Day isn’t that false. The question is why? Why do men feel like this and why is the perception seem to be so universal? We have come to realize that men have a lot of issues and in society have been the dominant species for some time. Is there some resentment going on subconsciously? That’s a wide look. What about the individual? We talk about women having “daddy issues” ...

Managing The Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318)

Managing Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318) Do you have a preference when it comes to dating age? Before we go in the wrong direction, let's focus on the way that grown people are supposed to work. Going in different directions on the age spectrum can give you pros and cons depending on where you are in your life. It could be stability, it could be to grow or maybe just to have fun and enjoy life. Whatever your preference, age usually plays a factor in our bias of expected behavior ...

A Critical Time To Use Your Voice (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 317)

In the last week since the out right murder of George Floyd, protest are starting to pop up not only in Minnesota, not just America, but the world! We continue to protest in numbers and in some cases riot. It’s beyond the comprehension of some why people are acting the way they are and some are asking what can we do? On tonight’s episode. We explore that and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

Dropping The Baggage Of Old Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 316)

Leaving relationships always comes with some scars, some lessons, and some new expectations because there is always something new we will not put up with in the future. There can be a line that some of us can cross where some of these lessons and scars can turn a small reminder into a full PTSD episode. Some of the negative feelings around certain areas of our relationships can cause avoidable situations and can even go as far as ending a relationship all together Have you gotten accused of trea...

How Willing Are You To Challenge Your Intimacy? (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 315)

In the last few months you and your significant other may have been spending a lot more time together. In some cases maybe too much. Nonetheless you may have hit a crossroad where the intimacy may have gone dull. The real challenge may lie in the willingness to up the ante on where are the outer edges a partner’s intimacy is. So the question usually comes up and sounds like “Are you comfortable with that?” or Have you ever done…”. This could create a beautiful new beginning or could ultimately b...

Overcoming Fear and Anxiety of the Unknown (Bar Talk With Jay 5-14-20)

This week on the podcast we go a little more personal. We usually keep it to you and your significant other but today let us focus on the individual. With the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the unknown had shaped the way we have lived our everyday lives. It’s to the point that the uncertainty is messing with people’s heads and it’s affecting our thinking and may not even know it. Some are aware and are dealing with like nothing wrong meanwhile most of us are coping and making sure we are stayin...

Are you mentally and physically able to maintain a healthy relationship amidst the COVID-19 pandemic? (Bar Talk With Jay 5-7-20)

Are you mentally and physically able to maintain a healthy relationship amidst the COVID-19 pandemic? (Bar Talk With Jay 5-7-20)