Depending on your situation we’ve been under the quarantine for over a month and things have certainly been different and the evolution has gone in a few different directions. Living situations in sort of varieties has brought about things that may have been small and taken a magnifying
So we are going into the first month of post coronavirus life where everything has changed. At this point if you have a significant other chances are you've spent significant time with them. Every working and learning remote has caused us to have much more time at home to open the door for opportunity. Now that could be an opportunity to make some serious love, it could be a time where you can find appreciation for someone or it could be the moment where you confirmed you can’t stand the person ...
So we are going into the first month of post coronavirus life where everything has changed. At this point if you have a significant other chances are you've spent significant time with them. Every working and learning remote has caused us to have much more time at home to open the door for opportunity. Now that could be an opportunity to make some serious love, it could be a time where you can find appreciation for someone or it could be the moment where you confirmed you can’t stand the person ...
It’s impossible that you haven’t been affected by the Coronavirus pandemic. We have had to alter our ways of everyday lives.There are the 5 things we must do to stop the spread but what is really being done to our psyche? The mental effect of the news cycle and all of the speculation around what may be going on behind the scenes have been making conversations have a different tone. We try to explore the ramifications of some of the behavior of society in general and look for some thought process...
How does it make you feel when you get feedback from your significant other….in the bedroom? I It can be an uncomfortable situation when you add certain variables. Are you open minded when someone wants to change the pace to get where they need to be? HOw far does it have to be before it becomes uncomfortable. How many kinks are really on the table? You may think that this is simple but feedback can go a long way.
We experience some sort of crossroad moments where we have to make some tough decisions in our lives. The toughest of them all usually involves moving away from a particular person in your life. Sometimes it may be for love, lack of love, or that person may be no good for you. What if you get to the point that you have love for a person but that person does not have your back or best interests while another person may hold your best interest but they do not have your love interest. This scenario...
Old School Vs New School Dating So whats really the difference? Has dating really changed at its core? There has definitely be a revolution on how dating has changed. Technology has created new environments for interaction and made selection into a sport. We explore all this and more this week on the podcast! Thanks for listening!
This week we explore the double standard that is associated with holidays like Valentines Day. There are pretty much double standards across the board but when it comes to this particular holiday, we tend to see the balance get even more out of whack. Traditionally in western culture the man in the relationship shoulders the load and is really under more pressure because there are more ways to fail than to succeed. As time has gone along the playing field has become somewhat more level but that ...
This week we continue our discussion on the Seven Deadly Sins. Last week we went a little deep on lust (surprise!) but we manage to cover all of them in one way or another. We look into the opposite of each sin and how to combat them in the bet way. Thanks for listening.
You mad? Does that mean I can’t get none? The most notable place sex has been weaponized is in an interrelationship argument. When someone is mad (usually women) one place that tends to get used against the other side is the act of holding out. In theory, a punishment to get a desired behavior but who is really being punished if you have great sessions all the time? In another sense, sex can be weaponized to manipulate behavior usually for “selfish” reasons. People who use sex like this have nee...
Can you resist it? That natural impulse that takes your time, money or energy? Checking social media when you wake up, that candy at the checkout line, or that person who always seems to change your mood or focus, all of these are examples of decisions made with impulse. How do we get to that point? Is it nature or learned behavior? More than likely, it will be a bit of both. Not all impulses are negative. Because of what you learned over time you may develop impulses that protect you and your l...
Have you been played by an underhanded person? Have you dealt with people whose life mission is to get over? We all have and this week we discuss how to deal with these types and keep playing the game the right way. You may feel like playing the game their way is the way to go but in reality this is only bringing you down in a whole. Working around them tactfully will protect your best interests and keep their influence far away from you. Thanks for Listening !
This week in our first show of the new year, Jay and Craft will be discussing how do you open your heart for love again. We have all experienced heartbreak in some way or form. Whether it be in a relationship, a loss of a loved one or even a sports team that lets you down when they are winning 28-3 the championship game. Heartbreak is real and it can keep you from carrying on and being able to show the love you are capable of showing. It is a must for true happiness to find healing in the heart....
This week on the podcast we discuss the ideal way of finding a mate. There are proven methods that are done using science but that path is a choice and finding an ideal mate is probably more about philosophy. Some rely simply on fate or chance while others say being methodical and defining the perfect mate and looking for someone to fit that profile. The answer probably lies in between. Of course, there is the philosophy of the soulmate and believing that there is one special person just for the...
We are at the end of the year and 2019 has been an interesting year for some and just another one for others. What can we take into 2020 in order to make it the “The Best Year Ever”? Do we need to shed a few things before we start or are there are few more things that need to be gathered before we begin the new year? What lessons are key for what the building blocks for a great 2020? We look into many of these questions and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.
Depends on who you ask but that’s more than obvious. Has the reason for break ups differ amongst generations? If you go by decades, the surface reasons have changed but the core reasons are the same. On the surface, may lye on what decade you pop up in. Going back 100 years or so, everything was a bit more family centered and marriage was more of a business tool than a love laten relationship. Break-ups were much rarer and divorce in a religiously homogeneous society was frowned upon. Dating was...
Dealing With Society's Obsession of Material Things Society is undoubtedly addicted to technology. From the phones, the way we use them, the labor of seeking approval, and all of the money-draining services. When we go deeper into the fold, we can see that we as people are starting to get obsessed with material things and companies are looking to hold that over our collective heads. In some cases, these things fracture relationships, cause violence and even end life. Commercialization in a capit...
Do you always speak up? Can you speak up? Is it always your space to say something? We often think of freedom of speech when it comes to the ability to say anything in public but we all know there are limitations. Whether it be your job, your beliefs, the environment, or your relationship, you are limited to what you are able to say. The real question that comes up in a relationship is when it comes to sensitive or important instances, when do you earn the right to say something or more importan...
Drawing a Line: Dividing and Defining The Financial Responsibilities of Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay 11/14/2019) Going Dutch can be taboo in the dating discussion. Philosophies may differ from person to person but it is far less complicated in a casual dating situation. On the other hand when it comes to being in a relationship, cohabitating, and we are talking about splitting these bills, you are looking at decisions that directly affect your livelihood. Income level does influence the way ...
Take a moment to yourself and think about something. What ties you to the person who has given you the best bedroom experience? Be honest was it the love of your life, the crazy one that you couldn’t let go, a chance encounter, or the one you are with now. If it’s not the one you are with, then why not? Was there ever a downside whether with that person or going forward? Did it mess up your expectations and cause some strife? There are truly some highs and lows when it comes to those super passi...
When your special someone mentions to you about something about their work spouse how does that make you feel? Is it a family friend that’s around all the time or is it a person that you hardly know that is in constant contact and it’s always “about work”? For any person, single or attached, a work spouse relationship can develop in different ways, with the Utopian scenario is very endearing friendship. The most useful versions would be a strategic alliance or a chemistry-based alliance. In most...
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Everyone has a cheating story but what is best way to deal with situation? Stay and work it out or leave?
In 2019, haters have evolved. They have different methods of coming at you. They use different channels such as Facebook and Twitter and a multitude of methods to get under your skin. Everyone has haters of some kind. Some may be less obvious than others, ranging from anonymous commentators to your trusted inner circle. Some people may see those who oppose them as haters but may only have passionate fans who want the best. How can you tell the difference? Before you can deal with haters, if they...
When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself. The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defin...
When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself. The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defin...
Topic of the week: Have you been in love with another person while in your current relationship? Would you compromise happiness for the success of a relationship? As always we have weekly check-ins with Jamal and good ‘Dr. Rev.’ Jeffery There are many ways to look at how cheating can be done but the part that usually goes deeper is of the emotional kind. This is when feelings can really start to get involved and love can manifest. The first question that comes up is what are the circumstances th...
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