Netflix sure rushed this season out huh? Watch our recap of episodes 8-10, including the reunion, and final grades for season 2 of The Queer Ultimatum. We're talking brussels sprouts, grandparent die-offs and how Kyle's mom is the real winner of this season. Recap Notes: 2:25 - Intro 3:20 - Episode 8 14:25 - Episode 9 25:54 - Reunion/Episode 10 48:28 - Final grades Share your Am I A Bad Queer? here Support the show We are on Patreon!! patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtube https:/...
Jul 08, 2025•53 min
Billionaires are having quite a week at our collective expense. The Big Bogus Bill and the Diddy trial verdict lead a bad news heavy "Category Is" segment. In "Am I A Bad Queer?", we advocate for not remaining in a relationship with someone who wants kids and letting your friend have their hot queer summer. Our "Bad Queer Opinions" this week lay the blame of the recent Jojo Siwa discourse on our community and ask why we don't rank pride parties. Shoutouts Kris: Check out our Queer Ultimatum reca...
Jul 07, 2025•57 min•Season 1Ep. 266
Welcome to Bad Queers Review , where Kris and Shana break down episodes 1-7 of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2. This season is pure mess, from tattoos and playlists to coming out on TV and hooking up. Tune in to hear what it’s like when Kris and Shana watch the chaos unfold together. Episode Notes: 4:01 - The Queer Ultimatum Concept 5:20 - Cast breakdown 13:24 - Episode 1 24:54 - Episode 2 32:24 - Episode 3 /Episode 4 46:24 - Episode 5 / Episode 6 54:55 - Episode 7 Share your Am I A Bad Queer? here...
Jul 02, 2025•1 hr 11 min
This week on Bad Queers, we define platinum star gay and fat rabbit in Queer Urban Dictionary before diving into SCOTUS’s ruling on gender-affirming care bans for trans youth. We share our initial thoughts on The Queer Ultimatum S2 , break down WNBA news and the Rubiales assault verdict, and discuss why anti-trans activists should focus on real Title IX issues. In Am I A Bad Queer?, we answer questions about ending situationships and exploring versatility in bed. We close out with Bad Queer Opin...
Jun 30, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 265
This week we've got company! Welcome Mandii B, podcast queen behind WHOREible Decisions and Decisions, Decisions for an unfiltered convo on their new book " No Holes Barred ". We cover sexual freedom, queer identity, and building an audio empire. From hooking up with service tops to being a proud bisexual to shooting your shot (corny lines encouraged), this episode is all about breaking stereotypes, embracing pleasure, and owning your story. Tune in for Mandii’s gems on dating, friendship, forgi...
Jun 23, 2025•1 hr 34 min•Season 1Ep. 264
This week on Bad Queers, we define pansexuality and explore the queer history of 18th-century molly-houses in Queer Urban Dictionary. In "Category Is," we get into Simone Biles vs. Riley Gaines and the ongoing fight for trans inclusion in sports, TS Madison educating NeNe Leakes on trans dating, and Doechii’s powerful moment at the BET Awards. Plus, we answer your "Am I A Bad Queer?" questions about dating app validation, saying no to tokenism, and summer queer crushes. In "Bad Queer Opinions" w...
Jun 16, 2025•53 min•Season 1Ep. 263
This week, we’re joined by Shylo and Chelsea of the EMVP Podcast—a show for emotionally mature, vulnerable people navigating the highs and lows of life as Black queer women. We get into their journey from friend breakups to building a podcast, the reality of LA life as transplants, and Shylo’s reflections on her breakout role on Twenties. Shoutouts: Shana: Spark Social House: A third place for the LGBTQ+ Community to connect. Neither work nor home, Spark is more like a home away from home. Based...
Jun 02, 2025•1 hr 27 min•Season 1Ep. 262
This week we share first impressions of The Queer Ultimatum Season 2, recap Week 1 of the WNBA (the WNBA scriptwriters are so back), and spotlight the protest to reclaim the historic site of the Compton’s Cafeteria Riot. We also talk about a new interfaith Pride campaign urging faith leaders to show up for LGBTQ+ folks this June. In Am I a Bad Queer?, we get into summer dating fatigue and how to expand your friend group without falling into performative allyship. And in Bad Queer Opinions, a PSA...
May 26, 2025•51 min•Season 1Ep. 261
This week we discuss week 1 of Diddy's federal trial, Halle Bailey’s restraining order against DDG and Tory Lanez prison/legal updates. We also give our long awaited White Lotus S3 recap and spotlight a 21-year study showing donor-conceived adults raised by lesbian moms are thriving. In Am I a Bad Queer?, how to call out your queer friends biphobia, the best way to avoid being friends with your fellow queer boss and more. Finally, Bad Queer Opinions breaks down when outing is okay and why it’s t...
May 19, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 260
This week on the podcast, we revive the iconic acronym “TWID” (The Woman I’m Dating) and dig into the reclaimed ballroom term “Bricks,” honoring its complex roots and modern meaning. In 'Category is', we react to the Supreme Court’s frustrating move to uphold the trans military ban, recognize our Hunger Games transition by discussing the Black dandyism theme of the 2025 Met Gala, and talk WNBA season hype, including A’Ja Wilson’s sold-out sneaker drop. We address your Am I A Bad Queer? questions...
May 12, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 259
This week we’re joined by Jared Robinson—creator of JUDYS , a love letter to Black and brown queer friendship. We dive into small-town beginnings, fashion-to-film transitions, what makes a Good Judy, and why perfect gays are boring. Plus: Queer Urban Dictionary terms Mx. and Good Judy, behind-the-scenes tea, and Bad Queer Opinions on gay men and queer women friendships, queer characters and Issa Rae's Black Mirror episode. Shoutouts: Shana: Trans Guy Supply is the world’s leading trans-owned onl...
May 05, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 258
Five years later and we’re still standing on business. We’re celebrating with Queer Urban Dictionary lessons ( Gender Cues + Ponk ), in Category is we discuss then vs. now moments, the moments that made us and discussing our queer hair experiences in Hair-apy. Of course, we share your messy Am I A Bad Queer? dilemmas, and take a stroll down Bad Queer Opinions memory lane. Cheers to 5 years of Bad Queers! Shoutouts: Kris: UK Black Pride - celebrating their 20th year in August. Founded by Lady Phy...
Apr 28, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 257
This week, we’re breaking down AIAB in Queer Urban Dictionary and giving you the sapphic position you didn’t know you needed (shoutout to Pearl to Peach). In Category Is , we unpack Montana’s surprise block on an anti-trans bill, the ongoing attack on queer books, and our latest TV obsessions—from 911 Lone Star to White Lotus S3. Plus, advice on dodging your ex, opening up your relationship, and planning a traditional gay wedding without the peanut gallery. And yes, Gayle King gets a Bad Queer O...
Apr 21, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 256
From Sapphic Visibility Day to NFL allyship (and mess), we’ve got range. This week: AGAB vs. gender narratives, Khalen Saunders’ queer-friendly football camp, Ts Madison’s new reentry house, WNBA draft talk, and the messy return to your ex’s kickball league. We close with Bad Queer Opinions: You don’t owe anyone a redemption arc—and Beyoncé’s done more for the LGBTQ+ community than most. Chicago Podcast Salon to see Kris & Shana: https://events.eventnoire.com/e/the-podcast-salon-april-editio...
Apr 14, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 255
Come celebrate 5 years of Bad Queers ! We’re throwing down all month long with virtual events and an in-person celebration in Chicago. Don’t miss the chance to connect and toast to five years of this podcast. This week, we unpack major headlines—from the CDC’s sudden shutdown of key HIV prevention initiatives to Cory Booker’s record-breaking filibuster speech. Plus, a win for the LGBTQ+ community: country artist Tanner Adell comes out as pansexual at the Billboard Women in Music Awards. In our a...
Apr 07, 2025•51 min•Season 1Ep. 254
March Madness indeed. This week, we discuss Signal-gate, Janelle Monáe's upcoming graphic novel, and recap the latest in march madness results. In Am I A Bad Queer? we share ways to navigate the priority shifts of coupled up friends and walking away from things that don't serve you. In Bad Queer Opinion, are we too dismissive of hyperfemme lesbian experiences? Shoutouts: Kris: The Culture Decides Podcast - new, Black queer music review and commentary hosted by Li. You can catch episodes anywhere...
Mar 31, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 253
This week, we’re joined by award-winning professor, writer, and abolitionist Jenn M. Jackson for a conversation that’s as insightful as it is hella sapphic. We dive into their latest book, Black Women Taught Us, and explore their journey growing up queer in the Bay, marriage and parenthood, and, of course, our Bad Queer Opinions. Shoutouts: Shana: The Podcast Salon - Hosted by Anna DeShawn, it’s a night of live podcasting, music and community at varying locations that celebrate Black and/or the ...
Mar 24, 2025•1 hr 30 min•Season 1Ep. 252
And we're back. We're picking up right where we left off with a quick circle back to Shana's South Africa trip, her adventures in dating so far, and getting deeper into lovers and friends. Watch the full video on Patreon here . Catch up with Heart Life Vol. 1 here . Share your Am I A Bad Queer? here Support the show We are on Patreon!! patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcast The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in n...
Mar 17, 2025•16 min•Season 1Ep. 251
Harmful and harmless trash best characterizes this week's news. We react to Trump's 99 min address to Congress and the ways the Democrats "resisted". Shana (bravely) recaps Love is Blind and we discuss Cynthia Ervio's night at the Oscars as well as her being named a headliner for World Pride. Later in the show, we explain when it's ok to avoid coming out to a family member and if pretty privilege should excuse another queer person's ignorance. Plus why you should never judge a stud by her past. ...
Mar 10, 2025•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 250
After the last few weeks of mess in the news, we are bringing positive stories to your eyes and ears. We breakdown the 'Conception Begins at Erection' Bill, Amber Ruffin shares accountability in not coming out sooner and share our favorite highlights from the NAACP Image Awards. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?' we break down the essence of the 'delivered' queer person, being skeptical of your exes behaviors after you breakup and pretending to know the indie queer artists. Would you watch a WNBA Queer Real...
Mar 03, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 249
Trigger warnings, politics and culture. Hate to start the episode this way, but we are 30+ days into the Trump Administration, and it's just mess. RIP to Sam Nordquist, the violence against the Trans community needs to end. Then we review Love is Blind season 8, A'Ja Wilson's shoe line, Super Bowl Halftime Show, and Shana attends Unrivaled. In AIABQ? Shana and Kris fight to keep it together while giving advice on using lube, codependency and coming out journeys. Bad Queer opinions about sticking...
Feb 24, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 248
In this episode, Shana and Kris from Bad Queers Podcast join Destiny from Closeted History LGBTQ+ Stories of the Past to discuss the incredible LGBTQ+ film, Pariah (2011). Starring Adepero Oduye, Kim Wayans and Aasha Davis. It has won many awards and accolades including the 2012 GLAAD Media Award and a Cinematography Award at the Sundance Festival in 2011. Episode Notes: 0:01 - Introduction of Pariah Film & Bad Queers 1:18 - Bad Queers thoughts on Pariah 5:41 - Parental impact in Pariah 10:2...
Feb 17, 2025•56 min
Welcome to Black History Month! We’re kicking things off by asking the real questions—did we actually enjoy the Grammys? Did Beyoncé’s tour announcement revive us? Plus, we break down key headlines impacting the LGBTQ+ community and news to pay attention to. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?', Kris and Shana share advice on astrology ruling your relationship, unproblematic white queers, and the art of the soft launch. And in Bad Queer Opinions, we’re showing love to LGBTQ+ Divine Nine members and making a c...
Feb 10, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 247
This week, we sit down with legendary content creator, Amber Whittington—aka AmbersCloset —to talk about her journey from YouTube pioneer to TV and her next big move… politics? 👀 We get into the real challenges of staying authentic in the public eye, dating as a creator, friendship breakups, and the real LA. Plus, Amber weighs in on the bisexual studs debate for this week’s Bad Queer Opinion. Shoutouts Kris: Rage: On Being Queer, Black, Brilliant… and Completely Over It - Lester Fabian Brathwai...
Feb 03, 2025•1 hr 28 min•Season 1Ep. 246
Last week was possibly the longest short week ever. The Trump administration started as chaotically as expected with the signing of countless Cheesecake Factory–menu–looking executive orders attacking everything from DEI to undocumented immigrants. In other news, the inaugural season of Unrivaled basketball kicked off with a bang and the GLAAD Media Awards were announced and included some of our favs. Have the Gays 4 Trump found us? We answer a few eyebrow-raising questions in Am I A Bad Queer a...
Jan 27, 2025•47 min•Season 1Ep. 245
Hard launch January continues with the (mostly) predictable fate of Tiktok dominating the news week along with LA wildfires aftermath, and The House passing an amendment to Title 9 to ban trans students from women's sports. Lawbrey "Drake" Graham reaching new heights of Karen with his federal defamation suit against UMG over "Not Like Us". In Am I A Bad Queer? we discuss problematic entertainers, jealousy against other queer people who are living freely, and when to share your kinks with your si...
Jan 20, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 244
We're officially back from holiday break in our first new, new, episode of 2025. In Category Is, we discuss the arrest of Jaia Cruz, Meta's decision to end fact-checking on its platforms, and the latest studies confirming gender-affirming care is rare for teens. Of course we have to discuss Beyoncè Bowl and Shana's predictions for Bey's Jan. 14 announcement. In our Bad Queer Opinions, the best friend to girlfriend/wife pipeline is discussed and Kris comments on a viral video shitting on queer wo...
Jan 13, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 243
Happy New Year, Bad Queers! We welcome back our favorite travelers, Neicy and Noiry from Queer Queens Travel (QQT). To get you motivated to travel in the New Year, we reflect on the trips QQT took in 2024, including Shana joining in South Africa, what it's really like to travel with a Black, queer travel group and getting studs to travel in more places than Mexico. As well as the intentionality of supporting Black owned and Black, queer owned businesses and experiences. Want to go to Colombia wi...
Jan 06, 2025•56 min•Season 1Ep. 242
Third times a charm! We welcome back Anna DeShawn , host of Queer News Podcast and founder of the podcast network ' The Qube ' joins us for the third year to do our end of year review. In this episode we pick our top stories and headlines from each month to discuss, laugh and break down even further what's been happening in the mess that was 2024. Shoutouts: Anna: All the supporters! I can't say thank you enough for folks who listen, engage with posts and share. This work doesn't work without yo...
Dec 30, 2024•1 hr 55 min•Season 1Ep. 241
We’re so excited to welcome back AJ Hikes , Deputy Executive Director for Strategy & Culture at the ACLU. AJ is a powerhouse social justice advocate, community organizer, TED Talk speaker, and all-around badass. In this episode, we catch up on AJ’s journey, from coming out later in life to navigating top surgery and embracing life as their authentic self. AJ also shares insights from their work on the landmark United States vs. Skrmetti case and offers a thoughtful perspective on the future ...
Dec 23, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 240
