Season 4 Ep 3: Cobra Kind: Bullying, Partner Requests for Change, & Bare Minimums

First up, in Poppin’ Culture, we discuss Cobra Kai and peer conflict. Next, we do an Academic Deep Dive into a new Journal of Social and Personal Relationships article - “When We’re Asked to Change: The Role of Suppression and Reappraisal in Partner Change Outcomes.”  Last up, we discuss relationship advice tiktok – what’s Good? What’s Bad? And is any of the relationship advice based on science??

Academic Deep Dive: Here

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02654075221078881

Good or Bad Advice:

Replying to @tn_sparty I appreciate the small stuff #marriage #partner #mentalhealth #bareminimum (tiktok.com)

Eat the lemons#childloss #yourstorymatters #grief #thegrievingtherapist (tiktok.com)

Estranged relationships and hospice are more common than you think. We don’t judge you, I promise. We see it very frequently. #hospice #nocontact (tiktok.com)

While your spouse could work on a softer start up, you can do your part by focusing on the problem as opposed to becoming defensive #relationshipcoach (tiktok.com)

Systems have a shelf life and that’s ok! #gentlecaretasks #caretasks #systems #cleanenoughtok (tiktok.com)

YouTube: https://youtu.be/eE116JI9jtU