Opening Up About Our Friendship Struggles
Nov 26, 2025•42 min
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Episode description
Are we good friends? Online personal styling for everyone—get started today at https://StitchFix.com/assumptions!
PODCASTS:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/assumptions/id1752744811
https://open.spotify.com/show/5RalNkXyU7lQNpnZkD7IyV
SUBSCRIBE: https://bit.ly/Sub2SmoshAlike
WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com
WHO YOU HEAR
Anthony Padilla // https://www.instagram.com/anthonypadilla/
Courtney Miller // https://www.instagram.com/co_mill/
Yasmine Sahid // https://www.instagram.com/yasmine_sahid/
WHO YOU DON’T HEAR (usually)
Executive Producer: Anthony Padilla
Executive Producer: Alessandra Catanese
Executive Vice President of Production: Amanda Barnes
Channel Director/Creative Director: Mike Criscimagna
Producer/Director: Nicole Blacklock
Senior Production Manager: Alexcina Figueroa
Production Manager: Jonathan Hyon
Operations & Production Coordinator: Oliver Wehlander
Production Coordinator: Zianne Hoover
Director of Photography: Matthew Faulkner
Camera Operator: Macy Armstrong
Director of Social Media: Erica Noboa
Social Media Manager: Kim Wilborn
Social Media Coordinator: Margaux Bernales
Director of Post Production: Luke Baker
Editor: Patrick Horba
Sound Mixing: Lila Rowel
Sound Editor: Gareth Hird
DIT: Beni Kimuene
Senior Manager, Channel & Strategy: Lizzy Jones
Channel Operations Manager: Audrey Carganilla
Channel Operations Coordinator: Sabrina Lieberman
OTHER SMOSHES:
Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh
Smosh Pit: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshPit
Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames
SmoshCast: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshCast
FOLLOW US:
TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok
Instagram: https://instagram.com/smoshalike
Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh
0:00 Intro
0:53 It’s so easy for dudes to be friends cause they can bond and stay close by playing COD
2:41 Friendship breakups are worse than romantic relationship breakups
6:33 You shouldn’t be friends with your good friend’s ex
8:46 Sponsor!
9:57 If you’re in a heterosexual relationship, you shouldn’t have close friends of the opposite gender
15:09 Frankly, I have no idea how someone makes friends outside of school or work
19:35 Real friendship means being able to FaceTime each other out of the blue
23:08 You can’t throw around the term “best friend” willy-nilly
26:39 Just cause I’m bad at texting doesn’t mean I’m a bad friend :(
28:35 Sending memes, videos, or TikToks are valid forms of communication with your besties
30:26 People are too quick to cut friends out of their lives these days
33:23 One person shouldn’t have to initiate every time to keep the friendship alive, whether It be hangouts or conversations
35:24 If you’re gonna cancel on our plans PLEASE give me a heads up a couple hours before
35:57 If we’re good friends, we can reconnect any time no matter how much time has passed
36:56 If nearly all your conversations with a friend are rants about life or venting your problems, they’re not your friend anymore, they’re your unpaid therapist
PODCASTS:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/assumptions/id1752744811
https://open.spotify.com/show/5RalNkXyU7lQNpnZkD7IyV
SUBSCRIBE: https://bit.ly/Sub2SmoshAlike
WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com
WHO YOU HEAR
Anthony Padilla // https://www.instagram.com/anthonypadilla/
Courtney Miller // https://www.instagram.com/co_mill/
Yasmine Sahid // https://www.instagram.com/yasmine_sahid/
WHO YOU DON’T HEAR (usually)
Executive Producer: Anthony Padilla
Executive Producer: Alessandra Catanese
Executive Vice President of Production: Amanda Barnes
Channel Director/Creative Director: Mike Criscimagna
Producer/Director: Nicole Blacklock
Senior Production Manager: Alexcina Figueroa
Production Manager: Jonathan Hyon
Operations & Production Coordinator: Oliver Wehlander
Production Coordinator: Zianne Hoover
Director of Photography: Matthew Faulkner
Camera Operator: Macy Armstrong
Director of Social Media: Erica Noboa
Social Media Manager: Kim Wilborn
Social Media Coordinator: Margaux Bernales
Director of Post Production: Luke Baker
Editor: Patrick Horba
Sound Mixing: Lila Rowel
Sound Editor: Gareth Hird
DIT: Beni Kimuene
Senior Manager, Channel & Strategy: Lizzy Jones
Channel Operations Manager: Audrey Carganilla
Channel Operations Coordinator: Sabrina Lieberman
OTHER SMOSHES:
Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh
Smosh Pit: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshPit
Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames
SmoshCast: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshCast
FOLLOW US:
TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok
Instagram: https://instagram.com/smoshalike
Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh
0:00 Intro
0:53 It’s so easy for dudes to be friends cause they can bond and stay close by playing COD
2:41 Friendship breakups are worse than romantic relationship breakups
6:33 You shouldn’t be friends with your good friend’s ex
8:46 Sponsor!
9:57 If you’re in a heterosexual relationship, you shouldn’t have close friends of the opposite gender
15:09 Frankly, I have no idea how someone makes friends outside of school or work
19:35 Real friendship means being able to FaceTime each other out of the blue
23:08 You can’t throw around the term “best friend” willy-nilly
26:39 Just cause I’m bad at texting doesn’t mean I’m a bad friend :(
28:35 Sending memes, videos, or TikToks are valid forms of communication with your besties
30:26 People are too quick to cut friends out of their lives these days
33:23 One person shouldn’t have to initiate every time to keep the friendship alive, whether It be hangouts or conversations
35:24 If you’re gonna cancel on our plans PLEASE give me a heads up a couple hours before
35:57 If we’re good friends, we can reconnect any time no matter how much time has passed
36:56 If nearly all your conversations with a friend are rants about life or venting your problems, they’re not your friend anymore, they’re your unpaid therapist
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