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Ask Lewd Lexi

Professional adult voice actress and sex expert, Lewd Lexi answers your questions about sex, relationships, the adult industry, and how you can enhance your sex life in ways you never imagined possible.
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95. Is It Normal To Think About Other People During Sex?

Let's be honest - when we're horny, our minds wander. And if you're actively thinking about another person during sex, you may be wondering if something's wrong with you. But is this normal? Is it considered a form of cheating? And finally, what if (if anything) should be done about it? I answer all of these questions and more in today's episode! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call w...

Apr 28, 20268 minEp. 95

94. Body Language Cheatsheet: Practice These To Become More Attractive!

Studies show that 55% of our communication is done through body language alone. And the same person can be seen as 'incredibly attractive' or 'uncomfortable creep' simply due to the signals you're giving off. In this episode I give you some pointers on body language, and how to use it to instantly make yourself appear more attractive to others! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call wit...

Apr 14, 202613 minEp. 94

93. Why Is Step-Cest Porn So Popular?

Go to the front page of any major tube site, and you're bound to run into plenty of step-mom, step-sister, and step-daughter content. But it didn't used to be like this. In this episode, I delve into why step-cest porn suddenly became so popular, why studios love to produce it, and what this means about our sexuality. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/...

Mar 31, 202610 minEp. 93

92. Should You Really 'Be Yourself' While Dating?

'Just be yourself' is one of the most overused pieces of dating advice ever shared. But is there truth to it? What if you're not proud of who you actually are? In this episode, I talk about how you can present your authentic self while meeting new people, while maximizing your chances for a successful date. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other...

Mar 17, 202612 minEp. 92

91. What To Do When One Partner Has A Higher Sex Drive

Mismatches sex drives can put a strain on any relationship, but it doesn't mean that you two are fundamentally incompatible. In this episode, I cover practical solutions when one partner has a high sex drive than the other, and how you two can tackle this common problem together! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/le...

Mar 03, 202610 minEp. 91

90. How To Approach Women When You're Very Shy

You know you have to talk to women if you want to get a date, but the thought of doing so can be agonizing. Thankfully, there is a method that anyone can try that takes the fear away - and builds your confidence to approach people more casually in the future. Because if you can master the approach, you WILL get a date, no matter what you look like, or who you are. Tune in to today's episode to learn more! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/ema...

Feb 17, 202613 minEp. 90

89. Why Is Japan So Obsessed With Boobs (And Why No Love For The Butt)

It's no secret that Japan loves boobs. Everything from to their art to their clothing are made to accentuate the breast. But how did this love for breasts come to be, and more importantly, why no love for the butt? I tackle this extremely important question in today's episode! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdl...

Feb 03, 202612 minEp. 89

88. How To Move On After A Long-Term Relationship

When a long-term relationship ends, it can be devastating to deal with - even if you agree it was for the best. While some grieving for the relationship is natural, it can be very easy to get stuck in cycles of depression and longing for the life you once had. In this episode, I'll go over how you can process your feelings and move on from the relationship in a healthy and satisfying way. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: http...

Jan 20, 202613 minEp. 88

87. Dating - Should You Wait Until You're Ready?

Dating is tough - especially in the modern age, where real human connection is seriously lacking. But how do you know when you're ready to tackle the challenge of dating someone new, and when should you actually start trying? Answers in today's episode! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Jan 06, 202610 minEp. 87

86. Why Are We So Lonely? - Analyzing Modern Isolation

Scientists say we are in a 'loneliness epidemic', and having worked with so many people, I believe this to be absolutely true. But in a world where we are supposedly more connected than ever, why are so many people feeling so alone - and what can we do about it? --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Dec 23, 202511 minEp. 86

85. Why Do Some People Like Rough Sex (And Others Don't?)

Rough sex - some people love it, and others loathe it. Which, can pose a problem if your partner holds the opposite stance as you. In this episode, I cover both what makes it appealing to some, while repulsive to others - and why your stance is legitimate, regardless of how you feel about it. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https:/...

Dec 09, 20257 minEp. 85

84. Where Can You Meet Women These Days (Outside Dating Apps?)

I'll be honest - dating isn't even remotely similar to it was when your parents were doing it. With Tinder and swipe culture running the dating world, it can make you feel like there's no way to actually meet women in the real world these days. Thankfully, if you know where to look - and how to approach meeting people in person, you can have a FAR better experience than dating apps could ever provide! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ ...

Nov 25, 202512 minEp. 84

83. Do Men Or Women Enjoy Sex More?

We know that both men and women love sex, but at the same time, we experience it differently. This episode covers what aspects are better for men, which are better for women, and how you can ensure the BOTH of you are having a great time in bed! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Nov 11, 20259 minEp. 83

82. The Rise Of Ethical Porn - Why More People Are Enjoying It

Porn isn't exactly known for being the most wholesome of industries - and even today, there is still a lot of manipulation and abuse going on behind-the-scenes. Thankfully, new ethical porn options have popped up over the last 10 years, and more people are flocking to it than ever! This episode acts as an introduction to ethical porn, and why it's worth thinking more about! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com...

Oct 28, 20258 minEp. 82

81. Are Pickup Lines Dead?

Pickup lines used to be all the rage - but they've transformed dramatically in the past few decades - and even the last few years! Do they still work, or should they be left in the past? And how do you deliver them without embarrassing yourself? This episode takes a critical look at modern dating culture, and where the pickup line fits within it. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call w...

Oct 14, 20259 minEp. 81

80. The Psychology Behind Fetishes And Kinks

How are kinks and fetishes developed? Heck, what is the difference between the two? And how can our life's experiences shape what we become interested in sexually? In this episode, I'll be answering all of these questions and more! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Sep 30, 202512 minEp. 80

79. How Long Does Sex Last On Average? (Plus Science-Based Ways To Last Longer!)

Porn gives the impression that sex is meant to be a marathon, but reality paints a far different picture. In this episode, we'll cover how long sex ACTUALLY lasts based on real couples, plus some neat ways you can last longer in bed while still having a good time! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Sep 09, 202510 minEp. 79

78. Do Soulmates Really Exist? Here's The Truth...

Soulmates - or the idea that there is one perfect person out there we're destined to be with, is a tale as old as time. Or is it? This episode covers the arguments both for and against the idea of soulmates, as well as examining the idea of soulmates throughout history. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudi...

Aug 26, 202511 minEp. 78

77. Why Don't I Find Masturbation Satisfying Or Pleasurable?

Masturbation is supposed to be fun, and feel good. But for some people, it can feel like a chore at best, or even physically unpleasant at worst. Why does this happen, and how can we fix it? This episode will share some ideas that might help! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Aug 12, 20259 minEp. 77

76. Why Do So Many Porn Sites Abandon Their Series'?

Ever wonder why so many porn websites haven't updated certain series' or channels in years? It turns out, there's a lot of good reasons for it... and some shady ones as well. This episode digs behind-the-scenes of the ways porn sites operate to help give you some insight! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiau...

Jul 29, 20259 minEp. 76

75. Do Men Get Hotter With Age? (And Why You Should Feel Optimistic!)

Aging affects all differently, but men have more reason to be optimistic than women do. In this episode, I'll cover how to use your age as an asset, ensuring that you only get MORE attractive as time goes on! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Jul 15, 202510 minEp. 75

74. 9 Stigmas Sex Workers (Like Myself) Face

Although it comes with its rewards, the life of a sex worker isn't always easy. This episode delves behind-the-scenes and covers some of the stigmas sex workers face, both from individuals and from society at large. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Jul 01, 202510 minEp. 74

73. Are There Any Legitimate Ways To Increase Penis Size?

The internet is riddled with fake ads for penis enlargement pills, magical supplements and other nonsense that claims to help enlarge your penis. But are there really any legitimate ways to make your penis larger? This episode delves into the science of penis enlargement, helps you identify scams, and shares what ACTUALLY works! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://le...

Jun 17, 20258 minEp. 73

72. Should You REALLY Be Friends With Your Ex?

Remaining friends with an ex is risky - some people can make it work, while for others it's a recipe for disaster. This episode will help you decide when it's a good idea, and when you should leave your former partner in the past! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio...

Jun 03, 20259 minEp. 72

71. 5 Ways To Enjoy Porn That You Might Not Have Tried

With technology changing faster than ever, there are entirely new ways to enjoy porn that you might not have heard of before! They say porn is the main driver of new technology, after all. So, in this episode, I'll cover 5 ideas worth considering if you want to mix things up! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee/lewdle...

May 20, 20257 minEp. 71

70. 12 Good First Date Ideas (That Aren't A Movie Or Dinner!)

If you want to stand out, you'll want to skip out on the classic movie or dinner date idea. There's nothing wrong with them, but they are forgettable at best, while giving you chance to actually get to know each other at worse. In this episode I'll go over 12 first date ideas that are unique, memorable, and fun - creating a great memory for the both of you! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Bo...

May 06, 20259 minEp. 70

69. The Hymen - What It Is, And Breaking Myths

Few pieces of the human body are as mystical as the hymen. While simply a tiny part of a woman, the hymen has been given great cultural significance. This episode will share in detail what the hymen actually is, why most girls have one, and break down some of the myths regarding it! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other links: https://linktr.ee...

Apr 22, 20257 minEp. 69

68. Why People Ghost (And How To Handle It)

One of the worst things to come out of modern dating is the concept of ghosting. Now that things are done over text, one can simply disappear forever at a moment's notice. But what is the reasoning behind this phenomenon, and what should you do if you are in fact ghosted? This episode shares my best advice! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phone Other...

Apr 08, 20257 minEp. 68

67. Does Porn Change Your Sexual Orientation?

In recent years, we've seen a rise in people questioning their sexuality, believing that it has been permanently changed or altered by porn. But does porn have the capability to actually change your underlying sexual orientation - and if so, under what circumstances? In this episode, we look over the evidence - both scientific and anecdotal, to uncover how exactly porn shapes our sexuality. --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: ht...

Mar 25, 20258 minEp. 67

66. Attachment Styles - Everything You Need To Know

Did you know that everyone falls into one of 4 'attachment styles', that shape how you approach relationships, and handle conflicts? By understanding which of these you and your partner fall into, you can take steps to resolve disagreements quicker, grow more close, or seek out more compatible partners while dating! --- Website: https://lewdlexi.com Sign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio Book a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/ph...

Mar 11, 20259 minEp. 66
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