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Ask Ashley: The Podcast

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Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

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Episodes

Accidents Happen

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week, but things are a little different. The Ashley’s have some things to get off their chest before the New Year starts. If you’re looking for small talk and the usual laughs, this isn’t the episode for you. 00:53 – At one point NeYo had the girlies in a headlock. He knew how to tug at the heartstrings, but what happened? Ashley + Ashley have the answer, and let’s just say, it is personal. 14:15 - Have you ever seen something you just can’t unsee? Ash...

Jan 01, 202456 min

Drag that G Wagon Out Of Me

MERRY CHRISTMAS! Time to change The Ashley's name to Santa. Ashley + Ashley are here to drop off a special Christmas episode for THE PEOPLE. 4:55 - Tune in as they break down the 8 gifts Destiny's Child received for the 8 Days of Christmas. Did Beyonce's man really show out or did Ashley North's baby daddy take the cake? It's giving Rich Baby Daddy Flex. 19:27 - Drake is addressing his haters, kind of. Does bucking into a live stream camera event count? Either way, his Toronto fam def has his ba...

Dec 26, 202335 min

It’s Giving Rich Friends

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week, to discuss The Ghetto Mount Rushmore, Amazon delivery times during the holidays, dry ass cuticles, and which business to support, Uber vs, Lyft. 00:53 – Lil Mo & Keyshia Cole deserve their flowers too. They may not make Ashley + Ashley’s R&B Queens Mount Rushmore, but they can definitely make the Ghetto Mount Rushmore. 21:00 - Are White Elephants actually fun or are we all just going along with a ridiculous game with ridiculous rules full...

Dec 23, 202355 min

PLEASE READ

This week, Ashley + Ashley are back for a much needed weekly catch up. It’s been a rough week for both ladies so they tap each other to discuss needing more sleep, missing your child’s firsts, and Iphone memories that won’t let you forget you USED to be skinny and well, unfashionable. 02:25 – Remember when you could put on a CD and listen from top to bottom? A jam session featuring Whitney & Toni turns into a conversation on the R&B Mt. Rushmore. Who is in your top 4? 18:50 – “This littl...

Dec 16, 20231 hr 8 min

I'm Telling The Teacher

Ashley + Ashley are back this week with a fast food feast- Mexican Pizza, Chicken nuggets, and calories galore. On this episode the ladies are discussing eating pork, being spotted at The Barclays Center, and shitting while dating. 09:50 - It’s not Chayce’s party, but she’ll cry if she wants to. Ashley N is in another parenting nightmare, but this time even she feels a little helpless. When they say “my best friend is my therapist” this is exactly what they mean. 22:46 - Watch out world, Ebony i...

Dec 02, 202350 min

F Boy Facts

Ashley + Ashley are back this week, a day late, but never a dollar short. This week they discuss how Shakira is a role model to many, the importance of seeing your partner's pics before procreating, and 2023 Christmas wish lists. 03:52 - Jimmy Butler’s media day photo may have turned Ashley N off. The dreads didn't hit the same way that the goth look hit. They hit very different, but it didn’t turn everyone off. It hit perfect for Shakira. That’s her man, her man, her man, despite a 12+ year age...

Nov 26, 202347 min

You’re A Hater!

Ashley + Ashley are back cozy & comfortable in the Ask Ashley NYC home studio. This week the ladies discuss Chris Brown’s Nigerian accent, the NBA play in tournaments, attention seeking only children, and drunk sex vs. I’m sorry sex. 07:23 - Ashley W has 200 roses in her home and Ashley N wants her to open up about how and why this is happening. Is it a secret admirer or is she sending them to herself? 14:59 - It wouldn’t be an Ask Ashley episode without a little Drake hate. Ashley + Ashley ...

Nov 18, 202352 min

5:30am in NYC

Ashley + Ashley are back from the comforts of the Ask Ashley NYC home studio. This week the ladies gather to discuss how they work better as a team, learning to acknowledge God’s gentle nudges, and reminisce on one of Ashley N’s finest moments. 03:59 - Ashley W stumbled upon a new episode of Catfish and is introduced to a new investigation tactic that she’s never seen before. You know Ashley N is here for this convo because her dream in life is to be on Catfish. She’s basically just using the po...

Nov 11, 202347 min

It's Celine ēē!

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week, to discuss popcorn, cookies, gift wrapping and other school fundraising scams. Plus, an invisalign update, a halloween update, and an update on which Ashley is actually a conservative white man hidden in a black woman’s body. 04:59 – It’s been a less than eventful week with a major revelation. Ashley + Ashley’s closets are both a direct representation of how they feel at the moment. Can anyone else relate? 10:00 - Have you ever heard of The Switc...

Nov 04, 202342 min

Sprinkle Sprinkle

Ashley + Ashley are back this week, but not without several interruptions. Ashley W’s sister, Ashley N’s daughter, and a bunch of intrusive thoughts they probably shouldn’t put on a podcast. It’s actually hard for two friends to catch up. 06:42 – Sprinkle! Sprinkle! There are wayyy too many people on the internet giving bad advice, thank God for Ashley + Ashley! Listen in as the ladies digest using men for money vs. leveling up and operating in survival mode. 17:12 – Ashley N has turned her drea...

Nov 03, 202345 min

Unhinged feat. Lina Palacios

This week, Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio with a very special guest. The ladies invite their great friend, wardrobe stylist, and podcast ghost contributor, Lina Palacios to the show to discuss dating in 2023. Are dating apps ruining the experience or enhancing our options? 02:50 – Alright Papa ChampanYO! It’s time to talk about Drake… again. The album is growing on the ladies, but his accents are not. Lina weighs in on Drake’s spanish accent while Ashley N provides clarity on her opinion...

Oct 21, 202356 min

Okay, Lydia.

Ashley + Ashley are coming to you from a real girls night in. It's a late night recording from Ashley W’s couch in New York. The ladies opened a bottle of Tequila and cracked open a Polkadot shroom chocolate bar to discuss Cuban links, 30 inch weaves, and toxic college horror stories. 01:37 – Ashley N wants a cuban link chain and Ashley W is afraid she will look like Sexy Redd. Is it giving ratchet or bouj-ghetto? Or is there another term The Ashleys are too old to know? 08:20 – The ladies keep ...

Oct 14, 202352 min

Wassup BruV?!

Ashley + Ashley are checking in from each coast this week to discuss the best place to learn a UK accent, the anxiety attached to waiting for test results, not subscribing to pregnant weddings, watching Chinese games on Tiktok, and more. 2:41 - Ashley W is officially a plant mom. But not just any plant mom, she’s a really good plant mom. According to Ashley N, this is the next step before motherhood. Apparently plants are more difficult to keep alive than puppies. Forget a puppy, buy a plant. 11...

Oct 08, 202344 min

An Open Invite To Drake

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss how hard it is to actually find information on Reddit, riding the short bus, and the heartbreaking news that is Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce. 02:34 - Everything in the UK is just better. Including UK rap. The Ashleys are both obsessed with Central Cee, but have a few questions about his identity. It’s time for another deep dive! Be sure to check out the essential Central Cee Playlist HERE . 09:14 - Madness & Badness, Combination....

Sep 30, 202355 min

Ask Ashley Live from NYFW Feat @DexRob

This episode of Ask Ashley: The Podcast is brought to you by Orbit Gum. Ashley + Ashley bring the runway vibes to your earbuds, coming at you LIVE from the dazzling New York Fashion Week. But this time, they've got a twist! They've teamed up with Orbit Gum to bring you an intimate chat with none other than Dex Rob , the hottest celebrity menswear stylist in the game. Hailing from Virginia, Dex knew he was different and the people around him weren't afraid to let him know. Both Ashley's can relat...

Sep 23, 202330 min

Easy Listening

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss their favorite Sirius Radio stations, terrible customer service, and old ass sperm. 12:51 – Ashley W hates shopping and Ashley N can’t get enough. But there is one store that will set them BOTH off. Dear Kith Employees, this is for you. 22:13 – The Ashley’s stan a Queen who is FUNNY! This week, Ash & Ash share some of the best clips from their bestie in their head… @JawnnNextDoorr 26:14 – The number of older men fathering children i...

Sep 09, 202347 min

Scam, That's A Scam

This week, Ashley N is visiting NYC and stopped by Ashley W’s house with some dinner for their catch up. The ladies are both a little under the weather and discussing swollen lymph nodes, a hack to get you through long nights in those high heels, people who peaked in high school, and the new housewives. 04:34 - Ashley N’s ears are burning, not ringing. So there’s no money on the way, but she definitely might need an antibiotic after putting her trust in an 18 yr old. 12:27 - By the way, who inve...

Sep 02, 202343 min

I Prefer To Read My News

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss the difference between watching and reading the news, Twitter converting to X, and the vacation that reminded Ashley W she has some money, but not enough. 03:15 - X? What is X? Elon Musk must be stopped. Ashley N just might need to offload her Tesla, but what is a better option? Which car maker makes the most luxurious interiors? 10:31 - Welcome to The Cote d'Azur. Ashley N ran through Nice a few months ago, so Ashley W had to go experi...

Aug 29, 20231 hr 17 min

Pump It Up Feat @doctorlanna

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with special guest, Dr. Lanna. As a master injector, trainer, Speaker, CEO, and thought leader and executor in the sexual health and wellness space for women, there is no topic (or procedure) off limits today. 09:06 - Women aren't the only ones in Dr Lanna’s Office. The men are in there for both functional and cosmetic procedures . From locker room penis to Erectile dysfunction, Dr. Lanna fills us in. 28:06 - What does an underpaid urologist, who ...

Aug 19, 20231 hr 12 min

I before E except after C

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week and are talking the best of Faith Evans, the things they found on Beyonce’s internet, and Chayce’s potential boyfriend. 03:16 - Ashley + Ashley stan over Faith Evans. It’s another singalong and it’s starting to feel like the singalongs may be here to stay. 11:05 - What is worse, consciousness or convenience? One Ashley is a spelling bee champ and the other Ashley relies on spellcheck. Tune in as The Ashleys share the most difficult words to sound ...

Aug 12, 202342 min

Breathe Life Into That Man

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week and they are still on the hunt for the r&b sounds of their adolescence. Does anyone remember Paula De Anda, Amanda Perez, or Baby Bash?! 11:22 - Holy Matrymony! Ashley + Ashley need to get officiated ASAP. Way back in January of 2021, the Ashley’s gave some relationship advice to a listener and well now, her big day is around the corner. (Check Out: Ciara's Prayer or Lori Harvey's Finesse ) 17:44 - Do you recall the rules for dispersing school...

Jul 29, 202346 min

Jealousy Is A Human Trait

Welcome to the 100th Episode of Ask Ashley: The Podcast! Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week, and while it’s certainly a milestone, the ladies are not dressed like old people on the 100th day of school. (Missed the reference? Check out Season 3, Episode 2 “Bring Back Pizza Parties ”) 00:54 - Ashley N stumbled onto the Legendary Labels: Bad Boy Records playlist on Spotify and it sends the ladies on a trip down memory lane. Do you remember the Pop/R&B girlies like Danity Kane, Chr...

Jul 28, 202351 min

Straight Spending Money

This week, the ladies are back in the studio to discuss the imploding sub vessel, Ashley N’s trip to Cannes, and mini besties. 14:35 – Let’s talk about amazing hustles. Ashley + Ashley are honoring the brave men & women that beat traffic tickets and remove car boots. Ashley N would be lost without their courageous work. 21:10 – It’s not TV time but The Ladies have a suggestion for you anyways. Check out Serena on HBO Max, well it’s just Max now. It’s hard not to fall in love with her and her...

Jul 08, 202350 min

Brown Is The New Black Feat. Brandon WIlliams

Ashley + Ashley are in the studio this week going back to back with another guest! Today, the ladies are joined by Celebrity Menswear Stylist, Creative Director, and Host of Bleacher Report Street Style, Brandon Williams. Brandon’s current work can be seen featured in GQ, Slamm, and as a contributor for the past four years of Sports Illustrated Fashionable 50. He has also established on-camera features by The Bleacher Report, NFL’s The Check Down, ESPN, NBA LIVE and soon to be featured on Uninte...

Jul 02, 202356 min

Don't Play Yourself Feat. Artiera Hickman

This episode of Ask Ashley: The Podcast is brought to you by FORD. Breaking the mold, strengthening community, creating change, real stories brought to you by Ford. Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with their first guest of Season 3, friend, mom, wife, and CEO & Founder of Curl of Art, Artiera Hickman. This week, they’re discussing childhood nostalgia, navigating friendships as adults, and becoming first-time entrepreneurs. 01:07 - They say music is good for the soul at every...

Jun 17, 202358 min

Swiss Army Knife

This week, the ladies are back in the studio for another nostalgic 90’s sing-a-long. Ashley + Ashley are discussing everything from Amazon storefronts to serial killers, from helium voices to crime podcasts, there’s honestly no rhyme or reason for the things they share. 03:10 – No one is ever prepared to run into an ex-boyfriend, including Ashley W. It was inevitable but Ashley ran into her ex-boyfriend for the first time in 3 years. The interaction wasn’t quite what she expected. Let’s just say...

Jun 10, 202344 min

The B Word

This week, the ladies are back in the studio for a delicious fried chicken moment. They’re discussing their week, being an independent woman who asks for what she wants, and a few viral videos they found on Beyonce’s internet. 09:37 – What a week. Ashley North is facing a parenting nightmare, her youngest daughter has a potty mouth and knows how to use it. Sis is really grown in a young girl's body, but she may not have any friends by the 4th grade. 16:39 – This week, Ashley W is glued to her ph...

May 27, 202345 min

BooBoo Luggage

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss UK pop groups, chickenhead appearances, traveling like a pro, and unpopular opinions about Love Is Blind Season 4. 00:23 – Do you remember this jam from 1997? Apparently The Ashley’s obsession with the UK started earlier than anyone knew. 06:58 – Bad hair, bad skin, bad nails, and ashy toes. These ladies are struggling to keep up with their beauty routines. Hair is falling out, nails are breaking, and skin is disagreeing, but venting to...

May 20, 202349 min

Bring Back Pizza Parties

This episode of Ask Ashley: The Podcast is brought to you by FORD. Breaking the mold, strengthening community, creating change, real stories brought to you by Ford. Ashley + Ashley reflect on their week, including the experience of observing parents discipling their children in public, the hunt for a new therapist, and the quest to maintain new wellness routines. 00:47- The Ashley’s miss tradition. Why do kids have to dress up as old people on the 100th day of school? What happened to jolly ranc...

May 13, 202348 min

Abu Dhabi is not Dubai

This episode of Ask Ashley: The Podcast is brought to you by Fat Ham . Get your tickets at www.fathambroadway.com Use Code: @DYQFH for $39 mezzanine and $79 orchestra Ashley + Ashley are back! It’s been 6 long months and your favorite duo is in the mood to catch you up on all the happenings! 05:30 – Ashley N’s business is booming and her daughters are still running her world. Ashley W’s started a new podcast and just might have a new bae? This is going to be an interesting season. 10:08 – Some w...

May 06, 202353 min
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