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Ask Ashley: The Podcast

DearYoungQueenwww.askashleypodcast.com

Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

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Episodes

Men Are Gonna Hate This Episode

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss guy chooches, second thoughts on saving the planet, and nosiness as a virtue. Included in the discussion: 00:37 – Ashley N is comin’ in hot with her update, but Ashley W’s is just sort of lukewarm. This week’s catch-up covers properly naming your parts, disruptive indigestion, and Jerrod Carmichael’s take on paper vs. plastic. 07:29 – TV time becomes IGTV time when Ashley W mixes it up. She leads a discussion on these so-called “superio...

Apr 17, 202137 min

BRO-TOX feat. Roberta Moradfar and Nik Rouzan

After a ton of technical difficulties, Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with special guests Roberta Moradfar and Nik Rouzan from EFFACÉ Aesthetics. The ladies are discussing procedures that leave you glowing, the secret sex lives of dolphins and pumps between the sheets. Included in the discussion: 00:50 – Why do some kids put “Miss” on your name and some don’t? Ashley N had an encounter this week that raised some questions, but she kept it moving because she’s non-confrontationa...

Apr 10, 202139 min

Drug Talk

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to deep dive on Wayne Brady, (apparently he really deserves his flowers), discuss dodging the mailbox, and dial in a few men to get the truth on cheating. Included in the discussion: 00:16 – The ladies are cracking open a couple of cannabis waters and spilling the tea. Let’s hope this hits better than those edibles from back in the day. 04:21 – Who is the best female rapper in the game? Ashley W is worried because Ashley N has some opinions that m...

Apr 03, 202148 min

Have You Ever Gone Number 3?

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss a wild week on the internet, taking a number 3, and unexpected facetimes. Included in the discussion: 05:23 – It’s official. Ashley + Ashley are the Laverne & Shirley for the modern day. They’re doing it their way for sure. Shout out to the marketing genius who picked up on that. The ladies can’t remember who it is, but you deserve your flowers. 08:50 – It’s been an eventful week. Ash N got a shot in the arm and is only one m...

Mar 27, 202148 min

It Feels Like Love In Here feat. Bre-Z and Chris Amore

Ashley + Ashley are welcoming their friends, Chris Amore and Bre-Z, to the studio this week to discuss creative destiny, television baes, and knowing your love on every level. Included in the discussion: 00:45– Ashley + Ashley welcome to the studio a couple that’s taking social media by storm. Bre-Z and Chris Amore are here to celebrate their new engagement and discuss what makes them #CoupleGoals. Individually and together, this dynamite duo brings the creative fire. 02:56 – Ashley W is steppin...

Mar 20, 202144 min

A Vagacial Party

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss vaginal steams, coddling men, and screenshots they’d rather you not see. Included in the discussion: 03:01 – The Marchy Warchy Blues have settled in, and the struggle is real. Ashley N needs some “me” time, and Ashley W can’t keep her eyes open. This should be fun. 07:41 – The ladies are planning a vagacial party and you’re invited. What’s a vagacial, you say? Don’t worry, we’ll bring you up to speed. 12:45 – Are women “overfinancializi...

Mar 13, 202138 min

Horny for Likes feat. Brenn Colleen

Ashley + Ashley are welcoming Brenn Colleen back to the studio this week to share stories from her new novel, “It Only Seems Random.” They discuss charging by the hour and unwanted dick pics, and they even hold court over the true meaning of the word “loyal.” Included in the discussion: 04:08 – Author and activist Brenn Colleen was the very first guest on the podcast, and Ashley + Ashley are so happy to have her back. 07:20 – Ashley N is raising her prices, and she has the research to back it up...

Mar 06, 202152 min

That Man Look GOOD-T!

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week to discuss reposts from Rhianna’s bestie, constructive criticism, and the price points of pleasure. Included in the discussion: 02:42 – From Saweetie to Meg Thee Stallion to Desi Dior, Ash + Ash bring us up to speed on female rappers who are killing the game. 19:54 – Ashley W’s former fling is the real thing. Check out Paris Bae in the UFC fight tonight. 23:09 – Great actors. Toxic Story. We have the first-ever “do not watch” from our resident TV ...

Feb 27, 202143 min

The Trainwreck I Needed

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss ex-girlfriend sightings, trainwreck television, and private excuses. Included in the discussion: 00:14 – Ashley + Ashley take a musical stroll down memory lane and come to the conclusion that they just don’t make American Idols like they used to. 06:29 – Ashley N owes someone an apology. We can’t say his name because we said it too many times last week...and we’re very sorry about that Mr. #!*%$. 09:01 – Ever been out with your g...

Feb 20, 202149 min

Do You Have A Valentine’s Bae?

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss Valentine’s Day, healin’ in your heels, and the Bae Race. Included in the discussion: 01:21 – Thankfully, Ashley N and her family have made it through Covid. The symptoms were mild, but the experience was stressful. 05:31 – Ashley W was SHOCKED when she stepped on the scale this week. But don’t worry...she has a plan. That’s the first step, and Ashley N has her back. 13:40 - It’s V-Day Weekend. One of the ladies is “Bah Humbug,” ...

Feb 13, 202156 min

He’s a Big Deal feat. Dashon Goldson and Desean Jackson

Ashley + Ashley are celebrating Super Bowl Weekend with two of the NFL greats. Dashon Goldson and Desean Jackson are offering up their take on some of the ladies’ lingering questions. Yes, that’s Dashon + Desean on Ashley + Ashley, clever eh? Advance Warning: The quarantine home recording struggle is real this week. The kids don’t care that Mommy is recording her podcast. AT ALL. Included in the discussion: 01:01 – Ashley N gets to live out her childhood dream of being a sportscaster by introduc...

Feb 06, 202140 min

Ciara’s Prayer or Lori Harvey’s Finesse

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to offer up the kind of therapy only your best girlfriend can. Bring on the laughter and good advice. Included in the discussion: 00:38 – Ashley W is back in New York after her birthday trip, but was it the “Eat, Pray, Love” adventure she thought it might be? Ashley N gets the details. 11:02 – Can you believe Ashley N was forced to steal back her own groceries in her own neighborhood? Find out why she is fed up with delivery drivers. 13:38 ...

Jan 30, 202154 min

Fake It Till You Make It feat. Adrienne Bailon

Adrienne Bailon Houghton fills in for Ashley N while she's working late. Adrienne and Ashley W go way back, and they’re spilling the tea on some of their favorite moments. When Ashley N arrives, the ladies dive into a discussion of their party days, the first Black Bachelor, and sexy talk as a career option. Included in the discussion: 00:16 –While Ashley N is working late, Adrienne and Ashley W catch up on old times. 7:08– It’s Ashley W’s birthday weekend, and she’s heading into her new year wi...

Jan 23, 202149 min

Don’t F*ck Me & Leave Me

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss unlocking your inner hoe, “Bridgerton” in real life, and hookup drop-offs. Included in the discussion: 00:16 – Kevin Hart & Joe Budden are guests this week. Or are they? So what if the ladies had to trick them into being on the show. 01:58 – The men have set Ashley + Ashley straight. It’s not about competition. They just like hoes. Go live ya life, Sis! 06:28 – Ladies Night was a success, and Ashley N had the hangover to prov...

Jan 16, 202149 min

The Opposite of an Empath is a Virgo

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance again this week to discuss empathic abilities, sex toy secrets, and “Bridgerton” binges. Included in the discussion: 01:28 – Ashley W’s back from her Miami golf trip with a new Bae. The trip was a success, but that’s all she’s saying for now. 07:22 – Ashley N is the girl who would bail on the sleepover before bedtime. Ashley W is the girl who would stay until the morning donuts arrived. Which one were you? 10:26 – Sometimes the energy of a room is ju...

Jan 09, 202151 min

Men Love Competition

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance this week to discuss back-handed compliments, kids these days, and sex in strange beds. Included in the discussion: 00:26 – Ashley N needs to know how Ashley W is managing the cuts to her Bae List. Turns out men like competition. 03:35 – Is AN a hater or did she accidentally sign up for a job she doesn’t want? The girls need to clear the air. 10:18 – How to break down a back-handed compliment. Why can’t some guys just be direct? 14:14 – The Tik Tok G...

Jan 02, 202147 min

It Climaxed at the Register

Ashley + Ashley are catching up long-distance to recap their Christmas week and look back at their favorite moments from the past twelve podcast episodes. They discuss last-minute gift buying, restructuring the Bae Roster, and how they plan to walk into 2021. Included in the discussion: 01:05 – Ashley N’s Dad decides to visit at the last minute, so it’s a mad dash to the mall for additional Christmas gifts. The trip officially turns Ashley N into “crazy mom.” 08:20 – It’s Soulmate Bae’s birthday...

Dec 26, 20201 hr 1 min

Stop Answering For My Vagina

Ashley + Ashley are getting into the holiday spirit. This week they discuss splitting the check, the importance of good sex, and how to bridge the gap in a long-distance relationship. Included in the discussion: 02:25 – Ashley + Ashley had their first official photoshoot for the podcast - beautiful shots, awkward experience. 06:20 – The girls share a couple moments where their meals out were comped. The moral of the story is, “Find a roach.” 13:14 – When girlfriends gather for dinner it can get ...

Dec 19, 202042 min

I Got Invited to the Studio in 2020

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio to chat about the changing times. This week they discuss misleading social media, teen crushes, and the kind of sex you can get behind. Included in the discussion: 03:14 – Ashley + Ashley are turning down invitations, and social plans are suffering. But it’s 2020. 09:22 – Don’t let social media fool you. Men are looking for real women. Natural bodies and intelligence are still a winning combination. 15:34 – Ashley W is convinced she’s second wife material. ...

Dec 12, 202036 min

WAGS feat. HER Playbook and Autumn Pierce

Ashley + Ashley welcome their guests Kristel David and Autumn Pierce to the studio to discuss the highs and lows of raising young ladies, how to navigate life alongside a sports star, and secret agent stories that reveal deep truths. Included in the discussion: 00:15 – Ashely N’s girls are right at home in front of the camera, but can Ashley W convince her to start making those casting rounds again. 03:15 – It’s a WAGS reunion this week. Autumn Pierce and Kristel David join Ashley + Ashley to ca...

Dec 05, 202049 min

The Magic Box

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio, and they’re considering the male perspective. They dive into guys who can cook, cringey behavior, and sex that’s less than sexy. Included in the discussion: 01:33 – Ashely N has received some listener feedback. Is Ashley W being too judgy or is “Match My Fly” still valid? 07:24 – Bonus points for knowing your way around the kitchen, but cooking skills shouldn’t be a prerequisite. Ashley + Ashley can get the job done just fine with an app. 12:36 – Second-ha...

Nov 28, 202032 min

You Gotta Know Your Family

Ashley + Ashley are giving thanks and diving deep on holiday traditions, spy stories from a single girl, and how to handle a cheating man when he’s not your own. Included in the discussion: 02:37 – Ashley W is prepping for a date, but she’s keeping the details on this Bae to herself. It must be serious. 07:31 – Dear Young Queen has added new contributors to the blog. Ashley W gives us one story that almost all women can relate to. 14:14 – Ashley N is obsessed with “Love Island UK” because, well…...

Nov 21, 202048 min

#CoolMomStatus feat. Good Moms Bad Choices

Ashley + Ashley welcome the hosts of "Good Moms Bad Choices," Erica and Milah, to the studio. This week they discuss turning up when dressing down, the new mommy movement, and hacking Hinge. Included in the discussion: 00:15 – Ashley + Ashley breathe a sigh of relief now that Biden and Harris are heading to the White House. 04:59 – The hosts of Ashley + Ashley’s favorite podcast, "Good Moms Bad Choices," are in the studio. Erica and Milah share the origin story of their friendship and how their ...

Nov 14, 202041 min

Girls Know Girls Who Know Girls

Ashley + Ashley weigh in on the biggest presidential election of a lifetime and put their faith in the process. This week they discuss pro tips for being the best houseguest, guys who can’t commit, and why social compatibility is key for couples. Included in the discussion: 00:50 – Ashley + Ashley are refreshing their news feeds just like the rest of us. Who will be our next president? 03:25 – Is Ashley W ready to make the leap to the West Coast? Ashley N lays out a plan. 13:26 – There’s a new m...

Nov 07, 202039 min

Surprise! Gimme Some Money

Ashley + Ashley welcome to the studio Ingrid Best, Vice President of Marketing for Combs Enterprises, and Shayla Cowan, Chief of Staff at Will Packer Productions and Will Packer Media. They chat about Black Girl Magic, the importance of MENtors, and dodging kidnap vans. Included in the discussion: 00:45 – Ashley + Ashley welcome their guests and discuss Ingrid and Shayla’s positions as successful Black Women in this moment of profound change. 13:55 – What’s it like to work alongside some of the ...

Oct 31, 202046 min

What We Learned on the Internet This Week

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio together. They catch up on what happened in their lives this week and chat about the beauty of a Cash App gift, gossip sites, and languages of the heart. Included in the discussion: 3:00 - Ashley W gives an update on Soulmate Bae. Has he been demoted? 7:44 - Did you hear about the rookie who broke the rules? Ashley + Ashley share their thoughts. 14:11 - Ashley + Ashley decode their love languages and the kinds of apologies that speak to them most clearly. 2...

Oct 24, 202030 min

The Quarantine Made Some Things and Broke Some Things

In this episode, Ashley + Ashley welcome their first guest – author of Love Letters & Lighter Fluid , Brenn Colleen. They catch us up on quarantine honeymoons, woman-to-woman talks, and how to navigate the tricky path of having guys as friends. Included in their discussion: 01:58 – Ashley + Ashley hear how Brenn’s love life (and garden) blossomed during quarantine. 09:52 – There are some things to keep in mind before you come to someone “Woman-to-Woman.” 11:39 – What happens when your guy fr...

Oct 17, 202029 min

Laugh With Me, Laugh at Me…As Long as You’re Laughing

In this episode, Ashley + Ashley are reunited on the West Coast after months of pandemic lockdown. They catch us up on Ashley N’s recent birthday, COVID testing as a team, and dating while searching for your soulmate. They discuss: 01:04 – Ashley N had plans for her birthday, and Ashley W flew private to help her celebrate. How did that go? 07:35 – The highs and lows of COVID testing with your best friend. 14:05 – Ashley W introduces us to Soulmate Bae and Bentley Bae. Which one deserves to win ...

Oct 10, 202036 min

Match My Fly

It only took four scrapped episodes, a couple of false starts, and a two-month battle with Apple Podcasts, but we’re here! Welcome to ASK ASHLEY: THE PODCAST. In this episode, Ashley + Ashley tackle the age-old question, “Is love blind?” They discuss: 03:16 – A recent dating experience that left Ashley W questioning her standards when evaluating men. Is she being frivolous? Ashley N weighs in on the subject as only a best friend can. 17:47 – SPOILER ALERT. Ashley + Ashley cover their binge of th...

Oct 10, 202041 min
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