The Rift Within: How We Drift, How We Return Growth often feels like acceleration.Achievement, momentum, forward motion.But the quieter reality is that every great expansion is preceded by an invisible tearing — a soft fracture between who you have been and who you are no longer willing to be. No one teaches us how to recognize this.The world cheers for our ambition.The world praises our consistency.But it says little about the moment when these forces turn against each other inside us — when th...
Apr 29, 2025
There is only one day I have ever truly lived. Not because I chose it. Not because it aligned with my desires. Not because it brought triumph or peace or even clarity. But because it was the only day that existed.And that day—this day—is always now. This is the first claim:Today is the best day of my lifenot because it is pleasurable, successful, or redemptive—but because it is real. This claim, rightly understood, is not motivational.It is ontological. It is not about gratitude, though gratitud...
Apr 07, 2025
There is a kind of prison you can’t see until you stop trying to be good. It doesn’t have bars or locks or guards, just subtle agreements—signed with silence, compromise, and the aching need to be seen as “enough.” We grow up learning to adapt, to shrink, to survive. And at some point, we mistake survival for maturity. We confuse compliance with wisdom. We call our numbness peace. But something deeper always knows. You feel it in quiet moments, when the noise fades. When no one’s looking. When t...
Apr 06, 2025
The Weight of Need & The Freedom of Resonance There is something in us that pulls toward others—not just toward connection, but toward attachment, toward something we can hold, something that feels like proof that we belong. We search for people who will affirm us, complete us, quiet the restless questions in our minds. And yet, the deeper we lean into this pursuit, the more it eludes us. Need disguises itself as love, as friendship, as deep connection. It whispers that closeness is measured...
Feb 28, 2025
Momentum is not the problem. It never was. I have always known how to generate force, how to translate thought into action, how to press forward when everything in me wanted to retreat. My capacity for movement has never been in question. But there comes a point where movement itself must be examined—where the momentum that once felt like power begins to feel like compulsion. Where the force that has carried me forward no longer feels like a choice, but an inevitability. I used to believe that o...
Feb 22, 2025
The End of Anxiety: How I Deal with Intensity, Contempt, and Triggers Without Losing Myself I haven’t felt anxiety in over 670 days. No panic. No self-doubt. No feeling of being overwhelmed by the world’s chaos. And it’s not because life got easier. It’s not because people stopped being difficult. It’s because I found myself. Once anxiety disappeared, I expected smooth sailing, but that’s not how life works. When you become unshakable, the world doesn’t stop shaking—it just stops shaking you. Th...
Feb 12, 2025
I Am Always Spiritual, But Never Always One Thing For years, I lived under the weight of an assumption—that to be spiritual, I had to be engaged in something explicitly holy. That my connection to God was strongest when I was in prayer, in study, in silence. But what about the rest of my life? The moments of drive, of exhilaration, of pure, unfiltered being? Then came the whisper. "I’m still here." Not in the expected places. Not in the quiet of morning devotion, nor in the solitude of deep cont...
Feb 07, 2025
The End of Anxiety: How Knowing Myself Set Me Free Anxiety is the chaos of being lost—the fear that arises when you do not trust, love, know, or believe in yourself enough to face, handle, embrace, or overcome an experience, whether real or imagined. I haven’t felt anxiety in over 660 days. No panic, no racing thoughts, no knots in my stomach, no dread clawing at my chest. It’s not because life suddenly became predictable or easy. It’s not because I mastered some perfect meditation technique or ...
Jan 30, 2025
Few phrases hit harder than when the person we love says, “I’m not attracted to you anymore.” It feels like a direct assault on our identity, our value, and the very core of who we are. But in reality, while this statement is deeply painful, it holds within it layers of meaning, about them, about us, and the relationship. Understanding these layers and knowing how to respond with grace, authenticity, and strength is crucial. What This Statement Really Means When someone says they’re no longer at...
Jan 27, 2025
Forgiveness is a word that carries the weight of a lifetime, doesn’t it? It’s simple to say, but its depth is something that can drown you before it saves you. For years, I misunderstood forgiveness. I thought it was something I did for the benefit of others, a way to release them from the consequences of their actions. What I didn’t see—what I couldn’t see—was how forgiveness was never about them. It was about me. It was about stepping into the fullness of who I am in Christ, the forgiven and f...
Jan 26, 2025
To be alone is often a fear most cannot consider, much less face. The silence of solitude terrifies because it leaves us with nothing but ourselves, stripped of the noise that so often fills our days and drowns out the questions we are too afraid to ask. Yet, in solitude lies a gift unmatched, a chance to meet the self hidden beneath the weight of the world’s demands. In solitude, we find our way. We hear the voice that speaks only when the echoes of others fade, the voice that has been with us ...
Jan 23, 2025
“I need nothing.” The words hang in the air like they shouldn’t belong to me, but they do. They weren’t always mine, though. There was a time when the word need felt like an open door to panic, a constant grasping for something—validation, security, meaning—that I didn’t believe I had. Back then, every want disguised itself as a need, and I let it drive me, like a machine powered by fear of not being enough. Now, that’s all changed. What I have today, I don’t need. It’s not that I don’t apprecia...
Jan 22, 2025
Ideas are a dime a dozen; they're everywhere, all the time, all at once and it's very hard to tell we're even being influenced by them. I've engaged in some extremely diverse think tanks only to find the majority of of people just want to be heard. Everyone seems to be an expert, and yet, most of us are not able to complete daily tasks, much less lead others to the promised land. So, why do so many people claim to be gurus or masters of so many things? One of the greatest buzz words of today is ...
Jan 20, 2025
When a Man is Wanted, Loved, Touched, and Known I’ve lived through the seasons of what it feels like to be wanted and the emptiness of what it feels like when you’re not. There’s a shift that happens in a man when his wife wants him, not just as a partner in life, not just as a provider, but as a man. When she sees you, desires you, and chooses you, something changes. You feel it in your chest, in your posture, in the way you walk out the door in the morning. It’s as if the world stops demanding...
Jan 19, 2025
Fear as Fuel: A Journey into Adventure and Growth (A Reflection on an Old Discovery) Fear is universal. It touches every part of our lives, shaping the choices we make and the paths we take. For many, fear feels like a wall; stopping progress, stalling dreams, and creating hesitation. But what if fear isn’t the enemy? What if it’s the guide we’ve been waiting for, pointing us toward the things that matter most? For much of my life, I believed fear was something to overcome, something to fight or...
Jan 17, 2025
[Video Commentary] [part 2 - the garden] Eve, the first woman of the Bible, has been the subject of countless interpretations, debates, and discussions throughout the history of Christian thought. Her story is of profound significance, shaping our understanding of the human condition and our views on gender, sin, and redemption. From the earliest patristic writings to contemporary feminist theology, Eve’s narrative has been woven into the fabric of theological discourse, often reflecting each er...
Aug 19, 2024•Season 7Ep. 144
Living Freely Without Fear: A Call to the Church In the New Testament, the concept of freedom is central to the believer's life. This freedom, as taught by Jesus and the apostles, isn’t just about being released from the bondage of sin; it’s about living in a state of spiritual liberty that reflects the gospel's transformative power. But as we explore this freedom, we must recognize a crucial aspect: true freedom in Christ allows us to live without fear—of each other, of the world, and even of o...
Aug 12, 2024
Living in the Moment: "Are we truly living, or just thinking about life? Join me as I delve into the journey of staying present and finding joy in everyday moments.
Jul 05, 2024
Self-improvement. A testament often heralded but fraught with peril. Indeed, we should strive to work on ourselves, but the reflection of my soul once revealed a man I neither desired to be nor to present to the world. Improving the frail, fearful, and broken shell I once was, projecting a façade of confidence unconsciously, was not the answer. No, that man needed to die. And die, he did. In some cases, the situation is so dire that replacement, not repair, is the only viable option. Yet, this d...
Jul 02, 2024
Conversations That Transform – Part 2: Finding Joy, Clarity, and Purpose in Every Word Video Link: In this continuation of "Are You Listening?", Dr. James Tippins explores the remaining principles of how our conversations, inspired by the Word of God, can lead to transformation. Dive into the discussion as we uncover how our words can illuminate, guide, and bring peace. Learn how to nurture growth through intentional dialogue and imagine a life where every conversation is an opportunity for chan...
Jun 25, 2024
Video Link: In this episode of "Are You Listening?" Dr. James Tippins delves into the transformative power of conversations grounded in the Word of God. Join us as we explore the first ten principles of how hearing and speaking the truth of Christ can bring joy, clarity, and purpose into our lives and the lives of those around us. Discover how our words can be vessels of grace, build community, and foster healing. Don't miss this insightful discussion that will inspire you to use your conversati...
Jun 24, 2024
GraceTruth Church focuses on authenticity and intimacy, encouraging individuals to be themselves without fear of judgment. Emphasizing the importance of knowing our purpose in Christ, the church fosters a supportive community.
Jun 22, 2024
In the last decade, and more so in the last three years, I've embarked on a path of deep exploration and bold exposition in areas often left uncharted or merely skimmed over by the broader Christian community. I make no apologies for this pursuit. It's a deliberate, intentional dive into the complexities and nuances of living a life rooted in Christ—a path not chosen lightly, but with a fervent desire to understand, to grow, and to challenge not only myself but also those who walk this journey w...
Apr 04, 2024
I Ain't Scared of No Post We live in a world where the essence of who we truly are is often buried under the heavy weight of societal norms and expectations. It's a world that demands conformity, often at the expense of our individuality and the unique light we each carry within us. But today, I stand before you to challenge this status quo, to call into question the narratives we've been handed down, and to assert a profound truth that might seem audacious to some. A year ago I posted a short n...
Mar 22, 2024
A poem of me: A Rose.
May 21, 2023•1 min
“When we perceive a man, we perceive him as a whole. His physical body, his intellect, his personality – it’s all tied into who he is as a person. So, while his body may be aging, he’s growing more independent, successful, and mature. Therefore, he's still attractive – perhaps even more so. It doesn’t matter that he’s got some wrinkles, because his body is healthily aligned with his being.” Grace, the woman who wrote this about men observes the antithesis in the world concerning women. I'm not h...
May 05, 2023
Laugh at yourself. Be creative. Just a thought.
May 04, 2023•45 sec
Stains keep me up at night. It's true. I have a tendency to obsess over stains on rugs, clothes, bedding, or anywhere else. There's a wine stain on our butcherblock countertop that only I can see. I've spent the last nine years trying to discover new ways of eradicating it. One day, I'll strip, sand, and refinish the whole lot; that will do it. Most of the time, a stain is something to remove or clean. But in a positive sense, we can call a stain a mark. Everyone thinks about making a "mark" on ...
May 02, 2023
After three years I am restarting this conversation. I hope to get all of you back in the saddle of having a good convo. Take care to watch for my newsletters starting in the next few months. Every Friday-- about some neat and new ideas on living life well for the Glory of Christ.
Apr 23, 2023•2 min
https://youtu.be/90zp9afAsn4 I think we need to talk. Here are some thoughts relating to the future. I am sure many will have questions, but most of all, I hope everyone has ears to hear and to listen.
Sep 21, 2022
