Episode 96: Ft. Fat Boy

single time? Oh? Damn, um uh, this is you can say anything I say. You know, I finger a finger the pussy. Wow, you're the first fingerer. Were packing finger? You're not looking on it a little bit? Look on the click Okay, I know you said look on her computer. Okay, So you make her your finger like you pop it or you like play with it like fingers are used, these two fingers and not just in you know what I mean. That's and he's his third finger and his

ring finger. You may lick it afterwards. That's sexy. So you finger her while you lick it, or is it like alternating and alternating finger it? Then you know what I mean, I lick it, then I put my fingers in my mouth, you know, and that guarantees an orgasm. Would you rather that she come like in your mouth or would you rather she come during penetration? During penetration? Penetration, ladies, how would you rather come penetration for sure? Yeah, like

she's having a moment. Yeah, yeah, the flashback stuff I like. Um, I like the end. I like the internal like penetration orgasm because it just feels it's a little different, you know what I mean. Like when I'm masturbating, I can make myself come from you know, clitoral stimulation, right, so it's like, you know, it's nothing special, But when a guy could actually make you come from the inside, yeah,

it's different. I think for me, it's like anytime you can make me orgasm anyway, whether it be finger or tongue, I'll take it. But like you know, if you fingering me or like you're eating me out, I'm just like, yeah, I need that dick like coming right to please. Do you have an eat her and then put your finger in her butt too? Yeah? Of course I'm nasty, so I do all. I'm nasty toes and everything. Does anybody

in here like having your toes? Like I've had my toes sucked a couple of times, man, And I gotta say, I think it's more exciting for the guy. But the guy. I think it's more exciting for the guy. Yeah, because for me, it's like why, like the tickles, this is stupid? Why is this happening? Like I haven't got in a pedicure in like a week? Why are you? Yeah? When

is that? Like? When would you suck her toes? Like if you see that her toes aren't done, ain't If they ain't if they're bad, like they bad, ain't done, then I ain't doing it. But they're looking good, looking good I'm doing as she got that white nail. Probably guys always want to suck toes in awkward moments, you know what I mean. Like you're like like he's up and you're laying on your back and your legs on

the feet are in the face and then boom. Why that's kind of sometimes they might prevent the moment from happening, like can you please not telling you? It's like, oh, you're just you're just not laughing. Now it's funny. Now you're doing something is all right now I want to see. Um, we were talking about Hedonism before you got here, right, because I think we're all going to go to Hedonism. It's in Jamaica. It's a resort where everybody's naked. Yeah,

I'll go there too. You would, all right? So, um, so we would? Would you all be naked like Hedonism if everybody else was, I wouldn't. I shot Smooth Magazine and Hedonism, and I was naked a lot of the time, but only when I was with crewel people. Because it's like everybody's naked and guys are like kind of awkward about it, like and it's like, you know, it's kind of when the thing. I love Hedonism though, it's really fun. But the only like it's kind of awkward to see

if guys walking around with soft things over the place. Yeah, keep it with that, but you don't want nobody to look at you soft. That's the only reason why it's awkward. As soon as I hate, I know I'm are, I don't know. It's interesting because I feel like if everyone's naked, you feel comfortable being naked. But I think for me, having everybody look at you like that, and yeah, yeah, no, I don't think I'll do it though, I don't think I'll be naked. I probably walk around with a little

thong and a cute top, but should naked. Yeah, beach playing footballiday. I think it's easier for a guy. I mean it's easy for some girls too, but I think guys don't give a fun but a hedonism. When you're wearing clothes, they make you feel uncomfortable, like exactly like a spy. It's more like you're more comfortable when you're naked than when you're wearing clothes, because when you're wearing clothes,

everybody's like, are you comfortable naked and soft? Though? Because you're not gonna be hard the whole time I'm saying, I'm saying, are you a shower or a grower? Because you know, sometimes you see the guy's penis and he's flaccid as they say it's in limp. It looked awful. Yeah, it's like, damn, I don't know if I want to do that. But then some guys just bust up out like the incredible Hope. So how is that like a

hedonism when everyone's naked. I'm sure there are guys that will get a hard on so are they walking around Stay await, here's the thing. They are approach. They are approach you soft, and then as they're talking to you, it starts growing and you're trying to be here, You're trying to not look at it. But that is weird. If you watch your boys and like you're like your man, let's get a drinking. Watch out, you know your homies

day they try to yo, what's up? But watch out you guys chilling at the bar and a bunch of girls won't by naked and all your boys starts going hard. That's weird. Watch. But guys get erections at like weird random times, right, Yeah, I used to get that gym all the time. Damn, that's awkward gym all the time, and then it would be so crazy. You gotta it's crazy. It's more awkward though, getting an erection at like a

weird time or not getting one if you had to choose. Um, I don't know, I'm saying getting one, yeah, I would. I would get it to not get me. Yeah, so I think not getting it will be is a more awkward time. That's bad. But sometimes guys get really drunk. By the way, we have drinks for you if you want something appreciate. Yeah, we got you because we heard that's what you like. You went lemonade with it or simply would appreciate that. But we want to make sure

you're taken care of appreciate. Now we're gonna play a little gang because I just want to see how much you guys really know about different sex terminology and how many things you've tried. Okay, do you know what is the supernova? The supernova Stephanie, I'm looking at you. It's supernova. I'm gonna guess. Okay, yes, can I guess? The super nova is when um, a guy cream pas your ass? How did you come up with that? That's when a girl feels her mouth with pop rocks and then gives

you a blow job. Oh that's awful. That like pops in your mouth? So that Oh yeah, I tried that feeling like that. You ever been chewing gum and gave somebody a blowjob and been like, oh man, you going to the side and the guide I was drunk and I was I was given a guy had with gum in my mouth, and I totally forgot it was there.

I swear, I told me, And I remember putting the gum in my mouth, and I just the next thing I know, I wake up and my I got gum in my hair and went into my hair gum and come ye, all right, here's another thing that I've never heard of. This the Kentucky klan dag bar no idea, what angela? Where are you getting these from urban dictionary? Okay? This is when you freeze a bowel movement and then you penetrate somebody with the frozen bowel move That's disgusting.

That's the wait, what does that another way? Did you take a piece of ship, freeze it and then take your hold dog and then guy forbid it. That's a weird. That's a weird, shitty fetish. Who's doing that? Have you ever have you ever penetrated your girlfriend with an object? Yeah? Is it like a real dildo or vibrator or just an object like it was? It was it was just like this plastic thing, this white plastic that you can get sick off that. Did you put a condom on it?

Did you sanitizlastic thing? It was from auspices. It was some it. She doesn't remember this, she remembered. She just said, oh, yeah, she's here by the way, he said special, yea, we paid twins for it. It's um, I don't know what it was, probably a massager. Yeah, you didn't describe that well this white thing. Yeah, it was like, boy, you better not talking. Do you like using toys? I'm saying, yeah, I'm a free November? Okay. Yeah, but they're also cheaters. Uh.

He looked down. She said, that's the fact I had a scorpio boyfriend at one point that was definitely a cheater. Now, a lot of people also have written in some questions. We'll get back to some of these terminologies, and I want to see what you think about this. Okay. One girl is asking. She's saying, she's the only young black woman in her department at work, and she wants to go on a few nice trips to celebrate her success or her friends ain't got the money for that. Is

it safe for her to travel alone? No? Hell no, friends get their bags up, friends up, go go do with your friend to have of the time. Have you ever been on vacation by yourself? No? No, because I bring my niggas with me. Well, I m I I've traveled by myself a lot, and I just feel like it depends on where you're going, you know what I mean, Like you can't go to Paris or two. I feel like London is is safe to go by yourself, but Paris is not. And I feel like Miami you can

go by yourself. You're probably gonna meet a lot of people. Depends what hotel you stage, yes, exactly. I just feel like it depends in just certain places, Like I wouldn't recommend going to the Caribbean by yourself and for how long to you. It depends in the Caribbean with island you're going to, because some of them, like I wouldn't recommend Puerto Rico by yourself, and I wouldn't recommend to medic Republic by yours if you're staying like on a

resort and you're not really going to is that. You know, those are places are crazy. Mexico by yourself, those are like the heat makes people a little strange. I think

it also. I think it depends on who you are, how long you're going for, and what you're going for, because if you're going for like a week and a half by yourself, that's exploring everything, it's kind of long, and then you're gonna want to talk to people, get to know people in the town, and you don't necessarily really know who they are or what their intentions are. But I have to say, man, I've traveled. I used to go to Miami by myself all the time. I

used to go to Miami by myself before. Like, now I know where I go, I'm gonna know people everywhere I go. But before I didn't really know people. I knew a handful of people. And I'm not gonna lie. It's not it's not fun. It's not fun being by yourself, Like you don't really get to be my day ones. I like to you know what I mean? Would you rather go on vacation with your boys or your girl? Both? No?

Go pick one, um, because they're all in here, everybody looking like you have to say that you have to think about I wasn't thinking. I already knew that I wasn't. I wasn't thinking I'll go to my girl. She's like mad as hell right now. What's a good vacation. Okay, let's say she wants to go somewhere. You want to surprise her. Are you a planner? Or did she got a planet and you just she got a planet and then I just paid for it. That's fair enough. Can

she go on vacation with her friends a girl's chick? No, what you be going with your boys your day? One? What's wrong with that? Right? She can't go because I don't know some of her friends, hose and not, just like she don't know some of your boys. And that's that's understandable. But I would have passed in the relationships. She's not going. I said, no, not fat boy, some of your friends hose Um, Oh no, all right, that first,

right answer. He's not supposed to be righting on his friends. Yeah, don't do nothing because you can't never admit to your girl, yes they because then she's gonna say I don't want you with them? Right. Yeah, that's the biggest mistake you can make in a relationship to all your significant your friends as business. But I think as a woman, you know who's who, and yeah, but you have to you.

I mean, when you have when you're in a relationship with somebody and you're spending a lot of alone time with them, you're talking with them, and you know what I mean that your friend text you and he's like, oh, what's up, and like you're telling him and you don't even mean to tell on your friend. You know, it's just random conversation with your man. And now two weeks later you're like, oh, I'm gonna go over here with x Y and he's like, after she was doing that.

You can't you cannot imagine you tell your man my friends just said three dicks in wondering, right, and that he's definitely not sure yeah, or even just being around, Like if you're out with your man and his friends are around and they're doing something funny or vice versa, he's out with you and your girls and she's acting mixed, they're gonna look at that and be like, is this how it always is? Right? Okay? How they actually not going on? What if this? What if it's like somebody's

getting married, it's the Bachelor that weekend? Oh no, you still ain't going because you know it's gonna be strippers. What do you think women strips? Right of A? No, I think it's more likely you're not going to the show club either, because we can't try. I think it's I think it's more likely for a guy to have sex with a stripper or like during the bachelor party ship than a girl. You know, even if we do spot days and we go to dinner, even if starts with each other. No, but I do. I get my feet,

my clean, a little polished. Like all right, here's the next question. Um this one person said. I was in a relationship for four years, the latter two of the years I moved to Charlotte while she stayed in be A long story short, We've been trying the long distance thing. However, recently I'm feeling disconnected to her. I'm not attracted to her mentally anymore. I realized this after I brought her around my new friends and she wouldn't so she lies at all, which was a huge turn off for me.

How imprating is it to date somebody that gets along and socializes with your friends. She's very important because if you don't, you're gonna lose your friends. Seated, Stephanie's like, I don't want to be around your friends. I mean, I feel like this, I'm always gonna be. I'm always that girlfriend that all my I wherever I'm dating their friends is like, you know what, stuff is so cool? Like right, she's so cool, she's so real, she's so down to earth, Like I love stuff. We can watch

football with stuff. Stuff is amazing. But as soon as the door closes and I'm with my man, I'm like, listen, I hate all of them. Awful. They holes. Every time you do something, you try to blame one of them, like, uh, but just to make him happy, I'm cool with everybody. Yeah, I'll be there like, oh, hey, what's up the motherfucker you gotta that's a sacrifice I feel like you have

to make for your lover. I don't expect for my my lover to be cool with my friends, but if he wants me to be cool with friends, I'm gonna treat them like. I think it's a difference between being cool and being respectful, right, you know what I mean? Because you could, like be around them and be respectful, but you might not necessarily favor them because of how they are what they've done. But for me, I think it's important for my significant other to be cool with

my friends. I'm not saying you gotta go everywhere with us, but you know, I don't want to feel separated. I don't want to feel like, you know, there's a weird energy every time I say I'm going out with my friends, or when I tell my friends. I'm going out with my man, you know what I mean? Friends don't like? Yeah?

Or when your man don't like your friends? Because I had an ex boyfriend like that where I would want to bring him around my friends and he always want to be with me only and I'm like, dude, like for me, none of my girlfriends, I don't like none of my good Why there's don't like them? Don't you seem overbearing in the relationship? Right? She can't go on trips to the friends. You don't like none of her friends? But what's your who? When I see it? What's up?

What makes you not like them? Have they done anything? But I just don't like them? Let me guess why? If I could guess, Okay, have you funked up in the relationship? Yeah? And she told her friends, I guess you, and so they probably would like him. And now you don't like them? Yeah, because they as friends they always like they always on my Instagram like telling her what I'm don't like? Yeah, leave me alone, like I don't like I'm not real friends, you know what I mean?

Like I I comment like it don't even got to be simple? Common heart eyes and some other girls. Let's talk about that even had it like like it's something like not different anything anything anything anything flirting anything anything. But it looks to me alone. But if your girl was to do that on another guy's picture, would you think that's casual? You would think that's flirting. You'll be say,

break the phone. I posted a comment on a guy's picture and he was like, he was like, oh, so he was like this, nig I got three hundred people comments and hunting and ship and you just got to be three hundred and one? Would you comment it was? It was a heart? It was it was a heart. I commented that on Nicky Jam. I'm friends with Nicky Jam. That's my boy, okay, you know, like he has a wife and everything like Puerto Rican, you know connection, It's just my friend. And it depends on the post too,

because I've posted like hearts on on guys things. But that's like if they have a picture of their family, right, And it was like like that. It was like he got an award or something like that, and I put it and he was like, he was like, oh you had to say. He was like you you had to be three. He got three thousand comments, you have to be three thousand and one. But let's okay, but let's dissect this for a second. As women, we leave hard

eyes under each other's pictures, right under other women's whatever. Men, y'all don't leave hard eyes under each other's pictures, So you can't be leaving them under some other woman's picture, right. But it wasn't like that. It was like I said, it was like they was getting a ward or somebody was getting award. They was graduating, graduated. It was graduated, graduated like the city. She got a new car like ike, up with a little up with banks, a little car

to make yourself leave it better. But is it like, okay, what about your female friends? Do you have female friends? Um? Yeah, I got I got female friends. Does your girl know them? Yeah? She said no, she like she knows, she knows of them. It's like when female friends. It's not like I got female friends. Like my best friend, like I got her time on me. I mean, what, yeah, that's my best friend? Do you and she? Are you cool? We're his best friend? Okay, so that's you have a hit. Why don't have your

because that's my best friends? Stance fourth grade? But I didn't do that. I never did nothing. All right, I could get that fourth grade, like, you know, I don't have my friend up together, but yeah, that's that's a strong statement that my best friend, but you have your girl's had it on YouTube on my back. Okay, Now, was that her asking you to do that or you just decided to do it? I just did it? Did you give her heads? Act? Like? No? I just did it. Do you want what signs he was in love? Yeah,

I'm still in loved. Love so beautiful. So it's still when a guy could admit it comfortably, right, Yeah, that's really because you gotta be really you can't be in there now with yourself strategically. You have to let them know. Yeah, it's oh, this is the wrong thing. All right. Here's the next question that we got. All right, let's see, Okay, this person is asking for advice on a good way to get engaged to his girlfriend. He said, We've been

together a little over two years. She's the love of my life, and I want to pop the question within the next two months, but I wanted to be special. I don't want to do it at a restaurant or in some type of typical way that people normally propose. What's some advice. Um, you could you could take it to like. I like, I like what Gucci did with his wife the basketball game. That's dope to me. Okay, I know, I like, I like, I like different, I like, don't I don't know. I like Gucci did. Okay, So

something like at a game and fun. So you want to do it in front of people, fun of people. Some people like, oh my god, yeah, I think I take a nice way to propose, Like sant Haranascavin Hunt that's okad know what a bunch of notes and signed her to different places where she could get different notes that evening, yes exactly, and then when she gets there, he's like with roses and all want to put in the cupcake and her bite the cupcake in the ring.

What if she's like, no, you know, I'm gonna diet. I don't want this. What do you What if she's fastening like I'd be fastening, and it's just so hungry. By the time she gets a cupcake, she just like and she swells the ring. That's what I yeah, which, baby, I got a surprise for you toilet hopefully yours right. I like that scavenger Hunt thing. I think cute I think just listening to things that she likes that she's never done, you know, and taking that into consideration, like

my mom, like my money. Uh, created do you are you already thinking about what you're gonna do? Yeah? I know what I'm gonna do. Okay, we don't want to, She's right, can't. Yeah. I think just finding something that she likes, like if she ever wanted to go somewhere and she never been able to things like that. All right, Now, here's another definition. I want to see if you guys know what this is? Sex talk, cold lunch, cold lunch? Who wants a cold lunch? Cold lunch? I don't know.

I like, I like, I like hot. When it comes to sex, cold, I'm not sure about thatthing. Like cold, it is the simple sexual act of forcing yourself to throw up into another persons and then has to eat it. Actually, she just picked the most disgusting people actually like doing ship like that. Trust me, you know how many people go quick tent that? Please? Freaky? What's the freaky thing? I know you say you're freaky. Now, what's the freakiest

thing that you've done? Like the spittle, Like I'd like to just spit on the like in her mouth, her face, everything, like she over here like they I feel like, once a guy spits in your mouth, that's it. You belong to him, your own. She's like, that's just hanging up, throwing the towel. I said, you have an owner now. She said, you don't spit on her face, but she chatting. Now what about okay, what about her spitting on your face? Do you like that? Or spitting your mouth? I'll saying

you could do that. A's cool because that spit spit. What about if she is giving you a blow job and then she like sticks her dumb in your but she laughing, like why are you like men are so closed off? Said that my guys always like anything but that don't touch don't touch it, don't touch the whole tongue. Oh. He like, yeah, I ain't even gonna not that. I

don't think there's nothing wrong with that, there's anything. What do you mean the guy that I'm doing, I'll be working with him like he thinks it's so weird and awkward, so on his nipples. So we'll be laying down and I'll just start looking on his like it's so weird, but he likes it. He doesn't like that's what I saw of I'm like, you like it, He's like, no,

don't like. That's because men think of a girl getting her TITTI sucked where you know it's that's not masculine, right, But yeah, like what some guys like, like like pinch their nipple while you're sing. See when I'm like caressing my guy's chest, I'll go over his nipple, but I won't like right, not because I feel like he'll be like,

what you should try it? Yeah? Right? These guys who wants you to like sprinting on it because he Here's the thing I think in general and sex, you can't never ask somebody just you have to just do it, because if you ask somebody and then they think about it, they're gonna be just put your thumb in his butt. You don't mind your butt lick though, Oh my god, are you sure? He's sounding a little sound hesitant? Positive? So how you know you don't like it? I don't

like it. You just don't like the idea of it, or like or the idea of like putting your legs spreading. You don't have to spread your legs. I eat the booty like groceries I'm eating the booty. I'm eating it. Nah, I ain't getting Could you come from getting your h that's amazing, he said, that's the first I told you I a freak. So you never come from that. Yeah, wow, that's easy, He's easy. How long does it take though? How long did she have to play with your nips? Lim?

But wait? Does she have to play with your nipples and be jerking you off? Or just like you just come just from the nipples without touching your dick? No, no, you gotta, I gotta you gotta touch the dick. Yeah, you gotta. I can see it in your head. I've made a guy coming before like that, like king on his nipple and jerking him off. It comes back. They come last. You just like lick on your palm a little bit, like make your palm wet, and you jerk a guy off and stuck on his nipple makes them

come back. It makes the coast. Now do you think if she masturbates in front of you? Yeah? Do you masturbate in front of her? Yeah? Lit, I never had to got masterbate in front of me. You know what, when you're in a relationship with somebody and you're like, oh, no, I'm not having sex tonight. I'm noting I got my period, I haven't had a I'm going to sleep. So the next thing, you know, you feel somebody and jerking that

dick off came on your leg. And every day I think, I think for a man or at least the situations that I've been in, like they do it. They'll like they'll start jerking off like or like grabbing their dick, but then like they like the pussy. Yeah, no, when I when I was I was when I was in

a relationship. I'm telling you when I was in and we lived together, and I'll be like, no, I'm not I don't want to have sex tonight, like I'm tired, And the nigga will just comment jerk off touching my ass, like you don't want to have to come like its easy for you? Is it easy for you stuff to like play with you pussy in front of a guy. Um, it depends if I'm being a little bit right and we had sex and because I'm I'm real evil, this

is some evil ship to do. Like we'll have sex and you know, like it'll be done if we finished having sex for like twenty five minut and I'll be like, ah, you didn't even make me come, and I'll start massively and right there, and they're always like dude, yeah, but like because I can't get hid again. No, they never cook right, and it's always like, oh, just stop, I'll

give you, just give me like ten minutes. Stop. And that's also a good trick to get to get I got to eat your pussy after you because I didn't come, you gotta. Yeah, it's a good trick, like when we've done a couple of rounds and I know his energies out, and like, because I could, I could keep going, like I'll be tired. Yeah as a woman, yeah, I could keep going to like I'll be tired, like yeah after

a couple of rounds. But then my she'll get wet and I just played with my ship in front of him and then it'll turn him on and then we'll probably sunk again. Or I just come. I just coming, and it's a it's a good trick. Like once they worn out and you're like, oh, you didn't even make me calm and you start massively and they're either like just wait, you stopped. Just give me like a couple of minutes, or they start eating your pussy, so you do that so he could fuck you? Do what on purpose?

Just to make him feel bad? Like look, you swore you all that work and look at me. Now. That is evil. I'm telling you it's evil. It's it's fun. And that's where are you loud when you come? No, I ain't loud. I just like the cessation when the ladies talking like the yeah, yeah, needs give out, your legs give out. I like when a guy like moans, like yeah, I think that's sexy. You got that's too quiet. I don't make noise, but my eyes roll back to

my head and stuff. Does he make noise like like not like screaming, but like you, I don't make do it. I don't scream, not screaming, but moaning. I think that's sexy. A guy that's too quiet. It's kind of if I if I, if I ain't come in like a week spaed I'm like, uh like that, but I don't really scream, but they're like I do. I think it's good with guys scream. Yeah, it's sexy. I like. I like when a guy moans a little bit and I like he's

like a little again. I like and I like a little grunt when a guy's coming, like a little grunt, like yeah, get their heads up like I'm about to come. Yeah, of course all guys give that up. Yeah. But I'm simple though I don't like. I'll tell you this, like I'm simple. I'm fat too, so I don't like. I don't like hitting it from the front like I like hitting it from the back. Okay, that's your favorite. My favorite position is doggy stuff over commit the day. White

men like slapping asks when he had that. It just makes me feel like I'm making that red night. Yeah. I like when a guy spanks me while we're having sex because it makes me feel like he's in control, like being like, oh daddy, you know you get hurt because you like to you No, no, no, I like it. I like for it to have some feelings to it, like not a little no. I want to hear that. I want to hear it. But but you see that

that's too much. That's too That cock back was too know, Like I like a little cock but not not when you do the cock back, you got if you if you really what you gotta do the cock back, they come slow down, the hand put on the ash to be like that all far and I like, but I think when you're drinking you don't even really kind of numb, you don't really feel it that much. So and then til you wake up in the morning and they got like bruised up, asked the second time. I'm on lip service.

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the guy who wasn't court. His girlfriend died while giving him a blowjob, but his defense was that his dick was so big and shetunately she chose and he actually actually won. But how did she chose? W wait wait, wait wait wait, how did she die while giving him a blowjob? She died, and so he was saying that what then was what was she doing it that she couldn't breathe? She couldn't tell she couldn't breathe right like

kept like or what's he like? You know, some guys, you should have washed her head towards He should have went to jail for that, he said he should have. It was in court he said he didn't kill her. It wasn't you know, it was like he murdered her. But again he was. He was hold he was suffocated her. He hold her there because she knew when she tried

to get up. He should have want the jol for that's crazy, he got that would make me not breathe and you know you're like in a dick, and they tried to push it down here and right right let me right, he lacks. You don't have to try to kill that's how you know that Judge was a man, because any woman would have been like, wait he killed he was holding her, he was He probably kept pushing her head down and she just like sticking all the way down at throat. Let the tears come down. Yeah,

that's the stuff I would say. You gotta cry, Yeah when you I say that, right, that's mine is jus favorite. Gotta cry when you're I think that. Yeah, Like that's what Like when you're giving a good blowjob, you know you got snow, Like, yeah, you're breathing heavy. You know, it's fantastic, it's amazing. Have you ever cried during sex? Me? Cry? No, like you've just been overwhelmed us. Maybe you up? What's the longest that your girl has held out on you

because you sucked up? No? Not too long, not too long that make up sex? Yeah, because if I don't know, if she ain't trying to give me those checks, I just like like not force it. But you know, like I mean, what's the longest you could go without having sex? Oh? No, no, not even if I could bust ten times, I do it, but you know you can't. But I do y'allka yaka bus all day. You know, um here's the thing. Like I feel like, all right, because you guys know, I've

been I've been through um even on the show. I was. There was a time that I was in a relationship for a year, and then there was a time that I was single for about a year. And now again I'm dating somebody, you know, like just I'm only dating him, right, and I find what I'm sorry, I find um. You know what, I'm single. I don't have as much sex as I have when I'm in a relationship. Of course, you have a steady dick, that's the thing. So you know, like I just feel like my pussy needs a break,

you know what I mean. Like when I was in my relationship with my son's father, we used to have sex all the time. But I feel like I was a little younger at that time, and now I just feel like I can't have sex every day. Like I feel like my pussy is gonna fall apart if I have sex every single day. You know, oh god, so pussy is not going to fall apart. I feel like I'm just like damn, like I cannot so much. Man

a big guys, baby, soon be fine. I pussy snapped, right, snap and do you, but I don't want to funk every day. I get what Stefanie's staying because after a couple of rounds and ship, you're like like pussy, like throbbing, and I'm like, oh, it's okay. The baths of crying, like oh my god, but then you need a couple of hours and then you're good to go again. Horny.

All right, here's another question. Somebody wrote in I'm a twenty six year old young man from Jersey, but I live in Philly now and I was with my ex for about three years. He was arrested for drug trafficking and is doing five years. I told him I would stay by him and hold him down while he was

locked up. Skip ahead of a year later, and I met this guy who was a detective for the Philadelphia Police Department and yeah, I'm gay, and yeah they both aren't out, but me and the detective hit it off and I'm really starting to catch feelings and he said he is also. But I feel like what I'm doing is wrong because I love my ex, but he's in jail. What should I do. That's such an interesting thing, just being with like, yes, it's all guys back. That's so interesting.

That's so interesting, just the transition of the relationship, like he went from being with the criminal to be right, here's the thing, here's the truth about that. This is this is the real answer. This is don't feel bad, Stay with the guy who has a career, Stay with the detective. The other one is definitely one hundred cheating on you in jail. Listen, So he is in jail.

He's doing hedonism in jail. Alright, Alright, in general, Okay, aside from just this, if somebody gets locked up in a relationship, do you think that you have to wait and hold them down, like, say, they're locked up for three years? It's tough. Yeah, she I don't know if I know what. She ain't gonna hold me that I'm not talking? Are you say she ain't? She just look crazy. I think I don't know about fight. I can't. Three years is a long ye predicted, I can't to me.

She a woman's perspective. Could you hold her down for three years? Never? Yeah, I think that's the thing you could try. Yeah, I think you can try. But there's nothing wrong if you move on, because realistically, people need intimacy. People paid someone to talk to me, to be there

for you, yea. And it depends like the relationship, how long you guys were together, the history you have, you know, you know, I feel like when you're saying you're gonna hold somebody down in jail, it does not necessarily mean that you're not gonna date other people while they're locked up and saying that you're gonna take care of them. You're gonna be there for them. You're gonna hold them down, You're gonna go to the visits, they're gonna put money

on their books exactly. You know, that's how you hold the person down in jail. And I feel like a smart person who thinks logically and it's realistic, will know that you are going to be doing what you want the outside. You know what you want to know about it. You know. I was, I was willing, and I was I was like, I'm gonna be with this person forever and he's gonna be in jail for X y Z amount of times and I'm right, and I'm gonna hold it down. But he didn't give me the opportunity to

hold them down because he broke up with me. And I have to say, the time passed, he's already out of jail, and I have to be honest with myself and I have to say that no, there was no way I was not gonna cheat on him. I think people grow. He was right, he was smart, He did the right thing because I definitely Wan had one of like the best years ever in my sex life. Well here's people grow. I feel like, like like that boy said, three years is a long time, So like you grow.

If I change, you meet different, we have different opportunities. So after that, and I honestly and it's not and it's also it's sexual, but I think it's mental too, you know what I mean. For you also, like if you're on the outside, you don't have someone mentally like stimulating your mind in that sense where you're even attracted to wait for them, you know what I mean. You might meet somebody else that just does it for you

all around, sexually, mentally. And guys can always be mad at you, yeah, always, because I forbid you don't answer the phone. Of course they don't got to do. They make up all kind of scenarios so you can't answer the phone, like, um, I mean, I'm wating you answer this phone. If you see my car, you don't know what I could be going through. I could, but that's that's how I was doing lip service. I couldn't answer that phone. As if he called you right now, you

got to answer that phone. And honestly, while when he first when he was in the tombs down here in the city, Um, there was a time I was working, I was here and I didn't answer the He and I would be out and she would go outside and be on the phone for like two hours arguing, and I'd be like if she coming back, you know, and but you know, I just feel like he, um, he did the right thing. I was definitely going to cheat on him. We were not gonna last this time. It was.

I told him I was going to cheat on before he went to jail. If you were left that for three years, But is that cheating? You could forget it if you if you're still committed, like if you say you're still my man. Yeah, I understand this two thousand seventeen, right, you're not coming home to two thousand and twenty. Okay, what about six months? Six months? Six months to come

on six months? Right? No? No, I agree with that, right, no, But but I even like being said, I feel like I grew in the time that he was away anyway, Like you guys know, I feel like I feel like I don't feel like I'm the same person that I was, you know, I was like, man, I wish she definitely would just break up with this guy said she have a good time, and she would be miserable time she drinking mad. Yes, exactly, I would drink and get mad.

If you're in a relationship and you're miserable like more than you're not, then it's not a good one. I agree. I totally agree now that way. If you are with your woman and you come in her mouth, does she have to brush her teeth before she kisses you? So I swallowed, gone, don't kiss What if you it's snowballing it? Just like God, No, I just hold up, just like, but what if you're in bed and like y'are laying there and then it's like ten twenty minutes past and

y'all cuddle in and she kisses you. No, I know we're not doing bone. I get eyes all out. She's going to bathroom to do what you do. But maybe she just went to lay there and counter for a while. I don't not with no come, I'm not trying to not taste yourself, but it already went down. It already went down the throat, her throat. Bust your teeth with gate, so your nipples with that content. Yeah, because I just don't want to taste yourself. I only know you don't

want to know what you taste. Like, I know one guy. I know one guy that snowballs and his girlfriend, she's one of my girlfriends, and she tells me and he's bisexual. So there you go. He's okay, he's bisexual and he's snowballed her like, he comes in her mouth and they kissed after he's sexual though, Yeah, I think that's of course, that's the reason, Stephanie. Could you date a guy that was bisexual? No, I personally, I don't know, because it's

like it's one thing I think. I definitely don't know. I think I've definitely had sex with a guy that is gay, Okay, once or twice in my lifetime. Did you think it when I thought it? Well, one guy I thought it because he took like two and a half fingers in his ass. That's that's too much. That's just was that his choice of yours? Though? Was that his choice of yours. I didn't ask him you want three fingers. I put one and I was like, okay,

let's try to. I was like, let me put a little bit of the ring and he was fine, just like he was loving it. He was loving it. He was loving it. So I'm definitely you know, would you have sex with him again after that? No? No, no, he's actually engaged to a woman. Okay, what about you, Avi, and you can give it has sex with a gay man or bisexual that I know of? Knowing that I know of, No, nah, I would think I could have

sex with somebody that's bisexual. I don't have anything against bisexuals, like at all, but just like my man has strictly pussy and I mean, like now and now, I gotta worry about these holes and I gotta worry about these right, like what the holes and girls before? Right? How many

things you take exactly like yea o yeah. Now I'm not even going into the spe how men and women are so different because okay, guys don't mind if women have been with other women, right, that's fine, like that I want to waiting and for women, we want to taste that else stick your thing. Yeah, but you don't want to taste yourself. See how different men and women are. Yeah, but I feel like, you know, um what we what's coming out of the vagina is like it's it's saucier.

It's a different taste. It's clear, it's like, but it is a different taste. Come, guys come, it's like you know, it's children. There's children, so that's how kids, you know what I mean? Like it's a women. Yeah there it's like little tadpoles, you know. Like I like it, but I don't think my man should like it for him. I don't think you should like I like living at women's podcast saucy like she said, Yeah, men and women's

come just taste different. Understand, women come when you yourself, when you's wondering because you're trying to ricken, I've trying been with the woman. I've never been with a woman. When you taste yourself, it tastes different than the guys come. So I could understand why men wouldn't want to taste themselves. But if you never tasted yourself, how do you know what that tastes like? I would think a guy would be curious, but he tastes like I feel like this,

I feel like a curiosity kills the cat. Guys don't taste it. Don't taste your own come unless you're unless you're you're curious. What about morning breath? Yeah, like you wake up in the morning, she has a brush of teeth. Oh yeah, that's like you're not in love if you don't kiss your Yeah. I think if if you're with somebody that has a super unhealthy lifestyle, then they'll have like a really bad breath, Like somebody that doesn't eat well and doesn't take care of themselves will have like

a yeah. But if you eat healthy, you just have a little woman breakfast. And if you do the right thing and brush your teeth before you go to sleep, the breath isn't that bad the morning. And I feel like, if you're really in love, you kiss you're a person you don't even smell it. Yeah, you don't smell it, Like you're like making out with their nose and they're like, oh, this smells good. Now. What about if you come in

your woman right? And then you guys go again, like say you take a nap, she's just lazy and she falls to sleep y'all pass out because good sex, right, and then you wake up and you have sex again. Can you eat her out? Mm hmmm, oh nah, I done it could Damn I think I'll pray. I think I think you could. But you just have to focus your mom on on the cliff, like, don't what you said? You said if you came in her right, yeah, you might not taste it. You could have focused on the clip.

Just don't you know, don't go in the hole. Don't put your tongue in the hole at the top. You have some swimmers listening. I was reading about oysters, like people who oysters? Did you know that oysters are alive when you get them in the um? And you know what they said, So when people eat oysters, there lives and you know when they die when you pull them off the shell. Oh wow. So because they said it would be a lot of backter, I just read that today.

I don't even eat seafood, but I just said it would I eat oysters all the time, that you will be a lot of back to God. They said that if you eat the oysters, if they were to be dead already, there would be too much bacteria and you wouldn't even be able to eat. It would be harmful. But when you have oysters, they're alive and then you pull them off the thing and you kill them. R P. I did I put it out there because it was

something that was interesting to me. And you know that's so vicious because the way I stabbed the oyster when I'm taking it off the shell, because you know that little sticky piece that's stuck on the shell, you like, stab it with a little fork to take it off, killed it. Like I'm just thinking about the little Mermaid and all the sea creaturs. Okay, they don't have mermaids, but you never see their characters in the movie. Did you see it under thee? You never saw it? All right,

here's the last question from the email. What's better dating someone who you have a genuine connection with that doesn't treat you poorly, but doesn't necessarily treat you the way you've always dreamt of being treated treated or dating someone who treats you how you always wanted to be treated But you have no connection with like as far as no passion, no, I rather the first one. So they don't treat you as well as you wanted to and it's not what you dreamed of, but you have a

connection sometimes in relationships. What you dream of is not necessarily what you need or what God wants for exactly, or what ends up working. I feel like if they treat you well, you can work towards, you know, having greater times. But if you just have someone that you have no connection to, that she's just gonna die out. I think if someone already treat you well and you have a good connection, you can only grow from there. But if you don't have connection, that's just not going

to were right. You know how many times we've tried to date somebody that would be good for like, Okay, I have to date this person. They'd be good. It's great on paper, you know, but or even like this person looks good and the sex is good, but no connection, they're boring. Yeah, this person looks good and the sex

is good, but they're dumb. Like the passionate connection with the person, like I can look into your eyes, you look into my eyes, and you know, mad love the passionate because you could build that and the growth right, and you can always I always feel like, I know they say you can't change people, but I always feel like you can teach somebody how to treat you, because I do feel like guys sometimes just don't know, Yeah, my good told me how to treat like or they're

used to something else, right, Like you know how many guys out there have never been in a relationship with a girl has demanded like certain things right that that boy, we're happy demand a lot? Like what what's demanding a lot? A lot? Like what everything? What's everything? Because even just listen to your talk, I feel like there's a lot of things that you don't want her to do that you feel like you can do as a man. Yeah, I wear the pants you see these, Yeah, the sweatpans, alright,

But like, what are some things that you learned? I learned. I learned how to like you know, I mean be a little more caring. I mean be a little more passionate. Uh, I spend more time. But you know, like I gotta go get the bags. You can't get in in that now to evolving that now. But it's some things where you still can't where she can't tap in, where I have to go bust that move to get that bag. You can't be madaged Like when I go bust that move, you still madge I'm going to get that bag. You

can't do that. I think sometimes as women that's just how we are. Sometimes sometimes it's just how we are. But I think if you're if you're doing good in all other areas, that's what matters. And let's keep it real. If she didn't care at all, you probably be like, damn, why is she not being right? If she wasn't if she wasn't demanding of certain things, and she just didn't give a funk, then the relationship wouldn't be what it would probably looking at her like what is she doing this?

I'd be mad because it'd be time with my girl. Would call my phone off the hook, right, she called my phone off the hook. Man, she called me mad, But then then soon she don't call where she had like like, nah, I ain't playing right then I get mad.

Sometimes as women, we got to show you what you do to us and do what that takes, because sometimes that's the only way a man could see, like you can't do that ship and let me show you right, let me feel I don't do that to me because you don't know what I was doing in the time when he was calling me. I probably was getting But it's not even about the phone to call off the cardinal or something, or pay off that phone bill. Don't get mad at me, But I don't think it's only

with a phone call. When it comes to like what and she just said? I think it's just don't really just even like how you treating a woman like you see how she taught you how to be more caring and spending more time with her. There's a lot of guys that are used to women that don't necessarily care or act for those things. So when they have a serious relationship or someone that genuinely loves them, they're not going above and beyond to make it work, you know

what I mean. So sometimes a woman gott to act like she don't give a fucking order for you to be like, yo, what's up? Like sometimes you date a guy and you're like, who the funk did you date before? We don't know how to do? That's how I feel, that's right. Do you walk on the outside when you walk with your lady? Know? I walk on on the outside car. I guess I don't know why I walk. I know I just walked out. I got it back, I got it back. Do you open the door? Like?

Are you conscious of things like that? Like I gotta open the door for her. Yeah, she said no. Sometimes I mean my mom be Roman. I'll bet my mom be everywhere, because I feel like it should be a reflex when you have somebody, it should be a reflex that I walk on the outside. I opened the door for you carry your bags. How about when you're carrying mad bags and he's just chilling and you're like, yo, you don't see. Yeah, And then then she got a pub beat for four to to help me to just

talking about you here? Now you know she's not here. Can't be can't you can't? I can't. I don't want to at least carry the light bag. I didn't like when you were turning man and yeah, no, no, the light ones. Every bag I will roll. I should be able to roll the bag and you carry it. You know you're always talking about getting the bag carry him too. That reminds me I'm carrying a heavy one. That reminds

me of something interesting that I saw on Instagram. Um, this DJ posted a video with his girl UM and they were in the car and they were going back and forth that paint the rent. Yeah, what do you think about that? I talked about this? Should um? Yeah, should a woman. Oh yeah, Yeah, we're spoke about the whole rent because she was like, you're the provider, you should pay the rent. And he's like, but sometimes I'm so mad about this. Ye yeah, because we had a

whole discussion about this before. Yeah. I mean, I just feel like, you know, what was the question that on the last episode when we talked about that, you said, if the if the bills are thirty five hundred or something like that, how much she should spend, how much she should pay on the bill? Should pay what? I just feel like this, you know, I feel like if you live with a man, if I'm gonna live with

a man, he should be paying the bills. I could pay my phone bill, I can pay for my child because we don't have a child together, so I should pay for my own kid. And you know, I'll pay my maintenance, my hair on my nails, my wax. The man, but I feel like he should he should be paying the rent. He should pay the cardinal't pay the rent, the phone bill, they posted, do the light thing, like make sure the house clean exactly. I'm cleaning. I'm talking you know what I mean. I'm taking care of I'm

running your bath. Baby, I'm doing everything next morning. Oh that's that's that's another story. It's cool, you know what I mean. It's cool. We get now were good. Now we got more leeway. That's cool. I want to see my girl make morning. Will you clean house? Yeah, but then that's gonna be going to get the back if I make. If I make more than my man, he's gonna he's cooking, he's cleaning, he's doing everything, but he's the housewife. Now I wear the pants like he said

this time, I'm wearing the sweatpad. Right A right, But would that be a problem though, as far as like I make more than you, but you're the man, you're supposed to be the provider, get out there, because they'll still be an issue for some people. But I'd like to see my woman like that. If she makes more, that means she's doing something. You know what I mean. I means she she poised anybody I ever did. Right, I was just gonna say you with this, I have to I'm not gonna lie on the humble, But what

do you feel about that? I feel like this. I take care of my own business, Like I got my house, I pay my mortgage. I've never my whole life, even when I wasn't making a lot of money, I never had anybody give me money for my bals. I've always felt like it's my responsibility. It would be nice if somebody could be like, Okay, I can help you, and I don't need it now, Like I can handle all of that on my own. I buy all my own. You were never living with a guy. I live with

somebody for like two months. It didn't go well. I didn't go well. Hease came. But anyway, so I do feel like if I lived with somebody now, I would like for us to split the bills because I also never want to feel like you're living off of me, right, Yeah, so from I don't mind taking care of my stuff, and I also I'm very generous, like if I feel like because I shop a lot, so if I buy myself something and i'm out, I buy my man something too, I think that's the right thing, and I justn't like

doing it. You're just talking about how much of a sugar mama am I like buying my friends If I'm not right, maybe, oh my god, this would be so cute for you know. That's definitely me. I feel like I agree with that whole thing. I'm very generous girl. She's going to be in the house cleaning that. Yeah, I'm bringing see me, I wouldn't want to just like be a housewife cleaning like I want to work too, But of course I'm gonna have the house clean and cook for you. But I'm I've always been a generous

person kind of like you. I've always paid for my own ship. I've never like begged or asks to God for anything. I felt like having my own ship. Yeah, I felt like having my own ship helps me feel secure because I don't got to rely on you or

wait for you. So that also has helped me be generous in a sense of if me and my man out, like I don't mind footing the bill, let me treat you, but I'd be like, you know, I got yeah, let me treat you like you know what I mean, because I feel like it shouldn't always be the man, like like the man is the productor but it's good to either, right, it's good to it's a cater to you man, I'll put the oh no, no, yeah, I'm saying she can

help me, assist me. She could be my assist. But what if he's like, no, I need to get out there and make my own. Have you gonna do that? And be mad? But if you're gonna do that, I can't. But why but mad? Why because she should kind of feel like she has her own. Yeah, you're right, but I'm saying I don't know. It's just me, like I just don't want to. I just feel like this. You know, whether I work or not, I'm gonna be. I'm gonna cook and clean in my house. Like that's just something regardless,

you know. So if I'm if I'm living with somebody and he's a millionaire, he's richer than me, much richer than me, I don't feel like I should be paying. But I dated guys, and you know, and I date. I like dating manly man. I don't like dating soft guys. I like dating off of males, except for that guy with the three fingers in the But I mean it

very serious. I'm talking about serious relationships. I was only way to have a few times times though, just but anyway, he um, you know, I dated somebody and I was making more money than him, and like I said, he was an alpha male and he couldn't really handle that.

So I found us arguing all the time, and I felt like he was trying to bring me down to his level, you know, because I was just I was I was doing so well and he was doing so bad, and it was just like we just will fight about it all the time because it's hard than the guy's

ego exactly. Like I could tell it was paying the bills, and I would even hide some of the money that I was bringing him because I didn't want him to feel like I was, you know, making so much more than him, and he would find out and he would get upset that I was hiding money because men and women,

we should never throw it in somebody else's face. And that's how I feel, true, because and I'm all about, you know, making my man feel like he is that nigga, you know, like my man is like even even if my man is the flies, the riginals, I want him to feel like he could flies, I want him to feel like he's the riginess. I wanted to feel like

he is just the best ever. So it's kind of hard when you're doing so much better than somebody and still trying to make them feel like, hey, you know, I was still trying to encourage him, like like together, we can do this together, we could do that. He's more like, not funk that I want. I want to do it on my own. I don't want you to help.

That's the key too, It's like helping each other build into something bigger, you know, because you're both going to have insecurities and you gotta work on and you know, help each other and don't throw it. Anais felling like that. Alpha males want to do it on their own. They want to do better than their girl. They can't handle being with a success. And some guys don't want you to work because they want to control you. Right. Not Because when I was broke, I'm still broke, baby, I'm

still broken. No, I don't know you sneakers still broke baby, but I'm when I was broke, I'm still broke. No, you know what I mean. But when you were broke, when I was broken, Yeah, I'm doing better now. I'm still broke. But my d was paying for the bill like that that became you see the bigger picture. That's another thing. I don't think it's it's bad for a woman to provide, even if she's with a man who's

much more successful than she is. I think it's good for the woman to go and buy food because it's the food you're gonna cook. But you should buy what you want. How did that make you feel when she had to pay all the bills? Did you feel like? Did it feel crazy to you? Yeah? Like that, but it made you work harder. Yeah, maybe work harder, that's what you know? What I mean, just made me go harder. Now a time is me I pay. I think once you have that, once you have an understanding, it's cool.

Like if if she, like Drake said, you knew what it was when you signed up. So like, if you know your man doesn't have that much money, but he's working towards it, and you know you gotta help him out. But I feel like if you know your man and ship and he's just being lazy and then you're supporting him, that's a different story. But if you know your man don't got it right now and you you know you gotta help him build that, then do what you gotta do.

Don't throw it in his face, all right? But fatboy, why don't you because I know we gotta get out of here. Why don't you promote everything you gotta because you know we all follow you, so okay, um, yeah, you just follow my Instagram, Fatboard, underscore SSEC. You will see more because I gotta. I got a segment that I put on my Instagram now. It's called couples event

with me and my shoulder. So you know what next time, you guys got to do it together because I didn't know she was time and we wouldn't we would have paid some really fun games. Yeah, of course we got to a side. But yeah, you can follow me Instagram at fabul underscore s s E and you can find me on Twitter Fabule Underscore s see YouTube, same things. Maybe we'll have her up here without you one day. He said, huh, can she feeling herself? Because she just

she just hit the hunted k on Instagram. She like she's feeling herself because there's a lot of things that you said. I think she didn't agree with I'm saying there's a lot of she said from a woman's perspective. All right, Well, thank you, we appreciate you, Thank you, I appreciate you. Hopefully you try some new things at home now too. Yeah, I ain't trying no cool or the other one. What's the other one? Frozen conducting, I ain't doing all that, not that kind of okay,