Episode 90: Ft. 3D Na'tee

go there a lot. Last time we went, we had a black alright, So we're gonna start with that tip of the day, and you're gonna give your advice, and everybody's gonna give their advice to what's a good excuse when you have to go missing from your man for a couple of days. What can you tell them happen? Um ship? Family ship? You gotta say something with the family put out his hard strings. But the only thing

I feel like that's bad karma. When you say family ship like you got, I mean, you're gonna missing anyway from your man, So that's gonna it's kind of bad karma. What if he's like, well, what kind of family ship? Why didn't you call me and tell me make up something? I'm good on the fly. You just make up something. Um My brothers, I'm with my brothers all the time something happened with the family, I gotta go in. I can't really discuss it. I can't really discuss it family business. Really,

she's done this before. What do you say, Stephanie. I think, um, you should just blame it all on your home girl, Like, oh, my home girl has something to do. Um going with her somewhere. It's her, But I can't tell her business like that. Gotta be there for my friend, not Yeah. I just I feel like you should just blame everything on your home girl. You're go missing, like you know, something happened. We went to jail. Listen, guys. I dated a guy one time and we were like away for

the weekend. He was my boyfriend, and somebody kept texting him. So when he went in the bathroom, I looked and he had told a girl that he was in jail and that's that he was locked up, and like some whole story about how he just got out. But he was gonna hit there. He's taking care of some stuff. That's an extreme excuse, and it always seems like a

lie unless you have some paperwork, right, I know. Just but still, like you know, back then, I was like okay, because he feels kind of bad like man, because that's like the sympathy thing too, Like I was mad at him, but for him that I know that trick already. What about you when you go missing? I ain't got a lie. I'm the worst liar when it comes to stuff like that. I've been and tolding myself, so I don't lie. Sometimes I'll just be like I was somebody else. Look so

like I got caught. I got caught up with some ship. I always talking to this one guy and I was in my ex. So he was like, where were you? I was calling you, I speak to you every day, But how was I ain't gonna lie. I was with my ex but he didn't even catch me her nothing Like I just didn't have a lie. I don't know why would you do that? But you know I do that all the time. He stopped sucking, I mean he started working back with me, like he was like crying

so bad ship, hard feeling. When you go missing, I'm gonna start an argument. Oh that's a I'm gonna pull up one of them things I got in my back pocket that I never told him about. One of those I'm gonna pull out one of those acts, like I just found out about it and use that to start arguments. Why do women do that? We know ship and then we keep it like yeah, all right, I'm gonna use this later. I'm not gonna tell him. I know I can't. As soon as I find out something, that's all I

gotta talk about you burning you up stuff. Yeah I can't. I don't last longer than three minutes. Yeah, I don't even get back up after the first thing. I'm going home. Clearly, it's very she has patients out this in the car. She has a lot of patience. It's hard. I agree. It's hard, Like when something happens with a guy and you want to say it right away, like at this

to you. I heard this. I heard that. Like we all have different things, Like Larry, you just have a person to try to trick him in the saying sending back acting like you know more than what you know. Yeah, that's exactly what I do. I'm like, yeah, because you know, I ran it to your boy and he told me about that bit y'all was come out of mind. You come out with it. I want to know you tell me, But sometimes I do be knowing a little bit, so I'll just try to hint around it and just let

him say more. But you get caught the same way too. Yeah, that's exactly. Man. One time I got caught real bad, but I just came out and said I was with in and I was remember that last time. Last time we would saying we went to lunch with so and so. I think it was like looking at me and ship, like y'all went to lunch with so and so. Right, So she got out the car as soon as she got off the car. Oh, so you went to lunch

with that nigga hunt. But I told on my damn self, I don't know what the funk be wrong with me? You want to get caught. I just I'm honest. G G might be, but you still do ship you're not supposed to do. So what differences I'm honest about forget my lives. So that's why I would say my family, because you know they'll back me up with my like, no, that's not what you're saying. You shouldn't be doing that. So she's like, I know that's the lie. I always yeah, yeah,

you're family for me. I mean it has worked for me. It has worked for me. You gotta say that like somebody had it sick that doesn't really exist in your family. Yeah, like my grandfather like that little system. It's kind of sucked up. But I blame it on like that's on my father's side because I'm not really close with them. So I just so, you just killed the whole film. I just picked one whatever I want. That's crazy. Now let's talk about your son, Maria. We just said the

video and that's a deep song. Has anybody here ever had a friend that was jealous of them that y'all grew up together, it was mad cool with each other, and then the relationship change and you felt like they was jealous of you. I mean, the song is partially true. I don't respect for the situation. I don't really talk about it too much, but um, it's partially true, especially the jealousy side, you know what I'm saying. So, I mean, do you ever feel like you have friends that are jealous? No?

I don't. I don't like to feel like that towards my friends. If I feel like one of my if I feel like I'm around someone who is a hater, who's hating on me, I just don't be around them, you know what I mean? But what if somebody you grew up with. So I mean I've had um, you know, I've had issues with you know, I had a best friend that I was best friends with her fifteen years, and you know, I don't feel but I never want

to call it jealousy. I feel like she was just mad at herself for not being successful, you know what I mean, Like she saw everything that I was doing, and she probably could have did everything I was doing if she wasn't doing the dumb ship that she was doing, you know. So I feel like that kind of changed the dynamic of our relationship because I was successful and she was just complacent in the same place. You know, she was just stuck in her ways. And did you

feel like you had to try to help her. I did. I tried to help her with everything. I even um got her internship at def JAM. I tried to help her out. She she said that she didn't want to take it because they weren't paying her. But I mean, situ aasutions like that always kind of remind especially if you're just live in your life, you're doing what you gotta do, your accomplishing your goals. So if somebody is jealous, that's just gonna remind them of what they're not doing

with that lives. And when you see that, you gotta distance yourself, you know, so we can use the word friend, but we kind of realized they probably weren't really friends. You just you distance yourself in those situations. It just makes me sad. I don't really hate to think that, you know, she was jealous of me. I felt I felt I'd rather like look at it like she was just mad. Yeah, but in the time, Maria, your friend really was you know, Yeah, that was that was that.

It's hard for you to write that because you said it. It's partially true, so somewhat it's just it's it's just about one friendship. Um, I don't really it's just about one friendship. That the dissension of our friendship. I know, you don't have your friends man, and kind of yeah, I think this situation that that I've I've spoken about before, the friends that I've had for a long time that went and told on me to my man, I think that had some jealousy in the in the underlying tones

of that. Yeah, because why I asked, would you do that? Yeah? Um, I feel like one of the two girls in particular because Prior to that, you know, she was going around claiming she was responsible for my popularity and responsible for like g McGuire, she wanted to becoming that person and it was because she put me on a Magic City.

But just because you put me onto the Magic City doesn't mean that you've taught me how to dance and you gave me my friend you could have been that's where That's where my my I don't even like to say fame, because I'm not famous unpopular, but my popularity came from myself. It came from my talent and my personality, not because you told me to go dance at Magic City. Because the girls that a dance in Magic City that we don't even know their name, nor will we ever.

Have you ever had friends love me that you felt like with jealous of you? Yeah? I had one in particular, and I just felt like she started trying to become me and like talk like me, or do things that I would do, or yeah she did actually no, like

her voice change, thank you, her voice change. It was just like, I don't know, it's weird, but you know, I got to the point where I couldn't be friends with her anymore because I just felt too weird, like and weird for somebody to change their voice now, I'm telling you, And like at first, like my friends would say something to me like, yo, what's up with this

bitch is sick? Like why she sound different? She's starting to talk like like her voice is getting highed, like you know, all kind of He was like, actually, Angel, why would you do that? No? But you that's scary though, because you never know what that person are. Yeah, you know, but you never know what that person like. You can't trust them because if you tell them your secret, you'll never know what's gonna happen. Like just somebody has jealous

of you. That's a friend. That's like you said, that's not really a friend. Yeah, and if you feel like they're your friend now every time you're telling them your win, you know what I'm saying, it feels like they want to try to one up your you know what I'm saying, Like we're not in competition, Like I'm telling that's because you're supposed to be my friend. I'm thinking you're gonna be happy for me. Yeah, that's one thing. Are As soon as I noticed that girls that are around me

are trying to compete with me. I'll stop walking with them because I'm not in competition with people that I'm friends with, right, like like either we built together or you do you are do me? And when we meet up in the middle, like or if you like he had to touch me, girl, he tried to talk to me too. I got a friend like that is it? So? Is it really a friend though? I mean if you realize we've been friends for twenty something years. But I think that this particular friend just has a case of

mistaken identity. It's just one of those misses me two people that everything. Yeah, it's like everything that you on, she on, or every nigger that you know. She knows. That girl got an STT girl. She really is, Like I love I love that girl. But she really is like that, Like she'll assume different personalities based on her senfence. She's like a chameleon, Like based on her surrounding, she changed. That's a different person. Yeah no, no, this is just

off of me. Have you ever felt like you were jealous of one of your friends, because that's a high thing to admit, that's the thing to admit because because the friend friend is a strong word to me, Like I'm not gonna use it. One. I'm not going to use that word if if it's uh, if it's not that deep, you know what I'm saying. So it has to be deep to me. I'm not I don't just need bitches or just meet people in state, damn my friend. So no, if one little inkling you know, I know,

if I know your personality, then't cool. You learn to deal with ship. But certain things you gotta distance yourself because they're gonna, you know, bring you down. You're gonna find itself telling your other friends and all this her ships, So you might as well just listen to yourself. All right. Now, do you know any men or women who lie about people they have sex with in this day and age at our age? Do you know any women in particular they have lied in to they have sex with somebody?

They didn't? Girls do that? Yeah? I don't. I know one? Not a girl. Yeah. She told me that she slept with not just slept with, but that she was sucking with artists that I knew good and damn well, she wasn't with this nigger. Like how do you know though? Because she lying and say they didn't mean that's not something like I'll know some trick. That's why if I

ain't comeing, don't count. So you look at it like no, But I mean it's just some people that that kind of they want attention, you know what I mean, and they might think that's cool or something like that. And I think that was the case with this person, because I would feel like, if you're not really like popping like that, you might do that. I sing because like the average person won't. But if you kind of like there's the same people that always had to tux to people,

but no one ever likes them. And I know men like that, but now, but that's so lame that men do it, women do it, people do that. Ship I'm not lying. I'm not trying to add nothing. If anything, we're trying to slice it. That's why why would I do we really think about that? Like, do we still think about that? I don't want to add another body? No, I don't think like that. Still. Let me tell you something. No,

let me tell you something. Two years ago, I decided that I didn't want to add to my body count, and if I wanted to have sex, I was only going to have sex with somebody somebody already have sex and I ended up in one of the worst relationships of my whole lot. Okay, so it doesn't make sense if things don't work out. You're a human being. Keep trying and keep meeting people. It's okay, back up, you gotta all of them, like you don't. I mean, I'm saying you don't have to. You don't. You can't hear

you can't limit yourself like that, you know what I mean? Like, Oh, I I just don't want to add a body so I'm gonna go funk with this nigga who already shouldn't on me my whole life. You know, if you want to ask somebody basically have sex with them and don't

worry about you, I don't. I don't think you should think about if you if you didn't think that it's time for you to if you meet somebody and you're vibe and it works, like, don't think, oh I can't sleep with you because I don't want to add to my body count. That sounds so dumb, it sounds childish. Ship Well, I hadn't been dumb and childish because I didn't went back to an ex thinking like, but I'm

not trying to funk. No, new nigger and I want to have That's the dumbest I'm gonna not that it didn't work out, because I didn't look at it like that. It was just that That's what I'm saying. I'm not one night they and what you want. Yeah, you know, but I don't have sex with none of my exes either. I'm done. I'm not doing I don't like going backward.

Here's the thing. If you know, like if you're in the past, you were looking for a relationship or you were looking for these qualities, and now you've inveted this person, you know, they just don't possess those qualities. But the dick may have been good. You're pussy is right right now? Right then maybe you want to go, you know, because y'all don't have those same expectations. Know what I'm saying, I'm just not attracted to any of my exes once we break out sometimes yeah, like none of like not

one of them, not one of my exes. But I want to have sexes because once I'm over, somebody is over, like I can't even I kind of feel like it's got to be somebody new for me, because why do you feel like, um, you've grown past them, or I just don't like But it's it's really the thing of going backwards. To go backwards, I feel like it's like you know, most in my head, right, you could go backwards with a new nig Don't get it twisted. I'm definitely go backwards. I'm true. I mean I cannot. All

depends on what it is you decided to do. Like sometimes like my ex. You know, my ex did me so dirty. I can never ever suck him again because I just feel, you know, emotions are involved that I just don't like him in that way. I don't even like I couldn't even imagine doing that. He's an attractive guy and we're cool, like we're friends. I just but you're thinking about like old old exes. I'm talking about like the last nigga that I might have stopped somebody.

I'm not somebody that you wasn't maybe that serious whip exactly something really an ex And that's just considered that nigga, my ex. Everybody I had to this my because friends. That's that's and the words of passport cutting. If you have sex with me and you're my boyfriend, that's what I'm talking about. We go together, and then we go together and now we're going put the now we go together together? All right? Now here's a little crazy, I think it. So I get where she's because that's what

we call guys. Except with my x X. I don't know. But when I say my ex, I'm talking about my real AX, right, some of some of my exes that like, I have an X that he was supposed to me my boyfriend, but I don't consider him my ex. You know, I'm not giving the X title to a guy who wasn't who I wasn't in a relation. So what do you mean some guy used to do ex mistake? Yeah,

you were on. You are only qualified in my book as an X if we had a significant relationship relationship and we ain't have a relationhip, we were just working on each other and hanging out. Did we go on vacation? What we were we committed? Fakely? Com really? Yeah? Did we think we were committed? Did we travel with K? Do we know each other? Say holidays together? Did we lived together? Did you have a key to my shield

or vice versa? Did you buy my rolex? I mean, clearly, I feel like I feel like when I started working with somebody you knew nine out of ten times I leveled up. So like fucking my exes especially now, like compared to the body I'm having now, their body is just it don't work. Kind of a turn off, Like just thinking about having that sex that I used to have? Are you embarrassed that people from your past? Like, yes,

I need to think about that. Yeah, there's probably like one or two for me that I really is like I don't want I can say that I would never touch him with anybody. Thanks for caring for you. Three d nat Is there guys that you're like embarrassed about? Yeah? Do you still run into them? They're right in New Orleans. Right, It's just it's not a lot. But good luck to you, good luck to see if you see them speak? Um, yeah, you know what. One time, this dude he tried to

blow my ship up. I was speaking on the panel. I went did he was here? I know? Positive panel? Positive? Matter of fact, I was speaking at a university in New Orleans. So I'm up there and I'm trying to be as professional as I can be and he get on the mic. He gets on the mic at the end of the line, did you see him in line. He stood in line, and I was like, don't here, I don't go here. I got on the mic and he was like, so, how do you feel about people in your past? I mean, I'm like, this thing, you

never helped me anything. I mean think wasn't even good. But I can't say that, um Honestly, when I spoke, I was like, I mean, there's people in the past that have played a part, and those people are still here with me today to kill problems, those people who are not far on the I that was a good one. Ever had one of these, I probably would have got a little deeper. What if they had been been like now you need you know, helped you know? He just I mean he fell back because he always he fell back.

He played his position, go sit down and enjoy the rest of mine speech. He already played itself by l getting up in that whole time understanding there. And I was like, what is he doing here? Over here? You you here? You were street nigger like but here what he would you feel like? You could understand why he said that though, like did he help you in any way? Absolutely not. He was in his feelings. What happened was

he kept I'm gonna be a hundred percent. What happened was when I was in a relationship with somebody else I was, I was working with him, so it was the side piece. He was a side piece, and um, when I stopped working with him, because it wasn't it wasn't a I don't really want you, not just with you. I was occupying my time at the time, and uh, when I moved on, he just he he started hitting

me up on social media. He started telling people that I knew like all this, so I was ignoring him, and we we we know some of the same people, so a lot of the people from the area was there. It was a little bit like, why are you doing him so dirty like that? No, there was like your boy, it's crazy. That sounds like he's crazy. You probly watched this and then depressed. You said it wasn't even that good.

I mean it was like maybe I was being petty, but it kind of because you're supposed to have like I mean, I'm not I'm not with him anymore. I'm not with the dude that I was. Did he find out ship all this ship that he was doing he found out because she was like, you know, my family has issues and I forgive my life. My dad, my dad's sister pass. No, that was her sister, and they

got the same name. You gotta say something, all right, Now, if a guy offer to help you out financially and he didn't do it, would you still talk to him. I didn't cut in two hundred dollars before. I mean it was years and years ago I'm talking about. I'm talking about like early two thousands, maybe like two thousand one two. I don't remember what the two hundred was for. But I asked him for two hundred dollars and he spent me for two hundred dollars come calling me two

days later. That's crazy. You said the key word, you say promise. So if you make a promise to to me, period, I gotta cut you off. It's not just the money, like you gotta me. Don't lie to me, like do you tell him like it's because he didn't give me the money because him after So listen, something like this happened to me, right, everything happened. So yeah, everything happened

to me, of course. So, um, I was on the phone with somebody, I got a car accident, like there was on the bluetooth whatever, and they knew that everything that happened. I'm listening. You don't have to lie and say he was on the bluetooth. I was on the bluetooth. It was my car. So I get into the accident and he was on the phone, so I hung out the phone whatever. So he kept calling back. He's like, what happened. I'm like, I got into an accident. I'm pissed.

I gotta paid for this. Then the cop end up giving me these tickets all this shime. He's like, don't worry about it. We're gonna figure this out. I'm gonna help you. That's something like a promise to me. Right. He didn't say financially he might no no, no no no, yeah. There an't no fun o me and I'm helping you. Don't fix the car, you know me? So all right, now it comes tigned to pay for the ship. Right,

So I'm like, yo, you say he was going. He's like, all right, let me know when it's dude, it's due now. Nigga like the all right, I got you, I got you. Never gave me the money. Then tried to hit me on some like, yo, I want to take you to dinner. I just met curving him. You know, it's deeper though, the fact that he volunteered that volunteer nothing, that's the worst. And I didn't tell you I needed it. I didn't nothing. I didn't like you said, I didn't ask you volunteer.

So now I'm trying to pay up. So where you at? Brother? Like whatever? But what if he's like, you know what, I just don't have it, so say that that's don't First of all, I'm not don't have it like that happen? Like what? Yeah, then don't volunteer things happening like he could have invested his money in the stack that went bad and I invested my time and especially that situation. That situation is immediate, don't It couldn't have been that far. How long did it take for all of those things

that happened, Like a month? Two months the most? So what you did with your money? Like where did it go? And it's only a little that's a little bit of money. Then a moth is sufficient time. I was thinking like a week, not that, you know, because you gotta go to court because I had tickets and all that ship. So between all of that, I mean, I can you get the car fixed and then you gotta wait for the money to the check to come from the assurance. Yeah,

you gotta do all that deductible. He should have took it on all of that. And then if you tell me gonna give me I wanted on site, I don't. I wanted on site, but he didn't. If he didn't even give you all the money. But if he just said his five help, I can understand that. That's yeah something, But I don't got it right now. Okay, you know

what the guy taught me. Money is not guaranteed unless it's in the hand with So if a mother would be like, book your fight, I'll give it to you when you get here a bit, you don't do it. Bro that PayPal you got a well spargo of backup America, right, I accept all the guys that with you. And he's like, I forgot my money at home. I get it right back. I'll be like, come on, I got a car. One time,

I hold I was holding a party. I know this isn't a dating situation, but I was hosting a party and I got there and the promoter was like, oh, you gotta put your room on your card. I was like, knock back to the airport. I'm going home. Damn god. I kept the depots and I went home. So he didn't try to give you the cash right there and saying he was like, after the party, I'll pay you. I'll pay you the party. Take me right back to the airport. I play on site. He's promoted, is getting

besides a minute ago? You know, I've been holding parties for years. I've been holding parties for five six years. That was a long time ago. It was probably like at least four years ago. All right, Now, what if you let your man borrow your car and then you found something in it like that wasn't choice, like a furb only thing that connected the purse. Okay, well happen. No,

it happened to somebody I know. Okay, listen. If I found the furbally with a CA on it, my name started with the case, I would probably keep it and then show it to him like when I got look at you, but it was in my car. Now, I ain't gonna lie. I'm going crazy, especially because it's my car, Like, yo, what the funk? What you got going on in my car? Like lipstick? Maybe an eyeliner. Then he said, well, my sister was and yeah, I'm a little bit more calculated,

like I'm not gonna I gotta wait. I want to You're not gonna see my car again. But now I'm in your ship. Fuck you and your assistance. Now I need to figure out what's going on because you can't, you know you can. They'll hit you with a lie whatever like no, you won't. You won't be able to do that. So I need a little bit more information. See that's where I'll be sucking my shut up because I'm so fast right away exactly, I'll just go for it right away. And it gives guys the opportunity to

shout your because you don't have anything. You gotta gather that got Yeah, be a little bit more calculated. Just watch him a little bit more. You gotta get the light. And seriously, yo, my new car. So the app on it showed me like where my car at at all times, the distance that it was driven, the times in the day and everything you can't get. So if I let I don't have a nigger in my life right now,

and then I would let hold my car. But if I did, best believe I'm on that jack app like this, Oh yeah, I'm not trying to let no nigger buy my car though, like you gotta have a car, we got to swap it out. Should we could do that? Why you should have more than one but more than one car to swap out with yourself. Don't drive my ship but I don't know. That's just weird to me, Like, no, don't say I got a girl car. Don't drive my girl card. What if you need a favorite, like listen,

because you know I live in New York. We got alter this side of parking, like I'm going out of town, I need you to my car. Yeah, I mean you know, or what if he has a car, And because I gonna stake car at that and that ship was so expensive, I was like, oh yeah, the Atlanta airport ain't like that. But here, Yeah, I leave my car Atlanta for a week airport here. It's like listen, it was two hundred and fifty six dollars for me to go to my inn.

I went to Miami for the weekend. It came back to Logartia and my car was two d that one day we went to New Orleans. Yeah, two hundred and fifty six dollars I had to pay for. It'll probably be cheaper leaven in York. Yeah, but I flew out of I flew out of New York. The next time I called the uber. Yeah, take a uber all right, Now, if you go visit somebody and you stay with them, right, let's say you're going out of town. Damn, just happen

to me. Everything happens like, Okay, I got New York boo, right, And so he's like, Yo, come to New York. You know whatever, whatever you like. You know what, I gotta come to do some interviews. I'm gonna do lift service, I'm gonna go do sway. Um, I'm gonna just stay with you so I don't gotta buy to getting a hotel whatever. And he said, yes, come stay with me. Are you obligated to like hang out with him or can you go and do your own thing? I can't. I can't do that. I need my I need my space,

I need my space. I can't. I'm not gonna be able to do it, especially if it's not that serious. If I end up staying with you, I promise you're not gonna like me. If you if I'm not gonna like me, because I'm not. I'm not one of those people that try to be super polite. Sometimes I think like socially, I'm I'm kind of sucked up, so I'm not gonna be I'm not gonna be polite. I'm like, Okay, I needed a spot. I don't need a pal. I don't need I don't need. I don't I don't need

a buddy. I don't know what yeah, and that could hurt somebody's feelings. So i'd rather if I can't. If I'm not gonna get my own, are you gonna bed with him? What if I after this Tennessee? She said, I don't need a po but no um are in the cut up? It depends. But I can't. But I can't stay, I'm gonna have to go. I'm gonna. I'm gonna if I'm gonna have to leave, if you're gonna because I don't like clingy. I don't like clingy men like I don't. I don't need you to always be

on me. I want to know where you're adding what you're doing, so maybe I might be the cling I want to know where he added. I know what I'm doing. I don't want you to know like that, So what if you're cutting and he's on your back and you feel his dick is big and hard? Is that gonna make you feel like start watering? I don't know. Then I'm on it. You know. I used to be like her, like whenever I would go see a guy, I would

need him to give me my own room. I went and want to stay in his house or in the same room as him. I would want to have that time for myself. But currently, like, um, the guy that I'm seeing now, I would be so mad if he put me in my own on my one question is what the question was like, would you feel obligated to spend It's like there's degrees to that relationship. If you're really seeing themthing, you're not gonna put me in the

room who you have at yours? But it depends like if that's a good point, if I put you in the hotel who, So it all depends or how as women, as women, we have our this dude is for this, this one is. But he's the one that's gonna take me out. I know when I fly in, I know he's gonna pull up on me or whatever like that. So it all depends on what role right if he flew you out there? And that was the dude who was gonna fly you out there, and you you don't want to spend no time with him, don't, Um, don't

blow your shirt up, handing your business. Do what you gotta do. Put me in my room. I have business to hand, don't. I'll see you when I see your piece. And it's like maybe the day before I leave or something like that. I agree, though, you gotta give him the day before, you know. But I feel like, and um, if you really like somebody, you would make them a price. But you have a lot of advocations love, Yeah, because

talking about some regulation, you know, that's one thing. I've eve been doing the show for over two years, right, and I you know, I feel like I've changed a lot, you know, I changed and in these times because it's it's sometimes I'm in relationships and there's then there's time that I'm single and now again, Um, you know, I'm seeing somebody exclusively. So I feel like abusively, I haven't had sex with and she doesn't have a lot of favorite, but she doesn't have a lot of boyfriends in the

favorite anywhere the favorite. So he's the only he was the favorite, No, he wasn't. He came along and knocked the favorite two guys, like just casually fucking with two guys, remember, and then I met this new one and can I knock everybody else? Want to ask ask a question right quick? Especially in your line of work? Right? Does love filter shit? Like the is love filtering the way that you answer? Yes?

Let me answer yes for sure, you know, but I feel like I feel like when I feel like when when your emotions are running differently, you're answer you answer things differently, you know, to podcast, I hope not see. That's what the problem is that he stopped listening, by the way, really yeah, he lying, he said he don't listen to more. He lying lying? Hey, hey friends later people's feelings on this ship, I mean whatever, I'm not going to say that, but I mean whatever, you're not

gonna say what. I feel like she just feltered herself together. No, but they said that about me because I was just in the long term relationship and we broke up and got back together and broke up again. So like in between those times, my answer change her first dad, and she was very careful about her answers, and when they broke up, her answers while now they're on okay, terms answers that even real think. I think it exists. I

don't think it's purposely that you filter yourself. I just feel like in different situations you just want to answer things differently. And that's kind of sucked up because I feel like men in the industry they don't really feel to themselves like the girl just have to deal with it my business. Yeah, it's part of my business. And I think that's the thing with me. I have to be a hundred percent honest, So you have to deal with it. So you're just gonna have to take that role.

But as a woman, no man wants to feel like that's my girl and she's shipping on me, right Yeah, So it's kind of hard. And that's why I asked that question, right who you want to shoot on right now? He was about up, Do you have a man right now? Yes? I do a little. And that's that's right here, and that's my point. That's my Ridica. We're gonna call you no like. I think that's why I do have a man, because I think he appreciates that side of me. He no,

I'm not going to change. You met me like this, and um, and I'm just gonna be a hundred percent honest. I'm not doing I'm not saying anything disrespectful, supportive. Let's tell him what he could be doing better. I would tell him before I tell you, I would tell what made you, what made you decide that you wanted to settle down with him though, just because you felt like you don't have you could be yourself. Yeah, I could be myself and then just being just He's very supportive.

And I think that you know, coming coming up how I came up and coming from where I come from, and I am the protector and my family. I have two brothers. I am the oldest. So it's like, um, I love being able to have somebody I can release two I don't have. I could be I don't have a problem being submissive as if it's the one that I can be submissive. I think you should be able to be submissive TM sometimes and he should be submissive

to you at times. Yeah, so I've been I've been on one um in the past that you know you're dealing you in a you're in a male dominated industry. You have to be strong. You have to be this person who some people might look at as a bit and when you don't have to be a bit with the one that you fun with. How long you've been together? Come on, now you're going too deep. We're going as

long and I've been with him this long. I was standing in line, asked the question, okay, nothing not but uh And this is actually my first time me even saying that, because people ask me and mine in a relationship, and I just don't feel like it's something that that's not what we're talking about. But this is a did it affect your music? Mm hmm. I mean I talk about everything that goes on, So I talk about that. I talked, I talk about me being in a relationship.

I talk about every aspect of my life. I'm I'm really uh personable with my music, everything that I carry. Yeah, I am so, So it would be I think it would kind of be frauden if I didn't talk about that. But I think a lot of times when I'm having a conversation and do sliding in my d M, it's not your business. If I'm on Instagram, it's not your I'm not posting him. Do you tell him like when people sliding your d M? Yeah, because it makes the sex better. She'd be like you better work for this.

Oh my god, I can't tell me about anybody d m me and he gets so tight and jealous. You're right, nobody likes me exactly. I'm like, I don't even check. Und I don't see it. You need to know I deleted it. You need you need to know my reality, like I'm I'm trying to keep you don't ever get it. What if it's somebody he knows, um, I let you know. And that's because um M, maybe, I mean that's kind of sucked up, because because I know he's gonna watch this.

I told him I was coming through this interviews. Yeah, I told him. And that's you know, that's me being I'm riding for you. I'm letting you know that the people around you may not be uh my experience telling a guy who's d I mean me, they always act like they don't care in the beginning. Oh so whatever, as soon as I argument, and I'm not only talking about my current thing, I'm talking about every single time the thing now covering thing current Nigga loves to dum

some old ship exactly a lesson. I'm not like that. You don't even I mean, I don't know I think I'm just in a place that I'm just so over the d M ship. Have you ever been excited about somebody d M? And you're like, yo, I can't believe that. I've had some good pickups, really good pickups anything, and you passed on it because because of your thing. No no, no, no, no, no no, but I'm talking a lot. One of my

best pickups, one of my best pickups. When my last boyfriend, my last serious relationship went away, I was so miserable and I had to I had to pick up like two months later, and I used and I was so used to curving everything at this point, but I've seen this and I was like, no, I'm not going to curve this. And I know if I would have been with my ex boyfriend, I would have definitely curved that, and I'm so happy I didn't. Can you take anything

serious from your d MS? Though? No, No, I don't think I can't either, because I'll be thinking like he like situation. Let's just pickups are rather curves like because it's it's the curve in the place. But you're like, well, I ain't got ship going on. When you sing, when you completely single, you don't have nothing you like, you could pick a little thing that's called a campying your time. You had to say this, though, I make the realist nigger ever in my MS. Really Okay, okay, that's all

I want to say. Ever say that realist person ever? Like that ever? I met him my MS? Why stefanitely? Really? You know what she's talking about and I know what she's doing. Let's move on. Listen a little more to yourself. You don't think that like he's hitting any other bitches in the DM, like that's it's weird. You don't care. I don't. I don't like that ship, don't she's just propping. She said, she's propping. I feel good about himself. I'm

confused this true or not? I mean it. Do you think it's easy to be in a relationship or to be single when you're in this industry? Um? I definitely think for me, I think it's better. But I feel like it's easier if you're single. But I think it's better, Um if you're in a relationship, if you because I mean, he's my friend, right, he's my friend, that's my dog, So I I, um, I think it's it's better that

I'm in a relationship because it made me better. You kind of it's I'm hearing he was on the headphones. I have him in a video like the Bodyguard off the Small But I think it's I think it's good because he's not one to try to be as he's possessive when he needs to be and I kind of like that in him. But he's not one that will be all behind me or trying to let everybody know unless I let him know. At this moment, it's okay with you, know, So I think I think it's better

because I like to feel like security stable. Yeah, that like sex is better when you're in love. But but I know this is like the gust thing I like love right now. The craziest thing it true, is but I feel like you're kind of baiting something right now. I'm gonna like I like when they're savages. Savages currently GI is in more savage than Yeah, we switched on Instagram all over the damn world, Like what is you know,

still filtering ship? Yeah? That ain't savage right about. It's like your savage with your bike and your skirt and ship and I went straight to the room and change my clothes. You can't beat that. No, no, we didn't see that part. So what are some of the craziest things that you've said in the bedroom during sex? Is yours? That's not crazy, it's not yours? Not a cre right, all right, exactly anything goes, don't believe. Umm, I want to your brother. I love you. I want to brother.

All right, I'm alrighty this one. I'm I'm play a little game and y'all, okay, I'm gonna be a guy and you'll answer immediately. What would be yours? He says, okay, okay, do you like it already? It's a cool game. Where should I come? On my face? She said, wherever you want to come? Let me see how really, wherever you want?

It's a good answer, I said, on my ass, because usually with me when the nigga about the comers, when he hit that thing back, so true, just right there on my ass, I wouldn't probably have in my mouth. Next one, next one, the position you want. I'm from the from the bag, but I'm I'm a rider. Who's your daddy? You? And then we go you say crazy, I get my ship on. S's just the biggest stick you ever had? Yes, no, no, no, no, that's the truth.

You gotta be like, you gotta be like it's too good? Okay, Baddy, which all you wanted in? Didn't really say sup? Right now? Really ask that. I don't think I ever had a Nick hold on now somebody can that you met on Instagram the realist? What are you saying? My pussy? My might, my mouth like the grand my mouth, but my pussy? Do you want me to stay? Are you want me to go home? Oh? She used to say that they had to leave. Now she says, yeah, come on, brother,

that's it. That's a new ship away from the Nicks. Minute. All right, what's on? What's song you want to here? To funk to? Oh? Like to hear myself? Because yeah, no, I'm not saying my music now. I don't know. I have my brother thought this ship was so funny. But I had a whole plated playlist and I used to kind of see what song you're gonna stop on? Because that song to fun? You know? I think um right now? Like Bryson Teller, the weekend at party next door is

good to have sex with. Listen, I don't have sex to m I don't have from you here. The girl screaming so much. You know, it's weird for me. Do you think that you would come faster with or without music? I have a confession about music. I think that I noticed this recently and I kind of laughed at myself while school. I'm sorry. Confession about music is that during like if I'm giving head to like music, Like if music is playing, then I'm gonna like give head to

the beat. But that makes people do that. I was weird for You're probably like the only one that confessed it. I put out weird because I caught myself doing it recently. It was like, am I really sucking his dack to the way song? Were you here? Let's get it know. We were actually listening to your man at mp any Like, no, I was listening to um TP two dot com hit from oh My God. When I was young, I like

up that album. Like my first sexual experiences were so think But now I feel like if a guy puts on music, I'm like, yeah, this is mad cheesy, Like why, I don't know why. I think like that if a dupe with the music on, and it's kind of weird. But most of the time, most of the time, if we're just gonna fuck. We don't got time to put no music on. We've been into we got so knows, but you still got to stop and be like, let

me put this plate with on for us the fun girl. No, no, no, that was when I would say that when I was being childish and single and I you know, whatever you play now, um, you're not gonna get into that. I like, and I don't like it. Look now, I feel like

you're okay, I'm gonna let you finish you. But no, I really feel like, I really feel like when I say certain ship, like certain keywords, than a stroke change, So I like to I mean, you know, cock a little shit like it's yours right, it's pussy, feel good, how you know? All that type of ship, then a stroke change whenever I say something different. So I kind of like, I kinda so you know what to say.

I know what's to say certain words. He's like, all right, Yeah, you ever feel like sometimes you're like, all right, this is going on too long. I got to just make him come sometimes if I already, if I if I'm if I'm exhausted, I had a long day and I enjoyed it. I got me. We don't need to yeah, I feel like once I start getting dizzy, like something started like that's it, do something I gotta give you gotta come. I'm not gonna like once I come, I'm

like ready for you to come. Like if that comes out like well, I'm like all right, get right, I came your turn, let's go. I don't even go to one of us like make him come. And if that won't work, I start whispering his ear, begging for the calm, what's your get a move netork getting moved from the back, laying flat with my legs crossed, and then like no, but with my legs or that ass and it's sing on my cat said tight, like because your stomach flat

on the bed, so that that's a good check. Thanks, And then yeah, you said, I was like thank you. And then if I'm on my back, I'll put my legs up on his shoulders and lift my hips up so then I'm rised up off the bed and then that always works. And if none, if neither one of those works, then not looking for either one of those words. And then I started whispering in his ear but begging for the come like I think when you do that that I always work when you like now, I'm like,

I want you to come so bad. Yeah, that works every time. I hope you have a lot of come. Let's pussy out with all that come because it's in it whack. If he doesn't have a lot of come, I mean he's with the Safari tomer. That means that he'd already didn't let it. He fucked somebody off, could have been jacking off. He didn't tell us that part. He said that mean that nigga about different kinds to come.

There's like come that's like thick and just like and then they and then it's the running clear ripping down leg I like that one. Yeah, like the running Yeah. No, it's nothing worse than when the nigga come in you and then like three hours later that ship. Oh that is that happened to me. Might have been defections. No, it's the come. It's the calm because you can tell like you see it. That's that's young. It happened to me before. That's that's happen. That should happen. Everything happened

to me. I ain't gonna lie. I have been through it all, see it all. If he were dating a guy, right and so he got into a fight in front of you and he lost pretty bad. Could you still look at him to say we're gonna start stopping him out together this bitch. No, No, I want to look at him the same. I'm sorry, no losses around here? What you jump in? I'm jumping in. Look, look I

would jump in. I would jump in. But the question is he's losing, so I have to not like, I don't know about jumping in because I ain't trying to get hurt. But then after that, I'm gonna look at him as if I see him get his asslip then in my hand, I'm like, oh, nig I know I can beat you down. So anything you say, shut up, you got your ass. Even if you love him, beat your ass. You're gonna lose respect for him. You're gonna you can't. You can't tell him you are? You like

what the funk up? Like you as call that Niger from down the street. You want to call him? Call him? Then you gotta explained to called your fancy yo. I would wake you up out of your sleep. As one time my ax came home and he got his as beat, like he got his asked beat, and I was like, what happened, and he was like, oh, I got jumped back at the ranch. Like two weeks later, I was taking a taxi and it was like O J cab and Brons they have O J cabs And I was

talking to the driver. He was a guy from the hood and he was the guy who beat up my boyfriend. So he didn't get up, he didn't get jumped. I was like yeah, because I was telling him, I was like, oh yeah, such a such my man. He got beat up in his club the other day, you know. And he was like just he was like when And I told him I explain. He was like yeah. I was like, yeah, I feel bad he got jumped. And he was like

he said his name and I was like yeah. He was like that nigg didn't get jump I beat that. Oh my god. So I went home. I went and I told him. I was like, listen, I wasn't. I was in a car with Byron, shout out to Byron and he told me and he told me you didn't get jothing. He was like, oh, you know, he's remember we got into a big ass fight. He slapping him up. Lady. He got right. Yeah. Byron like it was a little

bigger than him. But this guy, this guy spent a lot of time in jail, you know what I mean? Want no not Byron, the one that I was with, He spent a lot of time in jail. And you know, you should know how to defend yourself and if you gotta get your ask me, don't come home lying talking about I got John. Be honest. Yeah, like you know you got that knowing he has asked me. And they laughed him with his Julier. He came on with all his Julia and his money. They wasn't it was just

in the club actor stupid en Byron. You know, he drives a cab, he's security. Obviously, he's like one of those guys that just has mad jobs. He probably was like a little time, yeah something, you know what I'm saying. He's the bottle so you know, like my thing was, you know, like you look like a herb. And then we got into a big argument. He slapped the ship out of me out there. You want to people, I was a kid too, I was only like sixties. I would have him keith a rail if he would have

been like I got mad, fucked up. I was out. Something washed me. But I was drunk, and I found it funny that he had all his jewelry. He had to watch he had two He had not money in his pocket because you know, he came home drunk. So I was taking all his stuff and I was like, he got all his jewelry, so they beat him out. He got all his money, so and he got jumped.

You got jumped and they didn't rob you. I never heard of somebody getting funked up a couple of niggers and they see him with bron just washed him up. He was acting, that's get your I'm going more respectable to take out like listen, maybe he felt like he got jumped because he got fucked up so bad, baby, I got a right. The last question for you ladies, okay, and I've seen this on social media. Rent is utilities

at three fifty y'all live together? How much should he pay? Girl? Now, I think he should pay the rent and you pay the utilities at least. Or if he got it like that and he's making way more than me, he's paying everything. He's gonna pay everything until he told me that he can't get in into you know, until he tells me, I don't get I need some help, like right, but what if at this point y'all got kids? Would you

offer help? But he's got to tell you, Um, I'm I've I with dudes who who will, I've been in relationships what it will take care of it, right, But if you ask me, I'd rather you ask me and say, look, I can't handle it this time. I will respect you more and I will feel like you trust me enough to to you know, a little vulnerable, you know what I'm saying. So I'd rather that than um, we're splitting

it down. No, So it's supposed to tell you to save your money, save your money whatever whatever, Like you said, If some sh it happens and they don't have it for that time, that right or whatever, then you're supposed to be able to con And I feel like it should depend on this type of situation that the woman in this room will mostly be with guys who are

pretty much millionaires. You know what I'm saying. I think if you're in a regular situation, you guys are both working forty hours a week, that's okay to go high, you know what I mean. But if you own a house, he moves into your house, should he pay your mortgage. But just because but man his athlete. That does not change I was living arrange. Man still in the house together if I feel like, and I feel like besides rant and utilities, a woman has other things to mainteen

for her lifestyle. You know, hair, you know it's going to see you gotta go to the barber. Don't let's matenance isn't as bad as our mate haircut. And that's what I'm saying. They could get their haircut anywhere from fifteen to fifty dollars. I think at the end of the day, it's still all comes down. If I funk with you and you're honest with me and you let me know, because if we in this ship together, y'all

live together. If we're in this together and you let me know that you can't handle it, then I got you that that we got. We're not gonna make this a routine thing. So what's the plans? Right? Like, I got you back that world. Whatever whatever you were doing before, do it again, because nigga, I'm over there. It's like, yeah, let's go get calonics together. No, no nasty ship and ship. Maybe you get your top. I'm gonna get back now. You do it with your girlfriends. That's party. That's kind

of nigger's got to do that alone. Don't bring your home boy. That's weird to go by yourself. But if he's scared, he never did it before. He's like, come on, I want to get one. You should be scared getting some sh stuck up your gys. You better be skinned bad. That's not that bad. Yes, I get, but we're not gonna do it together. You they playing peaceful music. We haven't a spotted no no. Now, we could get massages and facials because you watch you get a calonic like

he's wouldn't get a colonic so bad? I'm not. I don't know what now you your stack your back on your back. You're on your back, so I'm not to watch. I'm not gonna feel. Yeah, what is wrong with you? I don't know if your stomach can your stop making the ship shoved up your ass and watch it come out, wait and work that She was just doing like personal researchers I never had when I was She was like, I have one more, one more question, but listen. We

appreciate you for coming through. We had a good time with you today on Live service. Thank you. I'm glad to be here, thank you for having me. He's gonna have a great time. And he hears this, that's time. Yeah. Now somebody's barely here today. They said, um that we don't like for guys to come in our hair because we've had this. Yeah, don't or my lashes. That's yeah, that that's never happened to me. I won't allow its me and I even when with real hair, fake hair,

I don't like it. I don't like I haven't gone in my hair. Don't if you get you if you get in your hair done the next day a problem. No, don't come in my hair. Ian in happenable. You gotta jump and the shot want wash it like there's no word, there's no white things happened. But I wouldn't prefer it. Like I'm not gonna say if he asked me, I'm not gonna say in my hair. Yeah, but why do you want to come there? Got your face and it

gets in your hair? How do you make it not get I gotta say, I got a whole face, should slide down to this if you're get in that little like like come here, but just don't get it. I don't even if you come on the edges. You can't come like in the base of the ship that alight more research ship. But you had some new music out. This is coming out on the thirtieth, Yeah, the thirty first. I'm putting out a project called The Songs that didn't

make the tape. I put out a project before this called The Regime that did fairly well as a as an independent artist. I'm an independent artist. So wait, what's the deal with Russell Simmons and Steve Rifkin. I know Stephid is doing a death digital but you still have anything with Steve Rifkin called me yesterday while I was out here. I thought he was stalking my Instagram or something. I was like that, yeah, you tried. That was fuady.

I didn't appreciate it one but no, Um, they were very instrumental to They put money in my pocket and they believed in me a lot of times. You know, being a female in this game, people want to kind of box you in and put you in a certain formula. And those guys their legendary they've done so they've done so many things, good things for hip hop. And the fact that they saw something in me when I when I was working with them, they they were doing content,

so they wanted to license my content. So I was still an independent artist even doing situations with them. They just had the first like I will bring stuff to them and they will buy it, and then they will be able to license the concert and then you still own it. They just absolutely, Yeah, I think that's I think that's the new wave. That's the new that's the new wave. A still money because the slightest that is really good for people to go back and listen to.

They might hear some of the new music and to the regime and listen to the songs that didn't make streaming. Is so good for me. Actually that I put out a project in two thousand twelve. It was just the mixtape um at the end of last year, it's called The Coronation. At the end of last year, I put a few more songs on that and then I put it on iTunes and title and everything, and people are

buying because they have a greater appreciation. I think just me being an independent artist and doing it, doing everything myself the way that I do it. People, Um, they see my progression like they're gonna see people are gonna see this interview and appreciate the fact that I stick to my guns and I do what I want to do for my career, and and they support me, and they they support me with the money, they support me

coming to the show. So a lot of the artists theyre try to sign you, try to get you to be I'm sure I can't imagine that didn't happen. But you feel like I gotta be independent. I mean I don't. I don't feel like it's I'm not one of these people that's like saying it just to flaunt the word independent around. I'm only independent because I have not ran across the right situation for me, you know what I'm saying.

And I'm not one of those artists that just want to sign because you're a big artist or because you've done something with everyone else. Because I'm me, I'm bringing something different to the table. So just because you you did this for such and such, I'm a different variable. But you grew up like admiring and being like, damn, that'sh it kind of dope that they're reaching out to me now. Absolutely to several people like um Uh Baby Timberland, um Uh Deaf Jam just in general because with the

um with the Russell Simon situation. He wasn't with deaf jam, but just every time that I meet somebody because I'm so um, I think secluded in the way that I moved. I still live in New Orleans. I still have a home in New Orleans. New Orleans is not a fast paced place and it's not a place where people come there to party and and bullshit and it's great food. Yeah, yeah,

people come there for that. So the fact that I'm able to um, the fact that I'm able to get a little to to go further in my career and progress, that's that's admirable. So when I see people reach out to me in the city, it always feels feels good. But I just haven't had the right situation that that's

gonna make me jump. Wasn't having hard to turn any of them down because of the fact that you did look up to them when you were younger or absolutely absolutely, but I'm I'm especially coming up the way that I came up. You know, I have I have friends that were trying to influence me because they know that they're

they're along for the ride. So they started to look at certain people around me like, damn, you're really gonna I'm telling you all the fun up ship that's in this contract, and you're still trying to tell me that I should, that you should do it because you know that's going to be a quicker way for you to have these experiences. People like experiences. But you're not gonna influence me to fun my life up, you know. Yeah,

we've seen that happen in New Orleans. All right, true, true, Oh my god, I was a little slow on that. You got it. Three. We really appreciate we had a lot of fun with you. Thank you. I'm glad to be here. I appreciate it. All right. Well, make sure y'all check her out three d NATI three d nat dot com. Don't you slide without me saying that three d n dot com. Make sure you'll hit me up Instagram. I am really the one that's running on my social media,

So hit me up. I'm like sliding them d M. She likes that it was over Let's Service.