Episode 87: Ft. Safaree Samuels

just spoke about that too. Yeah, you know, the love is real in these streets. You know, it feels good to be appreciated. I've had like some fans tattoo my name on them, but I've never had like a girlfriend doing so. So where's yours now my tattoo? Yeah? Are you gonna get one? Is that part of the exchange? Hey? You know, Um, there wasn't no conversation of an exchange. But you know, the love is real, and um, a tattoo doesn't symbolize that, but it is a great token

of love that I appreciate. But you don't have to do it. But hey, you never know what the fu trolls. Who has a tattoo the man in here or ex? Not me, everybody that's your current man, but who got a tattoo or their ex? I have tattoos. I have tattoos, a couple of tattoos. I was told just recently that even though I covered my ex that the ink was still there. So it's there for Yeah, I gotta get my chest hit because I had a name and a face, and I got to get a hit again because you

can still see them. You get it covered up, like no, I got it covered up, but I need to get it darkened again. Maybe one more session and then it'll be completely gone. I want to get mine covered up. Mine is not even the person's name, but it just symbolizes them. And I still want that ship covered up. So it didn't go well for anyone in here. We got one smart person. I ain't got no but you don't have no t I don't have not no tempt don't count right. No, have you ever been with somebody

that has somebody else tattooed on them? And you had to look at that tattoo? So my ex had his ex wife seeing across his back, like really big. Honestly, I never even paid attention to it. I never even noticed it from the back. Never. It never was an issue for me. No, that would bother me. I don't give a fund. Like I used to talk to this dude who had like his ex girlfriend, how big ass, like from his arm baby him risked all the way up it Jamine Dupree with Janet Jacks. No, but you

know he did something. But it was basically I looked down. I never knew. I never campus peak, I never noticed it, and I looked down. I was like, what the funk is that? And he was like, oh, you know, I had a lot of love for her. I was like, no, that looks crazy. You gotta take that off, Like, I can't funk with you. I'm sorry. He's like, but it's a memory in my past. I hate when people say that, dumb ship. If we broke up, I'm deleting you off the Instagram, delete me off. Your eys were fine, I

don't hear. Oh, it's a part of my history. But the worst is if you break up and then get back together now, then't delete it all your pictures. Yeah, but what if it's like a person like you know how sometimes you break up all the time and get back together, like delete them and then put them back up. Now, you got to give it a couple of months to know if you all really broke up, right, you give it a couple of weeks. You don't, You don't just have the argument like that's it, I don't want to

be with you anymore, and then go delete everything. You gotta give it a couple of weeks, you know, see what happens if you get back together, or you know, if things just really fall apart. I delete them pictures. So the phone, I say, Capricorn, what's your I'm a Sagittaria. Oh Mike, can we take away her? Mike please? Capricorn? Also, where's yours? Cancer? Emotional am I admitted my son is designs mean a lot to your anything, to you know, I don't even know why I actual because I don't

even know what an. I just know what that one meant. It's the best sign out of all of them, the best sign the goat, the go actually the goat with us, I know that's true, but whatever, you know what I mean? But the shout out shut to the goats, all right. So we usually start with the tip of the day. I know, we just started talking about tattoos. Tattoos, So today's tip of the day is how do you handle

somebody's family after a breakup? Alright, I know Gez recently went through a breakup, as we know a lot of people in this room have you know Safari did. But what if you're cool with their family, y'all, break up, do you still like speak keeping contact, calling birthdays Happy Mother's Day? Um, you can try to, but then it depends on if you know that X of yours is an extremely strong headed, spearheaded person. That's gonna say, nobody better be speaking to that nigga anymore. But none of

y'all that. It's like, yeah, like, um, I really hate when my family keeps in touch with my axes. I don't, are you? Yeah no, I think it's it's really annoying. It's like, what, like, come on, like that's it. I broke up on him, You guys broke up on him? To like get over it? Well, it depends on how long you'll were together to seven and a half years. That's a long time. I mean now today it's like whatever, but I remember it won't whatever. I'm fresh. I don't

like that. I don't like that. I'm you know, for myself. For myself, I um, I don't deal with anyone's family. If I broke up with you, I'm not going to talk to your family members or your friends. I'm going to try and talk to your friends at least what if they were really cool though I mean I'm not. I mean I'll still be nice and you know, cords who I won't be like, oh no, we're not friends, I can't speak to you anymore, but like if I see them around, but I'm not going to reach out

to anyone like that. You know, but like my axes, I want to go out to lunch with my my cousins. Yeah, that's that awkward moment. Repectful, that's cool, but you know what I'm saying. But if it's not there anymore, I understand. I listen. You don't need to be going out the way I don't. Nobody needs to be inviting anybody to the to the crib dinner's birthday parties or none of that.

But what about phone cause like happy birthdays? Gonna let you know I still got love for you even though things didn't work out with your daughter, there's nothing wrong. What I'm just saying in general, like, there's nothing wrong with that you look at me like that. I don't know it just it just sounded personal. That sounded personal when you said that. I'm just saying, if you were going to call a mom on it, say happy Mother's Day,

you've had like ten girlfriends since thence for yourself. Listen, listen, I'll be next to people, and then people will just take it and run with it. No, I don't know that, I like, like real girlfriends, like since the obvious, I probably had I think three that you guys have been broken up and public to be three years. Three years. You don't think that's a lot. First of all, the first of all one was hold on one was like

really two to three weeks, but the way weeks. But look the way she the way it was portrayed on Instagram and stuff. People took it way more than what it really was. So that one was kind of like, alright, that don't really count. But you just called her a girlfriend because y'all called her a girl. You know what you said, you only had three that you would have considered girlfriends. No, actually no, I just want you take

it back. I'm sorry, So what made you decide now that this is the one, Because clearly, listen, I don't blame you. You're having a good time. You're in a long relationship. I think anybody, male or female, when they break up after a long time, you're gonna go and have a good time. It's kind of like, okay, no, but I don't even really be having a good time. Like even when I first got out the long relationship, when I was like out in single and dating around,

I was like, I do not like this ship. This ship is way too much work. And trying to be going to dinner with a whole bunch of different people, texting a bunch of different people, and especially with me trying to handle business, I'd rather be able to put my focus into one person. Different pussies. It sucks. It's not cool. That is really not cool. It's like when you deal with somebody, it's like, all right, listen, we're

gonna deal. We're gonna both go to the doctor. Make sure we You can't do that dealing with ten girls, right, you know what I'm saying that, Just like he was just here, how many Hennessey straight? I don't even drink? Man, gonna drink. You kind of want to drink, y'all is gonna force me to, but all right, little lemonade A little I'll take some lemonade in some hennessy. So you really so you really rather be monogamous because some guys feel like variety is the spice of life is hard

for them. Some guys can't date a women unless they're having manages and all of that, you know, and some people, I just I kind of grew up different, So you know, everybody's different. I know, I just like to be with I like to handle one situation at a time. No, you do you think that guys have more or less sex with their main chick when they're cheating. I'm sure in your life you've cheated. And we had this whole conversation. You love telling me I cheated, but you did. Listen,

you cheated. We all know cheating is a two way street, and cheating doesn't a cheating doesn't count when you know someone else is cheating. Cheating yet listen, Okay, it counts, it's counted. Yeah right, So okay, then let's hit me quick. Good good job, didn't even put any leimonading him. Yeah I did, actually sorry he wants some more? No, no, thank you, but okay no. Seriously, though, we were talking about this because I think that guys have sex with

their main chick more when they're cheating. But she says less. I think it's last. Of course, it's going to be less. See, we guys feel guilty and then they kind of feel bad and then they come home and have sex because they feel bad. And I also feel like the more you have, the more you want to have sex. But can a girl tell, like, let's say, if a girl want to have sex with a guy and then I mean I said that right, right, I said, her boyfriend winning already had sex with someone. Then you come home

then this time and have sex again. Then when he nuts and you're like, yo, where's the rest of it? Right? Yeah, that's true, that's true. It needs to be a lot. If it's not a lot that you think, you think

men cheat less and more. I mean men have sex more or less when they're cheating with you, if your man, or when you're when my man was cheating on me, we had less sex and you could tell, I mean not just you know, like you were like, he's definitely cheating because he's not even that wasn't the reason why I knew he was cheating. But I knew he was cheating, and we were definitely having less sex. Damn, what about you,

step I don't know. I'm not sure. I don't know because when I'm in a relationship, I mean, I'm pretty sure of my son. You know, my my longest relationship seven years. Things happened, but we were, you know, pretty active. You know, we were having a lot of sexting, We had sex all the time. How does he do that? So I can't say that there was a time that it was more or lost, Like we were pretty active. And then and the couple of years that i've been you know, I've been in love a couple of times,

and yeah, we were pretty active. I was pretty active in those relationships too. So I don't I wouldn't be able. I wouldn't be able to tell, you know what I mean. Women, that's a question to ask for guys, that's a that's a guy's question. You when you cheated, you said you had less sex. Now, first of all, if I did cheat, it's because my main wasn't giving me sex at all. So it's like, what do you mean to get up. How long, very long, very long periods of time? Are

you serious? But must want me to go and cheat? As it because you were cheating, of course, not because he was cheating, No, no, but listen, as a woman, as a woman who has been in a relationship where I have been cheating, I would say that I have sex with my my boyfriend at home less you know what I mean? Less? All right, because I'm so interested in hearing like I've never heard a woman like actually

admit she cheated? Why were you cheating? What I mean? Listen, I I think I was really young in my relationship and you know, um, there were new doors open up for me, and you know, things we were growing and you know, we were together when we were really terribly big. It's something because we're kid, Yeah, it's something's lacking. I was probably bored, you know what I mean. I was probably bored. I wanted some excitement. That's one thing I

can say in my um. You know, in those years, what I really loved was the rush of the chase, you know what I mean, The the newness of a relationship, you know, meeting somebody new, going out and enjoying somebody, getting to know someone else, did the guy treat you better than your main guy was? I mean, yeah, that's what it's for, right, that's what it's for. Right man? You girls are so shady currently. No, I think you know today we're talking about this is this is years ago.

I mean today, I think today, I'm I can be faithful. I've only been sleeping with one guy lately? How long? For how long? And like four months? Four months? I don't think that's long. I mean it is a start. We're proud of you. Now, that's that's that's a stretch. We're proud of you because no one who's not in a serious relationship, well, I mean I I whatever. So so why do they So you cheated because you were getting cheated on is what you're saying. That was your reason?

Is your ego? Not ego? That had nothing to with ego. I want sex and you're not giving it to me. So okay, now I have to go in. Why not break up then? Because you know you could just be use to somebody. It's hard to break up, you know what I'm saying. What's the longest relationship you ever been in? Four years? So you and Charlotte Man were to go for four years disgusting. I threw up just now. I

just wanted to hear what you'd say. I love when you get on him, So that's why I said that, like the ship you say to him be so funny. He loves it too, I think. But yeah, so you're saying that if you're not having sex, it's just hard to it was hard for you to break up just because you're just used to being in a relationship. It's just if you're in a relationship with somebody for X amount of time, it's like and not getting sexist, Like, all right, this must probably be like a little dry,

still abusive, don't it. What do you mean he was being deprived? Yeah, he was an abusive relationship. Masturbate a lot. I'm not gonna lie. Um, yes, masturbation saves lives. Yeah, but masturbation then but then also at the same time too, it's like with me, I just feel like sometimes it's like I can't just go and deal with any girl,

especially if it's someone I don't know. It's like, I don't know, you don't trust you what you do when you're trying to record me or you want to screenshot check, you want to say what you want to send it to a blog. You want to let everybody know this. You know what I'm saying. So it's like, I gotta just be careful in porn hub sometimes, uh, porn hub good old when you were cheating, but not when you, like, are in new relationships, because you kind of like on

social media and stuff like that. I feel like you put your relationships out there. You want to know what it is. I really don't, but other people do, like if we take a picture and stuff. That's why I try not to put it on my page because it's like I wanted to be a real relationship, but I wanted to last. But then it's like when other people get ahold of it, they started pulling up people's mug shots and police record. Jesus, can't you get a good girl?

Did you ever? Did you find out ever, like a girl that you were dating all of those things from social media? Like oh damn, hell yeah, hell yeah. I remember one time, and I don't even I don't even want to get too deep because the niggas might go and do some research or find out who it was. You know, some ship popped up and I'm looking at my phone. No, no, I'm looking at the phone and I'm like, yo, like what is this? What was it?

And she was sitting on the floor crying and saying it wasn't true and all of this ship and I'm just like I want to like this ship is true, because what is it that you found out? I just saw some like I just seen some like messages and ship that was sent to somebody. Oh this was on the Bloods but I remember, and it was like, damn, I don't I'm just saying the messages I've seen. It was like the same ship was sent to me. I'm like, I got caught up like that before we'll send the

same messages, the same pussy ship. I can't do stuff like that because Nigga's talk more than bitches. Like even if I was scrolling through his phone, I guess he put my ship in the photo gallery with other pussy picks. And then my nigga was like, Yo, that's that's damn my pussies that distinctive. Can you tell pussy's apart, like if you saw a picture like say, but he had the same exact pick, so he knew the actual It wasn't just that he knew pussy. He knew the picture.

He had to say, Yo, that was one good picture that I had sent to all my ny that's a good picture, girl. I never do that one after that. Even if I sent a guy a picture from the same batch, I always make sure they're different. So if it ever gets around, I make money. That came from not lately. Not lately. I haven't been sending not for a couple of years. I don't do like just like, if I do it, I'm in the picture and everything. Yeah, but you send fully nude pictures up, that's if I

do it. And I don't just do that with every anybody. But hold on, speaking of fully you have nude picks in there? What's going on? What's this I'm giving on something? Because since we're talking about masturbation and stuff like that, masturbation cream far coconut or oh my god, we're just talking about that. We're just coconut oil be used as tis that. Can you use it as a lubricta for everything? Shout out John, thank you, oh my god, thank you, Omar, I love coming. You can use it for your edges.

Coconut oil for everything. Yeah, and a lot of it as nice as shiny when in the bag. Yeah, that's the thing about coconut oil. You can use it for everything. But I just thank you so much. See, you guys are masturbating when you master let me tell you all the weirdest thing you could. But like, I don't. I don't like um no, no, no, I don't like um.

Like if I'm staying in the hotel room more than like two days, and I know I got a lot of stuff in there, I don't like the house keeping to be in and out of my room when I'm not there, So I'll just ask for a whole bunch of house and I just won't have them clean the room. But I was doing my makeup in the in the mirror in the bathroom sink, and the sink started looking dirty from my makeup. So I rubbed it down with cocon the oil and then wiped it down and rent

it out and it was clean. That the story was gone. I was, I mean not for lou before because they wanted to look at out my asshole. But you know it's a different story. Okay, See that's the story that was looking for That was that wasn't it was recently. I just got Okay, back in the day when not Safari has been to lip service. It wasn't for him though, he was He was there though, and that, by the way, there was a fun time that was like what was that? Was that ten years ago? It wasn't. It wasn't as

as serious. And Nicky did lip service a couple of times. And you always did you learn things from that. You knew everything, learn things as far as what about her, because usually people learn things about like damn, I didn't know because everything was like about me. So because he was sitting there, like, you can't sorry about someone else. Just when are you talking about what he was having? Six? You'd be wearing first, I think it's about to have have

a firm. It wasn't that cold today. That's why I didn't wear thirty degrees outside for the listeners. For the listeners, it's thirty degrees outside, y'all know. I do be wearing my coat. I have a lot of fur coats. She was every day exactly. No, it was cold in the room. That's why I had it on. I wanted to take it off. Yeah, and I'm taking it off. Back to these lip servious questions, Now, what you do if you got an STD but you had sex with more than one person, so you're not sure who is from who

gave it to you? Would you tell both women or would you just keep it moving? No? I would tell him, really, I would tell him, how did you say that? How do you do that? Yo? What the hell? Bro? Like? What's up? Bron right? But if you're saying that, I don't know what you're talking about and you burned me, I would probably give us some time and said, you know what, let me see who who. I would really just watch their character for a little a little longer.

Can I tell by someone's character? Put back device on them and listen to listen to them for three days with a SPI device, that's five Have you ever done that? Clearly he had My sorry, my brother he jesus, I wasn't gonna put but now he's not in it now. But the thing is, he's in Jamaica, So my brother he got this thing. Yo. One is the USB one is a little portable charger for like the iPhone. One is a pen. They record for three days. You can

leave them anywhere. You can put it in a car, purse, whatever, you can leave it there and then at the end of the three days or whenever you want, you go and get it. You put it, got a little chip, you plug it in your computer and you can listen to the whole thing. What do you want to do that, I don't listen. Let me tell you, I'd be I'm scared to do like that. I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't want to do that because I don't. People say

things sometimes like listen, I know how we talk? We go in she got man nervous and was like, oh ship, we talk? Did give me a phone charge three days of conversation. I know another person who got caught with that. You know, he had a little USB in his car, and you know his wife girl, whatever she was, she wasn't put it there. He didn't know and he was talking about reckless ship, damn ruined his marriage. Gonna lie.

If I'm in somebody else's house, I'd be so scared to talk because I'd be like they might have a camera and this motherfucker, I'm so paranoid, so like I won't talk until I leave outside of the house or something like that. I like, I'll call you when I get to the ball. Some crimes, you know what, because people are crazy. Now I'm paranoid. I'm super paranoid thinking we haven't like, hey, cameras, damn, because I used to

hide cameras in the house. So I don't even think I know people that used to hide cameras in the house. I'm not gonna like that using the tape girls that they would have a sexual This is what I'm saying. So always when dude, when's the lesson? I've been at anybody's house, right, but ladies, make sure y'all don't use Safari charger, right. I don't like my girl. I don't know.

I don't want to. I ain't trying to, like super super look like she'd be giving my giving me a phone and she's like, oh, you can have my Instagram and added to your account. You could see my dms and all that. I used to do that in the beginning,

but I don't even be wanting to the beginning. I want to, you know, give our space and because you know, but why would somebody volunteer that, Like she deleted all the messages and I can see if something happened and y'all didn't trust each other, but why would be like here you can start like that? Right? Yeah, I just feel like that's a little weird, Like why am I volunteering this if we don't have no issues? You look like you were in high school. Why you got your

little sweater on angela ye hoodie dress? I bet you I could wear it as a hoodie though at the side something did you give her your Instagram and stuff? Did I give it or did she give it? Did you give yours? I didn't even take it, But so you weren't like, well here's mine. This is a very umbalding. I want to get you. Don't you got a password? She don't. I'll get I'll get somebody's tattoo. I'll get somebody's name tattooed on me before I get my Instagram.

Pass the password, because why why you need to be there's not anything in there. It's just why you need to be in my information? Like that Exactly, I don't want to be in your Instagram CM, I know Jesus exactly. It's not even me because I trust me, I have a clear contracts on conscience on what I do. It's other people's business. I'm not trying to put other people's

business out there. Get out of here. Actually, I mean it's a little little as a time, so that point here later inventing that she was showing us her D. Yes, it was crazy NBA players all kind of stuff in her DM. She is in Dallas. Now. I was shot. I was shocked by some of the people that I wasn't HERD. Definitely some notable people. I was like him. I never saw his names because I was sitting on the other side of the couch. We'll tell you later.

You didn't. I thought you did. I tried to mouth it to you cross They all right, Now, can you bring friends with somebody if you had sex with them just once? Like said you had sex one time and then you said, you know what, I don't really feel like that about them, but we are cool with each other. You think y'all can still be friends with each other. There's no feelings attached. But if she still likes you, it's going to be difficult. M hmm. But that's your friend. Then.

Have you ever had sex with somebody just one time? Yeah, and then nothing happened, so we just never spoke again, like a one night stand somebody you randomly didn't know, or like somebody was cool with Oh no, no, no, I was never like, no, I'm scared of on that stance. It was like somebody was like, I don't even remember that's watching drank this Hennessee you had girl didn't even drink nothing. How am I with drinking for nothing? Hebout

to take that fur off? Forget it. Here we're about totefinitely about to be my new first fire, new first fire, or like nobody messed with him. No, but this fur, this cold you're you're wearing, it's it's gorgeous. What animals that? This is a when y'all made it yesterday. It's gorgeous. You make the fur. I designed them. When I have people that social you know what you're thinking about there doing? I don't know anything about fair. I don't own any fur. Sorry,

so I don't know so far giving one? You have enough? Yeah, let me have. He's like, now it's cold out there, we go, okay, come about that. There we go. Let's go even working out too. We've seen your workout video. Button that's my new swag. I ain't trying to be the ignorant black with just a T shirt and the sweater and the change. You know, I'm trying to I'm trying to be on some European. Oh my god, and you have the nicest coat ever. Thank you. This is a fact. I just made it lass. Yeah. So are

you happy now, Safari? You know what, I'm happy, but I'm not gonna lie there. Sometimes I wake up and i just feel like I have no purpose and I'm just like what am I doing? Like, oh my god? And then another day I'll just be really happy. I'm up and down with it. No purpose. Why do you feel like you have no purpose? That's all. It's just this ship is rough, man's stressed out. You have a purpose, it is, I understand, though it is rough. I'm gonna

tell you what becaus. Ever since I first met you, I've always felt like Safari was very nice, very cool. You know, you seem like a good loyal person. Thanks, thank you. But you get it tough. I get it to niggah broads behating and they try to make it harder for me. You know, why do you think that is? Yo? Man? I don't know, man, I don't even niggas who I don't even be no be jealous to me, like should that be coming back to me? And it'd be like some niggas in the business, I'd be like, Yo, nigga,

you're such and such. What are you worrying about me for? I don't even I've never even met you before, Like,

why are you talking about me with people? I always felt like it would be easy for you afterward because I feel like people behind the scenes kind of knew how instrumental your So I felt like people wouldn't want to work with Yeah, but this is what they do, they they So there's so much of Dick Riders that I don't Niggas ain't getting nothing from the other side, but they still be trying to act like yo, bro,

you know you ill blah blah blah with you. But you know, I can't really like niggas be like yo something like, you know, just keep it on the low. But I want you to do this like that type of ship. Why because they don't want to burn a bridge? Who did us exactly? When niggas ain't doing ship for him? Right? Do you do you even have her number? Like you right? But they feel like they get might get black bagged.

But you know what, I watched some episodes of which I don't watch the show anymore, but I just so happened to catch it because I knew he was on there, and I always like, like your personality and stuff like that, and I felt like a lot of ambitches on there was coming at you crazy, and I don't even feel like it was anybody that might have been on the level of things that you've done. They're definitely not. But then it was like, I'm like, yeah, I'm not gonna

be on TV arguing with no broads. So it's like I'm not gonna do that. So I just gotta be really careful with just how I deal with certain situations because they're like, oh, this is your arguing with chicks and show like that. People like your wife let her talk to you, bro I'm not about to give this girl any of my energy. Did you enjoy doing reality TV or do you feel like that should helped me a lot, because like I wasn't just up there, like

you know, doing nothing like that ship. It really helped me a lot exposure wise, you know what I'm saying, Like it got some good people reached who reached out to me, and I'm still reaching out to me. I'm booked. Like before that, I thought people you don't knew who I was and what I did, but they didn't know Jack ship. What about miss nicky baby choosing ros out Costa over you? Hey? Is that what ended up happening. That's how we interpreted it. That's how you interpreted it. Okay.

I just heard a couple of slick comments and I was like, why is she talking about him like that? She sunk with him? It was weird. It's TV, you know how it is? Now? I do? Are you going back? Yeah? You are? You bring your girlfriend on or you feel like that he's definitely going to bring her up. I ain't gonna a lot of things with her. I really care about her, and it's like, yo, I don't want to bring her on it. Then it's like this ship ruined. It's over. You know there, it's over. That's a fact.

So that's just like my dilemma. Now. It's like, damn, I don't on this ship to mess up, you know, something real? Because right now she ain't on the radar. Don't nobody know who she is? You know what I'm saying. She ain't even trying to. I mean we've seen all the pictures on Instagram and everything. Yeah, but people still like the main, main, mainstream or whatever you wanna call it. They don't really know. You know what I'm saying, doesn't matter to you, Like if people bring up things from

someone's past or whatever, like, doesn't matter to you. If she's like, well, you know, I did this because being in this business and being at the age I'm at. At the end of the day, every girl they either been a whole had sex with mad niggers, sucked mad dicks, everybody. Everybody got a pass. So it's like, I'm not gonna get mad at a girl because you know what I did this. It is what it is. If she do

tell me, it kind of makes me respect her more. Okay, you kept it real with me, you know what I'm saying, So I done to that. Hey, al right, we all been with people, you know what I'm saying. So it's like you ain't about you ain't about to meet no virgin out here. How many women you think you've had sex with? If you could guestimate, Jesus, I'm scared two or three nine o'clock today today, No, I really, I really don't know. I have a friend I went to

high school with in Millwood. His name is pretty Yo. He used to like he had he wrote his ship down. He wrote he would write every girl down in the date. Oh my god, how do you do that? I have no idea how many friends? Tally? It was? You must have did that too, because he was keeping tally me and my friends, me and my I have. I have two best friends. We've written down all of our sex before. Come on, let's see who has the most? Did you leave them out? How many guys I've been with? I

haven't talented it up in a while? Hound your business? Now? How many? I can count mine? But everyone has grown here. I can count mine too. I can totally count. But how high can you count? I mean, it's not I haven't been with that many guys. I've been winning enough. I've definitely been win enough. I've definitely been winning off teenagers. I feel like if somebody asked me that that I was dating, I'll be Look, you shouldn't really never ask no. I don't think you should. Oh no, if a guy

asked me. If a guy that I'm dating and I care about asked me, so, how many people have you slept, I'll give him a number. It's gonna be made up. Yeah, for sure, it's gonna be a lot. I'd be like, I know one person. I'm not fucking do you just say unrealistic? Is fun? Well? All right, now, we had an incident the other night, and this is what I wanted to ask you, guys, what you think. We went out to eat me right, it was meet her and a guy friend of ours, and another guy at the

table sent over a bottle to us. The guy we were with gotten mad, tight as fun. He was like, no, send it back, send it back. We're not accepting that. Send it back. That ship is disrespectful, did you think so? We didn't know him, so it was a closed bottle they opened. They was shying, and then they was like, champagne, what was the reason? He was a fan of the breakfast club? You know what? On that level, I understand that if you're not in the public to YouTube. He's

our friend. We just all we were meeting other people and we were just the first three people there. He shouldn't have got mad. Come on. Had to calm him down, like a date or nothing. No, Yeah, he was like the guy was being disrespectful for sending over or about it when you see a man here at the table

with two women. He said he should have came, you know, he said he should have came over and introduced himself and then said is it okay, because he was saying, basically, this man over there doesn't know what my relationship is with neither one of you, So I think it's disrespectful. And it was me and her and her, yeah, so he probably just assumed, okay, that's not nothing intimate. She probably, you know, on the lower her ship like you always are, so like that. He had a crush on your and no,

I don't know. So when you go out, people be, people be recognizing your stuff, People know who you are. It depends on where I'm at. I'm being funny. Everybody knows. But this is not even like that kind of place. Like this place a lot of people go, yeah, we was at Pergola. It's always a bast Yeah, it's always somebody there, of course, but there is kind of nobody bothers anybody there everything because the whole client's yeah, so they never come over, Hey can I get a picture.

I've never seen nobody do that, but this guy, I thought what he did was respectable. I didn't think there was anything wrong with him standing her closed bottle. Well, rapid came from his take. Really, we just wanted this champagne. We wasn't trying to drink that he's done it. We didn't even who got mad though, Like is he somebody working with He just was a friend, Like he's our friend. I mean it was we're friend. That guy was being disrespectful and we had to be like and then the

guy came over. We were like, well, asked mehim to come over here. And then he did come up and he was like, I didn't want to inter up out you guys were eating because we were eating, and he was like, but you know, it was just for all of you guys. He was a nice guy. Yeah he was to damn he listens to this by the way, Hey, but sorry, you do talk to especially if you're in the public eye. So if you were with two women at the table and the guy did that, you would

be fine with it. Now I would feel like he was trying to stunt on me. I get it. Is he is he known? Is he somebody who's known? But like if it's me and two girls and like a guy does it like over there, I says, trying to he's trying to stunt on me. But if it was something like I nobody knew who I wasn't a guy. Did I be like, thank you, cheers the motherfucker after this? No?

He did, but he did. He was like, I'm gonna I'll take care of the bills and like he was a But did y'all get his info after and somebody find out what he's about to say? No? No, no, he had a company that they did that table after that and said, I mean he basically get him to invest in something, get him to invest in these hoo do you see how he thinks? See that's how I was thinking that. I was like, yeah, let me go

speak and make sure everything's cool. All right, Now, ladies, I'm gonna ask you this first, and then i'm gonna ask Safari. Okay, if you need to borrow some money from your man, should you should he expect that you're going to pay him back. Look at this mother man, she's a borrow tell you man dating. Hey, I need to borrow a little money, borrow rent is dude. I'm not asking to borrow anymore. I'm gonna borrow or can I need some money? You can have it? Yeah, No,

I'm not giving a box. You don't want to borrow it. I just wanted. I'm not borrowing, give it to me. But I'm saying, okay, so if you borrow, you borrow the money I need some money for this or whatever? Should he expect or should you offer to pay it back? No? Is he giving me my pussy back? Is it your boyfriend? Yeah, it's a boyfriend or somebody you're dating. Serious? Is he gives me the blue job out of my mouth? I'm not borrowing nothing. You're going to give it to me,

and I'm gonna take it. Thank you. Yeah, I'm not going to thank you. What if you borrow some money from you? What if one day he goes, oh, should I forgot my credit card? That happened to me recently and he gave it back? Okay, but what if I should he? Um, what you shouldn't have been like? I mean, it depends on the amount of money. I'm not gonna be petty like giving my fifty dollars back, but I am gonna with my two thousand back. I'm gonna get the five hunting back another time. He can keep there.

I feel like he knows you, knows your situation. If he has more than you and he borrowed something like that, he should give it back. And I don't feel like I should have to ask my man for anything if he should know my situation period, if i'd be like, all right, well I don't got it for this. It's only like sixty dollars. I'm not borrowed. That's not borrowing. I say, what if you go out with him from

his money? No? No, no, like I've done that before. Yeah, I've given him, but he's given me so much money with the fucking sixty dollars. Like at that point, you don't do that, Okay, Si farre your girl needs to borrow? Should you expect her to pay you back? In no way? I know I'm not getting a back. Yeah, that's how I Yeah, I'm not gonna be like okay, here, all right, listen, in two weeks, how would you like? Would you like to? Can I borrow with our bib? Can I have to?

The thing is when it comes to ask, Like, I've gotten a lot better, but in the beginning of this new single life, I had a big complex with giving or helping anybody when it came to money, because I just felt like people automatically came in with their hands out ready to just as as ask but to answer that, um forgot women as a women. Yeah, but the Hennessee made me forget what I was saying, remember or borrow it. I'm big on how you do it. I just want you to just be nice and it's polite about it.

Like that's the best time did she gave you, not even after got to be doing while you're looking down and you're getting that med s knock it down and you need to like you And then you know, that's when she could say, baby, um, that's gotta you know what it is. It gott to be for something important. I don't want to give for you to like vote. What about a new fur? No, that's not an important Do you already have a nice fur? Do you? Yeah?

You gotta match your fly. You should be like purchasing that for her anyway, Like, hey, baby, I got a new fur years But if you went and got a fir and didn't get her when and she was like, oh, so you're just getting yourself ship and not getting me ship, you know like when I like like like like know for New Year's for a god, like you know, we we had like matching first for the New Years, Like I had a long black and she had like a big red joint. How long has this relationship, ben, because

I think I've been like for forty three years four months. No, Um, it's been going on for a little minute, but you know we've just been with some overlaps, so you can't say exactly how long because I've been singing since last year. Before that, I was singing since last year March. So you guys been dating a long time? Yeah? Why do I feel like it's like fifty different girls. I always

feel like, yeah, there's something is not That's why. No, Because last time when you were on the Breakfast Club, you had a girlfriend, but you wouldn't and then Charlemagne kept saying it was me because he said something about many. It was like, you're dating SAFARII like no, And then I heard other people didn't get along with you because of the girl you were dating then, and people was beating with you over it. Guys must not like you hating on me for no reason. A lot of haters.

I don't be knowing, m I don't be caring. I'm like, bro, I don't care. I don't want your girl. I'm fine. You know what's funny about Charlemagne because Sharlemagne's personal life. Yo, don't nobody know nothing, but it's like it's just so crazy. But with everybody knows everything, you too, you think you slick? Yeah? I know Charlottagne's wife and his daughter. Yeah he talks about them, but I don't even know he was married. Yeah he's married. How he got I want to get married.

I can't wait to get I can't wait to get married. Ship. Don't rush the thing, not like that. But like I'm just saying, when it does happen, you have babies, big nice. I want like the rock to coming out. Like, is she going to buy you the ring? Are you buying yourself? What's the rule? Does man buys her self ring? Yes? And that's what I the man. The man buys four rings for himself and two for the woman. That's true, yes, but that's why that the parents as supposed for the

wedding exactly. That's a tradition. I mean this tradition parents his ring just because I think it'd be fun. You have a boyfriend, yes, how long have I been together? Like two and a half years. That's good man? Are you happy? Yeah, that's good. Everything's good. I think I was trying to do that is right now, but I think it is important. Like listen, just some advice for you. Just keep that ship off social media and you'll be fine. He's not gonna do that. Look at my Instagram. Go

look at my Instagram. I don't post, like I don't want to post my girl just because I don't want people trying to tear her down. Instagram Live, I don't, I don't snapchat, I've never put her on Instagram. So what's the girls? Then? Don't you ever say, like, yo, keep it down, like don't you want to last? But

that doesn't work, you know. That's all I'm saying in the beginning, just because Tray songs just a lip service and he talks about that, and he was saying that the girls that he's dated in the past, like even if they want to, if they want to be on his social media, he's not interested in that because he feels like you should understand, like I'm protecting you exactly, Like they don't be realizing that you're about to get

mauled by the woes the minute they find out. So you feel like people sometimes want people want that attention. That's what I think it is. So women want to be clean. That's what it is. That's it's not even attention. Girls want to like they want to know that. Listen, my man loves me and people know that, like where together. Ain't claims that claims want. But but if they're claiming you,

that's still not them being claimed. I'm confused because if you're sitting here saying it's not on my page and not ducking at the picture that I mean and that could have been for y'all viving moments and ship, you know what I mean. But if your man don't have a problem with you posting him on your I would have to keep that ship social media. Imagine if you were dating a guy and you posted a picture he was like, you gotta take that down. That's that's embarrassing.

My ex used to do that to the bench he was working with, Like yeah, the savage. I'm like, yeah, I taught you na look again going as a motherfucker, like you can't claim him, get out of here. But your he kind of kept you off of social media. Yeah, So in your mind, is it because he's doing other things or is it because he's trying to protect you? As in the mind of a woman, girl who knows what the hell he was doing in the method to his madness. But I didn't post on my mind that

much either, A little. But he's not here and there. But he's not like a picture person. So I think things just go better when you don't put it on and say something. I'm single right now, even just even nobody would know because I'm not putting nobody on that ship messes it up. Man, he just want to be in the car, little hands, little clues. You're ruining it. Just keep it see yourself. Like I just feel like you don't have to brag about the goodness and your

relationship because nobody I gotta drop my mind. They just want to snapchat. They hold a little whole adventures and ship thinking it's gonna get them, get the back of a nigger head. Or they at the table trying to take pictures on the date, shoot pictures next to each other, date night with babe. Just get the funk out of here. That's his hands. You don't even know. I've always been curious about this because this is an urban legend. Okay, did you really cheat at Shaun Kingston's house in front

of everybody and got cut? Like that and got snitched on. No, that's not what happened. Okay, that's not how. There's no shoots to any of that. The situation was at Shaun Kinson's house, but it wasn't like I'm like, I'm in front of everybody. Everybody, come on down, I'm about to do some sh over here in this bedroom. So you went in the other room with a porn star or whatever. No, it wasn't a star. See I heard all these stories prostitute Jesus Christ. But there were other people around and

they knew what happened. You know. It was like, you know, it was like it was like one of them um type of joints where it just was like, you know, guys and girls and it's just like no girls was there getting freaky. Yeah, it's like the girls was all. They're just like looking for guys and just trying to deal with niggas and ship and you fell for it. Now, hey, make sure y'all using cocon the right way the way

you used it that night. The Coconut Oil list of the proceeds go to my charity charity um Stump for Jamaic and put on a computer in a school in Jamaica every month. That don that I actually just hosted for the University of the Western eas the Scholarship Foundation, And I know the University of the Western East is in Jamaica also, so I just donated that and hosted their big charity fundraising. Why is you here? So like, straight, what are you talking to? Indian? No, she's half Chinese

and half West India. But anyway, let's get back to you. So, so it was like a big freak off in the house and you were just there and then a little something happened. I just was there and you know, something was just blown out of proportion. You know, Safari, stop beating around the motherfucking bush. Did you get ahead or like, what was it? You had it threesome? No? No, no,

it wasn't not like that. You know. I just was in the spot and I'm just like, yo, it's crazy and it's crazy, and everybody was like, yo, what's up. I'm like yo, what's up? So the like said, I'm just like, ship is getting crazy. So then um, I'm just like damn, what's up again? And then it's up, what's up? You know what he had like boom with somebody there, you know, I was like, you know what, so was something? It was hollering, I mean, you know,

and I just was like, Yo, what's up? So you did did you have sex or did you just have oral sex? Like what did? He just was like, Yo, what's up? All you said was what's up? And that's what you get. I don't believe that what's up? Yeah, he said, what's up? Do you feel like you were set up? Mm hmm yeah kindo, like We're gonna get him to do something and then I'm telling and then I'm yeah, man, that's crazy. But I listen. Man, I ain't gonna lie no matter what somebody did in front

of me. It could be it could be my worst enemy enemies girl in framing, and I can know somethure like I don't. I'm just would like my business and that's the bro code. Yeah, I mean I'll be like that ship you're sucking another bit, Like what do you mean? Yeah? Now I feel you on that though, because I don't listen. I just mind my business when it comes to other people.

Ship and I see a lot of stuff and I don't tell on nothing, but I guess if you have an ulterior motive, that's what I'm saying, have you cool with the person or you funk with them? Or when the funk with them? People going I'm gonna say a little something, so you might have just felled for it. What's the farest destiny? Now? Like, what do you feel like it's meant for you? Do you feel like you're in the relationship now that's gonna be it, that you're

gonna get married, settled down? Do you feel like, Okay, Safari needs to put out an album? Like what's next for you? Do you feel like you want to find the next big star? All right? Now, I'm just like in the middle of because it's like everything that I'm doing I'm handling, you know, by myself like a small

you know, a group of people around me. But I need full structure behind everything when I'm doing I really need um management as far as with the music side of things, because it's like I'm doing everything, I'm shooting my videos and putting out music by myself. But that takes money, like radio budget. You know, you guys are radio gotta get paid. You don't that you don't just play a song because you like it, Well, we don't.

We don't choose the music just say, you know, there's a program directive, you know, but you know, I just want to like expand myself as a brand, just in my music modeling. Um um yeah, like March, I have a clothing line called Star Status Club, and you know, people don't know that it's mine. I don't know if I should even tell people because beating, but I get that,

you know, and it's doing good. And I just want to be able to just be really self sufficient, having like a dope team around me, ill artists, and be able to live in Jamaica. You want to live in Jamaica? Hell yeah, I don't want to live in America. Okay, so why don't you? I feel like you could. I work out here. I work out here, and you know, like contrary to belief, like loving hip hop. I don't know about other people, but I get paid really good

doing that show. You know what I'm saying, because because of my story in my past, they had to like really come like yeah, so you know when people was like, why are you doing that? Like y'all think it just want me tweet and post stuff on Instagram. You're not paying me? So you live in l A now, Yeah, so are you pursuing acting or so like y l A. Because you're from New York and you do the music thing.

New York is big for music too, you know. Yeah, And I really like in the past few months, I realized that as far as with the music, l A is not the place to be, especially being from the East Coast, you know what I'm saying. So I was in l A because that's just where I've been living

in the past nine and a half years. And then you know, after the split, that's just where I was, and it would have just been too crazy, Like New York is just it's a lot to live here, or you know, it would be a lot to move back. Are you good, like financially everybody asked me that, Um, you know, I'm not. Um, I'm not clearly where I used to be, but I'm not out here trying to figure out how I'm to get my next meal, you

know what I'm saying. Like, are there a lot of artists than you up asking you to like write and do stuff with them? Um? Not not really. I'm surprised. Maybe you should pursue that more, like maybe you should try to reach out to people. Yeah, but that's and

and that's and that's where the the management thing. You know what I'm saying, I feel like people will be having like to like you wait for people to come to you, but maybe you need to be more proactive as far as reaching out to people, Like no one's going to really shut you down, like it might be like, well let's see what he has, you know, Yeah, well like Kim and Shot is probably like one of the first people to like, like, I don't know who that is.

Sorry to like be like all right, hey, I'm working on this album. Help me do this boom boom. So you know what I'm saying. But mh, I'm pretty sure you have like real artists that reaching Man's right. Anyways, do you feel like you have a type like because I think you do, like a lot of your females

look similar. What do you think the type is body wise body as far as enhancements and stuff like body like body I like, I love I like buff, big breasts, but weird like a buff a buff round ass, like a like a slim slim waste and a flat stomach. So he likes body. Yeah, we noticed, But they don't gotta be big, they don't gotta be like thick and all of that. It's like slim. I used to like really big and things, but now it's like, I don't know, I'm starting to like, you know, I like slim. That's

the l A ship in l A Hollywood. You got the button down. I like that new style you got. I don't want to be ignorant over so I'm just trying to be you were ignorant? Ever, bro, do you remember how I came on the Breakfast Club the first first time I came back. You know, I had like twenty chains on, shades on and a hat and just got six. I gotta go, this is three. But but the crazy thing about it, I wasn't even the forefront artists and that's how I was walking around, so you know,

But then like that was the beginning. The money was new and it was still a new experience. Now I'm like way more like like that. You don't even matter to me anymore, you know what I'm saying. So sorry, Lessons learned in life. Yeah, I want to talk to people out there too, to you artists and people who make a lot of money, and just tell you save your money, don't waste it in the strip club, don't spend a lot of money on jewelry. You talk about

yourself because you learned. I'm saying I went through it, so I learned my lessons. So when I see certain artist ship, I'll just be like, yo, save your money. Is there anything you would have done differently? If you could go back in life and be like, like, what

what would you have done differently? I wouldn't have spent the amount of money I spent on jewelry, cars, motorcycles, um t rex is that's just I just spent a lot of money on material ship or like I could have my dream house in Jamaica would have been built instead of buying jewelry and cars and motorcycles. You don't felt like you spend a lot of money now? Hell no, I'm so cheap it's not even funny. Cancer Like, I wouldn't even say cheap. When it comes to when it

comes to close, I get a lot of ship for free. Now. The only thing I'd be having a page if I'm like, I don't even be paying for shoes like that. You know what I'm saying. So when it comes to close and all of that, I don't spend no money. What about other things like business wise, are the things you wish you would have done or handled? Yeah, I wish I didn't invest in the Philippe show in l a. Oh ship shout out to Manny. I really wish I didn't do that ship. Why what happened with that? It

just was horrible. Everything about it was for people that want to invest in restaurants, because that's like the hardest businesses. You just it's a hard business and you just got to know who you deal with. You can't let people talk and just act like they know everything and without real proof don't. They don't have it anymore. It's done how it's done. Okay. I don't know, you know what. I didn't really hear much about it, but I knew it was one and like a good idea. It seem Yeah,

I don't know why it seemed like it did. The Miami one folded to it then it Yeah, it's like New York is the only one meant to be right. Maybe his management though, and how it's run. It be that the chef, the food out there was so different. Fool out here, and I ate it. I'm like you, that's why nobody's coming to the one in l a The food don't take really should have hired Dora. Yeah, now he's a Red Sticks no Jun club. Yeah, the Felicia. It's not the same. The food isn't the same. Um,

it's the food. It's the same food, but it's our Julan. Red Sticks is close to yeh juiln club is where you need Juan is where you get the chicken and what else? Business wise, as far as for other people out there right now, things that you wish if you could go back, I should have did this. I should have invested in some property people. I should have went and bought twenty cars and made them all be ubers.

I shouldn't have helped so much friends with helping them pay their car notes, bailing them out of jail, helping them pay tickets, um, loaning them money. It's hard to not help your friends. Where are the exactly you still have all the same friends and now, oh no, I lost a lot of friends after that ship because just niggas are just so fake and phony. Exactly niggas groupies. And I did so much to help niggas. He thought everybody was bro and all that. Bro. Yeah, I go

somewhere fifty niggas walk with me. Yeah, but you were young. I wasn't even that young. The situation was young, like just all of this entertainment ships. So it's like, you know, how's the coconut oil doing. The coconut oiler is doing really good. But now my issue is that the person who I'm getting from their overseas and they just can't supply to Deman. I need a new distributor. Well that's a good problem. That's really problem. Yeah, that's stressful, but

it's still a good problem. Now once I did it, like I have a boat load that I'm waiting for right now, but it's on the boat. No, I'm joking. All right, Well, we appreciate you for coming through. I really wish thanks. Um oh, I wish the light was read. You could have put like a red tint on that thing right there. Listen. I'm gonna just tell you when I used to do lip service, we didn't have no money. I had an intern filming it. Who who's helping you

do it? Who was that serious? It was me and Leah and it was too differently it is the first year was Leah who was the music editor likes Out, And then it was Leah that started married to the mole clothing line. He act like the red light was gonna make him do a special dance and some ship like I'm gonna tell you what I heard the beast party from those lip services back then. He used to role play. Oh you used to do anything? Yeah, you used to do role play to do one of your

roles right now? Yeah? Yeah, just like that gag on it. Put all of it in there. This is in the headphones. I need to say things. Have phones. Le let him keep going. I gotta hear that that's not a role I was offered to start, Daddy, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. I was about to lock her up now you it was too much. And the phones. We take another STU opposite his handcuffs. You know, I mean tell you over here lying what's wrong with you? No? No, no, I've never used Why did you just say yeah? Because

I just was thinking about it. You never got tied up? Nah? When you mean you never tie anybody yet? M hm. You should experiment a little more blindfold what kind of a usual person? Eye contact? And I need to see everything, So I mean, you don't have to keep it on the whole time, but you can put it on for a little while to a split second. I need to see everything. Put it on her. Nah, I like looking at her eyes. I don't blind you or a love maker.

You're very passionate. You're type of president just say I love you when he's having sex and there's nothing wrong kissing the whole time, hurt and I'm gonna caress your face and make sure you're just. He's gonna make you a sandwich and then he's going to put you on Instagram and for the I g that you can post on your page but you can't and put some coconut oil on your lips. Should look at you. You do have new music out now too. Yeah, I got my new single out right now called Can't Lie. You know

you should listen to it. You know he just did a whole lot called Moucker. It's called Can't Lie. You really quick on your toes with your life come back? Um My EP coming up. It's called should have been? Did It? And you know when I drop it, it's gonna do what And He's happened for me? And just I told you that you hear me? You and you Breakfast club nigga to be talking all that ship? Did you feel bad for us that happen. I was laughing too hard to listen. You know what, when it comes

to you, I'm not gonna lie with you. I just be like, damn, Like you're such a nice person. I don't like when it comes to you because you just be looking so defensive and it's like you look so young and innocent. Maybe I could be wrong, really nice, That's what I'm saying. So it's just like I'd be like, damn, why, And you know what I'm saying, is the only one who he asked for it, who asked for it, who deserves its please? But y'all know what I'm saying. Envy.

Envy is very neutral. He just says whatever everyone else is thinking. And you just you know you did Charlemagne just make it entertaining, y'all. Thing should live together, We shouldn't. God, that would be a DESI and everything y'all just lived together. I would never be home, that would never happen. And he's going to take up all the rooms because he has all the kids, and he's gonna have mad chains and cars you have nowhere. I caught Charlemin Pigpen at

work because his corner and is disgusting. I'm like, who cleans up after you? It's disgusting. It's like just everywhere it's just crumpled up papers and napkins and cookies. Yeah, like three years ago. Those are disgusting. That she was there for like nine months. That is nasty. And then you'll have the game flag on the back. Charlotte maagne, that's your boy. Though. No, I like Charlott mane'd be roast me, like even like my mom hit me to the and said, make sure you don't do not what

Charlottage he was disting you on the radio today. But I got thick skins, and that's good. You gotta have thick skin. You can't. You can't. First of all, y'all doing your job. So one thing with me, I ain't gonna take your personal I'm not gonna be getting mad at you when y'all voice your opinion that you know about ship that everybody wants to hear what y'all think and what y'all saying. What I had tweeted that once I said everybody needs a safari, every woman needs a safari.

I remember that I tweeted that out, and I think you had to like to leat your didn't like that either. Yeah, you got in trouble for that. Sorry. Do you remember when you said it? Time of advantage? Just think about when you said it. When did you say this is interesting? Right? When did she say it's safari? I don't remember. I don't remember why I said it, but I was just saying that he was holding her down, like every woman

needs a Safari in their life. It's probably at the day they broke come and it's just like wrong timing what had happened. I thought it was a nice thing to say. That's a nice thing I'm saying, said my bad. Alright, so fire sorry, and that's the bottom of champagne next time. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right, Hennessy alright. We had to hear slip surface dropped my dog.