Episode 86: Ft. Keyshia Cole

for that. Are you happy? I'm totally happy with that. And I'm so excited about this project, so definitely all right because I know a lot of topics that we're gonna talk about today are probably in the music oh good as well. So we always started for the tip of the day. So today's tip is, say you go through your man's phone, right, and you see some messages with him and another check that you wasn't supposed to see.

What do you do after that? Do you tell him you went through his phone and admitted or do you just try to catch him? It depends on where you are on the investigation. You know, if this in some information that has been brought to your attention and you just want to stack it on top of some other information you've gotten presented. When the time is right, then that's something else. It's like a power point. You gotta know facts. So do you ever admit I went through

your phone? Because that's a touchy thing to tell somebody? Oh um, not if you're married. I don't know, but you probably just like just dating. Then I don't I don't know. That's just that might be weird because then he don't never check because then it turns into this home well, why was you going through my phone for it? And you might be a little too grown for that. Like if it's something I need to know and you don't tell me and the trust is broken, that's kind

of your bad. So let's just say he's in the shower. The phone is right there and it's ringing, and it's ringing, and he just went in the shower, but it's unlocked. You have the opportunity right now. Who is this calling? It's just a heart Usually did I was like, who the funk is this? Like I don't not, Kevin, No, let me tell you what this was? Like that's an old contact, you know how like you link up your

phone and it just automatically transpersed the numbers. I'm like, funk out of here, and I know you for three years. My ex was in the shower when his ex started calling his phone and then what you do? I wanted to answer it, but I didn't. Good job, you're mature, not me. Only we were. We were probably answered it, but we were away and it was our first night there, and I didn't want to ruin the weekends. Like you know, when I held you, somebody else I can't hold water.

I'm like, Nigga, I've seen you talking to Tasha talking about what's good for the night. Nigga was, so what's good me? You and Tasha hanging out? Because some people hold onto that information and bring it up like later that some people. I'll tell you right away, which one are you? Kish? I usually have a lot of stuff stack. Yeah, we gather at the station. We're shooting it at you. We're shooting it at you for real, light on the bed. I need to learn from y'all. Yeah, I've never done that.

Trivially speaking, Listen, there are great ways to cast guys cheating, like hair. You see some here that's not your hairs that's the problem. But it could be his mom and sister that's not really I don't know. They like my homeboy brought a bit over here. She wanted to use the bathroom. Yeah, my mom was took a nap. It's the maid. Also another good way to go through the garbage. I mean I never did that. Yeah, yeah, I'm just saying, but that is a good way. I'm not gonna lie

like my ex boyfriend. I remember it was like around Valentine's and I've seen a receipt in the garbage for like some gold jewelry. I wasn't even you know, okay, I might it. Look I was like, he didn't get me that ship, right, And I was like, who if I got some gold jewels? Trying to his mother if

he likes Hooper rings Michael Jordan's that's cold. But like holidays is when you catch people slipping because the fact because where you was, Because that's when you can really be like, okay, it's a holiday, what were you doing? Because you know, the day before Valentine's Day, in the day after Valentine's Day is side check day. Yeah I heard so, I hear. I'm glad for me. I just it's just and I don't react well, so I have to give it a break because that that I can

you go crazy. I can go a little crazy. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong. What's the craziest thing you ever did? Sometimes I feel like you know it's time to get out of a relationship when you act out of character, Like when you start doing it and you're like, this is not me. Why am I doing this? Well, it depends if you make me the other me, then it's totally me. Don't disrespect me. I don't like disrespect though.

What's disrespect? Um? I think I believe disrespect is not picking up your phone, not answering your text messages and things like that. Okay, that's cool, and you can't wake up what happened? Right? Yeah, don't leave me? Like on the I hate once I said ask something. I say something and it's not responded to, but they asked something else, right, that's like we were just talking about that. I hate that about that. He was answering everything else and yeah,

that's a question, hey babe. That last answer though, like to the question that I asked, though, I need to know, right, Sometimes that's when you got to pick up the phone. And call pick up the phone. You gotta facetip. You didn't get my last what you do? Are you good? Okay? Cool? So you was mad that I said what? All right? So you could have just addressed that and keep moving, like what is the problem? That's when you call what

you're buying on? You ain't get my last day? You got to be cute when you're trying to be sassy, you know about Sometimes that anger will just make you pick up the phone and no makeup and nothing on, like what with somebody feast times you and you're not ready? I don't Yeah, I'd be like, yeah, I'm not. I don't my rights. If I'm drunk, you might catch me slipping like suck it it's yeah, or you gotta answer

it like with the light off. Oh I love that you running turn the light off and then turn them right, Yeah, so they see if your eyebrows on fleet we had the phone point at the ceiling. Yeah, got a nigger next to you? What's up? Well? Who has ever FaceTime? Like? Damn man with a guy next to them? Damn y'all not hit me? Thinking like hell, don't be a minute, sat Yeah, I was thinking no Friday, Oh, yeah, yeah, Friday, that was it. Oh man, listen, I'm not doing all that.

Have you ever cheated? This is second time somebody asked me that today my first relationship. Yeah. Oh. Now when I first met Keisha Colch, she had a boyfriend when you first started and with side, and you came up with your boyfriend to the station. I remember him, and I was as serious, don't say that. I was like, this is the person she's talking about. That wasn't He asked me to buy him some shoes. I put him on the flight. What what he asked me some shoes

for you to buy some shoes. Listen, I'm gonna tell you why. It was weird because he did like he was doing her you know, she was doing her press runs and everything, and he was with her. And I was like, I remember, that's funny. I just remember this when you said that, and I remember being like this, don't feel like it's How did he get the ball to ask you to buy him some other fucking shoes? She was worthy ones create? Oh that babe, shoes expensive they are, and so he asked you to buy him

some shoes. He didn't have the money to buy him or he just don't. I don't know. I didn't even She's like, I'm gonna give a funk. How do you ask that? Yeah, that's why I sent them. I don't think I gusha ask a female for anything or a woman for anything, like and when it comes to like material stuff like hey, babe, I like this hoodie, can you buy it for me? The funk out of here? But we asked guys for stuff. That's totally different, is it. Yeah? Yeah, And if I want to buy you something, I'm gonna

go ahead and buy you something. I hate ask him, but I will. I will. I'm doing this, but I hate I would do it if I have to. Me too, But I would rather just buy a guy a gift or something I want him to have, versus some asks of me to buy it for. And I'm sure they feel the same one. Yeah, I would never ask it

to sexy to ask. I even feel funny if you ask, how you ask, because people would be like, well, tell me what you want, you know, And I even feel weird about that, like telling you what I want when you add see I'm a good heap, like it's good, like if you can figure it out. I got guys like to feel needed my head right now. Guys like to feel needed. They like to save you when you're like the damn plane. So what wid somebody asked you what you went right now with some things you would

say for anybody listening that just meran nemly want. I mean, I love shoes, so I see shoes are awesome. That's pretty much. Its shoes in persons of school. That's safe. That's safe. President, it's fair. Somebody asked me what I wanted the other day and I told him a Rolex. That's that's a good gift. I send him a picture of it and everything, and the one I wanted. I don't know to do that now. I'm telling you if you haint, you like, oh I need a new watch.

No had a conversation about the Apple Watch, and I told her that I'm gonna tell you to wear my Apple watching soil I get a Rolex and he was like, oh, what Rolex do you want? Here's the picture? Let me okay, right, as a matter of fact, now, let me ask you this. If somebody buys you a president but you don't like

them like that, do you accept it? If it's something or like it's a present, but don't you feel like, no, no, no, I feel like but feeling like saying thank you listen to you know, I how to issue with somebody that kept sending me press and I felt like she was like, stop sending me stuff. Yeah, I don't want that. It was nice stuff too, but I was like, please don't send me stuff because I don't like you, and I

feel bad taking stuff. Like if I like you, when you give me something that's different, but if I don't like you, you're sending me stuff. I feel like that's me acting like I like you back. But did you make it clear that you didn't like him like that? Like where y'all just cool? You know he was obsessed with her? Yeah, okay, I know who it is. You know. I don't know if I would have took them off gifts. Can take your gifts and get the funk on. Yeah.

I feel like if you don't like somebody and you said gets something that's kind of like leading the morning, then you feel obligated, like to go on a date or give them a hand job. Wait, no, you went too far. You're not obligated to give anybody a hand job. That hand job wasn't was it reciprocation to the to the eating the box. He ate the box and I gave him a hand job in return. Oh my god, I didn't want to put my mouth on it. Hand mouth right here, right at the mic, because you know

that anticipation. Yeah, it made you bust it right off, spitting on It was kind of the same friend somebody you don't like that. It's like it wasn't because I didn't like him. It was just because I didn't want to It was too soon, and I tried to stop him from eating my by his dad. Yeah. Well this was after like a long time, like a long period of time had went by, and I was just like all right, just one ahead and got it, got you. It's like a happy ending. It was a happy ending.

He was happy with the ending. He was okay, I just listen. Guys are just happy if they bust no matter how it happens. Is the queen of hand jobs. I'm starting to learn over the past like a few weeks, and I've known Gig for a while, but this is the most hand jobs. Same handjob story. I knocked that one happened in the car. No, I can't do a hand Okay, do you use hands when you do a handshob if it's big enough. Whoa you know what that does?

Suck when you got to do the hand job but only three fingers, three fingers fingers, I gotta seem big. You fingered him crazy? All right? Now, have you ever had we were just talking about this right before you came in, right, have you ever been with a guy and knowing that like he's messing with other people and had the other woman call you, would you give give up like okay, yes, I am sucking with him? Or do you defend him? Um? I don't know about that.

I've definitely been the one to call. We're gonna ask that next year. I could believe that definitely. What do you say that when you call? Now, let me ask you this as a woman, when you call, are you aggressive and rude to the women? Or are you like, hey girl, you know just women to women? First of all, I'm not even my friend's gonna do that or something like we're gonna get all the information from her. She's

definitely going to feel bamboozoo when we're done. But is it like a sweet because sometimes it's not the other woman's fault like they of course they don't know whatever. But sometimes it is sometimes and sometimes it is sometimes it's like you see where marriedly thought I was the only one beside She thought she was the only one besides me. So she was fine with being You're like

second and commit. She said that to you. She said that to my friend alright, was saying she was messing with him too, So she was just trying to you know, Oh, I get so you had your friend hit her up and be like, you know, I'm messing with him too, Like what's up at y'all? And she was like, damn, I thought I was the only woman be Damn. That's how you find out everything. Good trick girl, right, like your friend and little they don't know. Uh, this is crazy.

So she had her friend called the girl and act like she was messing with the guy, and found out that she was messing with the guy. That the girl didn't know that you were friends with her. Damn. So she's telling everything. If somebody calls me about the blue and I don't know that I'm hanging up, well it depends because we already had a lot of information from

her number, damn text messages and stuff like that. So you already knew it was up and she couldn't really deny that, you know what, So now when that happens, right, this is interesting to me. Now are you mad at him or are you mad at her? Because sometimes a woman likes so much of everybody. But it really starts with the god that you would absolutely day. I mean, you know, I'll grew just running up on a chick

unless you know, he said, I outgrew it. We don't never want to see you run up on no check man for that, right, you can't be running up on nobody. Yeah, that's true, But in a way, it's kind of dope. It is. It is, it is, and the way it's kind of like because it's very human because it's something that like, yeah, but these people don't be playing fair all here. They can't be doing that in the industry because you go to jail, right, That is another fact.

And I feel like a lot of women take the side of the man and they're always mad at the other woman and they go right back to the man like nothing happened. I hate that man, Come here, baby, get me kiss, Like what the fun with him? Like he wasn't just sucking sucking somebody else in war amongst the Instagram users, right, who has the better pictures? Hey? Nos, I don't know. I'm so out of that loop. Do

you believe that monogamy can exist? Because I know before we discussed this and you felt like all men cheat, Yeah, I think they do too, damn, and some form fashion they're very can't help it. He better not be cheating. You think I'm men cheat, Yeah, and Loria in some shape form of fashion. Rather it's emotional cheating or physically cheating, or they fucking stay doing something. They are fucking like somebody something somewhere, baby mom, fucking bitch from high school college.

But are just a sixty years old the stripper You think sixty year old year old. I don't know nowadays, I just think sixty year olds is in the strip club looking for a little The young girls as long as they got a couple of dollars they couldna. I'm not gonna like guys can't cheat just as much. Broke niggas don't know job to seat the most really, because broke niggas ain't got nothing else to do. But fuck of course they're cheating. Damn, ain't got no abilities. Think

about it. And you know, what I always say about women too, Like if we're not busy, that's when we get really obsessed with things. That's true. That's happened to me. Yeah, I told you that when you ain't got like, when you're busy, you don't have time to be worried about what a guy is doing. That's a fact. But when you are really busy, it don't really matter because you what, we got a little gaming gonna play with you. All right, it's called in that order. And you put this in

order from what's most important at least important to you? Okay, all right? Put this in order of importance. Success looks humor and loyalty. What's most importance? Success? I said, sex? Success looks humor and loyalty, our loyalty. Um, and you in my overall in life with a man, oh just with a man with a man, what's more? What's most important? Is he successful? Does he look good? Is he funny? Or is he loyal? I've never had a loyal man, so I don't know, good lord, because you now, what

are they doing? Um, I don't know. That's kind of a tough one to what's the most important out of those things? If they're successful, if they look good, if they're funny, or if they're loyal. If you had to put that, I'm gonna say loyal. Loyal's first, because you never had that. You want that? Yeah, I would like to get a chance to see what it's like. What is that I want to take that loyalty. I want to see that loyal to say, all right, we'll so

what's second? Then successful? Okay, and then third it's either it looks or humor. Humor would be nice. I want you to not cheat on me and make me laugh. I mean I agree, that would be That would be my order. So that I was kind of tossing up successful for loyalty because I mean, but I would choose loyalty if you do a good life. I mean, it depends on the love one, sucide. I just don't want

to cheating that nigger. For seven years he was success, he was successful, but you not be six spelling cheat. I mean that's a fact. And then and then you know, if he's not successful, he can always become successful. He could not or he could just be a bum. So yeah, but yeah, I would give the same because we all know I'm not into looks. So last looks its definitely. I mean, I'm pretty enough. I don't need my men to be pretty. But it looks last too. Yeah, I mean,

I don't know. I mean, why are you laughing at Paris? Somebody's laughing, Paris is laughing. He's like, ugly duties. That's nice like that though. I'm definitely like that. It's called settling. Yeah, that's what I think. But she's like, if Stephanie was here today with us, she would put looks first. She would she wouldn't put looks first, would put success first, because you put looks second. Sea, what do you say? I would definitely say loyalty first. I would kind of

go with them until we get to the funny. Like I feel like I could be funny enough and then you can look good. You go. But if you don't laughing, none of your jokes, fuck him laughing myself funny. You gotta be able to laugh at yourself. Like, I'm not nothing worse. Let's be for rare. There's nothing worse than a guy with no sense of humor. That's true, that's that is true. But I'm putting that last because I want to ugly as mother fucking neither ugly but he

laughing my job, I'm cool, I'm cool. You gotta look like something. I would move, Yeah, I would move, looks up. But you had two other hard ones. So you say, what's first? Loyalty has to be first. I'm crazy. Yeah, I don't play that ship like, I don't like that. You think a guy could be loyal but still cheat on you, you better figure out a way to be a loyal cheater. Like, Okay, I look at it like this.

It's disrespect that really makes the cheat and worse. So it's like, if I find out about it, like if you fund the girl on vacation on the God's trip and you don't know the bitch name number, you're okay

with that. I'm not saying I'm okay with it. But if I don't know about it and I'm never gonna find out, I'm more okay with that than a bit that I'm like, if you never find out, never happen, huh, if you never find out in exactly what I'm saying, So we're on the same page, so don't then it's not gonna even want to do that to me like that, right, Yeah, me either, never had that, Like I don't I don't. Yeah,

but maybe it's the guys you pick. Yeah, that's a fact because sometimes having guys just like in the spotlight, like being married to an NBA player or dating somebody that's like an artist you already know. Like, so basically she should have brought the goudam sneakers. Yeah, if you would, you do it with some babes and be thank you. I'm loyal with my babes. All right. Put this in order, Dick's eye tongue action for play or freak level? What's most important? Is it big? Can he eat you? M

is he good at for? Or is he a super freak do anything? No, I don't want that one at all. Actually, which one? Freaky? Don't do anything? So freak is last? Yeah, definitely you are. You're not freaky kijra um. I mean what are you called? No? Really, I wouldn't imagine And no, okay, I'm gonna be honest. I'm not that freaky either. I feel like this ship I do like I do regular ship. Really well, I'm freaky. I'm disgusting you are? Yeah, well, yeah,

definitely discussed. I'm a nasty Yeah, I have friends to say that. Look lick assid ship looks at I did guess that nasty man to clean ask and yeah, they have to be here. There's an ask that's clean. No, no, fresh out the shower, booty. I don't like. No, I just played ball as he got. He can't even be deserving. Couzy ass you. Yeah, I don't know about that. You've never looked in ask you never had anybody ever asked you to. They don't ask. They would That would be like, nigger,

what's going on here? Somebody me before he actually asked, Oh hell, you did look at me and you did it. Yeah, you don't have to ask. You don't have to ask me. I'm not gonna lie. You don't mind asking. Yeah, if I let you ask you and give me this person jump in order for me to be like, okay, I'll do it. Buck like that. I got this. Michael core I've never owned the Michael Cords anything, be clear? No what I never owned the Michael Cords anything? Levels you

look at you look at Chanelle? Yeah, Chanelle asked. If you look at Chanelle like like, I'm sorry, what have you saying? What if you say it but instick your finger in it too? I mean I probably might have just stuck my finger up and it works. I don't worry. You gotta learn how to do it. I'll teach you. I've never thinking, but I don't know about this. So you never put a finger up any guys. But I don't want to put a finger up. I mean, I don't want to put two or three and that's crazy one.

It's time. Look sometimes you think, am I wrong? Like no, no, no, no, okay, thank you? You spect the guy with a strap on? Okay, no, see that's too fine. I did not. He asked me too, and I said, no, I haven't even seen a shop on other than the corners. Okay, he wants to water these names, so I noticed, stay away. I'm telling you know, not like but the guy I tell you know, because the guy that asked me the first like, he's like, you know, and I couldn't believe it either. But I

was like, fuck it, what did I gotta lose? I've never had a guy asked me for it, but I've had them gesture they make the movie, they're asking what they just kind of like to meet. That's weird, don't the balls? They're trying to just like open it up a little bit. So that. Okay, what if they're what if they're like face down. I've never done it to a guy while down. I've only done it to a guy while he was on. But sometimes, but sometimes you can't get him to hold their legs up in the air. No, yes,

let's see, I haven't be going crazy. Listen, if a guy gets on his face and puts his ass up, I'm not his back hold his own feet like. I mean, if after a while I fell a good and he's just kind of like moving into it, that that might not be so bad. Okay, about to go this mask? What if he's like posing Hennessey in my button? She's like, well, then I like some brown Okay, she still has to pick the order. We don't want to. I'm sorry, so freaky levels last for you, what's first? Dick size, tongue

action or four play four play four place first? I feel you alright? So between dick size and tongue action with second, would you rather have a nice dick or be able to eat your pussy? Good? You have to be so vogar im sorry. Would you rather have a nice size fallast or I'll be able to perform more sex? And you really well I've never heard of a kind of lingus. Oh my god, what the fund is that? Sex? Oh? I don't know these fancy words. Suck? I know what

that means. I would say oral, okay, eat you out, definitely, okay, be nice, there we go. I always say you gotta look it before you stick it, because I feel like it's like an initiation process you love with the person. Like it's like, okay, have you ever listenbod to eat you out? And then not them after my hands in the air because you can't hear that. Yeah, I really listen. I don't know. After today, we're not gonna tell the story no more, y'all. But I really tried to stop him.

I didn't want him to eat my pussy. Stopped him. I even put my pants back up, and then he got them back down. And then when I felt myself about to come out, just let loose. Do you like to come from Would you rather come from earl sex and from sex? Or I would rather have an internal orgasm than an external orgasm because I can give myself plenty of those. I can't give myself an internal orgasm.

You can't give yourself head. I mean external orgasm with my fingers or with my tour But it felts different with your fingers than with a tongue a man, totally different. It is a different feeling. But I would rather an internal orgasm from a man. You can give your head to dad too, if you have no I don't, I don't, we don't need. I don't do that. I don't put my fingers inside strap on. I don't have one. I don't like those. I need my penis to come warm

with the body attached. I thought you're talking about europenis that I'm receiving cow cow cash. I need five penis. I'm I'm pretty that there's a penis somewhere and used sex from penetration. Um, it depends. I mean, when you what feels better love someone? I mean, you know, anything feels good. That's what love is great? Right? I like when I come from our sex and then we have sex right after, right after. Yeah, that's how you got. I like to come from our sex and then like

fright in while it's still sensitive. Yeah, put it in me. Why I'm still and as you're putting it in me while I'm still taking Jesus just like I don't want to really think about all this. But okay, eight months, like real months, you know, don't get right? Okay, I don't want to start with you today. Eight months? Was that a content decision or did it just happen? Um? Both half and half because I really did want I would like to go for a year and a half

if possible, definitely a year if I can. But um, then I was like, I almost did it once and it didn't happen, so that was good. Damn, how does that happen? Now? He has blue balls? Blue balls is a real thing. I found out you have blue balls? Okay, but can you do other stuff? No? Like if you don't have you don't have to have sex. If we're doing anything, it's going down like period I had had. We ain't gonna when we get started, can't stop. Damn.

I'm proud of you. Congratulations. I've never did no ship like that before, neither since I was twelve, when I was a virgin. Eight weeks and be like, right, the longest I ever went with like three or four months, like and I was after a really bad breakup. I didn't want nobody to touch me. Get the funk out of here. I didn't even want to touch my damn self, like I was cool. Have you been masturbating doing these eight months? Nope? Actually I don't have a your finger, yeah,

well I don't like to use. When you come to breakfast club, I'm gonna have a toy for you to take. I got you. Don't you worry. He's start in trouble though, because if I do that, it might be I might start thinking about you might break the seal. I want you to have sex. That's not okay. What's sex years? One year? She wants to go at least one year? Who have sex? Based your hand? I might want her to have sex. Yeah, you might not be that nice

to people sometimes bump on my face. You got sex, it's been so long since that those like, my body is over it now, I think. But sometimes you haven't had Like if you haven't been having sex, it makes people have an attitude over that home. I think, yeah, yeah, I mean after like your corn is looking at me and giving me the thought feel like you gotta have Sometimes they be sucking up and they I mean, okay, that's happens. And when you have sex, you can overlook that.

I don't give a fun about to get something good, like I want to be excited about that, like you don't. It doesn't entice me like that too unless I really like the person and I don't have anybody that I really like like that. Can you think of like the best sex you've ever had? Yeah, you know when that Like how long ago was that? And were you in love when it happened? Definitely, because some people equate like being in love to having great sex, but something because

it's that passion. She was awesome. I'm in love with being in love for sure. So you're open to like being in love again, getting married again? Yeah, if God sends me my best friend, Oh you pray for that. Sweet. I feel bad even talk about half this stuff anymore? Can we rewind? All right, let's put this in order. He can cook, he can dress well, he smells great, and he has a nice body. What's most important out of those things? He can cook, he can dress, he

smells greater, nice body. What's first? Um smells great smell, they always say it's one of the most important things. You know you love somebody if you're attracted to the way they smell, and you know you don't love somebody when you smell them, and it makes you sick. Oh my god, that's the worst. It's your musties. I don't think we got to be musty? Real way to tell? Like attraction? Okay, so that's first. What's second? Can cook? Can dress? Or a nice body? Um, a nice body

would be great. Okay, he sho would be great. I mean working with these pot belly ass I totally understand. Alright, some nice body? Alright? Cooking are dressing? What's the most important out of those two? Dressing? All right? So cooking all mad? It to you? Because we go out to eat, we can order end. Can you cook, chef? Yeah? I mean if I'm hungry, if you hungry, it depends like you couldn't working, you know, if I feel like it. Do you cook for guys? Often? You could for your

sound though. I feel like when you have kids it makes you like be a better cook. It depends off if I'm working a lot. She just had chef, right, so therefore that's the way she cooks. Whatever the way the chef cooks, or one of them in the cruise something like that. They're doing less than men. Yeah, you like, like I worked all day. Somebody gotta cook. All right, let's put this in order. He gets along with your friends, gets along with your family, gets along with his family,

or you get along with his friends. What's most important? I never get along with the friends. Why do you laugh like that? I just think it's funny. I've gotten along with people friends before that ship. Don't do nothing fun them like your friend. Your friend is encouraging to you to fun a bit at the club as they walk away, right, your friend right there with you. You don't siss me and then get the funk out of here? Who that bitch with the hearts calling? Oh that's his daughter.

Just happened, you know that just happened. That's why I said it came a baby. He's like, no, that's his daughter. I guess the calling your daughter baby? Now at two o'clock in the morning, your eight year old daughters calling you? Stop, she's up. So I do not want to care. I do not not all right? So you get along with his friends his last all right? So what about gets along with your friends, gets along with your family, or gets along with his family. Oh that's just I don't

even care. I don't. I mean, I've always had problems with like mothers and sisters and stuff. But you have why is that. I mean, you're seem like a very loyal person. I just don't. I mean, when you're dealing with somebody and their family, their family is gonna, you know, protect them and take up for them and as they should as well as mine would do for me. So you just can't really, I don't. I don't really get that caught up in the moms and the friends and

the whole sisters all that. I don't know. I don't know. It feels like people's family members tould be excited like me, you know, my brother dad. Yeah. I don't want to fake fake stuff though, Like I would prefer to have something that is authentic really you know, know me, love me for me, like I'm one of them, you know, right. But it feels like you're guarded though, Like I'm very guarded. So it has to be hard for somebody to be like, hey, go out with my sister, go all my mom. No, no, no, no,

thank you, thank you. I agree. I don't like that feeling like feeling betrayed either. I don't like feeling like I'm just one of the one of many. Yeah, because then I don't like the way that makes me feel. So I try to stay away from that, all right,

So none of that important. She's like, what do you say, Like you were in a relationship for a long time, you got along with his mom and his family, and everything was that important to you well being as though that we were together for so long and we had eventually moved into a family home. It was very important because the family was around a lot and the family was in our home. A lot got you a lot, A lot, A lot too much? Are a lot too much?

But um, it was it was important to me for both of our families to get along because I had a very large family, and with me having had moved from Georgia back to the northeast region whatever Try state area it was, it was. It was made it able for my family to get to see me more because they're so close to FILII. So our families had to get along because Thanksgiving and all that type stuff, we would bring them around each other. So that was important for me. I think it's more important for me to

get along with family than friends. Absolutely cool. If I had to choose, it's just me. I mean, if it happened naturally, well then I feel like it's authentic. I definitely I'm not opposed to it, but I mean, you know, I've been lied to a lot about you know, God and stuff like this. How much like that? Right? I really do? Like I wanted tobody to step up to the plate and be like, I ain't gonna do ship wrong to you. I'm gonna take care of you. I got you, I'll say, But that's not what would be

like with guys they say anything. I feel like, I don't know, because I feel like people feel like they know you, like after watching you on TV. They know your family, they know everything you've been through. We see a cute little Daniel Gibson Jr. Like, I feel like people feel like they know you and they should not come around if they're gonna be sucked up with they do. So how do you meet guys? Now? That's the thing. That's why I just need to back up off of it,

because I don't. I mean, I'm I'm working, working, are working, just like where else am I go? You know, But sometimes you gotta feel like, man, I just want somebody to go to dinner with, or go to the movies with, or have a night inside and chill. And I actually access got to go to the movies with me. But I'm just like, mm hmm. He probably just you don't rather have the girls just come on? Give him some ass to go see hidden figures. He probably like that.

Actually it's personality. Yeah, good, so he said no. He didn't say no, but he wasn't like hype about it. I mean, you know, like pull up on me or something like that. It's like, no, you can't be dating No dudes that say pull up on me, no more, come on pull up on me. Yeah, if I did, if I asked, I didn't work. I thought that was over anyway. Like I thought that was like a couple of years ago. I didn't know people still even pull up on me. You need a guy? That's like what time?

Where should I come get you already bought the ticket? She working and stuff like that. You know what I'm saying. But don't you feel like when guys are even if they're busy, it means a lot if they make time. Like I don't care how busy you are. If it's important to you and I say, hey, let's go to the movie. Hey, if I if I want to make time and I can't make time because I'm working, work

comes first. But you can also say, well, I know on two was day at three, right, from three to six, I have time, like you know sometimes some at some point, right, I felt that way too. Yeah, that's I mean, that's just what I'm saying. Get it, we're all busy. But at the same time, that's exactly why I pulled up on nobody. Yeah right, pull up. Yeah, I'm don't hit me when you're ready to go to the movies, And that's how we do that. What level of crazy do

you like from a guy? Because I feel like we all like guys that are like, we'll go a little crazy over us, Like what level on the skiller went too? Like too much jealousy? But I definitely want you to show that you care and that you're that interested and keeping me around. Right, Yeah, because I offended dated a guy and like she would try to make him jealousy.

He can't give a funk about nothing. Damn. She would do ship like let's go somewhere for the weekend and go for the weekend and not tell him, just to see if he would and she wasn't doing nothing, and he would just never care. So I don't think he liked her that much, but he did. He's just it was his personality. No, like to this day, he's still like that type of person like okay, cool, have fun, Like I don't want anybody crazy, but act like you

care at least if anybody. That's not even crazy. If anybody just leaves and you like somebody and care about somebody and they just leave and don't say anything, you should fell away if you like them, that's not crazy. That's normal, you know? Is that normal? Just like, oh, it doesn't matter you went to wait for the weekend. Cool. That's because he's doing what he is. That's what I would think. He doesn't question met right. That is true when you when people don't ask you nothing because they

didn't want you to ask them. That correct, very true. You're newly single, as I always single, I keep very happy about it. Would you be willing to because you know what men and women did would bak up so differently, very differently. It's weird right now because even though we say that it's a new break up, we've really been broken up for almost seven months now. We just we're still living together. Do you still like stalk him on Instagram?

Absolutely not. That's how you know. That's what you know, it's when I stopped looking to see what the funk you're doing. Absolutely not. I mean I really don't give a funk about you. I mean, he don't post nothing anyway, so he's a lurker. I see him post Snapchat. See I don't follow him on Snapchat, blocked him my Snapchat. I don't want to follow his Snapchat and I don't him following my snaption. He was blocked from all of my social media, and then I unblocked him from Instagram

and he unblocked me back. But that's as far as the goals. I've unblocked him so he can see because he was gonna be looking anyway, so you might as well just have access. Don't go to that back up or just going to Instagram, dot com, slash Gi McGuire. It's not that hard if you're not private. Do y'all feel like that's petty because I will always block like my ex, like every time we got every time we

gone to it. That's the first thing I would do is block him off my Instagram because I knew didn't meet him mad, I knew it, but I'm because I wanted him to see that. I'm happy people, black people. I mean, it depends on the level of disrespect. I'm yeah you, like, I don't want to deal with you. I don't even just give me a minute, and then you I'm blocked him. I do the same thing. I'm over you. I don't think I block anybody ever. I want you to see, like ship popping over here. That's

why I'm blocked them this ship anyway. And I also want to make it something like I really don't give a fuck. They friends will tell them I might follow you, but I'm not gonna like I don't know. I've had plenty of situations where like my ex are called me, like, oh, someone so just told me they've seen you doing axe to stay the funk off my page. I'm gonna block him. To which friend told you block anybody? But you know what guys do. Sometimes they say ship that's not really true,

just to try to catch you. It needs to be true. I can see that. Yeah, they'll be like I heard you was in the with this person and it might not be true, but they just say that because they think you're gonna confess all you're telling yourself. Yeah, y'all, dumas myself. I mean that you felt for that. I'm like, yeah, I know you felt for that. I felt for a lot over the years with my AX. But I learned

a lot from that relationship as well. I honestly feel at this point that our relationship was very helpful to my growth as a woman. That put me in a place where I'm happy that I am right now. So I thank him for that. And um, you know, I'm just ready for the next chapter and ready to just like move on and do my own thing. All right, Well, before we finish this, keeach you co is there anything that you haven't done in the bedroom that you would

like to do? Um? Finger in the butt? His but no, no, no, no? What about a year? But can I guy put a opinion in your butt? And that's okay? Um, you haven't. Nobody's try that. It throws me off. It's a little nasty, honestly, No finger will ruin the whole move from. I could be like about to come if you put a figure in my but we got to start back over and I don't like it. Yeah, no, thank you? So what about a ton But I've never had that either? What

the fun? I never had that either? And what are these guys doing you better try to finger her, but let her b Now, we gotta find you a good guy, could find everyone. We have to find you a good freaky guy. Good guy, but he's freaky. You gotta get turned out. It's gonna make Keysha turn her. You ever

been turned out? No? No, she just says she doesn't need to freak to be But what I'm saying it turns out like regular sex was so amazing that she was like, I want to be with him, but like sometimes you could be with somebody in this sex is so good that prevents you for breaking up. You know what I mean? Yeah, Like I come every time. I don't want to give this up, but I can't stand him right, Yeah, the entire bid is what it's a problem. Squirt.

All right? That is awesome and found out something. Don't you feel accomplished? Today? A new song album called I Squiled a little weird. We'll squirre me. That's good. I've never squared out? What did I do? All right? Well, Keishak was here with us. When is the new album coming out? Do we have a date? Thank you? Finally talking about the album? Well, we talked about you at first.

Listen breakfast club. We're gonna talk all about the album that service were talking all about Keisha now I know so um No, it comes out very soon maybe and May we're shooting for and it's called eleven eleven reset. Let me let me make a wish that soon, come make a wish. I'm excited for that, you know I do that all the time. To see it all the time, I'd be happy as fun. When I look at my

mother wish. They say that, like needs, you're aligned with your stars, that right, and you can't yeah there, and you can't wish for more wishes. That's not fair. I have done that. What oh you've been wishing for more wishes? Keeps you? I don't wish it all. I just think positive, right, I make wishes and I still do it like tho pennies in the fountain when or I just show gratuity happy for sometimes I thought a quarter thinking that Shou'd

gonna make No I need my quarter. Let goes eleven and eleven and right now the single you is out. We just saw you. I told you, we just saw you perform that. I like that. Listens your cold songs still get me through, like a lot of things, I'm telling you all my way to New York today, I listened to her first album. I was singing it, Jim, because what I like, you said, I can listen to

the balance everything. Sloy told me that he was like when I trained, I listened to your music, Like I really I really like your music, like I really do. I'm like, you train them my music, Like what emotion is that? Like, I babe, he don't listen to the remix of t I on it? Then that was all. But I do feel like you like the voice, feel like the young girls that are just like real young real girls. It's not like no poppy ship. No, you know, we can really relate to that. And you'll run up

on a bitch. So that's also something more. She not into that no more, but I feel like if somebody took her there, she might can't think she might run up right now, it's happened, yeah, and I hope it doesn't happen ever again. Yeah, we don't want to read it batch you on no more blogs, but don't want to see you getting arrested. So that's matters. I don't want to be over no dude in jail because he did something so right, because some would change you. He

felt like, definitely, that's the living my life. That's my baby. I gotta protect him, right right, I can't protect him going and then and that's good. Like I look at your instagram. First of all, you like to let it everything off your Instagram. That's for like a few tees everything. Why just you know that's cool? All right, Keisha Code and Lift Service, thanks for coming back. We very interesting different.

I think it's awesome. No, I like it right. We got We're glad we got you to open up a little because we know Keisha call is like she's inspired me. But you're gonna be born again. First of all, I'm gonna I'm trying to reset my instagram. You're gonna stop sucking masturbating so much. I'm not gonna masturbate. You're not gonna figure guys think I'm gonna have sex my why tonight? Skin clear to me? I mean it looks real clear.

I don't know what he was talking about right though, pretty much, because see I don't know if I could go for it really was bad. It was so big. I was like, oh no, I'm gonna reset that Instagram. Let's start there. I'm like you come over, come back to people. You come here, eat my pussy. No. Thank you guys for having me crazy. You're crazy. Thank you, guys,