Episode 85: Ft. Trey Songz

to playboy what he's looking for love. So that's why we're actually gonna start up with the tip of the day, all right, and we're gonna give a tip. What can a woman do to stand out? Like, what are some things that a woman can do for you? Because it's times that you've settled down somewhat. What have those women done that have made them stand out from the rest? Ah,

that's a good question. Actually, what can a woman do to stand out in a way whereas though she makes me, she gets my attention to the point where I'm settling down with her kicking it in that way, it's just being attentive, you know what I mean, Paying attention to details, which is different to talking. By the way, it's not on my social media paying mad attention to everything, right, No, it's definitely different than that. It's it's just paying attention

to you know. And I'm moving a lot, like I'm working a lot, and it's a lot of things going on, and it takes I think a special kind of woman to understand, uh that every time you're moving around, you're not getting into some ship, you know what I mean. So, uh, a woman that's just there for your needs. Like you know, I'll do a lot for a lot of people in my relationships. I do a lot for the woman I'm with, So I just need somebody to do a lot for me.

Like even if that's just making sure I'm fit, making sure, you know what I mean, like popping up somewhere where you know I might need you to be popping up now, popping up Its cool, we've like I'm not saying pop up, like you know what I mean. But if it's a special day for me and you and I'm trying to get you there and you you you're working or whatever, uh, and you make time for what I need you to be there for. Like, but I like a woman that has a schedule that needs to be averted from you

know what I mean. I don't like a woman that can just pop up and go anywhere anytime. Okay, that makes sense. What do you say, Stephanie? What makes somebody stand out for you? What makes a guy stand out for me? While like I'm I'm the type of woman I don't reach out. I'm not the type of person to a call or a text. So a guy, you know, being attentive and like really reaching out and looking for me and always you know, keeping up. That was That's what sticks out for me. That's where I always I'm

the befalling Thanks Tray. When you say attention to detail, like, what are some details about you that a woman that pays attention to you would know? Uh? When? Um, when I'm exhausted, but I'm still going when I need a break? Is it like in the bedroom he's talking I'm talking about in life tonight, talking about when you when you need a break and you need like you need just what up? Boy? Kane is here, but inter you can't gonna be in and out all day. But maybe gifts

for the dog for Kane helps? No, that definitely helps y You want to watch Kane can always you want to clean up Kane ship. We got people for that. Just like like step said, attention to detail most definitely, like just uh like don't be a knack but and don't be mad. And I think in this day and age like of texting and people, you know, being so easily reachable, uh inattainable, Like people get upset when you

don't hit them back quick. I need somebody that's not on that that somebody like you hit me back because you know, like I remember when you had to call somebody like you appreciate phone calls. Okay, you appreciate phone call, dude, Like I think the art of conversing and having real conversations and not better than because it's so passive. You could retext wrongs. You can. Uh, it's so passive as well.

You could do whatever why you type, But when you're talking to somebody, you got to give them a certain money of your attention and a certain amount of detail. I always feel like that that's how you know a guy really likes you when he actually will pick up the phone and call you want to talk, like FaceTime from rocking with you on face something you like we're in the studio and facetithing you know what I mean, Like, well, I'm doing vocals, Like but if if I'm rocking with you,

I want you a part of my day. Now, what if a woman gets like too familiar with your friends? Oh yeah, sorry that question. She's about to say something. No, I'm not. What I'm gonna say is that I'm a person that man, by the way, Jesus newly single, so she am new kind of rules. I don't have the rules, but I'm just one of them type of people that chemistry is everything for me, and I like the person that is genuine and that's themselves and it's not trying too hard to be what they think I might want

them to be or think I might like. How can you tell the difference? You can feel that you know when it's real. So some guys are good actors. Some guys are really good actors too. They I'll tell you anything, to tell you anything, just to just to get what I want. I think that's uh, it's corn. Yeah, I think that's been out here. That's what everybody of course.

But I've never been I've never been wanting to get like play like that either, because I like that's why the Tremaine the playboydy thing was so like you already think I would do that. That's on y'all, you know what I mean, Like that's you never got played, Like not of course anybody been played, but in the context of continuously getting played the same way, like, that's not

something that happened, you know what I mean. My my thought process is, you know, if you if you see and spend enough time with the person, you know what they're into you for, you know what I mean. And if you take the time to really assess yourself and assess the situation of any relationship, business, relationship, friendship, whatever, you you can gauge what somebody wants from you, and you have good intuitions, you could gauge what you want

to give them. Because any relationship is for the benefits, for the benefit of two people. It's over very much. So g what can the guy do to stand out for you now that you're single. I was laughing at the door, sorr, okay, bad, Yeah, just just keeping it one hunted and being genuine. It's a lot of you know, loyalty is vintage. In the words of my friend Brooklyn Carter and it's a lot of just like fiitness going on these days. And I'm a very real person and

I'm always be genuine and give you one hunted. So what if things like I got a girl, but I still want to sucking. I still like you are you

cool with that? I'm off that to my thing is like and it's tough though, it's tough for me, like to get a situation where that's I feel that's uh enough for me to start a famine all that because and this day and there's like women will sacrifice what they what they want in life, what they accustomed to because of who I am or what status I have, Like I tell the truth and all my relationships, like it's it's hard for me to stay what's the truth.

The truth is, it's hard. It's hard for me to be with one Woman's hard for me to while I'm moving around everywhere I go, like and to be to be consistently lower to one person. What if you had a kid though, that really might change? No, But that's why I haven't had a random child. That's why I don't have children because I haven't found the person that I think and I think that was you're looking to settle down and had The thing is Tremaine, the playboys

are sending them for my life. Like, if you really pay attention, you see that in it's only been the first episode in the first video, but you see the love interest being in. That's a consistent thing in my life, whether it be one woman for two years, for three years.

And I never been one to put my relationships on for the greater evolution of my career, Like you don't know who I really been kicking it with, Like it's rumors about this and that, but I never put my relationships out there for a greater game because I want a real relationship. But truth be told, the tremainean playboy is that's what it is for me. Like if I leave, that's what you said, Well, it's not more dudes in the party, because it don't be nobody in the party

be me and twenty girls, Like it'd be like that. Yeah, it is like when you're young and put I gotta make it two thousand five? Could you deal with the

women who doesn't like other women? What you say? I mean those the relationships I end up in, But like I probably need a woman that like other women, but I ain't gonna take her home to my mama, Like this the type of ship I think about, you know what I mean, Like I like women that like women, But I'm not gonna take that home and be like I'm about to marry her because we'd be having three somethings and going crazy. She do what I wanted to do even though that ain't what she want to do,

and ten years later she'll be mad. That's why why isn't that women do that? We know women will have a threesome because they know it's what their guy wants, even if they're not really into it or if they're not. Because you want to be the one you want to do whatever. And that's what I'm saying. That's why it's hard. That's why it's hard for me who really want a relationship. At least I say that. My actions don't show that.

So when you look at the opportunity for a man to be with a woman who will be with women even though she don't want to be with women, like I'm not I'm not gonna do that. I could do that I've never liked. Did that put a woman in that situation where I'm like, we're gonna go like I have three somes all the time. Pick a girl you like, like I have girls that I kick it with like that, But I never made a woman my woman that we've done the type of things with because later that bill resentment.

Why is it so hard for you to set it down if it's it seems like you wanted it seems like you want no, no, because the difference between what

I want and what everybody have. But I don't want a thing that I just showed the world I got for a year, like I'm kicking with like like I said, I wanted something real, Like I'm not gonna kick it with somebody just because it's good for me or it looked good for the moment, or you need to be my girlfriend from now or and I have had girlfriends, like I had a relationship that you don't know shit about because I don't like sharing my life with the world.

So why didn't it work out? Because one half of that is because I don't like sharing my life with the world. Because the ways of the world today, Like you got a girl and you don't show it to the world appreciate like it's tricky, Like why you don't want to show me off? Because you got this chill, this you you're there with this girl. It ain't that it's because you got to protect something in order for it to become something. You can something. Who's the gage

how long that time period is. But if you with somebody and you really love and appreciate that, you have to protect that before you let people opinions and voices in on that. I totally agree with that when you talk like that, because you know, we know each other person. When you talk like that, I think of one relationship that I know of that I know that the world don't know about, and I know that you really was in love with this girl, and I know that you

really had good feelings for this girl. And so I kind of think took back to that when you just sit here and talk about you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, most it's just like I feel like today's world, it's it's all about you know, your your your social appearances like currency. It's like money, you know what I mean, And people treat their relationships like uh, like endorsement deals like this advertisement, you know what I mean. I'm gonna ADM.

I'm gonna do this for us because she got me hot, I got her hot. We're gonna do this for as long as it's cool, and I'm gonna go get another one six months. I ain't that nigger like I'm I'm I'm trade songs because of me. I know, relations ship, not no publicity stunts. Nothing is that hard, though, because your fans get upset, like when you get in a relationship. Sometimes some of them are happy they're all his women.

I live my life for me like I give my life to the fans, but I lived my life for me. And when I say I protect the relationship by way of not posting this so that it's not so my fans don't get mad, it's it's really so I'm protecting my woman and what we have so we can learn to understand one another. So when the bullshit do come, we got such a strong foundation, it don't matter what the fans say. A fan gonna promote that love because they're gonna see its genuine. They're gonna see y'all work

hard for that. But let's talk about you man the playboy for a second, and what kind of women? What kind of woman would Tremaine like to settle down with? All? Right? Zero followers are ten million followers. Uh, definitely want the girl. Don't nobody knows if I could get it. Uh. I think, like I said, like, I'm so you would rather have somebody that no one knows? Damn right, I think that, man, would you think so? I think so? I think so. I think that. I'm telling you, I'm not like these niggas.

These niggas be in these relationships for people. Man, No, but that's because they want something else in life. That's because they're not looking for the genuineness. And you, as a body, shouldn't even matter either way that simillion followers or two followers, It shouldn't matter. It shouldn't make a difference, shouldn't it. It shouldn't make a difference. It shouldn't make a difference being with somebody whether they're famous or not

many damn followers. I mean, it shouldn't be about that, you know, it shouldn't just be about that, Like, oh, I'm gonna as possible, I would will pick somebody low key over somebody high key. But let's be real, somebody local'll never see like I for real, now come on me, Like I didn't have a lot of flings one night off with like people, I would never even name, Like your fame matters not to me, Like if I care about fame, I would be out here on the blogs.

Do you be worried to talk about you know, I don't like what if a girl you really mess with, that's like, yeah, you know what songs she probably did, but she would that bother you though, I mean it's been done before. The thing. Man, I've been doing this so long, like just making music and going on to and having women around me and you know, having success. It's all like you know what to do, how to move if something happens, something happened, you get through it.

Somebody talks, somebody talk, but I don't. I ain't a guy that really uh uh present myself like you fuln't me? Right? All right, you don't gonna look at me like a killer? Now all right? School teacher, are about a waitress. Both you try to pick out. You gotta pick one daytime, nights, everything else, everything else. That's two jobs. Got to be the rose got to be the same shift, school teacher, abottle waitress, which one? What time is it? Six pm?

This is a relationship, relations relationship, everything else, the same school teachers. Okay, al right, she knows all the NFL players and she knows sports, or she don't watch sports at all, because you know you watch ESPN all day. She knows sports. But if funk with my head because you know on the NFL player, you know the contract for the college, like for real, it's a great conversation, you know this, But she would prefer that you do

know all the players. What if like y'all in the club and she's giving everybody pounds and hugs all the football players, no, no, no, but she's not because she's no no, no, no no no. The club and the club. You gotta do the most to speak to somebody, all right, that's true, you go dinner like you know what I mean? But what if you in the club and then so be speaking niggas? For real? Why not you're gonna speak to women? I'm not. If we're all in the club,

you're gonna say hi to that. But I mean, it depends on your business orientation, what our relationship is, and what you're doing. Why are you speaking to these people? I will say that. Okay, she can't be like, Okay, we know I used to work as an assistant at right. We gotta have that's what. That's the type of stuff I'm talking about. You gotta learn and build to grow before you go places and let people know because if that's what you used to do, I should know that

before we in that situation. We shouldn't get into that situation. And then it's explained in the car, she's like, oh, you know, my homegirl used to mess with him, so I know him and all his boys. You're not speaking of that speaking to him for whatever you lose, don't go speaking to you can say hi when I'm out with a guy. I don't even care. Yeah, there's so many people I do. But I mean, look what I do. I know a lot of people lovely do what you do.

But if you as my girl, you still wouldn't be speaking. Come on, now, that's rude. I can't speak when I said, but if we just kicking it, like if they're coming and speaking to you and they say it's up to me and you and that's in that way. But if you're going out your way like what it's like, man, you with that trade? Come on now, no, but nobody wants a guy. That's why you're not speaking to That's the that's terrible. We do want to tell you that the guy said that and you didn't hear it. I

want to know everything. See now, that might cause some problems in the clubs about your temperament. It's that's for me to know. It ain't for me to act on, but it's for me to know. I don't know you're tempering my act on that. I'm coming down. If you were the guy and another guy is talking about him like say you would, you would? And then if you feel that he texts you, he texts you, why are

you with that punk? But that's the thing. If you, if you, if you, if you do the one that's holding down that spot, you know what to do with that information. And you know, you know my temperament. You know where Matt, if you should tell me that now, if you should tell me that, wouldn't you be mad if she didn't tell you right away? Like you, he was going to react And I don't want to ruin the night. So I'm gonna just week until you understand

that nothing. Some men might act like they're like, oh yeah, let me tell you what boy said. Fun boy boy. He's a fun boy boy because you're talking about my nigga. Now, what if you was with a woman in the club and another chick texts you like, oh you with that whole? You know she sucked out? Would you ask her about it? And would you tell her? Somebody else said that, hold on what you're in the cloud with a female and another woman text you like, oh it a little layer

on that drink? Oh you with this bitch? Well, you know she ran the train on her. I can't believe you with this whole? Would you tell her? Damn she got the train. I don't even meet, you know, people to say anything. It might not even be people definitely say everything. But you ask what, girl, you had a train right on you? Okay, you can tell me. I would choke on my drink. Would you tell her though that you know this girl said you had a train

ran on you. I just got to ask for my own personal It is the same thing, like you don't bring that all right there, but you would bring it up later. You gotta have a conversation. But I think it should be. I think it should you should be able to talk about anything. I wonder if I'm dating somebody and I'm with them in the club and somebody texts, me, oh my god, you're with this person. They did X, Y and Z and oh my god, this I'm going to show the person I'm worth the text. That's what

I'm gonna do, right, ship all kind of problems. Yeah, I'm gonna be like, look with this person said, would you believe? But that's the person I'm with. Man, I ain't even in all that, you know what I mean? Like I get bullshit all day long, Like half of everything I read I don't even believe, right, So you would take it with a green salt, Like, yeah, I'll take everything with a grand of salt. Because everybody got the agenda. Everybody got something they want to say about

this person that person for the great game. You just gotta I'd be appalled by the ship people believe. I'm appalled, really really baffled, like just out here really like believe in anything anybody say without a shred of credit evidence of anything. So very true. People could say anything or write anything or whatever. They everybody and it's not even really it's not even real comments and attend you think about the people that's in comments, and that's right, and

like it's passive. It's not how they really feel. They don't really give a funk. Like they're gonna do that, They're gonna keep going with their life. Like that's just like and that really affect people, like affect people mindset what people say about them, and they come you gotta understand that life is living and breathing, walking, you know

what I mean. It's not being on your phone and giving a funk about what strangers say, Like even though I'm an entertainer, like I'm not gonna live my life out of kinds of what people say I should be doing or I'm not gonna believe that. And because I think it's a blessing that because I've been lied on it, because it's been missing that told or said about me in so many situations where people that are really knowing close to me come to me like yo, what's wrong

with you? Like what is wrong with you? Like for real, Like it's a blessing that have been in the situations. So I look at other people and and give people the benefit of the document whenever anything is being said, did you ever think you had a baby on the way? No, you never had a girl? Be like I'm pregnant, No, what's up? I take the test, But having a baby that you're scared of it. But like no has ever called you and been like the four paternity test, I

ain't never had no baby. Damn they want that baby back. Three paternity test from people I've never met. Oh yeah, because once they put it out there to the courts, even if you never had sex with that person, never met them in your life. What four months ago they said I had a baby coming. The account was deleted a week later, nobody post that post that I had a baby coming. But then Motherer disappear and nothing post on his face. I don't even know him. It was

a fake page. And then it all everything got deleted in the pay the girl. And that's the thing about it, like negative attention will always get more attention than anything like that when the story gets when the story gets rectified, when the correct version of it comes out, that nobody gets posted, it's always what they initially happened. They only want to see the train rent right, Well that's a damn shame all right. Now, let's see um drinks or

doesn't drink at all? Which woman would you rather drinks? Yeah, because you got that sex, you need some drinks flowing right like a little drink. Have you ever dated somebody that doesn't drink, not dated somebody that stopped drinking for a while, but not doesn't drink unless're pregnant on the way. Well, I don't know if I could date somebody that doesn't drink. No, you could, but you're right, I don't think I could either. I like to drink. I like because how boring is

it to not be able to go out for a drink? Yeah, at least definitely drink. Sometimes. I drink. Sometimes I drink when I want to fuck drink. I stopped drinking, but she's I drink when I want to funk, though, because I like to get fun when i'm drunk. Okay, yeah, she stopped drinking like a year ago. But that's interesting that you only rink what you want to suck. No, seriously, I drink when I go out on dates, that's it.

Or when I'm stressed out, when when I want the person that i'm dating to think that I'm getting sucked. Talking to the Mike Train, I definitely. I think the psychiatrist I would say that that's because you, you know, using something to avert what should distract yourself or what you're doing. She's ashamed of having psychiatrists would say that I don't need to do it amplify your experience or does it numb you? Um, it kind of numbs my throat, so yeah, it numbers me. I need to have a drink.

I can definitely take take a tack better than my throat when I'm drinking. She's talking crazy. I'm just saying, you're talking about it. So I'm talking about that like they got like some candy that numbr throat. But that's gonna make the guys take numbnaint. No, don't know, it's not sex. The an't eat ship. You can only so

much you can only use. That's why you use the k while jelly with THEE throughout the water base one, because then you can use as much of it as you want in it to go right in and he won't have to. I mean, I don't know, no numbness. I don't need need to be I don't need to drink to have I might having I like having sex. I like having sex. I'm sober too. I love have you ever had sex? I like to have your head sex. Yeah,

if you're not drunk, I could. I could take a dick in my throat when i'm so, so it's just better when I'm drunk. Okay, It's a better way of putting it. Stuff, it's a better way of explaining the situation at hand. You have to choose between sober dick sucking and drunk dick sucking. What do you pick? Um? Um, sober because I look prettier, You might the drunk to Yeah, I might. Would you let somebody say you let somebody film you though? Because you care about how you look? What?

I let somebody film me? Win? Like second, dick, is it okay a drunk sober if that's how I'm feeling, Yeah, that's okay. We can feel it. But he could keep it on his phone? Um? Yeah, sure, I mean if that, if I like him like that, if I trust him, so there might be like, uh to your detriment, What do you mean said he could keep it on the phone, like you know, I mean I could. I could count on one hand how many guys have me filmed? You know what I mean? And I trust hand, no hand,

not even the hand you could count it. I would probably say maybe three or four guys I'll be filmed. You know. I don't let anybody feelm me. You don't think about it, like Dan, what if I mean, honestly, the guys that have filmed me, the guys that probably can go on their phone and look at a video of me, I've known them for a long time. Like I know that they're not gonna put a sex tape at them or somebody could hack their phone. It might even be a better you know, Like it wouldn't be

good for for me. It wouldn't be good for me, and it wouldn't be good for them. So A really worried about it. They have a situation. I mean, not not that they have a situation. Nobody wants to have their I mean nobody really wants everybody, you know what I mean, Because if you're dick popping, you don't mind if it they ain't that that popping. You know, I don't think I've ever filmed with somebody that dick wasn't popping.

Like if the dick is popping, like they're a I'm pretty much down for whatever, you know, if we get that far. Just jeez, you said somebody has you like, yeah, mix and you used to we used to film OI ship nostalgic. But you don't think that he would put that out. He would he's not that type of person, Thank god. He don't want to put his own stuff out there, so he would never put me out there. Like, so it's good what I'm saying, Like, that's a good strategy.

People don't want to put them. He's a very person, he's very like, I don't want to blow his own spot up. So if I ever make a videos for me, like, I know a lot of it. We got a lot of that, do a lot of it's two ones that I wish I had. Just right, I'm straight freak. So I don't make a video and look at it later. That's what I do. Right, would you let a girl make a video of you know, I ain't did that yet? Like I make the video, I might let you see it. You can see it, but you can't say you can't

have it. You can see. But what about like when you're serious, she can't she can't film a little something. Yeah, if I'm serious, Okay, so there might be some trade songs videos out there. You still can see it's on my phone. Oh so she has to make it out your phone. That's whack. I'm about this business man. Anybody gonna suck my money and poke my place up, but it might actually increase, right, But that ain't what I want to do that. I want to do exposure about it.

If people want that. I don't gonna say nobody want that. My thing is if I'm gonna do that, I'm gonna do that. Nobody's gonna have an opportunity to do that. I'm gonna tak my own right tomorrow, I'm stroking on camera, mall, I forgot. So what are the things that you say in the bedroom? A you're talking about that, Well, you can't talk about it. It's nice, don't sound it. It's not inside you, like I gotta for you to hear. So you don't know. So you don't want people to

know your go to lines. I just want you it's not it's not genuine if you just say it right now, it's not actually go to lines. I think the lines go with the person that you're sleep on, right. But I'm saying there's certain things that you always like, you know, yeah, like everybody says daddy, right, everybody calls everybody daddy. No, I don't say daddy either because if they really have kids,

it's like weird, a little overrated, like daddy. Now like oh, yeah, I say, my daughters go on the morning daddy, daddy, Daddy, Daddy is just so like the norm. It is so normal, That's what I'm saying. I like when guys act like real bitchy when they come, Like when they when they come and they're like, I have an ex used to yell my name? Are you talking about scream my name? I think that's great. You know he used to scream

my name, Like scream my name. Yo. I think the guys and make a lot of noise when they come. I think that's good something coming you said, you said, you know a lot of tell it. Listen. Guys are very vulnerable when they come. I think that's a great time. They'd be like in the fetal position, don't see. That's what I'm saying. If I was a psychologist, I would say, you have problems that you want inferious, that's not infirm

when they come, and then they should fall asleep. I'm like you like they do, have they biterress about it or not. I like when a guy when I'm sucking, you know, his feet are like you know, like like curl that you know. I like that he's like tapping his to be like oh like me. No, that's terrible, that's awful. I like for when a guy comes from to sound like a man, like what's the man? Sounds like like a like a you know, like a man.

It's terrible, but you know what I mean, because I think it's bad when guys don't make any noise when they come, like the nigga is coming silence, I don't. I don't silence. Yeah, really don't come in silence. He had to come correct, let us know, like, come on, I don't come at all, come fast? Are you an noisy comer? I think it happened. Sound when you come? Can you make the sound? It made me? Come? Get somebody giving my hand job? When the next time you had a hand job, train hands. When I had a

hand job, you just gave a handshot last week? What I did just a handso yeah, what what what? What? Hold? I can't? I did? I did? I didn't have it hand jobs? And so long for real? You give me your hand job. You you don't kiss, you don't suck something week, don't have your mouth been on it, head down there close to it. But I don't leave my ship alone. Man. That's kind of well, he loved it you cut your but I was this close to it,

and just man, he thought it was your mouth. He's listen, well, y'all must have an understanding about your teasing, and that's the way y'all get down. But you play with me like that. The next day he told me he thought he had the pussy. It felt so good, he said. It turns out it was just the last ya y'all guys, you gotta be situation was the technique. I'm telling y'all. See,

that's the thing about a woman. Woman could get a square, lock him up real quick like that never had a woman could get a guy to buy and mash it and never suck them. That's definitely mean. I'm the queen of that. But I feel bad taking step from somebody that I have no intention of ever. Part about feeling bad is the part that you've already accepted it, so

then you feel bad afterwards. That's why I gave him the hand job, because I accepted the head, and then I felt bad after I came so good, I was like, damn, they I gotta do st just got to stop out here, man, That's what I'm saying. My pussy with his boots on everything fully closed. He had on Tim's of what kind of boots was a Martin. That's what I'm saying, y'all got the game fucked up about his niggas all fucked

up niggas doing whatever. And I'm an R and B singer, Like for real, I'm supposed to be the cat that's okay with all that, But y'all the game fucked up. Man. You think you're a different type of R and B singer though you were nigga? Like what happened? Since we're talking about the game, you know what I mean? You got the game being up, so until you started buying presents. I was watching um this whole Cameron Jim Jones thing right, and Cameron was talking about Jim Jones and like kind

of had their little falling out started. And it was because he was making fun of him when he said it. Dating Christie, he said, after two or three weeks he was buying her mad gifts and he didn't know they were going to end up together, so he said he felt, I think about anybody perception of what you do for anybody else, what fucked that in any situation? Not for you buying reasons for a woman right, is that something

that can happen? Like, really, I'm not gonna happen whenever it happened, like depending on the feeling you feel like, I think nothing should be constrained to this or that emotional this or that time, and depending on what. Because when two people meet two new people like Jimmy and Crazy, they still together after three weeks and need buying ship. Now how many years you know what I'm saying, So you can never determine what's gonna be what? So I think people living a life for other people is a

basis of this conversation. And now, but Valentine's, they haven't just passed though. Let's say you were dating somebody for like two or three weeks or so, you have several girls, Do they all get a gift? Yeah? See me and one hun Flowers, we got this thing. Okay, you will get a promo item from from Tremaine. But if I'm if I'm if I'm dealing with you and I'm serious about you, if I care about you, I'm gonna make sure you feel appreciated on on a regular basis. So

Valentine's they just back. Now, how often when you start dating somebody said y'all keep in contact. Like let's just say, y'all meet and she's hitting you up every day? Is that okay? Should she do that or should she kind of like trying to be like, Okay, I hit him yesterday, so let me just wait, think man, Like, I think it's all dependent upon who that is and who you're

clicking with. Like, I don't think you could say that for everybody, like you know what I mean, because you don't want to be annoying, but then you don't want to like make them feel like you're not interested. I think you could tell on reciprocity what you're getting back, especially as a woman, if you reach it out. And you know, I don't feel like a woman that in any case should be the one like thirsty for attention.

Uh you know. And that's hard for me too because I don't like to give attention because in a new situation, I don't know what that is. I don't know what that turned into. I don't know if and today's day and ay is just corny to like express how much you did somebody like then you thirsty, you know what I mean? Like, I think a woman should be sought after. I think a woman should be pursued a man. I agree, but we know that I am right. Pursue me, no, because if to me, you'll never hear from me like

you have it. So if you're smart, you pursue stuff you take on a day, she's gonna drink get ye, No, not like that. Yes, you said it wrong. I mean you know, honestly, when I go on dates with new guys, it's my number one rule not to drink when I go on dates because that might get Yeah, when I'm drink, that's true, I regret when I'm drunk. So that's my number one back to. If you do it like the psychiatrist, I think you're drinking to number emotion and do things

you really don't osion to. That's what I'm saying. She's coming to you. I appreciate you. Yeah, all right, now, when is it time to stop thatting? This is a question that the ladies were talking about earlier. When do you say, Okay, it's time for me to start being out here like this, It's time to settle down. Do you feel like you've come to that time yet? I mean, I definitely feel like I've come to that time. Like

I said earlier in the interview. I feel like I've come to that place mentally, but in my actions, I'm still doing a lot of the same ship I don't want to do. How are you doing something that you don't want to do? Though? Come on now, I mean that's life. That's like I did it, but I sucked it. But I don't really just like the circumstances that he's oh ya, look who just texted me here? And dr? Do you ever feel like you have to like women just because I mean anything about it? It ain't about

what I have to do for real. A lot of times, uh, I didn't feel like, man, do you expected like lip service? What was it? Two thirs? Like you put that expected you? I was talking about how I was out here doing I was doing. You know what I'm saying. I've been having to hold up my reputation since then. I said I have been a sex Did you did say that? And a lot of little stories flowing around about trade songs in the bad room that you have to live

up to those expectations songs. I don't know about your stories, but so much, I mean stuff online and stuff like that. Heirl was talking about, I didn't see some things that I didn't seen some things, and the expectation bar is high. It's a little bit different for me over here. Those I said, I said, I didn't hurt the stories, but I also didn't seen something. So it's a little different from me over here. Jesus, we used living the same, you know. We lived like my sister like to anybody

really watching, it's like a system. Her daughters, like my niece, like literally, so in Atlanta we lived together. Like so you've seen some ship, you know. I literally pop popcorn and watching my home girl like it was. You watched him do it, and he went downstairs and pop popcorn and came in the room and watched something. How was he doing? He did a great job. He did a great job. I didn't know you was gonna see. I mean,

Jesus's a lot of time ago. And she used to bring she said, take that dick, point take that dick. N't you back and point your toes? So you were coaching her. Yeah, I used to bring like sacrificial lambs to the house. Oh my god, because I wouldn't lead. I work all day like I'm in the studio. I just moved to Atlanta. It's bad. I met on my Space. Yep, damn, don't nobody know that? You know, don't nobody know that you met on We really met on my Space. That's

the truth. How did this? Nobody knows email on my Space? Because he put out there that he was going to be in Atlanta, was moving to do trade a and I had just moved there and I was working with him already, like he was my got it? What that was my ship? Who was everything? So I'm moving to Atlanta. We got this house. We got this house. Shout out Chris, Chris and Chris Anderson. Uh, I get this two thousand six, six March two thousand six. So I'm moved into this

house to make the album. All my albums I've mainly made in the houses because I leave to let the time. So I walked in the house and it's it's and it's her home girl and they got on the Magic City outfits and they cook. It's an album. And from that point on, like she just held it down like it won't never a situation where like we were into each other that way, like she everybody, let's talk about trades sucking abilities. Since you was there watching him from

a young and if you could critique him. What are some things that he needed to work on because he was young at that time. And I'm sure the way you work back then is way different than now. Are you sure? No? Honestly, I honestly can't say anything bad about I saw. I can only critique the girl, and I critiqued her on spot okay that she needed to point her toes Archer back, was it weird for you to have somebody like watching and critiquing the girl and

like coaching? He thought it was funny. It was funny because she was my whole girl. It wasn't like a stranger, like she was my friend. And I still she's like, that's the home stop both of Now, when you date somebody for real, like you become serious, do you have to cut off all these other women? Yeah? You do.

Got to do a degree of cutting off or a degree of having conversations where you know in the relationship who you might still keep in contact and why, I mean, who you might still keep in contact with and why? But just for the lines of respect, Like certain people you can't even hit back to give an explanation about what you're doing. Why are you not talking to them? Like and she's got to cut off those guys too

that she used to deal with. H m hmmm. And if it's a situation where you still communicating with somebody, I need to know why? What what y'all guy? If it isn't a baby, is it something like what some tragic happens? And why y'all connect? No? Really, these things like this happened. But what is the connection that you have with this person that you still that you you have to speak with them? While are you dealing with me? Well? What if like she's like, well, my family is still

cool with them. We grew up together. No, I like what what? What else? Damn? Now, let me ask you this, when are you comfortable enough for a woman to like go to bed and ladies, when do y'all comeortable Stephanie gg to go to bed with you? Your head wrap? One? No makeup? It's never. I want to wake up like sexy. I want to like have clean hair when I'm with a guy. Like, I don't like that. I don't like that that you're dirty. I don't like even just like I did these not to do these curls. I cannot

with that though? Is you taking your eyelashes? Off like I take my eye not just off in my makeup and all of that. But you know, I'm like to wake up with my hair nights. I like, but if you wrap it does, what's gonna have? No, No, I don't want to go to sleep like that. But I'm I'm I'm Puerto Rican. Come on. I mean, I don't do style like I did a hairstyle. You know that

I had to sleep in last night. By the way, if I was like, yeah, but you put it in us nuts, but I put it in not it probably looks like that in the morning and I went to sleep, I woke up looking crazy. I wouldn't want to suck

me looking like that. And I usually want to like when I wake up in the morn, when I'm specially like hey girl, you know, like hello, I really feel myself hell really, you know, I'm really sexually attractive to myself, Like I think I look really good, you know, so usually in the morning, like my body is really nice because you know, in the morning, you wake up in your body stomachs flat, you know what I mean? So right, So, but we're talking about somebody you're gonna spend like really

your life with. Yeah, but That's what I'm saying. I don't really sleep in hairstyle. I mean, if I had to, I tell you right now, you're putting yourself to super high standard. Though. I know, if I had to sleep with the knots with the guys, I would be like, don't look at me, don't just go away, look crazy. I want to look at us. Your ass up while you're looking crazy. No, that's what I was seeing in the room earlier, Like how could I be sucking my

nigga's dick with this hair with these knots in it? Well, this here, I would have had have wrapped it. You could a guy, like when I'm when I'm sleeping with a guy, like when I'm staying with a guy, you know, um, even even in my long term relationships, like four out of five times we're gonna have sex before we go to sleep, you know, like four out of five times, it's it's a big chance that we're gonna, you know, be sexual and be intimate. You know what I mean?

Would you jump up and he wakes up? Like even the guy that you know, like a whole week, like how many out of seven? And listen, how many out of seven? I know like, I'm all right, I'm dating somebody that of how many out of seven out of five? How many out of seven? Five out of seven? Right right,

that's normal. No, But even now I'm dating a guy that you know, I go and I stayed with him for a couple of days, and I would I would like to do this hair for him, like I would like to, But you don't want to add it out hair to go out with him and spend the day with this hair. But I'm saying because it's me as as as a man, like I let the pursuit. I love when you're looking beautiful all the time. But when we settled and like I get to know, I appreciate

the rawness. I just appreciate the moments of being there for the for the preparation of Like I see you in your raws form, I see you make that happen, Like I appreciate that. Like I think, uh, when you you in a relationship and you really like, you really into somebody, you love to see them in every shape. When when you're broken down to that rawness, that that makes this that much more appreciate it what it is because you did that for me, or you you did it.

I know what you like when you If you always that, then it's no. No, I'm not saying that I'm always It's just my I don't go to sleep in hairstyles. I don't go to sleep and have rocks. But if you said it's so embarrassing, five times out of seven before you go to bed, you're waking up your ship, you have spitting it look good. You gotta look good in the morning with my natural hair, no makeup on, right, I look good. You know what I mean? You just don't want to us. Yeah, exactly my hair exactly, my

hair can't be done. It have to just be the natural hair that you know it is when I watch it, because even a straight style, I don't wrap it. So I wake up like it's curly. I woke up like that this morning, exactly. I want to seek like this. I woke up all this side was all curly, right, I just work with that like one of them. When you like girls, my boy, yeah, that's normal natural ship. But to like to be actually have the rod with

the people cream. Have you ever natured Have you ever been with a girl that you got with her and then she looked completely different about her makeup on and her hair did and without her girdle on. What you mean got back to the room and she took everything off, and it was like, whoa, and I've just seen Oh no that that that was something that happened early on in life. What you learned from those mistakes about it? From mistakes, I can tell when you take that off,

it ain't gonna be right. You gotta extra sent eyebrow off. Now, Tremaine the playboy. Would you rather be with somebody that is sexually experienced and has been with a lot of people and knows what she's doing, or somebody that's only ever been with one person and not that experience. I pick one, the only one of together and thing else is equal. But I would pick experience. Okay, somebody else seasoned, they're done that, somebody to know. You know, that's not

you're scared to have fun. I mean, my heart says, because I'm paranoid. I want to be with the person who only even on one person, but everybody being with somebody like everybody as somebody, everybody somebody right now, I would rather be with somebody I don't have to teach them anything, you know, I'm down to teach, I forever teacher, I forever learned. Like, but it's so good when they

already know what saying. He would pick the sexually experienced season, been around the black woman over the it's only been with one person. Yeah, but yeah, I mean when you throw extra variables and they're like being around the blood experience even she season, but she what she does pro pro it was su bourbon block was it? But in these people that But if you're run on the nigga, isn't like for real? This This is the way I approach life. This is way I approach relationships with I

approach uh, just everything. Everybody's been with somebody. Everybody gotta pass if your past don't and the people that you've been with, don't directly bash in with what I got going on. If you and I know a lot of people, the people I end up meeting and having relationships with know a lot of people have done a lot of things. But if they're not with people that I have things going on with a somebody that that's really close to me,

even if it's an associate of mine. If I if I'm interested in the woman, I think I could build something with her more than you know, just fucking I don't care that she's been with this nigga, that nigga because she at this age and of course you didn't did this with her life. I care if she's been with this nigga that I love a death, that that's with me area other day, or this nigga that I didn't created this music with, and I gotta see him

and have this repport with. I just think as as as I'm getting it to a point where I know I want somebody like and like I said, I don't know if I'm all the way there. I know that I want somebody for me, but I know I got things about me that are flawed. So certain things I got to take with a grain of salt. Certain things I gotta know. So she got to tell you what she's done, Like I mean, I'm gonna tell you what I've done off really even saying things that you feel like, No,

I gotta tell you. I'm trade songs. That's if I don't tell you. If I don't tell you, you're gonna think about it. Though. If I don't tell, you're gonna guess and you're gonna make you You're gonna make your own problems. So I'm gonna tell you that when we're in a room, I'm gonna tell you, like, look, I know her, I know her, like I've been in this with that. You know what I mean everything I don't think so, I mean everybody everything, But yeah, everything ain't relevant.

But at the same time, I'm never gonna let you get played. What it's like. Well, you know, one time fab bit my pussy, but that was it and we never have sex. You can't be my girl, fast my man, like, you can't be my girl. Nothing but not eating pussy. I don't even talk about me talk about that's my bro's not pussy and not getting job. Fat guy nice? Ain't that nice? You never nobody spussy didn't get I'm not gonna I have you see, so you're a nice guy one time for the nice guy. It's not even

about me being a nice guy. You just gotta be a woman that deserved that. I ain't a nice guy like that. You're not a nice guy. I like that just to be eat pussy getting no restaurant. I don't know. I don't know. I like that so much every time, Like after I get my pussy and I want to get fucked. I just she's dead and your job because I not. A thousand times I've sucked. I've sucked without my per strange requests. The woman has asked for you to do that, you've been like, as too crazy, I'm

not doing that. M I know, somebody to ask you to do some strange ship and you've been like negative, No, it's a gang of strange ship people like talking about strange ships. Like but if somebody asked you to do that, she was like no, I'm never no, like like what unsanitary ship? That's what it him? Somebody asked you to shoot on him? So I coughed over. Did somebody really

asked you to shoot on them? If I don't saying saying what about p if I don't say nothing that you saying that nice warm urine like that about spit on them? That girl I've actually like spitting her mouth or something like that's normal, like it is that Yeah, that's not like howbody? I mean? I think if if in the early two thousand, if you met a woman that like to be spat on, she probably used to sun with me. You spit on straight, good lord, you invented it? What else? What else? Is that I want

to hear like some weird ship that. No, you tell me this is trade songs here. Your girls have been like yo, just do this to me, Like what what about sucking her period? You cool with that? With you? I got to die anything that ain't too crazy. So at the house that we used to live in, it was like it was the studio house. It was him and all his niggas, it was the family. It was me and my home girls on my Magic City Crew. You know what I'm saying, cream cartel. Even though that

did now different story. All cooked, Yeah, it was great, but no, I cooked from five pm the five eight and five am. That's not the story. Okay. So one time we were sitting around on the couch watching TV and this nigga and this nigga. All right, so you know how the couch behind the couch is empty, right, So my home girl didn't want the couch. So this nigga comes far and pull his dick out and fop from the top of his dick. Oh my, she turned around. It was like what the fuck? He was like, bitch,

I just took you to China Town like that. That was It's just a type of phone music wasn't like, it wasn't sexual. It wasn't sexual. It was a shop, wasn't it was? It was right from behind though, and like this all right now, Please don't anybody at home try this thinking it's okay to hit chicks on the head with your dick. If you do do it, make sure you tell that you took to Chinatown. What does that mean? Take it to Chinatown. That's a whole different story,

but could not be a Chinatown. I just want to know what that means. Yeah, that was like she was like, yeah, you know, she got miss understood spelled wrong on her back. What it's a much ter stood. It wasn't an end there end wrong tattoos understood, no end. So we've all been waiting for some new music. So I know that's coming with this. Uh Tremaine the Playboy. Yeah, well nobody else with you is out right now, Um Tremaine the Playboy.

Although it's it's it's been promoted as a reality show and you know, the gag is up now everybody knows his music. The theme will continue week after week. Every Thursday, nine pm the video will play. There will be a version without the reality aspects that in the version that just has the you know, just music, so people that consume music on YouTube could just listen as well, uh and immediately will be available everywhere as soon as the video comes as well. So five five weeks straight at that.

That's then then the album mar those women that you feel like you went day in real life. Yeah, it was a couple of its cool Okay, were they like arguing over you for because I know, being on set and about it like everywey like I scripted all that, like shot the uh Shauna, Roxy and yosh who actually came up with the original concept and when they came

to me the concept fortified videos just a reality. I wanted to just take it to a whole another level and like thro the market and dude, just full just play with it like and uh it worked very well, Like I had a great time with it. I directed the videos edited them myself as well. Wow, it was a lot of work, Like we actually gave it the girls separate personalities, like everything was scripted, you know what

I mean. So it was funny. They did a great job. Actually, after being in the industry as long as I have been, that was like and having that many girls on set it was crazy like that. They like that. That's ingenious because the women are going to watch for you. The men are gonna watch to watch the women when we and everybody's getting a nice little look, you know, and we get to see what it would probably be like

for real. Like I'm sure you were yourself everything with script, yourself, but you getting a little bit of a flavor flavor moment. At times you look flavor flav no, but you know, because flavor love. Clearly it's like the whole music behind nobody that you are. But I'm just saying. But secondly, it's just fun, like you know what I mean. It's something that I have fun with. It's something that you know,

I used to bring the attention to music. If you think about the music industry and you think about the way it's perceived, the way it's consumed, you think about how passive it is. I use the word passive because I remember you had to go get CDs. I remember you had to make time for music. I remember you had to I was a little boy. You had to record music that you want to you know what I mean. Radio, So right now you can play music. You can check your emails, check your Twitter, do this make a snap

with the music. It's not music first, that's the difference in music. Music was first, it was something that you had to move and and and do things to get right. Now moving music will do whatever to suit your lifestyle. And people are so visual more than ever, and streaming is so crazy, so it's not exciting for artists to just put an album out anymore. It's not exciting for artists to, uh, you know, just give you music and just to keep someone's attention, you have to go that

extra mile. And for me, it was just it was fun creatively, Yeah, fun with it at least a great time with the Dope Project. Yeah. And it's a very special album to me. Like it's called Tremaine. I've never, like I said twelve years, I never self titled album. So that means you're gonna be bearing a lot. Yeah, it's very vulnerable. I hope to Tremaine find some lovemain bro. We saw in the first episode your mom said, you know, your two younger brothers already have kids. She's waiting on

you to have one. So and I know that's a big deal to you. If your mom is going to be happy with whoever it is that you end up with two. Yeah, I think my mama's gonna be what have people? Whatever I choose for my life, you know, well not whatever she really You're gonna make sure he choose something that he knows. And you know, my mom was gonna be happy with what I choose for me. I don't know about Rooskie though. Roosky Ruski said this in bullshit whatever y'all believe it. I want but my

like I said, like, I didn't waited this long. Like I didn't. I didn't had a wild ride, and it's been a fun time, and I ain't had no mishaps. I ain't had no notion, no green gup coming out your dick or nothing exactly. Congratulations to you for keeping it on the street and narrow. And so for me, it's a it's about, you know, just making sure that

when I do, it is pure. It's not if I waited this long, it's not I'm not trying to have a baby with a woman that I don't like, or that I gotta be beef And with all that, I gotta go to child Spoor with I want. I want to kick it with my back. But shout out to all the trades angels out there. He's still looking. She bought sauce. Al right, Well that was lift service trad songs.

Thank you, and I appreciate you coming because you know, I always look at you as like the lift service kind of person that laid down the groundwork for the show from the very beginning. You've always been really instrumental that me neither, but maybe later, I mean back then, yeah, not back then. Seriously didn't pay that Well, I'm not gonna lie, but I'm just saying I didn't get I'm not gonna I didn't get no extra money to do lip service that I did from the morning show. It

is my same salary. Sometimes you just do things because you love it, right, Did you get extra money for directing your own videos? And did I get extra money to turn into some money? Exactly turn into some money? There you go, NGS Shares Tremaine. I'm serious. Hey, we all know everything and about stuff. We got a bottle of water, but we don't know that's you know. I wish you got it. Don't be bad. I don't have enough, all right. I can't even get my throat numb it up.