Episode 81: Ft. Trina

I'm sure you're don't tie some guys up, okay, So um our tip of the day, because we always start with the tip of the day where we give our own advice in a in a scenario, how do you introduce senm into a relationship? How can you get a guy to experiment a little bit and get him to try something he's never done before? Maybe you tie him up? Or um. I just think, like, you know, just like you know, a little sexy conversation and you just kind of say, hey, I just want to kind of do something.

You don't really tell exactly what you want to do, but it's not nothing crazy, nothing like that. You know, maybe I got you just you know, and then you do whatever's time up, I'm pancuff from blindfolding whatever. No, it's just a problem. You know. You have to kind of, like I think, smooth them into it because some guys be like what are you about to do? Like I don't want to be tired, Like you know, you don't want them to think that you're just gonna be crazy.

How do you ever tied a guy up? Yeah? Okay, see that's a lot of trust though, Yeah, that what you're gonna untie him? Yes, it's where I got to let you tie him up. He has to really trust you because that has to be like has a guy ever tied you up? But you're in a relationship and it's just like fun, like hey, I just want to just try something. I just want to see you know. I used to do it on stage in my show.

Actually we tied this gap on stage in the chair and so it was like one of the things like I'm gonna try this, you know, would you let um? I don't know. That's when you say that's trusted really because then I don't know if you want to play a game and you might not untie me up or like I don't know how much leverage I have. We've been tying up like we on Instagram, Like I need to have a little bit of control. Like you know, what about you step You ever tied a guy up?

Haven't tied a guy up? I like, Um, you know, I'm more of a submissive lover, so I like for the guy to be in control. You know that's interesting? Yeah, Um, most of the time, I think. The only time like I want to be the aggressor is when I'm drinking. Then I'm like, yes, exactly what about you? G You ever tie somebody up? I have blindfolded a lot or just I've done it before, not a lot, but I've been tied up, like she's the only one that's been

tied up in the room. No, like tied to the bed with the gag and the ball and gag and everything. So was that like a real rush and real high for you? It was fun? You would do it again? I want to do it again. See some Maybe let's keep it around. Maybe because only one person in this room has done that, maybe it is something that we all need to try. I wouldn't mind getting tied up.

I wouldn't I wouldn't let. I wouldn't let as far as going, don't be pulling out no whips and ship and no people, and I don't want because guys like, okay, you're gonna tie me up and that white yeah, well with me, he had like the vibrator and he was just like you know, I couldn't stop, you could move and then I mean he tooked me like that too. It was great, like I just had to later air and just like to put your ticket. I love it. But okay, so no whips, not even like you know

they had their little leather feathery kind of whips. That's not too crazy, No, no, no, that's the next level. You gotta started out with just you know, you gotta take it and sipping moderation like well to it up and stuff like they don't got to be no wealth, like a little fun beats like hits and like come here and like smack it like a little light like you were like a little collar and just everything just

being like that. Dam I never thought about you gotta just collar, yeah, collar, releash And he's smacking you and whipping you and you're like Stephanie, I'm that you can't tell me, ain't nobody whip you because you like beenmissive, right, I like and I like the abuse to you know so, But I don't want him to take off his belt and start beating me up. We're not talking about a belt that we're talking about those whips that are made specifically. No, I don't like the way they I don't like the

way it feels. I don't like I like to get hit with hands, with your hand, daddy. I'm Puerto Rican, you know, we like to get beat up sometimes. Have you ever had marks on you like? Yes, absolutely, I've had bite marks, um, because I like to get bit a lot to me, just like I've had bite marks. I've had spank marks on my face, slot marks on my face. I've had choke marks on my neck. I've had spank marks on my button, I've had I've had

bruises on the on my aner. Guys, I get marked up, yes, like honestly, Um, you ain't ever be a black guy and no actually no, no, no, no, no wait wait wait, one time I did have an eye jammy from having sex. It wasn't a black eye, but it was a fat I know. No, I I got hit in the eye. Yeah, being rough I woke up the next day with a swollen eye. I don't know how it happened. It was a whole move when you having sex, and then unfortunate thing happened, and oh my god, you want to hear it.

One time this I was having I was, I was really I was really under the influence and I had this guy and we were we were having like this amazing incredible, you know, like really powerful sex and he was biting my lip. He kept biting my lip and it felt so good. It felt so good, and I kept wanting him to bite my lip. And then and then my lips swoll so big. I was actually in Atlanta, and I um, I was supposed to do a video the next day and I couldn't do the video because

my lips was so swollen. I looked like I looked like the colleenner Ryla. Oh my god, it looked really bad. It looked like you know, rest and peace, big and big and just lives. And it took forever to go down. I'm talking about I looked like that for like a week. But it felt great, but it during it worth it, no. But and what's funny is is that I realized because I felt it, you know, I felt that my lip was swollen while he was biting it. So when I went, I got up and I went to the bathroom and

I looked at it, and I was hystorical. I was in tears, crying, like what I looked at you, I swear, but I really liked it at the time. I'll tell you this, I didn't learn my lesson from that. I don't let anybody bite my lips right just to kiss. Lets learn, Like, yeah, you like a bad accident during sex that you had an injury from. No, I don't

have no injuries, Thank God for that. But just like I mean, like you said, like awkward moments, like you don't want to just do nothing that's awkward and like it just ruins the whole moment. Like you're just like having great sex and you're just like damn about to be smashing the headboard. You just like hit your head so hard to you like fall almost off the bad

the whole moment. Yeah, that is awkward when you're you're gotting and you hit your hat on that halfbard but he's still You're like You're like, yeah, I definitely felt off the bed or slipping the shower or something big dick girl, bust my ass off. The bab makes you run. All right, now, let's talk about this. Dating an older man or a younger man. It's two different things. You'd rather be a teacher or a student in the bedroom. I feel like you know what I feel like when

you're when you're dating an older man. There's it's just it's so different. Having sex is so different. It's so much more passionate and you can tell the experience. It's it's a it's a different level of sex. Is like I don't like, I mean, I don't know. I mean, because I I like a younger guy. It's almost like super experienced. I'm almost thinking, have you been here before? Because there's no way that you can know how to do all the things that you're doing, either beyond some

guy that was older. And I'm like, this guy is so I know you have the juice, but you're not even it. But this younger guy is like too much sauce, too much, you know, Like that's so, I mean, it's a difference. I mean, I think, I don't know. It depends on where you I feel like there's a difference too. And I before before these past couple of weeks, I said, my favorite, the best lover I ever had is a

man in his forties. But currently I'm dating someone and I feel like sleeping with him is like way better than sleeping with the guy in his sport. It's like sleeping with him but with that young to him. Okay, you know what, do you like to teach somebody what to do? Or do you like to be the one that's learning? Oh? And you know what that's um, That's something that I always hated about dating younger guys is that I always have to teach somehow to eat pussy.

And you get tired of teaching guys how to eat pussy and then knowing that you told him how to eat pussy, Now he's gonna go eat everybody. Right made you, I made you that you're gonna go spread my knowledge. So currently I'm overreaching and learning to know what you know. Like I want to see something you though, and I want to I want you to teach it to me. Great, that's the last thing that you learned. What's the last thing that you ladies learned in the bedroom that you

could think of? Like I never did this before, but he taught me something the last thing, because what is there left me? I can't even think of that. The last thing I learned is that you know, you can stretch all your throat. You said, train it right, Yeah, exactly, Like there's a whole other part of your throat behind the bone. And he was very glad to teach you about it. Practice it opens up, and if you don't practice, it closes up. That's something I learned. What about your channing?

What's the last thing you would say that you learned? Um, you know what I would say it would be. It would be it's like it's like having oral sex, and it's this thing. It's almost like no gag reflect like this gag thing. And I realized, like you really have to like put it all the way in your mouth to like get past that, so it's could be real speedy to come back up, so we can really be done, right you talk about this Otherwise it's like just trying.

It's almost like you're gonna like throw up, but you're not. You have to control, like it's one of those things. Have to relax. How do you do that? You haven't. It's mine, it's mine thing. I don't know. I think if you're thinking about it too hard, you're thinking about it being too far, You're not thinking about it, your your your whole mouth. Everything gets so relaxed. It's like almost you're about to swallow him, and you can't imagine things you can put amazing. It's amazing what can fit

down there. A baby can come out of the right But I think one of the best things that you can do is have like an orgasm together both come at the same time. I think that's a whole another level mentally, like body to body experience, opposed to him having an orgasm first, you after, Like it's totally different. Are you first and him after? I think it's really great if you guys can both come at the same time, that's like the most amazing. I think that's very rare.

It is very rare, but I could probably three times I thought ever happened to me? I just thought about the last time that that happened to me. I love ago with that to make it like it's a timy thing, you know, it happened at the same time, just happened like I said I was coming and he was like me too, and then it was because I also feel like when when you come and makes him come. Oh my god, it does anything anything close to even than him thinking that you're coming makes him come, like any

extra mone It's like, no, one didn't come. I was just feeling good, like we know. The worst is if you're about to come and he do something different, like he's switch it, switch it up, most horrible, like I

was right there. Yeah that's horrible, you know, and then when he goes back there, you got to build it up again to get to that point, you think that though I don't think they realized sometimes as if a guy thinks that you're about to come, because you're you're in that moment, it that he feels like he's got to like go harder, and then it suck it and sucks it up like I just keep doing and you're about to come, and then he changes his time and

you keep the same thing going. And sometimes I don't want to come from oral sex, like I want to actually have sex. I want to come from oral sex and I want to have sex and I want to come again, right, and then I'll not come again. Sometimes I'm not gonna dude, Like if I come, I'm done. No, not mean, are you? Sometimes yeah, sometimes every single time. I'm just doing it so you can finish too. That's how I felt that way before. Yeah, yeah, every time

I call mom Dawn. But you know, you just have to be a team coming there and Dream stay in the game. I mean, I'm fine like to keep going, but I'm also fine if we stop after. And that's before him or after if it's not together, I would ask if it's not together, I would prefer to come first, like do you stop yourself from coming. I've tried, like I've tried, like, okay, just not right now, but it's you, you don't I don't know really too. I think I've stopped it before, but I don't know. I don't know

if that really worked at it. And I think you kind of messed up the whole like or between us because I was just sobo trying to stop it. I think it still happened, but not as much. It wasn't as much of a bank and yeah, it just kind of like was missing and then now he's going crazy. I'm over there like that. And sometimes you try to stop yourself and then you don't end up coming it on you be mad as hell, So you'd be like, I let me just come just in case of ship

don't work out later puts eating really good. I always try to hold it back as long as I can because it feels so good. And the guy gets so mad because you're doing they're doing it too long. Yes, they're like tired, but it just feels so good. I don't want it to stop. And then he stopped to me, like, why did that would do that? Yeah, it's like damn, I should have just came, all right. Could you have

a purely sexual relationship with no feelings? We know that men can do that traditionally, but as a woman, do you think you could have a relationship that's purely sexual? Great in bed, but you don't really have any feelings for him. I haven't done it. I haven't tried because I don't know if it's it's I don't know, just I guess. I don't know. This sex is too emotional,

I guess. I don't know. I guess maybe if you just felt like this is how I want to just bang you right now and I'm not done, there's no strings attached. Don't want to se your face. I don't want you to see mine, you know what I mean? Like, but it could be a funk buddy that you normally fun like she's fun buddies, you end up start having feelings and eventually, if you keep sucking the same person over and over, some type of something that's going to

happen unless it's strictly off limits. And it's no way you want to be attached to this person, right, but you're not sucking the same person forty times and like don't feel a thing. What if he's really ugly and you would never bring him around anybody? But yeah, but that means you like something about them, because you're still sneaking to him, right, but you don't want nothing else. But have you ever dated anybody you were ashamed? Know for?

Have you ever dated anybody that you were ashamed like? I cannot bring him around? I haven't, honestly, I haven't. I actually like a long time ago out here, actually like met a god. It was like I talked to for a little bit, but I was just so uninterested and so the conversation was not anything about like for me to want to be even engaged with you. So I didn't even want my friends to know like I even met you. It was one of those things you're a nice person, but I don't see this happening, and

no type of way. I don't know. He was good on paper or something. No, he was just at first I met like a cool person. But then one little corny thing. I think he used to make this noise, like he'll just talk on the phone and just make this weird noise, and I was like, so turned off. You are like some just a funny kind of growling noise ground but I don't even and I'm not looking at you, not even attractive. And then it's like I just can't see myself sucking it Like it was that

he was a ground. What he would talk that he would just be like like He'll be like, oh, you know what, I just really think, you know, maybe if you have a little time, I want to see you like some But like every time he would talk, it would be like this after thing he would ground and I was just like, you know what, but a nice person, but just stay far. You know that's corny. Now back to fifty Shades right in the movie that's coming out, Christian gets a second chance. Now, what are some good

reasons for giving an X a second chance? Have never given a second chance? I think it depends I have, and I think it depends on what the situation is. You know that the reason he's your ex, you know, probably things didn't work out. You just was over for a moment. Were young. Yeah, and then maybe that. I mean, it's certain limits to give a second chance, right, I mean, I don't know about as far as I only depends

on the person, you know. I don't think if somebody did you wrong or cheated crazy and makes you like a fool, you want to go give him a second chance. But people do all because you think I'm in love this the sex is so great, I don't care what nobody say. I'm gonna go back and back and back. So it depends on person. What do you say, g I'm living in my second chance right now. So what made you say, let's do it, Let's do it again, let me give him a second chance? What are the reason?

We had the fakest break up and break up history. We broke up and I moved out, but we still having sex every week, and then I eventually was home four days out of every week, home back home four days out every week, and then I was like, I might as well just spoop back in and we might a would just be together. Who are we fooling? So you don't have a real breakup, like a reason? No, we were. We were broken up four months before I moved out. We were just living in separate wings of

the house. Sometimes I think you gotta break up in order to regroup and get back together. Because there's people that have all kinds of issues in relationships and they won't break up and they just like right. But sometimes you gotta break up, spend some time apart and be like, Okay, let me just get some more perspective. I feel like the second chance is always wrong every time. Every time I'm going back when the access just ends up ending I anyway, it's just a way some time. I don't

really I don't really think. Um, I just feel like you don't want somebody ships on. You know how many chances you're gonna give somebody to, you know, but you don't think sometimes guys do learn their lesson. Maybe not in my experience, you know, yeah, I agree with that, Like if you didn't do nothing and we just broke up because you know what, I don't know, maybe we're arguing something. I'm just like, we fall out. We need space.

But if you do wrong and crazy the second time you break, it's not the same because now it's even worse than it was the first time. And I'm already looking at you like I'm giving you a second chance, and you steal my ecka food. I just can't deal. Yeah, Like petty breakups don't count on you're in a real relationship. You have a fighting and you hate each other for

two days and then you get back together. That's not But if he if he cheated, because there are guys who cheat and then you get back together and they learn their lesson. No, they don't know. I don't believe that. They never do. They never learn, saying I don't think so they don't because I because the lesson is to cheat. Why in the beginning, Because what you're doing is going to affect me. And because you did that, that's not

that's not a lesson you learned. That's like you really didn't care how even if you didn't think about it. You I'm looking at you like you didn't care that that was gonna affect me. But if you have kids, is it different if you have kids. I hear that.

I don't have kids, so I don't know but I'm still saying I'm not living with the situation because of the kids, because then like I'm just trying to put this front off for the kids and there the kids are good, but me and you are, Like have you ever thought like cheating when you were in a relationship. I had, I did feel like cheating, but I just left like it was it even just a feeling because I think at some point everybody it was because I got cheated on. It was because I didn't do bad

thing and you cheated on me. And I just felt like I got so many opportunities to just be reckless, and I want, like really, I'm sitting here like like sitting behind the closed doors of the world, like thinking about what you did to me, and I was just crushed and I was thinking like I could just do it back, and you're a man, You're not gonna be able to really accept it, like I have to deal with it like you you wasn't, And I thought, you know what, before I even tell you, I know that

you cheat it. I have to like get the nerve because I know once I let this cat out the back, it's over between me you. Because I'm visionary, I'm gonna I vision you fucking her and I'm not gonna see no other way. That is very true because when somebody just that, every time you're in bed, you're thinking, like, so what you're like that? Yeah, Like I just every time you leave the house, you're thinking, so you're calling that bits when you leave the house texting her, Yeah,

I just yeah, so I have her around you. I just left because I don't want to play the same game that you're playing, because now we're both like slows. Right. That's the main thing. Like when you when a guy teaching you and it's disrespectful because his boys don't know. They don't everybody know, your girls know. You don't know. You're feeling crazy. You look like outside around your friends. I had other bits around Yeah, yeah, all right. Now has porn affected the way that you have sex in

any way? Because I know we all watch porn? Oh I I honestly I love porn, you know because I love porn because I'm always watching the stuff that like if I don't do something, I'm like, damn, that's what we say. I don't say I'm like googling stopping her and him. But it just makes it more like it

just makes you. It makes me just want open like sexually, like to just do what I want to do it like this, Like you know a lot of my friends they're they're like stuck in their ways, like, oh, I'm not swallowing, I'm not deep, I'm not doing all these things. And what's the first thing you said? You know, they're not swallowing, they're not deep, they're not doing all of these Oh my god, I'm not gonna ever do that. And it's like you're being swallow though. Oh it's some

girls that says that they don't. They're not. They're just stuck in the older frame like they're you know, that's that's the disgusting. I think spitting is way more discussing this. No. One girl who won't swallow, but she likes for her man to come on her face. Do you might as well drink it? I mean, which one is more Like she's like, no, I could never that's disgusting. I'm like coming their whole face, Like why you can't? This coming

on your face is the worst. If you have to do something later, like if my makeup is done in my last yeah, you ain't working. Come and don't get that ship in my hair either, Do not want that in my hair? That is disrespectful. If anybody tries to come in and you gotta try to duck out the way like whoa slow down. I'm not against getting come on my face. I'm not against it, but that if that has depends, it has it has to be a lit night, like you have to be really really like

extra lit like. But what if they're about to go out, because let's admits sex is different. When you got you gotta go out later. You're not gonna that's to stay in for the night. That's all that. We ain't got nothing to do. The only time you're sucking up my face my makeup is if I'm done with it for the night. When I'm done using this for the night, you can good up all you want. Get my lashes off stiff. Now, after that guy comes in your mouth, do you try to kiss him or do you feel

like I gotta brush my teeth after. I'm not gonna try to kiss him, but I'm not gonna run and brush my teeth right after either. Yeah, I'm not doing it. I'm not gonna try to kiss him really after you come in my mouth, Yeah, I don't want, but I'm gonna definitely kiss him after after I come to his mouth, I'm gonna go straight for his mouth because I want to taste it. But I'm not about to What if he's like, I want to taste my come No, okay,

that's I don't think so, I don't think. I think that's like the end of the terminated that's right, yeah, my keys at about what about? Right? Okay, we want to taste that want to taste him side. I don't think the time so I think it's over after them absolutely, what that happens, you know, what both of us are falling asleep is over, so you wouldn't kiss it. So if you try to kiss your man after you came in your mouth, would you be offended? If he's like, chill,

are you understand what's disrespectful? And I think like right after no, I mean you mean like it's not in yours? You mean swallow then lay down up on a pillow, land with your back turn or whatever, like about to fall just kissing him out like a good night or something. That's fine. But I mean if the comb is still lingering around in my mouth, I'm not about to put my cou I'll ring around your mouth, lingering, okay, lingering around in my mom I'm not about town. There's still

some hiss comeback in his mouth, like he said. That's what I like. It's in your mouth. And you want to kiss sometimes because I swear I'm hilarious. I'll swear I'll like fake a guy out and be like, oh, give me a kiss, give me a kiss, And if they say yes, I'll be like, oh my god, you're so nasty and telling me that like no, usually like one like no, go wash your mouth. All right, So now let's talk about in real life. I'm gonna throw out a song title and I want everybody to give

a story that relates to this song title. All right, I wish I never met you? M I wish I never met you. A story is like I mean personally, yes, a personal story. You don't gotta say no names obviously, but somebody that you feel like I wish I never met you. Oh yeah, I definitely feel like I wish I never met somebody that was in a situation with and um, this is like a four year situation and your engagement, yeah, and like you really you know what this this is the whole thing I can't get. I'm

so it's out of me. But like I was so to not let you know for four months and I held it. I'm looking at you every single day and I'm watching but I don't care. What she was saying, some freaky freaky ship you. Okay, so you read his technologyes his his his message was going off. I never ever checked his messages. And she was so extra thirsty. I guess was trying to let other people know they

have been conversating again. And she was sending these messages over from him and her, from her to somebody else that I know, and she she sent the message that came up, it like it just opened up. So I was like, okay, now this is a little what was

she saying. What she was saying is like, you know what, I'll just be so happy when you're done whatever you're doing in this in your career, and you could just have this office now and we could just suck on the balcony of your office and you could just fuck me and like sucking in the ask like you like just like you like like how I like you to

do it. I'm like, you know you love that? And then it was like his message was like he was like it was like, hey baby, you got You're up, and it was like, I just want to know how many more times can I fuck you before I leave? And she knew he was in a relationship, of course, and I was like, how but I don't even care that she was saying all this free she say a whole bunch of freaky stuff more than that. But he just the fact that me knowing that you kept saying

I just want to know. I mean, how many times can I fuck you before I leave? It's his response that was really did it? But you're leaving coming to me? Well, there's no coming back from that one. And I just all I could just keep imagining this, how many more times can I you before I leave? So you mean

somebody was sucking her all these days? You were there like every single day, like Thursday, Friday, Saturday and coming to me Sunday and if you want to get the Sunday I was thinking like like how, like like how do you conceal? How do you? I just really wish I just never It's nothing I could do. I'm so mad. I can't even do nothing, but just wish I never

met you. Like it's no coming back from that, because now I can't even fuck you because I'm imagining you fuck her and like, so you thought about trying to make it work after that, No, it was like a whole year after that no phone, no call, no text or nothing, just nothing like no communication, no matter who you reached out, it was no way to talk to me.

And then a year passed and someone contacted me to speak to you, and really I think I was I was, I was happy, but I was still thinking, like I wondered when this day would come, like what I would say, how I would be if I ever see you, and I You're the only person I wanted that to Like that was no closure to get that chance back to see and I realized when I saw you, I talked you apologize, you can't go on all this stuff. I felt for that a little bit. I wanted to hear

all that within that year. But then I did make a chance to go see you. And then when I saw you, I realized, Damn, I'm like, I'm not even missing nothing, You're not doing nothing that for a whole year since I've not been here, Like I'll just be come back to the same thing, so you'll be still with me, still doing the same thing, going back, still sucking her. It's not gonna happen, bro, That's right. And I always feel like with guys, if you wait too long,

we don't moved on. Your window of opportunity is closed. It's got you gotta try to get up back when we're vulnerable right after, because if you wait too long, we don't get over that. Yeah, we off of it. So sometimes it's got to be like immediately you guys want to wait, I wait till she calmed down. I'm gonna do this and do that. It's yeah, it's done, Yeah,

it was done. Step wish I never met you. Wish I mean for me, it's a little different because I've ben't heard a lot in my lifetime with guys, you know, just naturally as a woman moving around. And you heard guys a lot too. Yeah, you know, I've had my share of you know, breaking hearts. But you know, I don't I take all of that like lesson. I don't really try to stress that out for me. I wish I never met the guys you know that are so amazing.

They make the other guys like it makes it hard for me to date you know what I mean, because this guy is just like so amazing. Every other guy is just so trash compared time. You know what I mean. This is the stand it's too high now, Yeah, I mean it's that's those type of guys I wish I'll never met. But if that's U G wish I never met you, I'm gonna switch it up to it's a bunch of bitches I wish I never met because the host was trifling some of your friends. That I trifling girl,

some of my ex friends. That's exactly what I'm talking about. The betrayal, the betrayal that I've experienced. It was at a level of just ridiculousness, and it came from three people. Um that I was thought I was really close to that. I can find it in that I shared my home with that, I was around my family with that. Uh, you know, blessed what in tears? We made money together, be cry together, he was broke together, he was up together. You know, we wore each other clothes and burrow shoes

and ship. Fourteen years were of friendship. And you know, I should have seen the coming, But I don't know what made me think I was so special that it wouldn't happen to me, and I did, but I did, So that's that would be my I wish I never met you because I never wanted well, actually you know what, I wish I never met you. But at the same time, I'm glad I did meet you because I learned that lesson and I'll never in my life put myself in a predictament where I'll allow somebody to do that to

me again. So you ever had one of your friends your man, Yeah, that happened to me very like very early early on. It was it was one of my best friends. Wow. Yeah, and and it and it was it's just one of them. Crazy because you know, like you're your friends, you'll have your little secrets, like if this is your friend, you're my friend, like you know, if we went to a club and another guy try to talk to me or somebody because you're my friends. But so this is my friend and you're my friend,

and I'm your best friend. Is getting all this attention, but you're not getting this attention, and you would risk the French hip that we have so you could suck the guy that I'm with, just so you can think that you're gonna get the everything that I have, And not only did you do that, but you also like told all my secrets, like oh you know that like that she said we was going to Bahamas. We wasn't in Bahamas, were you remember the Like that was one of those things. And I was like wow, like it

was a really wow. It was a hurtful thing. And the thing about it is I was like I was devastated. Not only did you suck my man, but you also um told my secret like that that's one thing my man and everything and keep it moving, but you're gonna tell my ship. So that's somebody you obviously never spoke to again after that. I actually and that's the thing I did, because the thing what happened is we were like this is somebody that I this is like my

best friend. I love you to death and I actually look up to you because you're older than me and I idolized you, so I'm never thinking that would ever

be mean you. And then you and him really was like damn there like really sucking around and I would have to see it and see it, and I remember all my my other friends wanted to boyfriend and girlfriend after that, but it was it was like it was to It was to make me so like, you know what, I know that you were talking to somebody else, so I know that you didn't want to be a minimum.

You just didn't want to tell me. And I know because she like you would text me everything that me and her will talk about, so I know that that's where you got it from. And but now I'm gonna tell you something. I don't even really want this bitch. I'm only wanted to get back at you because I told you I'm gonna I'm gonna really really get you, and that's how I got it. And then now you're just dogging her. And then they got into this big altercation.

She's crying, going crazy, and she called me like fear for her life, and I ran to come save her because but I had to like realize to say that we could not ever be friends like men. You could never like be that again. We could like we don't talk now, but I still like love her because she was somebody that like I grew up with you like your mom and my mom, like it was one of them kind of like more than friends, like family. So that was hurtful because my whole family and your family

knows each other. So I still have to see that. My still families know what happened. Everybody know what happened. It was almost embarrassing, you know, it was like so embarrassing, and it was just like, I mean, we were younger, but it's still like you're older and I respected you so much like a boss, and you did that and

took advantage. So I learned a lot from that growing up to where now like I don't really like rock with chicks like that, I don't trust like so many people because of that issue, Like I don't understand what makes women do stuff like that. Will be jealous, like you know, we all if we down, we down, we up, we up. Like you said, we're gonna do what we need to do, but for that, because the sad part

is that's not even what. They don't even what what you got, what what they think he's gonna do for them? Because doing for you even work in the third let me see if I if I'm gonna get the same thing. No, it didn't happen. I was crushed. Yeah, all right, and you know we gotta do a big old dick. We need a big old dick story story. You first big story, which one let me think. Um, my favorite in life. I mean, I can't lie. You know, being single is

really amazing. But I've been dating one guy and his dick is really really fucking big, and it's so much like, Okay, this is a good story. I remember one right now. Okay, So the other day we were, um, we were having sex, right and we finished, and he went to get me the wash cloth because I was dead. Usually I get up and pee after I had sex, but I was dead, so I was dead. I'm there waiting for them to

get me the wash cloth. And I was like, I was like, wow, you know, like that was so intense, Like I bet you if I close my eyes, I could feel, you know, I could feel the um. I could feel the pain my insides are going through right now, right, So I closed my eyes. I swear, on on everything I love, this is a true story. I closed my eyes to feel deeper. And yo, I swear I could hear. I could feel not here, I can feel my uterus throbbing. Wow. Like it was like I'm gonna close my eyes like

he was killing my ship. Like he was killing my ship. Like I swear, his dick is so big, Like if I feel like it goes up to my rim down that was too big. No, come on doing what was defeated by a big dick? Y'all know, I think I'm the dicks a queen of the universe. I mean, yeah, I think that my head is very, very good. And I heard I've heard by enough people that I believe it to be true. So anyway, I was defeated by a big dick because I couldn't fit it in my mouth.

You couldn't fit it in your actual It wouldn't it was too it was too wide for you to open your mouth. It hurt. So what do you do like that situation? I took a deep breath and I just you know, I tried my best. It was that, no, I have a tip, I had a chest and the dick is too big, right, Like I got a tip. I gotta tip, guys. I mean, I still managed to make it head, but I didn't give them I didn't

not say it. Just listen, when the dick is too big and you feel like it's just not comfortable in your mouth, what you do is just put like just you don't suck on the tip of it, right, and like make a you know, make sure your hand is really wet and like make a like a suction from your hand. Yeah, that's basically what I had. Your hand whatever, I had a big and I'm crazy. I mean, that's one of my movie. That's one of my anyway, but I've been coming. We had to do that. That was

the only thing I can really say makes us. Yeah, you like, yeah, you take that, and you like make us Let you do this exactly and it makes a noise, It makes a sucking noise, a hard sucking noise, and it drives them. That's already one of my movies. But that was like the only thing I really good them with was that, because they would like my lips was like, you know, your lively drive it and they crack. It's like you're getting your wisdom teeth. It's like when you

when they put the thing to get your teeth. Yea, like no, okay, shout out, okay, let's see. I already have like a real big dig story. I think it would just be more like for me, it would be just like just having sex. It's like the whole big like right now I have like you have a big, big dick, me too, And it's like the thing is with me. I'm I'm honestly, I'm one of those people.

I really, I am the I am the most remember her legs because I don't I don't say that, I don't get so relaxed to where I can just be like I'm just about to fucking drive you crazy right now. It's like I have to be so lit to like get to that doing what I'm saying, like to get that relaxed where I can just really like I'm going to like I don't want I want every part of it,

like your whole fucking body to come on this. I want all your But that's like a thing for me to get so relaxed to get to that point for that. So I'm still trying to adjust to this situation. Well, make sure you pee after you'll get a urinary tract infection. I always be after you have to. I don't want no track. I don't want it to be like uncomfortably like you know what I mean, Like I call that a museum dick. It's great to look at. Yeah, I don't, I don't really want it like that, but it's it's

really great. So do you like to um after you have sex? Be like in pain? Like Dan that ship, I'm still sore. No, not mean sometimes you do because I want when I wake up, so I don't really want to feel the pain. Yeah, you just need that pounding that sometimes you just need that. Not not not not you know you need that. And then the next day you like, no, I'm telling you the next day And then he was getting the and I might shoot, was like boom boom boom boom boom, it's amazing. Maybe

there was a ghost having sex with you. What about okay, sex in public? But I got a story. Okay, Houston's in the bathroom, you know how to have like the doors the restaurant. He since, yeah, you know how you go in in the bathroom in Houston's and it's like door door door, door door instead of stalls, it's like actual doors. Yeah, we were behind the door and we didn't lock the door, and this this white lady walked in the door and she jumped in. She could have

but no, but yeah we got caught. But she ain't say nothing. Yeah, I mean that would be whack, and then closed the door and left out the bathroom. She was like, man, but we kept going. Yeah, I was real hot to That was the first time public. That was the first time I ever ate an edible. We was in California, and that was the first time I ever ate edible and I ate the rice crispy tree and I ate the whole thing, and I was so high.

I was so Before we started having sex in the bathroom, I was actually sitting at the table with my sunglasses on and I was sitting there to sleep, and then he woked me up, like and I'm like to sleep. I'm like, yeah, that's what he said. He's like, oh, he's like, you've been a bathroom. I wake you up. And I'm like, um, no, you meet me in the

bedroom because I'm not going in the mens room. You've never had sex in public, not in like a bathroom stall, not in the park, not be just I really like, I think about a lot, like on the plane, I'm just waiting till I can get the moment to do it. So you want to do it on the plane public, I don't know about on the plane, I mean, not a regular plane. And we had to be provate. YEA. Yeah. First of all, those bathrooms are way too small, like like what if he was trying small glass bathroom when

we was going to New Orleans your up bathroom. Yeah, so crazy, I gott it. You got it. You never had sex in the car, at least I've never had sex I did. I never did. Come on, now, I did have sex in the sex with a girl in the car. This girl raped me in the car one day. I didn't even know that she liked girls. The next thing I know, I was driving. The next thing I know,

she was eating my pussy. And I was like in the car, in the car while you were driving, I was driving as dangerous by the way I was driving. Did you pull over? Yeah? Did you come? Absolutely? Okay? Sex in public? Sex in public. I've had sex in the park, um, but sex on the boat is in public, right, that's public? Yeah? Yeah, se yeah, so yeah. I've had sex like that outside the boat, like on the piter when you're sitting nineteen and right there, like down in the down in the boat and on top. But it

was in the night. Okay, need have sex in public. And I had sex on a balcony. That's like a balcony sex is in public yet open. I had hotel balcony experience in Paris. Let's get behind watching the Eiffel Tower sparkle. It was amazing. I love that. It was so nice. I've done that, yes, all right, I know this gonna man. We forgot about We always forget about her. Of course I've had sex in Okay, Okay, of course I had when I was in college. I had sex

in the park before and nobody was around. All right, Um, funck boy, let's hear your fun boys story. Have a fun boys story. Yes you do. We all do, funk boy fun I'm gonna say what fun boys do. Okay, funk boys suck your friends. Funk boys fuck your friends friends, knowing that there's your friends friends. Fun friends do that too. By the way, fun boys suck their ex girlfriend every time y'all break up or have arguments. Funck boys allow other females to put their clothing inside their luggage and

bring it home to their girlfriend. Fuck boys, it's like a poem. I was like, I need to drink. If you can keep your head, we're all about you are losing their fun boys. Funk boys financially abuse you. They use their money as power and they hold it over your head. What else do fun boys do? Damn, he damn,

you have some experience. I think my funk Boy would be like, you know, epiny me of like my story I went through, the whole situation is stuff that you did that was just so like you know, I still just think about it like it's one of things, like really, you know, it's just one else what I think. But everything that g G said I think is the truth.

Like boys, especially guys that fuck your friends or your friends friends or girls that know your friends and just do a whole it's just like that's corn and get anything to get back to you, anything that's gonna make it. Fact, boys make women feel like it's okay, like they could talk to you crazy, do whatever, get your house and check. Yeah, that's the main thing. What about use that fun boys? Well, um my fun boy. I'm grateful for him. Clearly I'm

a cupful today, huh. But anyway, I just my first relationship. The first guy that I thought I was in love with. I know today that I wasn't in love because I was a kid, and you know I wasn't. I feel like you have to be a little older to know how to experience love. But anyway, the first guy that I thought I was in love where he was terrible. He was he was five six years older than me, and you know, um, our relationship had to be on the low. He um. He used to sleep with all

my friends. He um. He got one of my friends pregnant friends. Yeah, he got one of my he um. He was just really awful. He abused me mentally and physically, you know. And this is my first boyfriend. This is my first boyfriend. I say it all the time. I feel like being when him was like whole training, you know what I mean, like at a very young age, and I don't feel like I feel like being with him also damaged a lot of my relationships in my adult life. So and closing, the reason I'm grateful for

him is because I feel him. I really I really never dated anybody like him anymore. I didn't date anybody. Yeah, I learned when I was when I was from when I was fourteen to when I was eighteen. You know, what you don't want is just as important as doing what you're doing. Boys make you quit your job, right,

you know. And he um and you know, after him, all the guys that I've dated, all the guys that I've dated, have been like you know, have been in a different level, not the same like he was really he was really uneducated. He was a street guy. You know. Um he was you know, raised by in a single parent home. I never dated anybody like that afterwards, Like in all my relationships after that, if anything, I was the fun boy. So the boys teach you how to be boys exactly. So we gotta ready to leave. Yet

they're saying you have other things. He's like, oh, we gotta go, alright to my minutes. Two more minutes. Alright, alright, we'll do. You want my question, and we're gonna let you because we know that you have a lot going on because you got the new single out Damn featuring Tory Lanes. All right, two more questions? Two? Come on? Have you earth to turn down a request from a lover? Like somebody asked you to do something and you were like, I'm not doing that. Yeah, that I happened to before

that was like a threesome. I turned it down only I mean and honestly, and I a part of me wanted to do it, but I thought about, like, I didn't even really know if your fun boy tendencies will come out after that, so I just thought like, that's just pause right now, because we are not. I don't know what's gonna happen. You don't deserve it, I'm yeah, and I just it just didn't work out that way. Have you ever had a threesome? No? Have you you

never been with a woman, never had a threesome. I fantasized and having a threesome, but I'm I see this is my threesome thing. I'm just I think, like, if it's me and my man, and I really want you to have like enjoyed this girl, right, But I don't want to be the goofyer. I don't want something to go wrong. And I just look and I have this visionary thing and I'm looking at you and we're all into this moment and you're sucking her, and I see

your faces in this You're it's you're in this. It's so great thing, and I just lose it and fuck the whole vibe up. I need to understand what I need to do. I have to make sure I'm ready to like or I want to know from him, like, what is the pleasure for you out of this? Of course somebody's gonna be great, feel good or whatever, But how much of it is it's just physical? How much is it will be like, or is the pleasure that you're there and he gets to see another bitch eat

you out? And I feel like that's that's okay. He will want that too, but that's I'm not even worried about that because that's just me and a woman. That's as far as it go. But you and her, I'm worried about what you are. Like. I don't want to look up and see like her eating me out and you're sucking her from the bag and I'm looking or anything or you. I just want to look at you and her have no type of what men you have, And I don't want to be the spoiler. I had

out like that with her husband while he was sucking me. See, but how did you have do it? I would I'll be freaked out. I mean I didn't care. He didn't because it wasn't her many I was the other woman, so I didn't care. She spassed out. They was getting the married couple and she was like, what did you want? Why are you fucking what? Like she just got upset and like spassed out, like you can't be her like

that happen jealousy. I don't think that. I don't think that she really really like she thought that that's what she wanted, but maybe it was then when it happened. It has to be hard to see somebody that you're with sucking somebody. Shouldn't just only be because this is physical right now, nothing means nothing after this? It should be But is it that? I mean it was physical for me. I didn't give a about the man. But okay,

so what if it was your man and it was somebody? Well, I'm gonna tell you I've stopped the threesome from happening with my man and a close friend of mine one time because I felt like I couldn't go through with it because he was my man, Like I'm not about to watch you on her. I'm not about that. I can't stand there. Look at is being very liberal, No I am, But it was me and this one. Me

and this particular person was just way too close. Like I wouldn't have a three corom you, I wouldn't have to through some of you, Like I'm too close to y'all for that with him, You know what I'm saying, Like you don't have to really Well, I know I know that, and I know that was two, but I'm just saying like you, I'll just get in that same friend category a friend like I put. I put both of y'all in the same friend category as set friend.

So at the time, it was really about to go down, like about to happen, and I stopped the whole thing, like I just can't, Like I'm sorry, I just can't. And I had to explain to both of them, like I'm in love with this man, like I love this man like to the core, and this is one of my closest, closest, closest friends, and I just can't. I have to be somebody you're not that close with, basics, somebody I'm not that close with, or somebody I don't

know from Kanda Bank. But do you think he's gonna make sneak around and go back and funk her, You're not. That happened to me. That happened to me. And I gave my ex boyfriend a threesome and then I came home and he was sucking the girl at my house. See so crazy, it's crazy from the era of threesomes. I think that's like a I don't know, it's just not something. I mean, I don't want to text with girls, so yeah, it's not particularly that I want to have sex with a girl and the guy at the same time.

But if I like having sex with girls and my man knows that, of course he's gonna want to join in. Usually usually I you know, I'm the same like you guys, like I don't think that I want to bring other people into my relationship. But you know, lately, you know, I've been thinking about it, and you know, like the guy that I'm dating right now, he has so much dick, you know what I mean. Sare that all the time, So I need to break okay with bringing another woman it.

Let me tag you in to this other girl, bring somebody else around. And you're like, but this is really my dick and my man. I may, I may feel like it's I don't want it right now, but I really don't want you fucking bit. No, I feel that. I feel that, but I feel like I feel like with him, I feel like he's gonna do it anyway. He's gonna anyway, my man. You can't find nobody else.

The last time and him had am we were on our birthday trip in St. Martin and we had a threesome with the friend of mine and we're friends, but we're not as close close close close, but we're friends. And me and this girl had sex before without him or anybody else, and then so I kind of looked at it like, yeah, me and her, it's cool and everything,

and I confident care I already here. But it was kind of just like okay, like it wasn't to do with somebody that you don't know, but if it was, but I would not have let that go down with the person I was talking about before, or you know, or it's rule sid is three ships. Basically, it's a lot. It's very because it's very complicated. I just feel like I have a good time on my mome. He was talking about time hisself. We were talking we worked speaking

to three. So that's just what I'm saying. I might share my mind and I'm here could say three. We were talking about is it okay for the guy to bring the girl? Is it okay for your man that supprised you with a three? Something like me, I'm open

with remember to come back. We had anything, don't surprise me with nothing like talking to the strip club and we was want you get your dance and everything, but just the fact of me seeing your finger like touch her, I thought, but it's cool, but you're not sucking her. But I'm saying, if this is a girl, like if it was a threesome, I don't know how I would react, And I don't want to be Like, even if you were to have a threesome, what do you want to

be involved in choosing and making nothing supers? What about when you look at your man and it's looking like he's so engaged you're almost not not left out because you're it's gonna go down with you, of course, But do you feel like this bitch is flies, she's like me, she's this he's loving you, I'm loving I think I might feel like that. I might, yeah, actually finger like Yeah, I've never had that feeling. I've never felt like, oh, hel her better than he sucked me? Or I don't

like to he look I'm gonna I've never felt that. Well, I haven't yet. I have yet, And I got three spots and spots something three is happening. And you're watching him like gaze into her face and give her the same You're not gonna feel no way, I haven't seen that. Maybe he no better? I don't know, see all right, so Traina, we want you to try some new things. Definitely, you gotta have second preslic. That's that's your that's your homework. Homework,

A balcony, carry the balcony. And we don't see Traina on the block saying that she got core fucking in the car. Okay, but you don't have to don't have sex in the ocean needed or that saw and you're pussy. I mean like the car it texting the ocean and yeah no, I'm not having to train your car. You're just like vibing and it's a nice I also need you to get tied up. I need more. I need tuned to be trying to tie up a nice little leash. Let him tie you up, Let him plassure you while

you laid bags. Wasn't that? I need to make sure I'm ready when I come to Amo. Are you okay with being choked? A little choke like pishing on y'all? A little choking is good? What about little slapping on that ass? I don't like to slept? What welke up? I don't want like all these scratches and my ass scratch A good open hand slap. This can just push me a little bit grabbed me, like be aggressive. But I don't know. I'm not really into the slapping of the ass part. But you as is made to be slapped.

You think that's in particular, But that's particular. Finger Prints on the ass is read and scratched up, scratches. It looks good later on when you look at like damn crazy night last night, when you see I'll get so little, that's the best thing. When you wake up and you look all battered, like wow market. All right, so we're gonna let you know, let luc and be a little more vulnerable. Okay, Okay, So I'm ready, and next time you come back, we're going to talk about it. Okay,

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