Episode 77: Kranium

and we give music. So it's been very fun for me on this this weekend. It's good for you guys too, because Tory Lanes has a bit of a Caribbean vible, so you know so, and I feel like y'all have all co signed him and so it gives him more of that, like okay, we're cool, dope, alright, So we always start a fashion with the tip of the day. Now, you had tweeted something the other day to caught my eye.

All right. He was talking about cheating. Yeah, and you said that since you were fifteen years old, you never got caught cheating. Yeah, So how do you what are the steps that you can take the tip of the day to make sure you don't get caught cheating because a lot of people be getting caught up. First, it's gonna get me caught now, I'm just about about people. Now. It's a tip therefore, learning Stephanie attempt to not get caught cheating. Number one tip to not get caught cheating.

You don't follow or have any public contact with the person that you're cheating. Was so, no liking pictures? Yeah, no liking pictures. You can't even follow me. You don't know that person. Who is that person? Right? You don't know that person? That good tis tip? G what's your tip? One of your tips? Because we know we have made I have a few Delete delete, delete, delete right sex messages, save the number, remember, memorize the number. Don't even save it. Wow,

you guys are professional cheaters. I'm just listening, like, yeah, imagine that. Yeah, I mean it is a part of everything. But I also feel like, you know, you can do delete the numbers or whatever. What about to putting their name in differently and then deleting it. Also, because what if they happened to call you, I text you? You can do that as well, but that will still gets you got up if the person you know, I still could delete it. You know what's the number one tip?

I change my mind? Number one, I changed my mind. A number one tip is you can't act different when you're cheating. Okay, You've got to act normal. Everything is normal. They don't change. That's a mistake that people make when they cheat, Like they start treating their partner bad, you know what I mean, and they're like smiling in their phone, and then they're looking up and rolling their eyes at their partner like or they treat you even better because

they feel guilty. They come home doing things they never did. But even that, even that, that's a little extra, don I don't everyone change is normal. And you can't be like too messy with your phone, you know how all of a sudden you gotta like take your calls in the bathroom or I'll be right back and do stuff you never You cannot change your pattern, what I mean when these in these times, this don't need for like going to buy through my stuff because things called do

not disturb anyth ah. So that's a tipire I use that do not disturb you know what? You can also black one person's number. Yeah, you can put that one person on not disturb Yeah, I don't know. I'm not doing any of these things. This is the stuff that I've done in my path or that you know of. Ye, this is the stuff I heard I say that. But some people I know take it even even a step further, Like if you spend the night or you go to someone set and you have to shower, they make sure

they use the same exact soap and lotion. You don't use. No, don't use any soaps. So just rent off and right do want to be smith swith don't want to smell toast? You just rents with a lot of hot water and pet dry and then you still have the same lotion and deodorant and all of that smell that you have. We do right to well, these are at a lot

of tipts. We must know some real professional cheaters out here. Also, you should tell the significant well or the person that you're cheating with the side person not to wear any type of perfumer cologne. Right. Sometimes that gives it away too if it gets on your clothes. The only reason I know these tips is because these are the things that I did not follow. You know, I never deleted anything.

I was always getting cloffee cheater. Yes, so just learn learn from my mistakes cars, because then pictures be on the SoundCloud and all of that. Like I've gotten I mean, I get caught every single time. I've never not gotten caught. Wal Yeah, you've never not gotte caught. No, no, I didn't need to say sound held. But the iPhone cloud you know how you think you do. Yeah, the eye cloud. That eye cloud got everything. Yeah, text messages, all of

that stuff. And also if you use somebody's computer. This had called my ex boyfriend cheating, make sure you log out. Yeah, if you're checking your emails on someone's computer, that's how he got car. He didn't log out of my laptop. And then I went to go look something up and on Google, and his Gmail popped up and it was just open. I did after, but I'm like a lie. I did for a second feel bad about it. Yeah, he should have left it open. Yeah, I felt bad,

But then I felt like, God, did this. You didn't go You didn't go into his computer and go look for you open up your own computer and surprise, surprise, he left. I felt like it was funny you don't think somethings are destiny something that I'm not. You need to search somebody's for me, because I didn't go looking like figure out his password and kind of felt like somebody's like, girl, you need to look at this and see what he's up to. Well that's what you actually didn't.

I think that was like a test of trust in musically, so you didn't trust him. I already didn't trust him, and that's probably what it was, because if I trusted him, I probably wouldn't have done That's true. So yeah, yeah, what we're gonna say that happened with Derek. Um No. I went to my he parted, he I've done to his Facebook from my computer, and I opened it up

and I found him cheating on me. Yeah, but you know it was that was just you know, that was just that was just fate, because I used to feel so bad for cheating on him for you know, like even interesting kind of thing else, and finally I got to see that and I was like, Okay, it's okay. Everything I've been doing it it's been it's justified, he said, And you said at the time, Yeah, no, I was, Yeah, you know, but I was really younger. When I was with my son's father, I was I was, I was

a kid. I needed to live. You know, I don't think that counts. I don't think it's like my first real relationship, right. I mean, it counts, but it counts, It counts, but I don't think it reflects on the person that I am. Listen, in your younger years, people and made mistakes, right, I mean, I don't even considering mistakes. You know. I was just living my life. Everybody got to live, right, and we're going to continue. It's just life,

all right. Now. We were also talking about you know, the best part of relationship sometimes is when it first starts, like the newness of it. You're having sex all the time. How soon do you think until all of a sudden, like that newness wears off and you're like, Okay, we used to have sex three times a day, Now we have sex three times a month. What do you think is that honeymoon period is over six months? I ain't think six months or six months, Oh no, I think

it lasts like a year and change. Yeah, a year and a half. Yeah. I feel like I'm in averages like a year and a half for I think for a lot of people from from use. I don't know because my last relationship and the Audie loven months, so if we were still in that, we were still in that phase of having sex all the time, you know, and then thinking about in my past relationships, I just it's not even the time, it's just what happens. What

make that happened? Like, how do you go from wanting to have sex all the time to not wanting to have sex all the time? You get comfortable? Like what makes you what makes you horny for this? What makes you horny so much? In the beginning, you're all of a sudden, you don't have you don't have you don't have the feeling, you don't have the feeling like you don't want to. Yeah, you start saying the feeling. It's just not as like, so you want to you want

to have sex with somebody else. You would have sex three times a day if it was with somebody else. I think you get comfortable sometimes and come out six months it's like if it did, because because when the experient when these fresh fish fish is like you want to do the other time that event, surely you'd be like zero. You know, I've been doing so much. I think.

I think it also depends on how often you see the person, because sometimes if you're in a long distance relationship and every time you see each other, it feels like, Okay, this is exciting. But I'm gonna be honest. I feel like sometimes in relationships we get comfortable and we need to set it up because we take for granted, like, Okay, you know I could I go to bed wearing an old T shirt and some shorts. You don't do the things that you used to do. None of us do,

I mean not me. I sleep naked all the time. I need to real life, like life, I'm a naked person. I always need it all the time. All right, Well, I sleep with clothes on. I know, I know. But and that's another thing. Like even I was with someone for seven years and I used to want to have sex with him all the time, except for the times that I was having sex with other people. M that's the only time that I didn't want him all the time.

And we're talking about for years, right, So basically you switched it up, and you think he could tell like, now she don't want to have sex, she must be doing something. I just want. I just I just want to know what makes that happen? Like why? Where? How do you go from wanting somebody so bad to not wanting them so much anymore? Like what makes that happen?

The newness wears off cranium? You tell as a man. Honestly, I feel like everybody's different still, and I mean not everybody's seeing but there's this is saying like it's too much of one thing. Yeah, sometimes you need that break in between. That's necessarily you're going to be in a brick, but sometimes you need to take you know, do different things, go to enjoy yourself, part with the kids. Just not

need it. You need to miss it. You can't be all up on each other every single day still, That's all I feel because no matter what, almost an angel, something's at one point they're gonna be like it's too much. Sometimes you doesn't need that. I can sometimes it's just so stressed too from like whatever you have going on. It depends on the female because someone you else is annoying as hell. Know, it's really things. So it's not even about you even don't want to be your penny normal.

It's more like, yeah, I need that, But what do females do that's annoying everything everything like can't be everything like what some examples it was annoying, like talking on the floor, but you say talking like like you guys have some un necessary stuff sometimes like I've dated someone who literally want food from someone's like thirty miles of it like all the time, like in the media and night. But like I feel like this stuff of food I'm looking at, like you're not pregnant like a you know,

and after what you just become a nine very patient. Yeah, And that's what I'm saying. I'm very patient. So it's like if this guy's patient is good, but if he's not patient and much at the time, at one point he's going to get impatient and I'm gonna do some stuff's explain something, you just do something. You think that annoying factor makes you not want to have sex with them anymore. You don't want to have period of time.

I wouldn't say not want to have six books. But I think the girl, I think it's the woman who really goes cold. I think it's the woman who goes cold, like what actually whenever you want in the beginning and then after a while, it's like hard. But sometimes guys don't even try, like that's all you want. Now. Maybe guys too sometimes that don't want Yeah, I have a lot of friends that have told me like, I don't

know what's going on. And the thing about women too is when you don't want to have sex with us and initiate sexy, it makes us feel like, yeah, it makes us feel really bad. Yeah, it makes us feel like Dan, you just not attracted. Is he's doing something else? You know what's going on. We're doing things. It's been taking your business. It doesn't matter. She's like waxing everything, or does hair matter. I don't think I've ever been with a guy that's not always be sent on my pussy,

like always running behind my pussy. I don't think I've ever been with a guy that's not like that. I've ever been with a guy that doesn't try to to initiate sex. I've never been with that has never happened to me. Okay, when I live with a guy, he's always behind my eyes, always trying to have sex. I

think things can't take a shot. I've definitely been anything in situations where it might be like like I had a boyfriend that he was working like a double shift, trying to save up money for something, and he was always tired. He would be at work from nine in the morning until ten o'clock at night, and he didn't really want he was exhausted, tired. But I was irritated about it is working. I was irritated because then a

job too. By the way, it's true, and it's like you have to be smart too, because a girl sometimes feel like she's not getting enough from you, so she goes somewhere. That's very true. You know, that's the worst thing you can say to that guy. If you don't do it, you know somebody else will if you put all right, she's not gonna still. You know, I wanted to give it to the right through. I don't feel like she's gonna go somewhere. She's gonna think, you know,

make up for entertainment. You don't do it. So I forgive her with each time, so that you've got to perform up to part you have. You know, you have your back up. She's not like, oh my god, she gets a good enough so she can't w up all right. Now, let's say, um, you're in a relate you said with somebody you're not married, but you guys want to get some properties together or go into business together, how careful

are you about that? Like, let's say you guys have been together for four years and you want to buy a house. Would you buy a house with somebody that you're not married to? What have I Nah? Because then jealousy gets and there's a lot of things that could stop stem from just being jealous, sir. So I don't think. I don't think I couldn't know. I don't think I

could na I couldn't do it. I think buying an investment property is a good idea with someone because if it don't work out, if it don't work out, at the end of the day, business is business, and y'all can just handle your businesses and go you're separate ways when y'all siut of the house. But not everybody thinks like that though. Yeah, so you have people like when that jealousy coming is like you're gonna go to was headed for like friend that you know he's Yeah, But

I mean everybody is different than the same. But for me personally, I would never in my life because people act very different than you think they would. When you're you got to think about in the beginning of every everything is great. Then when it starts to end, you're like, damn, who is this person? Who am I? How did I

get here? Why am I being such a bit? And those things are like high stuff like points in life that those are stuff where you really like buying a host are like business that's like part of your everyday thing where you're you're in come mind, you're comfort zing. So you can just just like that with somebody because

you feel like everything is good now, you know. But if she's like, I want you to invest in it, let's start a company together, and it's a good idea, Oh okay, I don't think I could do it, man, because as I said, I mean person. The reason why I'm talking about this is because I've experienced that in

that sense weird I serio. Jessy comes in and like change everything like people, they forgot like everything that we spoke about, and this is going to be just you know, did that happen like when you started to really blow up. I've been I've been through situations where I feel like I would do certain stuff and I'm happy I didn't do it like I was gonna go through sometimes like you know what I'm so happy. I'm so glad. I didn't you know, That's what I'm saying. Like, and it

was cool, that's the thing. It was like cool, everything was all right, the body, school and stuff like that. It's jealousy ever justified though never you're gonna make it worse. But I mean, what's causing the jealousy, because sometimes it could be like you really doing ship? Yeah, like so a girl guess jealous What I'm saying, like, jealousy is

something you need a reason to be jealous someone. What I mean, so if if you love someone right and you're in a relationship with somebody, and you know, if you hear jealousy, you're giving what's the reason you have another woman? You're making her jealous of other women or she jealous of your success? Yeah she did listened so

many weeks. Sorry, say to you even if even if, for example, like even if you're successful and you're not with the person anymore, at some point, she's gonna have flashbuger, he's gonna have flash. I mean, when you're not with the person I was speaking like, you're still Tosh and you know, in a relationship, and when she causes problems, you know. That's what I was thinking. When you're not

with somebody, yeah, they could be jealous. Actually yeah you can. Yeah, your access they're haters, even when they act like they're not your haters. But sometimes when you're in a relationship with somebody, they get jealous, like little things don't matter, Like you should be able to be like, oh she's really pretty or right, you know, that's fine, that's fine, But people will be jealous. Someone like my girls laughing up with people and they're like laughing, laughing, what do

you mean? You know, for example, you're with me, I will go whatever. It keeps me to being like a guy like I don't like the laughing every minute, like he's so funny. My god, your farther so so you don't like like if I see five six times a person. What if it's Kevin Hart, care zero, that's his job as a comedian. I don't care care zero. But if

it's Eddie Murphy, come on, you gotta give. She could laugh with Eddie Murphy, I said, to a smile, it's fine when I see three and four going, you know, it's like, you know what these two Yeah, it didn't even have That's why he thinks, can I she have friends that our males? Like, what about having guy friends? Yeah? I stop, I'm having friends okay, but there's certain things that are going to do with their friends, like what then you go out to eat? Yeah, of course that's fine. Okay, um,

but they're not going to tell me. It's get up like a freeboard and I'm going to go by John Holst. No, yeah, no, that's crazy, we think, can she laugh? Yeah of course. But there's definitely certain things that's not happening, like are weird trips? I don't know like that, like certain things is like heavy and it depends on the guide. What

if you just said away trips. So what if they're best friends and they've been best friends for years and one of their mutual friends is having a destination wedding, she can't go sticky, but it's when yeah, and then a getting to trust So maybe if we really trust like that, if it's one of those girls and really trust by any mean, if she goverdy and get Penis, I'm sorry, but she can't go. I won't know anyways, But I am not going to just let certain things

just fly. It's just like you're not gonna certain things, certain things are respecting. But if it's a wedding, when it's fine, you know when that's a big when it would be weaked if you said no, even though we really want to say no. But when that's that's different and she should invite you to. I can't. I'm on the road. Me and Tory Lanes got these days to not out who the girls? Um try to get two

more at the shows? You are, Tory Lane. Everybody have them different time because remember I go on before then this is good in different places different you know what I mean. I would be in under with him certain plains and nobody know what's creams right then We've been places with everybody cream me. So okay, I get to fear ship. You know what's been your favorite city so far? Favorite city so far? Um in America? Because we did boyd American favorite that I've been was San Francisco. I

like San Francisco. San Francisco. I can feel that Francisco in New York. I wouldn't go that fast still except cleaner a certain areas. Yeah, I don't know when when I was there was this area we went shopping in and I was like, this is it's nice, it's different. Yeah, I like that. All right now, Stephanie, can your man have female friends? No? What if they said no? But what if you knew them before you? You're comfortable? Lesson?

All right, Lessen, I will say this, and um, you know, in the beginning of a relationship, you deal and put up with a lot of things, you know what I mean, from your partner's past life. But after a while, like, what do you mean saying I would girl for like that doesn't make sense. It's just when you're in a relationship after a while, there are no friends. It's just you and that person. Come on, that's a very unhealthy relationship. It's not an unhealthy relationship. Social life. You have your

social life like you have to. It's just no, it's just not I don't I don't feel like momy I should want me to have god friends either. What I need to hang out with gods for? If I have my man? How many guy friends you had to never try to hit it? Not many, not many, not many, not many? And you pretty much all of my guy friends if I wanted to have sex with, if I

could have sex with them, every single one. I mean, you had a lot of women friends except for like my best friend who has my brother, and he's like, we're disgusted by me as well as I'm disgusted by Would you do you think that other women that you're friends with at some point you try to have sex with them? I wanted to or if you tried, they that you're trying to get me. But I'm just asking because, um, somebody, you know, some of them look really good. Yeah, so

you're attracted to some of them. Chris was differently at some points. Of course you're gonna see they're gonna put on that one, just that that one shots that morning, you know. And that's another thing, like especially not hot friends, hot friend. What do you need a hot girlfriend for? Oh? I was just hanging out my hot girlfriends at the club.

What you're cheating, you're having sex stuff it. That does not automatically mean that my totally prospected because my boyfriend has all of the friends, and all of his friends are hot Angela Ye La La, Anthony Garriel Union. The list goes on and on. These are married woman action of Angela that you just said, well, I mean there's a whole lot more. He has a lot of female friends. And and he's like the host with the most. He

wants everybody around, everybody hang out. Let's definitely be having at Did you ever have a problem with it, that's the question. Okay, Now, I did not have a problem with it initially, and there was only a time that I had a problem with it when I found out when we broke up two years ago that he would and was messing around with one of these said friends that flew to his friend to d C to meet him in d C after me and him and this said friend were all in Miami together just hang out

and kicking it two weeks prior. So. That made me sigy, like, how many of these other bitches have you've been working behind my back while you got a mouth smiling in my face calling me home girl. Well now I'm in of course, not you, but we all know how he is and we know it's always living around him, and of course they expect me when I'm in when I'm there, but who knows the goals behind my back? That that situation opened my eyes to that so ever since then

I saw everything for me. And I mean, if it's just a guy that I'm sucking with, he can have all the girlfriends he can hang out with, whom he could be the hostess with, the most he can sleep with him to somebody that I care about, somebody that I'm serious with. No, so you cut up for your guy friends too, Yes, I cut it all my What

do I mean? I mean, if it's not a business, if we're not if we're not doing something that has to do with my life, my you know, my my career, or you know something that involves friends other you know, mutual friends, like where it's normal. You know, I don't need to be hanging out with my guy friends for what. What do I need to go to lunch with relationships? It makes no signs. Let's set the business lunch. What is the point of me sitting with another man? What

do you saying? What I'm saying is if I meet a girl and she has friends, right, me personally cannot look at my girl and like, I don't I don't like your friends anymore. Yeah. I came in the relationship knowing that you have your friends. So if you were getting me and I have some friends as our females, she cannot and will never ever in that life telling me to change my friends. I stopped right. But the only thing is that's not about side. I would say, the only thing is that is up to me though

for respect the relationship. That said that she wants to cut your friends from the from the get she started acting like I'm being my friends too much. I mean, you don't. That's not because I feel like this. When you're with somebody when it's new, you know it's but it's a new thing in your life. So that's a change. So you have to make changes, you know what I mean. You have to make changes for them. So I'm changing.

You can't be the same person. You can't. You can't have the same life that you had when you were in a relationship, and a relationship to extends, not if when you're agree we need a boyfriend where those friends go back to your friends. But you can't do that exactly.

I think there's certain friends that you know that you shouldn't equal with and that's fine, and then there's certain friends that you're for real real friends, Like I have friends, right, I agree with that I agree with Like, no, I have certain friends I know if I'm going certain places, invite them to different business because they know where they didn't. But even and he's an artist too. Let's keep it real, like there's no way he's not gonna be able to

have wind. But that's like, you know, industry things, industry things. We have to mingle with opposite sex all the time. It's that's that's part of our lifestyle. That's part of you know, a business, you know what I mean, especially when you you can't if you're a business person where you work in the office. All right, now, you could dedicate your whole life to your family and just stay home, you know what I mean. But you know, socialize with

your family. That's that becomes your life. Like this is we're family. This is a different kind of family, and we are friends. Of is a male and female. You shouldn't have to cut your friends. Yeah, but here's the thing. I don't feel like you cut people off and be like, oh, you're not we're not friends anymore because I have a boyfriend.

You just say you just pade out. That is, you don't you don't go on single people lunches, you know what I mean, When you're not single anymore, you know, when you're dating something, when you're when you're saying when you're single, you can do whatever you want to go, even whatever you want. I have friends that I really love. But if I was in a relationship, even though I'll go to lunch, I'm not in a relationship now. If I'll go to lunch with anybody, now, I could do whatever.

You know, it's crazy, But in a relationship, I probably I could think of a couple of guys that I would go to lunch with now even though it's totally friends, it's totally friends, I still would not go to lunch with them if I was in a relationship. But yeah, I mean there's certain things that I have definitely be like, you know, you adjust when you're adjusting, Like, there's certain things that I have for a fact that I wouldn't care if my good bureau that's not even do it.

You can trust everybody all the time, fool on you, but this there's certain friends that you definitely have a way you'd be like you don't even care in the sense of like, yeah, I'm going to the mond. Okay, i want to go to the month and I'm tired. I'm not going to the mound. You guys would go to money. There's always that friend that could you know, I'm saying pick your girl apart, pick you up, and stuff like that. But as I said, me as some money,

it's some money in my relationship. I don't know what no other guy relationships talking about my RESI more female can ever and he shiff monkind in my life telling me altarians my friends not happening. I have one guy friend that I'm really close, but we went to high school together and he's married. He as a kid, like I know, his wife really cool and he comes to my house whenever, like you know, he'll hit me and be like, yeah, what you're doing, I'm gonna come watch

the game. You know my boy Jama and it's never a problem. And his like I have you know, I'm friends that's like my dude and she has no problem. He'll hit me. He'll be like, I'm in Brooklyn. What you're doing, Like, let's go and Angela. It's different. It's different. It's different with your with g dude and you're a dude. It's different. You guys like work in the same environment. No, my other friend just went to high school with. Yeah, you guys went to high school. That's different. And you

cheer what his wife. His wife comes over with him. We don't never really chill individually. And the kid met that I met them. Yeah, you know, everything is normal. That's normal, that's really normal, you know. But there's some friends. There's just certain things you just don't do when you're in a relationship, like when I'm when I'm when I'm in a respectful relationship, even when I'm in a relationship, even if I'm not, you know, I'm not going to

do the same things that I would do. You know, well, you always have to compromise regardless. There's some compromises that you make, right, there's some things that you have to stay infirm on because I give into this. Then to me, everything you are as a single can happen in a relationship just to an extent, right exactly your trust. Now, how much does a person's diet matter to you? Like the things that they eat to come and if it's naturally, I'm gonna be pissed the funk off you are what

you mean? Okay, I need I need that bullshit you're eating all that processed fast food bullshit. No, I need you to be juicing. I need to be eating fresh fruits and berries, organic meats, and wild caught fish. And I need you to god them hey your ship right, so that when they be all of my face, it don't be stinky, or when I got to swallow it, it don't be nasty. Okay, thanks, all right? So no burger king seeming, no McDonald's, jiz, I don't want it, alright,

So I feel you are not that matters. What about cranium? How much is a diet matter like your woman and she eats? Do you care? Are you like disgusting? No? I don't really. I don't watch that like the professor. I don't like when guys eat pork, but y'all know that I don't need Could you date somebody who doesn't eat pork? I mean, who eats pork? Yeah, of course that's isn't that man? I didn't eat pork for months.

And I just had a Cuban sign with sut today and I almost died and I was sicking three days because of the diarrhea. I'm not you know, I don't like talking about those kind of subjects. But did you dirty? Let's just say that it wasn't even about the movements. It was just I was in pain and I felt sleepy and sweaty. It was nasty. I felt sick and

that really felt sick. All right, Well, the holidays are coming up, so we gotta at least discuss that a little bit, okay, because a lot of people need help. You know, a lot of people are in new relationships and they don't know how they're supposed to act because it's Christmas is New Year's you know, do I spend time with you? Do you bring me around your family? What's about to happen? So, um, let's talk about Christmas. If you just started dating somebody, do you feel like

you should buy a present? Of course, even if it's just just just yeah, m yeah, it's just it's a good gift to get for a guy when you first start dating him and you like him. What would you like? What would you like that? What would you buy? What you like? Um? Um, I don't know exactly what would you like to get? Like? What have been some good point? What's some parst of like? What would you be like? Wow?

She nice? Yeah? Something thoughtful, something that you know he likes or something that you like a nice watch or something? Why come on you just fine, I gotta spends or something just something nice? And what I'm saying I'm gonna need something a little cheaper. You know, I got these bills and I got a kid. Like what I mean, it's just something nice way, I don't know exactly. Maybe

something technology, I think technology, something yea like Alexa Alexa. Oh, you know, you know you're good at getting gifts because I'm a cake mama. To talk about this, We're gonna talk about or if he doesn't have Apple TV. That's a nice apple Apple, not a TV Apple TV. Okay too. Five, he's like he wants to I mean nobody, nobody how I could spend I would send out to like six thousand, seven thousand on the gift. But dating somebody, that's a

lot for the first guy. I mean for the first ever, the first couple of weeks for somebody, a couple of thousand. But you said a watch for a guy. What do you mean about? I just like meal girl, I just mean buying a gift. Five. I'm not pressing ample, I'm not investing somebody. I'm not sure able with you. I'm not sure. I don't know. I mean I find that when in the beginning of dating a guy, I get the best gifts for the holidays, my birth because my Christmas is always the best, and so I mean for

me for as a woman. I like buying gifts too. I like spending more than but sometimes you get spend. Sometimes you can spend. Yeah I have to go to but sometimes you could spend a little bit of money and get a really thought that's the first time. Something's very thoughtful. Something that you know, if I'm going for man, something for his home can use on a daily basis, Something will compliment You're lying here're going to talk about. That's talk. I'm a nice car. I would buy a

nice car. Okay, that's not bad. Everybody can use a scarf at some point and then you can tie you up with it nice. Well, crany, and we appreciate you so much. I know you took some time out of your tour scheduling everything to sit down with us. We're here at Atlantic Records too. Yes, were you happy? I'm happy? I might not even with drinking something something something something too. So well, you're the only one kidding you. I know she's high. Yeah. Yeah, come on, guys, I'm trying to

smoke right now. Yeah, I'm going to court smoking weed this week. Yeah, I quit just starts. Think it thirty first right there, okay for ye, all right, just for you, I'll share to that alright, chairs, everybody, lift, service, cranny and thank you so much, appreci