Episode 65: (Ft Dustin From Friendzone Podcast)

So we always start up with the tip of the day. Now, today's tip. How do you get rid of somebody after you sleep with them and you decide you don't like them anymore and they keep on harassing you. What's a nice way to be like, leave me alone without saying leave me alone? I just don't say nothing. First of all, you turned the rear receipts on so that they know you got the message, and you just stopped responding. Wow, that's pretty harsh. Good Yeah, and I don't think that works.

It works for me, But that's not nice. You don't feel bad. What if somebody you're going to run into again. Then even better because then they know and then you see him again, you use the power that close mouth smile. That's what you do, so the next time you see him, you don't show your teeth. You just know what's up. But what if you wear an asshole that you just it was you? It was yeah, like they didn't do anything wrong, like they're nice, You just aren't into them

like that. It was just the lapse in judgment. Yeah, that's the worst time because you don't want to be an asshole right now. You don't want to be Yeah, but I don't want to be miserable either, So fun that I'm still doing it shit. All right, Well, gez, what's your advice. You know, I'm a very forward and honest person, so I would probably like just tell the person like I just can't do you anymore. Sorry, Wow, I just can't do you anymore. Yeah, I would just

be like it's something you know. I would either put a specific issue if it was that serious out there, or I would just say, you know, we're not mentioned and I don't want to waste my time or your so let's just or like you look different with your shirt up. Because sometimes they take their shirt off. Then you anticipated you're like, damn, you're like slim out of shape.

You definitely don't want to look like you gotta hate that slim out of shape body type, you know, you know that body type with their clothes and they look scrumgeous. But then they take and they have like the soft chest like man boobs. Uh, let's have you don't hold your telling you this? So what would you? But you're also kind of nice? No, I would do one of two things. I would just stop responding, or I would um.

I would tell them because after a while, that's the thing you always end up having to tell them, because after a while they don't. I feel like ignoring them doesn't make them stop. It makes them feel like the window is still open. You know what if they did after a while, I'll get frustrated and then finally, you know, I'll tell them like listen, I can't, like, please stop talking me. They didn't do nothing foul. You just weren't really never that into the explanation, right, If it's my

decision to cut it off, you can, okay. Then in that case, I'll just tell I don't know, I guess I would just lie. I'm an it whatever, I'll just lie like I don't know. I'm like, baby, you know what I'm saying something I don't know. I would just come up with some reason that like they couldn't argue with. I don't want to ruin our friendship and stage left, I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's always a

great excuse because then they're an asshole if they don't care. Yeah, I don't want to ruin our friendship, but you don't give a funk about our friendship. But fuck you, And now we don't turn the tables. All right. Now, let's talk about the Womanizer. That's the toy that G got gifted last week my new best friend. Now I want to know how it is because so our girl, Michell Hope, was a sexpert. She told us this is the best toy that she's ever had, and she highly recommended and

she's been raving about it. So I did reach out to the people from Womanizer and we got g g one. Thank you guys, tell me about it, you said. Michelle was absolutely right that it is the best toy ever.

It just does something that other toys. It vibrates, but it also sucks like this like it's like a circle when you put it over top of your clip and it just like why it's vibrating malfunctional and then well it doesn't like encase it and not, yeah it doesn't you know, but um it has settings, so it starts off at like one, but you can take it all the way up to eight. But for real, four or five is just like good enough for I had to

try it out. See what happened. Yo, Listen. It was just one day last week when he was going to go visit one of his friends and he was like, you want to go with me over to hang out? And I was like, nope, stay home and got to know that thing. Well, hey, didn't make you come? You know it does, but you know it's that vibrator come. It's that like where it gets to the point where you're gonna orgasm, but it's so intense that you kind of like you can't get there. Yeah yeah, yeah up

having like some property. Yeah, I don't know, it's weird, but mentally, do you hold back when you're going to orgasm because it's too intense? That's called edging, right, So you you you bring yourself almost to the point of like busting the nut and then you stop. If you can said like, then you stop, but like if you can't, then you just gotta let it go. That's the that sucks. It's called edging, but it's amazing when you finally do

go ahead and bust, it's the best. So edging is like when you get to the edge and then you then you pull back, and then you go to the edge again, and then you pull and then when finally you can't pull back no more, it's just like you've edged. Well, I don't really like to master, but I like to have sex. So if I have my choice, you know what I'm saying, I'm not using jack Orgill. You know what I'm saying, I'm actually having sex, so I don't really jack off. So okay, but you don't edge during

sex during sucks, I don't think. I think that's just fucking right. But you don't, like, don't move, don't move no, because I know that I'm in control, like I'm the you know top, well, yeah, you know, like if you However, though, because I don't believe it, I don't think there's like a difference between the two. I think you fucking like everybody get a piece of everybody whatever. So that's just I think you should just do what everybody. It sounds like an origin now, no, no, no, I'm just saying

people act in gay sex. People act like the top is like the more you know, dominant person who I guess is getting the most pleasure out of the ordealer who you know, it's getting the good end of the deal. I don't know if that's what that means. I always felt like the top literally means that you're like, well, it does, but there's a stigma. You get what I'm saying, so, but I don't believe. Yeah, and so I don't believe in that because I think the other person like, we

fucking you know what I'm saying. So obviously you're doing what you want to do to you know what I'm saying. We're all in this together. This is good for the both of them. I look at it like the top is that of her at the bottoms the receiver. That's that's that's the literal definition. But it's more to it than that, you know, because I think for women what we like giving and receiving, but receiving is what makes

you come. Yeah, but I'm also a pleaser. So I get sad satisfaction from knowing that can come from giving satisfied from pleasing somebody else with a little bit of help. Yeah, okay, like with a little, you know, a little are you able to come every just in your mind, like just using your mind and not actually doing anything to yourself? They say that can happen, but that has never happened to me. The only way I can make that happen

if I squeeze my legs really really tight. That's still good when you know, like when I'm in that point mentally, if I just like squeeze tight enough and like and I'm happy for you, I can't. I feel like men can do that easier. What dreams? Yeah, I mean we I got a penis, yo, Like that's what we do. Like, but you can't you do without touching your pepeah, Like you know what I'm saying. You get turned out. I'm a I'm a guy. I'm a black guy at that,

you know, like you give me turned on? Enough is I don't see nothing but the finish line baby and stuff I've had y'all. So then that's just you're using your mind and coming. No no, no, no, no, no, no, but I don't think I've ever came in my dreams. And when I did, it's because I was touching myself okay while I was sleeping. So I'm like a sleepwalker masturbator sleep the beata leapers. Now you guys saw this new Instagram zooming feature that they have. Yes, you can

zoom on on pictures. You can zoom it on videos. I haven't used it yet. I was just using it while we was makeup. How was your zooming in? I just was like, oh, look you can zoom, but you know it's so stupid about it. You still can't zoom in or magnify the profile picture. So just that it's just the post. Yeah, like y'all had one job. Man, it's gonna come. It's gonna come where you could click on in private page. Just can't forget it. If I can't start right, if I can't make you a clear dog,

you're gonna be pending like a motherfucker. How many times have you been on and tena a private page? When you look at the little pure like and now you have to be really careful because sometimes you know, we like do a little niptuck on our pictures, right, if you zoom in, can you really see that? Yeah, photoshop type like face tune and all that bullshit. Yeah, you can see that. I destored it. You have to be

a professional photoshopper to like pull it off. I use face soon, but I use facetoon to like, um, brighten up the eyes. Yeah, even that a lot. And sometimes I do it to white in my teeth because the lighting something, because my teeth farn't really like fake looking white. They're like an supposed to be right, That's what I'm saying. So sometimes I feel like certain light won't get it as white as I want it. So sometimes see, I

never even thought that. And you know what, the I will post pictures that I'm like, well, it's from a distance, so it don't look so bad. I can't because yeah, yeah. Now, there's been a lot of things going on, obviously in the gossip and in the news right now, like Chris Brown, for example, this woman Bailey Current, who's accusing him she's

a liar. Da da da da. My mom is up here earlier talking about it because my mom doesn't believe her, but she's concerned that now, like it's hard for women to come forward when something really does happen when you have somebody who it's like the boy who quote cried wolf. And when I tell her get out of here, we're about to do lip service. We don't want to talk about anything serious, right. I don't believe her. She needs more people right now? Why don't we believe her. Let's

talk about the reasons why. My number one reason is because you went and did an interview with tmz re immediately and you didn't even go home and crazy your daddy. You straight, you're not tarmatized if you're one right before he even got arrested, and you're telling your side of the story right. For me, it's just like it's too obvy, Like girl, you trying to set somebody up who's too easy.

You thought he was too easy to set up. But it's like you thought it was gonna be easy if you can't do that, like in my head, he went off on her like yeah her, Oh I'm I'm a white woman. I'm gonna bring him down really easily, Like no, it's here. Yes. First of all, if you if you've been following Chris Brown, he's not taking chances anymore. He's not making stupid as mistakes. He's a good fucking father. He's he's paid for his mistakes, like leave him the

funk alone. And furthermore, we believe somebody named Bailey like it ain't even b A I L E Y. It's like l E you lying, Like come on, and then you haven't seen all the things that they've they've dug up out of her past. He's a liar exaggerating. She lost her crown for that Miss California pageant and racist language and she won't give it back. In there, they said she had nude photos and it was for racist language. The bitch probably did at all, but I just read

was that it was for racist language. She is disgusting to me and I can't wait for the full expose. TMZ is well aware that she's lying. There stories that lead to that, like come on, don't even like Chris right, but because it's just it's like, oh, the the white girl came to Chris Brown's house and got a gun pulled off on her and what kind of and so what what did you do? Right? What did you do trying to steal home? Do you really think Chris Brown is gonna put a gun and he doesn't have to

put a gun at right, I'm sure you didn't. Yeah, she's just a story. But what David really made me think of it is the other day I did have like a little cook out at my house that turned a little crazy. But you do have to be careful about who comes to your house. Yeah, that is something that it made me think of, Like, have you ever had somebody at your house and was like, why did this person come to my house? I remember when I

was um in high school and I live with my parents. Uh, there's a bunch of my friends came over and this guy stole something from my parents house and I was like, yo, it's not even It was like something stupid to like a CD. And I was like who does that? But my other boy was like, oh, yeah, you know he stole a CD whatever whatever I was, he just has a havard. Why would you come to my parents house and steal something? And so it did make me a little bit. There was like a hundred people at my house.

There was so many people. It was supposed to be thirty people. It turned into like a big deal. And I don't have like it. Yeah it was, it really was, but I don't have like no huge mansion or anything. I live in Brooklyn, you know what I'm saying. Stone, And it was it was we're outside inside anything missing nothing I know of, no, just lots of liquor. And people were definitely going to the bridge and helping themselves to everything. Who ate the carrots after crisper in the fridge?

That's just ridiculous. Who opens the crisper in the fridge? But anyway, all that was missing. But I didn't really want people like going upstairs everything. You know, I put a lot of stuff over here. Somebody went upstairs. A few people was like trapesing upstairs and you have a bathroom when you first floor and it's you know, it's right there, like yeah, you got a bathroom on your friend. So it's like nobody needs to go upstairs to anything.

But when this Chris Brown thing happened, I was like, you know what, I have to be careful, Like who you letting your snow? That's exactly, and that's that's what it all balls balls. They got to watch the company you keep, absolutely and you got to watch the company. Your company keeps right there. You got you can come over, but you know, don't bring anybody just come your soul, which is so rude, like who just brings someone to someone else's home? Exactly? But you know, like you guys said, oh,

how's that ever happened? You bring people to your house? I don't even have friends. I don't bring anybody to my house friends. What about I got exactly trying you can downs in my house, you can come. That's how you feel aboutletting people in your house. Um, I feel that it's a it's a it's something that you have to be strategic about, be smart, like everybody can't come in your damn house. First of all, this New York City people were having roaches and ship. I'm from Michigan.

You know you we don't. You don't sit. I don't even nobody house me. They got roaches? Hell, yeah, you know how roaches here like a like a thing everybody deals with. And Michigan and somebody has roaches like they're nasty about that. We'll be on the train bad bugs and ship. Frand is my co host. I'll be thinking about energy now and ship. You say everybody came, get's a list. There's a list. I put it like that. But I love entertaining and I love having people in

my home. You know what I'm saying. My mama taught us how to cook, so I like doing that. I like having a good time. Yeah, y'all can come by so like yeah, like you know what I'm saying. I love that. So I like having people over, but just the right. Have you ever had a bad experience with

some of that? Oh yeah, everybody got the expiration day? Now, like you know, somebody could come over and you know, like, okay, this is the last time you'll ask everybody coming over here, and you know, you just you know, steer the conversation in the day or night in that direction towards the front door. Right, because people was at my house beefing like I had a Hennessy privileged bar set up in the backyard like free Hennessy vs. Op. Okay, footprints came,

they catered seeing everything, y'all, I gotta bring nothing. I had desserts from my friends bakery, the bakery on Bergen. Everything taking care of it sounds beautiful. And then it was supposed to be over at six at seven o'clock when the privilege ran out, people was really beefing like oh you got hello, right everything, But y'are not appreciative. It was just crazy. Well I don't know. I was the last one to leave, but it wasn't because I was trying to drink. It was because I lived very

far away and I wanted to watch power. So I didn't like that, And then I was fine with that. We was good because we was drinking the liquor inside the house. No problem. All right. Now, let me ask you this, if somebody has a bad reputation, does that attract you to them more? Or does that make you

really stay away from somebody? Because I found from just my friends and my own experiences, when they're like, oh, don't mess with him, he's this, he's that, sometimes it makes it more like attractive to I don't know about attractive,

but you're definitely intrigued. Like you want to learn for yourself, you want to see for yourself like girls, or you want to have your own experience to be able at least me, I want to judge from myself, like I'll take your opinion and your thoughts into consideration, but I still want to have my own experience because I know plenty of people who are like banded by association, like, oh, I don't mess with such and such, So don't mess

with such and such. But then I would meet such and such and I'm like, oh, but if people warn you, like well he's a dog, he'd be dog and girls out. He did this, he did that. Sometimes it makes you feel like I want to challenge this and change this and he ain't gonna do that to me. What was they doing wrong? Maybe they just you know, it's always the story. Maybe they still use a regular the vibrators. Meanwhile,

you know what I'm saying, Rosky crystals and ship. It's a difference, you know what I'm saying, different views, So I don't I don't believe in none of that ship and if anything, I'll use that to my advantage. I'm a guy. Charisma is what it's all about. That's how you win, right, That's how you sell yourself, especially when it comes to dating. So call me every bad boy you want. All it's gonna make you do. You have a bad reputation destined? Thank you, Thank you. I'm glad

it's reading well. But yeah, you gotta use that. Doesn't nobody want to be bored? Stuff? If I came in here and was like, oh my god, you're so cute, like you want to go like have coffee at Starbucks, you'd be looking at me like you're looking at me like like, y'all, you look so good today, baby, Like what's up? What's gonna take a ride? Let's go, let's just go run the city. You know what I'm saying. We can take that. I'm you know, but but you

would think about ship. Guys do the most inappropriate things to you. And if you're like yeah, no, I feel like, um no. But it's different with me, Like I'm just I'm different. I'm like weird, like I'm a weirdo' I'm

just like over everything. Like it's for a guy like me, I hate all this that it's more like, uh, for me, it's more like maybe you should have to just take my number and hit me up and we'll talk like that and then later plan something, you know, for a guy to come up to me and be like, oh, let's do this tonight, I'm gonna be first response. No, but what if you ain't got nothing to do when

you're hungry, because I don't have anything to do. If if you're like, hey, girls, if you invite me and my friends and then my friends are like, oh, come on, stuff, I'm like, okay, But to a guy that I don't know, I'm just like I like them. If I like them, I'll give him my number. If you and your girl else right and ask for your number. But I still like flirted with you. You know, I was nice to your girls with brother, Like Angel said, if my friends

if we're hungry, and I'll go, but I would need that. Actually, now what if you only pay for you? And I would never do that just saying that people out there doing that. People are weirdos. People are weirdos, and they will just that's rude. If you're not going to pay for everybody and don't pay for nobody, right, or just don't invite nobody. How about that slide and invite somebody out and then you have to pay for But what if you don't got to like that, then you don't

be there like that, don't be there? What if you so now you go out with your girl, let's say, right, you are definitely made it and then she's like, oh, I'm gonna have my friends come meet us for drinks. You got paid for their drinks. It's now I'm just playing. Was not one of them. Nigga is like Okay, well in two weeks we're going down to the second. We just paid our rent and all our bills. No, I don't know. At the end of the day, you just

got to be thorough. Right. When you're a guy like you have a responsibility to be like thorough you have to mean what you say. You have to do what you say. Your word has to mean something, and so you have so many opportunities to showcase that in dating, right, you can like like blow somebody's mind in the environment there in like do things that they've never done before. Just show up and be present. I don't believe in the lazy ship. So that's all I got to say.

If you niggas is being lazy, then that's why you ain't. That's why things ain't working out for you. Sometimes people get lazy in the relationship though, like everything is, everything is good at first, but then they don't do the ship they used to do and they do get a little lazy. That's because people aren't in relationships for the right reasons. People are relationships. Yeah, absolutely, people are comfortable because I know. I think that's too. I get a

little lazy sometimes too. I think that bo just are intrigued by the idea of companionship, and so they look, I don't even know what the hell it means to be looking for a relationship, Like to me, you and you, you encounter somebody and like there's there's specific things about them that make you want to be with only them. That's a relationship all that, Like, oh, I'm at a place in my life where all that bullshit. That's divorced.

And I really think that guys end up settling down when it's the right time, not necessarily the right person, your pregnancy. It could be, or it could be just like all their friends got married and they got older and they're bored and lonely, and sometimes I feel like guys could have met the right person, but they just wasn't ready to settle down. And then but now now they don't met somebody and it's been a month, but I'm ready to settle down. That's the one. And I

see it happen all the time. That's sad, and they get divorced all the time. That's why they call it settling. That's why you should. You should, really, honestly, if you if you get married and feel like I'm really about to be with this motherfucker for the rest of my life. If you don't feel like that you're making a mistake or no. Prenup um depends on how things going for you, Like I get depend on what's popping, Like money is money.

Now we gotta be serious. So you know, if I have things that I need to protect, I will absolutely ask for a prenup. However, I would make sure that whoever I was married and felt so comfortable that that would simply be a piece of paper. Now, what would be in your prenup? Just basically, what would you want it to be? Like I take what I came with, and you take what you came with. You to be, No, because I want to I want to continue generating income

like independently and so No, because that's my money. But I would also take care of them. I would be you know, like your man. I would man. I would look out the same way like when you break up with somebody on good terms and you get an opportunity to look out for them, like a year later or whatever, if they need some tires or something, you know, you you you hook them up. I would make sure that they were straight afterwards. It would be a prenup where

that's what I'm saying. Oh no, that's different, so you don't know you write that in. But people are so scared of prenumptial agreements. But you know you could work it out to where you're not left with nothing. That's whatever you wear. Some people feel like a prenup is you saying when this doesn't work out? No, but you have You know time changes things, and you know things that just change, so you never know what's gonna happen. I love, you got to secure your future. You can

fall out of love of somebody if they change. Resentment should anything that happens that causes you to resent somebody will make you fall out of love with the im period. That could be a multitude of things. It could be somebody not being financially irresponsible that makes you look at them differently. He could be somebody cheating on you, you know what I'm saying. It could be somebody being verbally abusive.

That's real, you know what I'm saying. Because to me, now, ship, if we go together, you know what I'm saying, certain ship, you shouldn't to be thinking, even in your anger. So as certain ship, you can't say to me, you know, and I'm working on that because you know me. You know, I don't mind saying shut the funk up. You know what I'm saying when I know I'm right as I would never disrespect somebody like like your mother. You know, it's like, yeah, you don't do that, so we can forget.

Just know your your your contribution to the ship. Be responsible. I think it's funny when my boyfriend curses me out because I don't take it seriously. If he's like, shut the funk up, which, of course, if I think he might have cursed in me a couple of times. I don't think he cursed you out. I know he doesn't, but I think it's funny, like it makes me laugh. But that's how it should be because I don't I know,

it's not serious. Like if he's like, man, I shut the funk up, I'm like, what I think an argument should be, like something like like just completely like, oh my god, this is so out of the ordinary to me. It's supposed to be good times when things feel good. To me, that's the natural order of ship. Are you

supposed to be happy all the time? So to me, getting into an argument and ship that we got to work something my wife, Why then are we arguing Like I'm looking at Stephanie and Gig like y'all don't have some arguments in the past, But you see how you knew it wasn't. Yeah, I haven't had our argument. I've had an argument in a year. Stephanie to argue every fucking day like this is not good. But y'all got

past that. Yeah again, even though we took our time off, I think that was good for our relationship and we haven't had nearly as much drama in the year that we've been back together. Then in all of their arguments for that, everybody feel because he's rude and mean and he's party over, but you too, because when y'are getting an argument and where is just all there? Ship is party over, party done for everyone that ship that you'll be like, y'all not, are you now? I used to

say that, can y'all not? Can say later I'll be like we all got text. You know what's the craziest thing though, for real, all of those arguments I can't tell you about happy ship was arguing about it. They wouldn't vargue about inviting I don't even know what most of those arguments, I would be like, funk are they even arguing about? I don't know you didn't say me a seat, So I'm not saying then that one was serious.

And I remember that. However, that's not do that sounds serious now that I said, Oh, it wasn't that he didn't save me. See, it was his reaction to me, like where am I supposed to sit? Like you invite me somewhere and then you don't make sure that I have somewhere to sit, So why me exactly? You knew I was on my way, make preparations for me to be comfortable when I get here. When I get there, you're like, what you want me to do? Nigga? You invite to me? Like why I invite me to him?

But sometimes I'm gonna take Sometimes people can get mad long to show up because I've done that too. Okay, you're gonna okay, and I don't. I don't set the ship up til you get there because I know I'm gonna set it up and then it's gonna be too more. We were going from one place to the other, you didn't say, yeah, you don't take long. I remember that. I remember that now recently right, Black China didn't interview. I think it was with with L. Was it with L?

And she said that Tyger was kind of cheap while they were she did say that, Yeah, she said he was kind of cheap. How do you leave that? How do you feel about what he don't be paying for? Ship? Clearly because everything gets rebold, But how do you feel about dating somebody who's kind of cheap? I'm not kind of cheap, so we're not gonna do that, but I mean frugal, like you know, not like you can save money and you can you know, what's what do you

need a channel bag for? No? No, no, that's not good. No bags are expensive. But if you want us to know about getting yourself, you don't want to affoord it. Then if you wanted yourself, if you want to show back if he's giving your if he's giving you a gift, I mean back gift because he's cheap, right, Michael? Never mind? Oh Michael is really getting Okay, we're comparing perfect yes with the logo all over ay and this is I would still love to work. But that's that's because he

thinks that that's your level. You know what I mean? I would rather not give me a gift, can't get me something. I'm Michael, I'm okay, all right, not even that's that's not if you're buying somebody a gift, it's supposed to represent how you feel. A right, that's your level they are able to do. If a man can spoil you and treat you to like the finest, most luxurious ship in the world, he will. He can't, he won't, but he'll do the best. You can do, sing the

brand wearing guy. But then send you to Steve Man for your shoes. Now, I have an ex boyfriend just like that. I always talked about him. That was one of our main things. He had the nicest clothes, okay, everything for himself, nice car, owned his place in Brooklyn. But when it came town of he would buy me the worst present, like first of all. One year, it was my birthday, right, he didn't give me a birthday present until a month after my birthday, and he was

acting like it was something special that he ordered. He got me an iPod. I'm like, how was this a special gift that you ordered? You got an iPad for my birthday? One year? It was the iPod. It was just music. Nothing else, not even that. But you know what, Okay, His sister later on told me that he grew up Jehovah witness, so holidays would never Really I did too, That's no excuse. I just got through telling you how

how it's done. So that's bullshit. He was the if anything that should make you more opulent and make you splurge more because now you can finally do it. You know what I mean? You know what it made me do because when we did break up because he cheated on me, right, and when I found out, you know, sometimes I got tea telling you you can work through it and stay. But I was like, man, he cheated his gifts a whack. I could, yeah, if it was

at least he treated me really well. But he would do like he's the type of dude that he's just cheap. Like he would come out and meet me and my friends at the bar and not pay for my friends drinks, see, and like he would do things like that, and like I would go with my friends and their man would buy all our drinks and then he comes and here comes his cheap ast. You know, but he was really just a cheap person in general. Did you ever speak up like where you vocal about I told him a

million times, how did you say it? I was like, um, when he gave me my present, I was like, I'm not gonna lie. I'm a little disappointed because I put a lot of thought into everything I do for you, because I'm a very generous person me too. That's that's one thing, Like I give gifts to, you know, the guys that I'm with. I took him snowboarding for the first time. I got him a snowboard and snowboarding clothes.

And that's expensive right there though, But the point it was a lot like it was and it was something that he would never get and I wouldn't paid for it, but I just didn't have to. But that after that he goes snowboarding on. Like I did a lot of things for him, and I felt like I planned the whole trip, like I had a place for us to say everything. And I just feel like, okay, now, at least be thoughtful. And I'm not even saying you've got to spend a whole lot of money on it. I'm

just saying be thoughtful. You know. Yeah, me too. Like it's not even about like like you said, if if he's a man's gonna do what he can. I know, a guy, if he's gonna be with me, whether he's really broke or really rich, if he's gonna buy me a handbag, it's gonna be of one of the high end designers because they know that's the kind of things that I like. That's the you know, that's yeah, that's what I'm not gonna use. But if I'm dating someone who can afford to get me a bag, you know,

he can get me something else. Some flowers in a car. I'm going to really appreciate that, you know what I mean, rather than a wallet for Macy's. Like you don't have to take it some expensive dinner, but if you know what I like to eat, and you wouldn't make that ful use your hands. Yeah, I like when they use their hands, right, and you don't have to use your hands. Yeah.

So alright, So everybody's saying, can you date somebody who's kind of because there are people who are very frugal, and that's just how like I take an my ex he's never like been in a reel for real relationship, so he's never done like his ex girlfriend was, like, you know, she wasn't right. She was very Oudoh yeah, she didn't hold him to task right, So I felt like I had to like teach him a lot of things and you know whatever. But I just felt like that was part of it, Like he ever really knew

how to treat a woman. You have to take that into consideration, but you also have to take yourself into consideration, Like I'm not I don't know dog Like I know what I'm you know how I'm gonna do ship, and I know how ship is supposed to be done. So I'm damn sure not about to sit back and tolerate like lesson than what I deserve. You're not about to be cheap. When we go somewhere and it's time to spend some money, you're gonna spend it. You know what

I'm saying. Part of the activity not nothing ridiculous and ostentationous, but just like you know whatever, we we don't have to go to Rear Robin all the time, you know what I'm saying this, So I had to go to the polo club on a special occasion, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, but that's why there's like different levels to being cheap, Like there's you know, a guy who's buying you, who's a millionaire, and he's buying you, you know, see him out in alsohol's cheap. Yeah, you're

being cheap. And then when you a guy you know who can't afford it, that's totally different. You don't hold against somebody. That's totally different. That's what I'm saying. Now, Could I date a millionaire who is you know, spending thirty dollars on the table and the club, but won't take me out to a dinner that course two thousand dollars? No right, no ship, what dinner costs two thousands? There's dinners that course two thousand dollars. I guess I don't

need seafood. And no, you're going to the restaurants and you're not never seeing it's totally different. If well, I guess I have when you have, you've been to my astros and um in l A that you can have a two thousand dollars dinner. I don't need chicken. But still you've been at those dinners. You've been at dinners. Point is people money on what they want? What they

wanted everybody. Some people spurs on dining. Some people spurs on cars, like some people just splurres on savings li real talk, like some people are hoarders when it comes to money because they grew up poor and they're definitely afraid to be destitute like that. You're in a relationship, is it okay to except give some somebody else? No, nobody, nothing that you would not right there, That's what I say all the time. No, he no, Now are you still gonna do it? Of course? Because it's so it's

some people. Yeah, it's some people who, let's keep it all the way fucking real. It's some people who will always and forever hold a special place and your heart, y'all, just have that report. You're gonna sneak and talk to them on their birthday. You know what I'm saying. It's just what the funk it is is that everybody does it. We ain't gonna talk about it. It can be kitchen table talk. We're clearly not in the kitchen so cool, but like, everybody does it. So that's just a part

of the thing. That man was like, I gotta you know, it's my my exest birthday. I'm gonna call them and say happy No, then what then we're not finished. That's too much me and you. Then if that's what you want to do, that's so disrespectful to say happy, yes, sneak and do it. I shouldn't know about it, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's totally disrespect Okay, So some things we don't want to know. I'm glad you brought that up because we were talking about this

about things that we don't tell. If you're dating, right, are you dating somebody now? Are you in a relationship? No, I'm not in a relationship. Are you smiling? And because because I like my teeth. I have braces and thank God for my parents for thinking ahead for me. So I like my teeth. That's the only reason I'm smiling, right, Okay, rubbing your leg because I don't know, I think? All right. So let's say you're dating somebody, right, but you get like a d M from a celebrity. Would you tell

them or is that something you just don't bring up? No, I wouldn't tell them. But that's not something that would like that's that happens? Would if it was me? Like to me, you know, I don't need to know everything. Some things you can handle on your own. That's why this is a partnership, because you do your part and I do mine, So certain things you just need to take care of. I don't need to know that. Don't tell me any potentially damaging information that's unnecessary for me

to know. But if he didn't respond, then why the funk do I need to know? No, and you shouldn't even be I wouldn't even if you do tell me, I'm gonna cut your ass out now because you shouldn't even be excited about no ship like that. You should be over the whole excitement about celebrity ship. What the funk are you doing? So you get because somebody? Man? But what if this is that I don't even know

this person? Yeah, like it's just a text, or even if you do know the person, like it's just a it's just random Like oh look, because Stephanie, I'm sure you get all coming. That's different. But like I don't know. I'm sure you don't need to I can't. I would love to see what um actually there's I delete all my d M because I'm sure the crazy people DM you would you tell a guy you're dating like if some crazy person? Um, I have one? I was In

my last relationship, I got a random DM. It was just like, oh, this person just DM me like whatever, and I you know, I wasn't even like it wasn't even it was like a normal you know, like he was sitting next to me when I noticed, So it was just like normal just came out really you know, say right yeah. But the like the next argument, it was like, go call that's why, that's why you can't tell just keep just don't if we like go together.

I'm not telling you ship, but I will say that like I have had I've had I've had situations where we don't we're not in a relationship, but we date. We love each other, we care about each other, we spend time. You're so transparent. You tell them everything, they tell you everything. You'll talk about other people you're dating. It's great. But I think it's because you know that like you know, like there's no obligation. I guess it's just a mutual respect. But for some reason, it's totally

different when you're actually in a relationship. I've never didd somebody like that I wasn't in a relationship and told them about other people, like do try it. It's so liberating. I just feel like it's none of your motherfucking business. I feel like it's rude. I don't know, no, not in a way. We're like, you know what do you like? Are you like that? Cool? Well? Yeah, such, you know whatever, It's just it's cool. But I guess I have a friend who did that, and she's married to the guy

that she did that with. Now, they were just like kind of dating and she was talking to other guys and she was always very honest about like, oh I was in you know whatever, whatever, and I ran into this person and we slept together. It was crazy. She would tell him all and I thought it was the weirdest thing. I had an X that used to one to know and they ended up getting married. He was weird.

They did end up getting married, as they ended up getting married because they have a really trust you know what. One day he said to her. One day, he said to her, I'm so tired of hearing about you and these other guys and it's making me mad, and I want you to be my girlfriend. But that because it could feel like that could go either way too, because it could make them be like you know what, she she got she's so busy. I can't even deal with that.

She's doing her I'm gonna do me. I think you go on the other way, on the girl's behalf, because it can make her either like, oh my god, that was so sweet. Of course I'm hoping to this, or if she really is a girl who's who's more in checked by the freedom, you know what I'm saying of that type of lifestyle, it'll turn her completely off, like, oh my god, going somewhere with all that clingy ship, I don't want all that. We were just chilling having fun.

That's where I think to go. Either way, possibility is on the girl's behalf more so than here. But most females that are dating multiple guys are either waiting to figure out which one they want to be with or waiting for one of them to want to be with them. You don't think it's some women that just like are okay with dating multiple men. Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I think for some people that's just how they want

to live, Like that's just it. I mean, I wouldn't um, I wouldn't have said that this is how I wanted to live a year ago, you know, but right now. But this present, but right now, but today, you know, I'm happy. I really don't. I feel like this is a easier way of life. You have you have a favorite boyfriend, though I do have a favor I have. I do have a favorite boy you know. I was gonna say I have two favorite boyfriends, but I do have one. He tasks more of my favorite than the other,

for sure. But if he was like, cut all this other ship out, if he was like, I mean, I'll be lying. If I said that, I would be like, no, I'm in really enjoying my life. Not because I really like him, you know, but but I'm not gonna lie. I like the way we are. I really like the way we are, like said, he's dating No, absolutely not no, Like it's none of my business, even though um I want him. I want everybody that I date to feel comfortable with me enough to tell me, you know, you know,

what's going on. If they feel like they need to tell me about it. I don't want them to feel like, oh, I can't tell her x y Z because she will get upset, you know what I mean. I don't ever want anybody to feel like that. But if I'm just saying, like definitely do seem like you'd get upset that she don't want to hear that ship. Yeah, like I don't. I'm not really interested in anybody else. I honestly, I'm

not interested in another female ever in life. Like I'm only the only woman I'm really interested about dealing with. The God that I'm sucking is me. You know, everybody else is just. But if he's sucking with a girl in your face, I don't let me find out. Just so every everything is fine, Just don't let me find out. I just don't want to know. I don't know how i'll react so that you know, but I like the way we are. Like, like I was saying earlier, I haven't had an argument in a year, you know what

I mean? Um, I have had like tips, you know, where I will give each other attitude. You know, in certain situations, I'll give a guy attitude or vice versa. But you know, that's it, and I think it's it's really great. It's a really free life not having to be stressed out over a guy. I was just about to say, my ship is I just want to be stressed free, that's it, so I can be nice to everybody.

And it gets me a little to stress on real things that are really important to deserve yours your energy on that level, like come on, dog like so no, because it's just draining when you have when you have a stressful relationship, not all relationships. I'm talking about my post experience. I had a stressful relationship. You know what I mean. Have you spoken to him? No? Okay, I do not ask me to That thing is in jail. The last time he tried. I think he got the picture. Yeah, no,

I mean not even that. It's just, you know, it's just no good for us. We don't we don't go together, like we don't match. We just really we matched too much, been different times. What about if he comes home and tries to hit you up, because that time it's coming right. No, I mean he's not gonna be a would to reach me by the time he comes home, but he's getting

with me. He gets out, I don't know when he gets off another year, he but whatever, it doesn't matter exactly because here no, but please, oh God bless him. You know this isn't even about him, Like, God, bless him. I don't you know. I'm not mad at him. Hopefully he's I'm a at me. You know, whatever, life goes on, but life, you know, it's just different. Apparently life has

gone on, and it's been a long time. It's been a long time since I've spoken to him or even think about him, you know, Like I'm just saying, if you compare my life today to my life a year ago when I was in this stressful relationship, because you always have your own ship going on anyway outside of your relationship. So it's your stressful relationship plus your ship, your own stress that you have to deal with. And

I'm a mother, you know, deal my friends. You know, it's it's just a somebody that you can't go and do work, like you he doesn't want you to work, you know what I'm saying. Like he didn't want her to leave the house, go do nothing, go do what she had to do. I felt like, no, I mean he would let me. That would be a problem. Everything was a problem, And that's whack. If I'm going to get my money, and yeah, everything would be a problem.

I would try to bring him a problem. If I didn't bring him a problem, if I went somewhere too far a problem, like you know, it's just and God bless him. Like he he has a woman or you'll find one who will deal with that and not be stressed off. And you know I say this all the time, there's somebody for everybody, but it ain't. It ain't us, like we're just not meant to be together. And I'm not gonna lie even my friends. You guys are my friends.

You guys see a difference. Yes, absolutely, you know what I mean. I'm a lot happier. I look better, I feel better, I'm doing better. You know I'm working. I'm working. Everything is under control, right, everything's under control. Yeah, Well a year ago today, if we go back in the live service episodes, I was probably like, oh, you know, I'm not really feel it's so good about that, you know what I mean? So, but what about your dessin Have you ever dated somebody that made you feel like

you couldn't be your full who you were? I don't believe in date. I believe dating in like the literal sense, like we go somewhere together and spend some time together. Anything else is a relationship, and right now, Angela, I'm not open to that. So, but there's never been a time when you felt like I can't even have somebody that I really care a whole lot about. Like we love each other. It's really the love of my life. It's eclips like anything I've ever been involved in. But

we're not together and we're not gonna be together. What I'm saying because we both have things to do, and so you wouldn't want me if I was the type of nega that would just say, okay, forget it, then I'm just gonna roll with you and follow you. You like me because I'm not like that and versa, And I'm so happy for you, and I could wishould continue blessings and we remain close and we see each other every time we get to and it just kind of

is what it is. So does that mean if you get in a relationship with somebody else, you're still going to see this other person that? I can't answer that? What's the amendment? Thank you? Do you ever get do you ever get really crazy? I d M S and you're like, damn, I can't believe this person just hit me up? Yeah, all the time because like things happened between people and like for me, you know what I'm saying right now, let me say this right now, right

somebody sent me a text right back in May. Okay. So I have this friend. They live in l A. I live here. We've been friends for years, like probably like eight years. We have been flirtatious in the past. We've never had sex. We've never like had a full on makeout session, like nothing like that casual flirtation where we've been able to maintain like a platonic friendship. So they get in a relationship. Cool. We meet them and their partner. We actually hang out together here in New

York City when they were in town. You know, their mother was there. It was like great, we had a good time. That same weekend, the partner leaves. Me and the person are together. Their staying um in a part of the city that was easily accessible to me by train, and so we took a car back to their spot together because I'm a chivalrous nigger that was raised right, and I want to make sure you're stupid as gets home safe. So that's what I did. We get there, and I guess we hugged. I was drunk, and I

was drunk, you know what I'm saying it. So I guess when we hugged, I may have said something like, you know what I'm saying, oh, you know what it is, you know something like that. Whatever, right, But mind you, they had just been in town for fashion week and they had just tried to completely sleep with me. I had thwarted off everything. I'm like, no, are you crazy? Whatever? And literally the next week they were in a relationship, which was fine with me because I didn't want that anyway.

I didn't even want to I'm not even into you like that. So long story, Sure do you know this person? So they come back to New York every time they're in time, we hang out now, right, So they come back to New York and I see that there in town. So I hit I'm up like hey, you know, what's up. I'm trying to see you. No response. I FaceTime. We always FaceTime. I FaceTime immediately it is FaceTime unavailable. So I'm like, well, what the fun? You know, part of

the game is this? But whatever? Because me, if we're friends are I would never assume like the worst of the attention. I'm like, okay, well you know, it's whatever. So I hit them up like, hey, what's up? I want to see you. They sent me a text message that looked like a scripture. You know what I'm saying it was so long, and it basically was saying that, oh, you know, you might not realize it, but the last

time we were together, you know what I'm saying. You know you're flirtatious, and you know you made a pass at me, and um, you know, so unfortunately, and you know that I'm in a relationship and I don't want somebody to respect me. I want I want somebody to respect me and not do that or whatever. So unfortunately, our friendship has come to an end. And I wish you all the best. I know you have blessings whatever.

So I know this person, I know that they were trying to gold me into some type of argument or exchange. I'm not gonna do that, my nigga, Like, that's not even me. I don't argue. And I feel like maybe he told his partner, and in their partner, I could tell when we all hung out they really feel some kind of way. But I mean, I mean, you can

never so like I understood that anyway. And this is not a competition because clearly, like you know what so so so, but so you know what, I took their word as their bond and I did not even send a response, I never said a word. That was three months ago. The past three weeks. I gotta FaceTime. I got a text that's hit, so you know we have to speak at some point. I'm not responding. I gotta I got I got a text like, oh, I'm in town. I know you over me. We should see each other

or whatever. They reached out to our mutual friend who's one of my best friends. So that was stupid anyway, because you know, we ain't gonna do nothing but laugh. You know, yeah, that bullshit. You said what you meant and you're going to be held accountable to that. Today. I have nothing to say to you. I don't want

to like, I don't want nothing from you. You know what I'm saying, like you mean what you said, So I'm never responding like like that's it, and it's and you and do you know this is the icing on the cake. They had the audacity to send me a text yesterday saying, UM, if you don't ever want to talk to me again, that's fine, but at least give me the opportunity to tell my side of the story so I can have some peace with You're like little piece. I don't care about your piece. With this, like what

do I So? My point is people are nuts and that's why I've decided to live life on my own terms, and people are relationships need to like be I designed I heard that are nuts. People are really nice reaching out to my friend like, well that's I remember one time I got a crazy. Um I ran into one of my ex boyfriends from when I was in college. I didn't even really care, like I haven't seen them since, and I ran into him and I was like, oh, hey, how are you doing? And I said hi, and he

was acting mad weird. But I guess he was with his girlfriend at the time and I didn't know. I just said hi, I didn't say anything, and then um, after that he sent me a message like hey, you know I'm in a relationship. Da da da. I'm like all I did was say hello. What. It was the craziest thing ever, And I think she must have felt away like I was polite to both of them. I ran into them, like on literally on the street and

just say hey, how are you doing? All good to see you, and he acted mad weird and then he sent me a message. And I don't even never speak to him, so it was just I was like, that's the weirdest thing ever. But then I guess they broke up and he tried to hit me like later on, like two years later, and I just ignored it. I was like, like that was morny whack one oh one, like so whack. But I just that's just that just was crazy to me, and it's so laughable, Like what

are we what do we have to talk about? You said that our friendship had to come to an end, and I was listening and it's over right, Yeah, all right, Now here's something was talking about earlier. Do you have friends that feel like they just benefit from you? Like all they want to do is get things from you? I hope not ship. Every time it's a concert, all of a sudden they're hitting you up. You're the popular one. You know, you're the one with the to the nightlife

and the turn up. So when it's time for the turn up, you know it's everybody's in your face. Yeah, of course you have them, But I love that because you did me a favor. I don't have to do any work to try to figure you out. You showed me from the giddy up, and I'm cool with that. I see how you cut you'll never be back in this v I P section again. But some people say if you can't be used, you're useless. Like don't we

all use each other for different things. That's a big difference between you and your friend having a good time, reaping benefits of you being successful and using somebody. Big difference. So if I have friends who are weighed far more successful than I am, and they showed me hella love and any opportunity, I have to show them the same like I do too. So ship, that's what you do. And I don't believe in leeches and ship. I'm so sawty Like I never had Harry Legs, and I thought

I would have been so cute with Harry legs. You know how it stops like right at the ankle and then the ankle be smooth. I always wanted that, and God gave me this. Thank you. I used to keep them covered up. I was embarrassed. I'm you know, I'm a guy. I want to Harry legs now. I don't give a fun Now my back is what kind of ship is that? Yeah? I get my back, wax beard, thank you. I just cut it down short. That's no.

I don't think that's sexy. Like, I mean, I trimmed my pupid hair like down, but I don't think my pupil care should look like the Barbara was like, all right, no, that's what. That's not even sexy, like like their hair, trim it down. Now, you don't want to be more's got to be here. You can't trim it, but don't line it up and cut strips and vs and ship and arrows and the dads all ship that that. No, that's what the stripper used to do. They used to

put arrows and lightning that sexy that. It's never sexy to me, but a lot of dass used to do that. They would die at different colors. Female strippers totally only I haven't seen on guys basins. They use those um that they tie. They have to tie the thing around so they stay hard the whole time. Yeah, they're tighter on their bars and ship. I'm scared I'm gonna suck something up. I only get one set. You know what I'm saying. This is not that can't happen. Yeah, I

don't want to ask nothing up. That's all. That's literally all I got. So you know that's how I feel about vaginas. You know, No, I just feel like you only have one like you, you know, like you'r. I feel like my pussy could take a beating, but not that bad. Like you gotta chill on, you gotta give it a break. You gotta let that pussy heal. Like what's like he I says, what's his name? Right? Uh? Huh? All right? But anyway, you know, I just feel like I just feel like, you know, my heart could take

a beating. I feel like your brain can take a beating a little bit too, but you're pussy. You can't really take Yeah, once in a while sometimes, yeah, like like a couple of times a week now every day, okay, right, I mean you know, I just feel like that's something when that's you know, how like when before, for any reason, I had so much sex that your dick was sore. No, but I've had my dick has been so hard that it hurts. Really, Yeah, I feel like when the fun

major dick so hard that it hurt. Oh my god, the podcast would be three hours long this week. I can't even start to tell you. But yes, like that that that that happens though, like you know what I'm saying. Hell, yeah, you feel like I made dick so hard it hurt. Then, Like you have to think like the clothing, right, you have to think about how it's positioned in the clothing, you know what I'm saying, depending on if you can even be positioned, you know. So this is a certain

group of people were talking about. So like, you know, you have to think about all that. Sometimes you may have on like dress or I wear suits to work and ship, so like I wear a dress slack, so sometimes I have to move them, you know, whatever to the left or whatever and ship. So when you get in direction sometimes that's painful, damn right, And I feel like I was just thinking about it. Um. You know, I've been in relationships where I want to have sex

every single day. But I now that I think about it, they didn't have like really big dicks, you know what I mean. I think the guys that I sleep without, especially one of them, has like a really big dick. I can't imagine like taking that every single day. I can't. My whole ship will be sucked up if you did it every day. Oh my god, But then what if we what if I stopped sucking women? Then I have to go to like somebody normal if you got snap back, yeah, right back. Oh my god. I just don't feel like

you could kill the pussy like that. You gotta give it a break. Sometimes. I had a friend who was Native American, and she said it was a spice that they put in their bathwater to make their vagina tighter. I think it was called talent or something like that. It was some spice. And the half I said, like, like, don't that burns? Who takes that? Sent me? Take a bath? I take bath? You take bath. I take that like twice a month. I take a bath almost every day.

Take a bath. I'm busy. I shower. But if I couldn't take a bath and chill and smoking ship, yeah you know what, I'm going to do that because listen, in my house, I have like a little couzy bathtub. I don't know. One time, just to make sure it work when I first moved. Yeah, you gotta get in there a little while. That's a party and of itself. How many people doesn't hold No, it's not like that. It's like a bathet. Yeah, it's a bath, but it has like so how many people can fit now? I'm

just so small. People overrated anyway, I already said that. Yeah, boxtop sex is over, but it's never like bathtub I like it's taking about when it's about. And then you got to get all right, let's go hold on to and ship and who wants to fucking a handicap accessible to? And then the other thing is what it's like going your vagina girl like messes with the natural lube. Yeah, like who comes in the bathtub? I never had an orgasm having sex in a pool or a bathtub. Well,

a man comes to the bothom. Anyway, we gotta do it like I have to. I have to, I have to, you have to come. I like having sex in the shower. It's just a male thing. We have to every morning we get up, we take our showers, and we masturbate. Are you serious? I never knew that. But that don't count like towards like that's just a guy thing. Masturbating outside of that means that you know your masterbated my boyfriend. Master guys say that old guys, they just get a

nut in the showers. You wake up with with an erection. Yeah, we do have a lot of morning sex. Now I'm gonna start thinking the days that we don't have morning sex. He jerked off on the shower, saying in a shower No, no, see I don't. I couldn't have morning said, you know earlier I get up. Yeah, it's still a nighttime when you wake up for working. You can't get a four in the morning if it's worth this ship, No, I can't.

That's drunk sex hours exactly that hours. I'm a nighttime sex person or a daytime I'm a nighttime before I go to bed seven on pr in a day. But like nighttime and mornings, I like it. Anytime you get at a time, do you get up and brush your teeth? You have to. I'm like that though, Like if we sleep together and I'm not gonna be kissing on you with funky ass bread, you just don't kiss it. Well, I could have morning sex. I think my breath is

not that bad in the morning. Oh no, stuff like like I gotta go in there and be sure, like, okay, I don't stuff. You're popping in everything. But I think now, but I gotta admit, like now that I'm thinking about it, the last few times that I have morning sex, I definitely went in the bathroom. I like the worst thing about and you got that thinness morning breath, sticky spit. They don't like pam up and get thick. You don't have to period like when we're kissing. I can stand

somebody king disgust like I can't remember. I kissed this guy one time when I was younger. I had on the turnleneck and my hotel nick was all wet and he was terrible. Come on, guys, it was awful because I used to like I used to like um sloppy kisses like that when I was a teenager, But today I hate face and everything is all. I don't like for my to come out of a kiss with my I'm not gonna buy my mouth out, and it's super wet, and the whole fucking bed is wet, and I don't

I don't really like I like it either. I like um, you know, because I like a lot of sucking pressure. You know that doesn't require a lot of moisture. But I feel like dick stuck ain't supposed to be sloppier. Yeah, I feel like sex period is supposed to be slapped. I don't like the whole you definitely there needs to be moisture there for you to for the movement to feel good. Does it turn you on? And somebody like spits like no, because spit isn't sexy. Keep that ship

in your mouth. That's too much of your business becoming mind Why I need to see it? Keep the spitting your mouth. I've been when guys like that. It's just it drives me crazy. When a god doesn't like when a girl spits on sick, well, I don't know what. It ties me crazy. Guys like that, I don't go like, thank you, but I create a lot of aliva with my mouth. That's cool. There's a big difference between that and doing what not. But you gotta be careful like

some guys. Some guys like it. Some guys don't, you know what I mean. Some guys that say spit on it. Yeah, some guys will say spit on it. And some guys you'll spit and they'll be like, no, don't don't be biting my nipples either. Don't bite me period. I don't like, Oh my god, I love bite. You can lick like my nipples, you know what I'm saying? Like that's that feels so much better, Like there's no reason for you to bite me. Yeah, but not too mocking hid chick,

but like, yeah, I don't. I don't like that my nipples burned. Yeah, what kind of ship is that? We're biting me and ship? And then one time somebody slapped me while we were having sex. I choked this guy before. How was that? What was your reaction? It was a react. I didn't think about it though. It literally just like we was a reaction, like like what are you doing? And I like getting slabbed? No, I did that too. I slapped them inside of choking. I don't like to

be about what about you? Then we just what about you? Like choking? I like to hold you down, but I'm not gonna choke you. But there's a difference between me holding. It's all needs to be finessed. That's all, Like, don't you don't need to slap me, but you can, you know, It's what it's things you can do, like all that extra ship, keep that ship in Idaho or wherever. I don't want to hear slapping sound. I like to be slapped, like you see the handprint on my face. I hope

not always. There's there's a moment for that, you know what I mean? Home man, like you can't we can't be having morning sex and you try to slap it, like, come on, slapping at the drink water All right, now, focus on your after you just got the ship slapped out? What the hell? But you know, the drunk four thirty in the morning, secks, that might call for a slap, you know. Yeah, nobody's ever slapping, Thank god, a little spank on the bart, right, you know what? Yeah that

that's fine. I think you're supposed to do. Yeah. If you don't, something is wrong. Yeah, alright, well listen, I know this was a really fun conversation. I had a good time, have fun with you all. Thank you so much for having you guys. Got to invite us some friends and you are more open invitation for you ladies anytime you want to come. More than welcome. Yeah, thank you so so much. Shout out to to Loudspeakers Network. Right, yeah, together,

that's what's up. Everything we googled about him wasn't true. See, he was a player, you know what I'm saying. I mean, it's a little bit of you know, it's a little bit of truth in every damn live But you know, maybe on the weekends. I can't wait. I hope we meet this guy that you're in love with, that you love, you know exactly who he is right now and we've never even talked about them. How about that? So I'm gonna leave you out with that. Wow. Okay, make sure

y'all listen to the friends on that. It is our guy justin And you know a friend is my girl to my sister. Yeah, and me and friend, we have a good time. We go out in public. People think that your boyfriend and girl. Yeah, she comes with me to stuff, won't come out with us. Sometimes she comes to stuff. She won't go out out, but she'll go to like a day party. Let's get her to do something. I got and me and you tag team are like, it's done. We got that. That sounded wrong, but we'll

do well like that. Look, pause, listen and happy. Um. What is this weekend? Labor Day weekend? To every to everybody, I'm headed to Miami today, So just so y'all know, and Jesus going to make Philly for me in America to seek Stephani's going to get her legal it right. Hopefully I can get across that border. Yeah, what are you doing? So I'll be here in New York. I have um a project I'm working on, so I'll be here in New York at work. So that's good, right Yeah?

Get that money yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Thank you so much