Episode 59: Ft Lee Mazin

in love with two people at the same time? So I want to get everybody's opinion on that, and then we're gonna get to our tip of the day. All right, don't you go? Firstly, I think it's possible. It has happened to me. He was in love with two people that got a little messy to what happened? Did they know about each other and didn't found out about each other? And it was like, you'll love me like you love this one just too mussy? Did and make them want to break up with you? Or did it turn into

like a competition. It was more like a competition, so it kind of worked in your favor. Yeah, but it was like the extra side of it was kind of like, maybe I should just get away from boofale situations, but it is possible that how did they find out? Social media? So they the giveaway now these so they was leaving comments and yep, and then one or the other and

it was just went from there. They contacted each other. Okay, they confronted you, but they never spoke to each other through friends and you know, did they say you have to make a choice. Yeah, But then it got I couldn't. That's why I feel like you so wait us tell us the great qualities that if you because I'm assume you made a list of pros and cons. Yeah, and then it was like this one had this and this one didn't, and then this one had that and this one then so you'd be kind of like I kind

of got like the bust of both worlds. What am I supposed to do? Right? You're both incomplete, but together you're a complete. So then then I thought yep, and then I thought maybe I should have to read myself from both situations right and started over And then I did and it just was like, now I'm at the point where it's like how she said I got them all bring them all. Yeah, so they both still lurking around. Yeah, wow, play it good for you. We're gonna get back to

that with the tip of the day. But Stephanitiely you said yes, also, you could be in love with two people. Yeah, I think, um, I think that, Um. Love is a crazy emotion. It's a crazy feeling, and I don't think you can control it. I don't think you could turn it on and off. When you really love somebody, you can, you know, move on from one situation to another and fall in love and you know, still love the other persons. But what if you know you're you love somebody but

you're hurting them because you're with somebody else. Oh well, I mean in that case, well yeah, you can't. Really It sucks. You don't want to hurt anybody, but you can control you know what it is. I think, um, I think even though you're in love with two people, I think you should choose, you know what I'm saying, Like, I think especially um, I don't want to say for

a man or a woman. I just think that you should choose if you know, you don't unless that cool with it, unless everybody could just be happy together, you know, somebody has to go. Somebody's gotta go. Somebody's always gotta somebody. So I think I choose. But I mean if you're single and dating, you know, so that's that you don't You don't have to choose, you can right Um and Alex our friend, Um, she does the lip service passport cutty,

she was saying today on on Instagram. You know, people nowadays move so fast, they like we go on one day, we sleep together, and then a relationship. Although I would say y'all said last week that if we sleep together, you're my boyfriend. But that's a serious thing, that a

serious relationship. Like you you sleep with somebody and then you're like, oh I don't want I don't want you sucking nobody else, Like you just skipped over a whole process of getting other maybe right away, yeah, or maybe sleep with each other right away but forbody else or yeah, but you can't put too many boundaries on it so soon.

I just feel like when you're single, um, you know, like you should enjoy that, you know, date as many people as you want, maybe not funk as many people as you want, but hey, if you want to funk as many people as you want, as many people as you want, I mean, and if you're keeping it, if you're being honest with somebody, like, hey, I love this person,

but I love you too. I'm single, you know, I see I hang out with you some side hang out, right, jeez, what do you think can you being loved to people at the same time? Personally, I don't think that I can love be in love with two people at the same time. And there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. And from my personal experience, I was dealing with two people at the same time, and I was in love with one and I loved

the other. I loved the other for different reasons, you know, not the same reasons why I was in love. Now, yeah, I need you other even more specific about these reasons. I mean, when you're in love with someone is just on a different level than just having love for someone. And and me and this person that the other person we were friends and our friendship, you know, was a

very strong friendship, and we were friends with benefits. But yeah, I just loved him for who he was, not, you know, to be my lover even though he was having sex. I wasn't in love with him, but sexually. It wasn't as it wasn't there wasn't There wasn't that that passionate connection. We had chemistry, We had a great friendship, we had a great bond. We talked about a lot. But he squared but no, I've never I'm just asking. But um,

I wasn't in love with him, all right. So for the tip of the day today, what how do you choose when you have two people that you're dating, right, What are some of the things that you look at so that you can choose one over the other? Well? I think, first you I felt like I was being selfish in the situation, and I feel like it was a part of like growing because I wanted both of them and I wanted I didn't want either one of them to hit. I think it was being selfish, But um,

I don't know. It's kind of like you do gotta wait, I guess longevity. Who can you see and so with for a long like is that you look for if you say, okay, he has this, this is that This is why I could see myself with him in the long term. Stability, um, ambition. I like people that that's aiming for something that has schools they want more out of life. Um against ability. He likes stability, the one, I think, honestly is a good treat of course for me.

The person who sticks When I'm dating a couple of different people, the person who sticks is the person who was the most consistent, the one who gave you the biggest I mean that has the biggest really sucks me with that biggest. Now, I feel like the one that's around the most always ends up sticking, just out of because he's the last man. But he probably need to take me the supermarket on milk shade. But sometimes girls tend to like that guy that they have to chase

down too. I feel like that's more of a challenge. Sometimes we put ourselves in that situation when the one person that's always good and available, but that's take advantage

of him, and then you won day. The guy who don't really answer all the time call you back hours later, right where the funk was you at the thrill of the chase, Because when you feel like you might be slightly being incurred by nickold, you try extra hard because you're like, oh fun, ame about the curve, me make sure they're doing so you kind of go a little harder because sometimes guys that don't treat you that good, that treats you really good, you'd be like, you make

up stuff about them, like I like them, but it's right here, two point like that right here. So what would you say, like, if you have to choose for the tip of the day between two guys, what are the things that you look for when you do the elimination? Who gets the rose? Who gets the rose? Um? I agree with Lee that you have to go for the long term situation. You know, which one of these guys.

Cannot really see myself being with. What represents long term though, Like besides stability you said honesty, Like what else is long term for me? My advice because I always go with the one that's easier to keep with the you go against what I'm doing. Learn from my experience, and I feel like you should try to stay with the person who presents a better challenge better, not not the one you want, the one that you have to fight three six of his baby Mama's No, that's not a

good challenge either, you know what I mean. It's like sparted, Yeah, that's try to go for the one who's who gets along with his baby mama. Go for the one that's not married. It's not the one that's not married, I probably isn't gonna be too long term. For the one that's not married, go for the one that don't have a baby mama who separated. You know, wait, wait till they get a divorce. Okay, that's a good idea. Getting really serious, How can you earn somebody's trust back if

you've lied to them? Now, let's say you don't had they found out you were lying seeing other people? Is how can you make somebody trust you again? Actions change. You have to have to change, and you have to show it. I don't think it's a set formula to it. I think it's no. I just got it actually speaking. If they're willing to work the word with you, though, because trust is like a hard thing to get and

keep and then to try to get it back. It's even harder because they're gonna teach you real shitty at first, and the insecurity level of insecurity is like any everything you do is like you're lying, right, and you gotta really and then you gotta humble yourself and not get mad about it and hav them long ass late night talks. I could want. Truce is broken, it's over. You cannot get that back. Never. Never, I think you can. I

don't think it's hard. I think it's very hard. I just feel like both people have to, you know, look at things different and change and do things differently. The biggest problem is that once you break somebody's trust, now you don't trust them. Yeah, and then you automatically think, well, I did this, he's gonna do If he's gonna take me back, you've got to be doing some ship after everything I did. Taking me back you can't tell me. Now,

let's say you're dating somebody alive. We'll start with you with this one. Right, somebody else is in the business and they could do things that could help your career, like as a producer or another artist or something like that. Would you ask for help? Um me personally, no, just because I will always be like your independent type of shape.

But you know, being independent is great, but sometimes you do need to say I know, and I'm I'm learning that, but it's just like installed in me and it's I'm not come too comfortable with eggs and almost like any man for anything, because he even asking for heim, like, oh, could you you know I'm going to get a chat from you. I think you dope something like this that could help them too, if you really you know, I'm believe in yourself and if it makes sense and I'm

like comfortable in the situation, then of course. But I wouldn't just walk into a situation like, oh, he's a producer, he do this. Let me make sure I get his number, let me he got that song and that sound check? Why he ain't put me on the song? What about you? I because somebody that you're dating, if they could do something to help you, would you ever ask? Yes? You that, But I mean you've been with your boyfriend for a long time, so you should be able to ask him

for anything. Yes, a close mouth, don't get fat at the end of the day. And the only answer you're going to get without asking is no. When you do actually have the opportunity to get to us. And if you're with somebody and they want the best for you, then they're going to do what they can to help you. Actually, you shouldn't have to ask if they can help you. But sometimes we assume that people know that. Sometimes you do and they're not thinking about it and didn't tell

me you needed help. Maybe maybe you get maybe I can't hint that sometimes that words let me drop these braad crowds to see if this is gonna kick it up. But sometimes I feel like that's the worst because they're like, oh, she want to hand around, and why don't she just ask me? True? Yeah, like I said, a close mouth,

don't get fat. And if you're with somebody, comfortable with somebody, if you're with somebody and they feel this though, and they know that they can help you, and if they see that you need the help and don't offer, then and I don't I'm not even saying in business in general, I'm saying in life, like nigga, you see my nails as busted, didn't send me to the semar anybody and let me get my ship fix? Or you know what if he just said you need to get a manicure?

Running little some girls, I gotta like that. You know what are you thinking? That's a small thing. But I was just using that as an example. Well, you know, um, I've had my foot in this business for a couple of years and I've never asked anybody that I'm involved

with for any help. But you never needed it? Yeah, I feel like, um, I feel like with this entertainment business in particular, I feel like when people that are already in this business, when they see that there is potential for you to do well or you know, a wait for them to make money too, they're gonna They're gonna. Yeah. So I think you know when you when you do a good job, you're gonna you know, people are gonna

try to put you on. But if somebody asked you for help access dating that I'm dating, it depends like, I'm not gonna fly. See now, what if you're dating an athlete and he want to host some parties or something like that, and he's like, your steph, why you help me? If if it's an athlete and and he's that situation and no problem. I come up for the promoters,

no problem. But like if it's like a rapper and he's like, could you give you wouldn't say you could give me somebody's track, but you better listen to it first and see it it's worth. No, make sure you don't get me nothing wet, because really he should be asked to I'm easy to get to give it to her boyfriend. I'm not gonna I'm beating, like even having just the following that I have, like I've had God's try to get to know me, so that way I could like plug them with things, right, And I think

it's kind of corny. It's transparent. Yeah, you know, so that's I mean, I'm not, like she said, I'm I can't ask for things because I'm I don't take I'm not good with rejection. I'm really bad. I don't like when people tell me no. But what if it's something that you think is such a great idea and you can add you know what I'm saying, like, hey, can you do this for me? I had a great idea, I know you do this? Is that? And I was

thinking And that's another. It just depends on the relationship I have first time, Like if I feel like we're we're um, we're you know, cool with each other enough like that. Well, I mean, if we're sleeping together, yeah, probably, I probably. I mean, if I see you opening, I would ask, but it's gonna be the right time. Yeah, it has to be the right time right before it comes. Yeah, what about you if a guy is asking you for something, like she said, it depends with like, Okay, let's say

you used to be signed the Dream Chasers. Right, Let's say he was like, Yo, could you plug me with Meek? You know, I want to do this show and New York. I want to see if I could get him to come through and perform for the family price because I got that before. And it's just like it depends how it's presented. Like if it's just like Yo, you're thinking

me just come through. But once you start saying like you think he's gonna come through for this price or you think it's just like it's kind of like a turn though, because it's like why do you want me? You should go with? You know what he should do. If a guy is he'll be he should just the most he should do. It's be like, hey, can you hook me up who ever books his right? Or can I can you get can you get a contact on me for me? Right? And don't get you know, and

he just hooked me up with that person. But when you want me to go to him and say yeah, like you know you can't have my people wanted for the low. No, it depends with like what the favorite would be. But if it's a guy who is another artist and he's like, yeah, I want you to hop on this track. You know, I know you're putting out the mixtape and the show is coming out. This would be a good time. It would be a good look for me. You know, I'm gonna blessed. You sound just

like I'm not. I don't know. I feel like if I'm saying up artist, I feel like we should just click the musically are If not, we probably got a problem. Like if I if I'm not a fan of music, I'm nine times probably not even gonna deal with Yeah. Can you imagine if you're dating a guy he's he's

just like awful. I would have to tell him, like, baby, maybe you should try to think about or something you ever think you should try to think about doing something else instead of would you write something for him, like I write this for you and see if it how to say no? Like, babe, you should just I don't think, like you know, probably not for you, right for you? But what if he's determined you never know? Like you love him, everything is great, but his music is trash.

I don't think I would get to the point that I if I knew the music with trash, I don't think I could get to like what is he talking about all right, that's interesting. What if he told you that he didn't like your music? What if you try to critique it like, you know, it's cool, but it kind of sounds like I feel like you should say this, and I kind of don't like how you did that. Would that be weird to you? With your money for a studio time and fix it, Jock, you're gonna bring

a producer through. Now. If he was into the entertainment industry and some type of form, then maybe I might take it as constructive criticism. If it's just a fan and he didn't he's not even in the music business, just as a consumer, I might take a personal that my hand issues that he might be trying to play because he's like, what're you thinking about all this? You've been thought this? How can you tell somebody's using you for your connections? Though? Um, because I'm sure there's a

lot of do you like guys from Philly like? Do you mostly date? Are you like? Nah? I'm kind of I'm trying to get away from them. I'm trying to like.

But it's good. It's good to connect with somebody who's not from where you're from because you can learn so much about them, and you learn something you about yourself as well, because when you're with somebody that's that you grew up in the same area, y'all know all the same place as you're eight, all the same same you know, all the same people, y'all been to the same clubs, you know, and so on and so forth. It's kind

of like it gets kind of boring and repetitious. But like for me, for instance, when I was living in Atlanta and I met my guy, he lived here in New York, and we had that much different about us that it connected us on a different level because he was able to learn about me and where I was from, and I was able to learn about him and where he was from. And we got to travel and experience each other's you know, upbringings and you know, all that

type of stuff. So I think that that's just a good interesting quality that to try to meet people that aren't from where you are, just branch out learn some different ships. You know, you feel like that's definitely sometimes people are using you for connections. I certainly I don't really like I've had in the past, Like God's try to you know what I mean, But I don't really I don't really like, I don't really want to deal with somebody like I like to feed off of people,

you know what I mean. I wanted to be able to help you as much as you can help me, and you can't really do anything for me. I'm not really around you. You know, Like, what if he wants to go to the Easy Fashion Show and he's like, yeah, I know you could get it easy. I think it was season one or season two, season two and embarrassing. I was gonna say, how did he act? Because that's a lot, that's a lot of pressure. He couldn't take it. Yeah, No, he was embarrassed. He started arguing with me in the

middle of the room. No he didn't because you know, I'm okay, easy. This this is a perfect example to pick up, So bring up all right easy. You know they they have the show, a lot of people are in the room when the show was going on, and then they have the green room. You know that's where everybody you know, close people, friends, you know, all the celebrity hospitalities exactly. You know, you go drink champagne and there's a little bit of press fact there, you know,

the green room. So I took him to the green room. You know, we were fine watching the show. Everything was great, but whatever, I bumped into somebody that I knew who's a rapper, and we exchanged numbers. But this is a friend of mine, like I know his wife, you know what I mean, Like, we hadn't seen each other in a while. I had changed my number because I was with a psycho, so I gave him my number. How yeah, I changed both my numbers because I was with a psycho,

and so hepped out in front of everybody. He started arguing with me in front of everybody, and I swear the whole room stopped and everybody was just like, get that nigga out of here, like what are you doing? And then in the next one and the next but again no season, and the next one, we go to the green room, same thing, season three, you know, everybody, same crowd. I was pulled by. I was pulled to the side by someone who said, hey, you got rid

of that problem you had last song. So that's how much of an effect I had on the room, you know what I mean that, Like everybody noticed, and I'm talking about like a person who I really think highly of, and I'm very grateful to have in my life pulled me to the side. I was so I was mortified. You should have seen the way that the person, this person looked at me across the room. How did you come like, how did you come happening? Like? Uh, how did you calm him down? If we had to leave?

He was like he walked on first, and then I was like, all right by everybody? All right? So he worked. We walked on first. He made a big, big show because and he wasn't even allowed argument. We weren't screaming at each other, but you could just it's obvious. That's the intimate saying already. That's maybe a little big room, and there's people are talking. It's not a club, it's it's it's bright as daylight, you know what I mean?

Everybody sees it. Now. Here's something interesting. When you date somebody, when you have a boyfriend, do you tell him everything? Because I have this one friend and she tells her boyfriend every stupid little thing, a lot of things I think she shouldn't tell him, like if a guy had to talk to her, or if somebody hit it up in her d M. She tells him all of that stuff. And I kind of think sometimes it's unnecessary because it's a situation. It brings up situations that can be avoided.

You know, but you think you don't tell your boyfriend everything though, because I know he don't tell me everything either, Right, So it's like a tip for tat, not really not even just tick for tap, but it's like some things are just pointless. A million guys are going to come in just about every girl. So are you going to tell him? You know, I was in burger king and

the cash the cash register cash here. It's like okay, because then if a guy does that to you and tells you every girl that tries to talk to him, You're like, oh, he's trying to make me mad or something. I don't really care. It's such a big mistake to tell guys when other guys are trying to talk to you, especially a person like me, Like I all right, I'm just perfect example. Another perfect example. I'm in the bed with my boyfriend at the time, and I get a

d M from somebody who's famous, Right, is somebody popping? Yes, that is somebody popping, like just like like whatever, I've been curving this one for years. Blah blah blah. You know, just general conversation because we were together and it happened right there right next argument, Oh why you don't go right?

Like really and that's exactly why you don't tell him, said and when he said that you should have after all them, if you're in the same place and he that particular person coming, then it's like, let's just say you did want to talk to him later on down right. Then he started thinking like I knew she was no, but it's got to be here. And so if somebody comes in the room, say, y'all out, g if you're out and somebody used to date is there, do you tell him no? No, hell no if you didn't know.

But what if you want to know if a girl he used to date is somewhere that y'all that no, no, no, yeah, because then you're gonna be looking at every little eye contact they're making. It soon as something go wrong, something are just like if you don't know, it, don't hurt you. And there's a lot of things that fall into that category. And I feel like that's the prime example, like he knows who he should know about if it's somebody that he doesn't know about. Six years into our relationships, then

I didn't tell him for a reason. So that person is in the room, he still I would never tell him. What if it comes up and he finds out later, then it's like, that wasn't it. It wasn't that. It was like what I was, you know, he wasn't that significant. And then I felt like I need to tell you. Everybody I love or respect their lives. They're like gets you don't feel no weird attention, like oh this girl

across the room attention. What if this guy keeps looking He's like why this this dude keep looking at me? Then you think you might say something like, oh, you know I used to I don't know. I don't know that. What if he asks you details? How long did y'all date? It's not even worth talking about because it's hard man, once you bring setting up. You know, people you want to know everything. I think females we want to know more. I think guys were doing that same thing. You guys, Yeah,

they do. They want to know everything, and they act like they don't want to know anything. And then every now and then something that has a more question you know what I mean, the information just holding it. Stephanie, I know you are on the I don't tell ever. So I'm sure if he were somewhere with you and there was a guy you used to date there, you wouldn't say nothing. Never what if what if the guy came up to you instead of talking to you, If the guy came up to me had started talking. It

depends on what happens. If the guy came up to me, Oh, hey, what's up. We're gonna hug each other. Okay, bye, that's fine. I'm still not gonna say anything. Now. If the guy does something to me as to where I gotta spas on him, then I'm gonna be like, yeah, I used to funk with this cornball and that's how otherwise with you that I like that? Yeah, but no, and another thing I feel like, um, you know you call attention in situations when you tell a guy too much, you

know what I mean? Like like, let's say you were one of those people like oh yeah, fuck hey, b I fuck Z. You know what I mean? I sucked everybody right if you But when when this part, when these people come around, it's gonna make your your man a little tense, you know what I mean? When you can have a relationship with somebody and you know, be cool with them and see them and be like, hey, what's up, and know that it's nobody's gonna have a

disrespect to your man, you know what I mean. Like if you're sucked with somebody who's disrespectful, than yeah, you should. Like if you're a girl who is dating um, a rapper and they have be for a fifty cent tew fifty cent that you slept with this because you know he's gonna embarrassing you know what he is. So that's that's I mean, like you you could just like I see this all the time. You just gotta pick your battles case by case scenario. You just gotta treat everything

becomes exactly. She that was a lot right there, preach stuff. I'm sorry, what's the craziest thing that you've ever forgiven somebody for sleeping one of my friends? Absolutely? Because I think that's crazy. I think that's out of just I don't think. But we was making as broken up, But that's your friend. She was who I thought she was. So did you beat her up? You're both you were here, I for um for the girl, but she he slept with her when I was um, when I was with

somebody else. We broke up. I was cheating on him with somebody and I ended up staying with the ended up going and living with the other guy practically. And then while I was with the other guy, he was sleeping with my home girl. He started sucking one of my friends. But you forgave him and you stopped being friends with her. Yeah, exactly. But I ended up fighting her. I definitely. We ended up fighting, for sure, And I didn't even know why we were fighting because I didn't

know until after we fought. So after Yeah, because I got back on him and she was tight, so she's seen me. Club This was back in those days when the clubs are really good, like Club Home and um, the after hour, remember the after hour. This was not it was like maybe six years ago. Club Home. Remember club Home? Yeah, I remember Club Home and and and guest House and those times. Bed Remember there was an

after hour in Spy in clubs five whatever. Yeah, we were, and we were in the after hour and I was just chilling. I was drunk. I was five up in the morning drunk, you know what I mean. And she came up to me and we started fighting. We was in the bathroom fighting, and you just they didn't really let us fight, but we fought. We definitely before, and we weren't friends. We're friends now. I'm cool with her

now damn you both don't work with him. So yeah, but we're not besties, but we're you know, we're cool. She's still my sucking man. You never know, do you have friends that you feel like we're man? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we're friends with people that you can't put your finger on it, and you don't want to get that, and then you'll be like, we make sure I don't leave them in a table situation. Where is that really your friend? If that's somebody that you think would potentially sucking man,

some bushes are just holes, you know what I'm saying. Yes, Like I have not ever in my life slept with someone like I find it funny to even sleep with somebody down my home girl slept with unless it's a pass around like we speak about the time. Yeah, that's just like, girl, you gotta get that, you know what

I mean? Like, even that's a guy who one of my friends just casually slept, because what if we get married and then she's my, she's in the woman, she's my and you it's like you don't have you got a plot up to pussy's on your way, Like that's bad, you know, But you know some girls are just they want to funk everything right. And I have friends that but I don't know if I could be friends. I don't know if I would want to be friends with

somebody that I think would just suck anybody. But you know what, you're right, I do have I do have friends, Like I don't feel like you find out at first. I feel like you find out the friendship and then it's like already anything. And that's that's where like, um, I used to be a personal assistant guy I used to work for. He used to say, I don't trust

anybody unless I'm known on for ten years. But even people you know him for ten years, because I here, we're saying, I know somebody that stuff the biggest for the ten years. You see, you see if you can trust something like you know whether you're not you can because in person changes so much and in a decade, you know, you right change, you grow, you change, whether it's for the better or for the words. It happens. So j you have friends, you think we're sucking men.

I have a friend and I know for a fact with my man, Damn, doesn't that make you want to not be around her and cut her off? It's a it's a it's a sticky situation because she's been in our bedroom before, but we haven't had a three cents. She was there as an assistant, Okay, so she would her yeah, yeah, the buffer so and it's you know, it's never gotten to the point where they actually had sex.

But I feel like if I wasn't around it, he tried her, she would definitely be for it, right, But then you kind of opened the door for that in a way. That's why I can't be mad, right, prime example, I had a friend that years ago, back when I lived in Philly, I had a friend that um I brought her into the bedroom with me and my boyfriend. We had threesomes and then they started working behind my back, And of course I was mad, But I mean, how

mad can I really be? Because I opened the door for that, Like I started to I just felt like, I just felt like he should have been more one hunted with me because we could have just kept on having threesomes if that was a game. But she was like, you gotta around my bad he shouldn't even had her number. I stopped working with both of them. M so, and then I'm not friends. We neither one of them damn.

At the time, still I have a friend. I showed her one of the my favorite boyfriends sent me a picture like in his boxers, you know, like his primp, and I showed it to her. Why did you do that? Exactly? How you gotta learn exactly because he sent up to me while I was with her, and I was just like so excited because he's like, I don't really like dick fix and I don't really feel like you should ask.

I don't ask for them, but you know some guys you wanted from you know what I mean, send me the dick pic, like I like, I tried to hint that I wanted so many times, and you just won't send this to me. So this time I was excited because you sent me this. Yeah, it was nice, so that I showed her and whatever. Moving forward, my other friend was like, girl, I was just talking to this bitch and she told me that you showed her a picture of this and this and that, and that she

don't give a funk. She if she got a chance, she would I was like, tarnis like, and I know she's a whole and she's like, nah, but you know I know that, I know she really likes him, and you know I would never tell and I will only do it once. Whoa that? And that? Friends? I mean, I've been like kind of moving around in a different direction away from her. No, she doesn't, she but the

thing is, my thing is like girls, got it? You gotta be careful when you talk about your girlfriends to other girls, you know what I mean, especially a girl who is in the position that I'm in. You know, girls, right now, everybody wants to be my friend, you know what I mean. So you're talking bad about me to this girl and she wants to be on my side so bad. She came back and told me, you know what I mean. So it made me It didn't make me feel like I want this one closer to me

and I'm gonna get this one. Both of you're coming and that yeah, you know, so I just always with you. And then you have to wonder why would she be comfortable enough to tell her that exactly talking? But I think that I think she only gave you one side

of this note. But I think I'm yeah, because he's the thing like I'm a street bit and then the beginning of the day, I'm you know, So when you tell a regular girl something like that, she's gonna think, whow this girl is my friend, she's looking out for me. When you tell a real ass bitch something like that, it's like you already played. That's exactly what I said. So I was like, what were y'all smoking about? Has

she started like? Uh? Like you know, so, like that's something you have to you have to learn, like as a woman in life when you're dinner to be able to be like I checked that bit on the spot and I'm telling you so you know, and you can say it to her. I don't care right right like Naya me and Naya you know, she's she's one of my best friends. And she shows with a bunch of girls that I don't like, Like she stayed showing with some bird as bitch that I don't funk with, you

know what I mean? But I know for a fact that any time somebody ever said something about me, when she checks them, and I've I've heard it from other people and I've seen her do it, you know what I mean? So like, that's that's a real that's a friend, that's my friend, you know what I mean, A person who's gonna come back, Like the oldest girl says something, but don't say nothing, like don't say like all right now,

I don't know that, don't say her. And now I know that she's home and she comparing herself to me, like, but you can't ever bag the type of dick that I got, you like the organic dick. Friends you had to go day, I got a whole food dick. That was my reaction. And I was sitting with her and a mom reaction. I looked at I was like, what was it I was talking about? And she's like, oh no, it just came up in conversation. You said you also have friends you weren't testing on your man. Yeah, I

got it. I have a few, but a few, a couple of let me say a couple, um to if I just get those vibes and then you hear like you hear a little stuff like I actually heard one of my friends slept with my ex. I don't know how true this. I never even come front of her. I just like fell back, like we speak. She don't even know that I even heard this or even think that you can say something, because it just was like I already kind of expected it because if it wasn't him,

I felt like it was gonna be somebody else. So what I did was just distance because I should gonna do is lie anyway. I know the type of person she is, like I would never do that and heat us and he that, and then I don't give two funks about him. So it's like for for y'all can have each other and y'all could go that way, and

I could just go this way. But it's like why even EXX, like I don't even think it would it would bother me from her her point, like her standpoint, like I probably would be bothered, But then I think about it, like I already expected it, So why would I really be bothered by Yeah, So it's like I'm gonna just cut her off like fall back, we speak and you know, no love loss, but I just can't funk with you and I'm not gonna ever bring your round nobody else that I'm working with, because I do

have a friend that I feel like would do that, and it's only because I know her for a long time, like we grew up together. And the only reason that I don't really cut her off completely is because I have known her for a long time, you know, and she has done this twice to you. Yeah, but it was both guys that like we were a lot younger. It's when we were younger and you weren't serious with two guys. No, I wasn't really serious, like, and the guys are the ones that told me what I feel like.

Guys are always gonna tell you. They're always gonna tell you. That's another thing. That's another thing. Girls, the same thing when you're talking to guys like you don't know that, Like if you're working with somebody and you know he's working with another person, don't don't talk about her. Yeah, but because you think you're making yourself look good, but you you're kind of making him think about the other person, right,

you know. But I feel like if you really mind friend and you feel like, oh, I know you were dealing with this guy, but it wasn't a serious like ask me, like you'd be mad if I if I sunk with him or you know, like then I'm gonna tell you how I really feel, like, oh, no, this one off guards or go I'm cool because you don't feel like the one guy that told me right, he was somebody that I introduced her to him. I was talking to him, but he was like my boyfriend or anything,

and he actually told me that he sucked it. But he was like, yeah, I told her I was going to tell you, and she didn't believe me. He was like, yeah, you know, I'm gonna tell you that, and she was like, no, you're not. And he sure did come back and tell me she's awful, and I stopped off. I stopped dealing

with him after that. But you know, like I feel like with her, I don't really rock with her like that, but I've known her a long time and it was a long time ago, so I just be on something like I just feel like, give you good your friend man that I never was really friends because it's it's so it's so much dick out here. It's like you had to have that listen. It don't even be everywhere

like Pokemon got him. What he does for you said that the love that they see that he gives you, the things he see that that that he does for you, the gifts, the way he moved you around, the way y'all living they feel as though my pussy is so good that if I give him something, he's gonna cut that bit off and do the same things for me. And that's why they go and that's our Like, I hate, he ain't going to how good my pussy is on this show anymore because I know people are tired tell

us about it. But I know, like every time a girl tells somebody that I'm sucking up, every time he talks about me, the God runs and tells me because he always gonna tell me, because he's always gonna come back, you know what I mean. He still wants to taste us. He still wants it, you know what I mean, Like you hating all me, He's just gonna it's just push

your hands to call me extra time he's hungry. And I'm still gonna feel like even recently, I had a guy that I'm dating, God, I'm sucking with he he had a girl tell me tell him that I said I was saying that he was paying my bills or something like that. Please everybody know how proud I am that not paying my own bills. This is an accomplishment for me, you know. But I'm paying you know what I mean? So you know, he ran back and told

me because he knows the person that I am. He and I have a relationship, you know, like we're not in a surbious relationship, so we don't just funk each other and then keep it moving, you know, Like, so he knows the type of person I am. And anybody who knows he knows get you crazy when you tell crazy about another text, because it do make it seem like you feel a little insecure. She doing is making because he's gonna tell the girl. So you're showing that

you care about this girl. You're thinking about her, you're talking about you, You're she's relevant to the way she's My girls be like, oh, you know everything on her is fake, you know she but that you know she like really make it seem like you're hating you know, naturally blue. No, but that's why I went like, um, you know, I'm I'm working with somebody who's popular, who's a popular person, and I know he'd be sleeping with other girls. He tries to act like he doesn't, but

I'll be knowing, yeah, you know what I mean. And I hear about things him and there, but I will not ever mention it to him one song because you ain't my man? How about what you ask me nothing. I shouldn't think that I'm hating on any of those bites because no matter who it is, whether she's extremely rich, has the fattest ass, the hope he ain't gonna how about how about just that like bring you everything, like oh yeah, I've seen him. That's the worst. I just

so happen to be on Instagram. And one thing with things, for sure, do not check for my nigga, especially if I'm not checking for my nigga right and then like you but they bring you something like they got this saying and you'll see side. Yeah there's I say two things about that. Number One, yes, I had to tell somebody one time stopped telling me stuff about my ex

because I don't want to hear it anymore. But the other thing is sometimes people feel like, well, you might be mad if they know something and didn't tell you, but it's how you do it, Like it's when you I got like Afford who all the time like oh well I was just on my Instagram scrolling and that's all such a such a comment on such such a picture, and it's like why do you follow him? For one, and how did you see this? He was going through

the comments. It's just too much now if you see you out and you see him with another yeah, and then you supposed it called me, but the whole Instagram social media stuff emojis under his And then when this frequentness like why do you know all this information about why do you know stuff that I don't know? I'm supposed to do the snooping. So it seemed like so it seemed like they're just really trying to hate on your situation or they or I feel like they more

than you are. Yeah, I feel like they want the situation. Okay, I feel like my friends are there so um, they're so like careful with me, like they don't even do it no more like like my home girls. She used to be like oh screen shining things and like and every time like, b I don't sell me that because I'm I'm spad, like I go from my girl what you know what I mean? You know, I feel like my friends are so like only like a handful of people know my personal business, you know what I mean?

Because you gotta be careful these bishes to be bored you working, you're busy, you know what I mean, you're doing with everything you have to do, and these bishes is bored. They changed life. It's a little boring, so now they start checking on your life. All right? Well, I know Leemasing is here because she has a lot of press to do for Stan, so we do gotta let you go. I appreciate you for him, But how was the experience being on the show? Just so? Um?

It was dope. I had to get us to it at first, but at the while you forget, like the cameras is even there. He used to being around guys all the time too. Yeah, my whole team is I don't deal with too many girls because of what we were talking about, So my whole time team is almost all guys, like guys, and you and Meek are still cool, right Yeah? Is he gonna like post and supported the show? I know he's big on posting the support. I mean that's I don't know. We had to win. Did you

ask him like hey, could you post it? Yeah? You start stepping up and asking the stuff. That's somebody that you used to be signed to his label. He wanted kind of feel like it's one of those situations, like you said, like that's that's something I feel like, now you should ask because these droppers they asked everybody to right, I'm not gonna lie because people like Bigger Caliber asked calib would be like yo posted like sometimes you gotta do that, you gotta put you know. I guess it's

a pride thing. I guess probably is a broad thing. But I feel like all the people that I got relationships with in the industry, like I didn't have to ask them, not one person. I can't even one person that I feel like I gotta dope bind with it. I had, but sometimes people don't even be paying attention and what's going on. I don't know if you're gonna

be like what I'm doing? What I do. I may do something like a mass text, you know, and then when he don't post it, then you know, or I do something like a mass text like sense to everybody and not not a group message, but like one by one, like you know, this show coming on the night with the picture and then see what follow up from there.

Because I get those same type of messages like you we don't see everything, and if somebody hit me up like oh I just dropped this, then I'll be like, oh, I know what, she dropped this, or just let me throw it up, and you know what, it helps if you give them just what to write so they could just come and paste it, so you don't got to come to the whole thing, find the hashtag, find the ad, just be like, hey, if you could just copy and paste this, you know, I'd appreciate it. If not cool,

you know, still love, but it would be nice. I'm just trying to say, sometimes we gotta stop acting like we don't want to, you know, ask the thing absolutely right, She's gonna be hit me like girls. So yeah, I needed to come up now. Boy listen, I have no problem with it. So myself in there. So I saw it. I was so confused because I saw it like a couple of people doing it the first time, Like, how are they getting in this? All right? Well, we appreciate

you so much for stopping. Dude. We will be watching, you know, I like Sister the Hip Hop. We actually been on that show on the Breakfast Club. We're actually watching it all together. Maybe we can get maybe we can get lip service on there at one time, you know what I'm saying. We could. They loved it, come up here, and talk about y'all poicy. Yeah, so I'll see you later. Don't have a little watch party at post tonight. You