Episode 57 ft Nat D from Mob Wives

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We talk about that later, all right. Now, we started a flip service at the tip of the day always, So today's tip is what is the appropriate amount of time that you should wait before you publicly move on with somebody. Okay, you know you've been dating somebody publicly, and sometimes you jump right into another relationship and then everybody has things to say. What do you think it's the right amount of time to wait before you move on when you feel the need, right, I think everybody

has their own timing. I think at least you do a month, though, don't be jumping the gun quick with it, because you know, sometimes you speak too fast and then things don't work out. You're like what, and then you feel stupid. Man. I was with my son's father for seven and a half years and we were broken up for two months and he was already in a serious relationship with somebody else promoting it though. Yeah, they were

all over the internet. I was like really, I was like, it's all good because my side nigga that became my main nigga, was all right, he was, yeah, And I for you, what was the best time period for you? Though, like from me, it would have to be at least a month. You really don't get to know somebody so full year if you think about it, you know, right. I also think sometimes girls had to move on quick because they see their man moved on quick, so they

see him at with somebody. And I do believe that men do things and they don't get judged obviously the same way that we do, right, But there's nothing like a female that can stand on our own and don't even need to split anybody like you just sometimes some things are better left, you know, I personally am more when it comes to my personal life. I don't put all that stuff on social media. I feel like there's always like bitches that hate so bad and always try

and bring you down. So I trying to keep myself like more. In the in the cut, I say this, I waited, Um, I waited two and a half years before I went public. I was in a serious relationship before my last serious relationship with somebody else that wasn't my son's father, and I didn't go public with that relationship because I felt like it was too soon. But I was publicly in another relationship two and a half

years later. Okay, with two and half years that really bad, so bad, because like even if you look at say Kylie Jennet right out right, her and Tiger broke up and then she was with a party next door like immediately after and we're like, damn, maybe you should wait a second, you know what I mean? But did we look at party next door and said you was just

with Kalani? I feel like you do what you want to do when you feel like the time is right for you, and you really shouldn't worried about worry about what other people have to say about it, especially those random people that are in your comments business. Now, have any of you ever dated a guy who wears a

suit to work every day? I was just thinking about this because I was outside his hat out and there's a lot of guys walking around wearing suits, and I'm like, you know what, I don't know if I've ever dated a guy who had to wear a suit to work every day? Yes? I have? You have, so, yeah, you might be the only one in the room. Yeah, I've dated a guy that had to wear a suit to court. My guy has to wear a suit to work sometimes

when he has to go to a lot. I think he looks really good when he were to suit Grammys, So once the year, his tucks. When he goes to the Grammys or to like an important like you know, event or dinner, he'll have to get dressed up in the suit, and I think it's sexy. You think it sexy if you could switch up. I like a little bit of a thug and somebody that's like tight and proper as well, Like there's nothing sexy. I mean, I mean I put on it a Zeppie shoo, Gucci shoe on,

Hugo ball suit like unfitted European suit. I don't know. I think that's sexy sex when a guy was a cheap, ill fitting suit like suck up him suit, ye anywhere period. Stephanie was your man hat when he had on the suit in court? Um the last time I saw him in the suit? If it him kind of big, look that's bad. Yeah, remember Lebron many years ago, but he had so did um Carmelo on the red carpet with none of that. I mean, I kind of like my last boyfriend what I had, and you know, like a

white tea on and Timber lambots. I don't he looked weird like his I didn't like the way he looked like he was going to jail. But then you are, do you really want a guy that like, I don't want my boyfriend walking around wearing no wife beater and stuff like that. Either I like when I like when guys how to dress. I like you guys, but I like a man that takes pride and he's like the way he dressed me like someone got my fly. Yeah yeah, I like it and dressed up. Take some pride in

your appearance. Guy, Absolutely don't be wearing like white beaters, some sweatpants or sneakers like even that I looked at like dick sneakers like terrible, like dirty sneaker. Yeah, like or choked out like no, I can't. I'm a strange. I like one. I like to see um, I like to see my favorite boyfriend and his basketball favorite person or and I like like I like when I can see my guys like yeah, I like when I'm in

his home saying he's like he's like walking around. I'll be like, oh, bib can give me some water, and he's like gets some to go get the water. And I could see like his dick friend showing through his sweats when he's coming back, Like that's like that's like their camel too, right, Yeah, that's the man's version of baby. What about guys with a little but you like guys that have like a little rustled by body. I don't like a guy with a flat ass that's like a

flat back and matches his button what. I don't like it. It reminds me of like, how about being bed guy with himps? Yea, you ever had a guy with hips? I haven't eaten what I like. I've seen a few guys they had hips, like yo, that nigga guy hip before hips to me and hold on to I like a guy with a muscle. But yeah, because it's fair that the muscle. Have any of you ever been engaged before? We were talking about engagements? Yeah you have? How many times?

I was engaged? Three times? Saying wow, yeah, yeah, three different rings too. We got married. I was with him for twelve years. It was like a night Mary. We killed each other, like rand each other over, like yeah, like it was crazy, ran each other. Oh I ran him over? Yeah? And then yeah, let's go back a little bit. So first engagement, why did y'all call Why did you call it? We were young? He was my high school sweetheart, so I was young. I was like the first time, like, he tried to step it up

so much. It was like a four It was a four carrot ring and I was twenty three years old. I was like, you know, and then um, I just it was too intense. The second time he got called cheat and like going to a Gisha house. Yeah, so I called wash the happy ending is that in Philly? The house in New York Like okay, okay, yeah, yeah, you pay to get your dick socked. They called it the washing and Philly. Most men they do do that ship And you can girls cold to the Washy Washy

and Philly. I mean you can go to Yeah, we should go here. I mean I don't want to go. They ain't got no you know what I'm saying. This is another woman. Yeah, so what she massage pussy? Yeah, I don't the right amount of money or play with you and stuff like that. But is that something you're able to forgive a guy just paying on women for a service like that? Yeah, I got over it. I mean, for the most part, we were young. He was young. I mean we were We've been through a lot. So

I got over that. And then um, back back to that, what if he just gets a hand job, That's what he said he was getting. And I was like, yeah, sure you were whatever. They nobody getting no hand job. Come on with that bullshit. And that's what you got. I feel like, if you need to feel the need to go pay for some pussy, we can just role play and you can pay me. That's some fucking look me,

it's Harvard me and roll play. I'll put on whatever little costume, I'll dress up with whoever you want me to be, and if you feel like paying for some pussy, we can role play. But the thing is is like I'm not even trying to like drain his balls like four times a week. So it's like how much you want to funk? Like you know, how many more? How many more? Like damn? What then are you going to?

But you know what, men and women are different when it comes to things like that, because I do feel like men like variety more than we did, Like they ran the pussy like men most men do, and they don't give a pussy has no face. A lot of guys say, like, I've worked with a lot of guys and every one of them, unfortunately all gonna kill me if you hear the ship. But they they're all been like, yo, ain't got the face. I'm like, what does that mean? Does that mean you're fucking five or four? You know

what that means, you know, look at Holly Berry. She was a bad she's a bad bit, you know what I'm saying, and she doesn't buy the best of them. Right. But listen, everybody, I think it don't even matter as a woman, how great you are. I felt a man. I was destroyed over Distraught would be a better word. I was distraught over it. But you know, with time

and we got back, we got mad. Would you have to feel better if he was honest and was like okay, instead of just saying you gotta hands up, if he was like I'm gonna be I don't think anybody could prepare for something like that. Either way, it's harsh news, like it's your man, like, I'm very like I don't want to share in my dick, like if I love somebody that's sucking not even like no, it's because we say we say we wouldn't know the truth. Do we

really want to know the truth. I think some things you can't prepare for, you know, because I know, like a lot of us have been through some things here like geez, I'm sure you guys, you and your relationship breaking again back together, you'll both have to come clean about a lot of things. Do you feel like you'd have been better off not knowing certain things? Um, I'm glad I know everything that I know, and I'm sure there's some stuff that happened that I don't know about.

But guess what was done in the dark will always come in to light and it's gonna come full circle soon or later, because that's a hard thing to figure out if you do something right. Because what's hard about that is if you do something sucked up right and you cheat and you get caught, do you then have to tell everything and just kind of cleanse yourself and tell it all? Or do you not tell everything I don't know about tell everything that wasn't me. Yeah, I

don't know about admitting anything. I mean only what they want you to like. Whatever they know, I will play that out. I just think that some things are I don't know. Yeah, I feel like, um, you should tell things that they're gonna find out about things. You know that something you don't know if they're going to find exactly. And then if you get into a situation where there's something you didn't something but he's about to find out,

tell him then. But I don't feel like you should dave his face, like, so you just feel embarrassment for him, Like, um, like, have you ever dated somebody and they're like, oh, how many guys have you had sex with? No, because that's a stupid ass question. I mean I've done I've dated some people that have left. I would never how many sex I had a guy. I had a guy that I was just talking to. I never even slept with this guy, and he was, um, he was an athlete.

I never even slept with him. And he went down the list of all the like famous people he'd been with. Why what do you think? He definitely is insecure. I was that the fucking shut it up glow. That's a whack motherfucker right there. You're gonna have some issues with that. That's a name dropper. I was like, I'm never gonna And that's so corny because then he's gonna tell everybody after Bragger And he wasn't even like he was kind of corny. But you know a lot of these athletic

sites to be corny there. Let me tell you. Let me tell you something, just because you have an athletic talent and you make it to the pros because not and you have a lot of money that does not take away your lameness that you can still be a lame ass fuck boy digging a booty ask nigga. You guys with a lot of money and very talents, and it also could because you never developed your social skills so much exactly because you were playing your sport all the time and you were in school. You know you

counted or not. Whatever reason. Just know that just because you have a contract and a lot of money don't make you a real nigga. Just be a lame There's a lot of them out there, trust me and like, and you'd be surprised, like a lot of like football players. Football is my favorite sport, is the only sport I really follow, and you know, like it's an intense sport.

They're really killing each other the whole time. And you'll be surprised that some of these guys are pussy off the field, like they're scary, like they're scared to come out. They like like I like, I'm like, I'm I'm friends like I have like this is the guy, Like the guy that I'm I'm friends with. He he really impresses me because like he fights. He will fund somebody up on site anywhere you know what I mean, and everybody

looks at him. She's a pretty boy and he's scary, but he really fights, you know, But I don't like that all the time. Now he don't fight all the time, but he won't let nobody you know him, Like you don't let people punking out. Sometimes people be having too quick of a temper and they could just easily avoid a situation, right they could get don't like, don't don't basically put me in those situations. I don't want to subject me, right. But I remember one time I was

in where it was. I was in Tampa. One of my home girls, she was dating one of the one of the Bucks, one of the guys from the Bucks, and he um, we went out and this guy like really suck at him like he was scared. He's big as football player and he was like scared of the fans. So when we were all like what the hell is going on here? It was kind of weird. It's like you you like, he's like no, He's like, no, be fighting.

I was like, oh, ship were not, Natalie, Let's talk about how you got over because you said all right, So the second time then you guys ended up getting married so you forgave him because you figured you guys were both young. I'm not no angel I the ship to you know what I'm saying, Like, um, you know it wasn't like tip for tap, but after a while, you know, you know eventually you're just gonna go out and do your things. Was it harder for him to

get over it? Yeah? Because I was like, man, it's plightful, you know, not like I would never do the friend thing. I don't do that. There's there's like bialy sans and certain code you don't break. And just for me as a person, I have my own rules. But would you say, are the rules like you should never go with like your man's friend, Like you don't do the crew at a street smart move, that's law, and yeah, you just don't. And even acquaintances like that should whack like it is

or enemies it is even worse for sure. Yeah about that, like yourself, you look bad. And my son's father slept with one of my friends while we were on a breakup, and you know, he's like, what are you gonna do now one of my friends? And I'm like, no, I'm not gonna suk one of your friends. One I went and do that. I wouldn't disrespect my own pussy like that. And so all your friends are cornballs. I don't want to give none of them. Get one out of all

your corny gass friends. And anything you don't do when you break up with somebody is tell their business to other people. Well, it shows the lack of yourself, like you look like you have leaking to the mouth, like you don't know loyalty, saying like I don't know. I just think that you have to have your own rules.

But for him, it was harder because some guys, it feels though, especially I hate to say this, but predominantly Italian men are very controlling and some of them really feel like that woman should be in the house clucking their their food, you know, waiting for them to go coming from work, and you know, ship happens, you're supposed to just kind of eat it. It's sad, but I have to say most of Italian guys are really like that, especially once from South Philly. Those South Philly Italians is

a whole different breed of the chime. Yeah I had. I've had my fair share of them in my past, and they don't work around. I had this one Italian. He was a piece of work. What does that mean? He was? He was just he was like really bossy, and he was kind of like intimidating. And I was really young, and I was just like, you know, this is when I thought I was white, So I was yeah, so I was going through my whole white girl phase and I was just really happy to have a white boyfriend.

But do you think it's a turn on that one guys kind of a powerful and buss he liked that and take charge. I think that there are some situations where the man has to be the man, and I definitely don't want a bitch, Like I don't want to dude where I gotta run you and tell you how to fund me or I tell you how to be

like a man. I like a man that has a lineup, Like if you want to take me out, he knows what to do, how to do it, And that to me is just like, you know, it's kind of like a turnal and like there has to be bad though, I don't want to orchestrate everything, like nothing's better that guy knows how to pick a restaurant, right, Ben, we're gonna go, where do you want to go? What do you want to do? Like, I can't see a guy that You could be like I want to eat it,

and he would like, let's do it. Like anything you said, he'd be like, oh, I love that too. Issues And it could be you could be on a straight up stretch and this dude has no personality. You could just tell anything you say. It's like, I don't know, that's funny. We were just talking about that um in the other room while we were waiting to get started. We were saying, if you meet a guy and you're like okay, and he's like, what do you want to do? And you tell him I want you to take me out to NOBU?

Does that mean that? And this is your first date and you tell him that's where you want to go, do you expect him to pay for you? Or did you ask him out and now you got to pay for him? I think, as a man and a gentleman, I think that it's a no brainer for him to go in his pocket. I mean, you know, you, being a woman of your stature, you should always have some bright on you just in case, so don't show yourself short.

But for the most part, I think if you were to pull out I think he should take the lead to be like, I got this. You know what I'm saying. It's it's a it's a couple of dollars for some food. Like you, you pull out some money just to see what he's gonna do. Some guys offer, some guys. Some guys.

I know a few guys that rather we're dating or not, we just won't let me go on my pocket number, right, I try to stay away from people the other other way, like I don't know, but yeah, but doesn't let anybody pay for anything? No, never ever, Ever, when I think that shows up everybody's everything. I think that shows such a strong like from a good upbringing to like just or or just being gathered like I don't know, I just think that's a very strong move and it's a

good impression. Leave. I don't know the money is everything, but I just think it's a it's a clay. It's a classy move like it is. Does he have to pay for your friends to know? But if he wanted to and he just did, that's it goes a long way. I mean, my friends will pay their own way for sure, but I mean me personally, you're my boyfriends X husband like, I don't know any other way, Like I just that's

the way it's always been. One of my friends was mad that her friends she took her boyfriend out, and her friends were mad that her boyfriend didn't pay for them. It was him and like two of her friends, and he paid for him and her I didn't pay for her. She was I mean, I don't think he knew them that well, but they felt like it was wrong for him to know. It depends on the position he is financially not he might not ahead. I mean, you can't. Some people really don't put then want to put on

that front and what the right? What about when your friends have a birthday dinner, they invite you to your birthday dinner, shauld you drop three hundred and fifty dollars? I think that's extreme. I don't think anybody should have a birthday party like you have. If you invite your friends to a birthday dinner, let's say, um, that's something basic for and everybody. The split comes out to three

hundred and fifty dollars a person. See, I feel as though children some people have kids, though, like I think that could be a little expensive. But I think you let people know in advance is what's important. You tell them, Okay, we're gonna have a dinner, and you do a prefix and you say it's gonna be this amount of person and drinks. If you buy drinks, you know that's something you But you have to let people know. Now, y'all know, if you come to dinner for me and it's my birthday,

nobody's paying. Nobody's paying for anything. But I wouldn't invite anybody to my birthday dinner if they had to pay. But everybody doesn't have it like that. Everybody doesn't don't talk about you. Yeah, some they're gonna be some bitches you know, are your friends. They're gonna make sure you believe that that stuff. She thinks she just ship shed three right, and I do think and they're going to do it. It's kind of really sometimes to do that to people if they can't afford it, don't have a

dinner that's really expensive. If you know some of your friends don't have it like that, definitely awkward because one time my friend, um, she invited did us to dinner. It was me and my last boyfriend, and you already know that's what the guy all boyfriend and you know, the bill came back and it was three hundred and fifty dollars for each of us, and I paid for it. I ended up paying for it. He gave me back the money, but I ended up paying for it. That night.

He did give me back the money. He gave me back the full amount of money. In a situation like that, you feel obligated. Yeah, yeah, and it was my friend and no, I wasn't gonna he forced me to take back the money. I didn't even want to take back the money, you know, because I invited him, but he like he we had an argument and he put the

money in my drawer and made and left. We were arguing, like he came up to two pages exactly so, but he was like, you know, um, he's like who invites people to a birthday thenner and then got to pay for it? Like he was kind of he was like taking it back, while you're like, I mean, it happens, but I think you just have to be conscious of who you're inviting. Like, if I have a bunch of friends and everybody gotta pay for himself, I'm not gonna

go someplace really expensive. Now if the dinner is paid for sky's the limit, you know what I'm saying. And I'm gonna make sure everybody's good, but be aware. Yeah, I just wanted to talk about well because he was just thinking about that dinner and you know, I just he was thinking about it. Now. It didn't bother me.

I I didn't end up, but it made me feel bad that what if your boyfriend embarrassed money from you, like, oh you can you just give me this right now just because he doesn't have it on him or whatever, and then never brings it up again. It doesn't pay you that super gross like that throw up in my mouth and eat it again, and I'm I'm so terrible, Like it's one thing. It would really irk I offer if I offer to give you something that's different, like if I'm like, oh here I have it, take this,

you know what I mean. But if you ask me to borrow something like I am a real crazy mega bit you know what I mean. As soon as you do something, I guess on my nerves. I'm like, yeah, can you do me a favor? And but this flight for me, he's you know, ready for this. I'm dating this guy. We're dating like two months. It's intense, so he just long story short, I wind up getting my car stopped. I had had a booking in d C. My car, brand new car never stopped. I don't know

what stopped the middlefucking parkway. Long story short, I needed something went on with the engine. Will they get the car? Told it costs like two thousand dollars, like from DC to Philly he paid for willingly, Fine, you got that. We go to the Catalect dealership where he gets his car done. He's like, oh, they gotta steal my car. He's like, I left my will at home. You got five Hunter on you. I'm like, yeah, all day, I got it, no problem, Like go my bag, given the

five Hunter. All right. Two days go by, dude, don't say nothing about the five Hunter, And like three days go by, a whole week goes by, two weeks goes by. I'm like, yo, what's up with that five Hunter. I don't need to be a dick or not them, but like, you know, like I took it up my bank account and gave it to you, you know, And he's like, oh, he's like I just thought, you know. I was like

you thought what? Because you you you got me on the two thousand that like I owe you money, like I just want to know, like did you do a favor for a favor? And I made it like motherfucker, I'll kill you like I want that five hunter. And I got that five hunter because the steam was coming out of every hole in my body and I was like, you'd better die, like I want that five hunter because that's sucking sucked up. And he he was basically burning. He had like alligator arms giving it back, like his

arms are like this. I was like, yeah, I felt some type of way though at that moment, I was convinced that this dude's the sucker, like I see, I just wantn't feeling that I hate asking people for money back like I don't. It's it's the fun out of yours, because I'd be I'll be mad, but I won't say that's enough for you for you to go out of your way and lend it to put somebody in a position to be able to be in that position. But it's their obligation to give it back to you. And

you sure that mentioned shit about getting back. That's a disrespectful tactic towards you some people, because some people might just forget no if it's a you're not forgetting because I have that's a major favor. She's one of my best fans, and she always borrows money and forgets about it. And she don't do it on purpose. I know she doesn't. She'd be playing because she's the type of person that will give you anything, and she is forgetful like that. So she might be like, oh my god, you know,

can you dad? And you give it to her, but I don't, like, I would never even ask her for it back. But I feel like she really does forget. Maybe she's hoping you forget because you don't really like that. Now, what about guys who don't tip? Well, you ever went out with somebody? Yeah? Where I want to go to funk home right now? I want to die, like because I don't like cheat people allergic absolutely, And that's one of the moms when you get on your phone and

be like can you call right now? And one time I went out with this guy to lunch and he left a two dollar tip And how much was the bill? I think it wasn't even that much. It might have been like fifty dollars a girl, because it was like lunch we had, like people were burgers two dollar tip as well, not like the time, like that's an insult. I never went out with him again because of that.

And let me tell you, I am very adamant about like when we get a bill, because I think sometimes people don't really last how much they should be leaving. I'm a calculator forever, but I don't know it's place is eighteen, but it's twenty all day. Yeah, So I always say, do you want me to get the tips? Like if somebody takes me out, I'd be like, oh, you want me to leave because I want to make sure we leave a good tip to right, So it's I feel as though it's a real man'll be like, girl,

what you're doing looking at this bill? You know? I got this ship? But then I'd be like, how much you leaving? Because I need to know? And then a man that is about his ship will say more than enough. You ain't gotta worry about it over here, Like for for all that is just terrible. I came out a good tipper because I've worked for tips in my life, so I know that struggle. I know, like I give the person that bags my bags at the groceries five dollars you know what I'm saying. But if it's service

is bad, you get. If services bad, I'll still leave. You still happen, and it might not have been their fault, like it could have been a problem in the kitchen. Back up your food to come out wrong, and you can't take it out on the they have a don't shoot the messenger. Um worst. But I really feel like tipping is very, very important and for those of you out there listening who don't tip well, this should be

your lesson that you need to tip well. You need to tip according to your service, and if you had a good service, then you definitely need to tip approximately appropriately, and especially if it's in place you frequent often. Yes, I don't want I went to a nail salon and Philly not too long ago, and I got a service. I think I just got like a manicure and the eyebrow wax or something. Anyway, it was like twenty two dollars, right,

So I was giving her um a tip. I was giving her um I think it was like a seven dollar tip. So I give her the money and then she gives it back and she's like, oh no, only twenty two And I'm like, no, the rest of it is for you. And I'm like, what people don't tip around here? And she was just like so happy for the little seven dollar tip, and I was just like, I give her. I give my nail person, because they do my and my hands. I give them. Yeah. I usually do, like if it's good service, I usually do

like five dollars of service. Yeah. And he says a lot about you who you are as a person, like, you know, I'm not always rolling, but what I am like, you know, my services. I make sure regardless, I don't go and treat myself if I'm not rolling, but I

make sure that I leave. You know, when people to be like all that pitched on tip and then and then when you tip go when you're known as a good tipper in the nail shop, they like make room for you if you go somewhere free, if you visit a place frequently, no matter what type of service it is, and you visit them frequently and you tipped well, they know that trust that, they know that they know when you're not but they appreciate you tip it well and

they will take care of you. In response, you have to take care of happy to see because they will when I like when I worked at the Strip club, I was like Ginger and Casino. I was welcome around tipping everybody. And guess what, they all took care of me because I tipped. Well, like, that's just what you have to do. Yeah, I was a trip. I was a real good tipper. I used to top the DJ, real good. I used to set the bounce. I didn't know that. And the house man, I started to sept

the house to the DJ. You have to you have to pay a house fee. You have to. Um. I didn't pay a house fee so much because, yeah, the house for a while, you know, you know those days when you got a house, but his house a lot of money. I got tail. Yeah it turns out to like a hundred dollars. It depends, but you definitely put out a lot of money before your money. Yeah. But then I used to tip the bouncers. I used to set the guy in the front. I used to barres articulates.

I didn't know used to tip that many people. When you come in, they treat you like a queen. They let out the red carpet for us. Tip the bouncing. It depends, I used to give. It depends on Yeah, like if m if he was holding me down all night, I'll give him like fifty bucks forty how much I made, you know what I so, I made a lot of money, and and then the bactors came and cleaned my money

up for me. I'm giving my hundred me to my car with my trash bag then, you know, Yeah, if I made on a regular night, you give them like anywhere from twenty to forty dollars and then like on a good night, you're giving them a hundred. But they love you for that, you know. They never forget to

listen one thing certain two things for sure. I always took care of the DJH always, Yeah, the DJ, and the DJ is the most important person and the most important because the house mom is gonna hold you down watching stuff and all night, you know what I mean, outfits for you. So they do that in New York too, because like m VB DJ and all the ship clause do do they don't tip him? I don't know they have a house DJ to tip. That's a special. Yeah, a special get paid to show up. Yeah, he just

get paid. Don't they make their money off of it? Yeah, exactly so, and that's important to tip the DJ when you're a stripper, because they pay your music, you know what I mean, vibe. They might slidge you an extra songs too when ain't nobody paying attention or this is what they used to do when there was a lot of money. They would stall on the next song and like ring running back. So you can continue to make

that money. I gotta take care of it. But the girls who don't sit, they you gotta the wacky song. I don't nobody want to hear. And Natalie, before you got here, we were talking about tantric sex. What's up now? Tantric sex. We were trying to figure this out. This has when you guys like you meditate, meditate staring to each other's eyes for like ten minutes like a soulful. It's supposed to be like the connection. No, um, I

wanna I wanna learn. I remember didn he said he has sex for like two days tantric sex he did? You don't remember when he was talking about that. I can't even I remember seeing tantric sex on sex in the city. Remember that? Oh yes, he would You be supposed to be like become one ship like yeah, like beside because they have like different jobs and massaging and stuff. It's like a deeper said that you have to look into each other's eyes. Look in each other. I feel

like breathing. Like just after like fifteen seconds of staring into my favorite boyfriends, alright, you're ready to me? Right? You ready to put? And they said, can you help me my mouth? Now? Look at this they do like, um, yoga poses or something together. I like to do my own thing like but if to each his own, like whatever you're into that works for you. You know, they want to reinvent yourself as a couple. She gets old. I know, motherfucker's have been together for like ten twenty years.

You know, sometimes you gotta step it up or try some of that ship. I guess, is there anything that you do that you feel like it's a little different or weird that no one else does? In the bedroom, I feel like, um, I do some porno ship, like I always want a motherfuck can remember me? Like, I want to be in your dreams and ship right on your dick whatever they love that ship smacked the deck

on your face. I was with this one guy. I was with this one guy and I'm like spinning on his zick and I felt like I was giving him the best blow job in the world, and he was like, stop spinning. I was king was killing like what. I was like, okay, I'm not wasting my space. I'll take that way. Was like just like what okay, he says,

just like the really clean blow job, all right? And you know what, It's interesting because different people like different things, right, I thought most guys like it really messy, messy to please. I have another another guy. I'm I know, I was giving him the best blow job ever, but I'm like sucking him, sucking him, sucking him and I threw up like and I swallowed him back up and he was like, oh, do that again. I'm not gonna throw up again. I'm

not gonna again. I don't remember that stop, you know. He he liked that gag sensation at your throat made when you threw up and started and they really slimy and it was real warm. Probably it was like he was like, I'll do that again. I was like, no, no, I I just started laughing. Do you like you guys spin on your pussy? No. I like when they suck it like like like a past it like a binky.

I'm not gonna I don't like a messy or sex either on me, Like I don't like for the whole wed and it needs me to be wet, and I'm like sitting in a wet battle. I'm always in a wet spot. Did you ever heard anybody like everythinger is in you while they performed like they do like that, like some dude this thing like with his fingers like went like this and like went and I was like, whoa that make it square? That does it make you sweat? Definitely?

That's it? Bubble. It was crazy? Is that the only time? I'm just you know, I think that if you are a real sexual person and you like into like being sensual, kissing bite and not really biting too much, but like you know all my spots and you sexy and ship, that could definitely happen. I see, this is what I think. I hate when guys if you're getting if he's giving you head, I guess I want to feel like the girl I want to feel. I think girls get face.

I think it's bad when I'm about to come and then he like switches it up so annoying, like you sucked it up. Now we gotta go. You got to push the cross but right if you just turn back there at the time they do something like if I'm about to come, you can't stick your finger in right, then that's what you're gonna like, I'm about to calm, and then they can't suck that shut up because they know what I'm saying. They don't stop hard to do the same thing. They might they might try to you

some other extra ship and then suck it up. I like it. I like to come quietly and you come like this is how you come. Answer, But I well, like my legs was shaking, said yo, no, but when I get away, for me, touch me. Yeah, if it's a really intense orgasm, get away. Okay. So you're Natalie. Some noise before, like I'm a heavens could hear, but pretty up there we know. Yeah, I talk. I'm talking the whole time, and you're like being slapped in stuff. I like being slapped and choked like you we were

talking about what is its hand truck? It's like, you know, sound slow and sensual. I like the opposite. It's like I call it masaki sta sexs like, but you never tried the other way. I have tried the other way. I've had like yeah, left like, nah, I've had the slow passionate. It's nice. You thought you'd be surprised. Some guys wanted like that. That's what they want. They got to beg you to do that. Yeah. For me, it's like us, you know me, am I am I? Why

are you kissing me now? With my last boyfriend like that? You know, because he was going away, So the last few times we got sex, he wanted us to be like real slow and passionate, and I'm just like, man, I'm just good. Put me over, like I'll hear that. I want to hear that without your hands even touch it exactly. Yeah, I do want to. I want to come on. But you know, I just I come. I have rough sex makes me come, you know, like I come from having insecurts from dick, and like I come

from getting pounded. Say it sounds like a baggate. I come from getting come from that founded. Can you pound? You found this pound for pounds? He's the best. That would you be mad if you were dating a guy and he gave another woman a woman crush Wednesday? But say she was like a celebrity, you know, I mean if a celebrity, No, but I mean, we're together, we're

in a relationship. I don't know why you would go public and do something like that, you know, I don't know if what if he gave Black Rosa Parks of Women Crush Wednesday? Come on, come on, I'm bitchy. Gave Oprah a woman crush her, love her, I'll be like, go head dad woman crush Wednesday and said things. I would understand it. You know what I'm saying. But now, what if he gave somebody y'all grew up with women

crush Winday? What if he gave Sharona from seventeen Street whack because he's up to He's probably on the cover to Nigga Go tell sar Ronzo to wash your drawls I with a woman crush Onesday, I don't care if it's Iria, I'll never do it. No, Nope, I'll be like a word Rihanna Yo, woman crush Wednesday, go find it. Bit, I'm changing my number right now. Sucks you just like

I suck you goodbye. I'm not having it. It's it root for a guy to talk about other women he finds attractive, like in front of you, or if you're watching TV together and not if she's not that, he's like, damn, she's just watching a movie and she's bad as ship. Like let's say it's j Lo and he's like, damn, big, you think she's bad. She looks good. I'd be like, yeah, she looks good as she That's a different way he asked you first, like what's you think about? Right? But

he's talking about that has and fort. But if I'm sitting in front of the TV and it's like, damn, that's a bad bitch, I would be like, I'm sitting right here, Hello, what's the that's the next guy that comes on? That's bad? You do it right back to m Z the exactly way I gotta call. I gotta call I'm watching this show. You gotta call your friends, bitch. Turn to a girl, baby, you understand before the same thing. Now, have you ever been jealous of your boyfriend's friends, Like

he hangs out with his boys too much? And you're like, damn, how come I can't come? What about me? Y'all gotta go on these boys trips from dudes like that? Like that's like babies, Like you're still doing that, like hang out with your homies. But I don't know like I feel as if your girl can't be there, like I'm cool ship. If I can't be around once in a while or go on trips with y'all, then that ain't from me. Like I don't want somebody like that. What's

the secretive ship y'all doing? That's one thing about dating guys and always got a cruel niggers around them. Yeah, but what if it's like a bad and he's going with his book like a lot of guys in the thirties, Well, the bachelor party look like some guys guys I grew up with like that on my age are nightmares, the ucking, fat and bold most of them. I'm gonna do either, like I work out, I'll go to the Like I said, I would like to take pride of myself, like I

want somebody that's on that level. But you if you used to be you, like thirty five, like looking at mess I don't want to be too superficial, and you know there's people that like you know there's but I think it doesn't take care of themselves. Is unattractive and I feel like I feel like the guys who were hot when I was a kid, they're just not hot. There used to be for sure, like I'm dead serious, like I'm like I took care of myself, and it's harder for a woman, like, well, what's up with y'all?

But even a lot of game. As we know that we grew up with all of the girls from high school that was thick with it, it's fat with it. I'm not gonna look around looking like them. Oh the school with this girl, she was like the hottest scraper she is. Oh man, she looks like a great auntie, like she's terrible, now terrible. She a happy though, No man kids around do drugs. That's why she looked like that. That's what bitches that do drugs and ship looking like they got a bad paper out. Now we now we

gotta come back to you now. Then you said the third time, y'all got back together, Yeah, the third time. Then we just got married. You got to Jersey, bought the big house on the golf course. Um, that life was good. We both were hustlers who both make a lot of money. We lived the good life, went on vacation three times a year. Our families were like one. But um, a lot of stuff happened, and I just I wasn't with it no more. And it took me

a long time to get out of it. Just abusive like verbally, and then it would get physical because I don't let nobody, like anybody calls me out, you getting beat the funk up, Like that's just the way I am. You got a rap for me, you want to break me down verbally, and you keep doing it, you keep doing it eventually. I'm a physical person and you know, I'm not saying I'm proud of that, but I will,

you know, take it to you just for sure. And people always ask, I don't you just leave and they don't realize how heart it is sometimes when yeah, because I loved him so much. But see I'm a sweetheart, Like I've never started, no problems with nobody. People will normally funk with me, like and then I got to

beat them the funk up. And that's just like, you know, after a while, like him and I would have like we would have a beautiful home and then by like I don't know, like two weeks later, like the house we destroyed were spackling sand, sanding like holes in the wall, I don't know, throwing vases at each other. I was just very hactic it was either like the highs and the lowers were crazy. There was no middle and no

other worst relationships because it's hard. They're gonna go place with somebody that like it, doesn't know how to turn it off, very jealous like oh you're wearing that? Are you crazy? Like cut my ship up? Like damn wanted me like proper all the time. Yeah, was it difficult for you to do? My wives then knowing that you had like a lot of turmoil and everything because him and I have been broken up. I've been divorced now for seven years. We were seeing each other like three

years ago. We started seeing each other again, but I cut that off and I actually I don't have anything say about him because he got remarried. I'm happy he's in a good place, and I wish I'm not with

the best. But um, there wasn't nobody could really control me and make me feel like there's anything hard or difficult for me to do, because I'm the type person that like, if my mind, like I want to do something, my mind's made up, You're gonna give your opinion, but I'm still going to do what I want to do. So no, it wasn't hard for me, you feel like

you were addicted to him, Yeah, I actually was. I actually experienced that though on another level with somebody else, a boyfriend that I was with for five years, where we were so addicted. The sex was crazy and it was just like he's like I really like I couldn't no matter what he did, Like it was crazy. Had he was like this way about him, And I think that everybody gets got once in one relationship, and he really did get the best of me, this dude. Like

it was crazy. And eventually I came out of it. The smoke cleared, and I was done with them. But I know what it feels like to definitely feel like somebody's addicted or addictive, because sometimes it's hard because you

also don't want that person to be with anybody else. Well, sometimes when you grow up with somebody though it's been a twelve year relationship, it's all you know, Like you know, he was like we went through so many things together, Like he was like I was a kid when I started seeing him and we were friends for five years, and he would be like listen, he opened my first bank account, like you know, this is gonna stack money, and he showed me so many things that like opened

me up to the streets, but also we're beneficial to me and like just being like work ethics and just certain things. And but he always was like a protector of me. So no matter what, he was the only one that can hurt me. Nobody else could. So I know that sounds, you know, because sometimes you know your relationship is bad if and I think there's a few things that are like clues, like if none of your friends like that person, right, did your friends like him?

They love them? Because I mean, he was one of us. We just killed each other. But did they feel like this is not healthy? Because sometimes for sure. But the boyfriend that I was with for five years, he was locked up and I held it down for him for a year and a half. He was a scumbag, and my friends saw me right from the rep red flags, red flags run. He's no good And I should have listened. But I'm the type of person that now I listened, but um, you know, I had to be drunk to

the mud. And you know, sometimes it makes it worse too, when your friends don't like somebody and they keep telling you, because it makes you not want to tell them stuff, and it makes you want to prove them wrong. I don't think you shoul tell your friends everything anyway. I think you should have your own secrets because at the end of the day, when you make up with them, you make up with your move, they're gonna remember and

you're gonna forget. What then are you doing, like he just beat your ass or he didn't cheat on you, and you like, you know what I'm saying, look a weak link, but they don't know what you got. So it's I just think that you should tell your friends will be a quarter or what goes on, because I do think that you should have your own secrets, and privacy is important to someone, but it's also important to have somebody to talk to when you're going through something.

If you have one friend or a family man no longer a secret though. When you open your mouth and you just you you disclose information. At that moment, it's no longer personal. It's not even though you said please stuff whatever you do, don't tell you know nobody. I'm confiding right, there's that slim possibility. Girls could be out over some drinks be like, damn, you know, gotta do an different mesure with this bit. She's tripping you know,

like the dick is that good? Like you know, cause it has to be hard to not have anybody that you can talk to you when you go and through some ship though too that you're gonna do it. It's terrible. Like I'm the friend that all my friends they tell me all their business and I don't be telling them nothing,

Like I just keep just the only obvious things. I only tell my friends with my obvious problems and my relationship, like the things that I just can't but like personal things, I just feel like you shouldn't tell everything to anyone, right because it's true. Some things you just can't take back. Man, I feel like I lost. I grew up with ten girls, and um, I've been friends with them for years, the

same girls. Um, I'm only friends of like five of them now because of learning that you can't confide I had. I had one of my girlfriends. She actually broke my heart because I love my friends and she was like we just don't. She's like, not listen, I love you to death. But like I'm married and I have kids. We're living two different lives and I was like, oh,

are you breaking out with me? Like like you you that like telling like we can't be friends because you know the life that you live and maybe maybe like maybe I'm abandoned, Bunce, is that what you're trying to say or you know? And it kind of like sucked me up. And then after she kind of spoke her peace, I never felt the same way and I just stop sucking whatever because I felt like she was a eight

or on the low. For me, I could never say something no matter if you, no matter the highs the lows you at the bottom, I'm gonna love you regardless to be your friend. For you, it just made me feel like we're no longer on an eye level. The things I told her, her and a few other people, they used against me because I was forgiving. But come to find out after a period of time, who got divorced then ship went out for this one. I would

always be there for them regardless. But they're the same motherfucker's that judge me and look at the ship you went through, Like that's why you always say be careful about the things. I'm not saying you should be held

accountable for everything you say. But the people that tend to judge the most and talk are the ones that always doing ship extra the same ones that to tell you, oh yeah man nay ship da dada da, right, or they haven't been faced with the situation is that you were you we're faced with at the time, and then when they go through it, it's like they go through maybe times maybe like ten times worse and go and do some dumb ship and you're like, damn, where the

bitch that was gonna be? This whole fucking like, you know, this whole speel about how what I was doing wasn't the right, Like I just don't judge nobody. I made, not a judgmental person. And for me, it was just like now I have my file five solid friends, it's all I need. And I learned less is more with bitches I did and that's right. No, And I just feel like you should only tell when you're in a relationship.

You should just tell the things that you don't care about everybody knowing, even if you don't, even if you're not telling everybody, but just in case you know what happens. Women are emotional. We're very emotional people, not all of us, but some of us. And we get heated and we get upset and in the moment lose track of what Higgs precedents, and then that gets used against us down

the road, and it's just all around is hurtful. But you know, most of the time you've been in is when you're looking upset or like you need a shoulder to cry on, and then when somebody goes and use that against you, like you know, they don't say anything or they're like, oh, you're gonna take them back again or whatever. I just feel like a friend should be

there regardless, even they don't prove of it. Yeah, I think I feel like a lot of my friends confided me all the time, though, Yeah, because I'm not a very judgmental person. The only time I really had to make my friend break up with somebody was he did something really crazy. I actually had to take her to the police station and make her get a restraining order

because they had kids together and he was abusive. She wasn't gonna leave him alone, so it was her Like, I don't ever want to tell her what to do because I don't want her to not tell me stuff. So I never want to be like, Okay, you know, you stupid you doing this, you're doing that, because I don't want you to feel like Damn. I can't even tell Angela because I don't want her to judge my situation. But he sent naked pictures of her to her boss,

to her, her parents, her brother. That's terrible. Actually had an ex boyfriend and threatened me and uh, he sent a naked picture of me out to everybody in his phone. WHOA, Yeah, I got around little hole softly. It was on the internet. I didn't have a lawyer, paid for a lawyer to take it down, but I look good as fucking picture because I didn't. But that's it was upsetting in the beginning. But everybody like real, recognized real, and that's a scumbag

fucking move. So everybody was like, damn, dude, even with this girl, she was good to you, you had a fallen out with her, and this is like a ship. It made him look crazy because yeah, he looks crazy because who does that number one? Of course, we expect your man to have naked pictures of you, right, I mean, that's nothing crazy about that. And it wasn't like I had no ship hanging out at me like a dildo or not. Like it was like I like, not the lord,

but definitely some of those exists challenging. It was another hurdle I have to get over in life. And I got through it, so, you know, and I told you, I said, listen, y'all have kids together. He's threatening you, he's doing this. He sent it to your boss. I didn't get to that level though somebody like you, like a friend, I did to get involved for sure. I was like, I'm coming with you and I'm taking you. And she was so stressed out. She her nails were

all messed up. She was peeling back her nails because she was so stressed out. But sometimes you do got to step in, you know, for your friends and loving way as as possible. And it's not good to be a hater or to be judgmental if you call yourself a friend. I hate being that single friend that tells a girl tell us her girlfriends, like, girl, you need to leave the right people would leave somebody when they're ready to do it right right, Yeah, you'll be ready

when you're ready. Because sometimes I think as women, we know we want to leave somebody and we're gonna do it eventually, but it takes some time to get to them. But let me go through some more ship and eventually I'll get tired of it, right, My girl's always been into me. And I always start with a disclaimer, like, you know I'm single, so you know my advice might not be the best one, you know what I mean, Like, don't you don't want to be living lonely like me?

And they'll be like, well, your life is great, and I'd be like, I'm just saying I'm single, but nothing like new dick to get over that old dick sometimes too, you know, Oh I agree, Please remember I'll stressed out. I was in my last relationship when I'm one of my last relationship gold ronning to have sex for six weeks and then when you do. Once I did, I was like, what relationship? I got somebody to text and

talk to and go out with. But when you try to get over that old dick a new dick and it was a waste of time too, the time, that's the funk that you wish you could take back and make you miss your I wish, yeah, there's nothing worse. And then um, then having like the new dick be bad. The new sex is just bad and it makes you think about your acts. How great he wasn't bad? But I didn't go through that, yeah, for your Unfortunately that

never happened to me. Happened. Is there anything a guy ever asked you to do when you had to tell them now not doing that? Like in bed? Yeah? Actually, um, someone I was with was really pressuring me to have a three song with a guy, and I was like, are you but that guy? Yeah? It got weird. It was no, it was I swear to God, I can't

and make it up. I'm dead serious. Like a whole bunch of ship came along with it, like my mother and my sister family on Craigslist with like my head chopped off, and like the Lingrey outfit that I was in a magazine and he was promoting me like, you know, my bitch is exotic, she wants a bit a guy that matches her to our care gave a whole fucking ad okay, and was like when I found it, my

mom was like, you noted this. It's him right when you get on the phone with him, And all of a sudden the ad disappears, And sure enough, soon as I got on the phone with him, that ship was taken off of Craigslist and I knew it was him. I was devastated. I was like, are you kidding me?

Because it was quite identical and coincidental to what he was saying to me when he was in the ad anyway, and I was like, yo, you know how you want to have a fucking three someone to do because you want to run to the back and suck this dude or maybe getting dick sucked from and you gay And it definitely I feel because I would be riding him and he'd be like He'd be like, he would be like, show me how you would show me how you would ride another dick, Show me how you would suck another dick,

and he would do the gesture why would be on top of he would be like yeah, he would like show me, and I would be like this, this is the this is a dude that like it was so manly and like his sex was like the best. It was so great, and I was like I just couldn't believe it. Like I think I think I was like super I think for people around when I get around people, they could be themselves. And I just felt like he got so comfortable that something extra came out of it together.

And I was like, I was like, this is a joke, because like that's not a three song, that's a train. I was like, you want to get it, you want to ride a train like you want to? I was like, I, first of all, I could barely take one dick. I was like, you wanted me to take two dicks? Like that's just it was he wanted to take a dick like eat his asshole or nothing like that, or he's never asked me, but I think he would be about it,

like you know, I mean, it was never surprising. It was so surprising because it was just like we were really sexual. We had said a lot of sex, so I just think that it was like another notch something else. And when I was like, I would like sex was a gateway drug? Are you in? Like are you you need fucking help? You know? Um? Needless to say, we kind of broke up over that, But you think three women though, you'd have been okay with that. Um, I don't know. I've been there and done that. I've had

a three one a girl before. I was all right. I mean, you know, I just wouldn't let my man put his penis another girl, Like you know, she couldn't hook him up and he could do the same. But I just feel like, you know, and there has to be rules that they gotta be mine and I laid down there that is definitely the rules to a three simple. Other guys out there, if you want to have have a three sing with your women, she has to make all the rules. So whatever she's not comfortable with you cannot do.

She has to pick the woman. Also, that's one of the rules you have to tick. I mean, if I'm gonna go with a girl, she has to be bad like exotic, you know. But for the most part, I'm not really into that. It's just something that happened. I wouldn't be like, oh, for my next relationship, threesomes are sucking. It has to be threesomes all in the relationship. Otherwise, you know, it has to be relationship material. Like you know, I'm saying three some material now that wouldn't be Now,

have you ever dated somebody who said racist things? Oh for sure, he's like absolutely, I have a lot of black friends, a lot of Spanish friends, and if I have a few times dating Italian guys that absolutely have a problem with that, absolutely, And would you check them on it or oh battle yes, like a check like it would be like oh my god, yeah, like we would go heavy at it because my best friend is she's black in Italian. My godchildren are mixed and I don't see color. And growing up I was me. I

was like the Italian girls who black girlfriends. So for me, I always watched them go through terrible things growing up, like have to sit on the stet, not be allowed in people's houses, watch them cry, me cry we were little girls, like how could you do that? Predominantly the fathers would always give them problems. So for me, it's a race is a horrible thing when I to go through that or be called like certain names like why you want to hang out with you know what I mean? Like, yeah,

it would be absolutely I would not tolerate that. Ship to the day, I don't tolerate that ship. Was dating an Italian guy and he used to meet like um black cyber marks and I had to like, you know, give him the whole conversation and teach him like you know, you're Italian, I'm a Puerto Rican. You know there's a

lot I'm black, so like get it together. I'm I'm part of African, I'm part of Spanish, um part to you know, Indian, Like you can't make these comments just because my skin is olive, you know, just because of my skin is light. You know, you're talking about my own people in my face. So I had to like drop the whole conscious lecture on him, like teach him about himself, teach him about me. This girl Linda did

this polish guy. She was black and he was Polish, and he would make her pretend to be a slave in the bedroom. But she did it. Hell fucking crazy. And I have another friend who dated a white guy and she told me that the same thing. That's so belittle whatever. I don't even know have happy women in this world. That ship. I would kick him in his face. He died that Natalie, are you enjoying being single now? Yeah, it's the first time in my life I had a relationship.

I've been in a relationship since I was fourteen, So I like it. I wake up every day with no drama. I'm chill and I'm cool, Like I don't need a man, Like if anything, I want a man, but I'm already. I'm going to my own two right now, and whatever happens happens. But I had enough love for a lifetime. I'm good, Like if if I don't have kids, I don't get married again. I want that. I want that for myself. I'm not but I'm alright if it don't

happen either, Like I live that life. I'm cool. Yeah, because I hate when people be like, oh, yes, single, you can't find a man. It's not that you can't find I choose to be single. I mean I can date and find a man. I just want to make sure that I'm sucking him and I and you know, not settling for some bumbas dude. So funny, I'm out.

I'm like, I'm a I'm a rebound all star. Like usually I jumped from relationships and relationship this time, know like I have, I have great guys that want to be in serious relationships with me, and I'm just not sure. You know, I don't. I don't want to settle. I know what I want and I want to I'm gonna wait till I get that. Sometimes it's really good though, I'm really noticing, like to really figure out who you are. I'm not saying you need to be alone, because who

the funk wants to be alone? That does? It sounds good? But yeah, because I feel like I'm single, but I'm not very lonely right, I'm single. I just feel like sometimes it's good to figure out who you are, the choices and decisions you want to make on your own, and then due time you'll figure it out. Sometimes I feel like you've got to clear your slate to allow somebody good to come into your life. Also, because you know, we have all these people that clutter our lives and

it's a waste of time. It's not somebody that you want to be with, and you're really blocking something great from happening. And if pomy have anybody to waste your time or to spurn time, but imagine finding somebody that's on your level that's worth given your time to, you know what I'm saying, Like even on a friendship type understanding thing. You know. So all right, Well, we appreciate you so much for coming through and kicking it with us about you. I love the show. I think it's dope.

Nobody has ever asked me to have a nobody's actually have three somebody another man, yes, no, no, no, But nobody have actually put a finger in ass yes, yes, come on, I've never had somebody asked me yes. The guys that I'm not singing my girlfriend. She was telling me about this glove situation. She was like, this dude was adamant about getting this as she was like, you have a glove. His mom happened to be a nurse. Always weird shopping on a latex glove and fucking this

dude in the ass. I was like, what I mean, I don't mind putting fingers in a guy's ass. I think it's fun. I think I think I think it's so gross. I'm not about it. I'd be amazed at the fact that they like like they like it, amazing the fact they're letting me do it. And then I'll be at the fact that how much they like it exactly so you just like doing that. I think you got something to hold over their here like wish you would not there. And then there's levels. There's levels of

fingers in the eyes. It's like one finger, okay, two fingers. I'm gonna talk about you. I'm gonna be calling stuff. I'm gonna tell your friends that your friends. No, I'm not tell my friends. I know why you guys are laughing. I would never sell any of your life friends not and the guy eat your ask can they kiss you after? Yeah? My house is sweet clean. You said, yeah, sweet, I'm great. Yeah, I ain't sucking stinky like you know what I'm saying.

I'm gonna make sure I'm on point. Honestly, I like when a guy is eating my pussy and he comes up to kiss me. I like you get back to you. I like my flavor. You know what. I'm serious? Because you know you can't have anal sex and then have

BA can't after that because you could get it. Actually, you bringing all the unless you switch the condom right, just putting it out there for all of you out there, just so because I use if you're not using a condom, wash your dick before you go back back door to the front door. Okay, leave the package in the back. Theage