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Episode 49 Ft. Bernard Flowers

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Memphis R&B newcomer Bernard Flowers stops by Lip Service to discuss the kind of women he likes, do's and don't's in dating, losing his virginity, threesomes and a whole lot more. He admits to Angela Yee, Gigi Maguire, and Stephanie Santiago that he kisses feet but does not like kissing, as well as the type of porn he would make.

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What's that is? Angela year slip service. I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire and we're breaking in some new blood today. I'll set your brand new to lip service. She feels bad for you. It's Bernard Flowers. Is that's your real name? My middle of my last night? So okay, So your real last name is Flowers, Bernard Flowers, Bernard Flowers. Okay, what's the first one. What's your first names? It's hard? Hard? What's Litard? Like? Where did your parents get there from?

Ohn't no, I don't know. You just didn't like go by that your whole life for I never went by Bernard. But I can tell you a secret, though, gonna SEGM. But this is how guy tacks your special I'm gonna tell you a secret. Oh No, every every girl that I that I really had feelings for used to call me by my middle name if they knew it. Why girls do that? That's that's like they want to feel special, Like they don't only want to know somebody names. Yeah,

girls do that. I might have did that the time or two before now, but it made me feel special. It's like a reverse thing. Yeah, I'll be doing Okay, people only calling my middle name when they're trying to get on my nerves. What's your middle name, Florence? Listen, mine is worse than that. But what's your middle name? Pus?

What did you say? My name is Kathie Niam So people call you that and I don't know my mother when she's when when I was younger and I would get in trouble, my mother was like, you know, because that's the only time I ever hear that, Like, nobody ever calls me that. Well, my maddle name is May Angela May. I love your name. That's dope. So what do women call you in the bedroom? You befriend, they call you by your middle name or your real first time they call me my old rap name? What's that?

T be? Damn drops? Mike? Really see all that in the bedroom? Definitely just three for three three. That's weird though, because I think if you're like, do you call a rapper by his rap name or do you would you rather call him by there? I don't know. I don't know. I've never slept with a rapper. I'm just saying, you don't think that's weird? Like t bees and make it

feel like you don't really know somebody personally. Maybe a live I mean, what M what a guy or when a guy is when he's good and bad, that's something I'll call him and bad. Just you're a beast, baby, I'm like, oh, by beast, so I could see what you mean. I don't see the tea coming in. Have you ever for the girl about the wrong name in bed? No? Over the phone? Almost almost damn it man. When I take a deep breath and just think, it's that's what

you call everybody baby? Yeah, baby, everybody baby. It just says a lot of confusions, na special on top of it now being at you're from Memphis, right, and how long ago did you sign your deal? Um a few months back, like six months ago. You was popping already before that, definitely, So this is like nothing new for you when you got your deal with a girl's more on you or where they already like t the Bees,

that was already, that was already there. It's just my deal is more like confirmation to anybody that you know right. It's just it's I could put out a rock album and then you know, they'll just be that I want to hear you know what I'm saying they're just waiting, you know, they're just waiting on my big break. Everybody that support me. So the deal situation and how we locked in, it's just more like confirmation of who everybody already thought. I was. Yeah, because Leah, who works at

the label, had asked about you. But I keep hearing you. I was hearing your song on Pandora already this feeling right, And now I say, oh, that's the guy that um Lea just asked me about. So I said, yeah, we're gonna break him in. No it is. I hate it a couple of times on there and I was like, what song is this? And then I looked at it and I was like, oh, that's the guy Leah was telling me about. Let me go look him up and see. And then I was like, well, I don't know, it's

he old enough to be up here. How old are you? Three thousand sixteen, three thousand and sixteene? Okay, but three thousand sixteen isn't a good answer for an age that's a year a year in the future. Yet, what's the youngest that you think? Um you would go, Gigi, I mean, I know you're in a relationship, but in your head, like, what's the youngest that you could go? Because you have a daughter, right because in the next room, man, she's over there listening. You don't want to hear what we're

talking about. Um, the youngest I would go at this point probably maybe like twenty five seven. It all depends on the maturity level of the person, because I've met some really mature people who were younger than some people who were older that weren't as mature. So and I know myself, Um, i was very mature as a young woman. So, and I've always got with older men. But I didn't have my little sugar mama face when you were taking

care when you got some sugar mama's, don't you. Yeah, look at Dumple came out your day said definitely, Yeah, yeah, I had my little sugar mama face where I had me a little young whip a snapper that was you know, you know when you say whip snapper, little yo when you know, But yeah, no, what if at Stephanie, what's the youngest you would go? You just missed when your birthday? When your birthday? Three guys and seventeen. I'm not gonna lie. Um, I'm not thirty yet, but you know I've been I've

always said that I always like older guys. I would never date a guy in his twenties blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Here and now, in my late twenties, I find myself dating guys are younger than me. Do you think, Betty, do you think that one of my favorite boyfriends, one of my favorite boyfriends? Yeah? Yeah, know I'm single. I got a couple of different boyfriends. I think you know what I mean. Yeah, I'm single. So, yeah, it's twenty four. I'm gonna say this this this week.

That's what you canna say. She want so Bad was too young for me. Nine months ago, I felt like twenty four was too young for me. Nine months ago. Things changed Today, I'm like twenty four. Well, Brenn, when is the last time you had to go? This is like such a formal name too. What made you and what made you choose? After after after I put out my last mixtape on the internet, I just I wasn't

gonna go by t to be snubre anyway. So when I when I got into this situation, I was already in a transition to change my name to something else. And I was gonna go with my first name, but we just decided to go my middle name. I like your name, thank you. It sounds like here a nice guy, right yeah, looking at you trying to I'm not saying you're not. But it's a nice guy name. It really like flowers, Binart Flowers like it. It doesn't put a

racial speagmatism on your name. Like if I read Binart Flowers, I wouldn't picture you. You sound like right, Yeah, your your name has some um what's the red I'm looking for? Like m it has like old man swag, but in a good way, Like it has like like maturity, Like so like, when's the last time you had a girlfriend? Yesterday? And you still do? You're currently you broke up yesterday. Yeah, you're currently because she said the youngest shipgoes got no

girlfriend no more? Wow, Wow, smooth Tooth's your birthday October? Oh, he's gonna be four this year. I told you, I knew it. We are four my sense of the year. But do you feel like now that you're all right, going from being a rapper to a singer, do you feel like you gotta act a little different? No? No, because I still do both. I still do both, but I just always been myself. I ain't never acted a certain way just because of something, you know. I've always been a jack of all trade, So I just act

one way and do everything. So Stephanie, October third is date. Now we just you get why why are you taking this? I think I'm not coming back to little now. What's it like for you traveling and being on the road now, because I'm sure you've learned a lot of things, you know, just some being out on about earlier, but now being signed to a deal, I'm sure you feel like women are kind of more out to get you because of

who you are. Um, I just I just take it one day at a time, like I really just keep my mind in a positive state and just you know, focus on the music, not focus on the music to the point where I don't know what else is going on. But I don't really I don't really think about stuff like that, and I really try not to put myself in the type of positions, you know, but I know they out, you know, to to get what they can get.

But it's all good. Now. When you put out a single like you did with your first single, do you feel like women expect you to be like this super sweet guy? And are you a super sweet guy? Are you a dog? They? If I was, I wouldn't tell you, but be honest. But now, can you answer the question again, I said, putting out like your first single. Do you feel like women expect you to be super sweet when they meet you in person? You have this expectation of the up to you can't be. Of course I feel

that way, but I don't. I don't dog. I'm not a bad person like women, like people just like being around me anyway, So I don't really like go to those measures like dog and women and all of that. You mean a lot of girls on Instagram and Twitter? Yeah, how do you? How do you keep from getting catfished? You got to face time me now, I don't care nothing about your her my. Some gotta give, some gotta give, you gotta put two thumbs up or so you gotta

do someone, You gotta exactly, you gotta do something. I know you ain't catfish. If you're playing you catfish, I ain't only waste my time. Would you afraid to did a girl who knows your music or someone who doesn't even know who you are? Um? I don't know. I don't know who I am really, I don't know. Not somebody who's like a fan. And no, I don't know. He must have had a bad air because he answered that one way he could beaver could be the collapse of a damn Oh yeah, I heard that from first. Okay,

Now what about it? Would you dad? A girl who says she doesn't give head, she's gonna give me but he's never done it before, she's gonna do it on me? What if she's bad at it? At least you gotta teacher? Would your teacher? How'm gonna teacher? Tell her? What? The dude? Not show her? Now? Baby gotta use a little let's let's see use more. They say. Some guys like a little tooth grazing. Not me. Not big niggas don't mind helmet because they used to it. They don't want it.

But it's like if you don't me but not Biden slight Then when you can't even tell us a too yeah, yeah did that to you? But you know that would have been cool? Well me too far? So now what does it take you? What about you? Are you down to like go down on a woman the first time you have sex? In her and the first time, not the first time. You gotta get some rank with me here. Yeah, you can't be just doing did for real? What if she's like, well, we can't have sex, but we can't

have sex that first. I need you to eat me out. I had a girl do me like this and I wasn't going. Come on, she won't me to want it that bad? Yeah, you don't want it because if time and then she give me your head and then she just flip around to the sex and position, you're not going and you're in your face. Now if she if she that's savvy, she deserved it. There you go. So he likes aggressive women. She earthed it two for two. Now, what about if a girl tries to lick your asshole?

I ain't with none of that, ain't with none of it. I'm not with none of it that. I ain't with none. Im with the regular and a little bit of man because we've we've all seen tank and said, ain't nothing wrong with getting your solid tossed as long as as the women talking your solid, right, that's the tank sid everybody is, you know everybody. Some guys like it. Something guys don't. Some guys like it and won't admit it. But it's all good, right. Have you ever tried has

somebody ever tried it on you? I'm sure somebody tried it because you know now when Yeah, that's how she was just going hard and I thought she tried me, but she didn't try. She's been I had to try me. She was just looking at your bus and got a little too close to She was just exciting and that's why I took it. It's just how to What about after you get off stage and you haven't showered yet? You do you feel like you gotta shower before you have show? Got a shower? She can wait, she wanted,

she can wait? What if you don't want you to shower? She tried? She's like what if she's like, you don't stay your We's no good? What does she wants all that hot fresh steal a shower? But then I'm makes me feel like this girl like me dead much. She's gonna do it like that for real. I can't call her bad though. How long is it take? And tell you take the kind of off? What makes you want to take the kondo? What makes you decide? Like now I can start having protect the set feeling with her

three for three on you man. It's crazy though, like just just somebody that is just loyal, you know what I'm saying something at it that you ain't got a question. You know, in my lifetime, I don't really do that, no head things, so it is only you know, it takes a special being man, very spicial. Do you have any kids? No kids? No maybes? So nobody ever tried

to hit you with that. You can't, you man, When I tried to suck me wrong, I look at him totally different, like, whoa, We're gonna be careful with this one. But she just happened before. You might got to be careful with this one. He's a little loosey goosey. Oh wait, or what if he tries to suck you right in? And or what if in the middle of sex he pulls the condom off. No, it has happened to me. Like, guys, I've tried it, and it's a really uncomfortable suction. Women too,

you know. Yeah, it's a really uncomfortable situation. Like because I'm again, I'm single, I don't want to have real sex. I don't it's not happening for me. I don't want that? What do you get blowdoubts of the condom? Come on? That's I was just only like street wards do that? Like only processing streetwalkers have set like some condoms. Would you let a girl suck your dick with a condom one or she gotta take it off? I would? What

do you request it? Right? I want? I don't request it, but I mean that you asked me if I wouldn't let her do what she wanted to do, then you would be fine with that. So you've got in your dick sunk with a condom, And how did you like it? It was true because you ain't getting that good tongue. You know, the sensation that you get when the woman takes her tongue and licks up your penis and you feel the taste buzz and on her tongue and the spit and the warmth. You're not gonna feel that through

no condom. So that should be why don't you got? No? You need to write a book. I need to write a book for real. You should have had me locked kind of what's that? What does a guy think of a woman when she wants to suck his dick with a calm? I can't think I can't. She's a prostessing like, oh, she has experience with us because she sells her mouth. She said, no, I don't know if that's what that means.

That's exactly what that Either that or she's an extreme germaphobe and she just feels like you know, and to avoid getting some type of canker store and her side of her mouth. She have you ever suck the condom? Never? She's not a drama podcast at either. Now, what about kissing? How do you feel about kissing? We don't do no, come on just playing. I don't say anybody you never had one of those knights in the club junk where

you made out with some random girl. I had one encounter like that, but she just went at me like it wasn't a mutual things. She was just like like he was okay. I wasn't okay with it. But I mean it happened so fast, like I wasn't ready. So you just made out real fast. I mean I had to at that point. You know what, I've heard a lot of guys say that they feel like they can't

turn women down sometimes. No seriously, I'm not gonna name names, but I had a couple of artists tell me about experiences with women where they felt like they had to fun because they felt like this girl is like here. It's just they felt a lot of pressure. You don't sometimes felt a lot of pressure, like chicks be pushing up on you so hard and you feel like I man, I had a pression. They know pression. They ain't no press. You ever regretted, you got you regret like him. I

wish I wouldn't did that. I think everybody has sex that they wish they could take that. I wish I could take my pussy bag from a couple of neggats. But you can't do bad. What will it make? You know what I do? I'm mean in black it out my mind. You know the minute it never happened, and it happened, they never happened. Sunshine for the Spotless nine. For me, if a guy slept with me before I had my child, you know, I don't count with me. You don't count. If you slept with me before I

got brusts and plants, you don't count. If you slep it don't count. Before I got my butt done in the light bow, it don't count. You was a whole different bit bit differ, like they you said you sucking, you suck Florence, Florence was stuff and knocking sa Thiago, we're to who's just stuff? You didn't get to the funny or the Florence or the Satiago rule that rule right there? I hate it? Hate it? What about? What about what a condom? It doesn't count? What I don't

think for me? I didn't say. She's just saying in general that person before I heard it before before, or if it's out of the country, it doesn't count. Some people say if it's almost if I didn't happen in Vegas, she says that she didn't comment, doesn't I said that in my past? That's so yeah, I got already rules. See as man, we can't worry about this because it's friend for y'all. Are there girls that you would deny having sucked? Like guessing? I ask you and you know

you're sucked, and you denied, Yes it is. But what would make you deny somebody? She was a hot ass mess? It varies like like, what's the reason to deny for having a checko? Now that's what I'm saying. You see, if a girl for that right back to me. She didn't have like stomaking the fat ass exactly like you.

But I mean, I mean the guys, to the guys who listened, who did sun me before all of these things that I said, it was still good pussy, So you still got to fun black with the same I didn't get nothing done to that, No, no, it was. It was just a different experience. You never experienced this one that's Stephanie. But that Stephanie wasn't doing that, you know what I mean, It wasn't. So don't feel bad. You just get the four point oh you know, the new three point eight, you know version of it. I

got these last extensions it ain't never had. You didn't get the update straight y'all. So what's another reason besides when she looks like now, maybe if like one of your boys tacked or a few of them did. Is that a reason the same time one of the homes match. We own up to that, We own up that you feel me, bro? Did Did I did that? You feel like? Could your wife her? Who did you like? One of your friends fucking fucking before you to be having my kids coming around and my my punicky mad at me?

He turned up on me somebody smiled. My wife is all with But what if it was like five years ago, fifty years ago? I'm not going is so you mean to tell me? In Memphis growing up, y'all ain't never you never had feelings for a girl that one of your friends. Yeah, but I ain't married. You would look at one of your friends different if they one of your old pieces. No, that's my brother, that's my dog. They're gonna do what you want to do. They're gonna compare.

But I'm saying you wouldn't be like, man, I don't think you should do it like you know what. I wouldn't do that, but somebody did me like it? Like one of the homes was like, bro, I don't think you need to do it because I'm like, cuse what he hated on you? But you did it anyway? Or do you respect it? Because that's when you don't respect none of it. You ain't with her no more. She don't like you. She like me? But what about guy code? What is it those before hose and all of that that?

What if he wasn't I don't know you after that? Who him? Yeah? You need to get out his feeling. But damn cool world I said, the beasts right here, right right, we're talking to you. I feel like, um, I feel like the if you slept one of your friends slept with the person, whether man or woman rule, it depends on the situation. Because but if he's stars the explicitly told him no, you know I used to funk with her, and he still fucking did it. That's different. Yeah,

that's different. That's different. But I just feel like at certain situations, like you know, you might need somebody and you work in this entertainment business and they slept with a couple of girls out here, or she's slept with a couple of guys out here. I don't really think you can hold that to somebody in this business, you know what I'm saying, Because it's a very small circle of people. It seems like a lot of people, but

it's really not. Now, what if one of your friends girls try to kick it to you, would you tell him definitely you would. It depends on cool man. Yeah, if he my dog and what I'm snitching, bro, she not for real, you need it. She just came and I'm showing taxing, but not take men. What about you, Stefanie, one of your friends do try to kick it to you,

would you tell him for me? UM's It depends again, that depends on the situation because some girls are so in love with their boyfriends they are gonna believe their boyfriend over you or what I mean. It just depends. Didn't know he's a cheating anyway and gonna stay with him right So for me, it's like a lot of sometimes I'll just keep it to myself and just stop

sucking with both of them. You know, just just said just not to be around because I don't ever want him to be like, well, I kicked it to her and she never told you, you know what I mean. So I'll just stopped working with both of them. But if Angie's, if Angela's boyfriend or if G's boyfriend wants to like told something slick, I would tell y'all, you know what I mean, because I know that you guys know me, and I went to make that up, you know what I mean. So yeah, again I agree with Stephanie.

It's it's a situation type of thing. I'm not gonna go and tell the girl that I know it's not gonna care right now, but um and then it all depends on how you know what was said, what was done? Because some things can be taken out of context, right, some things can be taken the wrong way. And I don't want to jump to conclusion and start something. Then I'm looking like, oh, you think my man wants you? You know what I'm saying, Like that's I'm talking about

red handed? Like it ain't no question is I'm not finning go to the home and like, bro, I'm talking at if she texted me, she's gonna be texting like all in period. But if it's just a FaceTime and you don't have no text messages to prove it, how I'm gonna believe me? Like she said, what if she looked good and you kind of want to fuck? You gotta go go back to the first course. I gotta f understanding. Have you been having three sims and everything? Oh?

Not lately? Not lately. No, not lately. I've been doing I've been making music for almost teen years. I'm making Musicans out of thirteen. Was having no three since at thirteen. No, I ain't saying that. I'm just you know, no, I ain't saying that. I'm just saying like I've been I've been out here I've been you know, I've been one of them do so it wasn't really hard to come back stuff like this, but not not lately. Like do you prefer one on one? And is that what you're saying?

I actually do prefer one on one. There we go. Yeah, I was gonna actually like the threesome thing. I mean, it's cool. It may she makes you feel like the hug when you leave the room, but but for the most part, I'm an intimate dude, like I really that doesn't kiss what they do with that's that? Isn't it very intimate? I love I can't even get next to my use me you kiss me? Oh? This is this is my future. Blame that she know why I kiss up like I kissed right now. I don't see why

a man wouldn't want to kiss me. I take good care of my mouth, like I really, I have good teeth, and I brushed my song and I scraped the whole thing, like my mouth is nice. You don't send dick with condoms killing our birthday flas, no one. No one does, all right, So you kiss feet, so you sent toes and all of that. That's interesting that you don't really like to kiss but that's seeing. Sucking toes seem more intimate to me than kissing. I don't know, that's just me.

I mean I feel like, you gotta really love somebody looks like they toes? What like kill me in? Do you like girls to suck your toes? What? Why? He guys? You never had it? Have you ever had a girls? Like? What about massage your feet? I mean I don't have a problem with it, but I ain't never really got there before. You've never been like here, come in, he's twenty three. What would you massage in one? It's tunny? No, right, I think Amanda, he has been in this game to

see the thirteen and he's already had a lot. How would you when you lost your virginity? Thirt sitway, as soon as he got in the game, baby, he lost his virginity started writing a song? What a song about it? I was a hardcore rapper back then, so I don't know what she told me. Okay, remember your first song? Yeah it was it was called the Streets Need Us. It was with my boy, my boy woocy. Yeah, so what was your first experience? Like at thirteen? Did you

know what she was doing? Was it her first time too. Mine feels so good. It feels it just felt so good. Maybe want to keep doing It wasn't her first thing. I don't know. She was a thought. Why everybody lost their virginity to a thought? It's easy? Why couldn't have been like we was in love. It was both of our first times, and I was It was both of our first time when I lost my virginity. I don't think we did it right though, but I want my virginity.

I probably wouldn't even use the condor if the first time. Oh, I didn't really know that much about condam when I definitely didn't. I didn't. I lost my virginie to a guy who's like twenty two. I was like fourteen. I was a kid, damn it. Yeah, but she other than you eely she was. She was actually my age. That's a damn where she had now that's normal in Memphish. She probably in the hood. She probably my mom used

to live. You ain't never looking up on Facebook later, let me see what the girl I lost my virginity to look like. No, you should just to go see if she looks like you know, I want to know, you know, she'd be telling you know, she'd be telling everybody to she was doing that back then. Now you know his virginity right, but one of the bist phons

of promotion, and you did not. So you loved it though when it happened, you're the only one time, or you did it more than once, like that was no. See, she was might go to, she was might go to. I knew I was gonna get it whenever I wanted to get it, so I just call her. You didn't know what she was doing? Now, I bet like, who told you what to do? I figured it out? Human nature figured it out. I figured it out. I wanted to do that. How going back to school telling it

about the most popular dude in school? Don't know how to do it? Like, come on now, I'm not going to play them type of guy. Did you tell your parents? No? I just wonder how close people are like with your parents when you lose your virginity and you're like, guess what happened? My mama never even talked to me about six. She didn't never My me and my mom never had a conversation about this day to this day. No, she

knows what's going on, know what it is? Your brothers, Yeah, I got two brothers and two sisters, and that's how you learn kind of Nah, you watch a nigga, used to watch points that used to watch port wat watch important but suck you up though, because a lot of ship happened on port that don't have any real just what I feel like? It's normal at that time. I just what kind of point do you watch? Now? Like? What categories your going to? You know? Do you make it?

I will? But then he's staring me in my eyes? What would your point be like? Would it be a one I want? I told you hook ripping any thing apart? I'm talking about. Yeah, are you quick? Or do you last a long time? What's the normal leth? Okay? Then let me everything? How that holds on? Now? How long would you say section last for it to be good? What's a good amount of time? I really you really

can't put no time and on it. It's kind of like a personal thing, like that personal thing personally in your own experience, your best experience in ten years of having sex? Like that is a lif service blog the perfect sex session, the passport cutting. What is the perfect amount of time to have sex? Uh? Times up? Sorry? I don't know. I don't know. I don't really have an answer for that. You don't want to answer this wrong. That's why do you go for hours? For no hours? Okay,

so we're not hours? Because that with me, he's whack. If somebody goes for hours after I don't think that's true. If I don't like, no, no, no, I don't it's when you're having sex for hours. It can just be pumping, pumping, pumping, pump and pumping, you know, pumping, pumping, pumping. He feels like he's about to come, so he stops and goes and eat your pussy, you know what I mean. Then you suck him a little bit, then you pump some more that you stop, you know what I mean, Switch

it up. That's how you make sex last. Why are you looking at ste like that? What's the face for the way? What's the amount of time for you? Fifteen minutes? I don't know. You don't want to answer, and I don't want to get this. We want, but I really don't know, and I feel like good sex. You can have a good sex session. You can have a sex session for forty five minutes, you know what I mean. Like, it just depends on what's about the amount of time

that would be good for you. And I think, listen, I think sex can be good in five minutes, It can be good in it can be good, just good if you're like somewhere in the club bathroom or something like that. But now, I've never had sex in the club bathroom. I've had sex in the backgroom at the shirt club, but never in the club five minutes and not be happening at home unless you're in a rush, unless you know, I feel like a quickie, like as good a busting up. I'm not keeping up with time. Okay, Yeah,

I don't care who what I'm trying to tell. It's not get it out. I don't trying to tell you. Do you care for a girl busting nut? Though? Like? Is it okay for her to come before you? Do you want her to? Or do you not care? You read? It don't matter that man, you don't give a ship. I ain't when people say girls bus a nut, girls don't have nuts? You know mean we come, girls come, and he is all right? Has a girl? Ever? I'm speating on you. No, I wish you wanted anyway day.

Have you heard that? Man? I always kept putting in this squirting corner because you know, nobody said having about you, but use it. Yes, Stephanie Deare, she's embarrassed by it when it happens. I mean, I'm not embarrassed to say that it happens because I am a woman and you know women do that. But when it happens, it's like it feels so good. And then it told her and it's like, who's gonna clean this? Messing up? This mess? I smell it, said you did? You just did a

whole lot. I clean it up. Do you let women come to your house? It depends if you're really for real like know them. Yeah, I don't really won't girls knowing like where I live and because girls is crazy, they'd be showing up and you don't you ever had a girl pop up on you? Yes? How did that go? I mean shout of gut respect for me? So she didn't really somebody else was there at the time, respect for me, So she didn't play at the spotlight that

or but she knew somebody was there. That's why she popped Like I could see her on the other side. I could see her. That's like the scene of Boomerang when teacher Kimbell was holding the sign up like, don't fucking girl. So when you sorry, you said you didn't open the door nothing, you just ignored it. Now, this is what it was. We was actually sitting outside just building and talking and you know, and I had actually just broke up with this girl and shot it had

a relationship with the family. So she was kind of using that, Like so when I was there with the other situation, she was like across the street like surveillance or something like she just was there, you know what, but I saw So then what do you do? You're just going house? I mean when it's over with to me in my heart because I'm a Libra. What I'm mean, I mean when I'm out out, it's all so to me, she said, type of about no, I like, Libra was the last person I was in a relationship with a Libro.

Nice Like when they love you, they they very compassionate, they're very loyal, and they're also very sensitive. Get on a good side of a Libra and watch what happened with your life. On a bad side, watch what happens when you're life. Most of them, when my daughter and my mother in law's line, it's a very thin line. Most of the women that have dated you, what would they say about you? I was joking, they will definitely speak highly on me, Like, regardless of how it happened.

Like I said in the beginning, I'm just d a person to just be around, you know, just the energy that come with me, the spirit that come on me, like I just don't really I ain't really into like fighting like I'm none confortation like I ain't with this. So regardless of how the situation in, always you know, in on a good note with some respect on it. You feel me. So anybody say respect, I know, I know what y'all talking about. Can't tell how you've done.

If you're gonna eat it, you're gonna eat all right. So everybody says everybody's still cool with you no matter what, Yeah, they should be. I feel that in my heart they should be even though you don't kiss him nothing. I ain't got no ill feelings. That's just me. How you're gonna make me do something I want to do. I think everybody who's been in a relationship with me, all the all my away friends, they all say she's crazy and she's a cheater. You like crazy girls. I like

I like passionate crazy. Yeah, they say she's crazy. One minute she's really happy, the next minute she's tearing the roof off of things. Did you forgiving women for cheating? I don't think I could. You need to give a woman's with you? She has to expect that you're going to cheat, you said, Do I think she has to expect that you're gonna cheat being what you do for a living. Is it just like as far as the respect go, no woman should expect to get cheated on.

You know what I'm saying. I would want my woman to be confident, But at the same time, you gotta understand what shot is surrounded by you feel me in You just gotta be you know, you just gotta play a role. I ain't gonna you think you think that only goes for men, And like you don't think a man has to understand the things that I'm around and why they get cheated on your room? I don't understanding that. You don't understand. Oh you're so sweet friends you trush?

Would you say you ever been in love? Of course? Did you like? I loved it at the time? I loved it for what it? Would you know? Love is a beautiful thing. It's so great and then it's so painful. Have you had a dry breaking? Yes? Playing savage, but you think you still love her? Who? Yeah, but what happened? She gonna have a baby with somebody else? No, she just told me. She just told me she was on you. She told me this. But at least she told you instead of me, Like, I don't care about none of it.

You can tell me this. You would rather she didn't tell you. I would have really, she ain't hear me. See now that's interesting. I'm gonna tell you the difference between the difference between men and women. One thing. For women, we want to know, like that you did some ship. We're gonna find out. Men don't want to know. They don't even want to find out. I don't want to know. Nobody being touching my girl. Did she wanted to stay

with you after she told you she did? She wanted to stay with me, But I was just so I turned into real light skime me. You are like, let me ask you a question, turned into right? So let me so. If you would have cheated on her and she found out what, you would wanted her to stay with you? Right if she found out break up with you and you like, no, baby, I don't. I ain't love that. She wanted about nothing. I love you. Stay

he has that lemonade. I'm don't drinking lemonade. Right if she found out, I stay if she's clever, if she found out, she clever, really, but you would want her to stay with you. You wouldn't want her to leave you, right if I'm if I'm cheating mane and you find out, do what you want to do, but you would rather stay together because work up with so you you don't care when you're I ain't good. I'm not good with like breaking up. I ain't good with that because because

you don't want hurt nobody feeling because yourself. I don't want to hurt No, I don't know. I don't want to hurt no better feelings than being on the flip side. I might feel different, you feel me. I might feel different at the sober up or so you said you've been a savage ever since though, yeah the time, ever since you BROKEYA is very very strong in my life. So okay, So when you're cheating on a girl she breaks up with you, you don't care. She can go.

But so when you care, you're not gonna cheat? Are you gonna be faithful when I carry ain't on cheat? What if? Because what if it was to get back? Get back? Cheat? And I had a similar situation to that, and we went we played tug a war about that forever because she had her reasons. I had my reasons, Like it's just but we had so much love for each other that at the end of the day and we're sitting here talking about it, we'll get through it. I had somebody to cheat on me because they thought

I was gonna cheat on them. That was stupid, that's crazy. That was stupid. I think he cheated on you first. And you believe that, I mean, that's soundless, some bullshit. That's you. You can't believe that. I mean, I'm just saying I just and not saying that I believe that that's the reason why he did it. I I don't believe that's the reason why he did it. He did it because he wanted to do it. And then what he said, Yeah, that's just what he said. That was his that was

his excuse. I don't believe that that's why he cheated. He probably was always cheating. He cheated because he wanted this dick with and I was somewhere else, so he got a sick. He probably thought that were I was somewhere else about to jump on somebody else did even though I think you can forgive cheating, I did, and you feel like forgive cheating. It could never happen again. It could happen again. But I'm saying, in your mind, if it happens again, are you out or are you

still staying? Because we might be playing. She don't think I didn't hear that. You know, I was reading a blog about us. Um, some hater blog. They just be hating on us. I don't know that said it was one of them hater ones. But anyway, see, and somebody said that they can't stand our reviews on men because they think that we think every man cheats. I never said that, and I never said no, I don't think that. I only speak from my personal experience. I don't think,

and from the experiences that I've went through. But I don't think every man I've been with has cheated on me. I don't think every man I've been with you on me. You know what I mean? My man cheated on me. Yeah, I broke up with him, because but that's what there's a lot of guys do. Cheek. Yeah, that's what. That's what I'm saying, like people cheating. I don't even know the cheating. Someone said that they were taking up back

because we are. We had Royce here and he said that he doesn't cheat on his girl, and we were all like, you're roy Oh my god. And I don't really think that's how it went, you know what I mean. I don't think that, No, we were what I think.

I think sometimes guys make huge mistakes in their life, right, and I think that sometimes if a woman takes them back, it actually really makes their relationship better because they realized what they could have lost, and then the woman decided to take them back and they know they can't mess up again because it could be all over with. Yeah. I agree, I think that's coming back. My relationship is better after what we went through. So I definitely think

that that happens. But I also think as a man, sometimes men expected if they get caught cheating, it should be expected and you should take them back. We don't have to know, but if we choose to take you back, you better not mess up again. But we have the option to say, Okay, I'm not dealing with this. I can't because I had a way from the cheated on me, and I was like, I can't never be with you because I already know that we're gonna have issues forever.

Plus he was cheap and not the best boyfriend anyway on top of all that, but he was so you know, he was a terrible boyfriend anyway, and then he cheated. I was like, all right, it's ardiculous and getting back to cheating sometimes not all the time, my repair a relationship because it's nothing like cheating on somebody, cheating on your on your partner with somebody and they end up being whacked, and it shows you how bomb your partners.

It does hope. You know. I heard that if you cheat, you should never tell, You should never admit it because it's selfish. Yes, I agree with that. I think you should just deny, denied, den But no, I'm not saying that unless you get caught that's told you. Yeah, she probably want to. They say that, really, if you cheat on somebody and tell them, that's really away of you

trying to relieve your own guilt. Yeah, she probably though he was gonna find out, so she decided because you think she thought he was gonna find out what she told you to hurt your feelings. She told you're talking to Mike. She she told me. I got so into the conversation. She told me that because I feel like she told me that to find a way to severe tie with me, and it worked, it did. Why does she want to severe tie with you? You think? I don't know? I mean, it's you know, is it worse

if a girl cheating you? But like, let's just say she's like, let all that happened was I checked this dick. We didn't have sex? Is that worse? Thought? Move? And you can't come, really really bad can't come. He didn't eat my pussy and I was drunk and then I didn't do nothing with him after that. You cheat on me? But not O but nor flowers? You know? But but what is she just like he just ate my pussy. I didn't really want him to. I was so drunk.

Why would there Why you ain't deal for you got drunk, you ain't had no you feel me? Why you even stay there? It's like in that whole no, no, But what about there's other ways to cheat to like emotionally what if you send pictures? Yes, what if you catch your girl text and somebody they never slept together, but they're they're talking. I mean that's that's that's that's something that we can repair. Okay, So you don't forgive that. You're playing with me. You still playing with my life,

but you haven't made that move. Yeah, you're like you ain't. What if she's like, all I did, all he did was masturbating. Come on my back. I'm not gonna believe it came on my back when I was perking in my phone. Well I believe it. I'm gonna think she gets mad. And what if he's you know, she has sex messages to prove it, like like this is all that happened. There's some there's some wow, tight freaky the way tight. No, that was a nigger that just had

to get what he needed to get. And she kept saying, I'm back on the white because I know this one girl back in the day when we were kids. She m she did eat with this guy. I wasn't with it. I was not I didn't wanted to drugs and he wanted to funk and she didn't want to fuck, so she let him jerk off, and he like came on her jeans, Like on, is that watching a man jerk off? Yeah, he jerked off. That came on her pants and we went home in the cab. But she's like cleaning it off.

I was like, she would be a boss if it didn't get on her pass got on her pants. Yeah, I didn't get on her pants. She was in there. She was there with the like with the washcloth and the cab trying to rub it off. And yes, she did have a boyfriend. She actually had two boyfriendss crunching. She had to be trust, to be trusted, no way, and my home girls used to crown hard pamper the year for like six years in a world because she had two serious relationships and both of them never caught

her too serious. But you know what she did. She never had a cell phone, you know what I mean. She she was always like busting a move. So you know, this had to be before Instagram and Twitter. Yeah no, and she still Sstagram. Yeah no, this is before the internet. This is back of the days we were like fifteen thirteen, fourteen, fifteen years like we were kids. Because it's hard to she now, but she ended up having she ended up having kids with one of them and the other one

end that I'm passing away. Well, that sounds that probably she will never get cut. Yeah, she never got cut. She never got cut. Ever that her boyfriend doesn't listen to the show, nobody, you never know. Yeah, we're talking about what I'm all right, So let's get some information before you gotta get out of here. On the album. Obviously the single This Feeling, which I've been hearing already, but we listen to it earlier. Your debut album, let's talk about that, just so we know. To my debut album.

We we don't have a title for it yet, but I got over three hundred songs, just damn three hundred songs, probably more than that. I'm just being humble, like we we probably got over three hundreds. Are you're gonna be rapping and singing or just singing? Yes, I'm gonna be doing both. And I know you said you and Young Dolphin is now Cool from Memphis. We're not mad cool did music together. We did music together. Okay, he's like,

we're not mad cool. But because I don't want to make it sing like how they my boy and then he come up here and be like I don't know that, I won't want it, but we know each other. Yeah, we know each other and not get respect for him and what he's doing. Okay, here, nobody from Memphis try to sign you first, Like they didn't reach out to you, because I feel like Yo Gotty would have reached out to you, young dog. And it's the story that I

never told, but I'm gonna tell it. Um still special and it's a true story though straight up, nobody never asked me this with my management. But um, a while back, this was before I moved to Atlanta, like they've been Like I said, I've been doing it for a while and everybody already knew. So one up, yo got it right hand me and hit my line like hit me

on Twitter. I was. I was actually sleeping on a palette in my ain't house I had, but I was still making music, doing videos and you know what I'm saying here and there and shout of hit me like bro like like you you you do you you do one, Like we want to build a relationship. But um, in between times some stuff happening. I kind of didn't hear from him again. And then like probably like two three, about two years after that. The first time I went to um me with l A Reid, Um, we was

kind of already locked in on the situation. It's another person from his camp hit me again. But when l A Read got in a picture, it was over with any It was always for anybody else, it was over l A. Come on. But y'all still cool though, Like I never spoke with Yo got it ever in my life. So it's just people hitting you up, right, Maybe it would have been different if he hits you up personally, shot, it would have hit me up personally. We would we

would have made someone. We would have made someone. Some moves together. But I salute everything he's doing. You know, we're wishes, okay, alright, good to know. We'll be looking at for you. We appreciate you coming up and appreciate you, you know, popping your cherry with us. Alright, it's the services burn on flowers

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