Episode 398: Spin the Block (Feat. Chinese Kitty)

your ex? Yes, that's what the song was about, right, So in real life you have um actually wasn't my ex. He wasn't a man at the same time. I know I'm talking about after we know that, okay, but like let's just say you're excited dating somebody and then you ended up like befriending this person. I don't think I've ran into that yet, but I have met a lot

of people that went through that situation. Can you imagine at one time my UM, one of my ex boys friends cheated on me and then the girl like tried to be me that's weird. Yeah, and she was like trying to meet up and stuff like that, and I was like, no, who don't want to meet you what you want to compare a notes bitch, right, I don't know. It was it was very I because it wasn't natural. I could see if like y'all met and then it was like, oh she's cool and y'all you know whatever.

But I didn't even know her. She she actually know. What happened was I was dating him and she was his ex girlfriend. So she went through his phone and saw that he had been texting me and called me and then like was telling me all kind of stuff and then she was like, let's meet up. And I was like, no, oh, yeah no, but I know girls like that. She probably was trying to like throw you off right, like and make you not want to date him no more. Yeah, And then sometimes we judgment based

off of like who they dated before. Definitely do you do that? Yeah? I do. I do because I look at it like if you date anything, I don't, you don't see the value with me, so liked anyone, right, But listen, that's true. Last time you went on lip service, we talked about this. You had a friend that was dating man. Yeah, not dating she slept with but had a baby and had a baby crazy And that was like one of the messiest situations I've ever had in

my life period? How'd you find out? She did this whole like Instagram reveal of her being pregnant and she didn't say it was him, but whatever she said was directly to me, you know what I'm saying, Like nobody else knew what that man, but I did so and that's how you found out. And that's how I found out. And I asked him and he denied, up and down, up and down, of course he did. Yeah, Yeah, that's crazy that at that point until he couldn't because she

was taking it everywhere. But he still to the day hasn't claimed it with oh my gosh, this a whole person involved. Who do you fault more in that situation? Who bold? But like because you know, people would say, well, it's more his fault that was your man, or it's more her fault that's supposed to be your homegirl. It's to be like both those situations is crazy, Like both of y'all knew and both of y'all was. They definitely are both that fault. Yeah, did you continue to speak

to him after that? I did? Why speak to him? With sleeping at him? You know what? Circle here? Um, yeah, and to the point where I was like, nah, I can't do this right. It's too much. It's too much. It's too much. You got the blogs going crazy. I gotta look at that every day. She no, she has been blocked. I'm blocked you. She blocked me. So wow. Okay, well that was a very active lip service, by the way, when you came on. But you were very honest about

the situation. I was, you know, what's so crazy. I didn't think that it was gonna go outside of like this. I thought it was gonna be like, you know, we have a conversation with our friends. But I guess people already knew, so they took it and posted it everywhere, which is insane. Now, then you had another situation where this guy you posted about it took back over. Yes, yes, and um you said you actually paid for half of

it too. I did, I said, Um. What happened was is the guy that I was dating I started dating him before that situation, but like we were, we were broken up when I was dealing with um the other guy in his and the girl with the baby and all that. But um, I had went back to my other ex, which is the one that bought the ap you backed. I was about to say, yes, I do, which I need to stop, but I backtracked, and I think that him seeing the other situation made him a

little crazy and like super insecure. So like everything that I did from there on, it was like, I don't know, I just feel like he just went we gotta break this down. Okay, First of all, why did you end up paying for half to watch? Because because when I first wanted to watch, I just met the guy. Okay, so I told him that I wanted this watch, and you know when you first meet a guy, they're more like, uh right, I just kind of started messing with you. But I was like, you know what, I'm gonna go

buy it and just give me the other half. And it was one hundred and fifty thousand dollars. No it was not, I it's only fifty thousand dollars. Well, it was fifty thousand and at the time. I just got signed to the label I was doing at the time. So I took half the bread and he gave me half the bread, and that's still really nice. So how was he able to take it back? Yeah, that's the next question. Did he bought you out? Did he take the watch and give you twenty five thousand? No, he

did not actually know he steal it. Where was it? It was? It was damn there like a steel. It was like, okay, I'm not gonna lie. I'm becoming leanest. I went over his house backtracking again, Oh my god, when I had no business too, and I forgot to watch there. I forgot to watch there and yeah, gotta you're fault. You forgot it? How do you forget it? But I mean, if you're still dealing with the person that's crazy, I would be so hurt if I thought that we were like still cool. Why would you do that?

But I guess he was holding onto whatever. Yeah, you know, guy's being a feelings sometimes worse than we do. Absolutely way words. They spiteful, they do all types of foul. Yeah, so how did you never get it back? Like so you just asked for it? Where's my watch? Like what happened? When crazy? You know you'd be doing all the threatening like when I see you outside, But no, I never gotta watch back. What do you think he did with it? He says, he's so has it. I wouldn't try to

go stubble back again. Just again. Oh oh no, you know that was my fear. That was my number. That was that was my number bird one girls. Wait, what what happened this girl's um? This guy stole his exest person, gave it his new girlfriend, and the new girlfriend and her mamma allegedly was sharing it and didn't want to give it back. She had an air tag on in it, so she went and pulled up on the girl with

her mama and girl could get another one. Yeah, she didn't rize that the air tag was in the purse. I guess she didn't realize that it was. It was, but she didn't realize that it didn't come with a box and the bag and tags and dust. People don't care. I remember one time a guy he definitely stole these errings to somebody when I was in high school. He gave me some errors in his hand, like I was like, uh, thank you, that's crazy, thank you and you But okay,

so that's interesting, so you know, yeah, yeah you might have. Yeah, the thing is to watch. But he still contributed in other ways, which is very weird. Did it have insurance? No? I did not put insurance on it. And I feel like for his manhood he feels like since I posted that he doesn't want to give it, that he's never back does not help. People will be like, oh, so you gave her back to watch it. You'll get a big because he's like, she's gonna do another post. I

got my last bag, sucker. Yeah. Now, let me ask you this, what if a guy gave you a gift that was someone else's before, would you take it? And let's say it was really nice what like a watch? Yeah, let's say it was like a really nice watch, but it was somebody else's a car. I don't know, Oh that's a good one. Or if it was that has happened, go ahead, tell us I might drive around with it, but I don't. I wouldn't feel like it's mine, but you still gonna drive it though maybe for like two weeks.

But I have had that happen to a really close friend of mine. She was dating somebody who's actually like really famous in the industry, and um, he took back her car, her birking her channel bags and then like reposted it on Instagram and was posting it on Christmas. But who's the mystery person that's reopening these gifts? I don't know, but Chris, she did send that to me, and I was like, that is awful. I wouldn't want nobody's old but I guess it people had turned down

some repot with red bottoms before I'm good. I don't want that girls shoes, her bag. It was more than just shoes, but it was yes, you know, the bags or one size for it, all shoes. So he was like, well, you know, it's some stuff that's you want and I'm like, no, I don't want I don't want it. That's terrible bottoms. He should have just like the secondhand stores, nobody else's shoes. But why can't man just let the girl go with

it and just a gift. I'm not coming back and snatching my chain back like t y'all didn't do know the day say it? Did they come to your house and say let me get them bags that um I bought you please? Or do they go in the closet and go take it? Man? And really I smacked the shut up and I had a guy asked me for stuff back? I back, Can I have my coch Why it wasn't that? Can I get my coochie bag? That's my number one answer? Can I get all of this.

It was like, this wasn't just me just I can't get my child back, Like he was just asking me to try to like hold on to have something to bother me about. You know how people like want to keep on bothering you about something, so they'll make some some shut up and they'll be like, yo, let me get this back, let me get this back. Can I get this back? I want all right, here take a stef back. You don't care, and you like, here take it. It wasn't that fly. It was like some little whack necklace.

It was. It was terrible. I mean I was young, so it wasn't that big a deal. But I was like, here take it, and you can't ask me for nothing else now, So what about is there anything you ever gave a gift? Like, have you ever wanted to take something back from a guy. Let's just say you bought him something expensive and then you found out he was cheating. I feel like I have bought gifts and then found out they were cheating. But at this point it's a lost.

It happened to me. Actually, I remember when the new was it PlayStations just came out like two years ago. I was not easy to get something that was not easy to get, which he said, I got the link, so just send me to bread and it was a stack, right, okay, whatever. Then this guy had the nerve to post, but it was something like how good is your game or something like that, and he posted too of the PlayStation so it was for his brother. But yeah, no he yeah,

oh no he didn't. Yeah, I was. I was trying to be the most expensive gift you ever gotten a guy I bought my ex. I mean it's expensive, but a five thousand dollars bracelet and he ain't want it? What? He ain't want it? What? It's the same guy with ap um no um. This guy's a lot right, he gonna go jump. He's a lie. He didn't want it because he felt like I don't know, maybe he's just being his feelings a lie. I don't like it. He felt like it wasn't worth would I put him through?

I guess if it isn't you like him? I do see man still the way when she talked about him, how long were you guys together for? Well, we've been on and off for like four years now, so so it's back on and off. So it's on for right now? So where is this watch? You guys are on? That's what I'm saying. I don't think I'm ever gonna get that watchback. But he has done. She's like she needs to get this watch back right, Like it's just the principle. I feel like you need to turn some tricks to

get half of your money back. Now, let me ask you, why why do you like him so much? No? No, like, why is it always? What is it about him? Um? I feel like we just built a stronger connection because he's like he knows my son and he's like a part of my child's life. And then we've just been through so much and I feel like he kind of understands my life more than like me dealing with like rappers or athletes. I feel like those would be like cute flings. But I feel like we have like a

deeper connection. Okay, how do you know when it's appropriate to introduce someone to your son? Like, what is your what's your rules for your you know? I feel like I have to know that that person is really here for me, and it's just not something that Okay, we're having fun, we go to the club, we get fucked up, but I feel like it's got to be our like intellectual talk's gotta be real deep before I could be like, oh,

this is my child, you know what I'm saying. So I met her son just to put it out there. He's so cute. He's so cute. I hate him. Yeah, he's so cute. He's not listening, just for anybody who he's in the building, but he's not in the Yeah, he's not here. I'm not going to ask you something. Jasmine gave me a bonnet the other day because I need it. When do you have sex with a bonnet on? Or do you have to take your bonnet off off? I'm not gonna lie. I've had sex with a bonnet on.

I had had sex with the meek mill braids to what a cap on my head before the book? Yeah, see, wouldn't to do it I'm talking about. Yeah, I definitely take my bonnet off. But somebody that I'm dealing before a long time. I'm sure there's been time. So I kept whatever on, like yeah, like with a bonnet on, No, I don't. I've attempted to when it got snatched off. Don't taking it off? It didn't feel did it feel weird?

Or you just didn't care. I just didn't care because under it was looking more crazy, so that one of them scoff. I think it's fine, but a bonnet just me feel like, you know, I don't know, it's not sexy, right, but if you with somebody for a while, I feel like there's gonna be a time when you have to find it on. Yeah. Yeah, because you got are used to it. Yeah, you like that at that point. Yeah, there was no care here. Short to you cut your hair? Yes, it's all of U here, but sure I got tapings

right now. Okay, I mean you look good like this, but the short haircut is really cute. It's really cute too. I like balance, Like I feel like the short hair for when I got those moments and then long hair for the moment. And they always say you're going through something when you cut your hair. So were you going through something? Absolutely? Yes, definitely was. I feel like last year I kind of was in this crazy spiral mode um and I feel like I kind of made a

lot of wrong choices. And then I think it was like right after New Year's right before my birthday, I was like, I'm just cut all my hair off because I just want a new era, new mean new everything. So I definite we did it for that reason. That's terrible when we feel like we're making them wrong choices and be like, what was I thinking? Yeah? Definitely? Was it like career or was it relationship type things? I would say bold, yeah, but I was gonna say more

like relationship things. I think I was just like dating whoever, doing whatever. And have you taken any lessons away from the hard time? Absolutely? Yeah, definitely, So that's when you win. Huh, that's when you win. That's the win is when you learned from the hard times, the mistakes, ye, bad decisions, I agree, learned the lesson and you're able to take that on and move forward in life with a lesson you learn, And that's the w What was the biggest

lesson you've learned from all of everything? Um? I would say to believe in myself more, because I kind of got to a point where I just didn't feel like the girl that I really am and I was just making like whatever choices if I might see the next girl do or like some of my friends would tell me, like girl, fuk with this person and that person, and you get all those things done and you're like, what

what just happened? Six months just went behind. I mean like you know, like what type of choices did I make? Nothing really was moving forward for me. So I felt like after the last crazy thing that I did, I was like, no, I gotta realize who I am? No your worst, no, my word tex chipping and delivery. And I feel like I've just been moving way differently now, like way different. That's good. And it's hard to be like a pretty woman in this business too. I can

imagine that. You it's harder to try to like get those features and ask for stuff because it might be like, yeah, I want her in the room, and then what I was taught me in another room, and then it's like when you know, when you say no, it's more like, well you know what I'm saying. You just you just know that they won't say it out their mouth, but it's just like a different energy. So, m yeah, that sucks. Well, look I'm black because the boy Ain't Mine? Boy Ain't

Mine is great and it's a real situation. Yeah, yeah, that's another way out of the back. And I took a while for this song to come out. What was the delay? I was more scared of this sample. Okay, yeah, that's true. That's a big sample. Yeah. I was going back and forth for a minute, and I was just like, you know, I'm just gonna put it out. So okay, Well we didn't hear it, but you know you've had some great wins too, rolling loud, Yeah, that's like your

home right there. But they're not doing New York this year for whatever reason because New Yorkie Wolder. Yeah, that's too many New York I mean Miami Wilder shot. Yeah, I think it cold on. Let me first of all, let's tast to you hold on. Oh okay, congratulations Chinese. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. We got to make better choices now. Somebody was telling me the other day, you know, certain things we feel like our bad luck, right, And he was like, you know, it's bad luck to have

sex in the car. Have you heard that? I never heard that. You guys never heard this. It's something I always heard growing up. If you have sex in the car, it means you're gonna like crash your car. What I've never heard that. I can't believe you guys never heard I've never heard that about that happened to me when you having sex in my car in the same car

that I like totaled? How how long after did it the accident happened, Maybe like two months, But I mean I never knew that your first time having let me see it. Let Meg, Yeah, I never heard of that. Never heard that younger. But it wasn't my car or his car, so my parents, my mama car. Sex in the car is overrated too. I feel like it very much. So yeah it is. No, that's not true because then I had sex in another car and that car was It probably depends what type of car it is, like

how spacious. I've had sex in the car one time and it was good. But we were driving, like he was literally dropping and I calmed on top of him. And when we was both dripping, I was riding and driving at the same time. How you okay, it can't it can't be like I was fearing. But I was right. Show you. I was like riding him cowgirl rivers got it? Yeah, that I'm north in Miami. It was like seven o'clock on a Sunday morning. I had just left the strip club.

Jesus as Lord, can't you even like that? I did? Because I feel like it's too distracted, like we never had after that somebody driving, I felt like it was so good, how can we top that? So, yeah, it was you didn't want to try the adrenaline probably are Yeah, I think so. I mean it was just a flame. It wasn't like it was like somebody that I was like, right, okay, it was a whole in a different area. Cold types of But it sounds like something I want to it's

simp camera someone, can you imagine? So? Are there any superstitions that you guys have when it comes to sex? Like I told you, that was one always like for me growing up. They always say where I hear a lot if you have sex on your period, that you're trapping that person. You're putting up a trap on the person. Well, okay, I hear that. It's like putting period blood in the spaghetti or they see it like a man sees your blood. It's like a ritual or something. I've heard it from you.

People won't be like, yeah, if you put a little period of blood spaghetti. What about any other um have y'all ever heard anything like about I've ever heard. I've never heard. I've never heard of any sexuals. No sex superstitions. These are the first time this first, I mean the period in the spaghetti, but that's not really what is

the one where best sex? If you, oh, if you don't look me in the eye when we ches, I mean it's gonna be yeah, but people, or if you break a mirror, Yeah, that's seven years of bad sex or something like that, right, and it's always seven years right like that? Now, how important is sex to you? Is that? Will that keep you coming back? Yes, you ever liked a guy that had like a medium sized dick or like not a big sized dick, Like, yeah,

and it was still good? What about bad sex? Like if you like somebody really a whole whole lot and then y'all have this sex isn't good? Are you staying to try to fix it? Or you just like I can't deal with this. I'm like fifty fifty most of the time. No, but like you really like to like sex. You really liked him and then you finally had sex with him, and it's like, wow, what if he comes too quick? What if you just take your clothes up and he's like, okay, I'll give you another shot a

little exciting. He's like, what that's funny, but I don't know. I'm sorry, I'm just I really like so sex is important? Yeah? Yeah, I mean, look, I think it's important too. People can say in a relationship it's not about that, but I think like in order to have like the deepest connection that you can have, it is important important. Like how many times a day or a week would you want to have sex? I would like sex twice a day, okay,

but I feel like most guys be so tired. I don't know, they can only go one time and then they'd be like good for the day. Yeah, and then they'd be talking all this and then huh and then they fall asleep. But they'd be like I need ten minutes. That is new when it's new, but like the first six months they could do whatever, and then after like a year or two years, is sleepy that Dick is accustomed to? Chinese kitty? Chinese kitty? Yeah, it's what about guys loud in the bedroom? You like that? I do?

I donna why I do? Because I feel like it turned me on, Like I want to know how good I feel. Silent sex is weird to me. I don't like make a noise, It's okay, A breathing, they make a face like make a noise, grunt, but it's also nice. One you have to be quiet for whatever reason. Yeah, that you're speaking, but like you want, she's gonna be mute, make that noise. Yeah, you know, it's really funny if he's doing something like he's on a call and then you're, oh, yeah,

everybody knew what I was saying. But that's the that's the sneaking and that's like the adrenaline rush sex, Like that's the sex that we shouldn't be doing, so we know it's gonna be good because we're sneaking it on it. Like have you ever been tied up during sex? No? I think got and I don't know. People be talking about all those bondage. I haven't got there yet, which

is weird. I mean to like you said, not yet, not yet, But I like that I don't know all the guys that yeah, they don't want to experiment at all. Her guys don't be liking nothing you put your hand on it won't watch out Like, yeah, I'm tight about everything. I worry out. You got touched in nipple. You need to find you a be like bro, actually open minded person versatile guy that's willing to tribe like I need to though, lindfolds and handfles. Yeah, I don't like that.

Did you guys see the guy that strange the woman while they was having sex and she died? Yes, Like at what point do you not see her not breathing anymore? Black? Yeah, because some people like to black out. They say that's like, yeah, people have like safe like that, you know, like I'm dying a little a little crap, but I don't. But I want to breathe. Yeah, and I want to live. Yeah, because I feel like I was black beginning choked. It's nothing cute about it. To bring terrible? What terrible? What

about sex in the shower in the bathtub? I feel like it's over, I very much so because start there. Yeah, you start there and I got or to the floor or something. Yeah, yeah, getting out this water. Yeah. But if you think you've ever been with a guy who's bisexual, I don't think so. You know, That's why I think I I'm not gonna lie. I think I was with one person. I think because it was the things that he would say out of his mouth. I actually do

anything like one time. I don't know I don't even want to say, but one time he asked about another person and he was like, do you think he get mad bitches? And I was like yeah, he was like he into niggas and I was like, oh, do you think he might be? Answered me? And it was like a flame thing. So it wasn't like I was working it just yeah, that's kind of different question. Yeah, we were thinking about on the TLC show that Gig just

watched last night, right, what was it called again? Um seeking brother husband, brother husband and I don't know, but they do with each other, but you know, he lets her she has two husbands or a husband and another guy husband and a boyfriend and she's actively dating and there were different scenarios. It's kind of like a ninety day fiance, you know, how to have like the different couples. So it's kind of like one of those shows. And I feel like a lot of people that the stories.

But you know, I have this theory, and I've had this theory for quite some time. I just feel like there's so many women who are openly bisexual and who enjoy sex with other women, that isn't possible for there not to be any men who feel the same way. Yeah, like we doing that y'all. Now, I'm not saying every guy, of course, but there's because every woman isn't but there is.

There can't be that many of us and not any of y'all, like, come on, yeah, balance, And I feel like in this damn age, it's like people are like, I'm sexually fluid, like you know. So I'm just not secure enough to deal with a guy that I know because I feel like I don't. I feel like I can't please. I feel I can't I understand that you like both, I just feel like I don't have enough

to give you. I feel the same way. I'm gonna go toe to toe, tongue the tongue, click the clip with any bitch, But I don't got no penis to the COMMU. Yeah, I got a little penis. Then we're competing with a man I feel about God, what would you ever date a guy that wore Neil polish clear? But not? No, I'm talking about black like black. I don't really think that's I don't think that a new trend for Yeah, yeah it doesn't. It's not attractive to me. Have you have you dealt with a guy that weren't

blackmail polished yet. No, but a guy has tried to talk to me that has and I wouldn't say I would say no to him, but I just don't find no. That is like a rock star. I think that's what I was thinking. I know people that wearing nail but like guys who were I think I would just be like, just not into him like that. Yeah, because it's weird to me. Yeah, it's definitely different. Yeah, but I feel

like it's more common. Yeah, it is people who are more into their like rocker fast run, like guys have nail polish lines like they're putting out you know, men wearing makeup. They definitely not into that. And waste trainers and not into that space. And person yeah and person, well yeah, it started with the person started. They swear us not a purse, it's a person. I did the stuff in phone charger, they put in their money, they

pocket because you gotta have your phone based. My dad used to have like he would take the crown dust bags in there whatever from that to putting them in fannies and putting them across the got it. Yeah, but yeah, now he will never do the purse. But most guys these days that do be carrying whatever on them is the personality. Yeah, I think they should have something nice like we you know, to carry their stuff in. Yeah. Man, person doesn't bother me, It doesn't. It don't bother me.

It used it bothered me at one point, But I think this was because this guy gave me vibes and then that just was He was more like the cheery Sunday Yeah. And the way he was so care it's how they carry it too. The one one time not a lie. I was tight. I had got a purse from Channel and I was with the led light Yes, and then young Thug headed on stage. I was like, I felt like I was like one time, and then I was like, damn it. Why he got the vibe? I feel like he's the only one that could get

away with it all right. Now, do you remember your first time falling in love? Yeah? I do. I was like seventeen, and that's that relationship was too toxic. It was at seventeen. What was toxic about it? Uh? He was just way too just hood and just he had no ambition and where I was trying to go with my life, he was just trying to bring me down. What did you think you wanted to do at seventeen? Go to school regular ship and he would be like, oh, what you going to class war Like what you doing

that corny class ship? Yeah? Which now you so in love? Like I didn't need that, And I dropped out of school. Yes, because I feel like he was my biggest influence at the time. And how much older was he than you, um, twenty six, I was seventeen. Parents must have been so disappointed when you dropped out of school. Yeah, my mom wanted to be my eyes, but I kind of like fake ran away, didn't speak to them till I was like nineteen. It was all because it is guy. I

was looking a man. How why did you guys end? What ended it? I don't know. I feel like I wouldn't say I take back anything in life, but he was the starter of my life. I feel like because he was fake in the industry. He was friends with a rapper from Harlem or whatever. So I used to be in that little limelight at seventeen, thinking like, oh, this is the wave, you know, And then I think I just wanted to be somewhat in that lifestyle. So then I was just doing whatever I started dancing at eighteen,

well like seventeen turn eighteen, and they encouraged that. He didn't encourage it, but it was like whatever. So then I was like fake paying the bills and he was taking advantage of me. And I was only like eighteen years old and I would come home to a hundred bitches and I was young and I didn't have my

mom or anybody to rely on. So it made me this like crazy like girl that had it get it on her own and I'm and it made me the girl that I am today because it like just threw me into the world, like right right there, like I'm dancing, I'm paying bills. I don't really have family to rely on right now. Yeah, So that's how this whole thing started. And I started dancing. Then I started bartending. Then I had a baby, and then I was like, okay, fuck this, let me go back to what I really know. My

mom was an industry. This then the third I want to rap, And that's how my life started. How did you go back to your parents? Like I went back to my parents when I was bartending. They was not with the stripping ship, Like right, why did you stop stripping in it? And go to bartending. One of my uncles that came saw me in the club and was like, we're not doing this. We're not doing this. Um it's so crazy because he was like, I know a guy as Starlets. You could work there and work your way up.

That's how to hold. That's how my whole life started. Like, so I was dancing in Atlanta because I would go back and forth. I was at Folly's. Okay, so I used to work there and he came in Folly's and I was like, oh my god, so embarrassed was the movie I was? It was it was at the time. And then he was like, no, we're not doing this. He was like, I could get you to work on Wednesdays at Starlets. And that was when they had they startenders.

So yeah, that's when it was like Bernice and Greece and the startenders used to make more than the dancers. Yeah Starlets. Yeah, it was a big that was like New York culture. Yeah, the bartenders made more money than the dancers. But the guys like it was like it was like a feat to be able to date like one of the startender in order to go out with him. Remember Drake used to go there all the time. Yeah, all right, so startender. So how was that at Starlet's. Uh,

it was good. I feel like it was good for the moment. Then I just grew out of that, right, Like I just feel like I have a bigger purpose. I don't want to keep arguing over guys and who's short on the money. And then I'm the thing with that is like you're in beef with a girl every day. Damn there like a girl feels like this is my ex or this my baby daddy, you don't even know. Then you got fighting with your own partner. I was like,

I can't It's not my life. Yeah. And then after I had my son, I was like, I just can't do it. I refuse. So when did you know you was going to be a rapper? I would say, I would say after I had him. And I had him at L twenty one, twenty two, go turning twenty two, and like I said, like, my mom used to work for the Sores, she used to style people this and a third my dad his name is Nitty, So he's the one that used to be Oh now it is

back with Nicki Minaj and all those people. So family. Yeah, so I felt like, this is something I grew up my whole life. I've been surrounded by the music industry, and I'm like, I used to play rap, used to be in the studio, this and the third, so I'm like, this is something I want to try. I think I could do it, And then I did, and I was like at first I was playing and I was like, no, actually I funk with this, and then I turned around to love it and I've been doing it ever since.

So and I also feel like, I mean, like you said you had your family and everything that could help you with that, but you lived a life already. Yeah good. I feel like when you have stories to tell and your music, Yeah, what would you say has been like your most personal song? Most personal song would be this one boying mine and the one before that, which is been popping. And I feel like in that record, I just kind of talked about being a mom and coming

from where I came from. I used to dance. Now I'm rapping not only in my girl that is getting to a bag, but I also have a real life that I have to juggle so so fun. Fact um, we used to be neighbors meal where in clipside part across the street from Neinoka. Yeah. So the reason why I know that is because not that I was stalking you. But the reason why I know that is because my daughter shot a video for you in your apartment. Oh yes, yes, that was Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah, that's my daughter. She

looked just like me. I'll show you a picture for later, but her name is Kaylee in the pre but yeah, that was like my first one of it was in the early It was beginning a year rap career, ye, and she was so excited at the time and she was like, oh my gosh, she looks right there like we lived in the next mid over. Yeah, how's crazy

of you? Early on, like when you decided you wanted to start rapping, it was like, I don't think day was very excepting at all, if I'm gonna be completely honest, because I feel like I was pushing this I'm a bartender role and then when I was like kind of disgusted with that lifestyle, I just switched and started putting out music. I feel like for a lot of girls that was in the same linelne as me, Like I didn't get in a love at all, Like still don't

to this day. But I feel like for like a lot of DJs and stuff like, I feel like people wanted to see consistency first before they could just sit there and be like, you're really doing this, you know what I'm saying. So I think it was it was definitely a challenge to get people to understand that I'm rapping. What do you think was the moment that you was like, Okay,

it's happening. I would say when I did the song thought Box, yeah, I went to this day, everybody'd be like, you need to get back in your bag like that, and I'm like, I don't know, I just wrapped it. But I feel like that's when a lot of people were like, oh shit, right, you did your thing on this, so she's serious. And I feel like that was the moment. I'm sure everyone knows this by now, but how did you come up with your name? I made my name.

I don't know why people be thinking it's so crazy, but I just made my name because I am have Chinese and people always used to call me Kitty growing up all the time because they would say I was mysterious. Oh god, that was the name I had. So then I just made a Twitter before I started dancing before, and I was like seventeen and I just came up with the name Chinese Kitty, and then when Instagram first

came out, I just kept that. And then what's crazy is when I started making a name, I changed my name to like China Hing and they were like, no, I liked the Chinese Kitty, you gotta ring to it. And it's just been that everything. How did your parents get together? Young Love, Young Love? My mom used to be outside outside and my dad is a very popular guy, and I feel like they just linked up. So they crossed paths and it was yeah, because well my dad's

Chinese and my mom is black. But they used to work together in a department store and they were teenagers. Your mom is Chinese, Yeah, well we're mixed up. We're from Guyana, so it's like a melting pot. Yeah, but um, she's like Chinese and like a couple of other things. But my last name is Hanging, so it's like we've just been running with the whole thing. But she kind of looks like me, but just way lighter. So, but she grew up in Brooklyn, so it's like it's not

like a regular Asian girl. It's like a Asian girl with a lot of spice to her. So have you been in Guyana? No? I have not been a Guyana. You know, I know you're gonna take that. Yeah, they pook me for Carnival when COVID before calling, and then it happened and it was like a dumb and you gotta circle back. I have to. I said I'm gonna go this year. I'm gonna go this year. So have you ever, um been a side check? Yeah? I have? I have. No, I don't because I don't want nobody

to be a side check to my situation. But I have one with one person. Okay, and did you, um, like, did you know? Did you go into the situation knowingly or did something? And they found out after Yeah, I was in a situation out here. And then it's like, uh not even It's more like he was so manipulating that it's like you, he made it seem as if this person really didn't exist, right, So I think after a while I was like, is he lying? Oh, I

don't really care. I'm blinded, I'm dipatized. And then after a while I'm like, mmm, I'm about to be fighting. You heard this? She found out? Yeah, how did she find out? I don't know. She probably went through this, I don't know, but it was definitely caused on my phone. Wow, like a little bit too much for me when that happens. Are you honest? Like, yes, I am sucking him? I do?

I know? You know, because when a girl calls, either you could either tell the truth and be like, yes, this happened, or you could cover because sometimes women, I'm lord right, I'm more like, I mean, I let you talk before I talk, and I'm about to sit there and spill all the tea. But I do take it

with a grain assault because I don't know. I just never want to be in that situation, right, So, which I have been right, so I kind of be like respecting women when they say, like, you know, I don't know, it's just a little weird to me. You think all men cheat? I do? Wow, I do hesitation. I do. I feel like at the right moment, if it's given to them, they will take the opportunity if they think

no one's gonna find out. It depends on how much access the men has, right I think, yeah, because if a man has access to anyone and has money and has all these things and everyone loves him, and it's kind of harder that kind of man to say, do you guys know man that don't cheat? I do? I do? I do. And that's why I know at this point most because y'all know, remember before, I ain't no weight, But I feel like I've learned. Somebody told me different. I saw my own two eyes right there. There can

be a faithful man. Yeah, I think so they all went to most for me. But I do think, like Angelas say, given the opportunity, Jasiness said no, But I don't think. I don't think all men, but I think if they have access a lot of that would have you ever cheated? You say, yes, I have? I have.

I have Why I feel like because it's the same thing like it's it's the access, Like it's like you could be in a relationship with some money and then it's like this person who has number one hit record hot song is like, and I don't just go after just because he hit me up, like I'm talking about like we'll be just thirsting, like I want I want to get where are you out? Let's hop on the jet and then you'd be like you're like I love you, but damn man, it's offering me. Shit, I never did before.

How do you explain that to you? Man? What do you say? Like where you're going? Like, I'm her girl, I'm booked them busy. She never got caught. You just keep that my card. That's why I got my ape took back. That's right. Yeah, no, but I don't get caught. I don't cheat again. But it happened in the past. Learn it happened. It happened. She's you think, Um, so you're back on with this guy with a we'll call him a baby, right, So you're back on with him. So do you feel like this is it? Y'all have

been through a lot together. You feel like, Okay, I'm on this journey now. I got a song right now that's popping. I'm freestyle doing this in the club. I got a project coming out. I need to have like a good guy in my corner. Is that how you feel about him? Or do you feel like I focus better when I'm single. I do focus better when i'm single. But I am giving him the benefit of the doubt. So if he does right by me, I'm gonna do

right by him. Okay, So it's up to him. It's really up to him because if you do something dumb, I'm going I can't because sometimes, you know, sometimes you have relationship could be damaged where both people don't trust each other. Then nobody's talking all yeah, no, but we are giving each other all. But I don't think he trusts me. I don't trust him, and it's a little too much sometimes. Do you think that you could call up any of your exes if you wanted to and

still smash Yeah, any or all? Period. I don't want them though. Period. I feel like if you was an ex, you'd be circling back people. Okay, so other than those two people, all the other exes now they out of here. No, yeah, I don't want that. By the way, we got a nice mention on her song Lit that French Montana was on. Yes, serious, you know, so how did you get French? Like? How are you in French? Montana has such a good relationship too. Um,

I would say from the strip club. I feel like I met a lot of people in the nightlife from me just being a bartender now when I was a stripper though, but um, and I feel like them seeing me grow into an artist is like shit, she's really doing something for herself, and I feel like the respect kind of more came from just like, okay, let me try to put her on, you know, like it's a new artist. Um, And I feel like that's the way

French came at me. He actually DM me because I was previewing a whole another song that I was working at the time, and then he was like, yo, that's fire, Yo, lets get the studio. Let me hear some of the songs you got. That's nice. Yeah, So I pulled up and Um, most of the time guys be on bullshit like and I honestly thought going into that's how first was gonna be. But it was not like that at all. It wasn't more like like a family brother uncle type

of vibe. And um, I played him lit bitch and it already had Fabio on it because um, me and Fabio was just always been friends or whatever and exactly, and then um, he was like I'm hopping on this and hopped on. They were right then and there that's dupe. And I was honestly in shock. I'm not gonna lie, I was putting this out right. Yeah, I was in shock. But yeah, and what other dms have you slid in?

To get some work done, Like, who are some people that you've been like, Oh, like, yeah, you should work with me, um this because we want to call them out now so that we can they can respond. Right. I did just slided somebody's DM the other day and we just did the record. Um too rare. I don't know if you heard him too rare, too rare. He's like a young field artists. They're in that whole little drill jersey bounce wave. But he's like up and coming.

So if I feel like if I'm gonna slide slide in somebody's DM, I kind of wanted to be more of a mutual thing or like me sliding and drinks DM, Like, yo, do a record with me? I mean I could, but I like to balance, Like I like to take things where like if I'm at this level, I want to work with somebody it's like and then I do like to work with people that's bigger than me too. But I kind of be feeling like we crossed that bridge when we get there. Okay, that's a different approach, right, Yeah.

What are some of the best dms You've gotten? Some some really cool guys. Um. I feel like I did have a really, really, really famous guy hit me up and was like, Yo, your record is hard, and at first it threw me off, but I was like, the fuck, I couldn't believe it. Um, that definitely was exciting. Okay, And do you tell your man like if a guy tries to slide in your DMS and hollight at you or is that something you just keep to yourself? I'm

keeping asking myself. I'm girls right, you're just trying to start a war. And could sometimes you be like, man, look who just you know? No, feel like they gotta tell them in everything Tomorrow I'll fly out. It's gonna make you uncomfortable. You're gonna think it's him. Put that heat on yourself. Yes, you're trying to add a target. Now, what about I'm being with a guy who makes less money than you? Does that matter to you? I think so.

I know I sound superficial, but I feel like the work that I put in, I want somebody that put in just much work. Like I don't know, I feel like I'm one of them girls where I work my eyes off. So I don't want to be with anybody that's not working as hard as me, but working hard

and making money. It's two different things. She says. She don't want to buy with less money to her, know what I'm saying, But working hard and making money it's two different things because you could work really hard, but she want somebody work smart too, you know, I mean mean, but work hard? I mean what y'all? Yeah? Yeah, me personally, No, I'm saying I feel like the kind of money I make sometimes it's not realist. I'm not a rapper, but I feel like sometimes what I have sometimes it's not

realistic for the average guy. Sometimes I just feel like for me, it's a lifestyle thing. Yeah, And like if you can't meet me where I'm at or taking me further than we can't really Now, maybe when I get to the MS like in I might feel you know, I would, period, But yeah, I just personally feel like, you know, if I can provide, and I've gotten to the point where I had my lifestyle provided for me and now I'm able to do the same things on my own. So I take pride in coming through that

transition and being where I am today. So if you can't meet me here and you're trying to take me down here, like what if you're renting so he doesn't take a lot of money, but he does a lot of amazing things. I'm yeah, well, that's not taking care of somebody. They can take care of themselves. I'm saying I'm not taking care of anybody, that's all. Yeah, No, I'm not thinking here of nobody. Well, I don't know. I feel like if I meet a guy and his game is like super crazy and like maybe he's just

like so fine, I might so yes they do. I'm sorry. I'm one of them people. I went to a face where I would date an ugly guy and maybe since I wanted something or whatever, but I'm in the face right now an ugly guy. No, I'm looking is just mad they look good because I want to wake up and look at you and be like this is a good Yeah, I really like, I don't really care that much for a look. I feel like I was and

I want the sex to be good. Have you ever woke up like, so, let's just say, when you was dating like some ugly guys and looks just been like the stick stick Yeah, disgusted, Like why so I had like a really fine guy but the sex wasn't good, right, That's what happened to know he gotta go to and it was like a lot of passion and everything. It never was just like blow my back out, just fuck the shit out of me. Can you have it all? Has there anything ever been in a situation where you

haven't had it all? Yeah? I mean the sex, the money, and not the loyalty rights. Had a guy where he was like spending on me crazy. He looked so good, sex was amazing, but that nigga cheated is so crazy disrespectful man. Is it easier to forgive cheating in a situation like that. I wouldn't say forgive you always for having there, but it's easy to just try to patch it up right and like move on on. It's easy to forgive then when the sex is really good, but

then you can't stop thinking about it. Yeah, but you don't forget, yeah, and then you having the flashbacks like I just want to be him up so bad. You'd be like, I'm not sucking his dick. I don't know who else his mouth was here, and you're like, I don't want him putting that dirty mouth on, right. He probably just came from that bitch and he came over here, probably didn't even clean his dick. No, have you ever been with that guy who didn't eat pussy? I feel like, yeah,

yeah I was. I was, and then I was like nah, yeah, like no, I can't that. It's like number one to me. I'm sorry, I might as well be a lesbian because that's like number one to me. But um no, that had to change within like three weeks. Like get it together. Oh so he did it? You got him? Yeah, no, he did it, but he was claiming that he doesn't do it. Stop throw up, stop it and get Yeah. I'm like, no, I'm not in the sexist whack if you don't do that, like just one part penetration to me, yes,

it's crazy. You know they said the majority of women can't orgasm from penetration alone. Yeah yeah, do you also you agree with that? Yeah? I do so. But you can't can you orgasm during sex? I have the moment. I have moments where my body will start shaking, but I feel like a real good orgasm is going to come from oral stimulation. Yeah, orgasm from penetration me too. There's a different feeling, it's a different type of organs. Yeah, I get like this, like goose bumps, body change. But

I feel like i'd like, come from oral. Can you have multiple orgasms? I don't think I've experienced that yet. No, not yet. Every woman could do it. It It just take the right penis to pull it out of your pose. I've never had. I've never squirted, So I went to someone for a very long time and thought that I just couldn't do it, and then somebody else made it happen, and then I learned how to make it happy myself.

So yeah, there was a time when I thought I wasn't the squirting, so you can just yourself teach me so so I can squirt during masturbation, really really, Yeah, you're a long masturbation. Yeah, if the orgasm is intense enough, it's gonna squirt. My first time squiring was from the top, like I was riding him, and he was like, bad, you ain't telling me you squirt like that. I was like, well, I peed, Yeah, I felt like I pee. It was my first time, and that's when I learned that it was.

He told me he was like, you peede on me, and I'm like no, yeah, And then years later I was like, oh, that's what he is is there besides squirting? What else haven't you done that you want to do m I feel like in the situation that I am right now, he will not let me eat his ass, and I want to Oh me thought, why do you want to do it? Because I've never had it before now and I've done it before, yeah, one time, and

I feel like, I don't know. For me, I just like to do all types of wild, crazy shit when you did it that one time, because I've done it and I'm gonna do it again and again. But when you did it that one time, did you feel a sense of like power power? Yes, because you got them in such a compromised position, pun intended and it's like talk about having man by the balls, like you really got him in such a vulnerable state. And it's then

and it's the enjoyment that you know you were providing. Yeah, it makes me feel so like, Yeah, you get your ap back if you do that. You won't let you do it. You might have to speak up on them. You might have to catch him, No one of them, one of them push he drunk. Listen, a man will bop you over the he was drunk. He just wont he just so big on. I don't pay them type of games. Because he's not gonna do it. I might let me tell you, he might get violent, don't even dry.

Yeah damn, that's funny that you want to do that though, and that he won't let you. I would think a guy would be like, Okay, I really I never wanted to do that, right, No, But I also don't like it done to me when you did it that one time, I'm sorry. What did he ask or you just tried it? It was just in a moment or was it something that he told you that he liked. I feel like it was more like, it's so weird that I was giving head and then like he just started doing this,

he lifted money I was doing, so let me. Yeah, that's the unspoken yea. And how long do you stay down there? And how do you know when to stop? Yeah? Question, good question. It's like, I mean, I know you're not gonna relate to the angela, but it's like eating pussy. Yeah, what do they enjoy that? A little bit too much? Enjoy it? They enjoy it? Did you put a finger in there too? Or your tongue? Would you? Yeah? You

put your tongue in it? Yeah you Yeah? But I feel like if he likes a tongue, and he likes it that much. He probably with like a finger, yeah, he would probably, That's that's usually what comes next, a finger. Yeah. And then it's like the reason why they call it rimming is like once you do insert a finger, you don't have to go like deep in and like penetrate m It's like around the rim you could feel like a like a little like section. Feel this. Why is

did you using her finger as a god hole? Because that's the same thing. So you brought there as if you're playing with it like if it's if adds, if it to click. That's why I like, let me you gonna try this, right? Do you feel that right here? That rum? Right? There's like a doctor. I don't. I don't know how to look like you're having something. Do you like you can? But so the point that I'm getting into with this is almost as if you're it's up up and come here like this. You have to

you have to run right, Okay. So the amount that they get from just that one move, I'm talking about his whole body with tense up is it's crazy. Yeah, maybe it'd be easier for you to try to slide a little finger than first. It's the same man that didn't don't listen to seeither, but he does now. So you never know, right, don't get four years, don't get all the time for the next dude. You should go get hit. Don't get it's not ap here. But yeah, I'm like for me when I did do it, like

I don't know, I just got wetter. More like its more like when you yeah, did he come from it? Yeah? He all types of like I'm about to die faces like right, but checking him off at this hand, oh wow, oh my god. Yeah, a lot of finger and then it's the most I mean, you know, it's a lot going power it is for me personally. That that's why I asked, because I say this when we talk about it every time. It's a power thing for me, Like

why do you like it so much? Because it just it just gives me so much power, like because you never see control vulnerable, especially get them hands if you can get them on all force. So that's when I say to you, guys flip like at their feet their legs over there, like on the edge of the couch like this, so then you down here, or they hold their own legs up like they be holding their leg like this, Okay, I got it. You gotta open your mind. I don't think who I deal with or dealt with

that that would do this like I never know. I say, like, start sucking at it and play with his balls and if you do like this, yeah, to that just yet the shower. It's got to be a player. I feel like you gotta just like slide the tongue down the goose and if he's okay, then stop you then that. Yeah, I'm gonna try it, just like trying if he would, I report back to you guys, like eating pussy, have you ever eaten pussy before? She has? Oh my gosh, do like it? If you don't say no right away

like she has you like it? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know if I like, I don't know, you don't like it, or if you did it? No, I know I did, Okay, I don't know her like if you like, yes, you gotta like you. I can't asking a vagina is different? What would you rather do it? It's different, but a weird thing like attach to females like, I don't know, it's so weird to me. I don't know.

I get this like weird feeling like if I'm making another girl feel good, it just makes me feel weird, uncomfortable or uncomfortable, like I don't know, I don't like. I don't know. I think I just like being a girl so much. That is like if I'm eating another girl out, I feel a little like I'm the man in the situation. It's weird. You don't mind being you don't mind being eaten out? Though, No, I don't mind. Do you do three sums? Have you had three sums

with your guy that you go back and forth with? Yeah, okay, I don't. I don't usually be the one doing it. I might like just like for two seconds, do you pick the girl? Does he picked the girl? If he ever picked the girl, he will get shine. Tell you that's the rule of the three sime. The girl has to pick the other girl. Yeah, because like how long you knew Harry, Like, was it something? I've tried it with my friends and I'll be feeling like I don't

want to see all that with you, like uncomfortable. I couldn't do that with my friend. Maybe that's uncomfortable with it because it was Yeah, because I feel like I've had three sums with other girls, but I was like completely drunk. But I feel like when I do be like semi drunk and I'll be with my friends or like my home girls, it made me feel weird. Yeah, maybe not the home girls. Next time you'd be like, girl, you wanna go go get a drink and then I

gotta see you. We gotta talk about family stuff. But listen, Chinese Kitty, I just want to thank you so much for coming through. Last time we did it on zoom and you were really fine, and I just knew in person it would be next level. And you don't disappoint, right, Okay, that's very older. You do not disappoint. What can we expect now? You know, boy Ain't Mine is out? But what else is going on? What's the whole project? What's

the plan? Yes, I'm gonna be dropping soon. Actually next week I'm dropping a new single UM called spind the Block and I'm just gonna be it's so rid. Spend the Block to me, but we know the wraps. I just want to put that out there. This is me. Yeah, um, and I'm just dropping mad singles. I got merch coming soon too. Okay, you know that's pretty much it for now, so but we like it now now you do. I'm in movies and all types of stuff that we see it. Yes,

we see it coming. Yeah. When you do a song about you, be like yeah, that's yeah, when the girl I got you. Well, Chinese Kittie, thank you so much. We appreciate it. We had a good times. Yeah, let's service to you.