Episode 388: Play With It (Feat. Lola Brooke)

at Jasmine. Yeah, just be careful, all right, pointed that way or something to that guy in the maroon. The only part of I know, I was just looking at maybe let gig like Jasmine trust to be sitting right next door. But congratulations that we we just found it out. So um, while we popped this bottle, how are you feeling? I feel like I feel like that. Okay, that's how you feel. That's good luck. That's good luck. That's good luck. Would be a great Can we get some napkins? Okay?

Hold up, we got some. We got some. There we go. So how are you feeling? I feel good? Um, I feel blood for the most part. Okay, I just know that from today on is still the days before work. I just gotta work. So what was that process like for you? Walk us through it, like just even figuring out, like where you wanted to sign, how many labels were coming at you led into that decision. It was a It was a couple of labels. I had a couple of meetings, but when I got to Aristo, it just

felt like home. And the main thing that I could remember them saying to me was we love everything about you. Like they didn't want to change anything about me any time. Like if I stepped in the room, it would just be at least one thing about me that they'd be like, Oh, we have to juice this up. We'll fix it, or you know, I think you should be this way. They was like, no, girl, you already a star. We love everything about you. We just want to be here to help.

What were some of the things that they were other labels was saying they need to fix or change or tweak. The main thing they say is I don't see it. Oh that's aggressive. Yeah, they'd be like, I don't see it. Um, Yeah, she's she's cool. Thank you I know. I don't like to say when you come in the room, like just like oh my gosh, okay, you're like, hey, what's up? She literally packed up. Yeah, but yeah, they would say that I'm too aggressive. But I'm from Brooklyn, so like

even when she said Brooklyn, they get aggressive. And for Brooklyn, she said, very strong. But you know people from Brooklyn, like everywhere you go, somebody's from Brooklyn. When you go, we let you know, we let you know. And then it didn't even got to be a New York thing. No, I'm from Brooklyn. Period. Yeah, it's not. It's not the city, it's not, it's the borough Lyn congratulations, lady. We don't do dump for everybody. Know what I'm saying this that

zone zone. Yes, so I know that before everybody else knows, you know what's going on, Like you knew you was how long did you know about this deal before the public knew? Mm hmmm, spit it out, Lola. I literally got the same pigtails. I mean, I knew it was it was coming up though, of course, like it's been some time. I've been working this working time, but I finally sat down and signed the papers with these pig tails ship's signing papers. Baby, yeah, um, just my team

Team eight and Arista my Arista team. That's it. And me what about the guy that you'd be talking about in your tweets that ain't ship? What I said, let's go to the tweets. Yeah, because alright exhibit Yes, we got some tweets here. Alright at Little Brooks. Your man always want to show a lot of people that don't give a funk about him. Then you'll be looking like the problem for keeping it a buck. This ain't about me right now? Words from a manipulator. I'm two percent

or whatever the funk that is? Oh man, everything I mean that ship look wherever he at, he ain't with me? All right? Two At Lola brook I've got trust issues, real bad, real bad. I do I do, But I mean body, I ain't just talk about Okay, that's everything, right, yeah, everything about things? Yeah, I'm paranoid, Like why is that? What's happened to Lola? People would say they do something, don't do it, or people would just be manipulated and

just lied to you for no reason. And I'm straightforward, see me, you could tell me anything, even if it's like real real bad, handle it. It is what it is. I'd rather you hurt my feelings at that very moment that my feelings get hurt afterwards, because then I'm gonna be thinking about that moment back to back flashbacks when you could have just told me I don't want to have flashbacks the other flashbacksbacks like is this in terms of a man or just in general, like friendships, um,

family issues. Like you would think that family is there to protect you, but normally when they feel like you got to some certain success, they talk about you or this could be happening or she's doing this, and it's like, so, why you won't pick up your phone to call me and act if I was okay? Yeah. I feel like no matter what kind of relationship, whether it's lovers, family, friends, like, just tell me the truth, keeping the box so I can make my choice on how I want to react, Right,

And that's it. That's a good point. It is only gonna get worse. It's about the value about to be termed. Is gonna be hiding. I feel like you owe them something. There's going to be people around for the wrong reasons. It's going to be people that you tell them yes a thousand times you tell them no ones all of sending you the worst person in the world. I already told him don't call my phone until I changed my mother address first. All right, So, like this is exciting

to me because you're from Brooklyn. I'm from Brooklyn. So let's talk about where you grew up and everything, where you went to school. I want to know all these details. You want to how far how far back you want to from the beginning where you Okay, okay, so my sandboxes in Tomkins Park. Okay, that's right bout me. I live in Bestid. She knows, she knows a lot about Brooklyn. Yeah, so Tomkins Park, they used to have mad shows in there and everything. I went to the after school program

in Tomkins Park as well. I went to elementary school to fifty six across the street from Mossy Pool. Um where you arts in school? Were you into the arts and stuff? Yeah for sure. Yeah. Where you're like at first in line when you had to line up, always first. So I was always first to that's because where you, I don't know, it's a short thing. Somebody was the same side. That's me. I would be like, hey, listen, I'm in front. That's like we don't play with front.

I went to boy I graduated from Boys and Girls. Okay, that's a talented creative school. What come on now, I don't know. I heard. I heard that Boys and Girl. I heard it was a little rough back, really wrong. She tried to make it sound the world just like it was rough back in the day. And my mistaken. It's rough and there still my mom and I told me it was a girl. My mom even told me it was rough, like all generations say, it's roughly, my

mama to Erasmus, So where is that? Okay? I don't know Flatbush that well, that school is huge too, okay, so go on. So okay, oh I want to um ms one thirteen. That's claims. Okay, that's you in high school. And yeah, I grew up around tomkas Park went. Did you and you always knew you wanted to be an artist? Yeah? I always knew I wanted to be an entertainer for sure, Like always, I just always felt that inside of me. When I went to school, I did step for like

I just wanted to be on stage. I literally went to go do step and try to be a cheerleader just to be on stage for one time. I went on stage one time doing step and I was out Why I just wanted to be on stage at one time? How did you know you wanted to be a start when you were little? Did were you always trying to perform or get into How did you know this is

always in you? When I was like seven eight years old, I used to always fantasize about me being on the lunch room tables, jumping at lunchroom table to lunch room table, and all the kids like cheering me on. Yeah, liked did you have a pole? Did you have another name before it's always been Lola Broke? Yeah? And then who did you grow up with in the house? Just me and my mom? Just to tell your only child, only child? Well, damn, only child, that's probably children a little crazy, only children

a little crazy. But I'm but I'm my mother's only child. And maybe that's why I'm off and I'm a little off. Yeah, No, you're definitely off. I am. I'm definitely off. Yeah, so that may be okay, that explains her being creative and anybody had imaginary friends and ship. I thought that ship was real. I said, come on, you gotta see something. I ain't never see nothing. Though shap I did play with myself a lot and looking to mirror a lot, talk to myself a lot. The family dynamic outside of

just you and your mom. Do you have a lot of cousins? Was there? Yeah? A lot of family members around. Yeah. Always like I would hate to go home. I will always want to go to grandma house because my cousins. I'm like, come on, even on Sundays, I'd be like, Grandpa, just take me to school tomorrow, Great Grandpa, stay tonight to stay to nine. I don't want to go home. And they used to hurt MoMA feeling a little baby. Yeah, Jasmine child, don't even really know her like that. Shut up.

That's first of all, and just sold mean to me about being a mom. I'm a new mom and and has all the jazz and all the jokes. Yes, I've been telling her bring the baby with you because she lived in d C. How old is one? You can't be carrying Jasmine already? Shut up. She's such an asshole. Anyway, whatever I kids I'm gonna have, I was gonna bring them. You'll be thinking about that already. Please don't wait. I'm the only child, so it's like I'm on my own family.

I feel like you think you want if I get beyond jay Z money, I'm going with a bank or get like six what kind of guy you like? Like, who do you envision as the father? Now? Who do you envision? She got somebody you definitely No, I really don't. You're gonna like Okay, So if you could like say, okay, the father is gonna be somebody like this, give us a comment like the fake stuff such and such build a man. They don't really have to be no fame involved,

as long as the characteristic. Yeah, like, as long as he knows how to protect me, as long as he a provada, as long as he affectionate and a family man. I'm straight, he ain't pussy. I'm straight. No, I ain't gotta be from Brooklyn. Okay. At first I used to be like, he gotta be from New York? But nah, what's that? What do you think? It is the worst borough for guys? She's like, I don't want to put

my fan base? Yeah, I know, good answer. Bronx the best, the worst, the worst, The Bronx, the Bronx, Yes, the Bronx the best boroughs for dating for in my opinions, my my opinion. I'm from New York, born and raised in New York. I was born in ma Sign nine fifth Avenue and ninety nine Street. And for me, the best guys are from Queens and like Brooklyn. You can you know what I mean, um Long Island because they always got a car because they look so far you

know what. I'm man that doesn't have a car. Yeah, ok, yeah, but they people don't. Yes, I forgot where I am and then and then Manhattan, but like not up town Manhattan, the Harlem and down, Harleman down was down because I don't know it was from Yeah, I'm from Chelsea. Yeah, yeah, I'm from the che projects from yeah way brothers. The many people, so many famous people from Chelsea Projects. It's

something you tweeted. You asked a question about where the best guys Where the best guys are from the South one, the South one. Have you dated a guy from the South, No, we should all date a guy from the South. No, but you really I'm dated guys from the South, and I have to say they have the best mannerisms. They treat women really well, even when they're ready to move on. They do it the right way. The pole, the Pole was correct. The East a second from Pelfia, born and raised.

I lived here for a while. You think I currently live in Atlanta, And I will say that I like SOUTHERNIL. But I've been saying this, I have too many options. There's too many women down there. Because there's too many women women looking for a man in the South. When looking for a family man, we all look for the same thing. Girls. So but look how you're You're so young? How old are you? Jay said, I'm thirty two, but

you're not your twenties. Yeah, I'm got a birthday coming up to February one, still ain't turning thirty thirty too? Because Tom to cut it out, she's looking for first of all, she's going to be working on her birthday. She's looking for an outfit to wear. Where did you hear all that already? Before? We'll be going a chat? Are you single? Yes? Like that? How long you've been? I'm excited about this single because this is a great time for um, like two years? Okay, damn, that's not year? Yeah,

not too long, not too short. But when you're saying are you but you've been, you've still been dealing with you haven't experience you've been dating, dating, You've been you know, experience in life. Um, I'm celibate though for how long? A year and six months? She knows it down to the day. Something to keep in saying, what are you gonna end this? What keeps me saying? What inspired you to become celibate and what is it gonna take for

you to stop being celibate? What inspired me was I was in a relationship for a little minute, and after a while, I was like, man, I could go without it. Like you know, when you clock out, you already clocked out. I went to the same thing, so I've been clocked out. So I'm saying I'm around this, well fucking I'm still like, keep it to myself. Oh I don't really need it, saying I'm just focus on There's nothing worse than being in a relationship and feeling like you lonelier than if

you wasn't. Oh my god, for having a man and having to go masterbate you gotta lay next to somebody and be Like I went through all of this, I was at the point where I just felt like, why am I in a relationship? Like I'm not what I need. If I'm gonna do bad bad because somebody could be so happy just to say they're in a relationship, don't matter that it's sucked up. Don't know, I can't. I know he mad now though that no man now so has to each other to reach out to you. Did

he say congratulations? See, yeah, of course. But see the thing is with him, the last one, he is, he cool, like we still we cool, Like it wasn't bad blood. I just had to let him know, like, look, listen, I gotta focus on my career. You focus on what you need to and that's it. If it come back, it comes back. But if it don't, just know I still gotta love you. And there's no bad blood. Did you buy over buying a gift like when you start making big checks? No, I ain't. I ain't no fun No,

but say what I can't say. I still like make sure that they were straight, though, because like what that mean the person, the person I still like tapped in and made sure that my conscious could sleep at night because we don't have no bad blood. We didn't separate on a bad note. So it's like, yo, you're still my friend at the end of the day. He was my friend before he was my man. You wonna be my friend? Yeah? Did you try to get you back?

Of course? Yeah? Man? What was the problems? Was it really just wanted to focus on your career or was he doing other things that I felt like I had to be the bigger person to understand, like we're both in the way of our growth. We're not growing together, Like we're both in a way of our growth. Like I gotta spread my wings. You gotta spread your wings. That's very much in love. And what was his response? It was in love? But at the end of the day,

who are we're working for. I'm trying to have a family, Like what I'm gonna tell my kids? What was his response that he understand where he was coming from. Yeah, like a rebuttal or negative like he understood, but it still went over his head, like you know, he's still like double back, Like no, we could still we already tried that already when I have a quick question and then we could get right back to yours. So during when a person is celibate, right, is getting your pussy

a breaking the celibacy? Is it? What do you think? Yeah? You you answer this, I think something my ship? So you got a dollar back on the date takes a few.

We had this conversation yesterday when we were asking each other about the rules of celibacy and like what the terms are, because Angela was saying like something about a time frame, right, yeah, because people like having like a week and they'd be like, I'm but you got But you made the decision consciously, made the decision that you want to be celibate, and you started, so you're a weak into celibacy and celibacy you don't have a decision. It's not a decision that you made. So you're still

going to masturbate. But oral is having sex. But but, but, but if it's not penetration, it's not the c you if you if you still masturbate, you catch your nuts. Okay, So if so, if you a man and your man eat another girl pussy, he not cheating. Cheating Like I take thirty days off, the creation is breaking the Yeah, that's breaking the seal. The same for me, I feel like if you haven't been, yeah, I feel like I chose.

I don't like I made a choice in my life that I don't want to just give my body because I'm horny or you know, just give my body away because I'm having fun or I'm drunk or something like that. So I've decided to not have sex right now. Let me ask you what I'm getting my pussy eight? What about You know I'm not celibate? Yeah, I feel like I'm I decided I decided to be to stop giving because I didn't call it celibacy. I feel like I'm tired of men taken from me. You're tired of me? Yeah?

I feel like. You know, the guys that I'm with, we have a great time, and I know that they care about me, and you know, um, even one is madly in love with me. You know, when it's not an official relationship or friends of benefits type of things, and when somebody's having sex with you and having sex with other what other people? I feel like it kind of messes with your your soul. You're having sex with other people too. Are just one person? No? Just me?

You know I'm an idiot. I'll have sex with the same person and they'll treat me like I mean, they'll buy me nice things and take me on to nice places. But you know, there's other ways you can treat somebody bad. So you know, when I decided to to stop giving my body away when we wasn't when we were in l A. That was years you know, July, right before my mother passed. Yes, I decided that I don't want to give my body do your way for fun, you know,

I want to feel the about six seven months. Yeah, but well but I ask my pussy every now, every every Tuesday and Wednesday Tuesday. And that's about having sex just so giving out no need to know? Just for fun? Are you fund is different? I said, just for fun? Okay, fun, but it can't just be for fun in the O somebody you really care about, that's your friend, you know what I'm saying. And you enjoy each other, so you might or yes, or your ex boyfriend or even somebody

who you who you feel is your man. But he the people you know what I'm saying. He won't admit it to you, but he's doing it. And you know, have you ever cheated? No? What would so you have never cheated? Not dead, never cheated? I what would it take for you to end this celibacy um spell that you're on? Nick Nickel want it? But you didn't have some head. Now it wasn't it wasn't the Yeah, but he ain't he ain't on Shipka, he ain't he ain't he ain't make me fall in line? Ship, make you

fall in line? Yes, gotta make me fool. That is too though. Some guys will let you walk all over them. They really will. We'll just let you do whatever you want to get. They will let you walk all over them in some high six inch platform. Christian Lubertin's select about some different over there to having somebody like what do you like for a guy to tell you like you like for a guy he gotta check you every now and then because you're gonna yeah, like ship with

my phone out there. I feel the same way I want to man to to have me fall in line, like sit down, okay, like if it's an example, like when I'm wrong, let me know I'm wrong, you know, be affectionate, tell me that, tell me you love me. Tell me I did a good job. I'm outside, I'm worked it right now after this better throwing me a good job, good job at work. So I'm gonna have you know, like stuff like that. I got bad um you're bad ready for you, your milk bad ready for you?

And yeah, like I want I want a romantic guy. What if you have more than him, what do you mean? Like? What if you just have more like financially success? Does that matter to you? No? Hell no, I don't mean anything to me. It depends on how I feel to make me feel a certain way. And everybody. It's a lot of men out here that got money that's rich and can't make you feel special and their cornballs because they're feel busy passing it around to spreading it. Then

right they spreading that Brisshow good looks matter? Like what if you could tell me like the things that are important to you? Um? I like dark skin men? Do say? Do say my body? Dark skin men are certain like he when he woke in the room. He gotta be like he know he that he gotta does. He gotta be funny. You gotta make me laugh because you also have a really bubbly, like you know, fun personality. So he has to match that. He has to match that and be open to a lot of things like you know,

just be what about age limit? What how willing? How old are you larious? I've never went that. I never went that. What's the oldest you you dated? I ain't go past thirty? So is that your cap is thirty your cap and I could do thirty five? What's the youngest you have? Seven? The youngest? He gotta be a club with you. Yeah, that's the thirties five. Yeah, he just got What about kids? What if it? Does that matter if he has kids? See, this is the thing. See with me, I'm really not big on the guys

having kids kids because kids come with baby mama. But drama thing about that is recently, I'm like, it might come on you. It's getting a little crazy now you might not find that. I feel like the older you get, the more like. Yeah, so as long as I know that he take kids kids, Like it's times like I've dealt with a guy and he had he had is And the first thing I think about is you got a room for him in your home? Is the room completed? Yeah?

Like I care about stuff like that because what if you know, we really get there to where we need to be and I'm we're about to have a baby. I need to know that you're gonna be a deaf child. Yeah. But if oh no, angel right now, right now? And so no, okay, what's the what's the minimum height he has? Top off? Okay, that's that's fair. That's yeah, you would look good. You know he would still no, no, because when she put her heels on then she would be

what about crazy? What about dick? Can he have medium or do you need like extra big dick or medium size? I need medium. I don't want to enjoy. I don't want to be hurt. What about like a really tall man like the six five? Never dated a guy like did you see could you see that though? I could see that though? I see that that because you can set the thick standing up, like you have to put her head down. Yeah, like you could just like walk up with you up. You just walked straight up. You

just walk straight up to it. Crazy? What did your mom teach you like growing up? You know, living in the house with your mom. Did she give you like a sex talk when you were younger to teach you about the birds and the bees? No? Did she ever find out or how did she found out that actually lost her virginity? She told you, you told her. But what's so crazy is I was I was already out with my with my own boyfriend sucking. I was already fucking.

But I told her when I wanted to sell, I was like, yeah, we finally, you know, how does she react? She just cringed. She was like, what are you guys like friends or what's your relationship? Like she's my best friend. I pay for that for Jasmine. Do you know what that's a nine and the nine? Yeah, me and my mom my best friends growing up. Um. I finally got to hear her say something like he was having a regular conversation, and she was like, I just wish I

I took more time to spend with you. And I was like, yeah, because growing up, I'm only doing this music stuff because I felt lonely, so I needed something. I needed a Yeah, you was never home. She was right, but I knew she loved me, Like when she came home, how she catered to me. I knew she loved me. But yeah, I'm sure she was doing the best she could. Yea, the best. You do your thing? You are you out

here winning? I hated here's what you hated everything in life. Okay, we're gonna make sure a little jazz and brand got what she needs. Period. Let's talking about when you did lose your virginity. Was it a good experience or do you remember like everything about it? Yeah? I do. It was It was kind of crazy because like for it to be the first time, it sucked me like I was like I was out here fucking first time, a

little crazy. But this little motherfucker he geared me up like it was days before, like hed gear me up, like we wouldn't really do it through it, like he'd just do like you're pretty eat me out about me here, like days and two he was warming you up and then he's lost my virginity. Like we would have like heavy make out sessions and then you know he would eat he would eat me out and like fingers. So by the time that we finally had sex, it wasn't pain for bloody. That's why it was like he was

doing his big one. Okay, did you did you? Did you enjoy it or not the first time? I don't know anybody's really No, I didn't enjoy it. I don't even think we really did it the first time. I think it wasn't a passionate thing. It just was curious, curious did you believe? You believe? Yeah? And then when is the next time he did it again? Oh? I left that motherfucker. See, look like I lest my virginity. Two. I did it to him one time. It was one time.

He was my boyfriend for years though years and if so, when you when it was time for you, when you moved on, and then when you're going to have sex with the next guy, like, did you feel like, Okay, I know what I'm doing because of my first experience or did you still feel like, okay, I'm learning. I felt like I was learning. Do you still feel like you're learning? No, I mean, I know I'm sullivant, but I get busy. She's like, I didn't forget. It was

with the guy that I lost my virginity. So for a while, my first was a guy that I was We were like the same age, and you know, we like kind of grew up together in the neighborhood and

was friends that way, and literally throughout adulthood. He would always be like that friends would benefit break in case of emergencye Like when we would go years without seeing each other, but when we seeing each other, we knew it was on the popping Like there was even a point where I had moved to Atlanta and a few years later he moved to Atlanta and one of our mutual friends who didn't know that we knew each other tried to introduce us and we were like, and that's

what I'm seeing for a moment with my first you know what I mean, trinity to a woman. Well, yeah, that but y'all tell me that I doesn't come yea, Yeah, yeah, y'all say I don't count. I mean, I definitely had my very first whatever experience with female. I was, I was playing with vagina at right before I thought about really, But that's a different generations, different generations, different generations. But

I feel like it happens more now. But when we talked about it with Angela always says that that wasn't that they doesn't count as like losing my Virginia. It was like my kids stuff. No, you've never been with you, said she said. But no, but I would I wouldn't. You're open to it, open to it. I know women try to talk to you. Yeah, girl, you like one of these girls came up to me. She was like, I heard about you. You're strictly thickly, but let me

tell you something. Were you ready cool? But what kind was she was? She like? Uh, she was pretty? Or she like she was pretty but pretty aggressive? Yeah, you know, I'm aggressive, but it's so crazy because line. But I want a man to have me in line, not a female to have me in line. Like, no, we're on the same page, my mon. Like you might you might be surprised because you're very alpha. You might need somebody that's better. So a woman might really suit you, you know.

I mean I thought about that, but the men and you're not gonna like a better man. You're not gonna like him. Yeah, but it's just I think it might be more like a mental thing. Like it's like, girl, you have what I have like yourself. You didn't. Yeah, okay, well maybe yeah, maybe maybe that's something we should. You know what, you guys have a birthday. I'm not saying on your birthday now, I'm saying if I have a birthday,

I can see it. But I'm just saying, might not never happened, like being with a better man, with a man who's gonna, you know, do anything you say and not have you in line. That's what an alpha man does. But you know, but a woman, I could see you I'm having it in line. I might conceive myself eating a zone box or whatever, but I've never in my life bumped into at least one female made me feel

like you wanted to let me tell you something. I'm not looking forward to it, but if it happened, it happened. But I'm open to it. But I just never what about a threesome? That's how you sorry that that's that's a nice things choose. I don't know about the three something. The only thing I could go as far as threesomes is when um masturbating. I could. I could fantasize about it, but I don't know about really going like doing it. Yeah, okay,

you're conservative. She's not conservative, and she's if she's open to eat and pussy, that's not conservative, but she's not. But I'm not like dying to do it. It's like most a lot of women are. I'm not open. No, I only said I'm saying because I know I can't. I can't. I think women are attractive, but I don't. I'm not open to another vagina. That's what I'm saying. That's feel like she's open and it's not judgments. I feel like she's open to it. So it's just like, Okay, no,

this ain't. I feel like you should try three sings away. I have three sons do you have? I have three sums. You guys know, I guess service only there women like I wasn't there, but y yes me, we're like Bessie she I'll tell her whatever, like I'll tell her when I get my per I don't know about sharing, but you know I have three So your man, your what man? Oh? Your man? Okay, what about you know? Have you done

an no? But this girl she won't even like it's a heype requirement for that grown as big wow doing ain't new? I should where I actually like a lot of women like it. I like, it's not something that I want to do all the time, but I could do with the right with the right penism on the right night. It can get on the poppet, but it can't be the penis can't be too big, okay me and side, Yeah, she may be my average average average and below average below. Can we get this is a

good time? Then maybe I'll be like, yeah, she's getting guys, penis be so small you have to do an whatever that part? Oh you you know, not mean, not mean, not mean. When I'm not somebody but I've been, I would have done at them with him because the only time I ever had I have an ex who had a really small dick, and I think he is the reason why I started to enjoy anal, because anal felt better than that. It wasn't leaving. Now, wow, experience. Have

you ever had a smart penis? No penises? I know, but you know sometimes, but I've never experienced something that was like not even it was just right. It was always just right. Have you never had a real big dick? Yeah, but it wasn't. It was cool, not real big, like not like I was like, okay, yeah, you know I pique someone, Yeah, I bumped this is someone that it was like and kept said, no, that's not that's that's not exciting. It's not her ministry. How much has your

life changed? And like this past year because you know, you have a song that's huge, don't play with it, but it also had been out for a while before I go, it's going on two years and did you did you ever? Did you anticipate that or were you like, all right, that song it's not really happened, like about you forget about it. No. Never. I always promoted it. I probably didn't promote it as much as I did when it first came out, but I always still promoted

it in some some type of form. How does it feel to have like huge celebrities like doing TikTok's and because that's a song, like after two years, you're not really thinking like after it's about to blow up? Right right, Um, I'll tell you, I'll give you the bugle job. I sit back, I look up. I'll be like, nah, New York, no way that it's real. Like I always sit back and be like it's this real and my dreaming. You're here it just a year later the should the right

record is gonna go when it's gonna go. When you made that record, I was tired of being played with for real, for real, Like that's really how that energy came out. So when I was like, don't believe with it, don't belie with this, don't belie with it, I was. I really felt that way at that moment, like stopped playing with me. You know what, we got to talk about this vibral video of you that's really old, but with you hanging off the car, girl, what was happening?

That's not you. I don't know that girl. That was not her. Now, that wasn't me our our name CHEECHI. That really wasn't your name Chech, her name Lola for real hanging out. But if I was home, Yeah, she would be hanging up that hanging out that cop than hanging out that thing. Now you also have yeah girl Billy be on the song. So what's going on with that now? Because I know you on? So what's the plan? Plan A keep promoting and too. I told her, I said yo, he, I said yo, if you need to

smart this ship out, smart out, do it. I don't. I'm in the room next. Ye get your coins from this, because sooner or later they're gonna be talking about us. So just do what you need to do, Do what you need to do to make whatever you gotta do. Sure, when was the moment that you would like this is it? Because you've had a lot of you know, great really viral moments as of late. So when were you like, this is it? The biggest dead ass, the biggest dead ass?

Oh I still don't feel it now, Yeah, Oh it's coming. Yeah, And when it happened, you're gonna be like, oh they were talking about Yeah, I know, it's just I know it's more work too, It's more work to put in, Like I just, I mean, I've been working for a long time now, but I'm new to the people, so what they what they see, it's not what they know. So I gotta keep going going, moving forward. And I've been trying to feel it, but I just can't because

I already like fantasize about it. I envisioned it. I kind of like got the feeling of it, but it just never happened yet. But you also do have to make sure that you enjoying the moments, right, Yeah, I'm having talked about that a lot um. I'm trying to. But you're gonna vacation. How does your mom feel about your career? Everybody? She made it. She did she period,

She did make it word. She definitely did. She's excited, I know because at the end of the day she said to herself, like it was just I'm the only child. You know, how many people have five to fourteen twenty kids and not one of them they feel is they token out? She like, I just had one baby child. She is my golden child. Like that's really a blessing. What's been your biggest check? Self? Fire and what do you do with it? My biggest check? I saved it?

Good for you, for sure, I'm sure I really save it. And the most I might have done with it is um moving to a new apartment and I paid my mom's bills off for a few months, and stuff like there money and the show money and you know so crazy. Um. People be coming up to me like, yeah, you got them shows, you got them hosting. I ain't spend that money. Yeah, who taught you money? My mom's every time we want the supermarket, she had that circlet she like destroying, grabbed

that coupon this c okay, how you going? And you see what she said coming. We normally eat this, but this okay, so we're gonna prop with with the on the bcause dirty wit was cereal. Cereal can be dirty with Cereal, but the brand, the bread was old branded. The sugar might be old brand sugar and sugar. I need cereals in the bag was banging back in the days.

I used to love those cereals. Now you know what my grandma, grandma, it was old brand Cereal, like a brand cereal, get socket a little quicker if you eat a quick yes you eat that's what? Yeah, especially like the crispy Yeah yeah, my baby Cereal used to be fruit loops, Oh good, and then little what's the one with the cookies? Cookie c serial? What's frosted flakes? I like that too? I love you? But actually got so fast, I got like apple jacks and um, what's this the

grand crunch, golden girl, golden golden grandches. Know that's that? Oh oh honeycomb. You know I used to be mad with chimes. You got the bottom really now, I wasn't serial. I don't mean, I don't even a lot of serial. Else. I got Franken Berry in my house right now, frank Wow? What about fruity pebbles? I love and I love so when when I want to feel grown and sexy about? Is serial? Have you ever experimented with food in the bedroom?

Is I seas and stuff like that? Yeah? Okay, so that's what happened with these ice fat Oh gosh, I never throw it out see the day. But yeah, you know you get you just aw and um fruit roll upes. So what did you do? I was that you put the round? Dicky definitely had references. Yes, And if you ain't got ice seas, just go get ice putting the little bit get straight to it like I got a few trinks of my I want to say the first time I ever sectic. I was so terrible at it.

I don't know what I was doing. You did are like I think I definitely used my teeth a lot. Yeah, I didn't know, and it was dry. I didn't know that was a bad You don't learn like you don't. I feel like you don't know what to you don't you don't know what you don't know. And then also I feel like men say like a lot of like a lot of space, but she don't know that they mean that much spit like I did my big one. The first time I did my big one, I went

out with a bang. I call my best friend to let her know, like, and she was like, I was about to call you too. It's so crazy. Was I was about to call you too and say you should I do it? Should? And you said you how did you know what you were doing? Videos? See we didn't have that. No, we didn't. But I like, it's pretty self explanatory that it was. No. Yeah, I had to take well. I was there when I had oral sex

for the first time. I was with somebody that was way older than meet it I should not have been with. And I was literally put on point and be like that, Oh yeah, my first time going down on a guy. He was, um, he gave instructions really wild. Yeah the guy I wasn't. He just did it. But you know, I think I definitely like, I feel like later on it was like scabs. Oh god, no, I think I

didn't know. I don't know what to do, but it was I feel like it's pretty self explained to what because you got to communicate because sometimes, like I hate when people use their teeth, and sometimes when somebody's given you or you might move but they think you're moving because you like it, but you really it's not good communication. You'll be surprised some guys like are you good at telling people what you don't like? Are you good at communicating in the bedroom? Oh? Of course, I'd be like,

do it there? No, no, no, no, no, stops you do straight you straight? Straight right there? Right? Keep that that right there, God's true. Straight straight, don't play. I'm like, that's okay, Maybe you're good. That's cool. You gotta tell them, see, but you gotta tell them when you like it, because they would start switching up. That's got to tell them that when you're about to come, and then they do some other ship and they sunk up the rhythms what

are you like good right now? Right? How they could keep continuing motivation. But I think the mistake that guys make is you say it's good right there, and they do, they move, they do a harder no, stay where you at that perfect? I feel like this when I'm when I tell the guy I want to do and I'm like, yes, perfect, and he sucks it up. My facial expressions just changes.

I'm like, you'd be having the attitude around Get, that's the I swear, But like I told you, you don't have an attitude after sex because he came and you didn't, but you couldn't like girls like that. It's okay, yeah exactly, I swear it looks like okay Forget. It's okay because guys would always come. They don't they think, And I hate when they always think that you none up multiple times as fucking you exactly. Have even been with a

guy he came so many times he couldn't come anymore. Listen, Yes, I have. You know I've talked about this on the show before, Like I've had sex triafter launch where you have mad sex and you fall asleep and then start having sex again and eat or something and that sex again. Like after a while, the guy is literally coming air like this, I just can't like done well. I feel like you're honestly, I'm cup to bubble you. They said to me, they said you got lip service, and they

was like, she's going to enjoy this period. I am, well, listen, you gotta come back, you know. Congratulations. I'm glad we got to celebrate the day that you signed you a new deal because that is amazing. So congratulations. You know, I'm happy for a fellow Brooklyn woman to be doing it as big as you are. And I live in best I. You know, I got my businesses and best guy, so I think that's amazing. So I am like, this is exciting for me just to have you here. So

I appreciate you for that. Appreciating Her name is Lola brook Brook for Brooklyn Brooks for Brooklyn, and that I love. It's like, I gotta do the things we like. Lola brook a little brook we sign it on. Yeah, that's the favorite thing. But listen, what's the plan for you now? Though, Like I know you plan it everything out because I just know you are. The plan is to stay consistent. The plan is to not fix anything that's not broke.

The plan is to be myself and cater to my fans because my fans has played the biggest part of my career. Okay to the script, Yes, alright, but Lolo again, congratulations, Thank you so much for coming to join us today, and we're gonna see you again. Yeah, I'll be back. I'm gonna se you up with Angela ye too. Everything yes, everything, alright, Lolo break, thank you so much as lift service. Cheers, cheers,