Episode 374: Measure These...(Feat. Spice)

we're just a clockwork. So you like a car, you like A and R two because you got a song with Carlie Red and people are like, Carlie Red got a hit. I know, right. So the funny thing is Carlie red song is called Work, and then Steph land the song is called Clockwork. And carl Read is so spoiled because when I was telling her I already have a song with stepheandon call work. Can we change the name.

She's like, oh, but he's were still saying work, And I'm like, okay, so I'm gonna have two songs called work. But you are like, you know, even with Carlie Red teeen, you're working with her and just making sure you kind of like molded her to be able to out a hit song. Yeah, and it was a hard moldings. There was a long process. But the thing with Carly is you know, she wasn't doing music for a long time.

She kind of stopped. So when she approached me to do a song, I'm like, you know, not because we're best friend, where you get it right, but to make sure say, I'm not just gonna do a song with you because you know me because we're a friend, It's still got to be you know, I take my craft seriously and I'm very meticular, particularly like meticulous. And you wasn't playing with her. Yeah, you get it around right, and you have some gifts for us today I saw so and this peeped it and this is a song.

By the way, they had some people in their feelings, a lot of people. Yeah, because you could tell them. Man, you could tell women have little dicks by who got mad serious because if it is big, you like, break out the tape measure. But if it's not, you like lady, you care about that. So I expected to get more bastion from it when I did it, because when I when I put on the Oncot version. Did you see the on conversion? Now? I only saw that. You never

saw the version? What happened to stop? I'm going to watch the version. We can't talk about wanting a seat. It was all over on my Twitter, Spicy Official. You know I'm gonna take that right down. So that's why I never posted over Instagram at this. Right now, right now, go on my Twitter Bicey official and watch the video the official and see are there real dicks in there? Can't believe someone? I never see it anything. That's like

my Twitter as much. That's the problem. That's true. When I was posting this video, I was like, they're gonna take my Twitter. I can't Twitter anything goes and say that right now? So I went over Twitter and I posted it and I was like, oh my god, but it works because it fits with the song. Now let me oh, you're find it? Yes, depending only in your Twitter? Why is my wife? I not working? Girl? Oh it's swinging in every case? Ok? Here it is is on

my album Emancipated. The song is called a shorter Real Thing. So how was the casting for that? How was the casting for that video? Let me see, it's just there, honey, it's just existing. Is that intimidating? Yes, it's huge and it's not hard. It's just slinging. It's slinging huge. Wow. Somebody look after that and the balls is wow. Oh my gosh, he looks like he knows it. Yeah, he's just sitting just there. He knows it. Wow, I'm hot.

So you're never with something like that, right? No? Um, I've ran I have from itself Fast show did I was like, the guy told me, you're making me uncomfortable, So no, you're making me uncomfortable like this hurt. I don't think they know it hurts, and I think they like to push it first. Yeah, yeah, you did not walk like it too. Yes, you know what, because you need like a dig that you need two hands for

not one. You know what I mean. You're on and you have some people they're okay with like a small dick or a regular size. So with that being said, what number is good for you? Oh? I brought gifts for you. Where's my bag? And we need to have it's in that corner. I have a lot of gifts that let me see yourself. If you could say, like, what's a good size, because it's not just the length. The girls skinny's not good either. The way don't feel good. Yeah, stuff a funt. Yeah we need like and pudge my

little something pudgy for you. We needed I would say about what's this that's huge, Laura. Yeah, it's just I don't mind it being big, but you can't just ram it up in me. You have to slowly get me right. And you know what I'm saying. I have to be a little tips you say, I know the size that they're going at, the effectut the bullets period, meaning it doesn't matter what size you have, you for using, make the something you understand, roll upon, don't look at you know.

You gotta eat the pussy first two When you do that, Yeah, like you have to. It's like a whole process to it. You gotta get me ready and build met me and that jamaicing. They don't, let's be clear, definitely them clem them to do it. But all of the girl the drummer, get them thing eating something, eat it. They just don't talk about it. They eat it, but they don't talk about it. I'm trying to think. I don't know the first guy who in my pussy was making stop it

my Yeah, she says that all the time. I don't think he was like we have his parents are leaving go to Jamaica for like months at a time. Ship. It's true. Listen, Noah happened. He was Jamaican. Good. The guy lost my virginity too, was Jamaican too. But he back Yorkland. So you know we gotta put Yeah, they'd be lying. Girl, there's gotta see okay, where here's my little gift. You gotta keep it in your purse. This is good. That's how I walked up to you. Your number,

what's your number? And he thinks you want a phone number and you're like, no, not that number. Yes, it is too though, because you never want to be shocked like you always like, before you have sex with the guy, you want to kind of feel his lump to get an idea. You want to feel it because it's not that but wait, so there's a lot of things that you can do before you have sex with a guy,

because you don't want to waste your time. You know you're getting a guy, you want to wait like a little six months and you try feeling mode and then you're gonna have sex with him, and you kind of disappointed there's a lot of things you can do to figure it out before you even go there. Show us, Professor Spice. Sure, right, can I have these beautiful gentlemen? No way, yes, all the way I got there, we didn't know what was going on right here on either side. Everybody, alright, alright,

let's say how do we go? He was doing over there looking too hard? Okay, so what are you doing? Can you just look a perfect I'm looking straight at I mean, we need to get you can sent first you have consent to look okay? Are you guys comfortable? You're okay with this? Okay? Confident? But like mamma confident. Everybody who have a problem with major song them just not confident. They're not have that. So show us how this works? All right, how this works? Now? First thing

you want to do. A guy come up to you. You gotta look at his hands because the size of the shape of his hands, the size of his hands, it also tell you the size. And they said, I think if they said, if the ring finger is longer the right point. So let's let's start right here. So he has a big hand. If you put your hand in it, I already have something working with you. Notice how this finger is extremely long. Yeah, see that's what

I was saying. And his hands is thick, but something with their thumb, it gotta be fat because remember when you were talking about like the size. It can't be too slim. We need girl, that little girl, so we gotta check it thumb, all right. So let's see his dumb. Okay, you gotta thick them. That's one way. Another way to you got to look at this part of his hand. Come right here, okay, let's see she's studies his forearm right here from okay, to the elbow. Because this is

also the size of his shoe size. Okay, And when I might have a big foot, then saying a big big foot without going on side shoes. Where you look at right here from his wrist to his elbow, this is the size of his shoes, the size of the baby. The size of his shoes is from here to here anywhere dropping with it. So he is wearing like a size and left nor twelve. So you know him that a big thing. Okay, So we know that anybody ever seen a big foot man with a small dick? Have

you ever had that? Nah? Because it's also about proportion, right, because if you know. Okay, so proportion right, So that's how we can tell. Okay, let's see your hand, let me see, let me see check how you examine him. Okay, let's see how I got to see this part first of all, that form as long as that's a long arm, so he's okay. Yeah, so okay, So that's how you check it out. But how do we know, like for sure, because I'm sure there's exceptions to the rule. Another thing

is bow legs. Okay, the shape of ye can't is another thing. So there's a lot of cute legs got open up. It's a lot of things. You gotta watch them. You have to look aside shoes. Watch yah, so a size them working. We look at their fingers and if they're a bow leg, it's gone. It's so yes, So we're not gonna measure. You gotta look at your mouth too if you can't. If they're yes, you can't measure. Of course, here, Laura, you're not gonna imaguine Now she

wants I'm like, I want to see this. Now, what about if he's not What about if he's a grower and not a shower, because you know that happens too sometimes it appears small, but then you know, how can you You can't really Okay, I'm not supposed to call a name. Sorry, no, you caught yourself. We got your girl. Interesting. She's saying, Yeah, it can't. It can't work like that. Yeah, because those um sometimes it's very deceptive, like it's cold out. He just he took a cold shower and it's tiny.

But then all of a sudden, he's like, damn, where that came from? What about circumcision? I like when they're circumcised. Okay, have you ever had somebody who wasn't? I think not. I don't know. I don't know. I think so. Now let me ask you, because the rumor is that you're making men don't go down? But what about women? Do you? Guys? Get them do it? But do you say you don't? You about about everybody? I mean everybody? They do it and some will say they don't. It's just a true thing. Okay,

you know what I'm saying. But it's just such a makeun thing when it comes down to oral sex. Everybody you can't admit it here, Yeah, they can't admit it. So I said, you can't see that's the thing. It's not a part of my upbringing, right, so yes, so no, I don't. It's not a part of my my outbringing that we know, really if the mind, they're not wanting to do it, especially they want to do it to me because they know what my artists they feel like

I might tell everybody. So I'm gonna growing into the lifestyle, you know. So it's not something that I'm really into because I wasn't raised that way. Wow. I remember the first time in Atlanta. I know people said that all the time, but I remember the first time I come to Atlanta and the girls and might go to the strip club. That was like the first time I went to a trip club. Just recently, like two or three years ago. Jes, you need to take her out, take

her out. You need to get you a good tung lashing, you know what. But I have a lot of fantasty though. Oh yeah, like like what's your fantasy good? Yeah, you know that's one of my fantasy too, to be tongue down, real good, okay, with ice cream and a lot of things racolate, little candles. Yeah, but that's only because you know what, something you watch blues and see sort of things and they're like, yeah, that's nice. Them open at the ear right, I'm like I want to feel Yeah,

that's nice. You know what we're talking about women? How can men tell if a woman is has good pussy? Is there any way to tell? Can you look at our hands? Because you know, so he's got to be like, how do you know? When you don't know? You don't it's a straight game. Just go buy a physical but when you get make it good and make it good because she's so hot to turn to warm, but in terms of her interaction, she's what turns up to the next level her sensuality. Yeah, like what makes good? True

that all pussy feel the same. You can't be They're like, no, absolutely not. And it's and it's not just the actual vagina, but it's everything. It's the body, it's the chemistry, it's the movements, it's the moans and the yeah, even your scent. Like I know they say about space teat, I have space tet. They say, when you have space teet, it good. Okay, what's your feet? What got you in your pet? That is some keys? Okay? Thank god? Like wait what you now?

All right? Well, thank you guys. I appreciate you for coming in here, whoever trying to take it? Do you need to go in the corner ahead. I'm lying, I'm playing, I'm playing, And he said, go right ahead. He said, master that print, he said from listen, so I want to touch it. Dog on its down here too. You're a circumcice. We know that's real because I see the No, no, it's it's the leading right like the end of it is right here. So it's like eight's a big thing

that you can't see the head. The head right there. You see the little curb and it goes a second. Let me see. Okay, it's almost because you know it's his jeans kind of type and it's a little bit. Okay, I see it. I see that banging on your leg. You need to do this casting right in Atlanta. So big up to Molly Um. You know Caucasian girl. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's the one that did the caston Molly do all

the case. Let me tell you something. When she did the cast in this is like I wasn't supposed to talk about this when I was wat in my bed to night when she was sending me all those pictures, How did you choose? Oh my god, I chose the guy that I used just based on him being dead and how big and was already already already. I love how y'all say dead, yeah, when he's dead like it was. Yeah, it was, but that's a funny way saying, Oh, your

dick is dead. Let me bring that thing in the life real, let's have a guy in that unchor it was dead and big. Yeah, that's what she's talking about. Tape major video like, yeah, it went viral the first couple of minutes I put it out. And the guys be so mad about stuff like that, you know, they all the time, the dish it, but I can't take it. That's is doing extremely good. My whole album Mantipated, it's doing good. Alright, Let's talk about what my favorite song

is on there. Was playing that for them before you came in here. What would you think it is? Clop Top? I like that song too, but is it crop Top? I like that, but that's not the favorite. Really, My favorite song on there is Baker Man, baker Man. Yeah. My favorite favorite songs some Money, yeah, Baker too. Definitely. Listen. We always say that like I wish I could create and I don't think that the guys really understand, Like for me, I'm dating someone, but it's always just a

little thing. And you're like, I don't know if you've ever been this puns like you think, could I take that from my exes? Put it on? I think I think the women have had that at one point, like he would be so perfect and he did. I like him, he's got money, he's he ain't got I think that's what made me write the song. Like when I was pinning it, I was like, if I could really just make a perfect man, how happy we would be. Man, he'd be like he's great in bed, but he's you know,

lacking something exactly. But if you could put all of those things together, then sometimes I don't know if you've ever had like a friend or or maybe like a best friend, what he's your man or you know, and you have such a good personality and my best friend and you wish you had that in your mind. So it's like it's always something that he'd be like he's ugly, but he's nice. I know, it's always something were missing. So I do like that. So you name some things

in that song that would be ingredients. So if you had to put them in order, right, if you talk about money, you talk about dick size, you talk about personality, you talk about you know, let's say, sense of humor, success. But what order would you put like as far as what's the most important thing, the most important ingredients to bake the perfect man. I would start with person nality first because I'm big on chemistry, and I feel like if you and him don't have that chemistry, something's gonna

be off. So I first have to feel you. You gotta I've got to feel like, yeah, I'm a friend who have the company and ship there. So the personality is very important because I'm big on energy, So I go off of that first the personality, and after the personality. It may sound kind of fuck up, but I would have to go with it's financial status. For the reason being is because I have dated in the past where a guy has less than me. But then it becomes a problem. I feel like a lot of men are

intimidated by strong women. Are a successful woman. It is just the truth. So it brings in a lot of ego into the relationship. It makes them lots feel good about themselves, and then they treat you a certain ways or they might feel insecure and then they cheat because of their own insecurities because everyone tell me about it. I'm like, you know what, I'm not going to date and a guy again where you know less than me. Okay, that's because you had an experience, about the experience before

and after tried. But it's too much. Eagle comes with it, you know, not every month can be a stronger personality then financial financial? Um, he got to be god fearing because I'm a god fearing woman as well. Say that's been for size yes, okay, because you know, because I'm so good in the bedroom, I know that if you can't work, I still can't work with it. You said eight, like that's really small, So it's been eight is not? Is every every big eight is? Let me show you guys,

isn't aver like this is six? This is eight right here? Every is? Like that's what I said. I could work with the eight. Okay, can you work with three? No? Three? But if he's god fearing no no? No? The money a great personality and a nice personality, ain't got and two more to that? At least that's work with five? Five? Okay you could work with five. No, you can't work with five. I wouldn't worked with work with five, I

could work. It's gonna be a lot of tickling, A lot of ticklings, you know how, and if you tell him it tickles when he's trying to have Wait, I want to know what the real averages, the real averages seven and a half for eight, right, we WoT the kind out, you know? I think it's a six. I think six, yeah, because you gotta think it's not just oh six dead it's so sick. No, no, no standings. Yes, that's the average in red penis it's six inches. You. I think it's all cultures too, you know it is six,

right to look. I think six is not bad. I could do that. I mean, let me tell you something and see it five once se fi point half, No, five point one. They're doing that because you know, men have been very emotional about their side, so they're just trying to make men feel good. But I think six. Wait till they started doing pbls, the average between five and five point five. When I actually when I tweeted the tape Major song, I think it was Dr Miami.

No it wasn't. She hit me up actually, because I think I talked about it the Breakfast Club and she hit me up, like, thank you so much because she was talking about the work that she does to help increase the penis side. Okay, yeah, a lot of doctor was DM in me too, every saying hey can we collab?

I got a solution they can do? You do you know how many UM authorizations are approved for penis enlargements because I worked in an insurance company, so there, because they have to send like the progress notes, they have to send a pick because you know, you have to take pictures of it, and Jesus Christ, it was so interesting because I just I didn't have to look at all of that. But yeah, that's like metal f is a mental Yeah, some man is a mental I was kidding.

But some men also other illness can cause them to not you know, especially old men. Yeah, oh yes, what about what about testicle size? Does that matter? Oh my god, I can't. That man in that video testicles was huge. I mean they had it mets this huge penis though, right, it's all relative. It had a balance that didn't do that to him. I mean, I'm thinking when he going in there, how hard is smacking there? Yeah? But it feels good. I like the smack. So do you so?

Do you suck it too, do you you're interested in or that you asked me before you come up with it, because I mean, that's a difficult thing to suck, don't. That's why you like big dicks, because everybody knows if you suck there, don't nobody went to suck something that big. You know what I mean. I mean it's too much. It's a lot. You gotta you gotta use your hand and then only just do the top of it, and

you gotta pretend. Yeah, just put a whole bunch of spin and go like that while you're on the top, and go up with it and down that much. I know. This is what my friend to talk about. Yeah, the fact some guys tell me that, some guys tell me they're not really with all that putting it down your throat, Like, just make sure the heads you suck that right, and

you suck that. That's really where most of the nerving things are the same as you know with our claturists, all our nerves, most of our nerving in and around the claturist, most of the nerve endings, and the male penis is at the tips. So forget the most pleasure, I mean, for novelty and ships and giggle. Was a lot of guys like that. But for real, if you really make it into it, you really don't have to go there. I was like, thank god, that's why you

gotta when you're right, and you gotta stay at the top. Yeah, so your quintus, Yes, but don't go up too high and then down somebody yourself. Now, last time we talked about your favorite position. If you recall, now, I gotta ask you this. So have you done a no? No, I haven't. That's how you like big dicks? Again, She don't have no time, She don't have no plans on trying it either. I tell myself that I'm old school. My friends and I talked about that all the time.

I said, I guess that's what I'm That's why I'm single now because I'm so old school. But you are dating someone. I'm single, but you're you're not dating anybody. You're not going out on dates. You know. I just came out of a relationship. I was in a serious relationship, um, and I just came out of it. So how do you feel like you feel like a burden is off of you? Are you still like? How does it feel?

The truth is I because I was in love with him, but he wanted me to do a lot of changes, and then I just felt overwhelmed, like he's not accepting me for me. He didn't like the way home a dance on stage because you know Jamaican culture with dance with a man very you know, very kind of sex swell, and the way I dressed on stage and stuff like that.

He wasn't comfortable with, like a little things that I had to choose, you know, Michael finish this ego, this is me met Queen of Dance, says like, you have to accept me for who I am and I don't want to work, And then I am, yeah, I don't want to work, and then I have to argue with you. Didn't he like to tape measure video? Now some performing everything went together with him. I couldn't do that video. No, No, you could have never done none. Did he hit you

up afterwards? Like what he Yeah he was, he's not liking it at all. Well, it's not up for him to like. And he's an X, right, he's my Ex's that like the sole reason really that you guys broke up just because you don't want to come from my I mean if you probably do an interview, he's gonna say, I don't listen, I'm stubborn or whatever. But I've been doing this all my life for twenty years by myself.

So when you're go into a serious relationship for like two years and somebody is telling you about wait, you gotta stop doing this and you got to do that, then it's going to be a problem. It's a single, you know what I'm saying. I have my two kids, this is all my money. I'm bequeen a dance house. So Nanga can't say, oh wait, I'm a lot of women do this though, and then then end up getting

the mon can't get up on leave anytime. So because I said, oh I'm in love, I'm gonna stop wearing my blue wigs and I'm going to stop dancing like this on stage, and then the next year and left me and gone crazy, I feel like you gotta take me for who I am, you know, and for me. First of all, you've been doing this for such a long time. It's hard to believe that your debut album

came out, like when was it last year? Yes? Yes, that's already hard to believe that you really hit a stride, you know, and I just feel like this would be a terrible time for you to be to stop and to compromise that would be career. Yeah, that's compromised the dream. Those are the words, because you gotta understand, I've been fighting for this kind in the business for twenty years.

I spoke about, you know, being in my contract with you for the past ten years, and I couldn't get out to my deal with my past record label, being my own manager, doing everything by myself, taking things into my own hands, fighting for survival, fighting for my kids, making sacrifice, leaving my kids behind in Jamaica to come here in America to hustle and you know, create this dream life. When I meet you, you can't say, well, hold up everything that you've worked for, let's kind of rearrange.

It took a bit. It's like meeting I'm not tell them for change you with him fry the chicken, right. That was big for you to come from Jamaica like that and then like to go to Atlanta and then I'm pretty sure that was everything have helped you. For some people that doesn't. But I don't feel like bashing me when I was going on and then I said, ye know, the queenpop that, but I feel like it helped to cataport my career. So I was great and

made a wider audience. And I love that they added you to the cast anyway, because I think that representation is important, you know, because I'm a big fan of dance hall and reggae, so you know, I am at everything and so but for me to see you on there, I was happy for you. Thank you. So what we're gonna say about your breakup? No, I was. I was gonna say, you know, even though everything, it was hard

for me because I did love him. So when you are put in a position where you have to choose between love and what you love, it's hard, right because my career is my everything, it's what I love. But I can't you know. When I was put in that position and I made that decision that night, I was like, you know, it's hard. Wow, So you made that decision. And when he said it's either that or me, No, he didn't say that, I kind of said it. There

was a lot of moving parts. You think there's any going back, Like if he was like, look I miss you so much, Like do your thing um, Like I said, I did love him, but we both would have to change a lot of things. What about him bothered you? What about him? Yeah, like if you said things bothered him, that's what bothered. It all comes down to you. I mean a lot of a a lot of the the things that bother And I was like, that's nothing like I just I'm a fun person. I want to be able to

do you know whatever. Just just little things that bothers him that bothered me. And I was and you know, he should be celebrating, like the success that you have, even seeing you a fashion week here in New York. You did the I was on the concert top. So I was like a boy the selectible different because they flowing hard. Was there to us well and turn it up and showed them. So listen, met queen. Now made in at the club. This is what we do period. I kind of party with you because you know, Laura

be going crazy. Now I got nervous, Like are you want to go and stay? I said, When I did jumped up flip, I was like, wait, never mind, I just back here, my angela. I do year. Mr Killer performed and I told Laura, I said, when he up a song with him, I mean if I spoke a song. I can't wait listen and I can't wait to perform on stage with him because you annoy you all too together. He is a top For the two of you together,

It's gonna be crazy. I can see it. I'm putting in my plug now when you have a perform here, I'm going on stage. But before all the professionals on stage, let me go first. She got I was like, I got to get up here with Mr. Killer and she was like she's seen. She's like, nah, the girl had them crazy little slits. I was like, I used to be able to do this getting some time ago, but now can I just want on you real quick, you know, going back on you real quick? Anything anything ever too

much for you? Like has it ever been a situation where you've been performing and you're like, okay, that's just like because you know, like you said, it is very um physical, But has anybody ever taken it too far? Um a lot of times because even when I perform, I jump in the crowd, I dump in the audience and go dance with my you know, best is in the stay in front of the stage, but sometimes I go there the monday, my grab you there but I mean it's taking it too far. But I never turn

around and snap anybody. I call them with the mic even when I feel it because I know, I know that, you know, every month I have that little crush there on me. Sometimes you get them calling myna like yeah, but if I took it too far, I'm stopping at the audience. Everybody know what to box because even when I go in to the audience, girls that try wine pump into life everybody. So but your artists, so you have funds that their dream is to they come to your show. I want Spice to call me on stage.

When you call somebody, I'm going up. So people do that, you know, so I don't want to. It's gonna get Spice to come to the club to rain right in Atlanta and do something. I mean, I think that would be amazing because that is a professional train dancer. But get on that pole to exotic entertainer. I didn't know that you have forgot teach me. If you've ever seen p Valley, a lot of that is fashioned after her. Really yeah, yeah, I feel like you know a little one.

Not only with my song Clop Clop, I'm actually I'm planning to do a promotion in the strip clubs, you know, face a Magic City. Really, yeah, I said, were you coming back to live there? Oh? You do? So about video? No,

I'm serious videos where we going? Now, let's know about the song right, same mouth, because you know, I felt like she's been a lot of ship where people that you thought was cool with you have, you know, talk ship, and so let's talk about that song a little bit because I feel like, you know, it comes up for you a lot where you've been deceived by people who you thought were close to you, people that same mouth, where people be you know, same um for me um.

I just feel like you gotta be careful off people's mouths. Like you will have friends that literally will tell you that them love you, what they will be the same one that will betray you and your friends and even your lover. You know, anybody will come and say oh I love you so much at this and that, and by the time you turn your back, they're the same one that's say that bitch. So it's it's always just

the same mouth. So when I was writing that song, I got a little emotional too, because I've been through so many betrayals with people that have helped the most and done so much too. And Yeah, I kept singing that song when I wrote it that day, the same mode say yes that, the same modes and no, same mode say that the same mode. You know, It's like the words are just so powerful in that song. I think we all can relate to that. Yeah, having people that we all have, you know people, and it is

really always the people you help the most. And that's always the people that you love sometimes the most, but people who it's the ones you love that will hurt you. Because if you don't love someone and you don't really care about them, they can't care. It's always the one you love that hurts you. So that's why I said the same mount are you forgiving? Like, if somebody's like

that's my that's my hardest thing to forgive. I pray about it a lot, but I can't seem to get to that place where I'm easily forgiving if somebody's like I was, and I know, so you know, when you know what your fault is, My fault is forgiving. I'm hard to forgive, and I think it comes from me being who I am. So if i'm your friend, I'm a writer, I'm a straight up right. I want to love you, like genuinely, so if you do something to me, I feel like, why would you do that? I never

do that to you, So it's hard for me. But I feel like over the years, as I tried to think, everybody's not me, everybody's not like me, everybody's not gonna give the same reaction, and that's what I use sometimes to try to get over it. But me just feel like people they're adults, then it mustn't be where you're gonna betrayed me and didn't come say sorry because you

know exactly what you were doing. And you know, Spice a lot of times, IMA seely publicly you're having a good time, your the life of the party, but I know you go through things like in social media all the time. And then I remember when I was talking to Shaggy, he used to tell me about being vocal and too open and too emotional, because I'm very emotional. If I go on my phone right now, something somebody said, so for me, I won't go alive. I said, first

of all, you're too big. You don't need to do that. I'm not I'm not big, I'm small. But he tried to coach me into not being so emotional and to realize that everybody go through their own little things in their unique way. Has been through so many things in this business that I've never heard about. And when he's telling me, I'm like, wait what and you keep that

me couldn't do that. We never talkt about it, and so you know, I think that's something that I have to learn, but I don't think i'll ever learn it. It's hard to be quiet, but you know what, you kind of sometimes and area where everybody knows you, you kind of have to for your own peace to just be like that's that's the word, the peace. I can't sleep. I remember one time I went on Live late in

the night. I was trying to go to bed, and it's writing me, writing me, I'm like that I let it out and then you feel better after you let it better. Okay, try about it. Yeah, you worrying about it? And I checked. And I always like in situations, I always look at myself like, Okay, what can you learn from this experience or why do you think it happened? Or what did you do for it to lead up to that? Because sometimes people hurt you because they're hurt.

So sometimes I try to look at that as well, like I know, I didn't do nothing to deserve me. And some of those people that hurt you that they truly do love you, but they're so hurt inside themselves that they don't know how to navigate, you know, or they never experienced love, you know, to know the right way to love a person. And I'm talking about family, friends, even men, you know. Sometimes so that's like I'm too

figurt and I'm not gonna st forgiving. Yeah, I always feel like if you hurt you more than exactly, I look at it like God, at the end of the day, I feel like I know how I am, and so I know it takes a lot for me to get to the point where I don't sunk with you. But I know once I get to that, Yes, what month are you or you don't believe January, I'm the cap I'm very stubborn, but I also I'm super nice. They're

like very generous and very nice. You have to be really fucked up for me to not work with you, right, you know. And then but once I get there, it's really kind of no going back, going back. Yeah, you just don't exist and the way that I am. I'm not gonna be with you. I'm not I'm just you just don't exist to me. I'm doing something of me vix as my friend name. I don't know, but I'm working on it. But I'm trying. But in the road for you in my head and okay, liked three is

I'm used. I'm a no nonsense type a person. I'm getting there because I had to for my sanity, because it's like you said, I wouldn't be able to sleep just thinking like what what like what went wrong? But now it's like it's easier for me. There's a lot of toxic friendships I had that used to treat me like crap. I love this so much, but it got some point where any people like you know, Angel will

talk to me. And I have good friends that you know really so like, come on, Laura, like enough, being nice is one thing and forgiven, but right so like I slowly has been have been able to like and it feels better because it feels like a weight off your shoulder, like I don't have to deal with anybody I don't want. How intimidating is it now for a guy to talk to you knowing that his did got to be big, you know, because like I think it's

very intimidating. It's good for me because if you are not packing it just you're not gonna You're not gonna waste my time time. But I like it. Like what if the guy said to you, look, I really like you. Now, I know you, you know, but I'm only five inches. I just got completely but I'll lift you up over my face. I mean, it depends on his personality and who you know, ain't gonna give you that with green fantasy.

But perfect money. God fair to have money. And let's talk about takes care of his kids, if you children, and the relationship with his mom, the relationship with his mom and not every relationship with his mom. But listen how he talks about his ex girlfriend. A lot of times we asked women we get out of him saying, oh that bit she did she that that That is the same thing he's gonna do with you. That tells

who he is. A guy that caused women bitches, Right, So if you have a deer toime of mine, I name my dogs, next girl, he's gonna do the same thing to you. That's just his personality. So a lot of us get to kick out of when he's doing a certain girl a certain way. But no, I mean not made that mistake that two times. Let us do that with our friends like that. I know one way I talk. Next girl, are they don't have you know that?

Are you okay with getting your pussy eating? Yes? Absolutely right? No, right, no, it's because I just told you it's a fantasy of mine. But somebody it happens because you said that I've seen it before. Because you just say it's happened, it real like tone lift me on? Yes, okay, and what about your ass eating and everything to you know, go to ospot there, don't ask I think overrated orated? Oh you've had it before, yeah, I think it's overrated money yes

absolutely yeah, but if you mean that's normal. So when you're having it, you don't feel to fart know, I'm luck what it feels like. It don't feel as good as people make it seem. That's why I said it's overrated. And it wasn't like your personal money. You want him kiss you up after like or it's just a flirt and then that's it. I can't ask my personal mine. I've had it happen in both scenarios where it was just like a fling and I was like, not kissing me.

But I've also had it happened with my man and I definitely went in the freaky botty. I trust my all wartstuff it at all times of the day. What about a finger, and that's like having sex. No one's ever trying a girl in my ass. You said, well, I would prefer a man to put his thumb in

my ass over his tongue in my bowling. I'm going to get a better sensation out of him using his thumb the bowling ball, because you know how you put you hold the bowling ball with your That's why I never seen girls because I'm looking because I told my friend, I said, to be there all the time. We know of the mind because their money, the girls, they do the things them, these are the things that tried that with.

No one's ever tried to put their mean I've not been in our latter relationship, to be honest, I've no. I've not had a lot of you know, sexual things, experience experiences. I'm not experienced, you know when it comes out. Boyfriend, one of my ex boyfriend, he brought it up there and I was like, yeah, yeah, but I said, first of all, actually it was my sister who had made me realize. And I thought about it, and I was like,

she's right. I've been coming to America for almost twenty years and my ex boyfriend that I broke up with, he was from Philly and big, and he was like the first man ever did in the entire America from Philly. Like for the past twenty years, I've been coming here and doing shows and meeting how many people and promoters. I'm a very cocky and ipan classic like metals, fisty and like course people. I don't feel like I don't go.

You know, he's the first relationship and the first man I've ever had sex with in the entire America for the past twenty years. Remember the first time you ever had an orgasm? Of course? Yeah? Um was it from intercourse? I would say so yeah, you would say so yeah, okay, yeah, but I've I've had multiple orgasm before. He used to take me there, he takes me to a place. On the next I won, Next Guy, Secret guy. He said, he takes me TOI he takes me, takes me to

a place, ma'am. He's thinking about it right now now? Was it taboo to masturbate for you? Like growing up? You know, like to play with yourself? Was that ever issue? So? I used to play with myself, but when I got older and I found out what comes with it? I stopped? What comes with it? Yeah? Crazy? Yeah? What is there? You know, when you masturbate, you're having sex with sex demon? Like you know, really I never heard that. Put it up on your phone. It's a it's a it's a

sex demon called both and zucabos. So you have a male sex demon and a female sex demon. So when you masturbate, you're having sex with a male sex demon and it also will be in a relationship with you and cause problem in your actual relationship. Demon masturbation problem. But don't masturbate a lot and masturbation. It's sex demons, its satan and sex. I think you can find anything you want to find on the internet, though, because we

can find the exact after nobody. If you google and say about a sex angel, well I read upon it's a lot, So I think gonna reader read it's called incubus and zuckerble sorrow something like. Interested in this now? I got seen some incubus and subus porn suckers. Yeah, it's a sex demon that really literally will have sex with you, fall in love with you, everything, and it will mash up your relationship. So when your mom have sex with you, it causes uh, jealousy, really open and

your money and gets along and stuff like that. You know, because you're not I'm supposed to do so your master. So I ain't got to my boyfriend spend a lot of time apart because I triedl for work, he to work, So we don't really get to see each other as much as we should. And I've massed debate a lot, like thinking about my love adop have sex with forgetting about the interview, it's saying it's superstitious, and they said they there's a rather juicy description of a woman masturbating

and song of songs in the Bible. She does not get into each other for it, they said, as the person who told you that to provide book, chapter and verse. If they can't do it, call him a Pharisee's going to masurvate. It's fine, No, I'm not doing this because I'm interested in now. I do know that, like I guess because I haven't been in a relationship in a minute, like after masturbating, going to my single after I thought it was because the same thing, because I'm not as

sexually experienced as I would like to be. And I feel like because I don't do certain things like you said, like I'm like, no, I don't do that, and my friends you said you suck and not I suck, but I don't. She suck. You don't suck, but I ain't doing it. Like if I gotta do what, I ain't going to do it I want to do. I can't do it sexually in the relationship. If you're not doing oral sex, there's so many other things you can do, suspiceep the relationship. You can't have sex with your man,

like you have a change up the lifestyle. Instead of having sex on the bed, you have sex under the bed. I have sexing out the tree under that. I think she did that, you know, but I do like even being on the show, I've learned so much. I've learned so many things, you know that I can't wait to find the right the one that I want to go ahead and start having these experiences with. But my friends do tell me that they're like girl you're gonna be

single forever. You don't know what. That's why you ain't got a math And I'm like, what, but now, what if you're dating somebody it's a long distance relations you're on the road all the time. You can't get on FaceTime and masturbate. I don't know, it's not together. What if he masturbates on like while he's talking to you, is that okay? Or is that a demon for him to it's a demon for him too. But I mean, it's not something that I like. It doesn't I'm not

fond of that. I feel like it's all about being able to not want to have sex when you're not there is important because that will also lead them to straight Because a long dame, I go visit Anni Palma one day, them I'm gonna get fun up on wanting the real things. So if they're not able to have self control, it's a big thing for me. So if I leave you like a week or two weeks and you're acting like, oh, let's masturbate over the phone, you have that urge, but a huge what you masturbate on

the phone with you? This is me. You gotta wait for me, you know you wanting to do all of that. You're gonna it's gonna lead you one day you're gonna want to have sex with a girl. So yeah, that self control they do. We need to stop doing that with your man. So he waits for you, girl camera. Do you fall asleep after sex? Like? Are you exhausted? Are you more energized? No, I'm more energized energy. But he falls asleep. I feel like that too. Guys be passed out afterward and I feel like me, I want

to get up and clean the house. Me. That's me, that's all me. Yeah, why is that? I don't know, something wrong with us? It depends the night though. At night, right, But do you think it's a good amount of times to have sex a week, like in a relationship? Oh? Baby, that's our next problem with much of my relationship because I don't like a lot of sex for the week. I don't know if it's because I'm so exhausted. Sometimes you work, always working. I work a lot, but sometimes

he wants and I'm like, we just did it. So that's also a problem for me too. I feel like two times three a week, Yes, I mean if you want every day, if you're traveling, a lot, and you already don't want him masturbating him. You better give him that pussy every day. And that's what he said, he ever watches this, he gonna club. Yeah, if you're working anything you're doing, he deserves it every day. I know

it's hard for my name big every big. Yeah, it doesn't do you feel like when you haven't had sex with him for a while because you've been on the road and then you come back that it's like snap back and you gotta stretch it back out. You know how a guy can tell what happens is when you have When we have sex, then it becomes like tender.

So it's like, I feel like I need to cool it down a little bit because I have a song called cool Dumb, Like you don't want to wait, you want to go back into the same tender feeling that I'm having. There's a pleasure for you now not Yeah, we sacrifices together. Yeah, we make sacrifices sometimes, Like I might not feel like having sex, but you know you're like okay, and then I'll get in the mood for it. Just in my head, I don't want to do it.

But then once we start, because guys have to learn how to do that too, Like, don't just try to have sex. You gotta yeah, yeah, you gotta make want. It's like you trying to ram it in and you're trying to spit no, maybe trying to like yeah, I don't like that either, Yes, play with it if you correct them to see that's lazy that you gotta get it wet on you. You don't want, no man spit by me? Yeah what ye broken off? But I'm not

gonna laugh. A lot of things, I'm like, I've stopped, Like, baby, just stop, it's not there, like it's not happening, Like I can't you've done that? Yes this baby stop. It's not like you because it's like, you know, I don't want to. But I'm like, okay, let's just go. But then after a while and it's just I'm like, okay, I'm just a lot of men, get the point turn us on a lot of men they don't know when they come to you to have sex, you just got to be ready. They don't know how to touch you.

And a lot of you know what I hate sometimes when a man is probably coming on and you're like no, stop and he stopped. Nigga yeah, you know what I mean? Do do more? Like? No, but I'm telling you, yes, keep going and you don't play with me? Are you sure you don't want this? Dude? Didn't want it? You know what? I love when i'm n knows you're about to come and heat, like when they know. Some men can't, you know, but when they know, like you're about to come,

and then they just do something too. I'm like, oh my god, I'll switch up the rhythm when i'm yes, just made me squirts and it's once never squared it. You never squirt it? What about yes? Oh but you know what a tr two? Yes? Your square in spice? Not yet? Okay, huh so we're here together, okay, but you know what. Hearing all of this and watching your performance, a lot of people, a lot of people think that advertise, if you she like I have sex, she's a sex maniac,

not a sex maniac. But I wouldn't say that, but we would think that you're very like you would when with your man have sex every day? You know that. How can that guy talk to you now if he wants to approach you, like, what's the best way to get your attention? Well? See, that's another thing to a lot of guys that's trying to get my attention. They go big and they're trying to have that big is good, you know, big meaning that ego thing like spicy me for air Day. And I got like, I don't look

out for that. If I go into the room and all the guys they're doing a lot and they're acting up, I'm going to look for the quiet one that's not talking. We like that cool, he's used to quiet, that's the confident one. What about other artists, like a lot of I've never dated an artist before. Do they try? Though? A lot of times like, yeah, why do you think

you haven't? I think so. I've been in the business since I was about fifteen years old, and you know I've always been with like artists, guys promoting, performing and stuff like that. So I think become a new artist day and they always wanna have multiple girls. I mean, you know that's something I don't want to date an artists because not that every artist cheats and every artists have multiple women, but I feel like it's a lifestyle that goes with them that I'm not happy to be

a part of. Okay, I completely understand it, right, and then they'll probably be well. They either it could go one of two ways. They're either more understanding of what it is that you do when you perform, or they don't like it. They don't like it. And yeah, and guys, but I've never dated an artist before. If you send a guy artist and he was doing what you do on stage, did you have a problem with it? No,

because you understand, because I understand it's entertainment. Okay, fair enough, But Spice, I know you have It is New York Fashion Week. I know you are out and about and they said that you had a limited amount of time and they're telling me that you have to go. But you know, we love you, Thank you, thank you you. Mantipated to this. The name of the album is out. No keep streaming buying support. You know it went number one, but I want to keep it up there and so

keep buying the montipated. What happened me? And next time she's gonna have done some of these things that she says he doesn't do. You abrout me. You're gonna I'm gonna take you to club range out to my guys that rain I'm bringing Spicy. We're saying it now we're bringing it. We're bringing it. We're gonna college jumping off that rain Atlanta. Say they're gonna measure the dick, you'll get a free lag. Yes, but if it's more than two thirty millimeter, if you're wanting dynamim cent, do you

need a big road long like? Yeah, look at the number, it's the average right here, guys, that's close with the number. I'm closing with nine. Okay, yours is nine? Is that's the perfect size? Yeah, let's close with a number. Oh my god, I'm gonna go with eight. I'm gonna care for what you asked for because you said you're ok want that, but I can do it. I'm going with nine. What you close well with seven and a half. I'll go to eight and a half. But you gotta be gentle.

You just gotta you can't just ram love. Go with nine. I'll go with seven. Okay, what are you going with? I'm going with eight? Okay, Yeah, guys, we don't have so many big pigs. Good takes big pigs. That's about to come to our m Remember pretty dick swag at Gmail, want to pick your bedroom, takes out and sending y'all big pigs. If we see any nice ones before it to you, all right, but they gotta be at least nine yeah, okay, guys, gotta be above seven and a half. No, Smegma,

no dried up skin or nothing like that. Smell good. People wash gold on the balls, y'all so off, she made her face like she could smell it. All right, thank you, s